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uberllama42 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jun-18-07 11:16 AM
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Does anyone else think name-calling is childish?
It makes me angry when the right-wingers use 'Democrat' as an adjective, or when I read something like "LIEberal" or "DemocRAT." By the same token, it irks me when someone uses "Rethug," "Repuke," or "Repug."

Seriously, folks, aren't we supposed to be the grown-ups in this country? We gripe about the MSM, and their childish, sound-bite news coverage, and rightfully so. Our political discourse should be about who has the best ideas, not who can come up with the most derogatory nicknames for the other side. That's the kind of thinking that put George Bush in the Oval Office.

Well, that and all the votes they stole, but y'know what I mean. That's the race car ya-ya level of thinking. We can do better.
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deutsey Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jun-18-07 11:17 AM
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1. No, you poopeyhead
Edited on Mon Jun-18-07 11:19 AM by deutsey
Sorry...I couldn't resist. :evilgrin:

Yes, I do tire of the name calling.
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wtmusic Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jun-18-07 11:19 AM
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2. Yup
It's the fastest way to diminish your argument.
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valerief Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jun-18-07 11:23 AM
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3. I think whining about it is more childish. Poopeyhead. nt
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Richardo Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jun-18-07 11:23 AM
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4. I do.
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KurtNYC Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jun-18-07 11:23 AM
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5. that's on my list of the top 2 things that are highly over-rated
#1 is sarcasm -- a highly overrated way to communicate eg. saying what you DON'T think
#2 name calling

The most persuasive arguments rely on facts and refutation. Name calling just alerts the reader that writer is perhaps blinded by hatred and therefore weakens the points they attempt to get across.
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Saturday Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jun-18-07 11:24 AM
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6. I agree namecalling is childish BUT....
I have to admit that sometimes the names the very creative people on this board come up with make me laugh out loud.
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mrcheerful Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jun-18-07 11:25 AM
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7. Well that depends on the person, I for one can't bring myself to show respect
to the party of coruption or their supporters. Nor can I show respect to GW Bush by calling him GW Bush, lord pissy pants fits him better. Childish? Maybe, but then who really wants to grow up more then the age to do adult type things?
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Kerrytravelers Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jun-18-07 11:27 AM
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8. Are we back to this topic again?
http://www.democraticunderground.com/discuss/duboard.php?az=show_topic&forum=389&topic_id=1118122

Should the Admins stop "Top 10 Idiots," because they are calling people idiots? If you don't like something, then don't do it. But telling other people not to let off steam and vent isn't going to work. Personally, I will still call them rethugs as long as their behavior is thug-like in nature.







On a different topic, what exactly is the "race-car ya-ya?" Seriously, I've never heard it before. :shrug:
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uberllama42 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jun-18-07 12:20 PM
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34. It refers to a song by Cake
Track #6 on their 1996 album Fashion Nugget. The song is a vague complaint about the "land of race car ya-yas," which I associate with the Bible Belt. To me a racecar ya-ya is an undeducated and uncritical believer in all the religious and partiotic lies promulgated by the Republicans, and the kind of person who enjoys calling others names well into adulthood.

Personally, I wouldn't have used "Top Ten Conservative Idiots," but I don't care that the column has a stupid name because the content is thoughtful and funny.
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riverdale Donating Member (881 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jun-18-07 12:24 PM
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35. WTF is race car ya-ya?
Being from Charlotte, I would consider someone calling me a "race car ya-ya" an insult in itself
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Kerrytravelers Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jun-18-07 12:33 PM
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38. I'm looking for a way to disagree... but it seems you have been insulted.
Track #6 on their 1996 album Fashion Nugget. The song is a vague complaint about the "land of race car ya-yas," which I associate with the Bible Belt. To me a racecar ya-ya is an undeducated and uncritical believer in all the religious and partiotic lies promulgated by the Republicans, and the kind of person who enjoys calling others names well into adulthood.

Personally, I wouldn't have used "Top Ten Conservative Idiots," but I don't care that the column has a stupid name because the content is thoughtful and funny.
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lonestarnot Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jun-18-07 12:54 PM
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45. ugh didn't they kill about 6 and injured 18 just the last couple days?
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riverdale Donating Member (881 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Jun-19-07 11:21 AM
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48. What do religious and partiotic lies have to do with race fans
I know many race fans who are liberals. Cake and the original message writer need to expand their horizons.
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uberllama42 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jun-18-07 12:59 PM
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47. That was a really thoughtless thing to say in a post about name-calling
Like I said, the song is really vague, so I guess the qualities I described are my own extrapolation. I really have no choice but to admit that "racecar ya-ya" was a baldly hypocritical thing to say and including it undermined my entire argument. As much as I want to rationalize, I don't have a leg to stand on. I apologize.
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Kerrytravelers Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jun-18-07 12:31 PM
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37. So, race-car ya-ya is an insult?
:eyes:
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uberllama42 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jun-18-07 12:49 PM
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42. Yeah I was waiting for someone to call me on that
It didn't occur to me until after I made the post, and I was hoping nobody would catch that. I don't really know what to say in defense of that.
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Kerrytravelers Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jun-18-07 12:52 PM
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44. I'd say to not be so critical of others in what you do yourself.
Edited on Mon Jun-18-07 12:54 PM by Kerrytravelers
And if you'd refer to these very same people as bushbots or kool-aid drinkers, I wouldn't begrudge you because the point is, these people make people like me crazy with their utter stupidity and inability to vote in their own self-interest.
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KG Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jun-18-07 11:27 AM
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9. nope. it's my world, it's fun, i like it.
:hi:
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Marr Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jun-18-07 11:27 AM
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10. I do. I think it saps your comments of some legitimacy.
No offense meant, I know we all have our own ways of talking- but when I see the nickname stuff, I start to skim.
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magellan Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jun-18-07 11:28 AM
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11. When the Dems start using the proper terminology to describe the RW
...I'll leave off with the name-calling.
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Jacobin Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jun-18-07 11:28 AM
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12. Calling someone 'childish' IS name calling
Isn't it?

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Philosoraptor Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jun-18-07 11:32 AM
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17. The last guy that called ME childish got a spit wad in the eye.
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HCE SuiGeneris Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jun-18-07 12:10 PM
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29. Ding!
Tell him what he's won Don Pardo...
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uberllama42 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jun-18-07 12:38 PM
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39. Not in my opinion
At least not on the level of "repuke." I see a big difference between legitimate criticism and mere nastiness. And until someone can convince me that names like Dumbya somehow elevate the level of discussion or make some sort of useful contribution, I stand by my criticism as legitimate.
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Philosoraptor Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jun-18-07 11:29 AM
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13. You silly pudding, is 'childish' a put down or a compliment?
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aquart Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jun-18-07 11:29 AM
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14. Agreed.
We used to call it "gooking." Gooks were what our soldiers called the Vietnamese to make them easier to kill. Names like that are purposely used to dehumanize the "enemy."

Some of our fellow Americans are Republicans. We don't like the way they think. But they are as human as we are and that includes the ones who call themselves "freepers."

Unless we are deliberately prepping them for future slaughter, we might want to remember that our fellow Americans ARE Americans and ARE human beings.

"He drew a circle that shut me out Heretic, rebel, a thing to flout But love and I had the wit to win; We drew a circle that took him in."
Edwin Markham

We are one country, even when we're screaming at each other.
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OPERATIONMINDCRIME Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jun-18-07 11:30 AM
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15. It Makes You Angry? Seriously? For Real? Wow. I Think You Take It A Bit Too Personally.
I couldn't even imagine taking it to actual heart when I read on another board the term "DemocRAT". Does it seriously make you angry?

I can only hope that you find a way to cope though, cause a thread like this ain't gonna make it stop from either side any time soon.

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uberllama42 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jun-18-07 12:45 PM
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41. I suppose my frustration stems from the realization that even among the
minority of people who actually care about politics in this country, most would rather rely on tactics like name-calling than apply real critical thinking. I'm not so fragile as to be personally offended; in my mind, this sort of rhetoric is one more demonstration of a much deeper problem with our democracy. Perhaps I'm conflating the issue, but that's what name-calling says to me.
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Kerrytravelers Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jun-18-07 12:51 PM
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43. I wouldn't draw the conclusion because some let off steam by referring to the opposition as "repuke....
that they don't apply real critical thinking. There are plenty of people who do quite a bit of work, both for a living and volunteer, and who are able to think critically, but who blow off a little steam or vent while here at DU.

But, then again, you use"race-car ya-ya" to refer to the Bible Belt flag wavers. So, really, what is the difference? :shrug:

There are some things I don't find funny and others that crack me up. However, the weight of an argument or the thoughts of a person aren't defined for me by their use of neoCON or rethug.
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OPERATIONMINDCRIME Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jun-18-07 12:55 PM
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46. To Me, The Political Issue You're Referencing Is Actually Quite Simple, Yet Disturbing.
The reason for the issue itself (name calling), is because ever since the 2000 election debacle, and steadily growing more ever since, politics and the sides of politics has become almost the same type of atmosphere as sports. It's just another sport now, and everyone's got their team to root for. It's quite sad to say, but it is that sort of sport team mentality that's permeating our politics right now that is responsible for more degeneration of political wisdom then anything else.

So the name calling itself is nothing more than typical sports minded trash talk. Same type of thing as a Devils fan tellin me "Rangers suck!". It's sad to say, but I don't see it changing any time real soon.
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tammywammy Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jun-18-07 11:31 AM
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16. I agree
Edited on Mon Jun-18-07 11:31 AM by tammywammy
That's why I don't call anyone childish names.
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Occulus Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jun-18-07 11:32 AM
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18. No
But I do think you're concerned.

Oh, so very concerned.
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Tarc Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jun-18-07 11:40 AM
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19. a fun thing to do
When I encounter someone like that in other internet forums, I'll reply to their post and edit it so only those words remain, separated by "..." It looks hilarious and usually makes other users there see just how much of a juvenile the original poster really is.
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libnnc Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jun-18-07 11:42 AM
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20. Oh good lord not this shit again
Your concern is noted. :eyes:
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BlooInBloo Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jun-18-07 11:46 AM
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21. So much concern.
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libnnc Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jun-18-07 11:54 AM
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23. I'm thinking we should be concerned about the concern...
I'm uncertain about the level of concern voiced here concerning the concern.

Do you concur regarding the sudden onset concern?
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Kerrytravelers Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jun-18-07 11:56 AM
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24. I concur concerning the uncertain level of concern concerning the concern.
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BlooInBloo Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jun-18-07 12:00 PM
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25. lololol
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Kerrytravelers Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jun-18-07 11:49 AM
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22. Funny how all of a sudden we have all this concern.
Hmmmm........
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leftofthedial Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jun-18-07 12:02 PM
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26. dork!
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ElizabethDC Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jun-18-07 12:03 PM
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27. Personally, yes. But I don't care if others want to do it.
It's just not in my nature to use little nicknames like that, so I don't do it. But if others want to do it, more power to them.
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Warpy Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jun-18-07 12:06 PM
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28. Maybe some of us are old enough to remember
the Eisenhower administration, the last decent Republican administration this country has seen.

Perhaps we don't want to dignify this band of thieves, reactionary radicals, delusional ideologues, and religious screwballs with the name the party of Lincoln bore.

Personally, I find language police more offensive than much of the language, itself.
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uppityperson Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jun-18-07 12:11 PM
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30. Derogatory nicknames put George Bush in the Oval Office?
well, fuck me.
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HCE SuiGeneris Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jun-18-07 12:13 PM
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31. Yeah...
that is just pure unadulterated douchebaggery...

:hide:
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MuseRider Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jun-18-07 12:16 PM
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32. We are all responsible only for ourselves
so don't worry about it. I don't care much for it either but since I don't (anymore or rarely) do it myself I don't sweat it.

Everyone has to deal with the anger and frustration in their own way.
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cigsandcoffee Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jun-18-07 12:19 PM
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33. Yes, it is childish.
Satisfying to be sure, but childish.
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Solly Mack Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jun-18-07 12:29 PM
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36. ssdd
Edited on Mon Jun-18-07 12:31 PM by Solly Mack
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LWolf Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jun-18-07 12:40 PM
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40. Yes.
It's embarrassing to see DUers mirroring those who post at Free Republic, to say the least.
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Javaman Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Jun-19-07 11:38 AM
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49. I know you are but what am I? nt
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Beelzebud Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Jun-19-07 11:40 AM
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50. Some of us just enjoy a little humor. You should try it sometime.
I'd rather laugh than cry.
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