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kimmerspixelated (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jul-13-09 04:18 PM Original message |
Poll question: Men/Women...Do you resent your stay at home partner? |
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LisaM (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jul-13-09 04:27 PM Response to Original message |
1. I don't mind that I'm currently the only one with a job and I don't mind paying the bills for now |
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JuniperLea (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jul-13-09 04:44 PM Response to Reply #1 |
3. No, it's not too much to ask... |
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lindisfarne (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jul-13-09 04:59 PM Response to Reply #1 |
7. Depends on who made the mess. If you made the mess, you're responsible for cleaning it up,regardless |
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LisaM (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jul-13-09 05:24 PM Response to Reply #7 |
22. No kids - his company just closed |
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lindisfarne (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jul-13-09 05:40 PM Response to Reply #22 |
34. It sounds like one of you doesn't agree. Time to talk things through. I would not be happy |
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LisaM (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jul-13-09 07:15 PM Response to Reply #34 |
45. Actually, I am NOT pressing |
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lindisfarne (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jul-13-09 07:40 PM Response to Reply #45 |
51. Well, that's good. Different people have different preferences for neatness. I am clean - cleaner |
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Hannah Bell (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jul-13-09 05:08 PM Response to Reply #1 |
12. i did that while my ex was "writing" - how about coming home to find it dirtier than when you left? |
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ejpoeta (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jul-13-09 05:23 PM Original message |
sparkling clean is a bit much to ask. as a stay at home mom who |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jul-13-09 05:26 PM Response to Reply #1 |
25. you had me lmao. you and i would eb getting a divorce.... |
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JuniperLea (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jul-13-09 04:41 PM Response to Original message |
2. I've seen stay-at-homers... |
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redqueen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jul-13-09 05:15 PM Response to Reply #2 |
17. I spent a couple of years as a stay-at-homer... |
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JuniperLea (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jul-13-09 05:20 PM Response to Reply #17 |
19. Funny how it works that way, huh? |
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redqueen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jul-13-09 05:30 PM Response to Reply #19 |
30. Lost? I don't think we've ever had it, myself. |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jul-13-09 05:27 PM Response to Reply #2 |
27. you be better than me. wink. n/t |
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YOY (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jul-13-09 04:45 PM Response to Original message |
4. Only if I'm a complete dick. |
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CTyankee (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jul-13-09 05:05 PM Response to Reply #4 |
10. I have no problem with that. As long as she doesn't come home to the "second shift" of housework. |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jul-13-09 05:29 PM Response to Reply #4 |
29. ahhhhh. that is how our balance works.... |
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kimmerspixelated (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jul-14-09 04:14 PM Response to Reply #4 |
60. Great answer! |
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Subdivisions (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jul-13-09 04:47 PM Response to Original message |
5. My partner resents me being the stay-at-home half... |
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JerseygirlCT (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jul-13-09 04:50 PM Response to Original message |
6. I've been f/t, p/t, work from home, and at home |
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ejpoeta (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jul-13-09 05:07 PM Response to Reply #6 |
11. i think people in general think you've got it made as a stay at home parent. |
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Contrary1 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jul-13-09 05:10 PM Response to Reply #11 |
15. Once both of my kids were in school, I got a job... |
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ejpoeta (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jul-13-09 05:15 PM Response to Reply #15 |
18. i would love to have a job that i could be home for the kids. it's hard to do that |
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Contrary1 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jul-13-09 05:23 PM Response to Reply #18 |
21. My adult daughter (one of the aforementioned kids) |
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ejpoeta (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jul-13-09 05:25 PM Response to Reply #21 |
24. gee thanks!! |
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JerseygirlCT (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jul-13-09 07:17 PM Response to Reply #15 |
47. I'm able to work hours like that now - |
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JerseygirlCT (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jul-13-09 07:15 PM Response to Reply #11 |
46. Oh don't get me wrong |
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snappyturtle (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jul-13-09 05:03 PM Response to Original message |
8. This is a problem in our home. My husband is the bread winner. |
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Ilsa (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jul-13-09 05:09 PM Response to Reply #8 |
13. I hear you. He doesn't realize how much time goes into maintaining |
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snappyturtle (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jul-13-09 05:24 PM Response to Reply #13 |
23. Mine has no idea either about the time. Then we have HIS critters: |
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ejpoeta (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jul-13-09 05:10 PM Response to Reply #8 |
14. sometimes it would be nice to switch places with someone who says that. |
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snappyturtle (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jul-13-09 05:27 PM Response to Reply #14 |
26. I feel guilty about spending 'his' money and yet I am working hard. |
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ejpoeta (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jul-13-09 05:35 PM Response to Reply #26 |
31. there was a time when i would justify buying stuff because he bought something... |
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snappyturtle (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jul-13-09 06:05 PM Response to Reply #31 |
40. I am just waiting for the day when I'm working again. I guess his |
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ejpoeta (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jul-13-09 06:26 PM Response to Reply #40 |
42. that's a tough place to be. sounds like you turned over everything you had |
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snappyturtle (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jul-13-09 07:23 PM Response to Reply #42 |
48. It's hard to go anywhere just to go out without money. We don't have |
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ejpoeta (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jul-13-09 07:33 PM Response to Reply #48 |
50. i hear ya. the economy. uggh. to me there is a certain safeness to being |
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snappyturtle (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jul-13-09 08:15 PM Response to Reply #50 |
52. A year ago 'we' had no work. Having come through two years of |
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ejpoeta (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jul-14-09 06:46 AM Response to Reply #52 |
54. right now is a tough time to be looking for work. and yes, there are things that aren't even worth |
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snappyturtle (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jul-14-09 07:07 AM Response to Reply #54 |
56. Thanks so much for hanging in there with me on this topic. I haven't |
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JuniperLea (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jul-13-09 06:11 PM Response to Reply #8 |
41. Keeping a home is one of those things... |
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snappyturtle (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jul-14-09 07:23 AM Response to Reply #41 |
57. I agree that lots I do goes unseen and I feel the guilt that you felt. |
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JuniperLea (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jul-14-09 02:29 PM Response to Reply #57 |
59. Indeed! |
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kimmerspixelated (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jul-14-09 04:17 PM Response to Reply #8 |
61. This problem never occurred in the former generations did it?? |
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Pharlo (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jul-13-09 05:04 PM Response to Original message |
9. I don't have a partner, but I do have three stay at home dogs. |
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redqueen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jul-13-09 05:13 PM Response to Original message |
16. Other. |
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quaker bill (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jul-13-09 05:20 PM Response to Original message |
20. It took a long series of discussions |
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taught_me_patience (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jul-13-09 05:27 PM Response to Original message |
28. Thankfully, both my wife and I work |
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ismnotwasm (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jul-13-09 05:36 PM Response to Original message |
32. Hell no |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jul-13-09 05:37 PM Response to Reply #32 |
33. perfect............ i love. with you. n.t |
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GreenPartyVoter (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jul-13-09 05:41 PM Response to Original message |
35. I think my husband is bothered by it at times, but only when the money is tight. |
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quiller4 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jul-13-09 05:42 PM Response to Original message |
36. No. We [b] both[/b] stay home now but I didn't resent my |
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azmouse (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jul-13-09 05:43 PM Response to Original message |
37. I'm a stay-at-home wife. |
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DefenseLawyer (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jul-13-09 05:46 PM Response to Original message |
38. If we paid someone to do everything my wife does every day |
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ejpoeta (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jul-13-09 06:30 PM Response to Reply #38 |
43. i like to joke to my husband whenever they do that cost analysis on tv... |
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TygrBright (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jul-13-09 05:50 PM Response to Original message |
39. In a sane world, each household would have... |
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Roon (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jul-13-09 06:59 PM Response to Original message |
44. I was a stay at home partner..and felt terrible about it |
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MrSlayer (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jul-13-09 07:28 PM Response to Original message |
49. No. My wife works as hard as I do and longer. |
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hunter (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jul-13-09 08:36 PM Response to Original message |
53. Is this a great nation, or what? We turn our resentments against our spouses... |
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ejpoeta (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jul-14-09 06:56 AM Response to Reply #53 |
55. some people NEED that overtime. they would be sunk without it. |
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hunter (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jul-14-09 10:27 AM Response to Reply #55 |
58. The "salary" system is greatly abused. |
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