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cali (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jan-28-09 07:04 AM Original message |
I have no sympathy for the man who lost his job and killed his |
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varkam (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jan-28-09 07:09 AM Response to Original message |
1. I think you can have sympathy for their situation while also recognizing... |
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madaboutharry (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jan-28-09 07:10 AM Response to Original message |
2. I agree. |
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elleng (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jan-28-09 07:10 AM Response to Original message |
3. I don't he's seeking your sympathy. |
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cali (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jan-28-09 07:17 AM Response to Reply #3 |
5. and that has absolutely zip to do with the points I made in my OP |
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elleng (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jan-28-09 07:35 AM Response to Reply #5 |
11. wonderful; |
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Berry Cool (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jan-28-09 07:13 AM Response to Original message |
4. No, but some of them seriously consider it. |
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pipi_k (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jan-28-09 11:34 AM Response to Reply #4 |
32. You understand |
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Dennis Donovan (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jan-28-09 07:20 AM Response to Original message |
6. I do... |
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cali (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jan-28-09 07:22 AM Response to Reply #6 |
7. The vast majority of those with mental illnesses pose no more of a threat |
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Dennis Donovan (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jan-28-09 07:24 AM Response to Reply #7 |
8. Of course, but the vast majority of those who committ filicide are mentally ill... |
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lonestarnot (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jan-28-09 07:25 AM Response to Original message |
9. I am so very happy for you that you have had such a fortunate life. |
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cali (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jan-28-09 07:27 AM Response to Reply #9 |
10. you know nothing whatsoever about my life |
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lonestarnot (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jan-28-09 07:37 AM Response to Reply #10 |
12. Rain falls on everyone, some a little more than others. |
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zbdent (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jan-28-09 07:46 AM Response to Original message |
13. cue the freeptards ... |
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Lost4words (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jan-28-09 08:45 AM Response to Original message |
14. all should be as strong as you! |
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varelse (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jan-28-09 08:45 AM Response to Original message |
15. This says more about you than it says about them. (nt) |
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cali (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jan-28-09 10:37 AM Response to Reply #15 |
23. it says, about me, that I don't have sympathy with people who murder their children |
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Political Heretic (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jan-28-09 08:48 AM Response to Original message |
16. I have sympathy for people who have lost hope, and struggle with emotional wellness |
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Rebubula (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jan-28-09 12:14 PM Response to Reply #16 |
42. Me too... |
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Iggo (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jan-28-09 09:06 AM Response to Original message |
17. Crap! Am I late? |
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TwilightGardener (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jan-28-09 09:12 AM Response to Original message |
18. I agree. My dad lost several jobs, we were always on the brink of losing |
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cabluedem (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jan-28-09 11:35 AM Response to Reply #18 |
33. When your dad was around they didn't have the kind of stupid drug and background standards they have... |
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TwilightGardener (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jan-28-09 01:10 PM Response to Reply #33 |
47. Drug and background standards? Like, you can't be a felon or have |
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cabluedem (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jan-29-09 02:55 AM Response to Reply #47 |
66. No, in fact they were not really enforced much until the late 80's... |
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.... callchet .... (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jan-28-09 09:13 AM Response to Original message |
19. Lots of people struggle with losing their jobs, losing their homes and living in poverty. |
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uncle ray (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jan-28-09 12:08 PM Response to Reply #19 |
40. i guess he never saw The Full Monty. |
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LeftinOH (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jan-28-09 09:16 AM Response to Original message |
20. My grandparents raised kids during the Depression: Very little money; sparse food; hand-me-down |
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merica4biden (16 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jan-28-09 10:00 AM Response to Original message |
21. what should he have done? |
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TwilightGardener (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jan-28-09 10:05 AM Response to Reply #21 |
22. Um...what? We have sarcasm emoticons available, if you need one. |
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Moochy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jan-28-09 10:40 AM Response to Reply #22 |
25. be afraid |
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tomreedtoon (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jan-28-09 12:00 PM Response to Reply #22 |
38. I won't buy a sarcasm icon. The man had a point. |
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TwilightGardener (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jan-28-09 01:04 PM Response to Reply #38 |
46. I condemn a man for murdering his entire family. For any reason. |
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cali (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jan-28-09 10:38 AM Response to Reply #21 |
24. what a pantload. |
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WillYourVoteBCounted (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jan-28-09 10:43 AM Response to Reply #21 |
26. Welcome to DU, "merica4biden" |
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Dorian Gray (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jan-28-09 11:55 AM Response to Reply #21 |
37. Good Lord |
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bigwillq (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jan-28-09 07:36 PM Response to Reply #21 |
65. Hello. |
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nini (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jan-28-09 10:52 AM Response to Original message |
27. Well, I guess you've just proven you have no heart |
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geek tragedy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jan-28-09 04:18 PM Response to Reply #27 |
52. Lots of people failing to express outrage at child murderers. |
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Lilith Velkor (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jan-28-09 04:19 PM Response to Reply #52 |
53. At least he had the decency to kill himself |
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nini (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jan-28-09 06:55 PM Response to Reply #52 |
58. Do you think someone that can do that is mentally healthy? |
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pipi_k (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jan-28-09 11:03 AM Response to Original message |
28. I don't have sympathy for, but I do have empathy with... |
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Dreamer Tatum (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jan-28-09 11:19 AM Response to Original message |
29. Wow, taking a strong stance against mass murder...how brave |
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Sequoia (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jan-28-09 11:28 AM Response to Original message |
30. What I can't understand is how some posters here seem to think he did the right thing. |
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Sanctified (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jan-28-09 11:47 AM Response to Reply #30 |
35. What??? Are you serious that there are posters here that think he did the right thing? |
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tomreedtoon (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jan-28-09 12:05 PM Response to Reply #35 |
39. It was wrong, and sad, but killing was rational for that man. |
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geek tragedy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jan-28-09 04:16 PM Response to Reply #39 |
51. Murder is murder is murder is murder. |
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tomreedtoon (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jan-28-09 07:08 PM Response to Reply #51 |
61. Better enlarge the dump. That man won't be the last. |
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Sequoia (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jan-28-09 12:27 PM Response to Reply #35 |
44. Just read between the lines then. |
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slackmaster (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jan-28-09 11:28 AM Response to Original message |
31. There was plenty of help available for him and that family |
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pipi_k (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jan-28-09 11:40 AM Response to Reply #31 |
34. People who are that badly off mentally |
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havocmom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jan-28-09 11:52 AM Response to Reply #34 |
36. Thank you. We are so unaware of just how many of our 'generally functioning' neighbors |
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slackmaster (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jan-28-09 01:40 PM Response to Reply #34 |
48. Yes, very characteristic of suicide resulting from depression |
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ecstatic (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jan-28-09 12:14 PM Response to Original message |
41. Severe depression was most likely the cause of this tragedy |
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Sequoia (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jan-28-09 04:10 PM Response to Reply #41 |
50. Those children had a grandmother in Atlanta |
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4lbs (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jan-28-09 12:22 PM Response to Original message |
43. In the 1970s, my father lost his job and we had to live on unemployment and food stamps for about |
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pipi_k (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jan-28-09 06:38 PM Response to Reply #43 |
55. Not to sound snotty or anything... |
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4lbs (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jan-28-09 06:58 PM Response to Reply #55 |
59. Because I never saw him cry or complain about it. He just calmly asked his family (parents) for |
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pipi_k (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jan-28-09 07:08 PM Response to Reply #59 |
62. Just because your father never cried or complained |
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bridgit (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jan-28-09 12:30 PM Response to Original message |
45. Lot's of other people don't struggle at all they just think they do: Ballad of Hollis Brown ~ |
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applegrove (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jan-28-09 02:05 PM Response to Original message |
49. Sometimes it is a hideous world out there. |
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Mike 03 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jan-28-09 04:22 PM Response to Original message |
54. Shameful confession: I do feel compassion for this man and his wife. |
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varelse (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jan-28-09 06:45 PM Response to Reply #54 |
56. there is no shame in compassion |
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pipi_k (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jan-28-09 06:59 PM Response to Reply #56 |
60. The saddest part about all this |
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varelse (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jan-28-09 07:30 PM Response to Reply #60 |
63. What you have brought to this discussion is informed compassion. |
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pipi_k (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jan-28-09 06:46 PM Response to Reply #54 |
57. Absolutely! |
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rucky (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jan-28-09 07:35 PM Response to Original message |
64. That's a bold stance! |
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