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...because he has engaged in textbook "un-recovered survivor of sexual abuse" behavior.
What Foley did, is exactly what an un-recovered-sexual-abuse-survivor-turned-pedophile does.
Exactly.
A common theme with pedophiles---when they're caught, they whip up copious amounts of pity-party drama that rival most Oscar-winning performances. I've seen this time and time again, as I've listened to the stories of met hundreds of survivors of sexual abuse, through support groups.
Most of the time, we're crying in these support groups. However, there is always laughter through tears when a survivor talks about the aftermath of confronting an abuser. It's chilling, and outrageous, how they ALL follow the same playbook. Loads of drama. Heaps of very public pity displays, as the perp strategically centers himself into the spotlight. It's all about him. Pity him. Feel sorry for him. He's the victim, you know. Foley is following the perp handbook--to the letter.
Notice that Foley's attorney said nothing about the victim? He kept trotting out to the microphone--to reveal more sorrow-inducing sound bytes about Foley! "Foley wants you all to know that he's an alchoholic...now he wants to share that he's gay....ok, now he wants you to know that he was molested as a child." Typical. SO typical.
After confronting my otherwise-introverted abuser--he dramatically flew into high-drama mode. He called EVERYONE crying and denying the abuse. He openly sniffled and paced the floors--during family gatherings--mumbling to himself, "She's trying to ruin my life...I'll never have a life...my life is over." He also arranged a family meeting with a priest (who was also my former high-school principal) to lambaste me and reveal how dysfunctional and sick I was. He cried. He even prayed for my soul. He created such drama and mayhem for weeks just because I quietly asked for an apology.
Trust me, Foley's engaging in typical victim-turned pedophile behavior. Unfortunately, his behavior also demonstrates that he has no remorse and that he's probably a sociopath. I'm sure we'll see more pity-party theatrics from him.
He's not done with us yet.
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