Democratic Underground Latest Greatest Lobby Journals Search Options Help Login
Google

I don't smoke, but hatred of smokers has gone beyond over the top

Printer-friendly format Printer-friendly format
Printer-friendly format Email this thread to a friend
Printer-friendly format Bookmark this thread
This topic is archived.
Home » Discuss » Archives » General Discussion (01/01/06 through 01/22/2007) Donate to DU
 
jpgray Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Jan-08-06 09:15 PM
Original message
I don't smoke, but hatred of smokers has gone beyond over the top
Edited on Sun Jan-08-06 09:41 PM by jpgray
I can understand not wanting to experience secondhand smoke. In government buildings, public transportation and other similar inclosed areas of assembly a ban is entirely reasonable. However, I think banning smoking in -all- restaurants is beyond absurd. Establishments should absolutely be free to choose whether or not to allow smoking. If you don't like to experience smoke, you can go to a restaurant/bar where there is none. If you do smoke, you are free to go to an establishment which allows it. If you are a waiter/bartender, don't apply to places that allow smoking. It's simple enough, and provides a choice for everyone, rather than a purposed destruction of one irrationally despised minority's rights.

As for the "your life choice affects my health, therefore I ban it" argument, I don't think you want to go down that road. The beef industry negatively impacts this nation's physical and environmental health on a large scale, even for those who choose not to eat beef--important pharmalogical/biological resources in the rainforests of South and Central America are destroyed every day to provide grazing lands, and the impact of mass-produced cattle on the atmosphere is not at all pleasant. Those who buy SUVs for city driving are actively damaging the environment, and the health of surrounding pedestrians / commuters on a far greater scale than those who drive fuel-efficient vehicles more suited to the environment. But since neither beef-eaters nor SUV-drivers are a despised minority that is very rewarding to bully with legislation, bans or regulations on those two socially destructive behaviors will never happen.

Now ask yourself why you feel that the behavior of smoking can be banned, when other "life choices" that cause far more damage to those who do not partake are allowed to continue. And then realize it's because smokers are a despised minority, and fun for small-minded people to pick on legislatively and feel superior to. And then realize the rightwing uses homosexuals in the exact same way--"they could hurt my kids, I'm not gay myself and I don't know any gays anyway, &c." Legislative bullying of a disliked minority is offensive to me in any context, and I'm surprised so many supposed "progressives" don't appear to feel the same way.

Please note: I am comparing the way homosexuals and smokers are used POLITICALLY, not saying that gays = smokers or that their struggles are in any way similar. I'm just saying that it's politically easy to pick on a minority that some people irrationally dislike and/or wish to have no contact with. It's the phenomenon of "I'm not one, and I believe it hurts society, therefore I will ban it" that I see as similar.
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
Warpy Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Jan-08-06 09:19 PM
Response to Original message
1. The equation most of us follow is risk versus benefit.
The only benefit from smoking is to the smoker, himself. There is no benefit to anyone else, as opposed to your other examples of meat growing and transportation.

I am pleased that smoking is banned in so many indoor situations because it makes me deathly ill. I literally cannot breathe around a smoker.

However, I'd never agitate to see smoking banned outdoors. I've seen an addicted smoker rummaging though coffee grounds and eggshells at 3 AM looking for a butt that's long enough to smoke. I can't imagine the uproar that would ensue from prohibition.

So set fire to that thing downwind, if you must, and we'll get along just fine.
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
jpgray Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Jan-08-06 09:25 PM
Response to Reply #1
8. What are the benefits of consuming massive amounts of beef?
Take drinking (please! :P). But seriously, the impact of drinking on domestic abuse, on automobile accidents, on mental health, &c. causes, I would conservatively estimate, at least as much secondhand grief as secondhand smoke. But will that ever be banned? No.
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
Warpy Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Jan-08-06 09:26 PM
Response to Reply #8
11. You're assuming that meat eaters and people who drink alcohol
all do it to excess. That is an erroneous assumption.
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
jpgray Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Jan-08-06 09:28 PM
Response to Reply #11
18. But enough do it enough to cause substantial harm to others
And isn't that the issue with smokers?
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
Warpy Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Jan-08-06 09:30 PM
Original message
A drinker doesn't force me to drink
Somebody eating a hamburger doesn't force me to eat it with him. A smoker forces me to breathe in his smoke. That's the difference.

Again, set fire to that thing ouside, thanks, and we'll get along just fine.
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
jpgray Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Jan-08-06 09:32 PM
Response to Original message
27. An SUV driver forces you to inhale carcinogens
Again, isn't that your issue with smokers?
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
greyl Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Jan-08-06 09:43 PM
Response to Reply #27
47. Does your change of subject mean you're giving up the beef arg. ? nt
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
jpgray Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Jan-08-06 09:54 PM
Response to Reply #47
69. Not at all
Edited on Sun Jan-08-06 10:00 PM by jpgray
Mass production of cattle forces negative environmental changes on the whole world population (something evil smokers can never lay claim to), and it denies our relatively wealthy national population biological and pharmalogical resources from the rainforests at an exponential rate (though the grazing lands made there are poor, profit is the rule here). So forced indirect harm is still characteristic of each.

(and yes I eat beef, and I drive a car)
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
Zhade Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jan-09-06 03:03 AM
Response to Reply #69
232. You're kidding yourself.
Tobacco ruins soil, on a huge scale worldwide - it's every bit as comparable to your mass grazing argument.

Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
doubleplusgood Donating Member (810 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jan-09-06 09:59 AM
Response to Reply #69
255. so, until we stop all pollution, we stop none ?
This is almost the Bush rationale on the Kyoto treaty, that because other countries (China, etc.) don't have to work as hard on global warming, we don't have to.

I'm in favor of doing what we can, when we can to stop all pollution & environmental degradation & stopping smoking in all public indoor environments works for me.
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
Warpy Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Jan-08-06 09:49 PM
Response to Reply #27
56. The SUV driver is also transporting himself
to a function that supports the economy that I rely on. Again, there has been a failure to grasp the concept of risk versus benefit.

Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
jpgray Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Jan-08-06 09:55 PM
Response to Reply #56
70. Does he/she need the SUV? No. That is a life choice
Edited on Sun Jan-08-06 09:55 PM by jpgray
The excess exhaust when compared to a more urban-styled vehicle is totally superfluous--it provides no benefit to anyone.
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
slackmaster Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jan-09-06 07:01 PM
Response to Reply #70
364. Answer is not "No" in all cases
Edited on Mon Jan-09-06 07:02 PM by slackmaster
I actually use the 4-wheel-drive capability of my SUV in the pursuit of activities that are beneficial to the environment, in addition to driving it to my job daily.
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
skids Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Jan-08-06 10:58 PM
Response to Reply #56
139. So is the smoker, so to speak :-) n/t
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
misanthrope Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Jan-08-06 11:32 PM
Response to Reply #27
180. The SUV's not in an enclosed space**nm
*
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
Sparkman Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jan-09-06 12:10 PM
Response to Reply #27
279. Humvee/SUV accidents heighten injuries to the "other" guy. Too massive
compared to sedans. We should begin insurance and licensing penalties on large personal vehicles because when they collide, they smash with more ferocity! AND they have emission standards relaxed by lobbyists who favor SUV manufacturers. There would be no new SUV's if all cars had to match the state of the art pollution standards that are now commonplace.
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
madmunchie Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jan-09-06 04:55 PM
Response to Reply #27
337. Don't get us started on SUVs
SUV's are 1st a form of transportation. Smoking is for pleasure PERIOD
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
madmunchie Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jan-09-06 04:53 PM
Response to Original message
336. Exactly smoking affects all around the smoker.
I used to smoke and I have a friend that still smokes. We have known each other for over 40 years. She quit smoking a couple of times when I was still smoking. Whenever I would light up she would wave her hand towards the smoke. I was very careful when I smoked around others, but she still would do this. Then I quit smoking and she restarted smoking. That was 14 years ago. She still smokes and I don't. I don't "wave my hand" nor do I make comments if she should light up in a restaurant. I do get a stuffy nose and sometimes a headache, sometimes a sore throat depending on how long we stay in a smoky environment and how smoky the environment is.

Somebody sitting next to you having a drink or eating a steak do NOT have the same affect on those close by.

If the restaurant has another room that has a door that actually closes, then the restaurant should be able to allow smoking. Unless it can be contained that way, then no, smoking shouldn't be allowed in public places where other people and babies are subjected to 2nd hand smoke and it's affects.

by the way, I never tell my friend not to smoke, nor do I wave my hand when she does. She elects to go outside to smoke her cigarettes when she is over and even in her own home she smokes outside. I usually go outside with her when she smokes. I just wish that she would quit for her health.

Every person that I know that has died before the age of ....say 65 was a smoker. Not saying that they died of lung cancer, throat cancer, heart disease...but they all died of SOME TYPE of cancer or some type of heart disease. I find it really odd and alarming to have come to that realization. (of course that doesn't include car accidents....)
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
enid602 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Jan-08-06 10:29 PM
Response to Reply #11
107. risk
I in 10 of those who drink are alcoholics.
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
Inland Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jan-09-06 04:06 PM
Response to Reply #8
324. But that's kinda the point. You have to go to "massive" to find a problem
with beef or any other activity. Beef, alcohol, and most everything else is safe, or even beneficial, in small doses just as it is harmful in massive amounts.

Even if you follow the directions, and use as recommended, smoking is harmful to health.

And unlike beef and alchohol, the greatest benefit of smoking is to feed an addiction. Otherwise, very few people would bother. It's the sine qua non of the product.
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
FireHeart Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Jan-08-06 09:50 PM
Response to Reply #1
60. It should be up to the owner of
the establishment, not the state to allow smoking or not. If it makes you ill, then don't go there. It should require the establishment to post a sign so people know they allow smoking.
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
Zhade Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jan-09-06 03:05 AM
Response to Reply #60
233. And the children of smokers should be forced to breathe their smoke?
Do you propose that parents leave their kids at home when they choose to go to a smoking establishment, or should the kids be forced to be around all that dangerous toxicity?

Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
400Years Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jan-09-06 11:55 AM
Response to Reply #233
272. Freedom of choice means there are other restaruants to go to

do you propose banning porn theaters because you don't want your kids to see porn?

Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
Czolgosz Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jan-09-06 01:05 PM
Response to Reply #272
290. Restaurants should be free to ignore the health code imposed by germ Nazis
Edited on Mon Jan-09-06 01:07 PM by Czolgosz
Who cares if the cook washes his hands after he goes to the bathroom? Who cares if the meat refrigerator goes on the fritz now and then? Who cares if the restaurant has rats? The restaurant owner should have freedom to run his restaurant however he pleases without interference from the busybody germ Nazis, and the public should have a free choice to decide between germ-free restaurants and the other restaurants.

It's all about property rights and freedom of choice . . . it's not about public health . . . you're getting sleepy, sleepy . . .
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
400Years Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jan-09-06 01:43 PM
Response to Reply #290
294. apples and oranges

If a bar says "we allow smoking" and you have a choice to go or not.

You know up front what you are doing and make a choice.

You go into a restaraunt assuming they abide by the health codes.
Have you ever seen a place post a sign that says "we don't abide by the health codes"?

Again nobody forces you to go into a smoking establishment. It's very simple.

Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
Czolgosz Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jan-09-06 04:50 PM
Response to Reply #294
333. Bars should have the right to post a sign -- NO RESTROOMS -- and you could
patronize the bar or not as a matter of consumer choice.

Why are the restroom Nazis making poor bar owners spend all that money on toilets? That's a clear interference with property rights, and this is an issue that can be adequately addressed as a matter of consumer choice with a sign that informed the patrons that the bar does or does not have a restroom.

Now, I have never seen a bar that had a sign which said "we don't abide by the health codes" but I have also beet to cities where they don't allow smoking in bars and I have never seen a bar which said "we allow smoking" notwithstanding the contrary law.

The fact is that the interests of public health have mandated that bars have restrooms, and that they abide by certain health regulations. Any smoking ban is simply an extension of that same regulatory scheme. You may disagree with the underlying science which supports that extension, but it is very widely accepted in the medical community. It's very simple.
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
400Years Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Jan-10-06 10:36 AM
Response to Reply #333
381. Your logic also suggests we ban alcohol as well.

extensions and all...

Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
Czolgosz Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Jan-10-06 11:06 AM
Response to Reply #381
387. We do ban alcohol (or did you spring from the womb at 21 years of age?)
No one is saying that you cannot smoke tobacco. The ban in effect for some places is merely a ban on smoking in areas where your smoke affects other people. Guess what? Most jurisdictions also ban alcohol in some areas where alcohol is likely to affect other people (or does your state allow you to have an open container of an alcoholic beverage in your car?).

In many jurisdictions, there is a ban on alcohol that is partial and not absolute.

In many jurisdictions, there is a ban on tobacco smoking that is partial and not absolute.

Smoking bans are public health matters. If you disagree with the underlying science, you are simply mistaken. If you disagree with the balancing of competing public interests, your view is a minority view in some jurisdictions and a majority view in other jurisdictions.

I agree that in those jurisdictions where the public sentiment is in favor of allowing smoking in public buildings, that should be the law because I believe in democracy. Do you disagree that in those jurisdictions where the public sentiment is in favor of banning smoking in public buildings, that should be the law? If so, why do you believe that this is an issue which should be immune from the principles of democracy?
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
400Years Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Jan-10-06 11:32 AM
Response to Reply #387
389. I think that you don't have to have absolutes

There are places where smoking is not allowed and there are places where they allow smoking and everyone has a choice to go where they feel most comfortable. What I am against is absolute bans like just got passed here in my town. In all 90% of bars and restaraunts didn't allow smoking but the anti-smoke brigade was not happy so they had to force the remaining to not allow it. This was in places that most of these uptight crybabies never even set foot in but they still wanted to force their viewpoint down everybody's throats.

It's the absolutism that bothers me most. I think smoking is a stupid move unless you are growing the tobacco yourself but I'm not gonna force that on anybody.

Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
Czolgosz Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Jan-10-06 01:09 PM
Response to Reply #389
390. I'm not aware of any absolute ban -- can't you smoke outdoors, at home, in
your car, etc.? You say "It's the absolutism that bothers me most." You should talk to the marijuana legalization advocates about absolutism. Marijuana smoking is absolutely baned; tobacco smoking is just restricted.

I personally favor a smoking ban in public indoor spaces even in places where I don't frequent and it's not because I'm an uptight crybaby. It's because I think that secondhand smoke is unsuitable in anyone's work environment, and that includes the work environment of the waiters and busboys and bartenders in the bars and restaurants which would otherwise allow smoking. I also don't accept the argument that "they can just go work somewhere else" because you could say the exact same thing about every potential regulation against an unclean, unsafe, or hostile work environment. You might enjoy the luxury of choosing one workplace over another but not everyone enjoys such options in the kiss-up-kick-down Bush economy.

I also don't think that where people feel most comfortable smoking should determine where it should be legal and where it should be illegal. I know people who feel most comfortable drinking a beer on a long car drive -- just one beer, not nearly enough to come even close to the legal limit -- and yet they are generally prohibited from having a beer in that place. I'm not uncomfortable with that law, are you?

Finally, some tobacco smoking bans limit only municipal buildings, some also cover restaurants without separate ventilation systems for the smoking and nonsmoking sections, some also cover all restaurants, some also cover bars, and some also cover the area near the entrances near restaurants or bars. It's a sliding scale. I live in a place that bans smoking in restaurants but not bars. I would ban it in bars, too, for the reasons I mentioned above, but I am prepared to accept the vote of the majority of the voter who have set the sliding scale somewhere different than where I would have set it. You never told me why it is that you don't think that the community's vote expressing its collective judgment about where the sliding scale should be set ought not apply?
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
Zhade Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jan-09-06 06:40 PM
Response to Reply #272
359. I'm sorry, I was unaware of porn theaters where kids are welcome.
Your straw man is irrelevant. I asked about children being forced to be around smoke when they had no choice.

Your analogy is a false one. Try again.

Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
400Years Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Jan-10-06 10:39 AM
Response to Reply #359
383. So kids go to bars?

Your the one that is way off base.

Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
eeyore Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jan-09-06 12:33 PM
Response to Reply #233
288. Just make smoking establishments adhere strictly to the drinking age.
Here in Oregon, one can be an accompanied minor in a bar until 10pm. Just make smoking bars off limits to anyone 21 or younger. How hard is that?
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
Zhade Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jan-09-06 06:41 PM
Response to Reply #288
360. I don't think I have any problem with that idea.
It's sensible, and fair, and doesn't force kids to be exposed to the smoke that's already killing the smokers, so I think it's a reasonable suggestion.

Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
converted_democrat Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jan-09-06 09:55 AM
Response to Reply #1
252. That isn't the point..
Edited on Mon Jan-09-06 09:59 AM by converted_democrat
People should be able to do with their property what they wish in a free society. The bars in our area have suffered greatly in our area due to the smoking bans. (My hubby is a former bar owner, and my best friend Casey still has one, and we are really friendly with the rest of the bar owners in town.) Most of the owners we know scrimped and saved there whole lives to buy a money maker, and now they are barely eeking through, or they're losing money trying to sell.

I worked in the service industry when I was younger paying my way through school, and you know what.. I would come in early to work to "claim" my tables in the smoking sections.. If I had to work the non section I was an unhappy camper for the night.. In my experience, smokers spend more money, stay longer, more often bought "drinks" with their meal, and on a whole, just flat out tipped better. On top of that the vast majority of the "complainers" came from the non-smoking sections.. It was almost funny to a degree, we would bet on the ratio of people that would send their meals back from the two sections.. (We were bored, but it made the night interesting.) As a former owner, my husband will flat out tell you that smokers are easier to deal with, and they are generally the "regulars" that would come in night after night and spend money in his establishment.

In our area especially (it's really red) smokers are drinkers, and drinkers are smokers. People of "one vice" rarely exist.. So, now "if" non-smokers actually come to the bar for the social aspect, then they don't usually drink.. They buy cola, or water.. which aren't nearly the money makers that booze is. Smokers that do come to the bar don't stay as long.. If they have to get up to go out to smoke, there is a big chance they will just keep walking instead of coming back into the bar to have a few more.. We have one bar in the area that is fighting the ban.. They continue to let people smoke, and they end up paying close to $10,000 a month in fines for it, but even after they pay the fines, they are still making much more than the non-smoking bars..

Personally, I think the best course of action is to allow people to do with their property what they wish.. If one wanted to open a non smoking bar, have at it, and advertise the hell out of it as both a non-smoking bar, and a smoke free work environment.. And hope for the best.. But let the owners decide what they want.. Personally, I've never met a bartender or bar waitress that did not smoke, so worrying about their "health" is probably a moot point. If people are concerned about their health, let them go to non-smoking bars to work, and let them go to non-smoking bars to hang out. Imposing your will on others though, isn't the answer.. Fundies in our area are having a field day with this, bars are dropping like flies at this point, and they proclaim it "God's will".. If this keeps up they will get what they really want, which is to see all bars in our area close.. This isn't fair to the owners, this isn't fair to the regulars that have been stripped of their hang out, and it isn't fair to the workers that are making less money..

We live in a free country, and that should include the freedom to make decisions.. The freedom to decide what kind of establishment you want to operate, and the freedom to be a patron, in the establishment of your choice.

on edit- grammar


Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
minerva50 Donating Member (229 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jan-09-06 06:24 PM
Response to Reply #252
356. Smokers don't send food back because they can't taste it.
I don't believe the arguments about bar-owners losing business. All you have is anecdotes, I think they may actually gain business, I'd like to see statistics. It's always harder to get seated in the non-smoking sections of restaurants and bars I visit; the smoking sections are empty. I am certainly happier to come back from an evening listening to music without a headache and without my hair and clothing reeking of tobacco.
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
converted_democrat Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jan-09-06 07:23 PM
Response to Reply #356
368. My best friend is losing her ass right now... That is fact..
Come to where I live.. Come meet the owners I know.. Ask them to see how far they are behind in their mortgages over this mess. Come ask them yourself.. Ask how many have had to put off college for their kids, and medical procedures because of this bull. Ask how many won't be able to retire on time, if they will ever be able to at all. I've worked in this biz for years sweetie, there ain't a "thing" you can tell me. We were really lucky because we got out before the ban.

I've got quite a few extra bedrooms.. Come for a visit.. See it yourself.. They are losing everything over this crap, everything they have worked their whole lives for.. Come see for yourself.. Have a vacation on me. Maybe if you see it, you'll believe it.
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
Ladyhawk Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Jan-10-06 11:19 AM
Response to Reply #1
388. I have the same problem you do, warpy.
I can even be around cigarette smoke residue without getting sick. Smoking should be banned in public places, just as it should be illegal--and probably is--for me to go around spraying carcinogens in other people's faces.
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
ixion Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Jan-08-06 09:20 PM
Response to Original message
2. here's a smoker who appreciates you rationale
and common sense. :hi:
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
YellowRubberDuckie Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Jan-08-06 09:20 PM
Response to Original message
3. Smoking is a choice, Homosexuality is not...
And comparing the homosexuals' struggle to that of the smokers is absurd. Smokers wouldn't be treated that way if they didn't ignore all the evidence its not only harmful to them, it's more harmful to the people around them, especially their children. Not all, but a lot of smokers don't give a shit about those around them, and it is them who have caused the smoking bans in public places. Bans in restaurants not only protect customers, but also the staff. And for the love of God, we're liberals. As obsessed as this place is with buying blue, why the fuck are most of the people here still giving money to big tobacco who are republicans!?
Mel
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
jpgray Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Jan-08-06 09:22 PM
Response to Reply #3
4. No, but the use of the two politically is very similar
If I wanted to make a direct comparison between the two in a general sense, I would have made it.
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
Czolgosz Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Jan-08-06 11:39 PM
Response to Reply #4
187. I agree. I have a friend who's a smoker and he was not allowed to marry
the person he loves, and he was denied the right to make end-of-life decisions at the hospital where his non-spouse was being treated, and he was denied the ability to inherit all of his non-spouse's property without extensive court proceedings.

All of this because he was a smoker.

It's terrible how badly smokers are treated in America. It's not as if smoking is a habit that one could quit and thereby save US public health care dollars that might otherwise provide care for people suffering from non-self-inflicted ailments.

I also agree that your analogies to meat-eating and alcohol are equally valid. Let me tell you about my friend who works at a restaurant, he's suffering from second-hand cirrhosis of the liver and second-hand clogged arteries . . .
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
darkism Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jan-09-06 02:48 AM
Response to Reply #187
230. Ding ding ding! Bravo Czolgosz!
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
Zhade Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jan-09-06 03:06 AM
Response to Reply #187
234. Very nice.
:thumbsup:

Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
jpgray Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jan-09-06 07:48 AM
Response to Reply #187
245. You're rebutting arguments I never made
Edited on Mon Jan-09-06 07:49 AM by jpgray
Namely that there is a one-to-one comparison between smokers and homosexuals. There isn't. But there is the same phenomenon of "I'm not one, I think they are harmful to society, therefore I shall ban them." This point remains unanswered, though plenty have told me I am actually saying something that I say nowhere. And my points about the secondhand griefs of the beef industry outweighing those of smoking remain wholly unanswered--people are still erecting strawmen that are easier to knock down in an attempt to feel good about defeating something, even if it isn't remotely connected to any one of my statements. Predictably a few even less talented debaters will glom onto this strawman defeat and raise a pathetic cheer, but how can this advance the discussion if the debater is only arguing points he/she invented for the purpose of defeating?
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
Czolgosz Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jan-09-06 10:06 AM
Response to Reply #245
256. Smokers suffer the same "discrimination" as drivers who drink but
who do not get drunk above the legal limit for DWI. That's a better analogy. In both cases, the conduct is legal. In both cases, the conduct is a personal choice. In both cases, valid questions can be raised about the wisdom and social responsibility of the conduct.


Here is another good analogy: Smoking is like riding a motorcycle without a helmet. It's legal in most places, but it's a bit of a daily living IQ test. You can list the reasons for not wearing a helmet when riding a motorcycle, but no person who is acting based on reason would conclude that riding a motorcycle without a helmet is a wise decision. Similarly, you can list the reasons why people smoke, but no person who is acting based on reason would conclude that smoking is a wise decision.

Your analogy is a bad analogy (and a bit offensive). Those who demonize homosexuality do so for religious reasons or to manipulate that religious vote for political reasons. In contrast, those who oppose smoking do so for public health reasons. I can tell you whose political agenda is furthered by homophobia. Can you tell me whose political agenda is furthered by public smoking bans?

By the way, I have never heard anyone advocating against smoking in public on grounds that "I'm not one, I think they are harmful to society, therefore I shall ban them." That's a strawman, and you should know it. Instead, I tend to hear the arguments that smoking in public places should be discouraged because (1) it is a known health risk, (2) even where the risk is willingly assumed by smokers and their voluntary companions, it is still unwillingly assumed by the workers in a smoking-permitted workplace.

Our society allows drinking alcohol, but imposes reasonable limits to mitigate the public risks from drinking.

Our society allows smoking tobacco, but imposes reasonable limits to mitigate the public risks from smoking.
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
jpgray Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jan-09-06 10:23 AM
Response to Reply #256
258. Those who want it banned in all restaurants are not concerned with health
How could they be? If there are both smoking and non-smoking establishments, customers and staff alike can choose which they wish to patronize/work in. Banning smoking in every establishment is by definition an unreasonable limit--that cigar stores in Washington state are banned from allowing their patrons to smoke is absolutely unreasonable. As for the employees complaining, that would be like someone working in a pet store suing his boss for cat dander exposure--if you plan to work in that field, you should expect such a hazard.

You're still rebutting arguments I've never made. Banning smoking in all establishments is very much a case of "I'm not one, I think they are harmful to society, therefore I shall ban them"--because it isn't just wanting exposure to secondhand smoke to be voluntary, it's wanting exposure to secondhand smoke to be eliminated entirely. The driving force behind both is a lack of understanding/empathy and a desire to eliminate an imagined risk to society. There is no risk if there are both smoking and non-smoking establishments--do you understand? I never said all places must allow smoking, which would be as unreasonable as saying no places may allow it. Opponents of public acceptance for homosexuality would claim that there is objective harm done by homosexuals as teachers, scoutmasters or what have you. They are wrong, but they are using the same exact logic you use against smoking, and thus you prove my point. As for whose political agenda is furthered by smoking bans, anybody whose constituents include irrational busybodies who prefer one group having its rights totally trounced to avoid the slightest inconvenience to themselves will benefit politically from passing draconian smoking bans. Irrational busybodies who want the rights of homosexuals totally trounced with regard to marriage or even what happens in the privacy of their homes to avoid the slightest inconvenience to themselves are operating on the same principle.
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
Czolgosz Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jan-09-06 11:56 AM
Response to Reply #258
273. You have officially jumped the couch. The American College of Chest Physic
* The American College of Chest Physicians concluded "A great deal of new evidence suggests that the respiratory system may be vulnerable to damage caused by inhaled environmental agents during the prenatal period," said Rachel L. Miller, MD, the study's lead author at the Columbia Center for Children's Environmental Health, part of the Columbia University Mailman School of Public Health, New York, NY. "This study indicates that the combination of exposure to combustion by-products in the womb and to second-hand smoke during infancy can cause significantly more respiratory problems than either exposure on its own," added Dr. Frederica Perera, the study's Principal Investigator and Director of the Center.

* The EPA has also concluded Secondhand Smoke Can Make Children Suffer Serious Health Risks. Breathing secondhand smoke can be harmful to children's health including asthma, Sudden Infant Death Syndrome (SIDS), bronchitis and pneumonia and ear infections. Children's exposure to secondhand smoke is responsible for: (1) increases in the number of asthma attacks and severity of symptoms in 200,000 to 1 million children with asthma; (2) between 150,000 and 300,000 lower respiratory tract infections (for children under 18 months of age); and, (3) respiratory tract infections resulting in 7,500 to 15,000 hospitalizations each year. The developing lungs of young children are severely affected by exposure to secondhand smoke for several reasons including that children are still developing physically, have higher breathing rates than adults, and have little control over their indoor environments. Children receiving high doses of secondhand smoke, such as those with smoking mothers, run the greatest risk of damaging health effects. A few basic actions can protect children from secondhand smoke: (1) Choose not to smoke in your home and car and do not allow family and visitors to do so. Infants and toddlers are especially vulnerable to the health risks from secondhand smoke, (2) Do not allow childcare providers or others who work in your home to smoke, (3) Until you can quit, choose to smoke outside. Moving to another room or opening a window is not enough to protect your children.

* The United States Centers for Disease Control and Prevention has determined that the risk of acute myocardial infarction and coronary heart disease associated with exposure to tobacco smoke is non-linear at low doses, increasing rapidly with relatively small doses such as those received from secondhand smoke (SHS) or actively smoking one or two cigarettes a day, and has warned that all patients at increased risk of coronary heart disease or with known coronary artery disease should avoid all indoor environments that permit smoking.

* A study of hospital admissions for acute myocardial infarction in Helena, Montana before, during, and after a local law eliminating smoking in workplaces and public places was in effect, has determined that laws to enforce smokefree workplaces and public places may be associated with a reduction in morbidity from heart disease.

* The 1999 National Cancer Institute Monograph 10, based on the 1997 Cal-EPA (Environmental Protection Agency) review of population-based studies, confirmed that SHS is fatal and has numerous non-fatal health effects. SHS chemicals include irritants and systemic toxicants, mutagens, and carcinogens, and reproductive and developmental toxicants. More than 50 compounds in tobacco smoke are known carcinogens. SHS exposure causes lung and nasal sinus cancer, heart disease, and Sudden Infant Death Syndrome. Serious impacts of SHS on children include asthma induction and exacerbation, bronchitis and pneumonia, middle ear infection, chronic respiratory symptoms, and low birth weight.

* SHS is the third leading cause of preventable death in this country, killing 53,000 nonsmokers in the U.S. each year. For every eight smokers the tobacco industry kills, it takes one nonsmoker with them.

* SHS is a major source of PM pollution - a risk factor for pulmonary disease, asthma, and lung cancer - and that three cigarettes smouldering in a room emits up to 10-fold more PM pollution than an ecodiesel engine. The study concluded that high levels of PM exposure from SHS may account for frequent episodes of short term respiratory damage in nonsmokers.

* Secondhand smoke exposure during childhood has been associated with an increased risk of spinal pain, such as neck pain and back pain in adult life. Researchers suggest this may be due to the negative effects of smoke exposure during childhood on the developing spine.

* The excess risk of coronary heart disease (CHD) associated with passive smoking is 50-60%, twice what was previously thought by researchers, and the risks of CHD for passive smoking are virtually indistinguishable from active smoking. A study published in the July 2004 edition of the British Medical Journal found higher risks of CHD because, rather than using marriage to a smoker or working in a smoky environment as their measure of exposure, the study's authors used plasma cotinine (metabolized nicotine), a direct biochemical measure of total SHS)exposure. By doing so, they captured SHS's entire exposure effect.

* Even a half hour of secondhand smoke exposure causes heart damage similar to that of habitual smokers. Nonsmokers' heart arteries showed a reduced ability to dilate, diminishing the ability of the heart to get life-giving blood. In addition, the same half hour of secondhand smoke exposure activates blood platelets, which can initiate the process of atherosclerosis (blockage of the heart's arteries) that leads to heart attacks. These effects explain other research showing that nonsmokers regularly exposed to SHS suffer death or morbidity rates 30% higher than those of unexposed nonsmokers.

* The 1986 Report of the Surgeon General; the 1986 National Research Council report, Environmental Tobacco Smoke: Measuring Exposures and Assessing Health Effects; and the 1992 U.S. Environmental Protection Agency report, Respiratory Health Effects of Passive Smoking: Lung Cancer and Other Disorders, established that SHS exposure causes lung cancer.

* The 2002 Environmental Health Information Service's 10th Report on Carcinogens classifies SHS as a Group A (Human) Carcinogen - a substance known to cause cancer in humans. There is no safe level of exposure for Group A toxins. In addition, the 2002 World Health Organization International Agency's (IARC) Monograph on Tobacco Smoking, both Active and Passive concluded that nonsmokers are exposed to the same carcinogens as active smokers.

* In 1991, data showed that nearly 90 percent of the U.S. population had measurable levels of serum cotinine in their blood. In 2002, the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention's National Report on Human Exposure to Environmental Chemicals found more than a 75 percent decrease in median cotinine levels for nonsmokers in the U.S. since 1991- an indication that smoke-free environments significantly reduce exposure to SHS.

Here's a site with the references: <http://www.no-smoke.org/htmlpage.php?id=17>

THERE IS A SUCH A SUPERABUNDANCE OF LITERATURE TO CONFIRM SECONDHAND SMOKE IS A HEALTH RISK THAT ONLY AN ADDICT WOULD SUGGEST OTHERWISE.

Also, your argument that "customers and staff alike can choose which they wish to patronize/work in" is morally bankrupt if you mean it seriously. It is true that customers have some freedom to chose what establishment they patronize except when they are minors, or when they are with a large group and have no alternative transportation, or when they are at a work related function, or when . . . . Your suggestion that staff at those restaurants could just "choose" a different place to work is what is morally bankrupt. To illustrate, let's try your argument in some other contexts: "those miners' families should quit whining about the poor safety record at the mine -- the miners could have chosen a different place to work;" or "that secretary who keeps bitching about getting her ass pinched should quit whining -- she could just chose a different job;" or "Scott McClellan should quit bitching to his mother (who just abandoned the Republican party in her bid for Texas governor) about having to spread Bush's increasingly obvious lies -- he could just chose another job" (actually, that last one was a joke). Maybe you have never faced the choice between supporting your kids in a less than ideal job, but other workers DO NOT enjoy the luxury of simply "choosing" another job. Did you really think the underpaid waitresses and busboys in those smoky establishments "chose" those jobs from a wide panoply of options, and they freely elected to work for minimum (or sub-minimum) wages to bring you food and clean up your dirty dishes after you are done because they didn't want the stress of running a Fortune 500 company? Simply put, the exposure to unhealthy or unsafe or hostile work environments is not a choice that the worker should be blamed for, and you should be ashamed for imposing blame and responsibility for the inadequacies of the workplace on the workers who have to tolerate that workplace.

Finally, I am recovering from stage IV nasopharyngeal cancer. The only risk factor I have is that both my parents were heavy lifelong smokers (until my father was diagnosed with smoking-related bladder cancer). My oncologists at MD Anderson believe there is an indisputable link between secondhand smoke and cancer, asthma, emphysema, SIDS, bronchitis, pneumonia, an a panoply of other diseases. You may think that they are just "busybodies" but I trust you'll forgive me if I take their analysis of the health risk over yours.
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
jpgray Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jan-09-06 12:13 PM
Response to Reply #273
280. I'll give this the lengthy response it deserves once I get back from work
For right now I will say I don't doubt the risks of smoke. And I do think it's lousy that minors get it forced on them unnecessarily, or that people are forced to experience it who would choose to avoid doing so. However, I do think there is a happy medium to be found where there are establishments such that smokers and non-smokers both can be happy. It will never be perfect, and we should err on the side of non-smokers, but I think denying the smokers the right to smoke in -any- and -all- businesses is wrong.
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
Inland Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jan-09-06 04:10 PM
Response to Reply #187
325. Fine.
So smokers aren't like those asking for homosexual rights.

Smokers are like the marchers to Selma, okay?
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
mrcheerful Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Jan-08-06 09:30 PM
Response to Reply #3
23. Which is an EPA lie that has been debunked many times
For the simple reason was there are no clean test subjects to test for second hand smoking. In fact many house hold cleaning products also cause the same side effects as second hand smoke. You can also link pesticides past and present to the same diseases as those listed by the EPA report. We live in a toxic waste dump and contaminate ourselves daily. BTW, anyone who has been around people that have asthma and emphysema can tell you that perfumes and aftershaves can give them the same reaction as smoking causes.
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
SidDithers Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Jan-08-06 09:49 PM
Response to Reply #23
57. Right....
and the science still isn't complete on global warming either. :eyes:

Sid
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
SPKrazy Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Jan-08-06 09:53 PM
Response to Reply #23
66. All I Know is that smoke STINKS, it makes my head hurt, and it makes me
cough

Thanks, but no thanks

There is PLENTY of evidence that secondhand smoke is bad for you.
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
GodHelpUsAll2 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Jan-08-06 11:33 PM
Response to Reply #66
181. Provide some
Provides evidence where it has been proven that second hand smoke causes anything other than griping. And the EPA report from 1992 will not do. It has been debunked time and time and time again.
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
misanthrope Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jan-09-06 11:53 AM
Response to Reply #181
271. I tell you what, pal...
...you foot the bill and I'll be more than happy to provide you with evidence from my own body.

We'll go to my pulmonologist and have a pulmonary function test performed.

Then, we'll go to a bar for a few hours.

The next day, we'll go back to the pulmonologist and have another PFT done.

Then, we can keep up the PFTs for a week or so to gauge how my lung function improves as we get further from the second-hand smoke experience.

After that, my pulmonologist can sit you down and explain exactly what physiological changes the smoke produces in my lungs.

That will sure enough move it out of the anecdotal realm.

The bill for all of this should run under two grand.

You game, hotshot? You want to put your money where your mouth is? Or do you just want to sit around and "gripe?"
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
mongo Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jan-09-06 01:50 PM
Response to Reply #271
296. Still anecdotal
Since Asthma can be triggered by nothing more than stress.

Where were all the people who were so "deathly" alergic to cigarette smoke in the 50's - 60's -70's?

Hmmmm?????
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
misanthrope Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jan-09-06 03:32 PM
Response to Reply #296
319. You're obtuse...
...and most anyone who was claiming pulmonary problems in the '50s and '60s is most likely dead now.
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
SPKrazy Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jan-09-06 10:52 PM
Response to Reply #181
376. I provided anecdotal evidence and it is more than griping
want to talk to my allergist?

He'll tell you what second hand smoke does to my mucosal lining in my lungs, and in my nose and throat.

Are you insane?

Second hand smoke is harmless?

:rofl: :rofl: :rofl: :rofl: :crazy:
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
400Years Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jan-09-06 11:58 AM
Response to Reply #66
274. then don't patronize smoking establishments
it's that simple.

Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
merwin Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Jan-08-06 10:33 PM
Response to Reply #23
109. Which is why you are not supposed to ingest those cleaning products.
:-)

Plus, cigarettes themselves contain many of those household cleaning products.
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
SPKrazy Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Jan-08-06 10:40 PM
Response to Reply #109
118. Good Points! n/t
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
misanthrope Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Jan-08-06 11:36 PM
Response to Reply #23
185. Well, I've got emphysema...
...and I don't have nearly the reaction to perfumes that I do to smoke. It also seems that smoke spreads more quickly and thickly than perfumes will.
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
Zhade Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jan-09-06 03:07 AM
Response to Reply #23
235. "We live in a toxic waste dump and contaminate ourselves daily."
Just about the only accurate statement in your post.

Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
mrcheerful Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jan-09-06 06:23 AM
Response to Reply #235
241. Actually it isn't the only right statement.
I suggest you read the labels on house hold cleaning solutions and find out whats in them and what happens when you breathe the fumes in. Not to mention how many bright people out there that mix house hold cleaners, like bleach and pine sol, then wonder why their lungs burn. I left out certain other facts that people never think about, like the fact during the early 1960's DDT was poured on school kids when there were out breaks of lice or other vermin. Remember DDT was banned because it effected the DNA of Eagles and other sea birds that lived off fish. Also don't forget that asbestos was used every where in the school, from the boiler rooms to the sound proofing in the band rooms kids were exposed to asbestos from the 1930's until the late 70's. Then during the late 40's and 50's A bomb testing done out in the open, god knows where all of the fall out from that went, but i bet you it found its way into the air, land, water and food supply. Unknown to the american people John Wayne did not get lung cancer from smoking like everyone was told. Every cast member from the movie She Wore a Yellow Ribbon died of the same type of lung cancer as JW died from. Though smoking didn't help. Guess where that movie and 3 others made during the same time period were made? Less then 100 miles from where our wonderful government was exploding Atomic bombs at. So where are they going to get clean test subjects from to test their second hand smoke theories on? Then you have smoke stacks from industry that dumped god knows how many toxins into the air and still continue to dump the same toxins in the air, how much they don't know, they put filters inside the smoke stacks that filter out some but not all of those toxins. So where are they going to get clean test subjects from to test their second hand smoke theories on? Yet second hand smoke is whats causing all the health risks. Yeah right.
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
Zhade Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jan-09-06 06:43 PM
Response to Reply #241
361. Yes, all of those things are very bad for us.
Edited on Mon Jan-09-06 06:43 PM by Zhade
That doesn't detract from the fact that cigarette smoke, secondhand and direct, is ALSO very bad for us.

Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
OPERATIONMINDCRIME Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Jan-08-06 09:41 PM
Response to Reply #3
41. Your Statement Is 100% False, And You Obviously Are Not A Smoker And
are therefore talking from a standpoint of ignorance.

For many, starting smoking was a choice, but after becoming addicted, is no longer a choice but an affliction.

And don't tell me that even after addicted it is a choice, cause then you would be speaking from even a further level of ignorance.

Thanks.
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
YellowRubberDuckie Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Jan-08-06 10:07 PM
Response to Reply #41
84. Yes, but addictions can be kicked, People quit every day.
Quit making excuses, because if you have kids, there are no excuses for smoking around them. I don't care how much they're addicted to ANYTHING. And I grew up with parents who smoked their whole lives, one of whom died for it. He had every opportunity to quit, but he chose not to. The doctor even gave him several options to try for free to quit. He didn't even want to try. He killed himself, and now my (Future) kids will never know how wonderful of a granddad he would have been. Smoking is a choice. And your opinion of my ignorance is biased, and therefore irrelevant. I couldn't care less what you think of me.
Duckie
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
OPERATIONMINDCRIME Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Jan-08-06 10:14 PM
Response to Reply #84
94. Not Biased. If You Are Talking From A Perspective Of Which You Have No
Experience, than that is by definition speaking from ignorance.

It is even more ignorant for you to accuse me of making excuses and smoking around my kids, as I make certain that they are not subjected to it.

And just because some doctor offers you something to quit doesn't mean "Wow, it's that easy huh? All this time I just had to wait for a doc to offer me something? oh ok, I can quit now". That is absurd. I have tried everything on the market and cannot quit.

Don't tell me I'm making excuses, and don't persecute and judge smokers because of their addiction.

Smoking for me, is not a choice. If you don't like it too damn bad. You don't have a leg to stand on since you are ignorant on the addiction from never having had experienced it yourself, and therefore cannot judge nor speak to it with any real level of understanding.

Thanks.
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
msongs Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Jan-08-06 10:23 PM
Response to Reply #94
100. addiction is ALWAYS a choice - to continue or pay the price to quit
and there is a price to pay for quitting smoking. many millions of people have paid that price, and lived to
tell about it.

You will quit WHEN YOU REALLY WANT TO QUIT. When the price of smoking is greater than the price of quitting is
when you will quit. no sooner, no later.

You are playing the victim when you are in fact the perpetrator in regard to your addicition.

Msongs
www.msongs.com/clark2008.htm

PS - been there, done that.
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
OPERATIONMINDCRIME Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Jan-08-06 11:31 PM
Response to Reply #100
177. Don't Care What You've Done, You're Still Wrong
And please, spare me your self righteousness in preaching to me just because you were an ex-smoker. I'm thrilled that you quit and glad something worked for you, but it is incredibly narrow minded to think that your addiction and way you were able to handle it is equivalent to others addictions. Every addiction is different.

So please, I don't want to hear the tired old crap about how I can quit when I'm ready, as it isn't really quite that simple. I suffer from a severe addiction upon which I at this time have no control over, until they actually develop some type of quitting assistance that is actually effective for me. I'm hoping the coming soon rimnobant may do the trick.

And yes, I am a victim. I'm a victim of being a naive 13 yr old that thought the marlboro van was cool and had no idea what starting smoking would end up doing to me. Now 18 yrs later I recognize it as the worst decision I ever made. But don't tell me that now it is still my choice, as it is a load of naive crap.

Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
misanthrope Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Jan-08-06 11:43 PM
Response to Reply #177
190. Well, I'm another ex-smoker...
...and I quit after close to twenty years of the habit without the aid of anything or anyone. I simply made my mind up and I did it.

For what it's worth, I was also working in an environment where I was surrounded by smokers who did it continuously while we worked.

Sorry to say, but I don't think you'll ever quit as long as you tell yourself you're a victim without any control over what you put in your own body.
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
Thirtieschild Donating Member (978 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jan-09-06 04:27 PM
Response to Reply #190
329. Another ex-smoker
I smoked for 28 years, smoked while holding my babies (we didn't know then that first-hand smoke was bad, let alone second-hand smoke), quit cold-turkey in 1982 (with a cigarette in one hand and a lighter in the other), found quitting far easier than I dreamed it could be, and love, absolutely love, to inhale second-hand smoke. However, I also know it's bad for me so avoid it whenever possible. I sympathize with those who have trouble quitting, and wish they understood that a few weeks, even a month or so, of discomfort is worth a lifetime free of smoke. The discomfort won't last forever.
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
Zhade Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jan-09-06 03:12 AM
Response to Reply #177
237. No, he's pretty much right.
Do you, or do you not, continue in a habit you know is killing you, if you are a smoker?

If yes, then you are choosing to continue that habit. That it is made easier to decide so thanks to the addiction is understandable, but it's still a choice.

I see it with my parents - my mom quit, my dad hasn't (to my knowledge). It's a choice, even if it's a hard one (dad could do it - they both quit drinking, so I know he can).

However, even though it's a choice, everyone facing the choice does have my sympathy. Addictions are terrible.

Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
deek Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Jan-08-06 11:53 PM
Response to Reply #3
202. addiction eom
,
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
obxhead Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Jan-08-06 09:22 PM
Response to Original message
5. Thank you.
I smoke (I KNOW I shouldn't, but I do). I am very conscious of the effect that it has on non-smokers and try to be hyper aware of them and go out of my way not to disturb them with my habit. I do not need to be bullied and banned to accommodate Amerika and it's non-smokers.
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
Redstone Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Jan-08-06 09:23 PM
Response to Original message
6. Not smoking in a restaurant is fine. But bars? That's bullshit.
And how convenient that states with casinos have been banning smoking is all the bars in the state except the ones in casinos.

Money talks? Yes, indeed, it actually shouts. The purported reason for these laws is "protecting the health of the workers." I guess your health isn't worth protecting if you work in a casino, eh?

Redstone

Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
merwin Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Jan-08-06 10:36 PM
Response to Reply #6
112. The reason that the ban doesn't apply to casinos is because they are
on native american reservations. Our state laws don't apply to them, for the most part.

It's not that the laws don't apply to casinos, it's that the laws don't apply to native american reservations.
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
davepc Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Jan-08-06 11:43 PM
Response to Reply #112
189. Atlantic City Casinos are not native american reservations.
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
merwin Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Jan-08-06 11:54 PM
Response to Reply #189
205. I was referring to WA. Not sure about other states' laws.
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
TahitiNut Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Jan-08-06 11:07 PM
Response to Reply #6
152. How about outdoor stadiums?
:eyes: We're not just talking about in the seats, either. Anywhere.
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
misanthrope Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Jan-08-06 11:45 PM
Response to Reply #6
196. Every casino I've ever been in...
...has excellent air filtration and circulation systems.
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
ScreamingMeemie Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Jan-08-06 09:24 PM
Response to Original message
7. If we were as obnoxious to people who drive exhaust spewing cars
I could see being obnoxious to smokers. Until then....it's a bunch of crap. :hi:
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
jpgray Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Jan-08-06 09:26 PM
Response to Reply #7
10. Elegantly said
That's the point I was trying to make on the SUV business. :hi:
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
ScreamingMeemie Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Jan-08-06 09:27 PM
Response to Reply #10
14. I can totally forsee a future in which a person is told,"Sir/Madam,
due to the fact that you appear to be 20 pounds over your projected weight, we are required by law to refuse service to you.", as well, if we continue on with this. :hi:
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
SPKrazy Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Jan-08-06 11:09 PM
Response to Reply #14
156. Maybe, but my fat doesn't directly affect your health
whereas (if you smoke) smoking in my vicinity does.

I'd like to lose my fat, and I'm working on it.

Maybe it would do me good if I had to lose weight to go to restaurants. I wouldn't like it, but I don't like my fat either!
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
Little Star Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jan-09-06 10:39 AM
Response to Reply #156
260. What about
your fat effects my insurance bills? Not that I believe that crap either, its just the excuse they use to up the rates.
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
SPKrazy Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jan-09-06 05:41 PM
Response to Reply #260
346. That would be an indirect downstream effect of my fat
but as far as an immediate direct HEALTHCARE danger, my fat is harmless, unless it bumps you into the street or something. (I'm not that fat, but I'd like to lose about 50 lbs)
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
Harper_is_Bush Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Jan-08-06 09:28 PM
Response to Reply #7
16. What nonsense...
Indoor smoking is more enclosed and the effect more direct and significant.

Yes, cars pollute and affect health. So then what? Anyone who causes ANY pollution cannot object to second hand smoke and call for a ban?

And how is supporting a ban "obnoxious" exactly?
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
ScreamingMeemie Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Jan-08-06 09:30 PM
Response to Reply #16
21. What nonsense...
Edited on Sun Jan-08-06 09:35 PM by MrsGrumpy
Tell that to my grandmother...a sufferer of emphysema, who never smoked a day in her life...nor did her husband. What she did do, was live in a major metropolis...populated by many drivers. Until you're ready to ride a bike daily and eschew that which makes your life convenient all the while polluting the breathing space of others...I call crap.


and, on edit: To claim that the treatment of smokers by many (not all) people who support a nonsmoking ban is not obnoxious is to be totally obtuse. Check out the archives on this subject.
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
Harper_is_Bush Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Jan-08-06 09:34 PM
Original message
And the job to limit vehicle emisions in large cities is underway..
so why should it not extend to smoking in enclosed spaces as well, which is as bad or worse as what your grandmother put up with?

I don't understand what you "call crap" on here.

Are you in favor of allowing smokers to polute enclosed spaces?

Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
ScreamingMeemie Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Jan-08-06 09:38 PM
Response to Original message
35. I do not support a ban, if that's what you mean, and neither does
the rest of my nonsmoking family.

Again, give up the car...maybe I'll pay a bit more attention to your point of view.
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
Harper_is_Bush Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Jan-08-06 09:44 PM
Response to Reply #35
50. Do you use any fossil fuel at all?
If so, then your point of view is equally worth dismissal I guess.

If you say no, then you're a liar.

Learn how to seperate an issue unto itself.

I'm happy to admit I drive a car and it pollutes. Even still, the open air is preferable to breath than an enclosed area full of cigarette smoke, CORRECT?
Yes, correct. Thus, my "point of view" stands regardless of the pollution I (or you) add to the open air.
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
NanceGreggs Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Jan-08-06 10:14 PM
Response to Reply #50
93. By your own words ...
"I'm happy to admit I drive a car and it pollutes. Even still, the open air is preferable to breath(e) than an enclosed area full of cigarette smoke, CORRECT?"

You've just lost your own argument. 'Preferable' to whom? It's your car exhaust that contributes to localized pollution, acid rain, the depletion of the ozone layer, and global warming.

I live downtown in a major city (Toronto), and even though this city is cleaner by comparison to most, the air here (especially in the summer months) is often 'chunky-style', i.e. visibly full of pollution, which can smelled for miles.

That's NOT cigarette smoke, sweety. THAT'S your car! As I've said elsewhere on this thread, you can go into non-smoking buildings and escape cigarette smoke. Where do I go to escape the air I have to breathe every time I step OUTSIDE?
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
Harper_is_Bush Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Jan-08-06 10:19 PM
Response to Reply #93
98. Preferable by all scientific measure.
It's not open to your interpretation.
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
NanceGreggs Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Jan-08-06 11:00 PM
Response to Reply #98
143. Scientific measure?
You've gotta be kiddin'. The 'scientfic measures' are well known -- it ain't no cigarette smoke that's causing the depletion of the ozone layer, or global warming.
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
Harper_is_Bush Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jan-09-06 09:48 AM
Response to Reply #143
251. Ozone layer/global warming?
I'm talking about air quality and it's affect on those breathing it.

Are you going to tell me that the air in an enclosed room full of smokers is just as good as the air outside?

Debate in good faith please.
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
Zhade Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jan-09-06 03:15 AM
Response to Reply #93
238. Whatever happened to "they're BOTH bad for people"?
Neither one is to be ignored, IMHO.

Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
misanthrope Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Jan-08-06 11:50 PM
Response to Reply #21
200. I did give up the car...
...and commuted by bicycle for years. Unfortunately, my emphysema has made that a difficult order now.

Does that mean I'm still free to hold my opinion?
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
SoCalDem Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Jan-08-06 09:30 PM
Response to Reply #16
22. or scales installed at the" order counter" of bakeries and pizza places
and your weight is announced as you approach. The clerk informs you that you are entirely too fat to be eating donuts or pizza or ice cream or whatever.
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
Harper_is_Bush Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Jan-08-06 09:37 PM
Response to Reply #22
34. Good grief. How would me eating donuts or pizza hurt others?
How does a ban on smoking in enclosed public places in anyway compare?

Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
SoCalDem Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Jan-08-06 10:03 PM
Response to Reply #34
78. Health issues for others affect MY premiums
:P...of course that's one of the "issues" the smoking nazis use regarding medical insurance:)
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
Harper_is_Bush Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Jan-08-06 10:07 PM
Response to Reply #78
87. Oh, so your premiums are akin to your lungs?
Give it up.
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
SoCalDem Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Jan-08-06 10:10 PM
Response to Reply #87
90. .
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
erinlough Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Jan-08-06 10:03 PM
Response to Reply #34
79. Your (and my, by the way) extra pounds
cause health care costs to rise by burdening the insurance industry with totally preventable disease. We consume a disproportionate level of care and expense to the industry thereby driving up costs for everyone and prohibiting the companies from being able to offer health care to their workers. Now...that is not my idea, but it is fast becoming the argument for the government regulating even more of our choices.
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
Harper_is_Bush Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Jan-08-06 10:08 PM
Response to Reply #79
88. see above.
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
GodHelpUsAll2 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Jan-08-06 11:53 PM
Response to Reply #34
203. How does it hurt
Your over eating and packing on the fat along with the rest of the country causes many many health problems. Heart attacks, strokes, mobility issues and the list goes on. All of the overweight people have to be treated for overweight issues which causes the rates of insurance to soar which in turn causes me to not be able to afford it so I get to die in the waiting room of a county hospital waiting for a doctor to treat me while all the heart attacks and breathing failures and whatever else is being treated all because of the populations inability to say no to krispy creams. Trust me, it hurts others daily.

Now, is obesity the ONLY thing causing insurance to go through the roof? No. But it sure is way up on the list.
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
progressivebydesign Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jan-09-06 12:02 PM
Response to Reply #34
278. It doesn't. Smokers are just martyrs, that's all. n/t
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
NanceGreggs Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Jan-08-06 09:42 PM
Response to Reply #16
43. Have you ever flown into LA or another US city ...
... and seen the yellow cloud that sits perpetually above it? That's not nicotine, my friend; that's exhaust from gas-guzzling cars, SUVs, and the like, as well as corporate pollution that the gov't invariably turns a blind eye to.

I smoke, but I am a conscientious non-driver; I use public transportation. The difference here is that you have non-smoking establishments in which to eat, drink, etc.

Where are the non-carbon monoxide sections of US towns and cities?

Where are the streets encased in plastic bubbles that protect we non-drivers from the pollution spewed into the air by people who HAVE TO DRIVE their SUV everywhere, because they're above taking the subway or a bus?

It's been more than proven unequivocally that gasoline emissions far outweigh the pollution caused by cigarette smokers -- so why aren't we going after the BIG polluters, before we go after the small-fry?
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
Harper_is_Bush Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Jan-08-06 09:51 PM
Response to Reply #43
61. The comparison is moot.
Your argument is basically this:

There is car pollution everywhere and no restriction on it, therefore there should be no restriction on me polluting enclosed spaces with cigarettes.

I see this car point brought up again and again.

I don't want any cars running in the restaurant either! let's ban running cars indoors at the same time as we ban smoking indoors, OK?
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
misanthrope Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Jan-08-06 11:58 PM
Response to Reply #43
207. Huh?...
"The difference here is that you have non-smoking establishments in which to eat, drink, etc."

Uh, no, we don't. Not here. That's why we went out for sushi the other night and ended up heading home after driving to every one of the four sushi places in our town.

We can rarely go listen to music. We can't go out and meet friends for a drink. We can barely go to restaurants. As ridiculous as it sounds, we had to move our location at an outdoor musical event three times last August due to the number of cigarette smokers there.
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
NanceGreggs Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jan-09-06 01:05 AM
Response to Reply #207
220. Where do you live ...
... that isn't part of this smoking ban thing?

If you TRULY can't eat, drink, or enjoy music in a non-smoking environment, that is JUST AS BAD as not being able to enjoy the same things in a smoking venue (of that's your choice).

So where is it you're talking about? I'm truly curious.
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
misanthrope Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jan-09-06 10:37 AM
Response to Reply #220
259. Mobile, AL...
...Last year, a pilot on an arriving flight at our barely-existing regional airport announced to his passengers after touching down, "Welcome to Mobile. You can now set your clocks back 30 years."

It created howls of outrage as most unadulterated truth does.

My only beef was that, in some ways, he gave Mobile about 20 years of credit it doesn't deserve.

Let's put it this way: when an upper-middle class writer from Natchez, Mississippi (a small plantation town still firmly ensconced in the Old South) describes the town thusly, "The races in Mobile appear to remain far more separate than in other Southern cities," it says a lot.
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
TahitiNut Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Jan-08-06 11:09 PM
Response to Reply #16
158. "Indoor"? Like covered sports stadiums you mean?
Like Ford Field? :eyes: (Yes, smoking is banned everywhere inside Ford Field and many other enclosed sports stadiums. Outdoor stadiums, too. E.g. Pac Bell Park.)
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
mitchtv Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Jan-08-06 09:42 PM
Response to Reply #7
44. Weed smokers have always had the good taste and decorum
to step outside or go to a seperate room, unlike the ciggy people.
I often give the pinky finger salute to Hummer drivers
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
Touchdown Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Jan-08-06 10:07 PM
Response to Reply #44
85. For a second I thought you said good taste and "decorating"
Lawn chairs, TV trays and a tie dyed Bob Marley flag in the basement will make any person with actual taste gag, and could be more detrimental to society than tobacco users.;)
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
Telly Savalas Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Jan-08-06 10:57 PM
Response to Reply #7
135. As someone who's ambivalent about the bans, I gotta say...
you've raised a great point. It'd be really nice if we could even get half as much enthusiasm towards expanding public transportation in North America as there is towards the banning smoking in public spaces crusade. For those of us living in big cities, air pollution from car exhaust is a much worse problem than smoking.
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
GodHelpUsAll2 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jan-09-06 12:08 AM
Response to Reply #135
212. You will never see it
Won't happen. Because the issue at hand is not "I'm protecting everyone's health". That's a load of crap. All it is, is a group that latched onto something they personally didn't like and decided they would jump on that high horse with the political nazi's. If this many people were REALLY concerned with public health they would be lobbying for health insurance, clean air OUTSIDE of Joe's bar and host of other things. But that's not the case. The big concern here is not that "I would like to frequent Joe's bar so I would like the air inside of it to be smoke free" it's just I want to tell YOU what to do. The people that are on this crusade are not likely at all to go to any of the places they are having fits about. It's nothing more than an opportunity for them to feel superior in their self centered petty little world.
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
Telly Savalas Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jan-09-06 06:49 PM
Response to Reply #212
362. Help! Help! I'm being oppressed!
:eyes:

Nah, it's just some people don't want to smell stinky-ass cigarette smoke when they go to a restaurant. Air pollution, while being much more of a health threat, isn't as obvious or immediate, so people find it easier to ignore.
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
misanthrope Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Jan-08-06 11:46 PM
Response to Reply #7
198. The next time...
...I park my car next to your table and keep it idling, you've got a point.
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
Inland Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jan-09-06 04:12 PM
Response to Reply #7
326. Except that smokers also drive the exhaust spewing cars.
I guess if one were forced to choose between a car or smokes, I could see your point.
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
Harper_is_Bush Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Jan-08-06 09:25 PM
Response to Original message
9. Should I be free to scatter asbestos where I want?
Seriously, on the surface it sounds reasonable to say "Restaurants should be free to decide", but if they all decide to permit smoking, then where can people not wanting negative health effects go to eat? Or workers who don't want negative health effects to to work?

No, the only sane move is a blanket ban.
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
jpgray Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Jan-08-06 09:27 PM
Response to Reply #9
12. That's more of a malicious act than secondhand smoke
But SUVs are free to scatter carcinogens wherever they want. Isn't that what smokers do?
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
Harper_is_Bush Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Jan-08-06 09:31 PM
Response to Reply #12
25. Oh, so INTENT is important here? Just because those smokers..
aren't smoking in a malicious way....meaning they don't wish any harm on anyone (even though they are perpetrating harm) then it's OK?

And all the comparisons to vehicles are a little boring and pointless. I don't want you running your Prius in the restaurant either!
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
jpgray Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Jan-08-06 09:34 PM
Response to Reply #25
29. Pointless and boring perhaps, but accurate
And I don't say that everyone can smoke everywhere, I just say there should be both smoking and non-smoking establishments.
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
Harper_is_Bush Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Jan-08-06 09:40 PM
Response to Reply #29
40. No, not accurate at all.
The air that all those vehicles are spewing into is preferable to an enclosed space with smokers in it.

"And I don't say that everyone can smoke everywhere, I just say there should be both smoking and non-smoking establishments."
So, if all establishments choose to allow smoking, what then?
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
jpgray Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Jan-08-06 09:58 PM
Response to Reply #40
73. Do you really believe that's likely?
I don't know for sure, but I think bar/dining room mixes in the vein of TGIF would see a severe loss of business if they went "all-smoking." I think it's unrealistic to assume all would choose the smoking route, though it is possible.
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
misanthrope Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jan-09-06 12:03 AM
Response to Reply #73
209. Come to Mobile, AL...
...where you can smoke anywhere anytime. There's no such animal as "non-smoking" here unless you're at a medical facility or office building.
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
Viva_La_Revolution Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Jan-08-06 10:38 PM
Response to Reply #25
116. How do you feel about the city that has now banned all smoking
at bus stops and transit centers?

Outdoors, right next to the road with big diesel buses driving by every few seconds. Have they gone too far, or is that ok with you too?
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
Ms. Toad Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Jan-08-06 09:42 PM
Response to Reply #12
46. Generally SUVs do not scatter them in enclosed places
in concentrated quantities from which one cannot escape.

I am required to participate in a daily lunch (job requirement) in a restaurant which permits smoking. Even though we sit in a non-smoking section when we can (and generally we wait until the only non-smoking table large enough to accommodate us is available), since it is not walled off with a separate ventilation system I have to breathe smoke filled air for about an hour every day.

Aside from whatever the long term consequences are on my health, it makes me nauseous and aggravates my migraine headaches.

If this were in the open air, as cars are, I could tolerate it. Since it is an a single room restaurant, I am strongly agitating for a smoking ban in restaurants.

Economic arguments don't work in my case (take your business elsewhere). There is really no other place to go. I am not in control of the $11,000 or so our group spends at this restaurant annually and have no choice in the matter. If I did, it is unlikely that it would impact the management's decision since (1) they are all smokers and (2) we have tried requesting special accommodations in the past in connection with menu changes, for example, and have not received them.
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
jpgray Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Jan-08-06 10:07 PM
Response to Reply #46
86. For those who must use parking garages, they do
And I would say that these days you are far more likely to encounter a few dozen instances of SUV exhaust than you are to encounter a few dozen smokers blowing so near you as to give you second-hand smoke.
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
Ms. Toad Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jan-09-06 10:20 PM
Response to Reply #86
372. You would be wrong.
In an average workday I encounter no SUVs close enough to blow exhaust on me, and never in a parking garage (enclosed or otherwise). I encounter at least two and as often as many as 6 smokers every workday to which I am exposed for a minimum of 45 minutes, generally closer to an hour. I have counted as many as six cigarettes consumed during lunch by each one of these smokers. About a third of the time they are seated at the adjacent table and they are never more than 3 tables away in a closed room with low ceilings and ceiling fans which just spread the smoke around the enclosed room. On the worst days there is not only cigarette smoke but cigar smoke.

As indicated, this is a job requirement - I can neither skip nor choose a different restaurant. My only hope for relief is a smoking ban which, frankly, cannot come quickly enough.
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
MercutioATC Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Jan-08-06 09:33 PM
Response to Reply #9
28. I believe it should be market-driven.
There are plenty of people who are bothered by secondhand smoke...enough to create a market for smoke-free establishments. If the market exists, it WILL be utilized.

Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
bee Donating Member (894 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Jan-08-06 09:36 PM
Response to Reply #9
33. but why stop there?
According to the ALA:

"Household cleaning agents, personal care products, pesticides, paints, hobby products, and solvents may be sources of hundreds of potentially harmful chemicals. Such components in many household and personal care products can cause dizziness, nausea, allergic reactions, eye/skin/respiratory tract irritation, and cancer."

is a blanket ban in order? Im a non-hairsprayer... why should I be forced to breathe in some one elses nasty chemicals just because I have to go pee? :shrug:

http://www.lungusa.org/site/pp.asp?c=dvLUK9O0E&b=35381
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
Harper_is_Bush Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Jan-08-06 09:46 PM
Response to Reply #33
53. So if we are to ban something, then it must be everything or nothing?
The objection is childish.


Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
bee Donating Member (894 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jan-09-06 11:19 AM
Response to Reply #53
268. its not an objection. and its not childish.
if the argument is that smoking must be banned for the good of peoples health. Then why not be consistent? If you are to be protected from me, then I would also like to be protected from you. (not you per se... but the collective 'you').
As a side note... I do smoke, chemical free organic cigarettes. No carcinogens. And bans dont bother me.
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
catnhatnh Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Jan-08-06 09:42 PM
Response to Reply #9
42. "Let the Free Market Work It's Magic".....
...if it's good enough for workplace safety Regs than it's good enough for second hand smoke....
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
NanceGreggs Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Jan-08-06 10:00 PM
Response to Reply #9
75. We had a 'free-to-choose' bylaw here in Toronto ...
... for several years. It worked beautifully. Bar/restaurant owners had a choice, based on their personal preferences and/or the prevailing penchants of their regular customers.

Everyone was happy. Non-smoking establishments attracted non-smoking customers and staff, and vice versa.

Nobody lost business, because customers who left to go to the 'other' kind of bar or restaurant were replaced by those whose preferred 'this' kind of establishment.

That bylaw, unfortunately, was ended last year. Since that time, bars and restaurants are going out of business all over the city. We live downtown near a major street, and six bars and two restaurants, all long well-established businesses, have gone under in the past twelve months -- and have not been replaced.

So there goes the 'everyone will decided to be a smoking bar' argument. I would also add that ten years ago, LONG before this was ever an issue here or anywhere else, there were OVER 450 restaurant/ bars who declared themselves non-smoking establishments -- BY THEIR OWN CHOICE, to cater to the non-smokers.

The height of stupidity and arrogance, IMHO, is when there is a viable solution to a problem that satsifies BOTH sides of an issue, and one side stands up and says, "NO, it's GOT TO BE MY WAY."

Compromise that results in a win-win situation for both sides should be not only preferable, but OBVIOUS.

I have never disagreed with a no-smoking policy in offices, public buildings, or movie theatres -- but to not allow bar/restaurant owners and patrons the ability to CHOOSE the environment in which they spend their leisure hours is beyond ridiculous - it's non-democratic.
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
Harper_is_Bush Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Jan-08-06 10:03 PM
Response to Reply #75
77. The "going out of business" argument is BS
In Winnipeg business didn't suffer. My wife and I go out a lot more now that places are smoke free.

The idea that business suffers is just plain wrong.
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
NanceGreggs Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Jan-08-06 10:25 PM
Response to Reply #77
104. Tell that to the restaurant and bar owners ...
... who have gone out of business. We were told this BS in Toronto -- but the stats don't bear it out.

Just because you and your wife go out a lot more doesn't mean anything -- we smokers go out less. If every smoker who stopped eating or drinking out was replaced by a non-smoker who didn't used to go out, your case would hold water.

But the reality is quite different than that. If non-smokers were (as we were told they would) suddenly going out to places in droves that they'd eschewed in the past, the number of patrons in bars and restuarants would be at a status quo. But they're not.

We have restaurants and bars that are now boarded up - they haven't been 'bought up' by people opening non-smoking establishments. I also have many friends in the wait-staff business who are out of work for the first time in their careers, and others who have been cut down to part-time because the places they work have fewer customers.

The proof is always in the pudding -- and the 'pudding' has now shown itself to be a loss of business all over the GTA.
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
William Bloode Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Jan-08-06 10:40 PM
Response to Reply #77
117. No it's not Bs.
In my state they already did a ban in restraunts, and bars. After about 1 yr they had to repeal it and fix it to allow such buisness to have smoking allowed, but a seperate sections for each.

They had to do this because places were loosing money. There are a ton of people out there who only smoke occasionaly, like when they go out to eat, or when they go drinking. Also they found that many did not stick around long, and would just eat and run. Or have just a drink or to and run off. While when smoking was allowed these people stayed longer and spent more money.

If it was bullshit my state would not have repealed the law in the first place. It was not smokers that lobbied and spent so much money to have it changed, it was buisness owners.
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
High Plains Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Jan-08-06 10:16 PM
Response to Reply #9
95. If all the restaurants decide to permit smoking
there must not be a market for non-smoking restaurants. If there are indeed large numbers of people who don't want to go to smoky restaurants, non-smoking restaurants will prosper. Then you go go to your non-smoking restaurant and I can go to my smoke-filled one and everybody will be happy.

A blanket ban is not a sane move, but an attempt to remove freedom from others in order to satisfy your prejudices.
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
Harper_is_Bush Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Jan-08-06 10:23 PM
Response to Reply #95
101. If Bush decides to go to war with Iraq
Edited on Sun Jan-08-06 10:23 PM by Harper_is_Bush
there must not be a market for no war with Iraq.
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
High Plains Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Jan-08-06 10:56 PM
Response to Reply #101
133. That's just silly.
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
EstimatedProphet Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jan-09-06 10:48 AM
Response to Reply #101
262. Bush decided to go to war with Iraq ON HIS OWN
He didn't ask us, remember? As a matter of fact, he told us to shut up.

You cannot possibly believ that a state that enacts an complete smoking ban, by the vote of the people, is going to have all smoking bars and restaurants if given a choice. That argument is paranoid.
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
Deja Q Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Jan-08-06 09:27 PM
Response to Original message
13. I agree. Besides, when compared to smoking,
'fast food' makes smoking seem like a health BENEFIT by comparison.
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
NanceGreggs Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Jan-08-06 10:06 PM
Response to Reply #13
82. My husband's proposed 'ad campaign' when ...
... McDonald's became non-smoking:

"Now enjoy your nutrition-free meal in a smoke-free environment."
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
firefox Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Jan-08-06 09:28 PM
Response to Original message
15. It is the smoke people hate and not the smokers.
Edited on Sun Jan-08-06 09:37 PM by firefox
I am for the relegalization of laughing grass to say the least, but I do not believe you have the right to pollute the air of another with either tobacco or pot, although there is such a thing as accommodation. I think that smoking tobacco in front of children is child abuse and with good reason. It exposes them to an addictive substance and a substance with real health concerns.

And you are absolutely incorrect in the phrasing of your heading linking hatred to smokers.
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
Touchdown Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Jan-08-06 10:17 PM
Response to Reply #15
96. Bullshit.
You may say you hate the smoke, but your post says otherwise.

" I think that smoking tobacco in front of children is child abuse and with good reason."

Almost as hyperbolic as some of Bill O'Reilly's tantrums, just as hateful towards PEOPLE, not their activities, and just as loony as anything that comes out of his mouth.
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
firefox Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jan-09-06 04:25 PM
Response to Reply #96
328. You made my ignore list
Giving a child asthma certainly is child abuse. Getting them addicted to cigarettes is child abuse. I guess you never heard about "coming to smoking honestly."

Goodbye.
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
MercutioATC Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Jan-08-06 09:28 PM
Response to Original message
17. My issue is with the "employee rights" thing.
Edited on Sun Jan-08-06 09:28 PM by MercutioATC
The claim that employees that work in bars or restaurants have the right to work in a smoke-free environment is ridiculous to me.

There are plenty of occupations where performing your duties poses a health risk. Working in the hospitality industry in the capacity of a server of some type means that your JOB is to make people comfortable. If they're comfortable smoking, it's your JOB to work with that.

Don't like it? Work in another industry. Restaurants should have the right to be smoke-free if they WISH, but there shouldn't be legislation requiring it...certainly not based on employee "rights".

My view is that there are people who smoke. Smoking may be harmful to your health, but it's not illegal. Those people who smoke might occasionally want to dine (or drink) out. A business owner should have the freedom to cater to those people's desires.

There are also people who don't smoke and are bothered by secondhand smoke. A business owner should have the freedon to cater to these people's desires too.


If you want to eat out and don't want secondhand smoke, eat at a place that has voluntarily restricted it.

If you want to work in the hospitality industry and don't want to deal with secondhand smoke, get a job at an establishment that has voluntarily restricted smoking.


Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
jpgray Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Jan-08-06 09:31 PM
Response to Reply #17
26. That's exactly my view
In Ramsey County, for example, we have a somewhat sensible law that bans smoking in establishments whose sales of liquor account for less than half their total sales. Those establishments which have more than half of their sales made up of liquor can apply for a waiver to allow smoking. I would think that having some establishments which allow it and some which don't would provide the happiest medium.
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
mike_c Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Jan-08-06 09:42 PM
Response to Reply #26
45. but DO any of the bars that COULD prohibit smoking...
...actually do so? I could see the validity of your argument if there really was a range of possible outcomes, but in reality, if smoking is permitted in ANY bars or restaurants, it will be allowed in ALL bars and restaurants, because the bar owners will never willingly limit their customer base.
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
jpgray Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Jan-08-06 09:47 PM
Response to Reply #45
55. That's a good point
I'm not sure what the answer to that would be. My guess is that in a lot of the bar/dining room chains like TGIF and its ilk would likely go non-smoking. More bohemian college-student-ish places would probably choose to remain smoking. The bar I serve in has a sealed off smoking lounge. I don't have any figures or anything for how sealed off it is, but I know I can't smell a whiff of smoke outside of it while the odor is quite potent (damn stogies) within, and it is fairly thoroughly sealed and has air filtration systems in place. And yes, I choose not to work in the smoking lounge. :D
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
High Plains Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Jan-08-06 10:21 PM
Response to Reply #45
99. I don't know about bars, but many restaurants are non-smoking
There is a market for non-smoking restaurants. Maybe there's less of one for non-smoking bars.
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
EstimatedProphet Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jan-09-06 10:56 AM
Response to Reply #45
263. they will limit their customer base if they believe it will benefit them
And, in a case like we are discussing with a statewide smoking ban on the books, the situation is politically charged enough that there will be quite a lot of owners who see the benefits of choosing to cater only to non-smokers.
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
mike_c Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jan-09-06 11:07 AM
Response to Reply #263
266. well, that simply did not happen in my town...
...where EVERY bar owner predicted that the California smoking ban would utterly destroy his business. It didn't, of course-- didn't even have any effect-- but prior to the ban every one of them was convinced that he would lose business if smoking was prohibited in his bar. And since smokers are addicted to tobacco, every one of them was probably correct about losing smokers' business if the smokers had anywhere else to drink and smoke-- prior to the blanket prohibition, NOT ONE BAR in my town was smoke free, and the chances of any of them banning smoking on their own were slim to none.
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
EstimatedProphet Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jan-09-06 11:58 AM
Response to Reply #266
275. But what I'm saying is:
If you have an area that has enough nonsmokers that are politically active enough to try and pass a smoking ban, then the restaurants in that area would likely not all become smoking restaurants. It would be bad business to do so. So there will be businesses that will become non-smoking.
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
mike_c Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jan-09-06 12:26 PM
Response to Reply #275
284. smokers are a distinct MINORITY in this town....
I live in a university town in Northern California, where far more people do not smoke than do. The conditions would seem to be ripe for the economic model you suggest, but it never happened. Maybe if non-smokers simply refused to patronize businesses that permitted smoking, but that would have meant a complete boycott, because there were none that prohibited it prior to the state law. So the bar owners got the best of both worlds-- non-smokers patronized them, because they had no alternative, and they believed that banning smoking-- thus creating that alternative-- would simply result in their smoking customers going elsewhere, a net loss of business.

Under the smoking ban, they still have the best of both worlds in terms of the customer base, it's just that now the smokers are the ones without alternatives.
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
mongo Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jan-09-06 02:10 PM
Response to Reply #45
302. My city doesn't have any kind of smoking ban
Yet there are plenty of totally non-smoking restaurants and a couple of BARS.

So, your argument is false. The non-smoking bars are doing fine -- one of them is really going gangbusters. There was a NEED and an enterprising person met the MARKET DEMAND.

Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
catnhatnh Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Jan-08-06 09:45 PM
Response to Reply #17
52. Bingo.....where is the workplace safety concern.....
...for those twelve miners whose safety was ignored by the government???In a safe coal mine black lung is still a given-the guy who lived was the "least experienced" as in he was the one who retained the largest amount of his breathing capaciry.....
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
William Bloode Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Jan-08-06 10:50 PM
Response to Reply #17
126. Great point!
I worked in cotton mills, furniture factories, and mixing concrete. All these places were full of harmful particles in the air. I am sure between the cotton fiber, the saw dust, lacquer, and concrete dust i had more damage done to my lungs than any 2nd hand smoke ever would have caused.
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
SmokingJacket Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Jan-08-06 09:28 PM
Response to Original message
19. I agree -- restaurants should be able to decide to allow smoking.
I'm a non-smoker, and hate the smell of the stuff, and personally would never go into a restaurant that allowed it. But sheesh -- it DOES happen to be legal. As long as people can choose to avoid it I think we should lay off the rampant banning.

New York state, where I live, banned smoking from restaurants. I can now frequent restaurants that I wouldnt' before. But I don't know... I still don't feel right denying smokers that pleasure. Pleasures are hard to come by these days.
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
noamnety Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Jan-08-06 09:29 PM
Response to Original message
20. This is the second time in a week
I've seen spewing cigarette smoke for others to ingest equated to homosexuality on DU. One causes cancer and kills people. The other hurts nobody.

Please find another comparison to use; this one is offensive.
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
jpgray Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Jan-08-06 09:34 PM
Response to Reply #20
30. Only people replying are making those comparisons
Edited on Sun Jan-08-06 09:36 PM by jpgray
I compare the way the two groups are used politically. Please note the difference.
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
noamnety Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Jan-08-06 09:38 PM
Response to Reply #30
37. Any comparison is inappropriate
The neocons claim that gays harm society in some way. That's very different than cigarette smoke, which actually kills people.

The two arguments do NOT have the same legitimacy.
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
jpgray Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Jan-08-06 09:40 PM
Response to Reply #37
38. That's all I was saying, that the two groups are used in similar ways
I didn't say that the argument "gays hurt society" is valid, I just noted it was made. And it is made, and that phenomenon "I'm not one myself, I believe it hurts society, therefore I ban it" is important to note.
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
noamnety Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Jan-08-06 09:50 PM
Response to Reply #38
59. Try making the same argument with drunk driving instead of gays
Drunk drivers hurt society, so we should ban drunk driving.

Same argument. Why not use that, instead of equating banning gays because they supposedly harm society to banning cigarette smoke, which kills people?

We work towards eliminating things that are harmful to society. That's what we should be doing, whether the harm is pollutants, drunk driving, murder, theft, corruption, vote tampering, etc. Unless you are trying to argue that we shouldn't eliminate things that hurt society because that's what the right does, there's no logical connection here at all.

It appears more like you are trying to set up a false equivalency, one between banning things for theocratic reasons, vs. banning things that kill people.
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
jpgray Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Jan-08-06 10:11 PM
Response to Reply #59
92. I should have made a different comparison
Edited on Sun Jan-08-06 10:13 PM by jpgray
I thought it was clear that I wasn't at all comparing gays and smokers directly which I would never do (for starters one is a choice one is not; one causes harm, one does not), but I guess that impression is there even though I didn't intend for it to be there. I'm sorry to anyone who got that impression.
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
Touchdown Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Jan-08-06 10:24 PM
Response to Reply #59
102. We should force the wearing of spandex for all gays.
...and ban them for straights. My gaydar's broken, and I need a date! Not being able to tell is infringing on my rights to get laid.;)

(I have nothing to add to this debate)
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
MercutioATC Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Jan-08-06 09:40 PM
Response to Reply #30
39. That's what I was going to point out.
I don't think anybody's equating the two issues. They're drawing a similarity between the ways the two issues are handled at times.
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
GrpCaptMandrake Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Jan-08-06 09:36 PM
Response to Reply #20
32. But what about gay smokers?
Now *there's* a group with no rights!
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
Cats Against Frist Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Jan-08-06 11:31 PM
Response to Reply #20
178. Technically, there is no evidence that homosexuality is genetic
Or, what evidence there is, is speculation, at best. I think that most serious psychologists and researchers, who have no agenda, see it as a potentially genetic condition, while recognizing that the psychological and environmental play as large as, if not a larger, role. If this is the case, then it is possible that there are alternatives to homosexuality.

Homosexuality does put one at risk. Obviously, the AIDS virus is the first problem. The second, is that homosexuals are victims of discrimination and murder, and homosexual relationships have a tendency to be more violent than heterosexual relationships. In addition, while it doesn't harm society, directly, societal conventions and mores have to change to be more accomodating of a "rainbow" of relationships -- meaning that society does have to sacrifice. One example of sacrifice would be state or federal employees being allowed to extend benefits to their partners.

It is, of course, not the same thing, at all, but the comparison that the OP made is on a different plane of thinking, altogether. In essence, it's not that society has to allow homosexuality to be "possible," but that it has to accomodate homosexuality, not only in terms of resources and recognition, but in a psychological space that is difficult for much of humanity to bear. It is the same with all rights and responsibilities. Allowing a restauranteur or bar owner to choose whether or not to allow smoking, and allowing patrons and workers the choice of whether or not to go is freedom -- it's non-intrusive, and there is always a solution that is fair to everyone: no one should be forced to do anything.

The workplace argument only stuck, because it convinced enough people, it, in and of itself is arbitrary, and has nothing to do with the granting of natural rights. It is social engineering. People may be permitted, in the same way, to social engineer anything else they might find objectionable, or can make one peripheral argument stick to -- homosexuality being especially salient, on this point.

In that sense, the comparison is apt. Both banning gay marriage and a smoking ban are arbitrary authoritarian, socially engineered plots. Their foundations are the same.
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
Raster Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jan-09-06 11:27 PM
Response to Reply #178
378. "Homosexuality does put one at risk." Bullshit.
BULLETIN: AIDS affects far more straight people than it does gays. "Homosexual relationships have a tendency to be more violent than heterosexual relationships"? Where are you getting this shit? Seriously. And this "I think most serious psychologists and researchers..." Who elected you their spokesperson?
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
MrModerate Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Jan-08-06 09:31 PM
Response to Original message
24. Smoking bans are good public policy . . .
And on a human rights level, do you really want employees chosing between cancer and poverty? Except for the accidents of history that have made smoking a common human vice/pasttime, OSHA'd ban it in an instant.

Besides, they've implemented extensive bans in lots of places and the bars and restaurants haven't suffered one whit.

I won't go into the cost/benefit analysis already mentioned above, save to say there's NO benefit from smoking. For gosh sakes, it doesn't even make you high!

And I think most liberals can get behind a statement such as "your free will ends where my face begins." As a former smoker and friend of smokers, I don't think class has anything to do with it. Smoking as a behavior endangers those unwillingly subjected to its effects, so it's legitimate to restrict it.

Outdoor bans are excessive, however.
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
MercutioATC Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Jan-08-06 09:38 PM
Response to Reply #24
36. I want to be a mechanic, but I don't want to get dirty.
Does reason dictate that the country legislate the issue to "protect" my "rights" or is it more reasonable that I choose a different job?

***News Flash***
Some people who frequent bars and/or restaurants smoke. If you have an aversion to smoke this is, perhaps, not the best career choice for you.
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
obxhead Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Jan-08-06 09:50 PM
Response to Reply #36
58. Yes...
If you hate kids don't get a job in a day care. I know. It's a stretch, but If someone has no tolerance for something they should choose another field of work.
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
MrModerate Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Jan-08-06 09:51 PM
Response to Reply #36
62. OSHA protects mechanics from the deletarious effects . . .
of industrial solvents, greases, gasses, etc. Shouldn't they do the same for food service workers?

In many jurisdictions, food service workers can apply for work at any establishment with confidence that they will not be exposed to toxic smoke.

I'm supposed to think this is a bad thing?
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
MindPilot Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jan-09-06 05:14 PM
Response to Reply #62
340. Not true. I was a mechanic for 20 years.
There are OSHA regulations that govern things like venting exhaust to the outside, over-spray filters in the bodyshop's paint booth and other stuff which relates to contaminating the environment. But the mechanic himself is offered very little protection and is still going to inhale a lot of junk. Brake dust, paint fumes, solvent fumes, burning coolant and oil, gas fumes, unless you work totally wrapped up in a hazmat suit--which of course is completely impractical. In some of the small spaces you have to worm into there isn't room even for eye protection let alone some breathing apparatus.
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
The Straight Story Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Jan-08-06 10:24 PM
Response to Reply #24
103. No one is forcing you to get second hand smoke are they???
That is the whole crux of this - choice. You have a choice to go to a place that restricts it - well you USED to have choice. Now the only choice people have is YOURS.

My body, My life, My business if I own it and pay for it.

It is the busy bodys of the world who seem to want to tell others what they can and cannot do, or is that the fundies? Hard to tell the difference sometimes....
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
MrModerate Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Jan-08-06 10:52 PM
Response to Reply #103
128. My primary beef is that by allowing people to smoke . . .
In a restaurant or bar, you force your employees to labor in an unsafe workplace. No employer has that right. No employer has the right to maintain a business in which the working conditions are unsafe, even if the customers prefer it that way.

Also, the vast majority of people don't smoke and don't want to when they eat and drink. Sure, you could have smoking and non-smoking establishments, but that seems impractical to me. And you'd still be killing your employees.
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
The Straight Story Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Jan-08-06 11:14 PM
Response to Reply #128
162. I think most people are adult enough to know these things
and have been for years. You don't like smoking, your employer allows it, work elsewhere.

If there was no business for it then no one would go, no one would work there, and there would not need to make more laws to restrict people and make more criminals.

Your kids do not choose to smoke, so should we ban it at home as well?
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
MrModerate Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Jan-08-06 11:20 PM
Response to Reply #162
168. Sorry, but employers don't have the right . . .
To maintain unsafe workplaces. Period. It's not an adult issue, it's the law. It just hasn't always been applied to tobacco.

And while I have no interest in the state banning smoking in private homes (unless those homes are insufficiently ventilated so people not of your household are forced to smoke), I sure as hell DO ban it in my home!
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
The Straight Story Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Jan-08-06 11:32 PM
Response to Reply #168
179. So if all employees of a small bar smoke
and unionize to be able to smoke with the patrons, we would stop them because it is best for them?

How nice of us....
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
MrModerate Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jan-09-06 08:33 AM
Response to Reply #179
246. You won't find many unions banding together . . .
To give their members the right to smoke. I suppose it's possible.

However, your workplace would still be unsafe, and unfair for applicants for job openings that would inevitably arise in such an establishment.

This isn't really a rights issue, it's a public health issue.
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
mike_c Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Jan-08-06 09:34 PM
Response to Original message
31. truthfully, I think it's in part a reaction against the tobacco industry..
Edited on Sun Jan-08-06 09:35 PM by mike_c
...itself, and so perhaps targeting smokers is a bit misplaced so long as their behavior can be managed in such a way as to permit non-smokers from being imposed upon. Tobacco is a nasty, addictive poison, and the companies that market it are drug dealers, pure and simple. Of course, I strongly support the legalization of OTHER recreational drugs, so I guess I can't begrudge the tobacco companies their right to market addiction and its health consequences. But although it isn't necessarily a logical position, I do begrudge them. I feel the same way about alcohol (even though I'm not a teetotaler by any means).

I think the argument that restaurants and bars can ban smoking or not on an individual basis is too naive-- most business owners won't restrict their own customer base willingly. Bars up here on the north Coast uniformly predicted that their business would suffer disasterously when California outlawed smoking in ALL bars, prior to which ALL bars in this town were generally pretty smoke filled. As far as I can tell, making people smoke outside hasn't hurt their business at all, and it has certainly improved the air quality indoors.
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
NNN0LHI Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Jan-08-06 10:02 PM
Response to Reply #31
76. I avoid restaurants that allow smoking yet I smoke. Go figure n/t
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
proud2BlibKansan Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Jan-08-06 09:43 PM
Response to Original message
48. Today - smokers, tomorrow - fat people, next day - arthritics
That's how I look at it.
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
in_cog_ni_to Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Jan-08-06 09:43 PM
Response to Original message
49. It's all or nothing with non-smokers. They want ALL the restaurants and
ALL the bars. anti-smoking NAZIS. That's what they are. Period. Progressives? my ass. They will see the error of their ways when it's THEM who are being discriminated against and they WILL BE, eventually, for something.

First they came for the Jews
and I did not speak out
because I was not a Jew.
Then they came for the Communists
and I did not speak out
because I was not a Communist.
Then they came for the trade unionists
and I did not speak out
because I was not a trade unionist.
Then they came for me
and there was no one left
to speak out for me.


Pastor Martin Niemöller
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
SidDithers Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Jan-08-06 10:05 PM
Response to Reply #49
81. Yeah, compare non-smokers to Nazi's ...
and poor, persecuted smokers to Jews. That's a really accurate comparison.

Oh, maybe you meant that this time, it's the Jews gassing the Nazis? :crazy:

Sid

Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
in_cog_ni_to Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Jan-08-06 10:37 PM
Response to Reply #81
113. Their BEHAVIOR toward smokers IS Nazi-like. IMCPSO
My husband, a Jewish person, AGREES. HE says that ALL the time. Sorry if you don't like it, it's the truth. That comparison always pisses anti-smokers off. It must hit a nerve. :shrug:
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
we can do it Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Jan-08-06 09:44 PM
Response to Original message
51. I Love Smokers - It's the Smoke That Makes Me Ill....
Sorry - Its a choice that smokers make to harm themselves, they do not need to share it. Being gay is not a choice - nor is the choice given to employees of restaurants who allow smokers to smoke inside. I don't care if you choose to smoke, drink, use drugs (please refrain from driving under the influence, though), go naked - whatever as long as you do not affect others health. Its as simple as that.
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
IDemo Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Jan-08-06 09:58 PM
Response to Reply #51
72. Exactly
I support the right of anybody to use alcohol, tobacco, or cannibis. But doing so in a public venue, be it a restaurant or road, means you have chosen to extend your drug problem beyond your own personal space and into the personal space of others.
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
mitchtv Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Jan-08-06 09:47 PM
Response to Original message
54. while I generally agree with you that the smoke bans
are getting extreme, i have a problem with one point.
"If you do smoke, you are free to go to an establishment which allows it. If you are a waiter/bartender, don't apply to places that allow smoking." ....Suppose you already work there? That's a very RW talking point that needs to be debated. My prejudice would be to Union recommendations in places lucky enough to have them
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
obxhead Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Jan-08-06 09:52 PM
Response to Reply #54
64. Unless you are waiting tables at the age
of 120 chances are that restaurant had a smoking area long before you ever started working there.
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
mitchtv Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Jan-08-06 10:32 PM
Response to Reply #64
108. they were all smoking , every where, not w/smoking sections
so what ? can't improve working conditions?
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
jpgray Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Jan-08-06 09:52 PM
Response to Reply #54
65. I understand what you're saying
But if the bar I serve in forced me to work in our smoking lounge, I would look elsewhere for work. If no "elsewhere" existed, I would look for a different job entirely. But if I'm right (and I have no proof that I am :D) there would be plenty of "elsewheres" out there. And there are usually some occupational hazards in unskilled positions--exposure to carcinogens happens in many blue collar professions; I don't know offhand if that occurs in comparable levels to a busy smoking-allowed bar or not.
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
FireHeart Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Jan-08-06 09:54 PM
Response to Reply #54
68. Florida has banned smoking in all restaraunts
so I am not able to go to an establishment that allows it.
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
SPKrazy Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Jan-08-06 09:52 PM
Response to Original message
63. Because Their smoke kills ME
If I inhale it, it isn't my choice!

Ban smoking in restaurants.

If smokers want to smoke, they can damned well do it outside, or in their cars or homes.
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
High Plains Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Jan-08-06 10:26 PM
Response to Reply #63
105. Why can't you just go to a non-smoking restaurant?
Please tell me why.
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
SPKrazy Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Jan-08-06 10:37 PM
Response to Reply #105
114. Some are non smoking, but not all
why should smoke be allowed in any restaurant????

tell me why?

It is poison to anyone who inhales it.

If you could put a bubble around yourself that kept all the smoke to yourself, then that would be fine.

But why should I limit myself to restaurants that I might like just because they allow smoking?

And non-smoking sections rarely work
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
High Plains Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Jan-08-06 10:47 PM
Response to Reply #114
122. Why should smoke be allowed in any restaurant, you ask?
Maybe the owners, the employees, and the customers like it that way.

Why do you think every establishment must bend itself to your wishes? I really don't understand why people are so totalitarian on this issue.

Look, I'm seeing more and more totally non-smoking restaurants all the time. If I feel like smoking with my meal, I don't go to them. That's my choice. Your preference is not go to restaurants where smoking is allowed. Go there.
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
SPKrazy Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Jan-08-06 10:51 PM
Response to Reply #122
127. It's A Public Health Issue
Edited on Sun Jan-08-06 10:52 PM by Southpawkicker
That should supercede any "individual rights" issues in my opinion.

Besides, can you show me anywhere that banning smoking has shut down any restaurants?

It's always the bogeyman thrown out, that they'll lose their business.

Cities that have banned it, still have plenty, if not more, thriving restaurants!

Where else are the smokers going to go to eat? Are they going to just stay home and cook?

On edit, I'll leave out the personal expletives

Like I said, it's a fucking public health issue.

Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
High Plains Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Jan-08-06 11:02 PM
Response to Reply #127
146. By your authoritarian logic, we should just ban smoking, no?
It is, after all, a public health issue and that trumps individual rights.

Glad to see you lay your cards on the table. And I wasn't going to talk about health fascists.

By the way, I'm not the one making the economic argument. My argument is only about individual rights. I think the rights of both smokers and non-smokers can be accomodated without resorting to blanket bans.
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
SPKrazy Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Jan-08-06 11:05 PM
Response to Reply #146
150. I Don't Care If You Smoke
as I said in another post

If you want to kill yourself with tobacco smoke fine

just don't do it around people that have no choice in the matter with regards to inhaling your poison!
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
High Plains Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Jan-08-06 11:07 PM
Response to Reply #150
154. You don't get it.
Edited on Sun Jan-08-06 11:08 PM by High Plains
You have a choice: Don't go to a place that allows smoking. Is that really so difficult?

If I see a sign on a bar that says "Smoking Allowed," I choose to go in there of my own free will. No one is forcing me. No one is forcing you. You just want to force your preferences on everyone.
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
SPKrazy Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Jan-08-06 11:11 PM
Response to Reply #154
159. I generally don't go where smoking is allowed
and I do get it

What I don't get is that I should have to choose whether to harm my health or go somewhere else.

that's bullshit
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
High Plains Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Jan-08-06 11:23 PM
Response to Reply #159
169. People make decisions like that all the time
I could choose to work in a coal mine, but I've decided the risks aren't worth it.

I used to attend live go-go concerts in DC, but I decided the risk wasn't worth it.

You want to remove choice from others. You don't want people in a bar a hundred miles from where you live to be able to smoke because you might show up one night wanting some smoke-free tofu.

Alright, Southpawkicker. You can have the last word if you wish. Believe it or not, I have better things to do that engage in fruitless debates. Good night.
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
SPKrazy Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jan-09-06 05:55 PM
Response to Reply #169
354. I don't care if they smoke in bars, I'm talking restaurants and other
public places.

I really don't think bars should count.

But some might not want smoke in bars.

I don't go to bars.

Nothing there for me.
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
Cats Against Frist Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Jan-08-06 11:39 PM
Response to Reply #159
186. But that's the thing: YOU DON'T HAVE A RIGHT TO THAT
At no point does your right of "choices of places to go," supercede the right of an owner to allow smoking, and patrons to smoke. You can only enforce that through the tyranny of the majority.

The ONLY reason there is a smoking ban, is because of the workers thing AND the tyranny of the majority, otherwise, there is no basis in law and the granting of natural rights to elevate the immediacy of your "lack of choice" claim, over the smoker's right. None, whatsoever.
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
SPKrazy Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jan-09-06 05:43 PM
Response to Reply #186
347. So now we are into "natural rights"?
Is this the libertarian discussion group?

I thought it was DU

oh well

The "tyranny of the majority", is also known as democracy in action!

Let the people make the rules. Majority rules!
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
Cats Against Frist Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jan-09-06 07:18 PM
Response to Reply #347
367. Well, I guess Alito is in, then, and gay marriage is forbidden.
Let's all go back to sleep.
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
SPKrazy Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jan-09-06 09:17 PM
Response to Reply #367
370. Alito is in?
He probably is.

I guess I'm not quick enough to get your post.

Unless you are implying that the majority doesn't rule.

Well, in America it is quite possible that through theft and deception it doesn't.

But that doesn't have much to do with the smoking issue does it?
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
High Plains Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Jan-08-06 11:15 PM
Response to Reply #154
164. Does anyone else suspect that the same people supporting
bans on smoking anywhere inside are the same people who are going to shoot dirty looks and mutter disparaging remarks at smokers they encounter on the street, where they have driven them all?
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
High Plains Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Jan-08-06 11:17 PM
Response to Reply #164
165. Oops, the message above was supposed to reply to the OP.
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
SPKrazy Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jan-09-06 05:44 PM
Response to Reply #164
348. Soooooo?
then quit!

I like that it is socially disparaging to be a smoker

that way maybe more people will become non smokers!
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
High Plains Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jan-09-06 11:38 PM
Response to Reply #348
379. Thanks for the advice.
Now fuck off.
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
karlrschneider Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Jan-08-06 10:59 PM
Response to Reply #114
141. I just did a little quick & dirty math/chemistry analysis. If you sit by
the road (like at a sidewalk cafe), and there are cars going by, you will be exposed to combustion products in a very approximate rate as I calculate:

A cigarette weighs about a gram and has about 1 cc of combustible material.

A typical car, getting ~20 MPG mileage is burning about 1 ml of gasoline every meter it travels. YMMV of course and as usual.

So if 100 cars go by while you are sitting there, you'll be exposed to the combustion products (within a 20 meter window to be reasonable) of

100 cars x 20 meters x 1 ml = 2000 cigarettes.

Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
SPKrazy Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Jan-08-06 11:01 PM
Response to Reply #141
144. Hey Karl, I don't sit by the road either!
so put away that loser argument

yes auto exhaust is bad

yes cleaners are bad

and YES SMOKING IS BAD for you!

Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
NanceGreggs Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Jan-08-06 11:12 PM
Response to Reply #114
161. So it's all about YOU?
"Why should I limit myself to restaurants that I might like just because they allow smoking?"

There is a GREAT restaurant in my neighbourhood. Great decor, great atmosphere, great music -- and I hear the food is FANTASTIC!

Even as I smoker, I could patronize this restaurant in the summer, because they have an outdoor patio where smoking is allowed.

I have never eaten there. Why? It's a Mexican restaurant, and I HATE MEXICAN FOOD (personal taste, no offence to the millions who LOVE it.)

So according to your argument, I should call that restaurant and DEMAND that they serve French or Italian food, because:

"Why should I limit myself to restaurants that I might like just because they allow only Mexican cuisine?"

Just as I can choose a restaurant that serves the food I prefer, so can you choose a restaurant that serves in the environment YOU prefer.



Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
SPKrazy Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jan-09-06 05:46 PM
Response to Reply #161
349. Ridiculous straw man argument Nance!
We are (I am) talking about smoking being detrimental to health (I'm concerned about my health and my family's health, so yes it is ALL ABOUT ME!)

But whether they serve the cuisine you enjoy is totally unrelated to the dangers of smoking, don't you think?
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
AZBlue Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Jan-08-06 11:31 PM
Response to Reply #105
176. Why shouldn't I be allowed to go to ANY restaurant that I want??
Edited on Sun Jan-08-06 11:31 PM by AZBlue
I'm not the one with an voluntary habit that I have chosen, one that is dangerous and deadly to all around me.

I have asthma and a very bad allergy to cigarette smoke. Why should I have to sit home or go to a second-choice restaurant just because someone else is selfish and has a controllable addiction?

Please tell ME why.
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
NanceGreggs Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jan-09-06 12:03 AM
Response to Reply #176
208. You don't HAVE TO ...
... and that's my point.

YOU ARE ALLOWED in any restaurant you want -- it's up to you to choose one that caters to your particular preferences, i.e. a non-smoking atmosphere.

Just as I am FREE TO CHOOSE not patronizing a restaurant that serves food that is not to my personal taste.

I don't demand that EVERY restaurant cater to ME -- what gives you the right to demand that every restaurant CATER TO YOU?

Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
AZBlue Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jan-09-06 02:55 PM
Response to Reply #208
311. You obviously know nothing of asthma or severe allergies
Or you wouldn't say someone like me is allowed to go to any restaurant I want.
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
BooScout Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jan-09-06 05:10 AM
Response to Reply #176
239. Because...
I own that Bar and I don't want types like you in there? Simple enough....my Bar, Restraunt, Pub, my choice of who I let in and who I let work for me? Seeeeeeeeeee?
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
AZBlue Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jan-09-06 02:51 PM
Response to Reply #239
310. LMAO!!
Ooooh, what smart business-sense you have!! Most owners want to get in as many people as possible, but you'd like to keep them out. Unless you charge for private membership, you might want to re-think that idea!!
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
BooScout Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jan-09-06 05:40 PM
Response to Reply #310
345. Really?
A friend who owns a bar in Minneapolis polled her patrons.......90 percent smoked.

They banned smoking in bars near me in the states. One local bar that was near us business is down over 50 percent and the owner is livid that the government is telling how to run his business. As long as smoking is legal it should be the owners of the business that makes the decision whether to go smoke free or not. Patrons have a choice.......go to a bar where smoking is allowed or go to one that is smoke free. No one is forcing them to go into a smoking bar and to whine about it.:eyes:
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
brook Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jan-09-06 09:32 AM
Response to Reply #176
248. "Why shouldn't I be allowed to go to ANY restaurant that I want??"
Why should I have to sit home or go to a second-choice restaurant just because someone else is selfish and has an overbearing sense of entitlement?


Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
High Plains Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jan-09-06 01:50 PM
Response to Reply #248
295. Who is the person with the overbearing sense of entitlement?
I'd say it's the person who demands that every establishment in the state accomodate his preferences, and makes it a crime not to.
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
AZBlue Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jan-09-06 03:04 PM
Response to Reply #248
313. Yup.
Deciding to make me sick or die because of your voluntary habit that is dangerous to both of us just because you can't control yourself for the 45 minutes you need to be in a restaurant is an absurd sense of entitlement.

I'm not telling anyone not to smoke, I'm just saying keep it to yourself.
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
High Plains Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jan-09-06 03:31 PM
Response to Reply #313
318. And I'm just saying if you don't like smoky restaurants, don't go
to them. There are many, many non-smoking restaurants.

It's pretty fucking simple: If you don't like smoke, don't go to smoky places.

I'm not making you sick or die. If you want to hang out with me and assume that risk, that's your choice.

I'm severely allergic to sea food. Even the smell of it being cooked can set off a reaction. I don't try to stop other people from eating sea food in restaurants. I go to restaurants where they're not cooking a lot of it.

Why is there no room for a smoking restaurant in your world?
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
AZBlue Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jan-09-06 04:51 PM
Response to Reply #318
334. You're right - if I want to hang out with you, it's my choice.
But I don't want to hang out with you. I simply want to go to a restaurant that you might be at too. Or, you might have been there a half an hour before. You're the one choosing an elective habit that's dangerous to us both - it's your choice, not mine. You have chosen a habit that hurts the rest of us and you don't even have the decency to hold off for 45 minutes. I have no choice in this matter the way you see it.

And, there are VERY few non-smoking restaurants. Some may have non-smoking sections, but really, who are we kidding with those.
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
mongo Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jan-09-06 02:36 PM
Response to Reply #176
307. If you were allergic to peanuts
would you demand that every restuarant in your city banned the use of any product containing peanuts?

Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
AZBlue Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jan-09-06 02:59 PM
Response to Reply #307
312. Hello Straw-man!
Sitting in a room 20 feet from peanuts doesn't affect someone who's allergic to them. Peanuts aren't dangerous to all who eat them AND all who are in the same room as someone eating them. It's a totally different situation from smoking, so you're argument is irrelevant.

(Oh, and those with peanut allergies DO have to ask about every item on the menu and are very restricted in what and where they can eat)
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
mongo Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jan-09-06 03:26 PM
Response to Reply #312
317. sitting in a room 20 feet from a smoker
isn't "dangerous" either. Even the EPA knows that.

If 2nd hand smoke was so dangerous, we would have all died in the 50's when half the population smoked.

I wonder where all the people who now become violently ill at the slightest whiff of cig smoke were in the 50's.

Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
AZBlue Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jan-09-06 04:46 PM
Response to Reply #317
332. If you can smell it, it's dangerous.
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
SPKrazy Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jan-09-06 05:48 PM
Response to Reply #176
350. Amen AZ, that is what I'm talking about!
None of this crapola about "choice", "natural law", blah blah blah

I have allergies to smoke, it gives me a 3 day sinus headache to be around smoke (last meeting I was at where there was smoking it took 3 days to get over the sinus headache that it caused)

I have asthma as well, and don't need any aggravation of that

Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
XemaSab Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jan-09-06 03:17 PM
Response to Reply #105
315. "Why can't you just go to a non-smoking restaurant?"
I like to travel.

Here in California we have a ban on smoking in restaurants. It's great, I love it. It means I don't have to worry about my asthma while I'm trying to enjoy a meal.

However, in other, less enlightened states, there are still restaurants that allow smoking.

Now if I'm spending my eco-tourist dollars in another town in another state, like say, Arivaca, Millinocket, or Falcon, I'm usually just rolling through town, and I don't know which restaurants are smoke-free. Sometimes, HORRORS, there's only one place in town! Then I am forced to enter a potentially smoky establishment and subject myself to smoke.

Why don't you choose to stay home and smoke rather than potentially subject yourself to the torture of a smoke-free meal?

Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
High Plains Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jan-09-06 03:39 PM
Response to Reply #315
320. Gee, maybe us hicks are just too unenlightened to get it.
Edited on Mon Jan-09-06 03:41 PM by High Plains
I'm sure with all your infinite West Coast wisdom you have all the answers.


Why don't you just stay home and twiddle your thumbs rather than potentially subject yourself to the hideous prospect of some restaurant somewhere that still allows smoking?
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
NuttyFluffers Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Jan-08-06 10:53 PM
Response to Reply #63
129. so does the fumes from the cleansers used to sanitize buildings...
so do the contagions people carry around when they don't wear masks when they're sick. should we start writing laws for that, too? how about gloves as well? y'know, illnesses do take a heavy toll on the body. all impurities lead to another step closer to death. oh noes!

look, i don't mind sharing the world with smokers and non-smokers. and i know our world is chock full to the brim with carcinogens, disease, and dangers every single place i go. i learn to live with it, ask for intervention for the really big, i'm powerless to inform and protect myself in time, stuff (like radioactive materials, health codes for food prep, outside air quality, etc) and ask for common courtesy of live and let live for the rest. some places, like nurseries, hospitals, airplanes, and some restaurants shouldn't have smoking inside. some places like some clubs, casinos, and dance halls should. i am powerful enough to inform and protect myself in time when it comes to areas that would expose me to secondhand smoke. i am not helpless enough in this case to require a huge power like gov't for intervention.

does everyone need their own polyurethane bubble to be happy? have we learned nothing from kindergarten? is sharing really all that hard?

jeez, take a chill pill, we're all gonna die, freakin' out over this isn't gonna buy you a day longer. besides, there's far more serious health risks out there for non-smokers than second hand smoke allowed in a few avoidable establishments that choose to cater to a smoker clientele. i think the, now overruled, toronto policy was best, let the business itself choose. that way you can choose the level of risk you are comfortable with.
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
SPKrazy Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Jan-08-06 10:57 PM
Response to Reply #129
136. Take down the silly strawman arguments
We all know Cigarretes are BAD for you.

Secondhand smoke is deadly, maybe even deadlier.

I'm not gonna chill out over this issue EVER

I've put up with smoke long enough!

Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
karlrschneider Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Jan-08-06 11:02 PM
Response to Reply #136
147. Jesus loves you.
...
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
SPKrazy Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Jan-08-06 11:03 PM
Response to Reply #147
149. Yes, Jesus does, My mother did too!
so what's your point?

Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
NuttyFluffers Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Jan-08-06 11:18 PM
Response to Reply #136
167. so industrial cleaners are perfectly safe? and disease?
apparently these are straw men in your world. i see. FYI, contagious disease is far deadlier with one bout of exposure than second hand smoke could ever be. besides, the death rate for smoking is comprised in majority of smokers, not people exposed to second hand smoke. as long as you aren't smoking and aren't routinely hotboxing yourself in rooms smothered in smoke you should be fine. your hysteria is unwarranted, and honestly, laughable. where on earth are you going that you are exposed to such critical levels of unavoidable smoke?
:shrug:

but it appears we have a crusader amongst our midst. so, huzzah, when are you storming the walls of jerusalem? please save us all from ourselves!
:eyes:
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
SPKrazy Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jan-09-06 05:50 PM
Response to Reply #167
351. Yes, but we are talking about SMOKING!
geez

the thread is about smoking! not cleaners or disease

I'm not big on either one of those either!
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
onehandle Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Jan-08-06 09:53 PM
Response to Original message
67. Public smoking will be banned most everywhere in our lifetimes.
It was inevitable and now it's happening.
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
SPKrazy Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Jan-08-06 11:00 PM
Response to Reply #67
142. It's about damned time!
Hell, we've only known it's dangerous for what? oh yeah, 50 years!

Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
Beelzebud Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jan-09-06 12:05 AM
Response to Reply #142
211. So much for the Land of the Free....... Driving is dangerous too!
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
SPKrazy Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jan-09-06 05:53 PM
Response to Reply #211
353. Freedom is not free!
to quote the freeper

But truly, with freedom comes responsibility.

We drive with laws. We break the laws, we get tickets, or we die, or we kill others.

With smoking we have some laws, and some places have more laws.

my point is that smoking should be banned in all public places because of the harmful effects it has on others via secondhand smoke.

Smoking itself may be bad for you, and that is YOUR BUSINESS, just don't inflict it on me!
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
ecstatic Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Jan-08-06 09:57 PM
Response to Original message
71. Same reason why society discriminates against the overweight
We are hardest on those who we believe have the ability to change bad habits. Many people feel that smokers should simply put the cigarette down because they are harming themselves and society. People might rationalize the discrimination because the targetted group can quit whenever he/she chooses to.
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
SPKrazy Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Jan-08-06 11:03 PM
Response to Reply #71
148. I Don't Care If You Smoke
Just don't smoke in public places or places that people gather where they have no choice but to breathe your poison!

BTW, do you mind if I FART?

I'm sure you don't care, as long as I don't do it in your face, or make you sit in a room and smell it!
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
Touchdown Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Jan-08-06 09:59 PM
Response to Original message
74. Ah' Popcorn! The choice of a tobacco quitter.
...and the perfect choice of a (getting to be weekly) DU smoking/my victimhood trumps your's brawl.

:popcorn:

BTW: You sound reasonable, but I like to watch fights anyway.:evilgrin:

Anybody up for an infant male circumcision thread?
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
Charlie Brown Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Jan-08-06 10:04 PM
Response to Original message
80. I agree w/you 100%
Edited on Sun Jan-08-06 10:11 PM by Charlie Brown
as I will not have others ban me from actions in my life, I will not support banning them for others. I posted the smoking ban/marriage ban similarities in another thread, and got an earful from so-called "tolerant" individuals who did not even want to hear the two in the same context. Nonetheless, there's a valid comparison.

Smoking bans are autocratic and despotic.
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
Lindacooks Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Jan-08-06 10:06 PM
Response to Original message
83. Sorry, that's flawed logic: most other 'life choices' don't
directly endanger the health of others. Your right to smoke ends at my nose. If you can hold the smoke in your own body, go ahead and light up anywhere. But the right to breathe smoke free air is dominant.

I'd like to know exactly what you think those 'life choices' are that 'cause far more damage to those who do not partake.' List them, please. The things you mentioned are not specific behaviors, but general lifestyles.

And what about the wait staff employed in those restaurants who are forced to breathe in second hand smoke? They usually don't have much of a choice to 'go elsewhere'.
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
jpgray Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Jan-08-06 10:11 PM
Response to Reply #83
91. Absolutely they do
Excess exhaust from overly-large, unnecessary vehicles gives you quite the carcinogen cocktail as you commute, or as you walk to and fro in the city or suburbs. Mass production of cattle is removing vital anti-cancer plants and chemicals from the world's biological resources as we speak, not to mention its devastating impact on the environment and in particular the ozone layer. Let's not even start with how those who drink alcohol can scar their children or SOs for life, or how they kill or maim thousands every year. So can we finally dispense with the argument that smoking as a choice that harms others is a wholly unique thing? It simply isn't.
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
napi21 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Jan-08-06 10:09 PM
Response to Original message
89. Thanks for being rational jpgray. There are few people like you
left in this Country.

Yes I smoke, and I have no desire to quit. I retired a few years ago, and rarely smoke anywhere but home anymore.

I've stopped going to restaurants & bars because apparently I'm not welcome there anymore. That's fine. You folks have a GREAT time! I cook here, and now have the time to make a better dinner than they can in most restaurants.

Something else I've stopped doing is driving on the interstate. The idiot drivers, always in a hurry to get to who knows where, are much more of a threat to my life and YOURS than my smoking is! I drive fast, but usually not more that the speedlimit +5. Seems like nobody agrees with that, and there's NEVER a day goes by when there aren't several accidents on I85, just because everybody wants to be FIRST!

Someone said something about risk v/s benefit. I don't dispute that. I just happen to think the risk is far greater with a 1-3 ton rolling hunk of steel running you off the road, or hitting you head on, than cigarette smoke will ever be.

You folks who are so gung ho to ban smoking everywhere, just enjoy yourself. I'm old and I'll be dead before you can ban smoking completely, so I won't care.

You really better pay attention to what's going on though. Some group, somewhere, is going to take what YOU like away, just because they feel it's somehow hurting them.
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
mitchtv Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Jan-08-06 10:49 PM
Response to Reply #89
124. while you are on the subject of driving
It sure annoys me how they use the highway/streets, as an ashtray and think nothing of tossing buts everywhere. I lived on a place that had highway frontage, and i picked up loads of butts tossed out , instead of the ashtrays,I see it all the time. As a weed smoker, i am used to the ban, and wish to note that maybe smokers could have been more considerate in their time of dominance, and now, well, the pendulum is still swinging.
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
Viva_La_Revolution Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Jan-08-06 11:02 PM
Response to Reply #124
145. I field strip it...
and the butt goes in the trash. Ya know, there used to be ashtrays all over the city, near every entrance, and I never saw butts on the ground. Now, no ashtrays, and butts everywhere.

Some people are lazy and inconsiderate however, I agree there.
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
Viva_La_Revolution Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Jan-08-06 10:58 PM
Response to Reply #89
138. Old
and Wise, it seems. :)
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
Harper_is_Bush Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Jan-08-06 10:17 PM
Response to Original message
97. The simple truth is that most often it's the non-smokers who have
to choose between having a life.....joining friends at a popular bar or restaurant which allows smoking....or staying home.

All the smokers cry about not being allowed to smoke indoors and righteously point out that non-smokers can choose not to attend smoking establishments, yet what about the opposite side of the coin?
Why are the rights of non-smokers less valuable than those of smokers?

Believe it or not but a smoking ban is absolutely wonderful. Ours came into effect while I still smoked. I was a little miffed at not being able to smoke indoors for a while, but after a few nights waking up without a hacking cough or stinking clothes I was sold.

It's great.
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
High Plains Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Jan-08-06 10:29 PM
Response to Reply #97
106. Wah!
You poor fellow. Having to make choices. Maybe you could ask your friends to go to a non-smoking establishment? No, better to infringe on the freedom of others who choose to go to a smoking permitted estabishment.
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
Harper_is_Bush Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Jan-08-06 10:34 PM
Response to Reply #106
110. I don't have to make the choice.
I live in a non-smoking city.

You raise an interesting point though.

If I did live in a city with a mix of non-smoking and smoking establishments, and my friends and I chose to go to a non-smoking place, then my smoking friends would have to choose to come or not.

The difference is that they wouldn't be faced with a choice of joining friends and affecting health, as I would.

You and the rest of the pro-smoke folks talk about "freedom", yet it's freedom to negatively affect others health that you're wanting.
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
High Plains Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Jan-08-06 10:41 PM
Response to Reply #110
119. Not at all. I don't want anyone to have to inhale second-hand
smoke if they choose not to do so.

I expect if waiters are given the choice of working in smoking or non-smoking establishments, they will decide based on various factors. I expect if you don't want to come to a smoky establishment, you won't.

Why can't you allow those of us who prefer to smoke to have places where we can congregate? Just leave us alone, that's all we're asking.

I'm in BC now. It's smoke-free, too. The main impact it has had on me is that I go out less frequently to see live music (because it's not so fun from behind a glass wall) and I spend less money in local coffee shops. I can survive it. It's just annoying that there is no provision for choice. That is a dimunition of my freedom and that of others with similar proclivities.
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
Harper_is_Bush Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Jan-08-06 10:48 PM
Response to Reply #119
123. So, the only "choice" worth considering is that of smokers?
You can go to see your live music and step outside to smoke.

As a result EVERYONE has a choice to go to that establishment.
If it was a smoking establishment, non-smokers concerned with thier health would have no choice. If a favorite band was in town in a smoking establishment, they have no choice.
You still have the choice.

"Just leave us alone, that's all we're asking".
Bizarre! Totally bizarre. Only the rights of smokers seem to matter. I guess that's the addiction talking.
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
High Plains Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Jan-08-06 10:54 PM
Response to Reply #123
130. I'm not saying the only the rights of smokers matter at all
I guess that was the self-righteousness talking.

I'm completely open to the idea of smoke-free businesses. If you want to have a smoke-free business, feel free. If you want to patronize smoke-free businesses, knock yourself out.

But if I want to go to a smoky bar and the owner thinks it's good business to allow smoking and the employees have freely consented to working in such a place, why can't we do that?
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
Harper_is_Bush Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Jan-08-06 10:58 PM
Response to Reply #130
137. But smokers can attend a smoke-free business
and not suffer health effects, but non-smokers can't do the same to smoking businesses.

That is discrimination.

Am I allowed to open a whites-only business? Or a heterosexual-only business?

Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
High Plains Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Jan-08-06 11:05 PM
Response to Reply #137
151. Give me a break.
The owner of a business that allows smoking doesn't bar anyone. It's YOUR FUCKING CHOICE. Just let me have mine.
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
Harper_is_Bush Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jan-09-06 09:41 AM
Response to Reply #151
249. Why do you get the right to polute the air in an enclosed public space...
..and I don't have the right to clean air?

What makes your rights more important than everyone elses here....and you the poor victim when it's others who are being negatively affected by your addiction?
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
seaglass Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jan-09-06 01:33 PM
Response to Reply #151
292. Most reformed smokers are like women who have had abortions
and then become anti-choice. It was fine when they did it, but NOW they are on the side of the righteous and you are evil if you do it.
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
Charlie Brown Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Jan-08-06 11:07 PM
Response to Reply #137
153. Businesses that allow smoking are discriminating against non-smokers?
To quote my namesake, good grief.
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
SPKrazy Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Jan-08-06 11:15 PM
Response to Reply #153
163. They may not be discriminating, but they are keeping many customers
with money to spend away!

I won't go into a business if there is smoking allowed in the business.

My money goes elsewhere,
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
High Plains Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Jan-08-06 11:25 PM
Response to Reply #163
170. Good. You have made your choice.
If enough people make similar choices, more and more businesses will not permit smoking.

Okay, I mean it this time. Good night.
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
Cats Against Frist Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Jan-08-06 11:50 PM
Response to Reply #137
201. And how exactly are the patrons going to be affected?
Edited on Sun Jan-08-06 11:51 PM by Cats Against Frist
I mean, first of all, there is NO SUCH THING as allergy to cigarette smoke. Second, I would think the pool of people who have REAl (not paranoid) adverse reactions to smoking is too small to claim absolute rights, and third -- secondhand smoke isn't going to kill you from going to a bar once or twice a week. You'd have to be a regular -- and, at that point, I would think you have far greater problems than secondhand smoke. Who is this is going to be affected? I'm thinking the whiny, *cough* *cough*, "I'm allergic," my nasal passages just swell, and I can't think, my-clothes-smell-like-smoke- when-I-come-home crowd shouldn't really have a say.

And, technically, they don't. This would all be a moot point, if the crusaders wouldn't have had the workplace argument stick.

edited for italics
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
U4ikLefty Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jan-09-06 03:08 AM
Response to Reply #137
236. Wrong, both smokers & non-smokers suffer health effects in a
smoking business, therefore everyone is treated equally. That is not discrimination.
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
in_cog_ni_to Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Jan-08-06 10:49 PM
Response to Reply #110
125. NO. That's NOT what we're saying.
OK. Here's a VERY SIMPLE scenario for you. There's 6 PRIVATELY owned bars in town. 3 of the owners want their bars to be SMOKERS ONLY and ONLY smokers need apply for a job. The other 3 want their bars to be non-smoking. ONLY Non-smokers need apply. WTF is wrong with letting the 3 bars who WANT smoking to have them and the 3 bars that don't want smokers, have them? Why do you anti-smoking people have to DICTATE what a SMOKING bar owner wants? What gives YOU that right? AND why can't you people just be happy in your own little smoke-free world and leave us alone to smoke in a bar that WANTS to allow it? Why can't you live with that? Why do you have to have EVERYTHING your way...like 2 year olds? Why do you HAVE TO HAVE ALL 6 BARS SMOKE FREE?
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
Harper_is_Bush Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Jan-08-06 10:56 PM
Response to Reply #125
131. Because what if all bars want to be smoking?
Or if someone needs a job close to home, and the only places are smoking?

You can't make your own little ideal scenarios and then ask "what is wrong with THAT?"
It don't work that way.

Smoke in your house....kill your family. Or smoke in your garage.
"and ONLY smokers need apply for a job."
If it'a public place then it cannot refuse non-smokers anymore than it can refuse blacks, and by filling itself with smoke it's as much as doing that.

If I and a few other people want to scatter asbestos around confined spaces, and perhaps we own publicly accessable businesses and want to permit the scattering of asbestos, should be be allowed to?
If not, what is the difference?
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
in_cog_ni_to Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Jan-08-06 11:09 PM
Response to Reply #131
157. LOL....of course you didn't answer my question. You people never do. n/t
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
Harper_is_Bush Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jan-09-06 09:44 AM
Response to Reply #157
250. I did answer it. I said you can't make your own ideal little scenarios...
..which is what your question was based upon.

That is an answer.

The problem with "you people" is you never like the answer, and that makes you upset. Addiction has a way of affecting rational thinking!
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
mongo Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jan-09-06 02:50 PM
Response to Reply #250
309. Being a little autoritarian nanny statist
affects rational thought too.

My city doesn't have a smoking ban -- yet there are BARS that prohibit smoking.

Know why? There was a MARKET DEMAND and an enterprising individual provided a service. I heard they are doing really well.

Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
Harper_is_Bush Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jan-09-06 05:35 PM
Response to Reply #309
344. Do they have enough positions for all the non-smokers who
work in bars and would prefer not to be given cancer by SHS?

Probably not.

Oh well, screw them right! They can choose not to work!

:eyes:
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
NanceGreggs Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Jan-08-06 10:44 PM
Response to Reply #97
120. And I'm happy that you're happy ...
But there's more to this than YOUR personal happiness (and I don't doubt for a second you'd agree).

The non-smoking ban here in TO (and I'll only speak of that of which I know) has had effects on many people's livelihoods.

Because I CHOOSE not to drive or own a car, I often take taxis to places that are 'off the subway line'. My taxi driver friends are having a real rough go of it. They've told me that since the no-smoking ban in bars/restaurants, people don't go out as often as they used to, which has severely affected their business.

Add to that the bars and restaurants who have gone under, and the staff they used to employ who cannot get jobs elsewhere (because there aren't new non-smoking establishments taking the place of the ones that are gone).

Add to that the fact that the average dollar-per-diner is down -- smokers who now go to restaurants tend to leave sooner, and soend less -- they don't hang around and order a few rounds of after-dinner drinks like they used to be, because they want to SMOKE while they linger for after-dinner conversation.

I am not 'crying' about not going out to restaurants or bars. Years go, when all of this crapola started, my friends and I (smokers and non-smokers alike) started rotating dinner parties at each others' houses. We immediately realized that it was a LOT CHEAPER to serve meals at home, not to mention the reduced cost of buying wine-liquor at the store, instead of paying the mark-up for the same items in a restaurant.

We also realized that entertaining at home meant no hovering waiter who wanted you to leave, so he could seat another party at your table. It also meant choosing the pace of the meal, and the choice of our music to accompany it (especially the VOLUME of same, if you wanted to TALK).

As a result, if all of the bars and restaurants in TO went back to smoke-where-you-want tomorrow, we probably wouldn't go out to dine nearly as often as we once did.

That's a bad break for establishment owners, and a REALLY BAD break for the city's economy.
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
noamnety Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Jan-08-06 11:53 PM
Original message
The US studies I've seen show no revenue loss
"Sales and employment at Massachusetts restaurants and bars grew slightly during the first six months of a statewide smoking ban, disproving predictions that the prohibition would inflict serious damage on the hospitality industry" http://www.boston.com/news/local/massachusetts/articles/2005/04/04/restaurants_bars_gain_business_under_smoke_ban/

"No decline in total restaurant or bar revenues occurred in El Paso, Texas, after the city's smoking ban was implemented on January 2, 2002. These findings are consistent with the results of studies in other municipalities that determined smoke-free indoor air ordinances had no effect on restaurant revenues (2,5--8). Despite claims that these laws especially might reduce alcoholic beverage revenues (2), the mixed-beverage revenue analyses indicate that sales of alcoholic beverages were not affected by the El Paso smoking ban." http://www.cdc.gov/mmwr/preview/mmwrhtml/mm5307a2.htm

"Today, you can add more data to the mountain of evidence that clean indoor air laws are good – not just for health, but for business, too. The impartial Zagat survey of the impact of New York City’s smoking ban confirms what every other credible survey has shown: Smoking bans are popular with the public and pose no economic threat to restaurants, bars or other businesses." http://www.americanheart.org/presenter.jhtml?identifier=3016321

I have no clue why the results in Toronto would be so different than in the US, and I don't doubt you at all, but here in the states, it doesn't appear to reduce business.
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
NanceGreggs Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jan-09-06 01:35 AM
Response to Original message
223. Firstly, thank you for your reply, and for providing ...
... the links that you have.

Here's the problem: We've been told here in Toronto as well that 'the statistics show', etc. That doesn't change the facts on the street, if I can use the expression.

We've been told that business has not been affected -- and yet we see bars and restaurants, once thriving establishments in busy areas of the city, boarded up with 'For Sale' signs on them - some of them for more than a year now. If business has picked up, or remained the same since the ban, why did these places go out of business? Why were these premises not immediately snapped up by entrepreneurs who wanted to take advantage of the (alleged) massive amount of customers who were ready to spend their dollars in non-smoking establishments?

Just anecdotal evidence, but the cafe around the corner used to have line-ups every Sunday for their city-famous brunch. After the smoking ban, the line-ups disappeared. After a few months, the cafe closed altogether on Sundays due to lack of customers. Where are these non-smokers who are taking up the slack, as we've heard about time and again from the politicians who supported the ban?

Everywhere we are treated to 'official' stories about how this isn't affecting business -- and everywhere we see the exact opposite.

It's not unlike Bush's 'official' version of the economy: Things ae going great! Jobs are plentiful! But when you're out of work and struggling to make ends meet, you know that the 'official' version of things is, shall-we-say, not exactly reflective of what is actually going on in people's lives.

As a smoker, I have no problem with non-smoking establishments; I think people should have a choice. And I also have no problem with smoke-free workplaces, public buildings, movie theatres, etc. In fact, I actually ENJOY having to step outside my office building for a smoke -- I find it more of a 'break' than when I simply lit-up at my desk amid the usual workday turmoil.

But CHOICE is the operative word here. If non-smokers want to be able to choose a smoke-free restaurant or bar, why shouldn't smokers have a choice, as well?

As I posted earlier in this thread, when Toronto had a policy of bar/restaurant owners choosing between the two, everyone was happy. Since the all-out ban, only one group is happy. That doesn't sound like the best course of action to me.





Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
noamnety Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jan-09-06 06:54 AM
Response to Reply #223
242. Averages and city-wide studies
If the data in your area is also showing no overall loss of revenue, but particular restaurants are boarded up, then that sounds like for some reason customers are picking other restaurants to go to, but not dining out less. Anecdotal evidence looks at a boarded up shop and says "business is down." Statistical evidence can show that the loss in one shop is being offset by increased spending in another.

These are excerpts from yet another report:

Researchers found no significant change in hotel revenue, and tourism was either unaffected or increased. Researchers tracked hotel revenues and tourism rates in three
states and six cities before and after passage of smoking bans.

Tourism and hotel revenues before and after passage of smoke-free restaurant ordinances.

A study by Cornell University shows that nonsmokers dine out more and spend 2½ times as much in restaurants as smokers.

Over two dozen studies consistently show that the majority of restaurants becoming smokefree experience either an increase or no change in sales.

Over three-quarters of patrons surveyed said that they’d wait longer for a non-smoking table or would choose to go to a different restaurant.

Sales figures compiled by the BC Liquor Distribution Board show no negative impact on business (after going smoke-free) for Greater Victoria hospitality venues after 9 months.

The report found a 1.7% increase at all licensed establishments after going smoke-free.

Employment costs and property damage is reduced. Smokers cost Canadian employers over $2,500 per smoker annually due to increased absenteeism, lost productivity, increased insurance costs and smoking area costs.

http://www.ash.ca/information/fact-pdf/Restaurant-Ban.pdf

The report also talks about why ventilation isn't a viable option.
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
Little Star Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Jan-10-06 10:56 AM
Response to Reply #223
385. Boy, you said that well! Thanks! n/t
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
Cats Against Frist Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Jan-08-06 11:43 PM
Response to Reply #97
191. Be grateful that you still have a choice. How lucky for you.
:spank:
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
rinsd Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jan-09-06 01:55 PM
Response to Reply #97
299. So you were still smoking and a smoking ban eliminated your cough & smell?
Perhpas you misspoke?
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
crispini Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Jan-08-06 10:35 PM
Response to Original message
111. Congrats on a cogent, interesting post
and a largely polite, well-mannered discussion. :hi: Good food for thought! :thumbsup:
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
Touchdown Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Jan-08-06 10:38 PM
Response to Original message
115. You know what the irony of these arguments are?
...That I probably would've quit smoking 10 years ago had these goody-goody know-it-alls weren't around every corner, feeling free to dispense their browbeating at me for having this habit, then harping on some "health concern" while they chomp down buffalo wings and 6 Guinesses a night, before they drive home in their SUVs. I'm fully convinced that I still smoke out of spite.

Another irony is that until the 1980s, smokingwas allowed anywhere, and 50% of the people smoked in the 50s. By the EPAs own arguments about SHS, EVERYBODY in the US would be dead from lung cancer 20 years ago.

I don't hate non-smokers. I hate the sanctimony, and manufactured victimhood. They created Bill O'Reilly.
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
Charlie Brown Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Jan-08-06 10:59 PM
Response to Reply #115
140. Here Here
Edited on Sun Jan-08-06 11:01 PM by Charlie Brown
Yes, the sanctimonious grievances of non-smokers do have a lot in common with the "victimhood" displayed by conservatives and religious autocrats.

The War on Public Health and the War on Christmas certainly have a lot in common.
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
Touchdown Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Jan-08-06 11:12 PM
Response to Reply #140
160. I would characterize it as a war on PERCIEVED public health.
..and in that sense, it does draw parallels.
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
buddysmellgood Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Jan-08-06 11:36 PM
Response to Reply #115
182. Now that is the voice of a true addict. You now smoke out of spite? Lol
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
Touchdown Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jan-09-06 09:55 AM
Response to Reply #182
253. Or the voice of a defiantly independant person.
Edited on Mon Jan-09-06 10:07 AM by Touchdown
STFU, and I'll quit. You have no lock on virtue, and you know it.

Your smugness proves my point. Have a nice day in Superiorville. I bow before your unbridled perfection.:hi:
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
Hello_Kitty Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Jan-08-06 11:36 PM
Response to Reply #115
184. Ohmigod same here!
Part of me wants to quit but the mere idea that anyone who regularly nags about my 1/2 pack a day (at most) indulgence would for even a TINY MOMENT bask in pompous self-congratulation that they had ANYTHING to do with it stops me short. Gads I'm a silly obstinate little twit but there you have it.

And you are so right about what hypocrites most of them are. I'm the only smoker amongst my group of friends and I'm also the only one who works out regularly and one of few who isn't overweight.
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
mongo Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jan-09-06 03:13 PM
Response to Reply #184
314. Really?
and I was just sitting here thinking about how the anti-smoking nazi's arguments (for the public health) were so similar to the anti-porn arugments here on DU.

As touchdown said - I hate the sanctimony, and manufactured victimhood.
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
Hello_Kitty Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jan-09-06 04:38 PM
Response to Reply #314
331. Blow it out your ass Mongo
Edited on Mon Jan-09-06 04:39 PM by ccbombs
I don't have discussions about porn with anyone (edit to say IRL that is), let alone attempt to persuade some loser to stop watching it.

And once again..For what is this the ten thousandth fucking time? NO ONE HERE IS TRYING TO TAKE YOUR SMUT AWAY!!

Go piss up a rope.
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
Touchdown Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jan-09-06 05:10 PM
Response to Reply #331
339. Did I uh' miss something here?
:shrug:
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
buddysmellgood Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Jan-08-06 10:44 PM
Response to Original message
121. I would agree that restaurants could have smoking if wait staff all wore
sensors. Once the level of smoke exceeded the air quality standard, a beeper goes off. From then on, until that persons shift is done, there is no smoking. This is very doable. The sensor could even report wirelessly to the public health department when they go off.
As to your argument about smokers being descrimated against, that's bullshit. Aside from killing nonsmokers, smokers raise everybody's healthcare costs. They are a drag on my wallet. So are fat people.
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
Touchdown Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Jan-08-06 10:56 PM
Response to Reply #121
132. You assume no wait people smoke themsleves.
Ever parked in the back by the kitchen?
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
buddysmellgood Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Jan-08-06 11:31 PM
Response to Reply #132
175. No, I don't assume that. I just think we should apply an air quality
standard. I enjoy running a small gasoline engine in the bar when I have a drink. Why is that not allowed?
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
Touchdown Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jan-09-06 09:58 AM
Response to Reply #175
254. I would have no problem with your gas engine...
if it was hooked up to your mouth.

Air quality standards do apply in any dining/drinking establishment. There are filtration systems in place, and most ordinances require them. Just because you can smell it, doesn't mean it's deadly. It's about your perception.
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
buddysmellgood Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jan-09-06 10:30 PM
Response to Reply #254
373. That's crap and you know it. If you can smell it, it necessarily means
that the smoke is entering your body. Cigarette smoke is deadly. That is beyond debate.
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
NanceGreggs Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Jan-08-06 10:57 PM
Response to Reply #121
134. Okay, I just CAN'T let THAT one slide ...
... and then I'm outta here.

I live in Canada, where we have universal health care. In the early days of this health cost argument, an organization actually set about crunching the numbers, to see how this all panned out.

This study was done about seven years ago, to my recollection. What they found was that in a one-year period, the TAX REVENUES collected on cigars, cigarettes, and other tobacco products COVERED THE COMPLETE HEALTH CARE COSTS of every man, woman and child in the country THREE TIMES OVER.

And there's the BIG question which, I don't believe, has been raised in this thread:

If the government (US, Canadian, whatever) is SO CONCERNED about the health of its citizens, why doesn't it MAKE SMOKING ILLEGAL?

The answer is all-too-obvious: THEY DON'T WANT TO GIVE UP THE TAX REVENUES.

Money -v- your health - guess who WINS that argument each and every time?

Look at the politicians who make 'no-smoking' a platform when they're running for office. It's always presented as 'Mr. Candidate has YOUR health in mind."

If Mr. Candidiate has our health in mind, why doesn't Mr. Candidate ever go after the CORPORATIONS that are polluting the city, town or county you're living in?

'Nuff said - except :smoke: !!!!!!!!!!!!!
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
buddysmellgood Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Jan-08-06 11:28 PM
Response to Reply #134
172. So you want to stop corporations from killing people but not smokers?
I saw a study, I can't remember where, what...it showed that the cost of providing healthcare to smokers and those being killed by second-hand smoke effectively doubles the cost of healthcare.
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
NanceGreggs Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Jan-08-06 11:53 PM
Response to Reply #172
204. As I said in my post ...
... I live in Canada, thus universal health care. The study I'm talking about took into account ALL tax revenues across the country, and ALL HEALTH COSTS incurred across the country. That's a study you CAN'T do when you're looking at individual health care premiums ...
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
Touchdown Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jan-09-06 10:12 AM
Response to Reply #172
257. Last time I looked, corporations weren't people.
Although you seem to disagree, smokers are still people.

BTW: The cigarette taxes pay for health care more than your medicare taxes do. A pack only costs 50 cents. $5-$7 is the going price for a premium brand. IF it6 wasn't for smokers, your health insurance would be much higher than it is now.
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
High Plains Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Jan-08-06 11:29 PM
Response to Reply #134
173. I know. I feel like Health Canada owes me a lung already
given all I've kicked into the system in outragous, punitive cigarette taxes.

But, I hate to say it, that punitive tax affects the number of cigarettes I smoke. It's just too damned expensive up here!

And I sometimes wonder what Health Canada would do if everyone actually quit. They'd go broke. Oh my goodness! Could it be that cigarette smokers are subsidizing everyone else's health care? Maybe they should be giving up medals instead of villifying us. Heh.
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
napi21 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Jan-08-06 11:09 PM
Response to Reply #121
155. I disagree with your health care cost argument!
I worked in a smoke free office for the last 10 years of my career. Most of the employees had NEVER smoked. We had 680 employees of all ages. I went to the doctor ONCE in more than 15 years...for a kidney infection! I don't even want to guess how many times PER YEAR the rest of those folks went to see the Dr. Colds, the flu, some infection, and sometimes just because they didn't "feel good"!

I've been retired for quite a few years now, and I visited the Dr. ONCE because I had a terrible neck pain. The idiot sent me to a neuro surgeon who wanted to operate on my spine!!!! Know what it was? I was spending too much time on the computer, and wearing bi-focals, I constantly had my head tilted upward to look through the bottom of the damn glasses. I got a separate pair just to use for working at the computer, and all is well.

Don't give me the nonsense about smokers costing you more in health care. Hell, if your even close to right about the dangers of smoking, we'll all die before we can cost you much!
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
NanceGreggs Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Jan-08-06 11:17 PM
Response to Reply #155
166. Thanks!
And that's another argument no one wants to address, to whit:

If smokers die sooner, that means we're less of a drain on things like Social Security payouts than non-smokers, who live longer. We pay into the system at the same rate as those who are projected to live longer, and therefore collect more funds.

Shouldn't we be getting a discounted rate on our pay-ins, being as we're going to get less of a pay-out?
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
napi21 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Jan-08-06 11:27 PM
Response to Reply #166
171. No, but the damn complainers should shut up!
I accept the SS program for what it is...an insurance safety net. It's NOT a pension plan, or a retirement program. In all insurance plans, there are winners and losers.

It's the same in the health insurance system. I just wish the whiners would quit complaining about smokers, and concentrate on people who abuse the system by running to the Dr. for every hang nail and sniffle they think they have!
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
NanceGreggs Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Jan-08-06 11:44 PM
Response to Reply #171
195. You may not have noticed my earlier posts ...
... but I'm an American residing in Canada, where there is universal health care. Therefore, I do not pay into the SS program - my comments were meant to be satirical, as well as rhetorical.

But you raise another interesting point, which deserves a discussion thread of its own.

Here in Canada, where every doctor's visit, every emergency room visit, is covered by the gov't - ergo, of no cost to the patient, it has resulted (I'm gonna get FLAMED by Canadians on this site, and I hate to say it) in too many people here abusing the system.

They don't do it to take advantage - they've just grown up in an atmosphere of, "A doctor's visit is free, so why take a chance?"
People I know here, who have grown up with this attitude, tend to run to the doctor, or a hospital emergency room, every time they even SUSPECT they have a head cold coming on. Again, I would reiterate that people aren't trying to take undo advantage - they're just accustomed to this mind-set.

I once had to take my daughter to the emergency room of a local hospital - she was seriously hurt in a local community playground and needed immediate treatment, including a tetanus shot. The emergency room waiting room was over-flowing with people who 'just didn't feel right', or who thought they might be 'coming down with something'. I have friends here who regularly brought their kids to emergency on a Sunday night, because they didn't want to wait for their doctor's office to open on Monday morning, and their kid seemed to have the sniffles.

I wonder how many US citizens are counterparts to these people -- those who can afford all-inclusive medical coverage, and feel entitled to show up at a doctor's office or emergency room because they're paying for it anyway, so why not use it?

Of course, these non-essential medical 'services' add up, put a strain on the cost of health insurance, and mean even higher premiums to cover them -- leaving that many more Americans without coverage, because the premiums are too expensive to be affordable.

Your thoughts?
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
princehal Donating Member (341 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Jan-08-06 11:30 PM
Response to Reply #155
174. I am on my 2nd week of being smoke free
After dmoking for 20 years.

I have only one thing to say. Smokers stink. I mean, they smell really bad. I would rather smell ass than the haze of tobacco smell that surround the smokers I know.

But they will fight to the end to inflict the smell on anyone. I never did, but I realise that addiction sucks.
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
napi21 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Jan-08-06 11:36 PM
Response to Reply #174
183. As long as it was YOUR decision to quit, that's great!
Good luck to you.

I ask you though, PLEASE, don't force your choice on those who don't want to quit. That should be their choice too.
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
princehal Donating Member (341 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Jan-08-06 11:41 PM
Response to Reply #183
188. Well yeah
as long as they don't force their smoke on me in public.
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
NanceGreggs Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Jan-08-06 11:49 PM
Response to Reply #174
199. And all non-smokers smell GOOD?
If you believe that, I'd be glad to give you the names and addreses of several people I know who have never smoked who TRULY STINK -- and unfortunately, they can't blame it on cigarettes!
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
buddysmellgood Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jan-09-06 12:33 AM
Response to Reply #199
216. Oh please.
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
misanthrope Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jan-09-06 12:26 AM
Response to Reply #174
215. Congratulations! You've made a wise choice...
...and it's not going to be easy but it sounds as if you have the resolve to see it through.

Be proud of yourself. Good job.
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
Hello_Kitty Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Jan-08-06 11:44 PM
Response to Reply #155
193. Most smokers avoid doctors like the plague
If you tell them you smoke they try to attribute whatever is wrong with you to that. The rare occasions that I visit mine I tell him I quit when he asks me about smoking. What I don't tell him is that what I mean by that is I quit an hour before the appointment and that I plan to start again after it. :rofl:

Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
napi21 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jan-09-06 12:04 AM
Response to Reply #193
210. Naw, the very few times I've ever visited a Dr. I always told the truth.
I never had any of them try to force me to quit. One did look at me over the top of his glasses and say "You know you should quit that?" I just smiled. Funny think is, HE died suddenly in his sleep, of a heart attack, a few months after that! At the age of 47! He NEVER smoked either!

People gotta remember, somethings gonna kill ya, sooner or later.
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
princehal Donating Member (341 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Jan-08-06 11:44 PM
Response to Original message
192. So
Anyone mind if I empty my colostomy bag in public?
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
High Plains Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jan-09-06 03:48 PM
Response to Reply #192
322. Knock yourself out, pal.
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
K8-EEE Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Jan-08-06 11:44 PM
Response to Original message
194. As An Ex-Smoker, I Love The L.A. Smoking Ban
On a trip to RI a couple of years ago, I went to see my friends who played in a band, the bar was soo disgustingly smokey, it truly did make me ill -- I constantly had to go outside and the next day wash the smoke out of my hair and use eyedrops because my eyes were all red from it and etc etc.

It's the pervasive nature of smoke that makes it different from other vices...you just can't keep it out of other peoples faces, lungs, hair, eyes, so when it comes to right to breathe vs. right to smoke, the non-polluters should have the edge.
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
gardenista Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Jan-08-06 11:46 PM
Response to Original message
197. whatever the outcome of smoking bans, I will only choose to spend my time
and money in establishments that offer me a place to enjoy my meal in a smoke-free environment.

I will only choose to spend my time with friends who do not smoke in my presence.

That's the way it is on my end.

Whatever else happens around this issue, I won't ever be around people who are actively smoking.

I had to grow up in a smoke-filled household. My brother has serious asthma as a result. I hate smoke. Some of the people I love are smokers. If they want to be with me, they don't smoke around me. Simple.

Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
High Plains Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jan-09-06 03:50 PM
Response to Reply #197
323. That sounds very workable.
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
newsguyatl Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Jan-08-06 11:55 PM
Response to Original message
206. i loathe smokers
and i loathe them doing it around me or in public.


period.
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
High Plains Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jan-09-06 01:53 PM
Response to Reply #206
297. I loathe self-righteous assholes
and I loathe them doing it around me or in public.

Period.
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
Name removed Donating Member (0 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jan-09-06 07:07 PM
Response to Reply #206
365. Deleted message
Message removed by moderator. Click here to review the message board rules.
 
Beelzebud Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jan-09-06 12:08 AM
Response to Original message
213. Non-smoker here. I agree.
Land of the Free and all that stuff.

The pollution that comes from the corporations is 10x worse than someone smoking.

In the immortal words of Bill Hicks:

"Bunch of whiney little maggots aren't they? I'd quit smoking if I wasn't afraid I'd become one of you!"
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
buddysmellgood Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jan-09-06 12:38 AM
Response to Reply #213
218. I agree. Let's go after the corporations so that people can blow smoke at
people who don't want to smoke.
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
Beelzebud Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jan-09-06 02:19 AM
Response to Reply #218
226. Cry me a river.
Just keeps eroding our freedoms until nothing is left.

Can't smoke in a bar now. Next it will be you can't drink in one.
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
buddysmellgood Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jan-09-06 10:33 PM
Response to Reply #226
374. But we do regulate drinking. With rights come responsibilities.
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
Homey Donating Member (4 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jan-09-06 12:13 AM
Response to Original message
214. bullshit
Let me start off by saying I am a smoker. I don't give a shit if you smoke or not. I smoke at my house and at public areas always outside. I have no problem with anyone who doesn't smoke until they tell me I have no right to smoke...in which case they can bite my ass. That is the problem in so many areas...one bunch trying to impose their views on others. If I choose to smoke...its none of you're fucking business. Don't try to impose your beliefs on me. The very ones who snivel about Christians trying to dominate our society with their beliefs are the first ones to get in line and lobby for laws against anything they don't approve of...talk about hypocracy...lol
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
Bluebear Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jan-09-06 12:35 AM
Response to Reply #214
217. What an enlightened second post! nt
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
buddysmellgood Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jan-09-06 12:39 AM
Response to Reply #214
219. Welcome to DU Homey!
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
bbgrunt Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jan-09-06 01:28 AM
Response to Original message
221. very cogent and perceptive points, jpgray. good on ya.
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
moriverrat Donating Member (80 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jan-09-06 01:31 AM
Response to Original message
222. Follow the money

Substantial cash is made by certain interests whenever people quit smoking. Nicotine replacement products and pills come to mind. Directly or indirectly, some of that cash is finding its way into the pockets of local politicians who support smoking bans.

Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
AtomicKitten Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jan-09-06 01:40 AM
Response to Original message
224. Try to consider the view from someone that is allergic to smoke.
If I even walk by someone outside who is smoking and catch a hint of smoke, I have a major allergic asthma attack.

I hate people that throw lighted butts out their car windows.
I hate people that smoke in enclosed areas like parking garages.
I hate people who continue to smoke even when they are asked to put it out.

This is tantamount to a guy practicing his karate kicks walking down the street. He is perfectly entitled to do so and if you get in his way, it's your fault, right? But it's inconsiderate, boorish behavior.

Sorry, but when your behavior spills over onto others, it's time to check yourself.
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
Beelzebud Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jan-09-06 02:19 AM
Response to Reply #224
227. I'm allergic to cats. Should we outlaw them too?
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
AntiCoup2K4 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jan-09-06 02:38 AM
Response to Reply #227
228. Does anyone force you to breathe second hand cat hair?
I doubt it.

On the other hand, I'm sure John Asscrotch would be happy to fund your legislation.
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
jpgray Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jan-09-06 02:40 AM
Response to Reply #228
229. What about the pet store employees? Have you no concern for them?
As you should prepare to deal with smoke if you wish to work in a smoking establishment, if you wish to work in a pet store, you ought to be steeled against cat dander. I'm being somewhat facetious here to make a point, but do you see how this works? If there were both smoking and non-smoking establishments, the problem would be solved. Why it has to be an all-for-nothing ban for some people I don't understand.
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
AntiCoup2K4 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jan-09-06 01:54 PM
Response to Reply #229
298. If you are allergic to cats, and you work in a pet store.......
....you're an idiot! And yes, that's a facetious answer to a facetious question. But I'm reasonably sure that those who suffer from cat allergies know better than to hang out in pet stores, let alone work there.

As far as the opposition to smoking bans goes, the common argument used is "why don't they just go to a non-smoking bar and leave us alone to die from our addictions".

This might be well and good if you live in a large metropolitan area where there are plenty of smoke free options, but that's not neccessarily the case if you live in a smaller city or town. And believe me, I don't live in a tobacco growing state.

Fact is that there is no such thing as the "right" to smoke, and certainly not the "right" of a minority to subject the rest of the population to their addiction. And if anybody thinks that makes me a "Nazi" for saying so, just remember who it is who is funding the American Nazi Party (formerly the GOP) out of their own pockets. And it ain't me.

If some of you put half the effort into quitting that you do manufacturing bullshit "oppression" of a disgusting habit, you would be healthier and happier already. :)
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
rinsd Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jan-09-06 02:12 PM
Response to Reply #228
304. Ban the cats! (just kidding)
I am also allergic to cats sometimes so much so it can trigger an asthma attack.

I am aware of certain friends homes and cats and what time periods I can stay there before my eyes water and my breathing becomes more labored.

Interestingly, this issue came up on my last transcontinental flight home as someone had brought their cat on board in one of those carriers and several passengers asked to be moved away from the cat.
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
jeffrey_X Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Jan-10-06 10:57 AM
Response to Reply #228
386. Why would someone with cat allergies work at a pet store?
That's not logical.
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
AtomicKitten Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jan-09-06 02:42 PM
Response to Reply #227
308. You don't seriously consider that a legitimate analogy?
Behavior versus an animal?

You MUST be kidding.
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
Beelzebud Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jan-09-06 05:25 PM
Response to Reply #308
342. Hey. No one said you *had* to have a cat.
Honestly. My argument makes as much sense as yours.

The only difference is that I don't want to ban anything. I just don't go stay at people's houses that have cats, and I don't go into pet stores where cats are roaming free.
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
AtomicKitten Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jan-09-06 05:53 PM
Response to Reply #342
352. OK, but take it a step further.
Edited on Mon Jan-09-06 06:01 PM by AtomicKitten
How do I avoid cigarette smoke when I'm out and about? I'm all for having establishments that cater to smokers, and I certainly can stay clear of those, but what about people that smoke in parking enclosures where I can't avoid them? Standing on cue for events?

I can remember going to a theater in Capitola, CA in the early 1990s that actually had segregated areas for smokers, although we all breathe the same air. It was almost unbelievable that people still thought that would solve the problem.

Still your analogy is nonsense, no offense really. I'm not just opposed because I don't like the smell, I literally have an asthma attack. Smoking is a behavior that impacts others, owning a cat does not. The only possible way this would be a legitimate analogy is if people carried their cats around with them all the time.

I don't think you've thought it through to the practical applications.
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
nicknameless Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jan-09-06 07:11 PM
Response to Reply #352
366. Cigarette smoke is a "Class A" Carcinogen.
Tobacco smoke has been classified by the National Toxicology Program as a Class A Carcinogen in the same category as mustard gas, arsenic and asbestos. A Class A Carcinogen is a substance known to cause cancer in humans.

http://you-are-the-target.com/in_support_of_smoke_free_workplaces.html

The problem isn't smokers. The problem is smoke.
People generally cough around smoke because it's poisonous and their bodies "complain". Asthma attacks are frightening.

I think non-smokers are simply objecting to being killed. :shrug:

A non-smoking section of a theater is like a non-chlorinated section of a swimming pool.

(Was that the Capitola Theater, run by the two elderly sisters? Great popcorn there! :) )
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
AtomicKitten Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jan-09-06 07:38 PM
Response to Reply #366
369. yes it was.
Lived there for 15 years, in SF now.
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
Cats Against Frist Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jan-09-06 01:26 PM
Response to Reply #224
291. No one is allergic to smoke. ETS is not an allergen. n/t
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
AtomicKitten Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jan-09-06 06:22 PM
Response to Reply #291
355. Cig smoke is a trigger, not an allergen, that can cause asthma attacks.
You are correct in that it is not an allergen. It is more precisely a trigger.

However, most people don't understand that nuance.

And, more importantly, the end-result is precisely the same.

http://www.allergycapital.com.au/Pages/asthma1.html
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
mongo Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jan-09-06 03:40 PM
Response to Reply #224
321. Where were all the people like you
That become ill when they catch a "hint of smoke" in the 50's when half the population smoked?

Why is it that this smoking allergy was practically non-existant until the 80's?

Stress can trigger an asthma attack too....
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
AtomicKitten Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jan-09-06 06:34 PM
Response to Reply #321
358. I was a young child being raised by smokers in the 1950s.
Edited on Mon Jan-09-06 06:46 PM by AtomicKitten
Which is why my lungs are defective and I have to use two inhalers (a corticosteroid and a bronchodilator) just to remain stable. In the 50s, they were actually telling people cigarette smoking was healthy!

Yes, stress is a trigger, so is weather, illness, and allergies. I can't control those.

However, people blowing smoking in my face is an unnecessary trigger.

Plus it's simply a matter of common courtesy.
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
Midlodemocrat Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jan-09-06 04:19 PM
Response to Reply #224
327. Ditto.
:thumbsup:
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
EstimatedProphet Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jan-09-06 01:46 AM
Response to Original message
225. This is where the smoking ban argument falls apart IMO
It came up a few weeks ago with the Washington state ban, which bans EVERYTHING-no bars, no cigar stores, no hookah bars, etc. Some people made the point, and they had a point, that in the case of bars, even if the clientele were all smokers by choice, the waitstaff would still have to be exposed to second-hand smoke, even if they were a smoker or not.

So here's where it quits working. Say you have a cigar store. If you do, you smoke cigars-you simply aren't going to own a cigar store unless you do. You'd never have customers, because you couldn't talk from experience about your stock-you wouldn't even know what stock to keep. Additionally, if you hire someone, you will want a cigar smoker, for exactly the same reason. All of your customers are going to be cigar smokers-nonsmokers just don't buy cigars for anyone, and that certainly goes for themselves too.

So, if the intent is to protect nonsmokers, this law will have no effect. Nonsmokers aren't exposed. All that happens is that smokers are inconvenienced. Now they can't smoke at the cigar store, which means they will just take the cigars home. The employees are still going to smoke, again just at home. The only real changes are negative; people can't smoke at the store anymore, so they do it somewhere else, and the end result will be a decrease in business for the store owner, since many times extra purchases are made by someone trying a cigar in the store itself.

Now, given all of this, how is this actually helping people and keeping them from being exposed to second-hand smoke?
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
PittLib Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jan-09-06 02:51 AM
Response to Original message
231. I have to comment on this ...
Edited on Mon Jan-09-06 02:53 AM by PittLib
first of all, for the OP - right on. I believe owners should have the right to decide whether their establishment allows smoking or not. Frankly, I don't believe it would split evenly ... I'd bet that less than 1 in 10 would remain smoker friendly. I do smoke. I quit for nine months ... then Bush* "won" and I started again. I then quit for 2 months ... and started again when I became a bartender and was dying for any excuse to sneak off for 2 minutes to escape the patrons. I have two grandparents who died of smoking related illnesses. I KNOW it is bad. I go out of my way to NOT impose it anyone else. In restaurants, I sit in non-smoking when with non-smokers ... and I generally refrain when I am alone. That being said ...

The self-righteousness of non-smokers is a bit much, and the reformed are even worse - they remind me of "born-agains". The OP stressed choice. I have worked in restaurants for the last ten years and I've seen some seriously appalling behavior. I live in a city that is close to banning smoking. Many restaurants have already adopted this, which is great. I have absolutely no problem with that, and I frequent such places. Prior to my current job, I worked in an upscale chain that is cigar friendly ... not only in the bar, but in the dining room. It is not a secret. In fact, if you look up the restaurant's description, it is by its own admission, just that. Any publication listing restaurants also states this specifically. Yet somehow, we'd still get patrons who would start in on the management about the smoke several times a week. The corporation does not gear its marketing toward them. They aren't going to adapt their image because someone, who might eat there once a year, decides that the smoke is offensive. They cater to business people, men in particular, who travel and frequent their restaurants because they can guarantee exceptional service, superior and consistent quality and ... indulgence. What is wrong with that?
If I had a serious allergy or adverse reaction to smoke, I'd be smart enough to do my homework. I sure as hell wouldn't march into a place expressing moral outrage and expect an immediate change ... just like I wouldn't walk into a seafood restaurant with a severe shellfish allergy, and not expect there to be some risk. Yet people seem to feel that simply informing their server removes such risk and somehow abdicates them. Most places are more than willing to accommodate such requests, particularly dietary issues, with notice. If you have concerns, call and ask ... if you can make a reservation, you are half way there. I worked in a steakhouse and people were pissed that we didn't have a selection of vegetarian dishes (to the chef's credit, he'd gladly make special requests when notified in advance). If meat is bad for you ... does that mean that all restaurants should be forced to provide vegan dishes? Should all bars and restaurants be forced to offer sulfite-free wine because a significant number of people are sulfite intolerant? Do any of you realize what it is like to wait on a table of six on a busy Saturday and have a guest insist that the chef accommodate their Atkins diet requests while another informs you that they will have some major health crisis if they have gluten? I didn't even know what the hell gluten was. As a bartender, it is already my duty to cut off anyone who is obviously impaired under the threat of potentially being sued - even though we, as adults, have the choice to drink and how much. So, do I now have to restrict everyone for their health's sake? While we're at it ... how about banning children? This came up around here recently, and I believe many were outraged by that. I had a woman who walked over to a table and ripped into a couple dining with 2 adult children, because they politely and quietly asked to be reseated. This woman thought it was cute that her 2 year-old was hanging over the booth. The family was attempting to enjoy a very expensive meal (in the aforementioned restaurant) in relative peace. They fawned briefly, but when neither the woman nor the nanny acknowledged that it was becoming disruptive, they no longer found the behavior cute. The woman claimed that they had emotionally hurt her child by leaving and made a huge scene. As a server, I've had to dodge small children running amok while carrying plates of hot food or a tray of drinks. I even had a man try to out scream his child while I was attempting to present a verbal menu at the next table. And he looked me straight in the eye while doing so. I generally choose not to dine in places where there's likely to be children present - but if I do, I won't bitch to the manager about a screaming child. I don't give dirty looks. I know full well what I am getting into. But it could most certainly be argued that uncontrolled children can present a hazard - so where do we draw the line?

I now work in a place where the bar allows smoking, but the dining area is smoke free. I have yet to hear a complaint. About the smoke, anyway. I am on a tangent. I am trying to get out the business because I am tired of this sense of entitlement. It is truly amazing what people will bitch about. In the context of this argument ... do I have the right to insist that a clothing store carry my size so that I might shop there? Or do I accept the fact that it is just not for me? The point is ... we have choices and if an owner and employees choose to operate a smoker friendly establishment, they should be allowed to do so - just as non-smokers have the right to be notified and choose not to patronize the place. If you believe smoking to be so wrong, then you should work toward banning it outright (making it illegal) ... but merely claiming exclusion is self-righteous and silly.
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
BooScout Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jan-09-06 05:22 AM
Response to Reply #231
240. Excellent Response...
You have said everything that I would say.

Let me add that my husband and I plan on buying a pub in England within the next year. We are seriously rethinking our decision because of the smoking ban proposals currently circulating here. As a owner it should be my choice as to whether smoking is allowed and for that matter whether children are allowed. I am sick to death of people screaming about "their right to a smoke free environment".....if they don't want to experience a smoking environment then for god's sake GO SOMEPLACE ELSE........I don't want their money.
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
alfred e bush Donating Member (33 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jan-09-06 07:19 AM
Response to Reply #240
243. taco bell
i love it when the 250lb woman ....carrying a giant bag of taco bell vomit....points out that smoking can kill ya...LOLOLOLOL
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
0007 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jan-09-06 07:24 AM
Response to Reply #231
244. Cough cough, hack ...... a big large hawker coming you're way soon...argh!

cough cough
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
AtomicKitten Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jan-09-06 06:52 PM
Response to Reply #231
363. I have not expressed self-righteousness or moral outrage.
Edited on Mon Jan-09-06 06:53 PM by AtomicKitten
I have expressed a serious health risk when exposed to smokers. Big difference.

(Why do people at DU use so many superlatives in their descriptions?)

I have no problem with establishments declaring they are smoker friendly; I can avoid those. However, I cannot avoid smokers, as I've already given an example, in parking complexes, standing on cue for an event, etc.

I don't think that's unreasonable.

Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
bleedingheart Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jan-09-06 08:49 AM
Response to Original message
247. Ever think the restaurants want it to be mandatory so they don't have to
make the decision?

Now perhaps I should take off my tinfoil hat, but restaurants may secretly want this type of legislation to pass because they don't want to be the bad guys...

Cigarette smoke can penetrate almost everything..it stains walls, the smell will sink into furniture and patrons of really smokey establishments will end up smelling like they have smoked. In fact I requested a non-smoking section of a restaruant (because I have asthma)...and ended up sitting at a booth where the other side was smoking...my husband and I left and told them that we wouldn't return.

Now I have never smoked and I don't like picking on anyone but I have to say that my big pet peeve is the littering. I am disgusted by the number of cigarette butts that I find on the highway, on sidewalks..etc. In fact, I was really pissed off at my brother because he left cigarette butts all over my patio when he came to visit...how quaint...I didn't care that he smoked...it was outside but for crying out loud...when you dump your trash on my patio...you are a pig....
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
Touchdown Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jan-09-06 11:00 AM
Response to Reply #247
264. Did you provide your brother with a butt can?
Smokers who have receptacles for their butts don't litter. The removal of them by non-smokers (because they're unsightly) leave no place but the sidewalk to put them out.
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
princehal Donating Member (341 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jan-09-06 11:42 AM
Response to Reply #264
269. >Smokers who have receptacles for their butts don't litter.
So, if there is no toilet on the patio, I can crap all over it?
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
Touchdown Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jan-09-06 12:29 PM
Response to Reply #269
285. If your hostess insists that you take a shit ouside.
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
rd_kent Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jan-09-06 10:45 AM
Response to Original message
261. One flaw in your analogies.
Smoking is the ONE personal choice that no matter what, impacts every one around you. Eating meat, drinking, etc., may affect society as a whole in increased costs, drunk driving deaths... but smoking DIRECTLY IMPACTS non-smokers in the vicinity of a smoker. THATS why there is sucha hatred of smokers.
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
Bridget Burke Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jan-09-06 11:05 AM
Response to Original message
265. Houston restaurants went non-smoking in September.
Quite a few of them include bars. Smoking is still allowed "on the patio." I'm more likely to have a drink or two & a bit to eat at one of my neighborhood restaurants than to hang out in a bar for a few hours. I haven't noticed any restaurants closing because of this--in fact, the ones I frequent are doing quite well. Where are the hard statistics showing that smoking-bans make businesses close?

I don't hate smokers; I feel sorry for them. I've seen up close what emphysema, lung cancer & various other malignancies can do.
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
OzarkDem Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jan-09-06 11:19 AM
Response to Original message
267. American Cancer Society - tapping into Tobacco Settlement Funds
ACS shifted their focus to "prevention" a few years ago when hundreds of millions of dollars were awarded to states.

Its easy and very profitable to tap into these funds at the state level and use them to finance gold plated PR campaigns to get people to stop smoking. Its also much easier to launch petition drives and ad campaigns than it is to work on real problems - access to care for cancer patients, reducing environmental carcinogens, helping people pay for screening and treatment.

Some lives will be saved, but its being over-sold as a panacea. It could also be done for far less money than is being spent on it.

Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
BikeWriter Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jan-09-06 11:42 AM
Response to Original message
270. Tobacco smoke kills non-smokers, too.
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
400Years Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jan-09-06 11:59 AM
Response to Reply #270
276. nobody forces you to go to smoking establishments

There are plenty of places that don't allow smoking.

Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
BikeWriter Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jan-09-06 12:18 PM
Response to Reply #276
283. ...and why should I pay...
Edited on Mon Jan-09-06 12:22 PM by BikeWriter
for lung cancer and emphysema caused by smoking?
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
400Years Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jan-09-06 01:40 PM
Response to Reply #283
293. your not

that bordered on a non-sequitor
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
BikeWriter Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jan-09-06 05:03 PM
Response to Reply #293
338. Smoking costs are estimated at $50 billion dollars per year.
Smoking costs are estimated at $50 billion dollars per year. To cover these costs, the taxes on a pack of cigarettes should be about $4.

3000 teenagers start smoking every day.

The medical costs of smoking are $50 billion dollars each year. If you add the lost productivity, the costs rise to $97 billion dollars per year.

http://www.heartpoint.com/smoking.html
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
400Years Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Jan-10-06 10:38 AM
Response to Reply #338
382. Your not paying a dime
as I said.

Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
progressivebydesign Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jan-09-06 12:01 PM
Response to Original message
277. Can we give these stupid "why do you hate smoker" threads a rest?
Do we need to keep explaining it to you??

I couldn't give a fuck what your personal addictions are... as long as they're self contained. Shoot heroin for all I care, but when you smoke it affects EVERYONE AROUND YOU. Is smoke invisible to smokers?
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
High Plains Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jan-09-06 02:02 PM
Response to Reply #277
301. No, we don't need you to keep explaining it.
Please don't patronize businesses that allow smoking. It's called free choice.

Do we need to keep explaining that to you?
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
ComerPerro Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jan-09-06 12:15 PM
Response to Original message
281. Banning smoking in restraunts is in no way an insult to smokers
or some sort of "anti-smoker" agenda.

Its a necessary law because some people won't follow common courtesy
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
iconoclastNYC Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jan-09-06 12:16 PM
Response to Original message
282. Smoker bring it upon themselves.
Just this morning I saw a smoker heading into the subway system throw his still lit cigarette on the ground. The streets are covered in cigarette butts. It could have started a fire.

Way too many obnoxious smoker feel as if they have a right under the constitution to pollute the air of indoor space, which is ridiculous.

If they'd grow up and act like adults the antipathy would diminish.
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
Skidmore Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jan-09-06 12:32 PM
Response to Original message
286. Who hates smokers? Talk about hyperbole.
No one hates smokers. I just think they have a filthy habit that harms themselves and others. It's bad enough to think that in closed spaces to think you are breathing in used air to begin with. I don't relish the idea of breathing in used air laced with a bazillion identified carcenogenic toxins.
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
StraightDope Donating Member (716 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jan-09-06 02:25 PM
Response to Reply #286
306. "...used air laced with a bazillion identified carcenogenic toxins."
Have you ever painted a house? Or been near burning plastic? I sure as hell hope not, what with your antipathy toward carcinogen-filled air and all...

Oh, and as to no one hating smokers, I beg to differ. Those assholes who walk up in your face and "fake cough" certainly hate smokers.

SD
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
oneoftheboys Donating Member (200 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jan-09-06 12:32 PM
Response to Original message
287. I agree and I too am a non-smoker.
The anti-smoking fascists represent the flip side of anti-gay fascists coin.
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
GreenArrow Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jan-09-06 12:42 PM
Response to Original message
289. I think we should ban out of wedlock sex
or any sexual behaviour that involves risk of contracting STDs. I don't want to have to pay for that crap.
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
TimeChaser Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jan-09-06 02:00 PM
Response to Original message
300. As I said before,
Smoke wherever you want, but I'm going to cough shit up onto your shoes if your smoke makes my asthma and allergies act up.
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
XemaSab Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jan-09-06 03:19 PM
Response to Reply #300
316. You're too kind
I'd sue em for the ER costs...
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
IdaBriggs Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jan-09-06 02:10 PM
Response to Original message
303. This one is easy: I like to breathe.
I am allergic to smoke; when it is around me, I can't breathe. My asthmatic nephew (age 8) cannot breathe around smokers, nor can my dear asthmatic mother-of-two friend. My husband is also allergic, as are several other members of our immediate family.

Our right -- and that of the THIRTY-FIVE MILLION PEOPLE IN THE UNITED STATES ALONE WITH LUNG PROBLEMS -- to breathe wins.

Homosexuality and a non-vegetarian lifestyle are personal choices that don't impact anyone else. Yes, some people might get "emotionally upset" over either one, but that isn't the same as a trip to the emergency room when any of the THIRTY FIVE MILLION PEOPLE WITH LUNG PROBLEMS need help because of someone who is smoking.
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
StraightDope Donating Member (716 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jan-09-06 02:22 PM
Response to Original message
305. Anti-smoking zealots are providing fodder for the Right...
When was the last time you saw a Republican proposal to ban smoking in bars and restaurants? By vociferously supporting these measures, the Democrats who do so are setting themselves up for attack from the Right, as liberals who want to "turn America into a nanny state and take away freedoms." Whether that's right or wrong is immaterial, the fact is that it plays in Peoria, so to speak. Many blue-collar workers smoke, and if their ability to do so in a public setting is threatened by Democrats, guess who they're NOT going to vote for?

I smoke, and yet I find second hand smoke, both my own and others, extremely noxious and foul. Does that mean that I support a blanket ban on smoking in privately owned businesses? No. Why? I support maximum freedom of choice in American society. If you want to drink, do drugs, smoke, eat unhealthful foods, go right on ahead. We're all adults (presumably), we don't need to be protected from ourselves. If you don't like second-hand smoke, don't go to bars or restaurants that allow it, simple as tha.

SD
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
Cats Against Frist Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jan-09-06 04:28 PM
Response to Original message
330. Thanks for being so sane and rational
Edited on Mon Jan-09-06 04:30 PM by Cats Against Frist
It's hard to come by.

I've said just about everything that I can say on this topic, but let me add one more thing: People poo-poo and deride the smoker, for being either an addict, or a jerk. For people to cling to their hypochondria and paranoia, to the point of advocating totalitarianism, however, is every bit as fucked up as what the smoker does. Period.

I was going to let this pass, because I didn't believe that people really sucked THAT BAD, but after reading NUMEROUS posts on DU about how some "poor-mes" are "allergic" to cigarette smoke, and experiencing a situation, the other day, while passing some pale, sickly looking woman WHO WASN'T WITHIN THREE FEET OF ME do the "cough cough" and sheild her face from my cigarette, I ain't going to let it rest. Let me say, first.

NO ONE IS ALLERCIG TO CIGARETTE SMOKE. IT IS NOT AN ALLERGEN.

Second, as I posted, in another thread:

One of my best friends is a "body talk" expert, which is another way of saying, "you pay me, and I will sell you a hunk of flaming shit on a stick." She sees dozens of clients every week with "allergies" and "asthma" and fybromy-gonads, and any other auto-baloney disease that the pharmaceutical companies and doctors can cook up, for a buck. You know how she "cures" them? By making them hold an egg, or a piece of wheat and tapping them repeatedly on the head and chest. Some people, who live in the real world, call these diseases "all in your paranoia hypochondria addled brains." I submit that anywhere from 60-70 percent of those who complain about smoke flairing up their little nose hairs, need to hold an egg and be subjected to some raps on the noodle. Maybe a walk in the park, and some good sex. Maybe, a cigarette. At least smokers are willing to take some creeping, grody tumor for their particular pleasure -- attention-getting Baron Munchausens don't really have to suffer much, for the attention.

I stand by that, and wanted to add that to this thread. The ONLY issue is WHETHER OR NOT ETS CAUSES CANCER, and the jury is still out on that one. THE ONLY POSSIBLE LEGAL STANDING for any of these cigarette bans to have Constitutionality is because it exposes employees to ETS. Your choice to see a band, or go to a restaurant, or to have to climb into a detoxification generator after you pass by a smoker, is YOUR FUCKING PROBLEM.

I'm cool with all public buildings being smoke-free. I'm cool with all restaurants being non-smoking, except for those who have the high-end HVAC systems. I am NOT COOL, however, with the nannies, the hypochondriacs, the babies, the whiners who want to use the state to take smoking out of bars, cigar shops and lounges. Not cool, at all.

Time for some sanity and some compromise, instead of all this banning shit. Ban this, ban that -- I'm going to try to ban everything that makes me uncomfortable, or I can imagine causes me harm. I'm going to start with cats, lap afghans, doilies, humidifiers, hot water bottles, plastic furniture covers, websites chronicalling auto-immune disorders, those little things that you can put all your pills for the week in, and health insurance for hypochondriacs.

Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
HEyHEY Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jan-09-06 04:52 PM
Response to Original message
335. Lay off the beef industry you bastard!~
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
MikeNY Donating Member (242 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jan-09-06 05:18 PM
Response to Original message
341. Its wrong to single out a group of people
Edited on Mon Jan-09-06 05:19 PM by MikeNY
I am against the nanny state. Adults are responsible individuals. Smoking is a chemical addiction and there are many ways to get help. Most people in this country are aware of the risks. The government should not tax an industry into bankruptcy. If they do not want people to smoke, they should outright make it illegal. We would see how constitutional that would be, and how long that law would hold to judicial scrutiny.

The problem is, the government can’t ban smoking outright. Even the non-smokers would concede that is outside of their jurisdiction. But we know one thing the government can do and does quite well, and that is tax the sh*t out of people. (Let us not even talk about how the income tax was supposed to be temporary and has led to the unprecedented expansion of government powers and abuse).

In New York State, Pataki has a plan to raise the cigarette tax an additional $1.50. In New York City, there is already a $1.50 city tax, so the price of cigarettes will now exceed $10 a pack. This is not going to eliminate smoking. People will continue to buy their cigarettes mail-order, across state lines, whatever… Did Republicans stop supporting Big Tobacco after they stopped lining their pockets with campaign contributions? Probably.

I look forward to the day that we have a society that promotes individual responsibility, and not the “follow-the-leader” mentality.
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
October Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jan-09-06 05:31 PM
Response to Original message
343. I don't hate smokers, I hate the smoke!
Edited on Mon Jan-09-06 05:32 PM by October
Smokers can enjoy a meal in a smoke-free environment or a smoke-filled environment.

But I can only enjoy a meal in a smoke-free environment.

I'm sick of smelling the smoke in my so-called "no smoking" section, when it just drifts over the ridiculous "partition" meant to be a boundary marker (as if).

We recently went to dinner, and there was a table of 6 next to us, 4 of whom were smokers. They lingered and lingered...smoking and smoking...all lighting at different times, so it seemed they'd never finish "together" and leave. Their food had been removed...they were just hanging around at that point, and it was horrific for our family. I'm sure they were a nice family, and their 2 babies didn't smoke, but the grandparents and their grown kids all did and they enjoyed their meal, but we could not enjoy ours.

I grew up with smokers, so I'm familiar with their arguments, but it sucks when you want to enjoy a meal and there are smokers around. It just does.

For those of you posting statistics on cars/trucks on the highway, fine...I promise to never take my family to the side of the road for a meal.



Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
high density Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jan-09-06 06:33 PM
Response to Original message
357. All I want to be able to do is taste my food
When I go out to eat at a restaurant and it's costing me $15+ per person on the meal, it is nice to not have the taste of the food overriden with toxic smoke. People can do whatever they want in their cars or homes, but at a restaurant they need to go smoke free for an hour.
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
SPKrazy Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jan-09-06 09:19 PM
Response to Reply #357
371. That's What I'm Talking About!
Geez

What is with smokers?

You'd think that all that mattered to them was the ability to continue smoking.

In my book that is the sign of a true addiction!
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
Moochy Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jan-09-06 10:59 PM
Response to Reply #371
377. That's the arsenic talking
or maybe the gunpowder.. one of those additivies :D
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
foreigncorrespondent Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jan-09-06 10:45 PM
Response to Original message
375. Very well said!!!
And trust me, it is even worse when you are a slightly overweight, smoking, lesbian.
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
High Plains Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jan-09-06 11:41 PM
Response to Original message
380. I'm pro-choice n/t
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
Little Star Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Jan-10-06 10:46 AM
Response to Original message
384. The lawmakers are now targeting....
fat people. Yep, already! Please see post in LBN 'Lawmaker Wants Teachers In Hawaii Weighed For Obesity'. I hope I can link it right.... here goes......
http://www.democraticunderground.com/discuss/duboard.php?az=view_all&address=102x2032027
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
Moderator DU Moderator Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Jan-10-06 02:03 PM
Response to Original message
391. Locking
At almost 400 posts, we feel this thread has run its course. Thank you.
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
DU AdBot (1000+ posts) Click to send private message to this author Click to view 
this author's profile Click to add 
this author to your buddy list Click to add 
this author to your Ignore list Tue Apr 30th 2024, 05:33 PM
Response to Original message
Advertisements [?]
 Top

Home » Discuss » Archives » General Discussion (01/01/06 through 01/22/2007) Donate to DU

Powered by DCForum+ Version 1.1 Copyright 1997-2002 DCScripts.com
Software has been extensively modified by the DU administrators


Important Notices: By participating on this discussion board, visitors agree to abide by the rules outlined on our Rules page. Messages posted on the Democratic Underground Discussion Forums are the opinions of the individuals who post them, and do not necessarily represent the opinions of Democratic Underground, LLC.

Home  |  Discussion Forums  |  Journals |  Store  |  Donate

About DU  |  Contact Us  |  Privacy Policy

Got a message for Democratic Underground? Click here to send us a message.

© 2001 - 2011 Democratic Underground, LLC