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Perseid Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Nov-21-07 01:12 PM
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What Are Your Thoughts On This?
http://transsexual.org/out.html

Our culture still puts a lot of energy into hatred and damnation of difference in general, and being queer in particular. From grade school on, the constant use of terms like 'fag' and 'lesbo' and 'sex change' as curses and disparagement inflicts and instills a deep set shame in almost everyone. This subtle and pervasive bigotry is quickly escalated to actual violence or discrimination that occurs on a daily basis that can affect almost every aspect of life.

Within such a toxic environment of both overt and covert condemnation, the queer individual is constantly under psychological and emotional attack.

This attack easily - and early in life - becomes internalized to varying degrees. Not only is the queer individual buffeted by storms of hatred outside, but soon becomes infected with hatred from the inside. Self worth becomes replaced with varying degrees of shame and even self loathing. Inevitably this leads to suffering, and even self destruction.

<more> (if you're interested, that is)
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Perseid Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Nov-21-07 01:26 PM
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1. sorry to reply to myself, but
read this and was astounded:

"Transsexuals suffer many hurdles to achieve their required correction of the error of their birth. They must face society, the medical establishment, the common loss of all family and friends, the cost of treatment, the extreme difficulty of the required 'half-way' phase of transition which may last up to two years, and the inner turmoil of self-doubt and conditioned self loathing of their condition. It has been estimated (in 1981) that about 50% do not survive the malady, ending up dead by the age of 30, usually by their own hand. Almost all of this morbidity is attributed to the additional burden caused by the violent unacceptance of society, the rejection of family and friends, and the inability to find decent care."
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Perseid Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Nov-21-07 01:37 PM
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2. Too confusing? Too scary to contemplate?
Convincing yourself that it is too small of a problem to be discussed?

Not important in the larger scheme of things?

ok
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IndianaJones Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Nov-21-07 01:38 PM
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3. yeah...thats it. nt.
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Perseid Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Nov-21-07 01:41 PM
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4. me senses an underlying layer of sarcasm!
that's ok!

peace
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IndianaJones Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Nov-21-07 01:41 PM
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5. not at all. nt.
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libnnc Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Nov-21-07 01:45 PM
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6. There's a ton of useful info there.
Transgendered people have many hurdles to overcome and they are constantly misunderstood in today's society.

Thank you for posting it.

Do you want a cookie or something?
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Perseid Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Nov-21-07 01:46 PM
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7. Cookies make me gain weight, so
I prefer something!
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