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Pirate Smile Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jun-10-09 09:45 PM
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This is Personal By Mark Blumenthal (FIL Auschwitz survivor-Holocaust Museum staff are like family)
This is Personal
By Mark Blumenthal

Regular readers will probably remember my that my father-in-law Frank Burstin, who passed away about a week before last fall's elections, was a survivor of the Auschwitz death camp. For that reason, as you may imagine, the news this afternoon about a shooting at Washington's Holocaust Museum hits pretty close to home for me and for my family.

But you don't know the half of it.

I have a special memory of Pop (as we knew him) from last summer. It was a few weeks before he received his cancer diagnosis, during what turned out to be his last visit to the Holocaust Museum. Because he lost his parents and all of his siblings to the Nazis, and because no grave site exists for any of his family, Pop made it a habit to visit the Museum at least once a year. It fulfilled for him the custom that many Jews practice of visiting the cemetery of loved ones once a year. I only got to accompany him on one of these visits, that one last year, along with my wife's nephew Jake.

I described him last year as "kind and optimistic soul," and he certainly was. But when he entered that museum, something changed. He was not unkind, but in that place, as I soon learned, he suffered no fools (nor anyone else).

We wandered into the museum, through the same doors and into the same foyer where shots rang out this afternoon. My wife had given us visitor passes that she receives as a member of the Museum. The lines were long, and it was not obvious which line we needed to stand in.

Pop was having none of it. He walked away from me and wandered up to the museum staffer standing at the head of the long line leading to the elevators that takes all visitors to the museum exhibits. I thought for a moment that Pop was going to ask directions. I was wrong.

He thrust out his arm in the direction of the staffer, displaying the number the Nazis tattooed on his arm at Auschwitz just a few inches from her face. Without making eye-contact and barely breaking stride, Pop kept walking. Understandably, the staffer barely blinked. She didn't make a move to stop him.

Pop kept walking right into the elevator that had just filled with the visitors that had been waiting in that long line. And even though the elevator was already quite crowded, he walked right in. Jake and I had to run past the guard to catch up. "Pop, Pop," I said, feeling a little embarrassed, hoping to talk him into at least waiting for the next elevator.

The staffer inside the elevator must have heard me, because he smiled, held the door and said with smile, "We have room for Pop. You guys too. C'mon in."

And up we went. I have been to the Holocaust Museum many times, but none as memorable as that visit.

About a month ago, in a conscious effort to carry on her father's tradition and to commemorate his birthday, my wife Helen paid her own solo visit to the Museum. She arrived at the end of a busy work day, in a rush, just a few minutes before closing time. Unfortunately, given the late hour, they had run out of the candles usually provided in the Hall of Remembrance for visitors to light and leave in the niches of the outer walls.

Already feeling emotional -- her dad had passed away just six months before -- she broke down sobbing.

A staffer nearby immediately came to her assistance, asking if she needed help. She explained, and the gentleman asked her to wait. He soon returned with a candle, explaining with a conspiratorial wink that he kept his own special supply for such emergencies.

The guards and staff at the Holocaust Museum have a special duty. The do more than just protect and operate one of Washington's many heavily trafficked museums. On a daily basis, they help open the doors to the elderly survivors of the atrocities of World War II. As my stories attest, they do it with a remarkable degree of kindness and professionalism.

As far as I know, the Holocaust Museum personnel that we encountered were not armed guards, though it is possible they were. But when I heard about the shooting this afternoon, and more specifically that at least one of the victims is a security guard now apparently in critical condition, it struck very close to home.

This is personal.

As far as I am concerned, the staff members of the Holocaust Museum are part of our family and the Museum itself is hallowed ground, and we pray for the recovery of the wounded guard. "Never take your guard force and security people for granted," William Parsons, the museum's chief of staff said on television a few minutes ago. Our family never will.

A very sad update: MSNBC just reported that the guard, Officer Steven Tyrone Johns, has passed away. We are all mourners tonight.



By Mark Blumenthal on June 10, 2009 3:48 PM | Permalink

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Tangerine LaBamba Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jun-10-09 09:52 PM
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1. Thank you for posting this .........
My mother's side of the family perished in the Holocaust, the ones who hadn't already emigrated to the States.

Every time I've tried to enter the Museum, I've been unable to do it. I just can't. Same way I cannot read anything by Elie Wiesel, who is one of my heroes. I've tried, and I fail after a few pages. Yet, I was lucky enough to meet him, and when I told him of my shame, he embraced me and told me that he understood, forgiving me.

That museum is a holy place. This is another murder in a holy place.

Nothing is sacred to haters except their hate.

Thank you again for posting this beautiful and sadly necessary piece..................
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Name removed Donating Member (0 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jun-10-09 10:00 PM
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snake in the grass Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Jun-11-09 12:47 AM
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13. Having a bad day, huh?
It will pass.
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elleng Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jun-10-09 10:38 PM
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8. I've never even ATTEMPTED to go there.
Just don't think I could handle it.

The guards sound SO WONDERFUL!
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Mind_your_head Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jun-10-09 10:53 PM
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9. Yeah, a guard who actually lays down his life for another......is MORE than "wonderful".....
Laying one's life down for another IS the 'pen-ultimate sacrifice'.

------

I believe you when you say, "I've never even ATTEMPTED to go there", elleng.

(Good thing I don't plan on putting my life in your hands anytime soon.....)
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Lyric Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Jun-11-09 01:03 AM
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15. What is your problem tonight???
Why keep attacking people for no reason? It's disturbing, and completely inappropriate for this thread.
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tblue37 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Jun-11-09 01:04 AM
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Just so you will know, "penultimate" means "next to the last."
"Antepenultimate" means third to the last.
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tblue37 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Jun-11-09 01:04 AM
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17. Just so you will know, "penultimate" means "next to the last."
"Antepenultimate" means third to the last.
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Mind_your_head Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jun-10-09 11:05 PM
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10. Profundity at large. eom
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starroute Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jun-10-09 11:40 PM
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11. You are right that this is desecration
First two killings in churches, then this one in the Holocaust Museum.

If I were, say, a Buffy the Vampire Slayer character, I would conclude that demonic forces were deliberately attempting to deactivate sites of holy, protective power in preparation for some major assault.

Since I'm living in the real world -- I think -- I'm not going to go that far. But I do believe that there is something in these attacks that takes deliberate delight in creating outrage and a kind of psychic rape.

It's like Gitmo guards allegedly throwing Korans in the toilet. It's the old CIA trick of finding whatever a person holds most sacred and then deliberately offending against that in order to weaken their will to resist.

Whatever the word "demonic" may mean in real world terms, there is a demonic spirit behind these attacks -- and even behind lesser manifestations, like the emails that had Shephard Smith so shaken up. And that is very difficult to comprehend or know how to counter.

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AspenRose Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Jun-11-09 04:32 PM
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24. You bring up good points.
Some may say it sounds "woo," but I think they're good points, and no doubt other people have had similar insights and/or revelations.
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starroute Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Jun-11-09 06:22 PM
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25. They can be taken either literally or symbolically
I'd tend to come down in the middle myself and say that humans create symbolic forms which can then take on a life of their own -- because of the intense energies that are projected onto them, the blood that is shed to protect them, and the related symbolic associations they gather around them.

I really have no idea whether a church or the US flag or whatever has *actual* energies of its own that can be manipulated for good or ill, or whether they merely function within the culture *as if* they had such energies. But either way, when sacred places or objects are repeatedly desecrated, something real is happening that has to be taken seriously.

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NanceGreggs Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jun-10-09 09:52 PM
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2. Sorry for the slow response ...
... in rec'ing this.

Had to stop crying first.

Thank you so much for sharing this with all of us.
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MadMaddie Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jun-10-09 09:56 PM
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3. Thanks for sharing!
It's heartbreaking.....
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OhioBlue Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jun-10-09 10:04 PM
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5. thank you for posting this. n/t
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Lyric Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jun-10-09 10:11 PM
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6. I feel the same way.
I have no idea how many members of my extended family died in concentration camps, because of a family split that occurred right around that time. My grandmother converted to Christianity and refused to talk about it. The only family member I knew who'd been in one of the camps was my great-uncle, who was rounded up with other Jewish and Slovak villagers in Dobsina/Dobschau and herded off to Novaky, then to either Bergen-Belsen or Auschwitz--I'm not sure which, as everyone who knew is now dead, although it might have been both. I was still a little girl the last time I saw him and he showed us his arm tattoo. My great-aunt Ruth (his wife) was also a camp survivor. They never had any children.

I've never had the opportunity to visit the Holocaust museum, and I'm almost afraid to. I can hardly stand to even read about it. It's physically painful to see what horrors human beings are capable of permitting out of fear, hate, and ignorance.
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tavalon Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Jun-11-09 12:16 AM
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12. There were a number of huge protests against the war (in DC and in 2004)
and the next day I went to the Holocaust Museum. I went by myself and I'm glad. I was able to just be in my head. It was profound. The most memorable was the cattle car. I cried there.
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Oak2004 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Jun-11-09 01:03 AM
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16. oh wow
As a consequence of some sleuthing I've come to the conclusion that my grandparents (officially "Slovak") were Jewish converts. They adamantly refused to talk about the old country when asked (both are now gone), to anyone, but there were enough oddities that more than one of us grandchildren suspected there was something in the family past.

From immigration records it appears that the family traces to a Jewish town that was the site of a Nazi massacre. The family name appears among the list of the dead. Reading that name, over and over, on the list gave me cold chills. Unlike you I didn't know any survivors, or even any of the family identified as Jewish, but nonetheless it affected me in ways it logically shouldn't have.

I never thought I'd find anyone with a roughly similar family history. But this is DU. You can find anyone or anything here if you wait long enough.
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Lyric Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Jun-11-09 01:12 AM
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18. Our stories are indeed similar.
I wrote about mine here, although I made a mistake. My grandmother's family was not "Slavic Jewish," they were "Slovak Jewish."

http://www.democraticunderground.com/discuss/duboard.php?az=show_topic&forum=389&topic_id=4640293#4640573

:hi:
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Tangerine LaBamba Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Jun-11-09 01:23 AM
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19. Same here -
in our extended Roman Catholic family, we never gave the religion a second thought, except to skip out on it as soon as we reached the age of reason.

One of the cousins is a Monsignor, which makes our heritage even funnier, because his mother was Jewish. He doesn't know - we don't like him, he's not a nice person.

When we cousins were all grown, we got to talking about how strange some of the stories we heard from our parents were - large parts of the background missing. Some of us wanting to go to visit that part of the world where our forefathers came from, but no one could tell us where that was.

One cousin hired the genealogy people in the Mormon organization to do the tracking for us. When we got back the information, a whole lot of stuff made sense.

Assimilation. Keep your head down, take on the majority religion in the small town where you ended up in America, and embrace it wholeheartedly so that no one notices that you're Jews.

That's what happened in our family, and, by that time, our parents, the eleven siblings, had started to get old and pass away. So we decided not to tell them. They'd lived their lives one way, and it wasn't up to us to challenge that in any way. Or to hurt them. We loved our parents.

Now, they're all gone, and a couple of the cousins are practicing Jews, something that never would have happened while any of the parents were still alive. Roots matter - they matter so much, we were surprised to learn that.

DU has a bit of everything, and I have never encountered a place like it, in cyberspace or in real life. It's pretty wonderful, isn't it?
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roguevalley Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Jun-11-09 04:29 PM
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23. assimilation did us in but we never forgot. having no rabbi or synagogue
around makes it real hard to continue when you are only a few among many.
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roguevalley Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Jun-11-09 04:28 PM
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22. ditto. I wonder if the day will come when I can go. I feel the need to
witness. But the sadness... I don't know. God bless all who love.
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jwirr Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jun-10-09 10:29 PM
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7. Sacred ground indeed. And the guards must see and deal with
a lot of tears and emotions from people going through the museum. I who am not Jewish also have a problem facing the inhumanity we are capable of.
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dd20045 Donating Member (48 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Jun-11-09 12:58 AM
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14. ive made the pilgrimage
and yes i mean pilgrimage even though i am a catholic. i feel that everyone should go and pay their respects to the people who suffered in those camps. i remember entering as only a 14 year old kid and even then i was struck by the atrocities and was truely disgusted at seeing some of the nazi things. i truely wish we could arrest all hate groups because their is no place in the world for them. my prayers go out to the guards family and certainly my deepest condolences
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Pirate Smile Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Jun-11-09 12:25 PM
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20. kick
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REACTIVATED IN CT Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Jun-11-09 01:50 PM
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21. K & R
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