I posted part one on May 9 last year:
http://www.democraticunderground.com/discuss/duboard.php?az=view_all&address=364x1144775My wife has been in bed most of the last 8 days, and her head shakes so much now our daughter notices it and ask why mommy can't stop it, and why is she in bed most the time.
She comes down here to my office and hangs out once in a while, checks in on DU and her entertainment news as well as her favorite sport, hockey.
The one thing on my journey in life the last few years I have come to better understand is how many of us are in the same style boat, just in a different pond.
You really can't tell what I am going through - but you have probably felt the same emotions I have, and that is where we as decent people have learned empathy. It is why the left is better off than the right.
I see stories of homeless people, or soldiers dying, or famous people, sick kids, racism, homophobia, and the list is near endless - and while I may not be able to relate to exactly what they are going through I can relate to how those same emotions have affected me.
Fear, stress, suicidal thoughts, depression, not caring to do anything, hopelessness, loss of a loved one and all it invokes, etc and so on.
I can't even relate 1 to 1 with my wife, she is living it and I am living with it. But I know the emotions, and how they hurt.
When the left cries out for more rights for workers, more health care for the people, and all those issues we care about it is not always because we ourselves are suffering through those issues - it is because we can see the pain in the eyes of our fellow humans.
We see the pain in the eyes of some of young kids being sent into a war, and we want them out. We see that homeless lady on the streets freezing, and then hear the rw radio pundits saying she is just lazy - and we know better.
Is my wife lazy? If I were not here and she had no family she would be homeless - she is not a young sexy blond haired girl that rw men would snatch up based on looks and take care of, if you aren't the pretty arm candy some people don't see any worth in you. And yet, she is a very pretty red head, one who dreams of seeing england, going to a hockey game, and not having this disease.
Compassion comes from either judging a person on their looks - or looking into their eyes and seeing that behind this flesh that covers our bones there stands a beautiful human who just wants to be loved and understood.
We all suffer in some ways at some points - and how we as fellow humans react tells me a lot about our species and where we are headed.
The odd thing though is - I feel a great percentage of us are decent folks, but somehow the ones who weren't got into power (and not just here).
You don't have to walk in someone else's shoes to know what it is like - you do though have to have walked in your own shoes and kept the memories of what your bad times were like because until you do that, you cannot map your feelings from your life to grasping the pain in someone else's.
Life is good. Life is bad. Life is our teacher. Sadly some have failed to learn, and yet they call themselves 'compassionate conservatives'