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Edited on Mon Jan-01-07 07:12 AM by onager
For those of you chuckling over any preconceived ideas about how Muslims might celebrate New Year's Eve, I'm here to set the record straight. More or less.
As many of you know, I've been working/living around Alexandria, Egypt for the past 18 months or so.
The New Year's Eve party took place in the ballroom of the hotel where I've lived for so long, some people think I work here. Unfortunately nobody is giving me tips. Yet.
Full disclosure: as many of you who read my rantings also know, I'm a hardcore atheist, so I don't have a god in that fight.
Still, I'm often appalled by some of the things I see posted about Muslims in DU.
As I've posted before, I literally trust my life to Muslims every day. I also spent 2 years working in Saudi Arabia. In both countries, the biggest threat to my life has been the insane traffic.
OK, back on topic. The New Year's Eve Party!!! Oh, and how do I know the partygoers were Muslim? Because many of the women attending wore the hijab (headscarf). And many did not.
1. There was a full bar, open all night, and a DJ blasting dance tunes. The DJ's female sidekick did a lot of dancing. The party started at 10 PM and went on until about 3:30 AM. The partygoers included kids with their families, ranging from toddlers to about 9 years old.
Several young Egyptian women, wearing skintight jeans and skimpy tops, danced with each other when they couldn't get guys onto the dance floor. Nobody batted an eye.
2. Sort of off-topic, but Bill O'Reilly would have had a long-overdue stroke if he had been sitting at my table. I was not only seated with an Egyptian administrator of a FRENCH!!! lycee in Cairo, but a Genuine French Couple from France, of all places. They were almost as exotic as another Egyptian man, who worked for an export company located in exotic Hackensack, NJ.
Another person at our table was a gorgeous Egyptian woman who spoke Arabic, English and French equally well. She wore the classic little black dress, nicely accessorized with cleavage. She was kind enough to ask me to dance, so I can almost forgive her for breaking my heart just by sitting there.
3. Entertainment included a trio of male dancers in suits and ties, and a female belly dancer, not in a suit and tie. In the case of her cleavage, she was very well accessorized.
The belly dancer started performing about 1 AM. She wore the usual belly-dancer getup, going thru 4 different costume changes, and had a small butterfly tattooed on her right shoulder. Some of the younger kids wanted their pictures taken with her. That didn't bother anybody, either.
The belly dancer's band included a very good female singer who wore a traditional Muslim all-black floor-length garment with her head (but not her face) fully covered. Here in Egypt, that form of dress usually indicates that the woman is either a widow, or religiously very conservative. As it turns out, the singer was the belly dancer's Mom.
4. Did everybody kiss at midnight? Some people did, but mostly on-the-cheek air kisses. Unlike America, over here guys don't grab any woman standing nearby and kiss her at the stroke of midnight. For various cultural reasons, suddenly kissing strange women in the Middle East can have unintended consequences for the guy. Like death.
Travel Tip: if you ever find yourself in Egypt on New Year's Eve, do not go out for a stroll around midnight. In what I am told is an ancient custom, Egyptians celebrate New Year's Eve by throwing dishes, plates, glasses, etc. out their windows.
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