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tannybogus Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Aug-17-08 06:02 PM
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Parents Let Kid Drop Out of High School to Focus on Guitar Hero
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Blake is 16, resides in North Raleigh and lives to play video games. On this night, he's at the Fox and Hound in Raleigh's North Hills shopping district. It's the restaurant's regular Sunday "Guitar Hero" night, and Blake and his family have come to watch and play. His brother and sister are here, as are his mom and dad, an aunt and an uncle, some cousins and some friends.

But in the end, it's not the people related to Blake who confirm his plastic-guitar prowess. It's the group of 20-somethings sitting at a nearby table, who applaud when Blake finishes playing along to "Through the Fire and Flames," viewed as the game's toughest song.
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That is not to say that it was an easy decision for them to let Blake leave school last September. They would have preferred that he stay in high school with his brother. But he bugged them until they let him quit.

"We couldn't take the complaining anymore," says Hunter. "He always told me that he thought school was a waste of time."
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http://www.newsobserver.com/2766/story/1155589-p2.html

Complaining didn't work for me too well.:yoiks:


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MsKandice01 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Aug-17-08 06:05 PM
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1. That's the epitome of lazy parenting..
Letting your child quit school because you got tired of listening to him whine??
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Ex Lurker Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Aug-17-08 06:28 PM
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24. School CAN in large part be a
waste of time, but it's one of those boxes that has to be checked on the way to functioning adulthood. Skip that step and you'll regret it. It would be one thing if he had an actual legitimate career opportunity, but guitar hero? I agree that this kid's parents abdicated their responsibility. They've done their son no favors.
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Ex Lurker Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Aug-17-08 06:32 PM
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25. Wait, in reading the whole article
I see that he's being tutored. Still a waste of time, but he's not a dropout.
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anonymous171 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Aug-17-08 06:06 PM
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2. lol That kid is stupid.
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BlooInBloo Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Aug-17-08 06:11 PM
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10. Kids are *supposed* to be stupid. That's why they're called "kids". What's the parents' excuse?
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JerseygirlCT Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Aug-17-08 08:37 PM
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45. My guess would be that the kid has never been taught to be
anything BUT stupid. At this age, he ought to be able to start figuring things out normally. But I'd bet that parents who would allow this have allowed all sorts of stupid through the years.
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Occam Bandage Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Aug-17-08 06:06 PM
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3. Maybe someday he'll be a professional guitar-heroist!
:crazy:
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jmowreader Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Aug-17-08 07:19 PM
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32. Actually...he already IS
I didn't know this so you probably didn't either, but there's a professional video gamers' league. They get endorsements and everything. That's what this guy is doing. He's getting homeschooled, so it's not like he's going to turn out to be a total bum.

One of my installers at work is a Baseball Dad From Hell...he homeschools his nine-year-old son so school won't get in the way of baseball tournaments. I worked with someone once who quit her job so she could homeschool her horse-jumping daughter. If people can homeschool so their kids can play baseball or jump horses, why NOT so they can be professional guitar heroists?
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tammywammy Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Aug-17-08 06:07 PM
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4. Wasn't this a South Park episode?
:rofl:
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0rganism Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Aug-17-08 07:41 PM
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38. He'll never catch the dragon
Edited on Sun Aug-17-08 07:48 PM by 0rganism
:rofl:

BTW: play the Heroin Hero game
I figure it's only a matter of time before we get an online version of Rehab Hero...
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1monster Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Aug-17-08 06:08 PM
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5. They couldn't buy him a real guitar so he could, at least, busk for a living
Edited on Sun Aug-17-08 06:08 PM by 1monster
when he can't get a job for lack of a high school education?

If high school is a waste of time, then what the heck is Guitar Hero? It was DESIGNED to be an entertaining time waster... :crazy:

In my opinion, these parents had abrogated their responsibilities as parents.
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JerseygirlCT Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Aug-17-08 06:09 PM
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8. My guitar-player (real guitar) says the game just isn't anything at
all like playing the real thing...

So yeah, not even picking up a useful skill here.
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originalpckelly Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Aug-17-08 06:14 PM
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15. Oh no it ain't!
Edited on Sun Aug-17-08 06:14 PM by originalpckelly
:P

It's really sad too, since this shitty game came out, all the cheap musical instruments out on the market everywhere have vanished. It really fucking pisses me off, just think about all the kids out there with talent who aren't using it, but are wasting it on this stupid game.
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JerseygirlCT Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Aug-17-08 06:22 PM
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22. Oh I agree with that. We don't have a game system of any type -
short of a drawer somewhere with old gameboys in them, lol.

But when the kids get interested in playing an instrument, I'm a sucker every time. We have a piano, a violin, several different guitars, a mandolin, a ukelele, a keyboard... and maybe some I'm missing. One is now interested in sax - I'm all for it!
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1monster Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Aug-17-08 06:39 PM
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27. Full 88 key keyboard, eight guitars (seven are my husbands), bells, saxophone,
clarinet, three violins (they are mine,but he said he wanted to learn to play), bongo drum, (some small primitive insturments like a thumb piano), a lap harp, a very nice Native American B-flat flute, tamborine, castanets, and probably more, but I can't think of them right now.

And he doesn't practice any of them..... Some of them are wall decorations these days... At least I get that use out of them.
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JerseygirlCT Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Aug-17-08 07:39 PM
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37. Happily, mine are both very into them. Especially the older
He's constantly making music - gotta love that! The younger practices faithfully, listens carefully... but we'll have to see how much is inborn in him, and how much is brother worship!
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dysfunctional press Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Aug-17-08 06:17 PM
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18. it's just a game controller.
my sister-in-law wondered aloud if it wouldn't actually help kids learn to play a real guitar.

for the sake of family unity, i closed my eyes to roll them, and kept my groan to myself.
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cobalt1999 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Aug-17-08 06:12 PM
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12. However, since the kid will never be able to support himself, he'll never move out
So they get punished for their stupidity in the long run.
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Coventina Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Aug-17-08 06:08 PM
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6. He's a Gui-tar He-ro, with stars in his eyes!
Apologies to whatever that band's name is...
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JerseygirlCT Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Aug-17-08 06:10 PM
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9. Foreigner, I think. nt
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doublethink Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Aug-17-08 06:11 PM
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11. Foreigner !!
song was Juke Box Hero .... or Jukebox Hero.
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JerseygirlCT Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Aug-17-08 06:08 PM
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7. "We couldn't take the complaining anymore"... oh, I'm betting
this has been a certainty since he was a small child, and allowed to run wild and purchase anything he wanted, and eat anything he wanted... because they couldn't take the complaining anymore...

Guess what folks? You signed on to taking the complaining when you gave birth to that child and chose to raise him. Get used to the complaining, it goes with the job. Although, given your performance, I'd say you ought to be fired from that job.
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earthlover Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Aug-17-08 08:32 PM
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41. Good point. Obviously the complaining and whining WORKED!
The kid got his way by doing it. Only to reinforce another round of whining.

Don't think this was a good career move for the kid.
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JerseygirlCT Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Aug-17-08 08:35 PM
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42. Yes, that's the sad part. The person their laziness will hurt most
is their child.
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originalpckelly Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Aug-17-08 06:12 PM
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13. OK, so he's not even a real musician, he's just playing a stupid video game?
Seriously?
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tannybogus Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Aug-17-08 06:13 PM
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14. Yep!nt
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originalpckelly Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Aug-17-08 06:15 PM
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16. I hate Guitar Hero, this story made me hate it more.
My next song will be, "stupid piece of...video game, your ass is so fucking lame."
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MrSlayer Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Aug-17-08 06:17 PM
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17. What sort of a future does this prepare you for?
At least pick up a real instrument. This is simply ridiculous and it's not going to seem so cute when at 35 this jackass has no job, no life and is still leeching.
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tannybogus Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Aug-17-08 06:18 PM
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20. He'll be President ! nt
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dysfunctional press Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Aug-17-08 06:20 PM
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21. this one...
Edited on Sun Aug-17-08 06:20 PM by QuestionAll


(btw- if you search google images for "dishwasher" you get pages and pages of pictures of machines...you have to put in "mexican dishwasher" to get a person)
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wtmusic Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Aug-17-08 07:23 PM
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34. backstage at the Fox and Hound nt
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BulletproofLandshark Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Aug-17-08 06:18 PM
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19. What shitty parents.
Surely letting you kid drop out of school to focus on his video game prowess must be some kind of child neglect. That kid could have bitched and moaned until he lost his voice and there would still be no way he'd be giving up school for Guitar Hero. Besides, Rock Band is better. :hide:
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Sanctified Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Aug-17-08 06:24 PM
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23. Well if the kid gets a job that pays $80,000 he can always get a GED.
Edited on Sun Aug-17-08 06:24 PM by MiltonF
And do some community college later, but by the sounds of it this kid dropping out probably increased his school districts testing average so it's a good thing.
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muriel_volestrangler Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Aug-17-08 06:39 PM
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26. It doesn't say how much the tutors are costing them
but it claims that the grades they give him are OK:

Blake is happy with his success. Mom and Dad are happy with his grades. Since he's gone to the tutoring arrangement, she hasn't once had to tell him to do his homework, because he does it on his own. They got plenty of grief from family and friends about their decision at first, but they've also watched Blake, who is shy and disliked school, become a happier person.


So it sounds as if they have money to indulge him this way. Maybe they know what they're doing.

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Ex Lurker Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Aug-17-08 06:41 PM
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28. I wouldn't go that far
it seems pretty ridiculous to me, but it's their money and their business, as long as it doesn't completely trash his future, which apparently it isn't.
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Zhade Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Aug-17-08 06:43 PM
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29. Fault of the parents, not video games.
End of debate.

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Dorian Gray Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Aug-17-08 06:50 PM
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30. Wow....
those parents are idiots.


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salguine Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Aug-17-08 06:53 PM
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31. The kid's half right. While I wouldn't say playing video games
would be an acceptable substitute, I'd agree that, if it's public school he was in, it actually probably WAS waste of time.
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Kermitt Gribble Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Aug-17-08 07:21 PM
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33. The public schools where I grew up
were all very good schools save 1. The private school in the area was the largest breeding ground for cocaine use. I think your opinion is way off in most cases.
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AllentownJake Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Aug-17-08 07:25 PM
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35. What great parents!
Mom buy me beer...no Mom buy me beer no...Mom buy me beer...ok only if you stop complaining honey.
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Kermitt Gribble Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Aug-17-08 07:27 PM
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36. Probably,
if the kid put as much time into learning to play an actual guitar as he does this ridiculous game, he could make a decent living as a musician.

I don't know what's more pathetic, the game itself, or the crowd that comes to watch the competitors. There are so many clubs with live bands that have a hard time drawing a crowd, yet people will go watch this crap. Says a lot about the intelligence of the average US American.
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Rocknrule Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Aug-17-08 08:21 PM
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39. Congratulations, you...are...F*GS!!!
(no offense meant to homosexuals, just quoting South Park)
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originalpckelly Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Aug-17-08 08:40 PM
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46. I give my official fag seal of approval to this comment.
:P
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proud2BlibKansan Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Aug-17-08 08:31 PM
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40. Oh good grief
What is this - The Worst Parents Olympics? Give these idiots the gold medal.
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Midlodemocrat Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Aug-17-08 08:37 PM
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43. LOL. Re - your sig.
I was watching ConAir on tv and the signs for gas were $1.03. :rofl:
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proud2BlibKansan Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Aug-17-08 09:14 PM
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48. Here in my city it was 96 cents in 2000
:)
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WhollyHeretic Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Aug-17-08 08:37 PM
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44. "He always told me that he thought school was a waste of time." - Gee I wonder how that
idea was instilled in him. :eyes:
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fortyfeetunder Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Aug-17-08 09:00 PM
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47. GH is just a fad
I am still struggling with why the parents think letting him drop out of school to be a gamer. This GH is a fad.

In 5 years, GH will be in the used video game market, to be superceded by some other fad game!
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