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Liberal_in_LA Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Jan-10-09 03:08 AM
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Husband wants kidney back from wife, or $1.5 million divorce settlement
Husband wants kidney back from wife, or $1.5 million divorce settlement
Submitted by Amit Pathania on Thu, 01/08/2009 - 07:24 Long Island New York

In a one-of-its-kind divorce case, which medical ethicists already say is a nonstarter, a Long Island surgeon either wants the kidney - that the donated to his wife - back, or else is seeking a $1.5 million settlement for the donated organ!

Dr. Richard Batista, a surgeon at Nassau University Medical Center since 1992, donated his kidney to his wife, Dawnell Batista, in June
2001, in order to save her life after she had undergone two unsuccessful kidney transplants.

At a news conference in Garden City, Dr. Batista, 49, said that the second thing he looked forward to, after his kidney was transplanted to his wife, was turning around their marriage which had been rickety because of Dawnell's illness.

http://topnews.us/content/22188-husband-wants-kidney-back-wife-or-15-million-divorce-settlement
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jobycom Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Jan-10-09 03:11 AM
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1. I can get him a kidney. Believe me, dude, there are ways. You don't want to know.
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AngelaE8654 Donating Member (1 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Jan-10-09 03:32 AM
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6. You can get him a kidney, eh?
Edited on Sat Jan-10-09 03:38 AM by AngelaE8654
LOL! No, I DON'T want to know. I saw something like that on Law and Order. :D




http://angelasdiscountmarket.com/angela.html

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jobycom Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Jan-10-09 03:46 AM
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8. Psst.
(Random line from The Big Lebowski, just substituting kidney for toe.)
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madeline_con Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Jan-10-09 03:55 AM
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10. But he wants the one SHE has! n/t
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Richard Steele Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Jan-10-09 03:12 AM
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2. I hope the Courts fine him for wasting their time before telling him where to shove his case.
What an asshole.
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JI7 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Jan-10-09 03:12 AM
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3. asshole
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TahitiNut Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Jan-10-09 03:24 AM
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4. Sounds reasonable to me.
:silly:
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elleng Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Jan-10-09 03:24 AM
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5. As might be expected,
this case is not as simple as it may at first appear.

"Dawnell Batista, a 44-year-old nurse, filed for divorce in July 2005, which her husband countersued the same year.

Dr. Batista's attorney, Dominic Barbara, said the demand for the kidney was not part of the original countersuit; it was the latest introduction, after Dawnell did not allow him the agreed-upon visitation with the couple's three children- who are aged 14, 11 and 8."

The 'kidney' matter will likely be deleted from the suit,imo, as such 'relief' would be clearly against 'public policy,' as is her alleged behavior!
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Ellen Forradalom Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Jan-10-09 03:34 AM
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7. clearly emotions are running a little high here
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jobycom Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Jan-10-09 03:53 AM
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9. Not really. It's more of a line on their accounting sheet.
He's saying that he's contributed a kidney to the marriage, so the final settlement should include monetary recognition of that fact, just as it would consider a house he brought into the marriage. It's just a way for him to work the kidney donation into the final settlement, hoping for a more favorable ruling.

The case is sad. He donated a kidney, then she started having an affair, then left him and took their young kids, and kept him from seeing them. No idea who to side with, or whether both are just jerks. The affair makes it seem like her fault, but of course we all know people who are so controlling or abusive that the spouse tries to escape any way they can.

But it's clear he doesn't expect the kidney back, it's just a monetary consideration he wants considered.
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Unrepentant Fenian Donating Member (707 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Jan-10-09 04:19 AM
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11. I wonder if he's suing for joint custody of the silicon twins too.
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jobycom Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Jan-10-09 04:25 AM
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12. Some lawyers compared his claim to husbands who list implants as assets
they are entitled to part of, since they paid for them. Usually those claims are rejected. Since the kidney was once part of him, it seems like a better argument. On the other hand, the kidney was obviously meant to be a donation and not something to be considered communal property, so it's still a weak claim. I suspect it's more of his attempt to influence the judge by showing that he made this great sacrifice which should reflect well on him.

He said he hoped this would never become a story, because it was just part of his overall divorce case, and he didn't want it blown out of proportion. That was wistful thinking! I bet they get more than $1.5 million for the movie rights alone.

BTW, I'm not a lawyer or anything, this story has just fascinated me.
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