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SoCalDem (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Aug-08-07 04:42 PM Original message |
A 27 year old mother (married) with 3 jobs |
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brentspeak (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Aug-08-07 04:44 PM Response to Original message |
1. Living In (Today's) USA |
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wicket (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Aug-08-07 04:48 PM Response to Reply #1 |
5. "How come families didn't have to struggle like this up until around 20 years ago?" |
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NashVegas (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Aug-08-07 08:04 PM Response to Reply #5 |
109. They Did - Just Not the Middle Class |
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Iris (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Aug-09-07 04:45 PM Response to Reply #109 |
151. I grew up middle-class and there were lots of times my parents had to "tighten their belts" |
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HowHasItComeToThis (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Aug-08-07 04:54 PM Response to Reply #1 |
13. THE CHILDREN DAMN THE PARENTS |
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slackmaster (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Aug-08-07 05:22 PM Response to Reply #1 |
45. As someone who was a child in the '60s, I have to say things were often hard then too |
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brentspeak (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Aug-08-07 05:47 PM Response to Reply #45 |
72. But SoCalWoman's friend has to work 3 jobs, each paying less than $9/hour |
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slackmaster (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Aug-08-07 05:52 PM Response to Reply #72 |
75. Personally I'd prefer one job at 20-something per hour |
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Katherine Brengle (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Aug-08-07 07:47 PM Response to Reply #72 |
103. I'm sorry, but a $2000 mortgage payment and $1000 for cars is not "staying alive" |
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NashVegas (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Aug-08-07 08:16 PM Response to Reply #103 |
110. Then Again, We Are Talking "So Cal" |
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Katherine Brengle (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Aug-08-07 09:19 PM Response to Reply #110 |
127. I guess it's a matter of priorities. |
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Iris (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Aug-09-07 04:45 PM Response to Reply #72 |
152. Then why does she have a $2,0000 mortgage payment? |
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Ilsa (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Aug-09-07 07:41 PM Response to Reply #152 |
163. I was thinking the same thing. There have to be alternatives to |
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Iris (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Aug-09-07 07:56 PM Response to Reply #163 |
164. yes. I'm not trying to be harsh |
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haele (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Aug-09-07 08:04 PM Response to Reply #152 |
166. That's the average mortgage for a 1000 sq ft house in SoCal bought after 2001 |
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Iris (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Aug-09-07 08:05 PM Response to Reply #166 |
167. when I was a child, mortgage rates were in double digits. |
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haele (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Aug-10-07 04:23 PM Response to Reply #167 |
169. I know, my parents bought their house for $25K at 11.5% in 1974 - |
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SoCalDem (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Aug-10-07 04:34 PM Response to Reply #169 |
170. When we bought our first house, the bank said to figure roughly 10% |
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girl gone mad (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Aug-09-07 05:20 PM Response to Reply #45 |
157. I think you're right about.. |
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barbtries (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Aug-08-07 05:30 PM Response to Reply #1 |
57. mmmmmm.... |
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LiberalEsto (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Aug-09-07 07:46 AM Response to Reply #1 |
140. In 1979 |
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JVS (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Aug-08-07 04:45 PM Response to Original message |
2. Jesus! What the fuck do they drive and where do they live? |
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WannaJumpMyScooter (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Aug-08-07 04:47 PM Response to Reply #2 |
4. Believe it or not, those numbers are not |
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JVS (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Aug-08-07 04:49 PM Response to Reply #4 |
7. Cars cost more in the city? |
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lumberjack_jeff (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Aug-08-07 04:51 PM Response to Reply #7 |
12. Sure. You have to have really nice cars in the city. |
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JVS (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Aug-08-07 04:58 PM Response to Reply #12 |
16. Someone call Unicef now! |
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slackmaster (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Aug-09-07 10:04 AM Response to Reply #12 |
142. I've seen people pressured by their kids into buying cars they couldn't afford |
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Marrah_G (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Aug-09-07 10:11 AM Response to Reply #142 |
143. Anyone who's children are making their financial decisions needs a kick in the ass |
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Iris (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Aug-09-07 04:48 PM Response to Reply #143 |
154. well, teenagers are wont to see things as they will and usually complain about things |
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slackmaster (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Aug-09-07 07:05 PM Response to Reply #154 |
161. Sometimes it's not worth putting up with the whining and carrying on |
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Iris (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Aug-09-07 07:58 PM Response to Reply #161 |
165. I'd put up with it to save myself a $500 a month car payment. n/t |
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slackmaster (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Aug-09-07 07:04 PM Response to Reply #143 |
160. Yes, both the parents and the teens deserve a good SPANKING |
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WannaJumpMyScooter (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Aug-08-07 08:57 PM Response to Reply #7 |
122. sure insurance does |
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Sequoia (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Aug-08-07 04:49 PM Response to Reply #2 |
6. Dump the new cars and get recycled ones. |
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SoCalDem (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Aug-08-07 04:55 PM Response to Reply #2 |
14. Sunny Southern California |
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JVS (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Aug-08-07 05:00 PM Response to Reply #14 |
20. "$685 car payment and a $450 car payment" come on, what are they driving? |
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SoCalDem (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Aug-08-07 05:04 PM Response to Reply #20 |
23. She has a Nissan something-or-other and he has a Toyota |
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superkia (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Aug-08-07 05:33 PM Response to Reply #23 |
64. My car is paid off but there were times |
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SoCalDem (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Aug-08-07 05:51 PM Response to Reply #64 |
74. Woohoo another Kia fan.. We LOVE LOVE LOVE ours.. Here's our "baby" |
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RB TexLa (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Aug-08-07 09:09 PM Response to Reply #74 |
124. Those are great looking cars |
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AZBlue (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Aug-09-07 12:13 AM Response to Reply #23 |
135. Then maybe they have bad credit and are paying more in intrerest than principal? |
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Liberal_in_LA (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Aug-08-07 09:41 PM Response to Reply #14 |
129. Starter house? More like Starter Condo for 400K |
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slackmaster (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Aug-08-07 04:46 PM Response to Original message |
3. The house paymemt is almost double mine |
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iconoclastic cat (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Aug-08-07 04:50 PM Response to Original message |
8. Uniquely American, isn't it? nt |
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DaveJ (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Aug-08-07 05:11 PM Response to Reply #8 |
30. You're right -- it's quite a system that's been created. |
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hfojvt (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Aug-08-07 07:52 PM Response to Reply #30 |
106. those people are not working poor |
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GRLMGC (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Aug-08-07 04:51 PM Response to Original message |
9. Sadly enough |
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scorpiogirl (662 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Aug-08-07 05:31 PM Original message |
Too true. |
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proud2BlibKansan (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Aug-08-07 08:26 PM Response to Original message |
113. $2000 a month RENT?? |
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scorpiogirl (662 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Aug-08-07 11:44 PM Response to Reply #113 |
133. Unfortunately, we live in a mostly wealthy town and that's not |
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proud2BlibKansan (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Aug-08-07 11:48 PM Response to Reply #133 |
134. My house is paid for |
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Xenotime (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Aug-09-07 10:59 AM Response to Reply #113 |
145. That's about average |
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MrCoffee (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Aug-08-07 04:51 PM Response to Original message |
10. i'd do a friggin' happy dance if i could find a $2000 house payment. |
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Warpy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Aug-08-07 04:51 PM Response to Original message |
11. Jeez, expectations versus reality! |
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SoCalDem (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Aug-08-07 04:59 PM Response to Reply #11 |
17. The problem is taht around here, you can rarely find used cars with low mileage |
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Warpy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Aug-08-07 10:13 PM Response to Reply #17 |
131. Until last year, I bought used vehicles and drove them to death |
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mindfulNJ (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Aug-08-07 04:57 PM Response to Original message |
15. Unfortunately it's pretty typical |
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SoCalDem (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Aug-08-07 05:00 PM Response to Reply #15 |
19. me too.. I figured out that after I paid all the costs, I would net very little |
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Katherine Brengle (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Aug-08-07 07:49 PM Response to Reply #19 |
104. That's where I am right now -- |
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BlooInBloo (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Aug-08-07 05:00 PM Response to Original message |
18. With *4* jobs, they can't make $48k-$60k/year? That sucks. |
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SoCalDem (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Aug-08-07 05:02 PM Response to Reply #18 |
21. Both are "high school only" and she makes about $8 an hour |
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JVS (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Aug-08-07 05:03 PM Response to Reply #21 |
22. Have they considered leaving SoCal? |
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SoCalDem (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Aug-08-07 05:05 PM Response to Reply #22 |
27. Probably, but when you are born somewhere and your whole family is there |
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AlCzervik (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Aug-08-07 05:15 PM Response to Reply #27 |
36. i left mass, albeit it wasn't until i was 30 but my whole family is there and we left |
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DaveJ (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Aug-08-07 05:18 PM Response to Reply #27 |
38. I don't think people should feel forced to leave their home towns... |
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SoCalDem (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Aug-08-07 05:20 PM Response to Reply #38 |
41. There are MANY communities where the "children" cannot afford to stay |
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NashVegas (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Aug-08-07 08:39 PM Response to Reply #41 |
118. My Home Town Is Becoming Like That |
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SoCalDem (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Aug-08-07 08:55 PM Response to Reply #118 |
121. and oour kids get out of college, owing a "house-worth" of debt |
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NashVegas (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Aug-08-07 09:26 PM Response to Reply #121 |
128. Yeah ... I Can't Believe That |
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Nikia (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Aug-08-07 06:16 PM Response to Reply #38 |
81. There are people in the U.S. who are poor |
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BlooInBloo (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Aug-08-07 08:29 PM Response to Reply #38 |
115. (shrug) And I don't feel the US should be forced into a bail-out because.... |
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knitter4democracy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Aug-08-07 06:10 PM Response to Reply #27 |
80. Come to Michigan! |
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OzarkDem (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Aug-08-07 07:29 PM Response to Reply #80 |
98. Here's what $265,000 gets you in Ohio |
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knitter4democracy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Aug-09-07 08:11 AM Response to Reply #98 |
141. In our town, you could get that on a river or lake. |
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SoCalDem (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Aug-09-07 01:38 PM Response to Reply #141 |
148. Until there's a flood |
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knitter4democracy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Aug-09-07 04:28 PM Response to Reply #148 |
149. Just make sure you're above the flood plain. |
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SoCalDem (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Aug-09-07 04:40 PM Response to Reply #149 |
150. In my hometown there were 3 rivers |
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PassingFair (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Aug-09-07 08:08 PM Response to Reply #80 |
168. Cheap housing, beautiful lakes & streams, great golf, good living... |
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taught_me_patience (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Aug-08-07 06:57 PM Response to Reply #27 |
91. You gotta make a viable life for yourself |
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haele (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Aug-08-07 08:24 PM Response to Reply #22 |
112. Moving costs big bucks. If they sell the house, |
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AZBlue (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Aug-09-07 12:16 AM Response to Reply #22 |
136. Moving's not cheap though. It's actually pretty expensive. |
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AlCzervik (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Aug-08-07 05:04 PM Response to Reply #21 |
24. how the hell did they qualify for a mortgage that large? |
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BlooInBloo (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Aug-08-07 05:07 PM Response to Reply #24 |
28. Subprime. Irresponsible lending, irresponsible borrowing.... |
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SoCalDem (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Aug-08-07 05:09 PM Response to Reply #24 |
29. Here's what $269,900 gets you (in a very bad neighborhood) |
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AlCzervik (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Aug-08-07 05:13 PM Response to Reply #29 |
34. i'm a tad south of Sacramento and you can buy more house for that price but |
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DaveJ (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Aug-08-07 05:25 PM Response to Reply #29 |
49. It's not much better here... |
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SoCalDem (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Aug-08-07 05:27 PM Response to Reply #49 |
53. The problem is .. that house is right in "Bloods & Crips" territory |
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DaveJ (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Aug-08-07 05:55 PM Response to Reply #53 |
78. Never really paid attention to gangs here |
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SoCalDem (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Aug-08-07 06:45 PM Response to Reply #78 |
88. We had a murder just last week.. |
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Nikia (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Aug-08-07 06:21 PM Response to Reply #29 |
85. For less than half of that |
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Katherine Brengle (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Aug-08-07 07:42 PM Response to Reply #29 |
102. That's goddamn shameful. |
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haele (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Aug-10-07 04:41 PM Response to Reply #24 |
171. Depending on when they bought it, they might have been able to afford it. |
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MrCoffee (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Aug-08-07 05:04 PM Response to Reply #21 |
26. why on earth are they still in southern california? |
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BlooInBloo (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Aug-08-07 06:58 PM Response to Reply #26 |
93. I don't know, but moving *does* require capital. |
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Deja Q (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Aug-08-07 08:48 PM Response to Reply #21 |
120. And with entry level helpdesk phone jobs requiring BACHELORS degrees... |
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Bitwit1234 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Aug-08-07 05:04 PM Response to Original message |
25. Good gogga mongga |
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trashcanistanista (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Aug-08-07 05:12 PM Response to Original message |
31. Yikes!!! There must be more to it. |
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taught_me_patience (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Aug-08-07 05:12 PM Response to Original message |
32. $650 for a car... WTF |
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trashcanistanista (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Aug-08-07 05:20 PM Response to Reply #32 |
42. Yup, my newest car (the 210 payment) |
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GRLMGC (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Aug-08-07 05:22 PM Response to Reply #42 |
44. I have a 2006 Toyota Corolla for 220 a month |
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SoCalDem (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Aug-08-07 05:26 PM Response to Reply #44 |
51. We hate car payments.. the last car payment we had was $83 a month |
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GRLMGC (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Aug-08-07 05:30 PM Response to Reply #51 |
58. I've come to resent my car payment as well |
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trashcanistanista (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Aug-08-07 05:32 PM Response to Reply #44 |
63. Yes, that sounds like |
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GRLMGC (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Aug-08-07 05:34 PM Response to Reply #63 |
65. Even though I don't have much of an income right now |
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Dogmudgeon (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Aug-08-07 05:21 PM Response to Reply #32 |
43. "She gets no sympathies." |
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SoCalDem (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Aug-08-07 05:24 PM Response to Reply #43 |
47. Yep.. it always happens.. |
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Katherine Brengle (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Aug-08-07 07:40 PM Response to Reply #47 |
101. I'm younger than your friend and I know how far my money goes. |
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trashcanistanista (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Aug-08-07 05:30 PM Response to Reply #43 |
59. No, she gets sympathies, but she needs |
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Iris (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Aug-09-07 04:51 PM Response to Reply #59 |
155. lovely post. |
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Katherine Brengle (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Aug-08-07 07:37 PM Response to Reply #32 |
100. Right? I'm 25 (26 in 2 days) and this is the first car I've ever had that |
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CoffeeCat (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Aug-08-07 05:12 PM Response to Original message |
33. These people made choices... |
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SoCalDem (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Aug-08-07 05:17 PM Response to Reply #33 |
37. It's nuts, isn;t it.. the newest car we have, cost only $4K less than the first house we bought |
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saracat (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Aug-08-07 05:25 PM Response to Reply #33 |
50. It doesn't sound like they have expensive cars. And the house is in SoCal |
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JVS (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Aug-08-07 05:35 PM Response to Reply #50 |
66. If that's the case they'll be fine once they pay off the cars which they decided to do the hard way |
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CoffeeCat (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Aug-08-07 05:47 PM Response to Reply #50 |
71. Sounds expensive to me... |
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saracat (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Aug-08-07 06:01 PM Response to Reply #71 |
79. I mispoke .I meant they didn't have "expensive cars"! Of course the payments are expensive. |
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Katherine Brengle (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Aug-08-07 05:31 PM Response to Reply #33 |
61. Exactly. |
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CrispyQ (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Aug-09-07 05:05 PM Response to Reply #33 |
156. ... |
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taterguy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Aug-08-07 05:14 PM Response to Original message |
35. I smoke and drink like a fiend and I'm never broke |
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AlCzervik (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Aug-08-07 05:18 PM Response to Reply #35 |
39. i felt that way when i lived in Texas, the house we bought was so inexpensive |
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girl gone mad (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Aug-09-07 06:32 PM Response to Reply #39 |
159. Texas is cheap.. |
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JVS (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Aug-08-07 05:19 PM Response to Reply #35 |
40. What about drugs and gambling? Any good meth and cockfight places out there? |
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taterguy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Aug-08-07 05:24 PM Response to Reply #40 |
48. Nicotine, caffiene and alcohol are the only drugs I need |
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JVS (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Aug-08-07 05:27 PM Response to Reply #48 |
52. I thought you believed in living life to its fullest! |
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taterguy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Aug-08-07 05:31 PM Response to Reply #52 |
62. The cocks I like don't fight |
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DaveJ (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Aug-08-07 05:36 PM Response to Reply #35 |
67. Do you have any sympathy for us urban dwellers? |
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marions ghost (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Aug-08-07 06:47 PM Response to Reply #67 |
89. I do... |
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eridani (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Aug-09-07 12:55 AM Response to Reply #67 |
137. It's like this |
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valerief (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Aug-08-07 05:23 PM Response to Original message |
46. And SUVs break bridges, too. nt |
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SoCalDem (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Aug-08-07 05:28 PM Response to Reply #46 |
54. huh? n/t |
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valerief (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Aug-08-07 05:30 PM Response to Reply #54 |
60. Her $700/mo car is probably a fancy SUV. The increase in the number of |
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saracat (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Aug-08-07 06:18 PM Response to Reply #60 |
83. It was already posted.Nope.They have Nisson and a Toyota! Why are you so judgemental? Sheesh! |
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valerief (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Aug-09-07 12:24 PM Response to Reply #83 |
146. Wow. You have a low threshold for what being judgmental is. nt |
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barbtries (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Aug-08-07 05:29 PM Response to Original message |
55. wow |
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DaveJ (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Aug-08-07 05:44 PM Response to Reply #55 |
69. Sorry about your problem... |
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barbtries (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Aug-08-07 06:16 PM Response to Reply #69 |
82. i am pissed. |
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qanda (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Aug-08-07 07:56 PM Response to Reply #82 |
107. I'm in Maryland and my landlord just raised the rent $275 |
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SoCalDem (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Aug-08-07 05:47 PM Response to Reply #55 |
70. Where in SoCal are you? |
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barbtries (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Aug-08-07 05:55 PM Response to Reply #70 |
77. hawthorne |
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marions ghost (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Aug-08-07 06:56 PM Response to Reply #55 |
90. my good old friend from California |
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Katherine Brengle (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Aug-08-07 05:29 PM Response to Original message |
56. I have a lot of trouble feeling sorry for people who make horrible decisions like that... |
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HughBeaumont (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Aug-08-07 05:39 PM Response to Original message |
68. Those cars need to be dumped NOW. |
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MissB (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Aug-08-07 05:50 PM Response to Original message |
73. She probably pays a small fortune in child care too. |
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piedmont (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Aug-08-07 05:54 PM Response to Original message |
76. People get get weirdly emotional about buying cars and houses. |
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meowomon (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Aug-08-07 06:20 PM Response to Original message |
84. Where the hell does she live? |
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karlrschneider (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Aug-08-07 06:22 PM Response to Original message |
86. Jeez, when do you guys bowl, at 4 a.m.? |
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SoCalDem (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Aug-08-07 06:41 PM Response to Reply #86 |
87. Nope.. Tuesday nights at 7.. (she was considering giving up one night's work) |
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jaysunb (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Aug-08-07 06:57 PM Response to Reply #87 |
92. I meant to mention in the pm |
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SoCalDem (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Aug-08-07 07:00 PM Response to Reply #92 |
94. When we lived in Michigan City, Indiana, the bowling alley had MIDNIGHT leagues |
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jaysunb (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Aug-08-07 07:07 PM Response to Reply #94 |
95. Cleveland, Ohio 1960 |
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karlrschneider (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Aug-08-07 09:10 PM Response to Reply #87 |
125. Oh, well you did her a favor then! |
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CelticWinter (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Aug-08-07 07:10 PM Response to Original message |
96. I cant believe how exspensive housing is there--- |
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jaysunb (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Aug-08-07 07:22 PM Response to Reply #96 |
97. Wow ! I pay almost that much in property tax... |
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Katherine Brengle (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Aug-08-07 07:34 PM Response to Reply #96 |
99. Where do you live? I want to move there. |
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CelticWinter (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Aug-08-07 07:51 PM Response to Reply #99 |
105. Im in northwest PA |
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Katherine Brengle (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Aug-08-07 07:57 PM Response to Reply #105 |
108. Thanks :D |
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proud2BlibKansan (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Aug-08-07 08:20 PM Response to Original message |
111. A $2000 house payment???? |
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SoCalDem (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Aug-08-07 08:28 PM Response to Reply #111 |
114. probably something like this.. ( |
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proud2BlibKansan (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Aug-08-07 08:31 PM Response to Reply #114 |
116. That's insane |
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progressoid (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Aug-08-07 08:34 PM Response to Original message |
117. Exactly right. |
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Lydia Leftcoast (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Aug-08-07 08:46 PM Response to Original message |
119. I have chosen not to buy a house or condo |
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voltairine (8 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Aug-08-07 09:07 PM Response to Original message |
123. Strike up the violins |
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distantearlywarning (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Aug-08-07 09:18 PM Response to Original message |
126. My advice: move |
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Liberal_in_LA (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Aug-08-07 09:47 PM Response to Original message |
130. Regarding the expensive cars - dealer will almost FORCE you to buy more expensive than you wanted. |
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SoCalDem (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Aug-08-07 10:50 PM Response to Reply #130 |
132. We trick them... we haggle on price for the one we want |
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sanskritwarrior (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Aug-09-07 12:55 AM Response to Original message |
138. 685 car note? |
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Dragonbreathp9d (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Aug-09-07 06:42 AM Response to Original message |
139. She's uniquely American! |
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Xenotime (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Aug-09-07 10:15 AM Response to Original message |
144. Why can't the government assist and help people like this... |
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Marrah_G (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Aug-09-07 12:30 PM Response to Reply #144 |
147. with 1000 $ a month in car loans? |
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BlooInBloo (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Aug-09-07 04:47 PM Response to Reply #147 |
153. Yup. Government should be helping those who've exhausted what they.... |
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iamthebandfanman (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Aug-09-07 06:23 PM Response to Original message |
158. well i think its sad |
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Wcross (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Aug-09-07 07:35 PM Response to Original message |
162. You're so cool SoCalDem! Maybe you got to her? |
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