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Rockstone (633 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Oct-27-06 09:33 PM Original message |
Watching the abused woman on ABC 20/20 |
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mtowngman (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Oct-27-06 09:36 PM Response to Original message |
1. so why do you stay with her? |
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Rockstone (633 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Oct-27-06 09:44 PM Response to Reply #1 |
4. It's not easy to walk away |
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mtowngman (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Oct-27-06 10:10 PM Response to Reply #4 |
28. Hey Rockstone |
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barb162 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Oct-29-06 01:08 AM Response to Reply #4 |
145. Half of marriages end in divorce as you know |
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Lindacooks (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Oct-27-06 09:53 PM Response to Reply #1 |
16. Please don't do that. That's the wrong question. |
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ScreamingMeemie (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Oct-27-06 11:25 PM Response to Reply #1 |
91. Probably for the same reasons I stayed with my ex... |
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derby378 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Oct-27-06 09:37 PM Response to Original message |
2. Would you please do us all a favor and stand up to the harpy? |
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Rockstone (633 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Oct-27-06 09:46 PM Response to Reply #2 |
5. Stand up by breaking up my family? |
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trotsky (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Oct-27-06 09:48 PM Response to Reply #5 |
6. Why do you think your wife is an abuser? |
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Rockstone (633 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Oct-27-06 09:56 PM Response to Reply #6 |
18. She can't control her emotions |
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trotsky (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Oct-27-06 10:02 PM Response to Reply #18 |
22. You're destroying your family by doing nothing. |
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MellowOne (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Oct-27-06 10:53 PM Response to Reply #18 |
63. if she can't control her emotions |
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Rockstone (633 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Oct-28-06 12:08 AM Response to Reply #63 |
118. I have wondered |
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Lydia Leftcoast (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Oct-29-06 01:42 AM Response to Reply #63 |
150. Maybe bipolar, maybe just manipulative |
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InvisibleTouch (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Oct-27-06 10:57 PM Response to Reply #18 |
70. This sounds a lot like my aunt and uncle's relationship. |
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Rockstone (633 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Oct-28-06 12:21 AM Response to Reply #70 |
123. thanks for that story |
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barb162 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Oct-29-06 01:06 AM Response to Reply #123 |
144. Getting away from her is important. I am glad you're out |
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barb162 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Oct-29-06 01:59 AM Response to Reply #70 |
153. You are so right. And the kids would be way better off not |
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Dorian Gray (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Oct-27-06 11:37 PM Response to Reply #18 |
98. I don't mean this in any way |
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barb162 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Oct-29-06 01:15 AM Response to Reply #98 |
147. Good advice but she doesn't seem capble of changing |
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shanti (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Oct-27-06 10:33 PM Response to Reply #6 |
45. exactly |
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derby378 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Oct-27-06 09:48 PM Response to Reply #5 |
8. SHE is the one breaking up your family, not YOU |
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clydefrand (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Oct-27-06 09:53 PM Response to Reply #5 |
14. Your children will suffer more if you stay in this marriage. |
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Rockstone (633 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Oct-27-06 10:20 PM Response to Reply #14 |
38. We tried therapy once |
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barb162 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Oct-29-06 01:13 AM Response to Reply #38 |
146. She seems like a real bull. |
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silverojo (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Oct-27-06 10:24 PM Response to Reply #5 |
41. Yes, BREAK UP the family! |
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Rockstone (633 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Oct-27-06 10:59 PM Response to Reply #41 |
73. She does a lot of screaming |
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wickerwoman (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Oct-28-06 04:48 AM Response to Reply #73 |
140. Sorry, but hitting your kids when you're angry *is* abuse. |
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bluerum (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Oct-27-06 10:57 PM Response to Reply #5 |
69. The devils bargain. Do you think your kids would benefit more from |
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Rockstone (633 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Oct-27-06 11:10 PM Response to Reply #69 |
79. She cooks and does laundry |
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OPERATIONMINDCRIME (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Oct-27-06 11:21 PM Response to Reply #79 |
86. Dude, My Heart Seriously Goes Out To Ya. I Know How Tremendously |
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AZBlue (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Oct-27-06 11:35 PM Response to Reply #86 |
97. OMC, great post! |
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OPERATIONMINDCRIME (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Oct-27-06 11:41 PM Response to Reply #97 |
101. Well, |
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OPERATIONMINDCRIME (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Oct-27-06 09:41 PM Response to Original message |
3. My Heartfelt Sympathies Go Out To You. I'm Sorry You Have To Put Up With That |
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Rockstone (633 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Oct-27-06 09:49 PM Response to Reply #3 |
9. I would rather she be cured |
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Lindacooks (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Oct-27-06 09:52 PM Response to Reply #9 |
12. It sounds to me like she may need professional help. |
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Rockstone (633 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Oct-27-06 10:32 PM Response to Reply #12 |
44. She wants me to go to therapy |
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aquart (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Oct-27-06 11:07 PM Response to Reply #44 |
78. Is it cyclical? Is she nicer when fed? Is she in her thirties? Forties? |
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Rockstone (633 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Oct-27-06 11:25 PM Response to Reply #78 |
90. 30s |
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Lindacooks (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Oct-28-06 03:00 AM Response to Reply #44 |
135. Depressed people aren't just sad. They express many emotions |
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OPERATIONMINDCRIME (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Oct-27-06 09:52 PM Response to Reply #9 |
13. I Posted This On Edit Above, But Too Late I Guess. Here It Is Instead |
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clydefrand (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Oct-27-06 09:57 PM Response to Reply #9 |
20. We are all in charge of our emotions. If we get mad at a spouse, |
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Lydia Leftcoast (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Oct-27-06 10:18 PM Response to Reply #9 |
34. Look at what you wrote |
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Rockstone (633 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Oct-27-06 10:50 PM Response to Reply #34 |
59. That's on the money, sister |
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woo me with science (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Oct-27-06 11:20 PM Response to Reply #34 |
85. very nice response. |
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radwriter0555 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Oct-27-06 11:55 PM Response to Reply #9 |
113. Abusers never change. Male or female, abusers are mentally ill and you cannot |
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Rockstone (633 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Oct-28-06 12:25 AM Response to Reply #113 |
124. Is that true? |
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radwriter0555 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Oct-28-06 02:30 AM Response to Reply #124 |
134. It's true if the abuser refuses to be treated. Do we then endow any male abusers |
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barb162 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Oct-29-06 01:22 AM Response to Reply #124 |
148. She can have all kinds of problems. Maybe she's very |
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sendero (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Oct-27-06 09:48 PM Response to Original message |
7. Dude.. |
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EFerrari (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Oct-27-06 09:56 PM Response to Reply #7 |
19. They don't call the cops because they are more likely to be picked |
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sendero (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Oct-28-06 08:00 AM Response to Reply #19 |
141. Exactly.. |
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Catherine Vincent (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Oct-27-06 09:50 PM Response to Original message |
10. Either seek counseling or leave her. |
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ismnotwasm (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Oct-27-06 09:50 PM Response to Original message |
11. I'm sorry about your experience |
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Warpy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Oct-27-06 09:53 PM Response to Original message |
15. Male abusers outnumber women something like 8 to 1 |
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EFerrari (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Oct-27-06 09:55 PM Response to Original message |
17. Hi there, Rockstone. |
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Rockstone (633 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Oct-27-06 10:04 PM Response to Reply #17 |
23. What kind of a group is it? |
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EFerrari (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Oct-27-06 10:10 PM Response to Reply #23 |
29. I'll PM you. n/t |
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Matariki (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Oct-27-06 10:12 PM Response to Reply #23 |
31. There's nothing wrong or predjudiced about a gender specific counselor |
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AZBlue (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Oct-27-06 11:37 PM Response to Reply #17 |
99. My heart goes out to both of you! |
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EFerrari (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Oct-28-06 12:17 AM Response to Reply #99 |
121. I'm fine, thanks. There are a lot of families who deal with |
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Cleita (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Oct-27-06 09:57 PM Response to Original message |
21. Sorry that is happening to you Rockstone. |
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Matariki (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Oct-27-06 10:04 PM Response to Original message |
24. That sucks and it must hurt |
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Marie26 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Oct-27-06 10:05 PM Response to Original message |
25. Please seek help! |
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Fleshdancer (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Oct-27-06 10:06 PM Response to Original message |
26. My heart goes out to you |
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Rockstone (633 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Oct-27-06 11:21 PM Response to Reply #26 |
87. . |
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Fleshdancer (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Oct-28-06 12:12 AM Response to Reply #87 |
120. Isolating you from your friends/loved ones is a typical tactic with abuse |
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StraightDope (716 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Oct-27-06 10:08 PM Response to Original message |
27. OK, so leave your wife if the abuse is that bad. |
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survivor999 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Oct-27-06 10:11 PM Response to Reply #27 |
30. Unless of course, there is no wife... |
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WatchWhatISay (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Oct-27-06 10:21 PM Response to Reply #30 |
39. What do you mean by that? |
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OPERATIONMINDCRIME (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Oct-27-06 10:34 PM Response to Reply #30 |
46. Well That Was Useless. Obviously There's A Wife, So Your Point Is |
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survivor999 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Oct-27-06 10:35 PM Response to Reply #46 |
48. Is the wife here at DU? |
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OPERATIONMINDCRIME (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Oct-27-06 10:43 PM Response to Reply #48 |
49. That's Gotta Be One Of The Most Nonsensical Posts I've Ever Seen. |
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survivor999 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Oct-27-06 10:13 PM Response to Original message |
32. For every "abused" man... |
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Matariki (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Oct-27-06 10:15 PM Response to Reply #32 |
33. why would you even want to start something like this? |
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survivor999 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Oct-27-06 10:18 PM Response to Reply #33 |
35. The truth hurts. Well known. |
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Matariki (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Oct-27-06 10:19 PM Response to Reply #35 |
37. total flamebait |
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survivor999 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Oct-27-06 10:34 PM Response to Reply #37 |
47. Hey amigo |
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OPERATIONMINDCRIME (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Oct-27-06 10:44 PM Response to Reply #47 |
51. You're Condoning Abuse. You Should Be Ashamed Of Yourself. |
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survivor999 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Oct-27-06 10:45 PM Response to Reply #51 |
53. Ashamed to be a young woman? |
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Lydia Leftcoast (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Oct-27-06 10:46 PM Response to Reply #53 |
56. Maybe YOU'RE Rockstone's wife |
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survivor999 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Oct-27-06 10:48 PM Response to Reply #56 |
58. Well, if my hubby watched crap on TV |
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Fleshdancer (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Oct-28-06 02:19 AM Response to Reply #58 |
133. grow the hell up |
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cigsandcoffee (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Oct-29-06 01:46 AM Response to Reply #133 |
151. Very well said. n/t |
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OPERATIONMINDCRIME (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Oct-27-06 10:48 PM Response to Reply #53 |
57. Nope. Ashamed To Be An Ignoramus That Condones Abuse. |
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survivor999 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Oct-27-06 10:50 PM Response to Reply #57 |
60. Bye pop! |
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OPERATIONMINDCRIME (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Oct-27-06 10:53 PM Response to Reply #60 |
62. True. Appears The Younger Generation Is Far More Ignorant Than They |
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survivor999 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Oct-27-06 10:54 PM Response to Reply #62 |
65. And yet... My taxes are paying |
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OPERATIONMINDCRIME (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Oct-27-06 10:58 PM Response to Reply #65 |
72. Nah, You'll Probably Get Them Back Via Your Unemployment Checks. |
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kittykitty (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Oct-28-06 01:19 PM Response to Reply #65 |
142. I'm lovin' my SS checks amd Medicare, so keep working to pay me! n/t |
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Dorian Gray (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Oct-27-06 11:48 PM Response to Reply #57 |
108. Very true, OperationMindCrime... |
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TimeChaser (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Oct-27-06 11:11 PM Response to Reply #53 |
80. You should be ashamed to belittle anyone's abuse. |
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bling bling (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Oct-29-06 04:27 AM Response to Reply #53 |
154. Speak for yourself, freak. |
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woo me with science (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Oct-27-06 11:02 PM Response to Reply #47 |
75. actually i suspect |
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Dorian Gray (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Oct-27-06 11:47 PM Response to Reply #47 |
107. Nobody is arguing that male abuse is as frequent |
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EFerrari (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Oct-27-06 10:22 PM Response to Reply #35 |
40. You know something -- |
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OPERATIONMINDCRIME (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Oct-27-06 10:27 PM Response to Reply #35 |
43. No, The Truth Never Hurts. In This Case, Abuse Hurts, Whether A Man, Woman Or Child. |
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survivor999 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Oct-27-06 10:44 PM Response to Reply #43 |
50. Depends on the circumstances. |
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EFerrari (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Oct-27-06 10:46 PM Response to Reply #50 |
54. So, why is it your job to invalidate the experience of the OP? |
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OPERATIONMINDCRIME (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Oct-27-06 10:46 PM Response to Reply #50 |
55. That Is NOT Questionable. It IS Abuse. |
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Matariki (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Oct-27-06 10:52 PM Response to Reply #55 |
61. splashes of water, splashes of water, that sounds familiar |
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OPERATIONMINDCRIME (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Oct-27-06 10:54 PM Response to Reply #61 |
64. It's A Sophmorish Rush Limbette LOL |
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survivor999 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Oct-27-06 10:55 PM Response to Reply #64 |
67. Why are you afraid of strong women? |
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OPERATIONMINDCRIME (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Oct-27-06 10:59 PM Response to Reply #67 |
74. I Love Strong Women, Or Strong People In General For That Matter. Ignoramuses Though? |
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ScreamingMeemie (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Oct-27-06 11:41 PM Response to Reply #67 |
100. I don't see a strong woman... I see a child, who feels she must kick |
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AZBlue (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Oct-27-06 11:48 PM Response to Reply #67 |
109. Oh, honey....you have no idea what a strong woman is. NONE. |
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OPERATIONMINDCRIME (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Oct-27-06 11:51 PM Response to Reply #109 |
110. Hey Az, |
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survivor999 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Oct-27-06 11:53 PM Response to Reply #109 |
112. I can see that you have internalized your role as |
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OPERATIONMINDCRIME (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Oct-27-06 11:56 PM Response to Reply #112 |
115. I'm Not Sure If They Teach This In 6th Grade Or Not, But In Case They Don't, |
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survivor999 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Oct-28-06 12:52 AM Response to Reply #115 |
126. But it was used as a plural |
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Batgirl (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Oct-28-06 12:09 AM Response to Reply #112 |
119. so let's see if I've got this right: |
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Dorian Gray (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Oct-28-06 12:17 AM Response to Reply #112 |
122. BWAH! |
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AZBlue (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Oct-28-06 10:19 PM Response to Reply #112 |
143. I've been called many things in my life, but docile has never ever been one of them |
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haele (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Oct-28-06 12:58 AM Response to Reply #67 |
128. Strong women control their tempers. Strong women take responsibility for their actions. |
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JNelson6563 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Oct-29-06 08:29 AM Response to Reply #67 |
156. I am a strong woman |
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Missy Vixen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Oct-28-06 12:55 AM Response to Reply #50 |
127. Abuse is abuse |
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EFerrari (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Oct-27-06 10:19 PM Response to Reply #32 |
36. Which is no comfort at all to that man. n/t |
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OPERATIONMINDCRIME (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Oct-27-06 10:26 PM Response to Reply #32 |
42. And Yet That One Abused Man Is Every Bit As Important. |
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Lydia Leftcoast (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Oct-27-06 10:44 PM Response to Reply #32 |
52. So what? |
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Viva_La_Revolution (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Oct-27-06 10:55 PM Response to Reply #32 |
66. 8 actually |
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survivor999 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Oct-27-06 10:57 PM Response to Reply #66 |
68. Fine, if there are so many they can form their own club and support groups |
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Name removed (0 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Oct-27-06 11:04 PM Response to Reply #68 |
76. Deleted message |
survivor999 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Oct-27-06 11:07 PM Response to Reply #76 |
77. How about posting there then, instead of GD? |
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OPERATIONMINDCRIME (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Oct-27-06 11:13 PM Response to Reply #77 |
82. Thankfully, My Wife, Nor My Children, Display Such Ignorance Or |
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survivor999 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Oct-27-06 11:14 PM Response to Reply #82 |
83. How about posting in the appropriate Forum? |
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OPERATIONMINDCRIME (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Oct-27-06 11:23 PM Response to Reply #83 |
89. This Is The Appropriate Forum. |
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Name removed (0 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Oct-27-06 11:29 PM Response to Reply #89 |
93. Deleted message |
OPERATIONMINDCRIME (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Oct-27-06 11:30 PM Response to Reply #93 |
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Viva_La_Revolution (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Oct-27-06 11:11 PM Response to Reply #68 |
81. You should bring this conversation up with your therapist next week. |
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ScreamingMeemie (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Oct-27-06 11:27 PM Response to Reply #32 |
92. And they are ALL abused, and hurting, people...who need our help |
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AZBlue (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Oct-27-06 11:42 PM Response to Reply #32 |
103. You should pay more attention to your own sig line: |
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Name removed (0 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Oct-28-06 02:14 AM Response to Reply #32 |
131. Deleted message |
Bluebear (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Oct-28-06 03:08 AM Response to Reply #131 |
136. GOOD for you! |
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Bluebear (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Oct-28-06 03:10 AM Response to Reply #32 |
137. "The trouble with the world is that the stupid are cocksure" |
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The Straight Story (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Oct-27-06 10:57 PM Response to Original message |
71. I went through 10 years of very verbal abuse and controlling behavior |
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Rockstone (633 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Oct-27-06 11:41 PM Response to Reply #71 |
102. Thanks |
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GoddessOfGuinness (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Oct-27-06 11:14 PM Response to Original message |
84. You need to get help for yourself... |
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Rockstone (633 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Oct-27-06 11:43 PM Response to Reply #84 |
105. How can I get the kids out? |
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ScreamingMeemie (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Oct-27-06 11:46 PM Response to Reply #105 |
106. "She's their mother..." That's the one thing I wish my father HADN'T |
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GoddessOfGuinness (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Oct-28-06 12:01 AM Response to Reply #105 |
116. She's abusive. |
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SeattleGirl (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Oct-27-06 11:23 PM Response to Original message |
88. Abuse is NOT okay, whether it is against man, woman, or child. |
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survivor999 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Oct-27-06 11:31 PM Response to Reply #88 |
96. God knows? |
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AZBlue (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Oct-27-06 11:31 PM Response to Original message |
95. She sounds like she's depressed and/or has a mood disorder. |
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Rockstone (633 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Oct-27-06 11:55 PM Response to Reply #95 |
114. I know she's sick |
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GoddessOfGuinness (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Oct-28-06 12:06 AM Response to Reply #114 |
117. "Walk out" doesn't necessarily mean "don't look back"... |
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haele (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Oct-28-06 01:51 AM Response to Reply #114 |
129. In my observation, depression is like an addiction... |
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shance (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Oct-27-06 11:42 PM Response to Original message |
104. Absolutely abuse can happen to men by women. |
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helderheid (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Oct-27-06 11:53 PM Response to Original message |
111. I'm so sorry to hear this - and I will tell you what I would tell an abused woman |
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Missy Vixen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Oct-28-06 12:45 AM Response to Original message |
125. Rockstone, I don't know what area of the country you are in |
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The Brethren (853 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Oct-28-06 02:10 AM Response to Original message |
130. Have you checked with your local |
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EFerrari (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Oct-28-06 02:18 AM Response to Original message |
132. Before I turn in, has your wife ever been tested? |
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Rockstone (633 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Oct-28-06 03:24 AM Response to Reply #132 |
138. Not to my knowledge |
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barb162 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Oct-29-06 01:31 AM Response to Reply #138 |
149. Sounds like your mother-in-law always knew there was a problem |
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Jamastiene (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Oct-28-06 04:27 AM Response to Original message |
139. While abuse can and does happen to men as well, more often |
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AtomicKitten (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Oct-29-06 01:54 AM Response to Original message |
152. It's up to you to change your circumstance. |
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Dirty Hippie (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Oct-29-06 08:27 AM Response to Original message |
155. I stayed with an abusive husband to keep my family together |
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