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DemGirl7 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Apr-03-06 07:55 PM
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Would you stand for someone you have no respect for??
I will be in this situation on friday when I'm in Washington D.C., and my professor wants me and the rest of the people on the trip, to "stand when Justice Scalia enters the room".I was just wondering what any follow DUers would do in that type of situation. Thanks.
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blonndee Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Apr-03-06 07:56 PM
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1. You could stand and turn your back. n/t
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DemGirl7 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Apr-03-06 08:00 PM
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5. I was actually thinking about standing &turning my back to him
I mean it is standing after all.
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BuyingThyme Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Apr-04-06 03:50 PM
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45. Yes, that's a good option. Bring a book or some thing to keep you busy.
Maybe munch on some bananas.
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cyanide Donating Member (43 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Apr-04-06 03:46 PM
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42. that would be
AN excellent response if you have the courage to do it.
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blondeatlast Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Apr-03-06 07:58 PM
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2. Yes, I would. I still see a place for protocol and decorum. OTOH,
I'm pretty old-fashioned.

You can always mimic Scalia's Sicilian salute--your neck might have an itch at that very moment, you know? Could happen...
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Warpy Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Apr-03-06 07:58 PM
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3. I think I'd have to wait outside.
Really.
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benddem Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Apr-03-06 07:59 PM
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4. remain seated n/t
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Faygo Kid Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Apr-03-06 08:05 PM
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6. Stand for the office. And the history. This isn't the ditch to die in.
Whether you stand or not has no bearing on Scalia's decisions, or the Right's chokehold on our nation. Symbolism is important, but you are not expected to do it alone. Tell your professor calmly and sincerely that you will stand, but it is to respect your professor, your school, and the office, not Scalia.
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July Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Apr-04-06 12:03 AM
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36. I'm assuming "to die in" is a metaphor.
What's the big deal if she doesn't stand, though?
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Faygo Kid Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Apr-04-06 03:39 PM
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39. If the poster respects the professor, then she should stand.
I take a back seat to no one in my condemnation of Scalia, who shockingly thinks he is above the law. Respect for others and tradition are not part of his agenda. That is a good reason to stand. Then fight like hell to get a president elected who will never nominate a Scalia.
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FloridaPat Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Apr-03-06 08:06 PM
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7. I went to an Amway conference once and Ollie North was the speaker.
20,000 Amway folks there. As Ollie was giving his speech, he got tons of standing ovations. There were 3 of us within my eyesight that just sat there and did nothing. Amazingly, no comments or repercussions.

However, if it is a court case you're watching, watch the rest of the audience and see what they do. If they stand for everyone, that's one thing. If it's out of court and just some kind of meeting, sitting would work.
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electropop Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Apr-03-06 08:12 PM
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12. Yikes.. Amway.. Ollie...
My head would have imploded.
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Pithy Cherub Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Apr-03-06 08:07 PM
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8. Ask your professor what forms of silent protest
would he recommend? Dissent being the highest form of patriotism...;)
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CoffeeCat Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Apr-03-06 08:08 PM
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9. You could stand....and do other things...
...like roll your eyes, sigh and say, "Oh JEEZ enough with the radical right wing freak speech, will ya!"

After all...you'd be standing while you did these things--just as your professor asked you to do.

hehe ;)
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patrice Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Apr-03-06 08:09 PM
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10. You could wear a wide black silk armband on a white blouse.
Edited on Mon Apr-03-06 08:20 PM by patrice
Or something very ethnic and maybe a little out-of-place. Something too individual.

A pin on your jacket.

Or say something unusual when he says hello. Something you're not supposed to say.

You could quietly refuse to shake hands with him. He would know and that would be enough.

I've got it, Laugh at the wrong time! Not toooo conspicuously, but definitely laugh, innocently.
But, be prepared, because it will probably bother him or someone else.

I think I'd just not shake his hand.

Think about the shape of the room when you pick your seat, being a little on the periphery makes you less his.
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electropop Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Apr-03-06 08:10 PM
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11. Offer the Scalia Salute!
You know, one hand under your chin...
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radio4progressives Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Apr-03-06 08:14 PM
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13. Please Refuse out of Protest...
Or bring that photo with you and stand, holding it up front for all the room to see...
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Staph Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Apr-03-06 08:14 PM
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14. Stand in respect for the office.
Do not applaud. Do not react. Do not shake his hand. Just stand.
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radio4progressives Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Apr-03-06 08:15 PM
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15. No.. I disagree - Scalia has defaced the office ..
And he does not symbolize what it should represent in this country.
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NYCGirl Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Apr-03-06 09:03 PM
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18. He may have, but the office is still the office. And for all its history,
it deserves respect.
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cyanide Donating Member (43 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Apr-04-06 03:48 PM
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43. Don't agree
They lose touch with the people.

This would be good in so many ways.
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radio4progressives Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Apr-03-06 08:16 PM
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16. Take this With You...
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Carni Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Apr-03-06 09:00 PM
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17. MOON HIM
OK I can't say that because you'll ruin your future...but if I were 23 years younger I would be damned tempted.
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annabanana Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Apr-03-06 09:03 PM
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19. was he the ONLY Justice your Prof could get?
I would probably stand, but I'd slouch and fidgit and scratch myself, belch, look at the ceiling, yawn, make rude comments under my breath...
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DemGirl7 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Apr-03-06 09:53 PM
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25. I don't how the decision was made, but I was kind of shocked
Because my University is VERY LIBERAL, there are few Republicans/Conservatives on campus, and if the case was Scalia coming to my campus, the majority of the student body would probably protest him. When I told my friends about meeting with Scalia, they were shocked too, and were like ""Scalia??? You would of thought you'll be meeting with Ginsburg instead" Plus I talked with my Professor, and he wasn apparently not too thrilled with ending up with Scalia.
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Neil Lisst Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Apr-03-06 09:04 PM
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20. screw your professor's expectations! perfect moment to sit down
We must have individual, single, nonviolent, legal, but symbolic gestures as this. We must have it. We can chip this fascism away, but first, people must be given role models.

Be a role model.

Stay seated, and recruit others to do so ahead of time. If you can get 50, get 50.

Ass kissing the royal election fixer is not in your job description. Stay seated for America.
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Cleita Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Apr-03-06 09:07 PM
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21. Stand and turn your back,
but only do it if you won't get into trouble. Scalia isn't worth bad notes on your transcript or worse. There is the point that you should respect the office if not the man, but I'm not 100% convinced that this is a valid argument. It could be something to keep in mind though so you don't feel completely soiled if you have to do it.
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YouthInAsia Donating Member (806 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Apr-03-06 09:07 PM
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22. Not in this case, no. If it were merely a personal matter, that
would be different. But not in this case. This man is a fascist, a homophobe and antiwomen. There's no chance I would stand for this guy. ZERO
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Inland Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Apr-03-06 09:38 PM
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23. Oh, for fuck's sake. Stand? Well, shit, this is what I would do.
You aren't in his courtroom. He isn't a head of state. There's no standing for respect of office of a judge. There's no cap doffing. What kind of shit is this?

But you know what, your professor, who is an idiot, is now going to force the choice on you.

What I would do is stand, not because I give a shit what Scalia thinks or vice versa, but because there's no point to sitting when your professor has already wet himself at the thought of getting his class to kiss Scalia's ass.
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incapsulated Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Apr-03-06 09:44 PM
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24. Yeah, what Inland said.
There is no protocal for a visit from a judge. Your professor is creating one, which I can understand, it is a rather big deal to get a SCOTUS in front of your class.

But I would sit in protest. Of course, I was always the kid doing shit like this and I'm a bad influence, as any of my former teachers would tell you. :)

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WillyT Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Apr-03-06 09:59 PM
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26. OK... I'm Confused Here...
I'm assuming that although you are gonna be in D.C., this is not about standing when all of the Justices enter the room in the building known as the Supreme Court of the United States. Correct?

:shrug:
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Garbo 2004 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Apr-03-06 10:28 PM
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27. Fall to the floor and pretend to have a seizure, shouting "unclean! Get
thee hence, foul spirit!"

Clearly, I'm of little help. ;)

In a courtroom, I'd stand as per court protocol, but any other place? Eh, probably not unless detention in Gitmo was a possible consequence. Is there some protocol that one must stand when a member of the SCOTUS enters a room? What's the standard protocol in such circumstances?
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Inland Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Apr-03-06 11:26 PM
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28. Okay, this is what I do. GOD I'M BRILLIANT.
Show up in a wheelchair. Then, when Scalia enters, make a huge show of struggling to your feet, so wanting to show proper respect. Then fall. Repeat as he closes. It'll be marvelously disruptive, it's performance art. Don't tell anyone what you are doing, maintain deniability.
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incapsulated Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Apr-03-06 11:28 PM
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29. That is both sick *and* brilliant!
I would also kinda crawl on the floor and up his chest for full effect. :thumbsup:
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Inland Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Apr-03-06 11:35 PM
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31. That's actually my family crest.
Edited on Mon Apr-03-06 11:37 PM by Inland
"Infirmus Et Splendens" over a TV supported by two housecats.
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incapsulated Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Apr-03-06 11:39 PM
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33. Dang, everything sounds better in latin.
:)
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Inland Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Apr-03-06 11:40 PM
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34. Babel Fish, curiously, doesn't have latin.
I never had a need before now.
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incapsulated Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Apr-03-06 11:44 PM
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35. And I lost my English to Latin dictionary
Thus robbing me of my ability to sound terribly clever, in a overeducated, snobbish way. Ah, me.

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July Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Apr-04-06 12:06 AM
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37. Okay, that was really funny.
I'm picturing it now.
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Tierra_y_Libertad Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Apr-03-06 11:30 PM
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30. You are a free person. Do what you think best.
As for me, I wouldn't stand for a fascist like Scalia.
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mondo joe Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Apr-03-06 11:36 PM
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32. I had to shake Tommy Thompson's hand once, and I was just glad it
wasn't Bush.

But Scalia is worse than Thompson.
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July Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Apr-04-06 12:09 AM
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38. Why does the professor ask for this?
Do you know? Is this SOP for visitors to the professor's classroom?

To answer your question, hell no, I wouldn't stand for Scalia. I wouldn't make a scene, either, but I would reserve the right to show my lack of respect for the guy quietly. There are only a few people I'd respond to this way, since I really loathe confrontation, even if indirect, but I just couldn't fake it for Scalia. I couldn't do it for Bush or Cheney, either.
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Solly Mack Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Apr-04-06 03:43 PM
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40. Nope
I know the notion that one should respect the office plays well with a lot of people - but I don't buy it.

I wouldn't announce to the whole class that "I'm not standing" - I just wouldn't stand. If anyone had something to say to me about it, they'd better be prepared for a less than nice response.

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BuyingThyme Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Apr-04-06 03:45 PM
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41. No, not in this situation.
He has no authority in such a forum.

You, as his employer, do, however. He should stand for you.
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pitohui Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Apr-04-06 03:48 PM
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44. to be polite i will
i say let scalia be the ass and don't you be the ass, let everybody enjoy their field trip unless you have a genuine targeted message to get across that would be got across by not standing

i suspect the only message that would get across if you didn't stand is that you are discourteous, thus i see it as an ineffective form of protest
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0007 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Apr-04-06 03:51 PM
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46. Turn your back or give Scalia "The Scalia Salute" when he or you
leave the room.
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Hell Hath No Fury Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Apr-04-06 03:51 PM
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47. At the Oscars a few years back...
Edited on Tue Apr-04-06 03:54 PM by Hell Hath No Fury
artists were faced with the same quandry: stand and applaud for director Elia Kazan's acceptance of a Lifetime Achievement Oscar or remain seated in recognition of his caving in to HUAC and the blacklisting of Hollywood "reds".

Many chose to stand out of respect for his body of work, others refused to.

I would have chosen to not stood up. I have beem faced with the choice in my own life -- I have refused to say the Pledge of Allegiance and the Our Father at events at which they were included. I felt uncomfortable and got some stares, but my sense of what is right ann wrong were more important to me.

At the end of the day, it's up to every individual to make their own decision.

On edit: There is one appropriate place to stand for Scalia, and that is if you were appearing before the Supreme Court and he was acting in his capacity as Chief Justice. It's courtroom etiquette.
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ieoeja Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Apr-04-06 03:53 PM
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48. Where is this?

Is this going to be when the judge enters the court? Then, yes, I would. That would be showing respect for the institution despite the man.

If you're just going somewhere where he is a speaker, then I probably would not as that would be showing respect for the individual.


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progressivebydesign Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Apr-04-06 03:57 PM
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49. I say drop something out of your purse as you rise...
.. then spend a few mintues hunched over behind the others, looking for it and picking it up. It's sort of a clothed mooning. If you are not in a courthouse, you do not have to stand for the judge. He's not a king.. he's a really hypocritical, anti-woman, justice.
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