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arbusto_baboso (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jun-04-09 10:55 AM Original message |
How would you reply to same-sex marriage opponents who play the "polygamy" card? |
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Hello_Kitty (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jun-04-09 10:58 AM Response to Original message |
1. It's a tough one. I don't have an answer but I will say that the slippery slope works both ways |
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ComtesseDeSpair (529 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jun-04-09 11:01 AM Response to Reply #1 |
4. Yes.... |
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T Wolf (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jun-04-09 10:59 AM Response to Original message |
2. Non-exploitative relationships between consenting ADULTS (number is irrelevant) should not be the |
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arbusto_baboso (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jun-04-09 11:01 AM Response to Reply #2 |
3. Being in a polyamorous marriage myself, I agree with you. |
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ejpoeta (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jun-04-09 11:05 AM Response to Reply #3 |
8. the problem is, they think somehow someone who lives differently then them somehow |
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TheWraith (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jun-04-09 11:11 AM Response to Reply #3 |
13. And I agree as well. But I think that there's no way to win on this point. |
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ejpoeta (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jun-04-09 11:02 AM Response to Reply #2 |
6. i tend to agree. what people do in their own lives is no one's business but theirs. |
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KittyWampus (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jun-04-09 11:19 AM Response to Reply #2 |
25. Sorry, but civil marriage is a contract between two individuals. "Polygamy" is a corporate contract |
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T Wolf (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jun-04-09 11:27 AM Response to Reply #25 |
29. WTF are you trying to say? I just do not see the difference. nt |
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KittyWampus (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jun-04-09 01:37 PM Response to Reply #29 |
51. You don't see the difference between a contract between two INDIVIDUALS and a GROUP of people? |
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T Wolf (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jun-04-09 01:56 PM Response to Reply #51 |
59. No. An agreement is an agreement. Why should the number of "parties" involved |
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armyowalgreens (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jun-04-09 04:35 PM Response to Reply #59 |
70. We studied polygamy in my ethic class and compared it to gay marriage |
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TheWraith (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jun-04-09 11:02 AM Response to Original message |
5. Current laws don't seem to prevent polygamy despite it being illegal. |
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blue_onyx (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jun-04-09 11:04 AM Response to Original message |
7. Being gay isn't a choice |
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AndyA (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jun-04-09 11:12 AM Response to Reply #7 |
15. Thank you! |
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David__77 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jun-04-09 11:14 AM Response to Reply #7 |
17. I don't think that's a valid argument. |
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blue_onyx (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jun-04-09 11:39 AM Response to Reply #17 |
31. It is a valid argument |
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tritsofme (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jun-04-09 11:17 AM Response to Reply #7 |
20. To play devil's advocate |
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KittyWampus (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jun-04-09 11:21 AM Response to Reply #20 |
27. No, because Civil Marriage is a legal contract/arrangement between two individuals. |
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blue_onyx (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jun-04-09 11:34 AM Response to Reply #20 |
30. Marriage only between a man and a woman DOES discriminate |
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tritsofme (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jun-04-09 12:11 PM Response to Reply #30 |
41. I'm not trying to defend an indefensible RW position |
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blue_onyx (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jun-04-09 12:44 PM Response to Reply #41 |
45. Society draws lines on everything |
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kiranon (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jun-04-09 11:46 AM Response to Reply #7 |
34. Perfect response. Thank you. |
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dgibby (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jun-04-09 11:07 AM Response to Original message |
9. Just tell them to get a wife, er uh, life! |
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zipplewrath (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jun-04-09 11:08 AM Response to Original message |
10. Social construct. |
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RadicalTexan (607 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jun-04-09 11:08 AM Response to Original message |
11. If it's between consenting adults, I don't see a problem with it |
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BR_Parkway (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jun-04-09 11:08 AM Response to Original message |
12. God didn't have a problem with it - do they claim to know better than God? |
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David__77 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jun-04-09 11:11 AM Response to Original message |
14. There is no mass movement for non-exploitative polygamous legal unions. |
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LeFleur1 (973 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jun-04-09 11:17 AM Response to Reply #14 |
21. Thank You |
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David__77 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jun-04-09 12:11 PM Response to Reply #21 |
42. Good points. |
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NeedleCast (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jun-04-09 11:13 AM Response to Original message |
16. I have no problem with polygamy as long as it's consensual |
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liberalmuse (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jun-04-09 11:15 AM Response to Original message |
18. Just for starters Polygamists can visit their wives on their deathbeds... |
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Ms. Toad (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jun-04-09 12:06 PM Response to Reply #18 |
40. Not in the US, at least |
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Kerrytravelers (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jun-04-09 11:16 AM Response to Original message |
19. Tell them this: |
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KittyWampus (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jun-04-09 11:18 AM Response to Original message |
22. The Law must allow two individuals to enter into a legally binding domestic contract. |
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jobycom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jun-04-09 11:18 AM Response to Original message |
23. Marriage is a government arrangement between two people, so gender shouldn't matter. |
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bluestateguy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jun-04-09 11:19 AM Response to Original message |
24. I say fine, legalize polygamy too |
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libertypirate (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jun-04-09 11:20 AM Response to Original message |
26. Well you know I always had a thing for that tree over there... /nt |
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MineralMan (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jun-04-09 12:36 PM Response to Reply #26 |
44. Watch them knotholes, there. Who knows what's in 'em. |
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conscious evolution (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jun-04-09 11:23 AM Response to Original message |
28. You have a problem with polygamy? |
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benddem (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jun-04-09 11:43 AM Response to Original message |
32. simple |
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BoneDaddy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jun-04-09 11:45 AM Response to Original message |
33. what's wrong with polygamy |
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juno jones (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jun-04-09 11:48 AM Response to Original message |
35. Perhaps legislating for it and providing a legal structure for such marriages |
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tabbycat31 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jun-04-09 11:49 AM Response to Original message |
36. I don't oppose polygamy |
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Dr. Strange (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jun-04-09 11:54 AM Response to Original message |
37. Doesn't bother me. |
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AB_Positive (151 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jun-04-09 11:58 AM Response to Original message |
38. I say "Then allow polygamy". Their multiple marriages wouldn't affect mine. |
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gkhouston (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jun-04-09 01:12 PM Response to Reply #38 |
49. They'll look like the people making the "slippery-slope" argument. n/t |
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proteus_lives (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jun-04-09 11:58 AM Response to Original message |
39. My reply? |
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justiceischeap (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jun-04-09 12:36 PM Response to Original message |
43. How I would reply |
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Recursion (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jun-04-09 12:48 PM Response to Original message |
46. Polygamy has older religious support than monogamy |
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question everything (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jun-04-09 12:53 PM Response to Original message |
47. It is expoliting women |
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sofa king (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jun-04-09 01:40 PM Response to Reply #47 |
55. Heh, not yet. |
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LostInAnomie (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jun-04-09 01:03 PM Response to Original message |
48. I'd say, "Let polygamists make their own arguements for their type of marriage." |
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sofa king (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jun-04-09 01:35 PM Response to Original message |
50. What if we look at marriage as just a contract? |
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KittyWampus (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jun-04-09 01:38 PM Response to Reply #50 |
52. Thanks, my point exactly. |
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sofa king (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jun-04-09 01:45 PM Response to Reply #52 |
57. Yes, but you said it better and more succinctly. |
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FreeState (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jun-04-09 01:39 PM Response to Original message |
53. Point out then heterosexual 2 person relationships should be banned as well |
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lightningandsnow (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jun-04-09 01:39 PM Response to Original message |
54. Actually, I support legal recognition for polyamorous relationships. |
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polmaven (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jun-04-09 01:40 PM Response to Original message |
56. Do they support |
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Darth_Ole (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jun-04-09 01:53 PM Response to Reply #56 |
58. Here's my response: |
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polmaven (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jun-04-09 02:23 PM Response to Reply #58 |
65. Excellent! |
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stevietheman (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jun-04-09 02:02 PM Response to Original message |
60. Say it's about respecting "coupled" relationships between two consenting adults. |
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Zywiec (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jun-04-09 02:05 PM Response to Original message |
61. I support anything consenting adults want to do |
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pipi_k (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jun-04-09 02:05 PM Response to Original message |
62. I guess I would ask them |
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Evoman (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jun-04-09 02:11 PM Response to Original message |
63. Palm strike to the jugular, followed by a round-house kick to the spleen. |
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BirminghamExaminer (943 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jun-04-09 02:18 PM Response to Original message |
64. Since when have they ever worried about consistency in equal rights? nt |
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redqueen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jun-04-09 02:25 PM Response to Original message |
66. That there's no reason for anyone who wants to have a relationship with more than one person |
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Stevenmarc (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jun-04-09 02:28 PM Response to Original message |
67. I'd tell them to fuck off, anyone that asks the question is too stupid to be reasoned with. |
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LibertyLover (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jun-04-09 02:29 PM Response to Original message |
68. Remind them - |
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Touchdown (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jun-04-09 03:29 PM Response to Original message |
69. Maher quote: Give prisoners porn and next week we'll all get eaten by bears! |
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