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RadiDem (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jul-20-06 04:21 PM Original message |
Just had an unsettling conversation with someone in the military |
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Avalux (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jul-20-06 04:24 PM Response to Original message |
1. Well, is he much younger than you? |
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Monkeyman (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jul-20-06 04:24 PM Response to Original message |
2. No brother it took me a long time not to call someone Sir |
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sarge43 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jul-20-06 04:43 PM Response to Reply #2 |
24. followed by ".... and I worked for a living." |
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ret5hd (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jul-20-06 04:24 PM Response to Original message |
3. well, you know, an asshole... |
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Kikosexy2 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jul-20-06 04:25 PM Response to Original message |
4. I guess... |
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jus_the_facts (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jul-20-06 04:26 PM Response to Original message |
5. I try to be respectful and usually say 'Sir or Ma'am' all the time.... |
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TahitiNut (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jul-20-06 06:47 PM Response to Reply #5 |
60. Me too. I'm 63 and say "Sir" or "Ma'am" even to teen-aged waiters. |
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jus_the_facts (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jul-21-06 05:52 AM Response to Reply #60 |
64. I'm really trippin' on this thread...I find it odd that people can't seem. |
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CottonBear (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jul-20-06 04:27 PM Response to Original message |
6. I know a former Marine Drill Sergeant. |
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jus_the_facts (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jul-20-06 04:29 PM Response to Reply #6 |
10. My Dad was a Marine...but he didn't beat the idea of bein' respectful... |
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demigoddess (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jul-20-06 05:23 PM Response to Reply #10 |
47. my dad was army and he never taught us to say sir or maam |
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jus_the_facts (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jul-20-06 05:28 PM Response to Reply #47 |
49. Yes...but I always try to be polite and it's a southern colloqualism... |
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DoYouEverWonder (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jul-21-06 06:02 AM Response to Reply #49 |
66. I'm a small business owner |
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slackmaster (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jul-20-06 04:28 PM Response to Original message |
7. Your profile has your gender as "undeclared" |
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RadiDem (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jul-20-06 04:30 PM Response to Reply #7 |
13. I'm a male - probably 15 years older than him |
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slackmaster (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jul-20-06 04:42 PM Response to Reply #13 |
23. I live in SoCal too so I know what you mean |
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ComerPerro (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jul-20-06 06:38 PM Response to Reply #7 |
58. LOL |
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flamin lib (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jul-20-06 04:29 PM Response to Original message |
8. 1971. Part of a Battalion with a Lt Col trying for Bird. |
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sweetheart (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jul-20-06 04:36 PM Response to Reply #8 |
19. That's a mouthful |
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SoCalDem (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jul-20-06 04:43 PM Response to Reply #19 |
26. We had to answer with: |
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flamin lib (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jul-20-06 05:14 PM Response to Reply #19 |
46. The phone didn't always get answered that way. |
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pecwae (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jul-20-06 05:29 PM Response to Reply #8 |
51. It took a couple of years |
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flamin lib (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jul-20-06 05:39 PM Response to Reply #51 |
54. LMAO in sympathy . . .nt |
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Recursion (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jul-20-06 05:38 PM Response to Reply #8 |
53. Nothing on the line status? |
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flamin lib (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jul-20-06 05:40 PM Response to Reply #53 |
55. I'm honored to have so many brothers in verbiage who remember. |
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RaleighNCDUer (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jul-20-06 06:37 PM Response to Reply #55 |
57. I pulled my share of phone watch |
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flamin lib (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jul-20-06 09:38 PM Response to Reply #57 |
62. Back in the days of party lines when rural communities all shared |
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hootinholler (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jul-20-06 06:13 PM Response to Reply #8 |
56. There are men working in the sail. |
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Commie Pinko Dirtbag (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jul-20-06 06:40 PM Response to Reply #8 |
59. The upside: |
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uppityperson (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jul-20-06 04:29 PM Response to Original message |
9. might have been raised with these manners. |
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CottonBear (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jul-20-06 04:45 PM Response to Reply #9 |
28. I am a Southerner and sir and ma'am are both polite and mandatory. n/t |
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deaniac21 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jul-20-06 04:47 PM Response to Reply #28 |
29. Yep |
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RadiDem (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jul-20-06 04:47 PM Response to Reply #28 |
30. At the end of EVERY question or answer during an informal conversation? |
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uppityperson (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jul-20-06 04:48 PM Response to Reply #30 |
31. yes. seems odd to me, not raised that way, but you get used to it. |
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CottonBear (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jul-20-06 04:54 PM Response to Reply #31 |
35. It seems odd to us that others do not speak to their elders and colleagues |
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uppityperson (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jul-20-06 04:59 PM Response to Reply #35 |
37. yes sir/ma'am. I remember 1st time I got "ma'am"ed. Was upset |
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CottonBear (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jul-20-06 05:00 PM Response to Reply #37 |
38. I got ma'amed for the first time when I was 14 in Talladega, AL |
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CottonBear (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jul-20-06 04:52 PM Response to Reply #30 |
32. When a normal, non-miltary person would use the terms in conversation. |
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jus_the_facts (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jul-20-06 05:23 PM Response to Reply #32 |
48. At the Sonic Drive Thru gettin' a Fruit Slush..."No Ma'am that's all.... |
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deaniac21 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jul-20-06 04:30 PM Response to Original message |
11. I'm always upset when people show respect, too. |
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RadiDem (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jul-20-06 04:40 PM Response to Reply #11 |
22. It 'felt' more like him being subserivent |
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TacticalPeek (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jul-20-06 04:30 PM Response to Original message |
12. It's a survival skill. |
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theboss (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jul-20-06 04:32 PM Response to Original message |
14. If that's the worst problem you face this week... |
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hughee99 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jul-20-06 04:32 PM Response to Original message |
15. I wonder if "The Magistrate" will comment on this? n/t |
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jus_the_facts (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jul-20-06 04:33 PM Response to Reply #15 |
16. LMFAO... |
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Jacobin (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jul-20-06 04:37 PM Response to Reply #15 |
20. You just HAD to do that didn't you!! |
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RadiDem (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jul-20-06 04:45 PM Response to Reply #15 |
27. LOL! -nt- |
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karlrschneider (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jul-20-06 04:53 PM Response to Reply #15 |
34. I believe, Sir, that the Magistrate is elsewhere occupied at the nonce. |
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gkhouston (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jul-20-06 05:01 PM Response to Reply #34 |
39. You're gonna need more capitals to do that. |
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karlrschneider (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jul-20-06 05:07 PM Response to Reply #39 |
42. I am only an egg. |
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Rex (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jul-20-06 04:33 PM Response to Original message |
17. Conditioning. |
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northzax (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jul-20-06 04:35 PM Response to Original message |
18. when I do business with someone |
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Lautremont (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jul-20-06 04:39 PM Response to Original message |
21. A number of people responding here seem to think you were upset about it, |
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RadiDem (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jul-20-06 04:43 PM Response to Reply #21 |
25. I admit to being upset |
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Rex (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jul-20-06 04:55 PM Response to Reply #25 |
36. Everytime you talk to an officer that out ranks you, you say sir. |
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LostinVA (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jul-20-06 05:06 PM Response to Reply #25 |
41. It's complete habit -- and survival -- to do that |
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dave123williams (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jul-20-06 04:53 PM Response to Original message |
33. Yeah, dude; it's called brainwashing. |
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Turbineguy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jul-20-06 05:06 PM Response to Original message |
40. When my son came back from bootcamp |
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magellan (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jul-20-06 05:34 PM Response to Reply #40 |
52. 8 weeks of brainwashing does that to a person |
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RB TexLa (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jul-20-06 05:08 PM Response to Original message |
43. I've walked away from people who call me sir after I ask them not |
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deaniac21 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jul-21-06 11:38 AM Response to Reply #43 |
68. Well, isn't that special... |
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Raskolnik (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jul-21-06 11:45 AM Response to Reply #43 |
69. Why would you do that? |
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RB TexLa (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jul-22-06 01:56 AM Response to Reply #69 |
70. and what of the person who keeps calling you something after you |
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sweetheart (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jul-20-06 05:11 PM Response to Original message |
44. "unsettling" indeed! |
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Catherine Vincent (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jul-20-06 05:12 PM Response to Original message |
45. I don't like it when younger folks call me m'aam. |
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Ex Lion Tamer (445 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jul-20-06 06:56 PM Response to Reply #45 |
61. Thanks. |
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jus_the_facts (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jul-21-06 05:55 AM Response to Reply #45 |
65. That has to do more with YOU than the person who said it to you... |
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sandnsea (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jul-20-06 05:28 PM Response to Original message |
50. Definite cultural difference |
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Beelzebud (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jul-20-06 09:40 PM Response to Original message |
63. Not that unsettling. I had a buddy who got out of the service in the 90's |
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Mayberry Machiavelli (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jul-21-06 06:37 AM Response to Original message |
67. This kind of thing is often worse right after dude has gotten out of boot |
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Crabby Appleton (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jul-22-06 03:33 AM Response to Original message |
71. Sir is code for "old fart" in this instance |
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NMMNG (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jul-22-06 04:56 AM Response to Original message |
72. From what I understand |
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