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Edited on Sun Oct-26-08 12:36 AM by Journalgrrl
My sister is about 5 years older than me. We have always been pretty different. I am the expressive one, trying to "find myself" and having many jobs and lifestyles in that search...while she did exactly as she was trained to do, get a good job, credit, husband, etc...
Now, her and her husband have a pretty nice house in Washoe Co. she works full time and he is home to take care of the kids since he is on permanent disability (3 back surgeries...) They have a boat, cars, and TONS of debt...because they live on their plastic and if anything should happen to her job their lifestyle would be in the crapper. I have often envied her for her "stable" life, and the fact that she has done it all "right" They don't make $250K a year though, they are just average americans by most standards.
I am a renter and have a section 8 subsidy for help to pay my rent, single mom of 3 and 2 bad exes over the last 20 years..i have never owned anything of value, can't get a credit card to save my life and have trouble just keeping a bank account open, because I play it so close to the vest to live. i did find my passion in career, i work part time for my church and the other half of my time I pick up freelancing writing gigs with our local news rag and do web design and mktg...still it is nickels and dimes compared to a steady job - but 40+ hours a week has never worked for me, especially with a special needs child.
Now - here's what I am getting to. My sis & B-i-L were up at the folk's cabin this weekend, and I stooped by to see them and let our kids play. Within the first 5 minutes, my sister nods to my obama button and says, "you better take that off before my husband sees it." I was like...:"excuuse me?" she says "well, he's for the other ones" (couldn't even say Mccain or palin's names?) i said "too bad he will be crying in his beer Nov 5th" she says "what a sad day that will be" again, shocked...I said "what, are you serious?" she said "we don't like 'that one'...can't trust him...don't buy his spiel, he's fake..."
:puke: Are you fucking kidding me!???
I changed the subject and walked away, trying to avoid a confrontation......went to play with the kids. As I am standing there talking to her about our health, etc... I am thinking I don't even know this person, she is my sister, and I know her less than an acquaintance...how are we even of the same womb and upbringing... !
so as we are all going out to the cars in about an hour, Her husband makes a snide comment about tearing off my bumper stickers... I just looked them both in the face and said
"you know, YES, I AM a peace-mongering, liberal, care for my fellow man, hippie.... there's one in every family I guess, Better get used to it!"
I kept it light, but they could tell I wasn't going to feel ashamed for my choices.
enough said, I got the kids in the car and got out of there before I got mad.... they wanted to get together for lunch tomorrow but we were busy and I won't have to deal with them until after the election...
I got home and called my Mom, just to say I couldn't believe that she had swung that way... and she said they don't even vote! ...so they have no real right to an opinion since they don't care enough to vote! This is my southern, Barack-voting Momma who grew up deep in Mississippi and just recently decided He was the only hope we had for the future!
Good, two LESS we have to worry about! ugh.
I love my sister, but sometimes I think my mom had an affair with the milkman because I am SO different from her and my dad! Yikes!
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