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salinen Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Oct-04-06 12:58 PM
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BTW this is MHO only. As a teen, all I knew is I was horny all the time. I had yet to decide whether I liked boys or girls, or both. Girls were off limits in a way because 13-15 year old girls were not interested in experimentation. So, I tried boys. It didn't work. Kissing and touching boys was boring. I knew I wanted girls with boobs. So my experimental years ended with that knowledge.

I'm sure many teenage boys did the same. Only with me, I wasn't steeped in the evils of religious law and forbidden acts. I just shrugged it off as a normal curiosity.

But in this puritanical, god fearing, burn in hell society, a homoerotic encounter could have lasting effects on certain males. They will never forgive themselves because god will never forgive such a biblical no-no. So they bury that history and become rabid homophobes. I think it is an overreaction to the shame. And they think that the total racism against homo's will please god and get them off the hook, and into heaven.

Cheers
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Dora Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Oct-04-06 01:33 PM
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1. I agree with you.
I've simplified it as this: The direct or indirect shaming causes feelings of guilt, the guilt causes repression, the repression creates internalized pressures, the pressures will vent in myriad, and often tragic, ways.
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