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Madspirit Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Apr-09-07 05:47 PM
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MYTH...Reverse Racism
http://www.raceandhistory.com/selfnews/viewnews.cgi?newsid1024893033,80611,.shtml


A Look at the Myth of Reverse Racism
Posted: Monday, June 24, 2002

By Tim Wise

Recently, when speaking to a group of high school students, I was asked why I only seemed to be concerned about white racism towards people of color. We had been discussing racial slurs, and a number of white students wondered why I didn’t get as upset about blacks using terms like “honky” or “cracker,” as I did about whites using words like “nigger.”

Although such an issue may seem trivial in the larger scheme of things—especially given the more significant discussions about racism in the educational system that I had hoped to engage in that day—the challenge posed by the students was actually an important one. In fact, it allowed a discussion about the very essence of what racism is and how it operates.

On the one hand, of course, such slurs are quite obviously inappropriate and offensive, and ought not to be used. That said, I pointed out that even the mention of the words “honky” and “cracker” had elicited laughter; and not only from the black students in attendance, but also from other whites.

The words are so silly, so juvenile, so utterly pathetic that they hardly qualify as racial slurs at all, let alone slurs on a par with those that have been historically deployed against people of color.

The lack of symmetry between a word like honky and a slur such as “nigger” was made apparent in an old Saturday Night Live skit, with Chevy Chase and guest, Richard Pryor.

In the skit, Chase and Pryor face one another and trade off racial epithets during a segment of Weekend Update. Chase calls Pryor a “porch monkey.” Pryor responds with “honky.” Chase ups the ante with “jungle bunny.” Pryor, unable to counter with a more vicious slur against whites, responds with “honky, honky.” Chase then trumps all previous slurs with “nigger,” to which Pryor responds: “dead honky.”

The line elicits laughs all around, but also makes clear, at least implicitly that when it comes to racial antilocution, people of color are limited in the repertoire of slurs they can use against whites, and even the ones of which they can avail themselves sound more comic than hateful. The impact of hearing the antiblack slurs in the skit was of a magnitude unparalleled by hearing Pryor say “honky” over and over again.

As a white person I always saw terms like honky or cracker as evidence of how much more potent white racism was than any variation on the theme practiced by the black or brown.

When a group of people has little or no power over you institutionally, they don’t get to define the terms of your existence, they can’t limit your opportunities, and you needn’t worry much about the use of a slur to describe you and yours, since, in all likelihood, the slur is as far as it’s going to go. What are they going to do next: deny you a bank loan? Yeah, right.

So whereas “nigger” was and is a term used by whites to dehumanize blacks, to imply their inferiority, to “put them in their place” if you will, the same cannot be said of honky: after all, you can’t put white people in their place when they own the place to begin with.




To continue article go to link at top....Lee
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Madspirit Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Apr-09-07 05:52 PM
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1. self-kicking because of importance....n/t
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JuniperLea Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Apr-09-07 05:53 PM
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2. This is so dangerous...
There are no slurs in no varying degrees when it comes to practicing equality. There's no room for varying degrees in this vulgar display of stupidity.
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Karenina Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Apr-09-07 05:57 PM
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3. BWHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA!!!!
:rofl::rofl::rofl::rofl::rofl::rofl::rofl::rofl:
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Madspirit Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Apr-09-07 05:57 PM
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4. That is racist
Edited on Mon Apr-09-07 05:59 PM by Madspirit
Jeez...crack a book. History...racism....black studies...psychology...something...crack a book.
Lee
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JuniperLea Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Apr-09-07 06:12 PM
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11. Bullshit
Tell my black neighbors and my black doctor... then tell my black assistant that I hired!! Tell them I'm racist! What a crock of shit!

Then tell me how giving any one group something that the other groups cannot have is a good thing! That's what started slavery! That's what started racism! Tell me how anything but absolutel equality is the way to go!
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Skip Intro Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Apr-09-07 07:30 PM
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109. agreed
Edited on Mon Apr-09-07 07:40 PM by Skip Intro
equality is the only way
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HiFructosePronSyrup Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Apr-09-07 07:53 PM
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144. You want me to tell all your black friends too?
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treestar Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Apr-10-07 11:53 AM
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254. On it being politically incorrect to say you have a black friend
Why is it wrong for a white person to say they have a black friend and that if they have one, that they listened to what that black friend had to say?

A black friend once told me that he thought there were some blacks that did not like others to succeed. Am I supposed to ignore him in this debate, and what he said to me, and its effect upon me? Is it that I am white means I can have nothing to say and can't understand, but what about what he told me?
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suziedemocrat Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Apr-10-07 06:51 AM
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226. Racism was used by rich whites as a red herring to appease poor whites who lost their jobs to slaves
Edited on Tue Apr-10-07 06:53 AM by suziedemocrat
That's my opinion. Similar to the argument we get today about how "illegal immigrants take jobs that Americans don't want."

Who would have been working in those cotton fields in the South if there hadn't been slaves? Poor white people. So, to make the poor white people not be too bothered by the loss of jobs to slaves, they convinced the poor whites that they were inherently superior to the slaves of a different race. And guess what - it worked. If plantation owners could have gotten white people as cheaply as African slaves, and if those poor whites didn't have the right to quit their jobs, we never would have imported slaves from Africa. And if there were domestic labor available today that was cheap and without rights, we wouldn't need illegal immigrants. While the poor whites bicker with the poor blacks and poor Hispanics, the rich get richer! Do you ever notice how the rich are usually not too concerned with race? It's because it's all about money, power and cheap labor, and race is a side-show.

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treestar Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Apr-10-07 11:50 AM
Response to Reply #226
253. Great post
Really sums it up. The biggest racists I know are blue collar whites - they think they are losing out in the Great Job Competition, which is exactly how the capitalist wants it.
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northzax Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Apr-10-07 10:03 AM
Response to Reply #4
245. yup, it is.
but then, through a certain prism, everything is racist if you look hard enough.

is it also racism, however, when the students I tutor don't want to get good grades because that is 'acting white'? yes, it happens.
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loyalsister Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Apr-13-07 07:29 PM
Response to Reply #245
332. racism's baby?
Edited on Fri Apr-13-07 07:30 PM by loyalsister
I don't exactly know how to explain it but only know that it seems to be a product of a social structure of privilege based on race.
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NormanYorkstein Donating Member (762 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Apr-09-07 06:13 PM
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13. I generally agree with you
There are plenty of Black folks who are outright bigots against White folk - LOTS. Slurs are slurs.

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JuniperLea Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Apr-09-07 06:28 PM
Response to Reply #13
25. I'd be broken hearted if a black person were to call me those names
I have always treated everyone the way they deserve... if you are an asshole, you damn betcha I'm going to treat you like one. I raised my kids not to see color... when they were growing up and had all their friends in the house all the time, it looked like the freaking UN around there!

No one deserves to be called names. No one.
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Karenina Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Apr-09-07 06:31 PM
Response to Reply #13
27. Answer me these two questions:
1. Have black people as a "group" ever done anything historically to white people to warrant their contempt?

2. Have white people as a "group" ever done anything historically to black people to warrant their contempt?
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JuniperLea Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Apr-09-07 06:37 PM
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33. Bullshit questions!
We don't live for our ancestors! We are all individuals! We are all equal!

You are only furthering a stupid myth that black people are being sat on by whitie. Bullshit. Tell that to my buddy from high school who is now holding political office in one of the largest cities in the US!! Tell that to my black doctor!

Quit telling black people they aren't good enough!!!! Quit telling black people that they don't have a chance!!! Quit telling black people that because their ancestors had a horrific thing brought down upon them that they can't expect to succeed in this life in this period of time!
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Karenina Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Apr-09-07 06:43 PM
Response to Reply #33
40. In psychological terms your post gets filed under:
Inappropriate response.
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noiretextatique Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Apr-09-07 06:47 PM
Response to Reply #40
46. typical response
i'd say.
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TahitiNut Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Apr-09-07 07:12 PM
Response to Reply #46
80. noiretblu, my friend!! Hellloooo!
:hug: :hug: :hug: :hug: :loveya:
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JuniperLea Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Apr-09-07 07:26 PM
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102. Oh my God! TahitiNut! Have you ever seen me being a racist??
I'm just sick to death of this conversation.

I have never, ever in my life done anything...

But try to help my brothers and sisters of all color.

Fuck me.
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Karenina Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Apr-09-07 07:38 PM
Response to Reply #102
121. Very white of you! No, REALLY!
Edited on Mon Apr-09-07 07:43 PM by Karenina
I mean that sincerely!!! Forgive me if your response to Tahiti's greeting of Noiretblu has me somewhat confused. :freak:
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NormanYorkstein Donating Member (762 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Apr-09-07 08:13 PM
Response to Reply #121
162. I always get a kick
out of Whites arguing about who is less racist :eyes:
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Karenina Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Apr-09-07 08:58 PM
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190. BWHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA!!!!
:rofl::rofl::rofl::rofl::rofl::rofl::rofl::rofl::rofl::rofl::rofl::rofl::rofl::rofl::rofl::rofl::rofl::rofl::rofl::rofl::rofl::rofl::rofl::rofl::rofl::rofl:
Entweder hab' ich etwas misverstanden oder Du bist ein bißchen durcheinander.
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noiretextatique Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Apr-13-07 06:28 PM
Response to Reply #190
329. must be your white guilt
Edited on Fri Apr-13-07 06:30 PM by noiretblu
:rofl: :wtf: :rofl: :wtf: :rofl: :wtf: :rofl: :wtf:
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TahitiNut Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Apr-09-07 07:43 PM
Response to Reply #102
128. There's a basic schism in how people view 'racism' (and 'sexism')
Edited on Mon Apr-09-07 07:48 PM by TahitiNut
Some (including me) focus on the individual morality and regard 'racism' as a moral and mental failing. When others speak of the 'myth' of "reverse racism" they're focusing on the institutional and political ('group') predations. (Much of my career, however, has been invested in eradicating such bigotries in the workplace - a career-limiting focus, I can assure you.)

There's merit to both viewpoints ... but when those who might validly claim that "reverse racism" is a 'myth' (from the institutional/political perspective) then conclude that individuals in the politically unempowered 'group' are then, therefore, immune from the indivdual moral failing, I find that the position has become unanchored from both reason and validity. In effect, it goes full circle and becomes, in itself, a kind of racism (in the individual sense).

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JuniperLea Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Apr-09-07 07:52 PM
Response to Reply #128
140. Wouldn't it be best to then measure all by the same yardstick?
Edited on Mon Apr-09-07 07:53 PM by Juniperx
And to say no one should ever treat anyone else like that ever again? Instead of belittling the feelings of another group by saying, oh, it's not as bad for you, so you should get over yourself and not worry about it.

What I'm saying is that I would be absolutely heart broken if someone were to call me names because I'm white. I'm saying it's a horrid thing to do, and an even more horrid thing to excuse someone for.

What I'm saying is that I've known a lot of kids of many various colors who were supported as individuals, and many who were not. Many were told they would never get anywhere in life, that they would have to work too hard and they'd never make it, and the prophecy became self-fulfilling.

What I'm saying is that for the past 25 years, I've been the minority in my neighborhood and my kids have been the minority in their schools. I know many highly educated, brilliant and successful people of all races... and I know white people who are dumb as dirt.

No matter how you want to draw the lines, there are good and bad, successful and not, in all groups. Yes, blacks have had to work harder! There was and still is a lot of work to be done! But what I fail to see is how telling people who have worked their lives supporting the good in all peoples, that their pain is not as great, is helping anyone. It surely isn't helping the young black person who is being excused for bad behavior!
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TahitiNut Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Apr-09-07 08:24 PM
Response to Reply #140
173. It's another "feeding frenzy" on DU.
It seems to me that some are inclined to find targets here, not for any apparent sense of nurturance, personal development, or amelioration, but for the purposes of donning the costume of self-righteous warrior. It's been called 'vigilantism' and 'witch-hunting' ... but what's in a name? It's been disappointing to me, actually. I just don't think of DU as a place for confronting 'enemies' ... but as a community serving each person's individual growth and building a better understanding of the issues and their complexity. I don't think that's accomplished by using others as grist for one's own mill. People must be an end in themselves, not a means to our own selfish ends.

Hell ... we all have our baggage and demons. I also think we're all fighting our inner demons and working to check our baggage. As far as I'm concerned, there's no more common life-long quest than personal growth and development. I don't think the personal attacks that've increased (imho) on DU are at all helpful ... in any way, shape or form.

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noiretextatique Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Apr-09-07 08:29 PM
Response to Reply #140
177. did you read the article?
Edited on Mon Apr-09-07 08:31 PM by noiretblu
or are you commenting in general? i ask because after reading the entire article, it was about much more than the excerpt that was posted here.
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NashVegas Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Apr-09-07 07:58 PM
Response to Reply #128
153. As Always, You Are a Voice of Reason
Hiya TN!
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TahitiNut Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Apr-10-07 10:56 AM
Response to Reply #153
248. As always, you're being generous. Thank you.
:hug: :hi:
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Morgana LaFey Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Apr-09-07 08:52 PM
Response to Reply #128
187. it's not reverse racism but it IS bigotry -- anti-white bigotry.
anti-male bigotry and NOT reverse sexism.

If you want to ignore the institutionalized forms for some reason or another you don't even have half the story -- or problem -- left. And what's the point of that? The only "point" I can think of is letting some people (racists and sexists) off the hook, whether intentionally or not, and for some it IS intentional, believe me. Avowed racists and sexists definitely want to have the "cover" of some bogus "reverse racism" and "reverse sexism" to distract from the much larger and much more damaging to society forms.
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XemaSab Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Apr-10-07 09:46 AM
Response to Reply #128
243. Well put!
:toast:
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TahitiNut Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Apr-10-07 10:57 AM
Response to Reply #243
249. Thank you.
:blush: :toast:
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noiretextatique Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Apr-09-07 08:20 PM
Response to Reply #102
169. i didn't accuse you of being racist
but perhaps someone else did. i said you were being condescending.
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noiretextatique Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Apr-09-07 07:28 PM
Response to Reply #80
106. hey there, tahitinut!!!!
:loveya:
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TahitiNut Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Apr-09-07 07:46 PM
Response to Reply #106
131. You ...
... probably have no idea how much I miss you and Cassandra (and my other friends there) ... even more the more time I spend here in Michigan. (sigh) It's REALLY good to "see" you here.

:loveya:
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noiretextatique Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Apr-09-07 07:55 PM
Response to Reply #131
149. i will try to check in more often
:loveya: i am so sorry i didn't respond to you in depth...i was drowning in my own sorrow at the time. i hope things are going ok with the family.
:loveya:
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Karenina Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Apr-09-07 07:36 PM
Response to Reply #46
117. Naaaaa, DUUUUUU!!! Noiretblu!!!
:woohoo::woohoo::woohoo::woohoo::woohoo::woohoo:
:hi::loveya::hi:
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noiretextatique Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Apr-09-07 07:56 PM
Response to Reply #117
152. hey there, lady
:loveya: i have to write you soon. life has been so mundane...i don't have much to report. but...i am feeling like i am on solid ground again, and that's good.
drop me a line sometimes :hi:
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Lydia Leftcoast Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Apr-09-07 08:17 PM
Response to Reply #46
166. Hey, noiretblu!
Always nice to see one of the oldtimers dropping in. :hi:
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noiretextatique Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Apr-09-07 08:19 PM
Response to Reply #166
168. hey there, lydia
:hi: it's oldtimers day, i guess :7
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JuniperLea Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Apr-09-07 06:53 PM
Response to Reply #40
54. Just because you can't grasp something
Doesn't mean it's inappropriate.
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noiretextatique Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Apr-09-07 07:00 PM
Response to Reply #54
62. i grasp what being black in america is like
Edited on Mon Apr-09-07 07:02 PM by noiretblu
something you cannot possibly grasp yourself. i don't need you to tell me "i can make it"...i have done just fine with the advice of my parents and their parents and their parents and their parents who lived through the ugliness of america in its racist heyday.
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JuniperLea Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Apr-09-07 07:09 PM
Response to Reply #62
74. I wasn't addressing you, now was I?
And I applaud your family for doing well with you. All I'm saying is that it's possible and you have proved me right. Thanks.

How do you suppose your life would have turned out had you not such a strong and smart family?
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noiretextatique Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Apr-09-07 07:13 PM
Response to Reply #74
81. oh for pete's sake
knock if off, please.
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JuniperLea Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Apr-09-07 07:18 PM
Response to Reply #81
89. Knock what off?
Having a conversation? Asking valid questions? Put me on ignore if you don't want to read what I'm saying. I have a right to speak my mind and you have a right not to answer my questions, which you chose not to do. Simple questions that hurt no one and could lead to an understanding, but no. You'd rather have your righteous indignation.

I'm not stupid. Please do not treat me as if I were.
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fishwax Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Apr-09-07 07:25 PM
Response to Reply #89
101. did you really expect a thoughtful response when you started your post with
Edited on Mon Apr-09-07 07:28 PM by fishwax
"I wasn't addressing you, now was I," as if noiretblu had erred by entering the conversation without your permission? And then you talk about her "righteous indignation"?

Simple questions that hurt no one and could lead to an understanding, but no.
Seems to me that Karenina asked some simple questions that hurt no one and could lead to an understanding, but you didn't answer those, either ...
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JuniperLea Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Apr-09-07 07:28 PM
Response to Reply #101
105. Read the fucking post
That person responded as if I were talking to them and what they said made no sense in the context of the conversation.
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bettyellen Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Apr-09-07 07:31 PM
Response to Reply #105
111. i read it all, and you are embarrassing yourself here. treating people so dismissively
because they disagree. you are way out of line to people who are talking a shitload more sense then you are.
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JuniperLea Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Apr-09-07 07:54 PM
Response to Reply #111
147. Thanks for your opinion n/t
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fishwax Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Apr-09-07 07:33 PM
Response to Reply #105
114. I thought it made perfect sense. And I thought your response was rude
And I think she has a perfectly legitimate point, that she probably knows a little something more about being black in America than you do.
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bettyellen Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Apr-09-07 07:54 PM
Response to Reply #114
145. damn straight she made a good point.
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treestar Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Apr-10-07 11:55 AM
Response to Reply #62
255. On this thing about how a white can never understand
why do you try to tell us anything at all, then? We can never understand, so why bother?

How are we to make out the actions of MLK and those others who wanted to be included in what was then only white society?

Aren't blacks individuals? Some want to blend in as an entire society that includes both, others want to segregate themselves. Haven't the latter more in common with the white supremacists than with the liberals?
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bettyellen Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Apr-10-07 01:03 PM
Response to Reply #255
261. a white person here is telling black people they don't know what it's like to be black!
hello, how'd you manage to miss that? this is not about never understanding-no one saif d that at all. puleeeze.
this is about one close minded white person being condesending towards others and making a fool of themselves.
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treestar Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Apr-10-07 02:26 PM
Response to Reply #261
280. It can't be the same for everybody
There are millions of people of both races.

It just seems pointless to me to get on this high horse when someone tries to understand what it might be like. I feel fairly certain it can be described to some extent. I don't know what it's like to be a lot of things, but people who are those things can describe it. I don't know what it would be like to be a teacher, yet teachers can describe it and I can understand it to a certain degree. Things that are only skin deep like race should be even easier to understand.

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bettyellen Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Apr-11-07 06:34 PM
Response to Reply #280
322. their own imaginings are more real or acurate than someone's life? what entitled bullshit.
perhaps if they acknowledged there was a spectrum, but no the poster was claiming no one's life suffers due to racism anymore. the poster is tripping, and making foolish statements based on their feelings and hopesof what its like to be black, not necesarily anyone's reality.
it's a crock , and it;s insulting too.
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noiretextatique Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Apr-09-07 06:46 PM
Response to Reply #33
45. funny...i was just talking about this today
my parents told us we had to be three times as good to get anywhere in this country. if anything, i would advise my fellow black folks to remember that.
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JuniperLea Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Apr-09-07 06:52 PM
Response to Reply #45
52. We all do nowadays, noiretblu, we all do
There's now a class warfare that sees no color only social standing and money.

At least your parents tried to get you going toward a good life instead of telling you that you can't/won't have anything because you are black. Giving a child hope, telling him/her that they can succeed if they try very hard is a hell of a lot better than telling them they have no future.
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noiretextatique Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Apr-09-07 07:11 PM
Response to Reply #52
77. do you even grasp that you are being condescending?
we all have our struggles in this world, but they are not the same. as a black woman with an advanced degree, i can see that i have certain advantages over people who don't have as much education, regardless of race. on the other hand, i still have to deal with racial shit.
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bettyellen Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Apr-09-07 07:17 PM
Response to Reply #52
87. goodness you are living in some sort of fantasy world. go o an inner city school with no books
Edited on Mon Apr-09-07 07:18 PM by bettyellen
at all, with 1/4 the resources of the school across town. go fucking tell them it;s an even playing field.
i've met kindengardeners less naive than you, and sadly it does effect their chances because they'd have to work 3X as hard as your white child. and they learned this long before they set foot in the abomination of a classroom too.
you are walking arond with blinders.
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JuniperLea Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Apr-09-07 07:24 PM
Response to Reply #87
100. You don't know what you are talking about!
My kids DID go to an inner city school!!! That was the only place they could take the special classes they wanted!

Look at the Long Beach Unified and the Los Angeles Unified School district's pamphlets on magnet schools! My oldest wanted to go to the computer school... so he did... in the heart of a Long Beach ghetto! My second son was a minority in his school too!

You assume much.
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bettyellen Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Apr-09-07 07:35 PM
Response to Reply #100
116. i have three friends teaching in the NYC school system kid, i know very well what it;s like
you are the one in a bubble assuming me and the two black women (among many others, hnt hint) you were so rude to don;t know what it;s like t be black in america, it is not the same experience you've had with intergration or education. look around and read a bvit, your experience is atypical. not the norm, sorry!
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JuniperLea Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Apr-09-07 07:43 PM
Response to Reply #116
129. Oh so your anecdotal experience is better than mine
Brillian.
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bettyellen Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Apr-09-07 07:49 PM
Response to Reply #129
135. it's every bit as good as yours. and those black women you dismissed so rudely? there's is better
than yours. they are living it, dear. not just looking from the outside thinking,,, hey they're doing just as good as me!
it's a direverse country and we are not where you hope us to be - the even playing field- not yet. in some places, it;s no where near close.
count your blessing you had what you did. it;s a lot rarer than you realize.
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countryjake Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Apr-10-07 05:09 PM
Response to Reply #100
286. Your experience defies the facts...
50 Years After Brown, Broken Bathrooms and Protests
http://www.arc.org/racewire/040524d_hernandez.html

Reading, Writing, Race and Resegregation: 45 Years After Brown v. Board of Education
http://www.colorlines.com/article.php?ID=107

GW Graduate School of Education and Human Development Dean Discusses Report Showing Schools Still Separate and Unequal 50 Years After BROWN V. BOARD OF EDUCATION
http://www.gwu.edu/~media/pressrelease.cfm?ann_id=12065

California’s Racial “Opportunity Gap”
http://72.14.253.104/search?q=cache:gAqG-5TTqS4J:www.hewlett.org/NR/rdonlyres/596CE54C-E38D-4A0F-8B2D-77222062B227/0/IDEAexecutivesummary.pdf+%22Separate+and+Unequal,+50+Years+after+Brown+%22&hl=en&ct=clnk&cd=3&gl=us


Please just take a look at the findings in "Separate and Unequal 50 Years after Brown" found here in pdf form:
http://justschools.gseis.ucla.edu/research/index.html
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Karenina Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Apr-09-07 07:54 PM
Response to Reply #52
148. JAWOHL! Get yer condescension personified right here folks!!!
:popcorn:
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bettyellen Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Apr-09-07 08:15 PM
Response to Reply #148
164. that is what i thought was so embarrassing. sorry, black woman, you have no ideahw lucky and equal
you are! LOL. Jeeze I wish it were so simple.
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bettyellen Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Apr-09-07 07:21 PM
Response to Reply #33
96. totally naive (if well intentioned) response....we are not talking about daily affirmations here.
we are talking about how it is.
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uppityperson Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Apr-09-07 07:39 PM
Response to Reply #33
122. Are you saying there is no racism, no discrimination because of color?
That everyone has an equal chance at everything, depending on how hard they work at it?

Are you saying that? That racism and discrimination are now a thing of the past?
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qanda Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Apr-10-07 07:48 AM
Response to Reply #33
235. You are living in a dream world if you think we are all equal now
You are living in a dream world if you think that what was done to black people in the past has no effect on what is happening in black America today. You are certainly living in a dream world if you think because you have a black doctor that all is coming up roses for black people everywhere. You are living in a dream world if you think that more black men being in prison than being enrolled in college in every state in America isn't a product of what was done to our black ancestors.

I have so much more to say, but I am trying to temper my comments right now.
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NormanYorkstein Donating Member (762 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Apr-09-07 06:52 PM
Response to Reply #27
53. I was talking about the present, not the past
I think our whole society is racist from top to bottom - but slurs are not about racism, they are about bigotry, and ANYONE can be a bigot.

And this whole shit I find to be insulting - Blacks are not helpless there are plenty of powerful and rich Blacks in the world. You can keep your sympathy frankly.
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fishwax Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Apr-09-07 07:04 PM
Response to Reply #53
69. you don't think centuries of history have any bearing on the present?
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noiretextatique Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Apr-09-07 08:37 PM
Response to Reply #69
180. of course not...american cognitive dissonance
there is absolutely no connection between centuries of racism and current reality :crazy:
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fishwax Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Apr-09-07 08:53 PM
Response to Reply #180
188. well said ... it truly is mindbending
:crazy:

:hi:
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Madspirit Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Apr-09-07 10:09 PM
Response to Reply #180
205. Well said.
Well said noiretblu.
Lee
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Solly Mack Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Apr-09-07 10:11 PM
Response to Reply #180
206. and there it is
Hey you!
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Karenina Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Apr-09-07 09:07 PM
Response to Reply #53
191. Did you READ the article?
Edited on Mon Apr-09-07 09:12 PM by Karenina
You are illustrating Mr. Wise's point. Of course you are correct, ANYONE can be a bigot. Rest assured, I save my sympathy and tolerance for those of very advanced age.
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lumberjack_jeff Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Apr-09-07 09:25 PM
Response to Reply #27
196. Are you suggesting that racism is only bad if it's unjustified? n/t
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Karenina Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Apr-10-07 07:25 AM
Response to Reply #196
230. I'm not suggesting anything. I'm posing 2 simple straightforward questions
Edited on Tue Apr-10-07 07:26 AM by Karenina
which I shall expand slightly.

1. Have black people as a "group" ever done anything historically to white people to warrant their contempt, ill-will or mistrust?

2. Have white people as a "group" ever done anything historically to black people to warrant their contempt, ill-will or mistrust?
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XemaSab Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Apr-10-07 09:55 AM
Response to Reply #230
244. These are bullshit questions
This is exactly the same prejudicial attitude that makes white people lock their car doors driving through the 'hood.

Just because white people have historically treated black people badly doesn't mean that black people are justified in being rude to individual white people.
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Karenina Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Apr-10-07 11:00 AM
Response to Reply #244
250. It's amazing how resistant some are to
considering the questions and making a reasoned response.
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XemaSab Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Apr-10-07 08:40 PM
Response to Reply #250
288. I have taken a fresh look at the questions
and I think the answer to both questions is a hearty "yes," which goes to prove even further that we have a LONG ways to go before we live in a color blind world.

But just because the answer to both questions is "yes" doesn't give members of either group the right to be racist towards individuals of the other group.
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Karenina Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Apr-11-07 11:05 AM
Response to Reply #288
318. Can you explain your answers a bit more
Edited on Wed Apr-11-07 11:07 AM by Karenina
if you're willing? In what ways have you seen these "groups" interact?
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lumberjack_jeff Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Apr-10-07 01:36 PM
Response to Reply #230
274. The questions are based on a premise - that the answer matters somewhow.
Edited on Tue Apr-10-07 02:03 PM by lumberjack_jeff
The only way that the answers to these questions could be material to this discussion is if the underlying presumption is that some kinds of racism (or "contempt, ill-will or mistrust", in your words) are justified.

I respectfully disagree. Anyone who searches thoroughly enough, can find a historical rationalization for their hate.
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Karenina Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Apr-10-07 02:31 PM
Response to Reply #274
281. You've again constructed your own narrative and responded to it.
MY REQUEST was that you consider and answer two simple questions.
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treestar Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Apr-10-07 11:56 AM
Response to Reply #27
256. This would be to judge people by the "group."
Which is the very essence of racism, sexism, etc.

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hfojvt Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Apr-09-07 06:41 PM
Response to Reply #13
39. It's not the slur as much as the attitude
You can make a generalization that says white > black in terms of the power of the groups, but people do not deal in groups. If some black teenagers are throwing eggs at me, I do not have the rest of white society as a shield (although I did call the cops later - were they more likely to respond because I mentioned the race of the perpetrators?) My new neighbors that I tried to talk to as they sat on their porch playing cards just blew me off and left me standing there like an idiot, even though part of the purpose of my visit was to see if they were registered to vote in their new house. True, it would not have bothered me alot if they called me a honky, but they were quite capable of treating me like crap even without an arsenal of offensive epithets. Although, really 'racist' is a pretty severe epithet which would be used against white people who did the same thing to a black person.
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NormanYorkstein Donating Member (762 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Apr-09-07 06:59 PM
Response to Reply #39
61. This whole idea that it's okay for Blacks to be bigots
because of racism is 100% bullshit and insulting and a part of White privilege. It's as if Blacks need to be minded and treated with kid gloves because they're so helpless. THAT is *racism* - way more damaging than simple bigotry.

And I agree with you - I have lived in neighborhood where Whites were mistreated and they couldn't call on White society to help them.
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noiretextatique Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Apr-09-07 08:47 PM
Response to Reply #61
185. only you are saying that
wise certainly isn't.
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Deja Q Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Apr-09-07 06:17 PM
Response to Reply #2
21. *ding* *ding* *ding* -- We have a winner.
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Big Pappa Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Apr-09-07 06:54 PM
Response to Reply #2
56. I agree totally
n/t
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fishwax Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Apr-09-07 07:03 PM
Response to Reply #2
66. the truth is dangerous?
slurs against African Americans have a historical power that slurs against whites don't.
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rasputin1952 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Apr-09-07 07:37 PM
Response to Reply #66
119. Just out of curiosity, why start a new history of racial slurs?
Racial slurs, regardless or the origin and regardless of the recipient are racial slurs.

One of the differences is that some are overt, while others are covert; neither is appropriate, but the covert are more powerful, for those are the ones rarely challenged, and therfore fuel more racism.
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fishwax Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Apr-09-07 07:47 PM
Response to Reply #119
132. what do you mean by a new history of racial slurs?
I agree that racial slurs are racial slurs, but it doesn't follow that they are all equal in power or effect.
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rasputin1952 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Apr-09-07 08:09 PM
Response to Reply #132
160. Each time a slur is used, it gains power...
regardless of the offense.

Every time someone uses a slur, it is not against an individual, it is against a group of people. Historically, minoroites have been the recipients of overt racial slurs, but with equal ferocity those being afflicted have used the same rationale to belittle their afflictors, but covertly. The opposite has come about because conditions have changed, and now, forms of slurs are used overtly, while the others have become covert. This type of stuff, feeds itself.

The only way i figure it can stop, is for people to understand that slurs are intolerable, regardless of source or direction. The road to stopping all of this is long and filled w/troubles, racism, just as sexism is deeprooted.

There may be a day when we can get past this...but it is going to take some very serious work...:)


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Karenina Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Apr-09-07 08:02 PM
Response to Reply #66
156. When white folks start calling Tim Wise "dangerous"
I think we're onto something!!! ;-)
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alcibiades_mystery Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Apr-09-07 11:10 PM
Response to Reply #2
214. Is there room for "varying degrees of history"?
Until that time, you are a fucking racist. You just get to pretend thAT YOU'RE NOT. hAVE FUN WITH THAT.
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Jcrowley Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Apr-09-07 05:57 PM
Response to Original message
5. What Kind of Card is Race?
What Kind of Card is Race?
The Absurdity (and Consistency) of White Denial
by Tim Wise

April 26, 2006

Recently, I was asked by someone in the audience of one of my speeches, whether or not I believed that racism--though certainly a problem--might also be something conjured up by people of color in situations where the charge was inappropriate. In other words, did I believe that occasionally folks play the so-called race card, as a ploy to gain sympathy or detract from their own shortcomings? In the process of his query, the questioner made his own opinion all too clear (an unambiguous yes), and in that, he was not alone, as indicated by the reaction of others in the crowd, as well as survey data confirming that the belief in black malingering about racism is nothing if not ubiquitous.

It's a question I'm asked often, especially when there are several high-profile news events transpiring, in which race informs part of the narrative. Now is one of those times, as a few recent incidents demonstrate: Is racism, for example, implicated in the alleged rape of a young black woman by white members of the Duke University lacrosse team? Was racism implicated in Congresswoman Cynthia McKinney's recent confrontation with a member of the Capitol police? Or is racism involved in the ongoing investigation into whether or not Barry Bonds--as he is poised to eclipse white slugger Babe Ruth on the all-time home run list--might have used steroids to enhance his performance?*

Although the matter is open to debate in any or all of these cases, white folks have been quick to accuse blacks who answer in the affirmative of playing the race card, as if their conclusions have been reached not because of careful consideration of the facts as they see them, but rather, because of some irrational (even borderline paranoid) tendency to see racism everywhere. So too, discussions over immigration, "terrorist" profiling, and Katrina and its aftermath often turn on issues of race, and so give rise to the charge that as regards these subjects, people of color are "overreacting" when they allege racism in one or another circumstance.

Asked about the tendency for people of color to play the "race card," I responded as I always do: First, by noting that the regularity with which whites respond to charges of racism by calling said charges a ploy, suggests that the race card is, at best, equivalent to the two of diamonds. In other words, it's not much of a card to play, calling into question why anyone would play it (as if it were really going to get them somewhere). Secondly, I pointed out that white reluctance to acknowledge racism isn't new, and it isn't something that manifests only in situations where the racial aspect of an incident is arguable. Fact is, whites have always doubted claims of racism at the time they were being made, no matter how strong the evidence, as will be seen below. Finally, I concluded by suggesting that whatever "card" claims of racism may prove to be for the black and brown, the denial card is far and away the trump, and whites play it regularly: a subject to which we will return.

http://www.zmag.org/content/showarticle.cfm?ItemID=10157

K&R
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Bjorn Against Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Apr-09-07 06:02 PM
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6. Not to mention whites have historically had most of the power...
Racism involves a lot more than merely throwing slurs around it involves opression, and minority groups have never been in a position that they are able to oppress whites because whites have always had more power. The only way that a minority group could ever become racist is if they were able to take over the power structure and oppress the majority, and that is not going to happen any time soon. I really don't like focusing on the slurs, because that confuses people and makes them think that racism is all about slurs when it really goes much deeper than that. Minorities have a more difficult time finding jobs, and the jobs they do find tend to pay less. They are more likely to be pulled over for traffic violations, and they are more likely to get long criminal sentences than whites are for the same type of crimes. Heavily minority neighborhoods do not have as good of schools, they do not have the same quality of health care, the list could go on and on.

Whites clearly have more power than minority groups do, and racism is ultimately more about power than it is about words.
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Kelly Rupert Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Apr-09-07 06:03 PM
Response to Reply #6
8. Man, when do I get my power?
Edited on Mon Apr-09-07 06:03 PM by Kelly Rupert
I'd love to get rich on the backs of poor minorities. How can I accomplish this?
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Bjorn Against Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Apr-09-07 06:15 PM
Response to Reply #8
17. Do you not recognize your white privilege?
Edited on Mon Apr-09-07 06:17 PM by MN Against Bush
Because if you are white you do have a better chance of getting a job you apply for than a black person does. You are less likely to get pulled over for a traffic violation. You are more likely to get into college. These are all facts that have been proven over and over again in many different studies. You may not see the privilege now, but if you were a minority you would be treated differently.

On edit: By the way I am white too, I have the same type of privileges you have.
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Kelly Rupert Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Apr-09-07 06:26 PM
Response to Reply #17
24. In all seriousness,
I've read more studies than anyone should have to. I wrote my undergraduate thesis on the effects of early-childhood language barriers on African-American high-school graduation rates.
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JuniperLea Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Apr-09-07 06:31 PM
Response to Reply #17
26. I'm white, but all the black kids I went to school with had the same
Opportunities that I did... and many of them have much better jobs/homes/cars than I do too! Some are better off, some are worse off... but there are lesser and greater in all races of my graduating HS class.

Equality is the way. To keep telling people they can't/don't/won't is a horrible thing to do!
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Bjorn Against Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Apr-09-07 06:36 PM
Response to Reply #26
32. Do you realize the problems with using self-selected sampling?
Read a genuine peer-reviewed study and I think you will see a much broader picture, when you use self-selected samples you miss the big picture.
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JuniperLea Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Apr-09-07 06:41 PM
Response to Reply #32
37. Quit telling blacks they aren't good enough!
Edited on Mon Apr-09-07 06:42 PM by Juniperx
Quit telling them they are anything but equal!

We cannot get past all this bullshit we were brought up with until someone takes a stand and says that blacks can have what they aspire to have!

Kids need to grow up knowing the world is their oyster or they will never succeed. I don't care what color their skin is.

Mine isn't the only racially diverse neighborhood around and I've read plenty on the subject. You can't believe everything you read either. Studies suffer from crap in/crap out syndrome and most are narrow samples!

When you tell a black person it's ok to issue racial slurs to whites because they've been on the receiving end so long, you are only trying to make two wrongs into a right.
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Bjorn Against Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Apr-09-07 06:44 PM
Response to Reply #37
42. When did I say blacks are not good enough?
Edited on Mon Apr-09-07 06:46 PM by MN Against Bush
Quit with the strawmen arguments, and quit implying I am a racist because I know what the studies say. And it is YOUR sample that is a narrow sample the studies I looked at use information from the census, a much bigger sample than a few you went to school with.

On edit: I do view blacks as equal I simply realize the facts that society does not treat them equally. And most blacks would agree with me on that.
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JuniperLea Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Apr-09-07 06:47 PM
Response to Reply #42
47. You are isisting that blacks cannot do as well as others!
What the hell would you call that??

I'm saying they can, that I've seen it with my own eyes. I've seen it in NYC, LA, Detroit.

Strawman my ass.

Give the black man a break and admit he has the mind and the ability! That's all it takes. It's been done.
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Bjorn Against Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Apr-09-07 06:51 PM
Response to Reply #47
51. They do have mind and ability, and I NEVER suggested otherwise
Edited on Mon Apr-09-07 06:53 PM by MN Against Bush
What does being more likely to pulled over for a minor traffic violation have to do with mind and ability? It doesn't it has to do with racism. I don't pretend that we don't live in a racist society, because we do. To deny it is not going to help bring about equality.

On edit: And I am NOT suggesting blacks can't do as well as others, I am suggesting they are treated differently than others. There is a huge difference, and yes you are using strawmen.
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JuniperLea Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Apr-09-07 06:56 PM
Response to Reply #51
57. This discussion is about racial slurs
That is what I'm talking about.

You can't get rid of racism until it is gone from every race. And you can't have equality as long as you accentuate the negative instead of getting on with the business of treating everyone equal.

You can fight racism without giving those who have suffered racism the "right" to levee racism on another! That is ignorant.
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Bjorn Against Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Apr-09-07 07:03 PM
Response to Reply #57
68. When did I use a racial slur?
You weren't talking about racial slurs, you told me I didn't think blacks were good enough when I never said any such thing.

You lied about me and I am not going to just let you change the topic without calling you out on your smear.
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JuniperLea Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Apr-09-07 07:12 PM
Response to Reply #68
78. Where the hell did I say you did?
I'm redirecting to the OP, which is what I've been talking about!
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JuniperLea Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Apr-09-07 07:20 PM
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94. where did I lie about you? n/t
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JuniperLea Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Apr-09-07 07:37 PM
Response to Reply #98
120. I gave examples of what I know for fact...
Here: "Opportunities that I did... and many of them have much better jobs/homes/cars than I do too! Some are better off, some are worse off... but there are lesser and greater in all races of my graduating HS class.

Equality is the way. To keep telling people they can't/don't/won't is a horrible thing to do!"

And you told me I missed the big picture... I'm saying that you can't continue to hold people back by telling them they don't have a chance... and you told me I didn't see the big picture.

If I misunderstood you, I apologize.

Still, you can't rely on studies that don't have a sample group that's NOT like the group of your focus. All experiments and studies need a control group. Otherwise, you have nothing to compare.
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Bjorn Against Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Apr-09-07 07:40 PM
Response to Reply #120
127. My studies are peer reviewed...
So who is the control group in the study of your neighbors?
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JuniperLea Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Apr-09-07 07:55 PM
Response to Reply #127
150. Peer reviewed only means they were reviewed
Not that they were compared with other like studies using other demographics.
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bettyellen Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Apr-09-07 07:39 PM
Response to Reply #98
123. to Jup, it's about giving black positive affirmations- fine but they need equal opportunity, schools
with desent teachers and afterscholl programs. and communitites that are protected and supported equally by out fed and local govts.
in short, there's a lot ot be done.
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uppityperson Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Apr-09-07 07:54 PM
Response to Reply #123
146. Exactly, simply and succintly. eom
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fishwax Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Apr-09-07 07:08 PM
Response to Reply #57
73. you can't get rid of racism by pretending that all slurs are created equal, either
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JuniperLea Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Apr-09-07 07:10 PM
Response to Reply #73
76. How do two wrongs make a right?
How do you explain to a child that has not learned to be racist that it's ok for a black man to call him a name but it's not ok for him to call a name too?
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fishwax Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Apr-09-07 07:16 PM
Response to Reply #76
85. who said two wrongs make a right?
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JuniperLea Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Apr-09-07 07:18 PM
Response to Reply #85
90. Allowing blacks to call names is wrong
Allowing whites to call names is wrong... count them, two wrongs.
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fishwax Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Apr-09-07 07:21 PM
Response to Reply #90
95. who is the mysterious power that is "allowing" this
and whoever said that the two wrongs you've identified make a "right"?

The OP pointed out that slurs used against whites by African Americans don't carry the same cultural or personal weight and power as the myriad of slurs used against African Americans. I don't see anyone encouraging anybody to call other people names.
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blonndee Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Apr-09-07 07:39 PM
Response to Reply #95
125. Stop making sense, fishwax.
And DAMMIT! Don't you know you're supposed to get REAL MAD in these kinds of threads, or, even better, start throwing around red herrings and straw!!!!!!1111!!

:hi:
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fishwax Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Apr-09-07 07:48 PM
Response to Reply #125
134. Ha! I'll work on that
I'm series!!1!

:hi:
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JuniperLea Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Apr-09-07 07:40 PM
Response to Reply #95
126. We now have several generations of white people who
Abhor racism and have been raised not to see color. To me and my children, someone calling a name is devistating. It would hurt me deeply!

Just because you think it's not as bad, doesn't mean it isn't and it doesn't mean it's a good thing to approve of.
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fishwax Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Apr-09-07 07:50 PM
Response to Reply #126
138. who approves of it? And who said it was a good thing to approve of?
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noiretextatique Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Apr-09-07 08:40 PM
Response to Reply #126
182. that's not true
it's true that more white people don't harbor blatantly racist views, but it not true that all whites don't, regardless of age. there are many people who were alive to experience jim crow, as the chosen ones, and the outcasts. there are young people being raised as racists as i type this.
there is much more work to be done.
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gollygee Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Apr-09-07 06:54 PM
Response to Reply #47
55. This is complete bullshit
of course they can do as well. But they have to fight against a racist society to do it. It is harder.

It's like the quote about Bush - he was born on third base and thinks he hit a triple. You and I were born at home plate or on first base, and black people were born waiting to get a chance to bat.
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JuniperLea Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Apr-09-07 06:59 PM
Response to Reply #55
59. And what will make it less hard?
Giving blacks the ok to use racial slurs against whites? That is the topic of conversation in the OP.

You can't make one group "more equal" by making another group "less equal".
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gollygee Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Apr-09-07 07:01 PM
Response to Reply #59
63. That's not the point of the OP
The point is that it doesn't hurt white people to be called slurs the same way it hurts black people because overall in our society the power is with us.

Affirmative action is about leveling the playing field. The myth is that without it, there is equality. The truth is that without affirmative action, in this country we have a very definite negative action, otherwise known as "last hired, first fired".
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JuniperLea Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Apr-09-07 07:14 PM
Response to Reply #63
82. You can't speak for all white people
If you give black people the ok to hurl slurs to others, you are only hurting the black people.

No one should ever call another a name, slur or otherwise. It's childish.

I never said one word about affirmative action. Your strawman argument has no bearing to a conversation about racial slurs.
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gollygee Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Apr-09-07 07:16 PM
Response to Reply #82
86. No one is saying that it's OK - *THAT* is a textbook example of a strawman argument
what we're saying is that it doesn't hurt us as much because the society power we have isn't behind those slurs.
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JuniperLea Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Apr-09-07 07:20 PM
Response to Reply #86
93. I would hurt me like hell to be called a name like that
You don't have a right to say how much something would hurt others. And you have no right to say it's ok for one group to call another names, white to black or black to white. It's wrong. Period. It's childish and stupid to call people names. Period.
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gollygee Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Apr-09-07 07:22 PM
Response to Reply #93
97. Of course it's stupid and childish
and wrong. In either case.

But there is no way, no matter how much it hurts you, that it hurts you to be called "whitey" or whatever as much as it hurts black people to be called "the n word".
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JuniperLea Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Apr-09-07 07:31 PM
Response to Reply #97
110. You don't know that~! You don't know me at all!!!
I've had many, many black children in my life and I've treated them every bit as well as I have my own children. Whether it was when I was Cub Master, or when I was tutoring, or babysitting, all in a neighborhood where I was the fucking minority!!!! It would rip my fucking heart out and you have no right to even judge what my feelings would be!!!
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gollygee Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Apr-09-07 07:32 PM
Response to Reply #110
113. If you think it hurts as much
you have no idea what power that word has - so much that in polite society it isn't even written out or spoken.

And you're playing the martyr. Doesn't make anything so.
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JuniperLea Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Apr-10-07 01:47 PM
Response to Reply #97
277. You are talking out of your ass
You have no idea what my feelings are. No idea whatsoever.
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Kelly Rupert Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Apr-09-07 06:45 PM
Response to Reply #32
43. Unfortunately, those studies don't prove what you think they do.
I have yet to see a study in which all other factors are identical--that is, with black and white children growing up in the same environments, speaking the same dialects, with the same parental attitudes, etc., etc. As it stands, the studies suggest institutional racism may be a problem. They may also suggest other, more cultural factors (one of which--the disconnect between Standard American English and African-American Vernacular English--I spent considerable time studying) may be a problem.
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Bjorn Against Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Apr-09-07 06:49 PM
Response to Reply #43
49. All other factors identical?
In a society which was a long history of racism we are not going to get all other factors identical because our society is not equal and blacks don't start out with the same privileges whites do.
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Kelly Rupert Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Apr-09-07 07:01 PM
Response to Reply #49
64. Now who's being racist?
You're suggesting that poor whites are intrinsically more advantaged than upper-class blacks? I've got a arm's length of studies that would disagree with you there.

You're not going to get all other factors identical in any study large enough to be useful, yes. So what you're saying, then, is that you cannot prove that it is skin color that is the principal issue, and not cultural factors.

I believe the primary reason African-American children do poorly in high school is that they simply do not give a fuck, to put it bluntly. Their attitudes towards education (and their participation in extracurriculars) is measurably worse than their white peers, and that alone can account for the discrepancy. The difference is a full standard deviation, by the way.

I believe that attitude is cultivated as far back as Kindergarten, when they're first introduced to schooling. Black kids, speaking AAVE, do far worse on early-childhood language assessments: a full standard deviation worse. Due to syntactic differences between the dialects, they are less likely to be able to fully participate in classroom. Teachers give more attention to students who they see performing better; this is provable. Teacher attention directly impacts early-childhood academic attitude and performance; this is provable. Kindergarten success carries directly into fourth-grade success; this is provable. Middle-school success translates into middle-school attitudes towards education, which carries into high school.

Is this the whole story? Of course not. And it's a somewhat tenuous link at best; more studies linking AAVE (regardless of race) to academic performance would be necessary. But it's a bit of the story, IMO, and one that has nothing to do with institutionalized white power.
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Bjorn Against Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Apr-09-07 07:08 PM
Response to Reply #64
72. Don't call me a racist for pointing out facts...
Blacks are far more likely to live in poverty than whites, that is a fact that has been proven many times over. I have a degree in Sociology, I have studied these issues thoroughly. I don't think you will find very many black people who will dispute what I am saying. There is racism in this society, and to deny it will not make it go away.
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Kelly Rupert Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Apr-09-07 07:09 PM
Response to Reply #72
75. I haven't disputed any of those facts.
Edited on Mon Apr-09-07 07:10 PM by Kelly Rupert
Try re-reading what I wrote. And let's not compare degrees. I have a degree in linguistics with a specialization in sociolinguistics, and I'm in grad school now; I'm not uneducated on the matter.
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Bjorn Against Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Apr-09-07 07:15 PM
Original message
I did read what you wrote...
In your subject line you called me a racist and then you said blacks "simply do not give a fuck" about education. I don't care what your degree is in, that type of statement is not an educated opinion.
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Kelly Rupert Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Apr-09-07 07:20 PM
Response to Original message
92. Oh, I'm sorry to offend you.
Edited on Mon Apr-09-07 07:21 PM by Kelly Rupert
But:
1. Claiming that a black kid from an upper-class background is less likely to succeed than a poor white kid is both racist and incorrect.

2. African-American high-school attitudes towards education are demonstrably worse than Caucasian high-school attitudes towards education. If you want to hold to studies, you gotta take the pleasant with the unpleasant. Here, for your enjoyment:

Lisella, Linda N. “Extracurricular participation and academic achievement in minority students in urban schools.” The Urban Review, Vol. 28, No. 1, pp. 63-80

Ford, Donna Y. “Perceptions and Attitudes of Black Students toward School Achievement, and Other Educational Variables.” Child Development, Vol. 67, No. 3, pp. 1141-1152.

If you refuse to acknowledge facts that you find unpleasant, you're not doing your degree justice.
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Bjorn Against Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Apr-09-07 07:32 PM
Response to Reply #92
112. Where did I claim this?
Edited on Mon Apr-09-07 07:32 PM by MN Against Bush
"1. Claiming that a black kid from an upper-class background is less likely to succeed than a poor white kid is both racist and incorrect."

Where did I suggest otherwise? You pulled that out of thin air, I was talking about statistics between whites and blacks, and you just threw the words "upper-class" and "poor" in on your own. You claimed I said something that I never said and then you called me a racist.

And for your information I have read about education and minorities, and I will tell you that the reasons blacks don't tend to perform as well in schools is a lot more complicated than simply that they "don't give a fuck". I highly doubt those studies you cite would say otherwise.
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Kelly Rupert Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Apr-09-07 07:39 PM
Response to Reply #112
124. Of course it's complicated. As I said,
it's only one small piece of the problem--but, at the same time, a very real piece of the problem. You may find the language I used appallingly harsh, and I'm sorry if I offended you. However, I stand by my statement. African-American kids have far more negative attitudes towards education than white kids do, and that is extremely important.

And you did indeed claim that it would be impossible to put blacks and whites on equal footings (skin color aside), which is indeed racist. It's quite possible, and happens all the time.
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Bjorn Against Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Apr-09-07 07:48 PM
Response to Reply #124
133. Quit calling me a racist
Edited on Mon Apr-09-07 07:48 PM by MN Against Bush
I suggested that in order to do a valid study you can not create equal footing where there is none. As a result of centuries of racism blacks in general do not start out with the same opportunities that whites do. They do not tend to have as good of an economic situation, they do not tend to have as good of schools, they do not tend to have as high of a quality of healthcare, and they are viewed with suspicion by many in our society. That is why they can not do a study where all else is equal, because our society is not equal.

Don't call me a racist.

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Kelly Rupert Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Apr-09-07 07:52 PM
Response to Reply #133
139. But the point is,
it would not be impossible to create a valid study with equal footing. There are numerous middle-class black families in America. Comparing their children's performance with the average performance of their neighbors (at the same schools) would be entirely possible. (I haven't seen such a study, so if you've come across one, please PM me; I'd honestly love to read one.) If you're claiming that there are insurmountable intrinsic differences between individual blacks and whites, then that is indeed racist. If not, then we have misunderstood each other.
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Bjorn Against Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Apr-09-07 08:17 PM
Response to Reply #139
167. The differences are not because of skin color they are because of RACISM
That is key, the differences I brought up in all of my posts are differences in the way people are treated by society. If we did not have a racist society we would not see these differences I don't think, but because of racism there are major differences in the opportunities offered to black than there are in the opportunities offered to whites.
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HiFructosePronSyrup Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Apr-09-07 08:08 PM
Response to Reply #133
159. Let's cut through the crap...
Valid study after valid study has shown that black people don't get the same opportunities.

The EXACT same job application with an African American name is less likely to be accepted than a white sounding name.

A black kid in the same school, in the same class, with the same teacher is more likely to be punished harshly for the same behaviour as a white kid. Regardless of economic status.
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FormerDem06 Donating Member (308 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Apr-10-07 09:06 AM
Response to Reply #17
241. No I really don't see my white privelige most days
But I'm sure it exists. Coming from a poor white family in a poor mixed race neighborhood; I was hassled by the cops on more than one occasion; just like my black friends.

Now I made it out, and got a degree (I'm still paying every dime for college because I was not eligible for most aid being a white male despite good grades and high SAT scores) and I have a good job.

I got an entry level job working with guess who, four black folks and I was passed over for a promotion three times (in favor of my well deserving black colleagues) before I left for a new job elsewhere.

Ten years and countless 13 hour days later, I make 6 times what my parents ever did raising three of us in rural NC. I am helping them out now to be sure. but I'll be honest, my boss is an African American and SHE earns double what I do.

Being in IT, most of my colleagues are Indian or Chinese, and they earn what I do. Maybe it's the nature of my business that my workplace is more diverse than average america.

BTW, I think that it's not about race anymore, it's more about income level and socio-economic status. Sure a lot of whites have better positions in this ladder, but to be honest coming from the bottom portion of it, I have no doubt that poor whites whose parents have little education have no more privilege in this world that poor blacks.

My well off friends got jobs out of college making twice what I did by getting jobs through their parents friends. I didn't have that privilege, and had to start out lower on the scale and wait for my chance, but it was worth every moment to get to where I am today.
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EFerrari Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Apr-10-07 01:37 AM
Response to Reply #8
222. (psssssssst, Kelly, you already have.)
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MistressOverdone Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Apr-09-07 06:02 PM
Response to Original message
7. Reverse racism is real and dangerous
but it is NOT defined by the epithets available to either side.

Hatred based on race is ugly and wrong, no matter who exhibits it.
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JuniperLea Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Apr-09-07 06:16 PM
Response to Reply #7
20. Well said!
Do you think it's wise to give any group the ok to do something prohibited to the other groups?

I believe in equality. We can't have equality until all people are treated equally... today. Not 100 years ago... not 40 years ago... today.
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Karenina Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Apr-09-07 09:47 PM
Response to Reply #20
201. Who exactly, in your view
is "giving/allowing" black people "the OK" to run amok throughout the land doing something whites are prohibited from doing? N.B. My question to you is WHO, not WHAT.
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JetCityLiberal Donating Member (706 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Apr-09-07 06:33 PM
Response to Reply #7
28. Who coined that 'phrase'
"reverse racism" Seriously, when did that term come around?

Sounds like a right wing MAJOR talking point to this white male.

I cannot believe the crap I am reading on DU about this today.
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Kelly Rupert Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Apr-09-07 06:48 PM
Response to Reply #28
48. Then you're a rather sheltered white male.
Race relations are tense all around, and blacks can be just as racist as whites.
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Morgana LaFey Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Apr-09-07 09:15 PM
Response to Reply #48
192. no, BIGOTED, not racist
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Kelly Rupert Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Apr-09-07 10:29 PM
Response to Reply #192
208. Bigoted in some cases, racist in others.
Don't even try to pretend that blacks are incapable of being racist.
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MistressOverdone Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Apr-09-07 07:06 PM
Response to Reply #28
71. I guess I first heard it in the 60's.
I don't think it is a RW term. It is pretty established as a description for the situation when the minority discriminates against the majority. It happens. Human nature is human nature.

I personally belong to a couple of minorities and I'm guilty of it as well.
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Morgana LaFey Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Apr-09-07 09:18 PM
Response to Reply #71
193. It IS a RW term. It came about because jerks on the right wing --
sexist, racist jerks -- just couldn't STAND there being true equality, so once minorities and women started edging up closer to equality, they freaked and started the ridiculous notion that THEIR equality was being diminished by the super-equality of women and minorities.

Big lotta shit.

And if you are a member of a couple of minorities, I'd strongly suggest you educate yourself better on the matter of racism -- and sexism.
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MistressOverdone Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Apr-10-07 07:40 AM
Response to Reply #193
233. Well, I like to learn new things
and I'll just have to say I never heard of it in a negative sort of way. Here's a good link (Have no idea what the source is...seems like it is a public school, maybe a website for a social studies class) that mirrors what my impression has always been.

http://www.howard-winn.k12.ia.us/projects/ind_stdy05/honors2/diversity/racial.html


As for educating myself on racism and sexism, everyone can use education. I've encountered plenty of the former in my six decades.. and maybe more of my share of the latter.

Thanks for replying.
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uppityperson Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Apr-09-07 07:50 PM
Response to Reply #28
137. I thought "reverse racism" was going overboard the other way.
Rather than discriminating against individuals based on race, it was giving them benefits that they, as individuals, didn't deserve regardless of race. Giving women the right to enter a door first, giving jobs to (discriminated against race) because they were that race rather than because they were best for the job. I know of white women who dated black men exclusively so they could prove they weren't racist. That is what I thought reverse racism was. Still racism, still prejudging people.

I learned another usage of the term today.
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Madspirit Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Apr-09-07 06:03 PM
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9. So Sad
That on a progressive site there are truly some who just don't get it. Blacks have no power to cause us harm. We do have power and we do cause and have caused, great harm to black people and others of color. WE wield the power. There is an unequal field to start with. Why is that complicated.
Lee
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ToeBot Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Apr-09-07 06:11 PM
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10. What's sad is you expect others to wallow in your white guilt. n/t
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NormanYorkstein Donating Member (762 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Apr-09-07 06:14 PM
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15. It's an important part of racism
By saying that Blacks have no power, you are, in fact, putting them in their place. "White guilt" helps make Whites feel better about their belief that Black are inferior and have no power.
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Morgana LaFey Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Apr-09-07 09:19 PM
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194. Bullshit rightwing talking points from both of you
And that applies to your posts upthread as well. BULLSHIT rightwing talking points which IMO have NO place at DU.

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NormanYorkstein Donating Member (762 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Apr-09-07 10:21 PM
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207. let me know when you have an arguement
otherwise your pity is of no interest to me. I don't need it or want it so tell the owners to ban me to the "right-wing" websites if you want. I believe in equality and I sure as hell don't want anything from guilty Whites.
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Morgana LaFey Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Apr-10-07 11:24 PM
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307. Guilty whites is just a phrase intended to allow racist whites to
hide their racism behind it.

I see a lot of racism here at DU (and sexism and homophobia and classism), but I'm not used to seeing quite so many ultra-racist rightwing talking points strewn about as if they have any validity.

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Madspirit Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Apr-09-07 06:41 PM
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38. Wow
How insightful of you...<sarcasm> If you are white and you don't see this as true, maybe Ann Coulter's site would be more to your liking.
White people have a lot to feel guilty about. Ask a black person.
Lee
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Kelly Rupert Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Apr-09-07 07:02 PM
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65. What do *I* have to feel guilty about?
Seriously. What have I done?
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noiretextatique Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Apr-10-07 09:24 PM
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289. guilt is a rw talking point...and a self-serving, bs emotion
we are all responsible for the mess that was left after centuries of inequity...white. black, brown, yellow, red and everything in between. that's what mainstream american culture shirks from: responsibility. if katrina didn't prove that, i don't know what will.
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gollygee Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Apr-09-07 06:51 PM
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50. White Privilege
it's about recognizing that in some ways we are privileged in our society simply for being white.
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NormanYorkstein Donating Member (762 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Apr-09-07 07:17 PM
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88. that's different than "white guilt"
No one should feel guilty for something they didn't do. This "white guilt" is a cover for racism imo.

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gollygee Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Apr-09-07 07:23 PM
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99. Then I have no idea what you mean by "white guilt"
I've never met anyone who felt guilty for being white.
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Kelly Rupert Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Apr-09-07 06:18 PM
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22. Man, when do I get my power?
Edited on Mon Apr-09-07 06:18 PM by Kelly Rupert
So a couple days ago, while I was standing around waiting for the red line to come, a black guy walked right through me, muttering "outta my way, white boy." When can I smite him with my white-man magic power? Do I grow into it? Or can I get it at my local country club? I mean, you say that I've caused great harm to all black people, but, hell, I couldn't even smite one rude jackass on the CTA. Am I a failure as a white male?
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Morgana LaFey Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Apr-09-07 09:21 PM
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195. Yeah, I'd pretty much say so. But not for the reasons you think. nt
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Kelly Rupert Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Apr-09-07 10:29 PM
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209. Oh, I'm crushed n/t
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JuniperLea Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Apr-09-07 06:33 PM
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30. You don't want equality do you?
You want to wallow in guilt and shame instead of trying to help someone.

That's sad... really, really sad.

You really think you are better than blacks, don't you! Until you and others like you start thinking in terms of equality, we will never advance as a society.
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Forkboy Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Apr-09-07 06:38 PM
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35. It seems to me that people are speaking in different contexts in this thread
Edited on Mon Apr-09-07 06:38 PM by Forkboy
I think you're speaking on a larger scale systematic form of racism Madspirit,and you're right.I think others might be seeing this on a more one on one personal level,and on that level reverse racism would be just as bad.

It seems like you're both talking about the same thing but from different angles. :shrug:

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The Straight Story Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Apr-09-07 08:32 PM
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178. There are no people of color in positions of power? On what planet?
Many own businesses, work as bosses, own record companies, etc and so on.

People with power can and do use it wrongly at times towards others - based on any number of reasons (skin color, weight, gender, and so on).

You have power in daily transactions - to wit, the local UDF where I shop (not much longer, moving in a week) is staffed by mostly black people and a few of them simply don't like white people. And yeah, I know that first hand as my niece worked there and was treated poorly until she left (the mgr then hired her black friend who hung out there a lot). My niece is a kick ass worker - but when she heard the mgr lady say 'this is a black store in a black hood and whites should be working in Dublin' she had had enough. Ironically, my niece moved up near dublin and now works at a gas station there.

My brother still goes in there once a week and one lady will be talking up a storm to many customers but won't even look at him, say hello, etc. She grabs things scans em, slams in a bag and does not even say thank you but stares at him waiting on him to leave.

Me - I got no problems there myself and know most all the employees on a first name basis (night crew 2nd/3rd). I did ask one of the girls one night about the whole situation when she asked me how my niece was doing, and she simply said 'mgr X don't like white folks cause her boyfriend left her for a blonde' (I go there at night mostly so don't see the same people my brother does as much).

Now here we have people with power over daily transactions who can make you feel welcome in their store, or not.

Either way - it is wrong to judge and treat people based on a great number of things, and any group can be racist towards another group if they hold power over a situation you find yourself in.

Is it a bigger problem on a larger scale for blacks than whites? Yep. But saying it cannot happen either direction is wrong because power is not a solid block owned by any one group - especially on a local level.
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XemaSab Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Apr-10-07 10:08 AM
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246. You ever gotten your ass kicked for being white?
:shrug:
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Solly Mack Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Apr-09-07 06:13 PM
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12. Thank you
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Clark2008 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Apr-09-07 06:14 PM
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14. Um - I don't laugh at any of those words.
I think all of them are offensive.

This guy needs to re-examine the basis of his thesis. I understand completely what he's saying about power and who has it, but it's no excuse to be rude.
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kiahzero Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Apr-09-07 06:16 PM
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18. He's not saying it's OK to be rude.
He's saying those words don't have the same level of offense as racist words directed towards blacks.
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kiahzero Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Apr-09-07 06:15 PM
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16. It all depends on context.
When a group of people has little or no power over you institutionally, they don’t get to define the terms of your existence, they can’t limit your opportunities, and you needn’t worry much about the use of a slur to describe you and yours, since, in all likelihood, the slur is as far as it’s going to go. What are they going to do next: deny you a bank loan? Yeah, right.

That's precisely true, but it doesn't follow that discrimination can't happen against a group that's a power majority in society at large. We don't exist entirely in society-at-large, we exist in many sub-societies, and there can be (and are) instances where a power minority has power in a sub-society and subsequently does act to limit the opportunity of a person outside the dominant group. These cases are no where near as common as conservatives like to claim, and affirmative action doesn't meet the definition, but they nonetheless exist.
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femmedem Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Apr-09-07 06:16 PM
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19. Wonderful.
Edited on Mon Apr-09-07 06:22 PM by femmedem
A lot of people, even at DU, don't get it. This lays it out so clearly.

Edit to add: Aww dammit. I just went back and read the comments since I posted this. My faith in people was apparently misplaced.
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angstlessk Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Apr-09-07 06:25 PM
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23. Ever see a 6 year old white child come home crying hysterically
cause a group of black kids called her cracker or honky??? NO YOU SAY...THE WORDS THEREFOR ARE INEFFECTUAL!
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Kelly Rupert Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Apr-09-07 06:33 PM
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29. I've never seen a 6-year-old black child coming home crying hysterically
for the same reason. I grew up in a mixed-race neighborhood in the south suburbs of Chicago. If you're going to claim that "cracker" isn't a slur, that's a bad argument.
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Madspirit Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Apr-09-07 06:33 PM
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31. You really don't get it...
...and I gather you didn't actually read the article.
...and stop yelling.
Lee
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JetCityLiberal Donating Member (706 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Apr-09-07 06:37 PM
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34. Great link Madspirit, recommended
Thank you for your very good information and wise words about this on DU today.

"you can't put white people in their place when they own the place to begin with"...and white people STILL own it.

Taking the pups for a walk now, breathing deeply.

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jeffrey_X Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Apr-09-07 06:40 PM
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36. Tim Wise is awesome....
All of his articles and essays hit the nail on the head and usually make people who can't deal with their racism very very uncomfortable.

His book is outstanding as well: "White Like Me"
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Catherine Vincent Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Apr-09-07 06:43 PM
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41. Very good article.
:thumbsup:
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Jcrowley Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Apr-09-07 06:45 PM
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44. A primer
Racist Economics

The economy consists of an elite and everyone else. At times 'everyone else' has been stronger relative to the elite, at times weaker. The elite by definition has power over the rest. But the economy is not so simple-- there are some who are more elite and have more power, some who are less. Economic power is a combination of wealth, income, status and occupation, access to education and health care, connections, and geographic and social mobility. These in turn translate into political power, organization, access to media, business and government. A great deal of the damage done by racism is done through the economic system. People of colour are denied economic power, here and in many places in the world.

Having economic power or elite status is being in an exclusive club. How important is race in deciding who gets into this club? Some examples: blacks search for work longer and often more aggressively than whites and are 36-44% less likely to be hired for jobs in mostly white suburbs even when they are just as qualified. White males with a high school diploma are as likely to have a job and earn as much as black males with college degrees. When controlling for age, experience, and other relative factors, blacks are paid at least 10% less than whites. (Alice O' Connor, Chris Tilly and Lawrence Bobo, eds. 1999. The Multi-City Study of Urban Inequality, "Urban Inequality: Evidence from Four Cities." NY: Russell Sage Foundation.) 2% of lawyers and less than 1% of partners in law firms were black, according to a 1987 survey in the National Law Journal. A 1988 survey of Public Advocates, Inc. showed that fewer than 0.25% of partners in the US's biggest accounting firms were black (37 out of 20 000 surveyed). (cited in Farai Chideya, 1995. Don't Believe the Hype. New York: Penguin Books). On average, African Americans have only one-tenth the net worth that white Americans do. (also in Chideya, 1995).

People with power do not give it away out of morality or a sense of justice. Instead they use the means at their disposal to maintain and extend their power. They hand out jobs and positions in society, and so have the power to discriminate based on race (and sex) and create the kind of pyramid they want. The consequences for the economy are these: not only does racism cause the economy to be stratified as it is, and place people of colour at the bottom of the economic pyramid in terms of occupation, empowerment, income, and wealth. Racism also splits the 'everyone else' into racial groups with different interests, and helps elites maintain their economic power against a divided opposition.

We have a society divided by class: what I would call two classes of winners (owners and managers) and one class of losers (workers, including the unemployed)-- others might cut this finer, others rougher. Most of the winners are white, but most white people aren't winners, at least in the economy. But what we also have is a society divided by race-- where the upper caste is white, and all whites are racial winners-- even those who are economic losers. This scheme of things suits white economic elites-- who create and maintain the scheme by discrimination-- just fine. Racial privilege, in terms of status, prestige, and separation, is much cheaper for them to give out than economic justice, full employment at empowering work, and equality.

http://www.zmag.org/racewatch/znet_race_instructional3.htm
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noiretextatique Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Apr-09-07 06:58 PM
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58. reverse racism is a myth
one cultivated and perpetuated by the usual suspects. that it has become a rally cry of sorts is really not surprising. one thing the reverse racism myth did effectively was to stifle and trivialize the national dialogue on institutional racism.
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gollygee Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Apr-09-07 06:59 PM
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60. It's used as a racism loophole
It's a way that people can do the same things and pretend they're all enlightened. As is "color blind".
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genie_weenie Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Apr-09-07 07:03 PM
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67. Does this mean racism is a subset of Power?
So, in Japan (historically and today) the acts perpetrated against Koreans, Chinese, Indonesians, Filipinos was that racism or not or something else?

The Janjaweed in Sudan are killing black Africans (including muslims) are they racist?

Turkish treatment of Greeks, Slavs and other groups under their control for 600 or so years?


Also what is a white person? Can you classify a person white by the way they look or does it have to be genetic? If it turns out that Thomas Jefferson has middle eastern heritage was he white? And was he a racist for having slaves?

<More on Jefferson> http://news.bbc.co.uk/2/hi/science/nature/6332545.stm
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noiretextatique Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Apr-09-07 07:05 PM
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70. an italian professor i knew
described the division between northern and southern italy as recism. he also said we needed a better (perhaps less loaded) word to describe the thing itself. he suggested "dominant cultural paradigm."
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bettyellen Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Apr-09-07 07:29 PM
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107. they touched on this a little in the sopranos- tony's in laws have northern roots and
they hinted at the whole mythology of the southern italians being more brutal people and less refined. of course they were obstensibly talking of the cuisine, it was at a party. ....

good to see you, noir! hope things are good for you.
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noiretextatique Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Apr-09-07 07:53 PM
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143. i never watch the soprano's...but i studied italian culture
when i was at the american university of rome. the north/south division was a big deal back then...the late 70's.
nice to see you...i am doing well. thanks for asking :hi:
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salin Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Apr-10-07 08:34 PM
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287. noiretblu!!!!
I was thinking about you earlier this week. Can't recall the conversation which made me think of you and wonder how you were doing. Then I clicked a "Milestone" post in Lounge (geez, I rarely go to the lounge, let alone look at that post) - and there it was - you had crossed 15K - so I knew that while I don't think that we have crossed paths or posts in probably a couple of years... that you were still posting. So natch, I had to do a search and find you.

I hope that you are still reading this thread and see this post.

:loveya: and thinking about you!

Hope all is well with you.

salin
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noiretextatique Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Apr-10-07 09:40 PM
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291. hey salin
gosh...i forgot how many wonderful friends i have here :hi:
it's been a tough couple of years with sis and dad passing within fours month of each other, but we just got thru the 1st year anniversary of sis' death, and things are starting to feel ok again.
still it's been hard...
heard from teena...is she still here?
i need to hang out here more often :7
thanks for thinking of me.
:loveya:
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salin Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Apr-10-07 10:22 PM
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301. deepest condolences.
How hard-hitting two significant losses within four months. :cry:

Glad to hear that the period after the anniversary is heralding a touch of "okayness" for you.

I spoke with Teena this weekend. I know that she would really enjoy to connect with you. She is not still here at DU. Though in spirit, she continues to be here.

How cool is that - that our conversations that happened several years ago - still resonate and sit in the memory (along with fondness of the poster - on an anonymous message board no less.) Let me warn you that this place is as maddening as it always has been, but there are still some incredible and memorable people here to cross paths with.

For what it is worth, your words (as all we have on a message board) have made an impression on me, and stayed with me *for years*. I hope that we cross paths again, and more frequently.

Glad to see you tonight,

salin

:loveya:
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noiretextatique Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Apr-10-07 10:49 PM
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306. this is an amazing place
no doubt about that. i'll drop you a pm this week so i can get in touch with teena. i am off to the "second-chance" prom...a benefit for the AIDS ride. i didn't go to my prom, so this should be interesting :loveya: great to see you.
and thanks for the condolences.
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Daedelus76 Donating Member (133 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Apr-11-07 07:23 PM
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326. regionalism in Italy
is more like differences in America between North and South. Northern Italy has always been industrialized, whereas southern Italy was largely rural and poor. Also, there are dialect and language differences. As I'm sure you are aware, Italy hasn't been a unified country all that long historically.

In the UK there is all sorts of different ideas on Scottland, Ireland, and Wales. Some of them border on prejudice, some of them somewhat true. Scottish/Irish culture is usually considered to be crude/strong by the English, hence you get things like "Irish Breakfast Tea", which refers more to the strength/character of the tea more than the exact origin, and you can see the trend carried out in just about everything from pipe tobacco to jam.
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BearSquirrel2 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Apr-09-07 07:12 PM
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79. Probably the worst "reverse racism slur is ..."

The worst reverse racism slur is "whitey". That is when black kids call other black kids whitey when they get good grades and accomplish something. You know, all those things that Martin Luther King wanted them to do ... integrate into American society.

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gollygee Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Apr-09-07 07:15 PM
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83. Black people have to integrate into American society?
what society are they a part of now?

Are you an expert on Martin Luther King and what he wanted? Please read this: http://www.tolerance.org/news/article_tol.jsp?id=687
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Kelly Rupert Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Apr-09-07 07:27 PM
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104. He has a point.
Look, I grew up in South Holland, IL and went to Thornwood high school. We were over 75% black, and yeah, the more academically-oriented kids were indeed occasionally derided for "acting white." That's harmful black-perpetuated racism, and any discussion of minority education ought to include harmful attitudes among both the white and black community.
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BearSquirrel2 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Apr-09-07 07:30 PM
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108. How did King's supporters dress?
Edited on Mon Apr-09-07 07:32 PM by BearSquirrel2
Was King a counter-culture rebel? Or was he an advocate for holding your head up high, dressing right, talking right and demanding the rights that come with those things? Martin Luther King was NOT a Black Panther. I can respect that point of view as well. But yeah, I really DO think that King was an advocate cultural integration in American Society in the same sense that the various European ethnicities (Irish, Italian, etc..) integrated.

I don't think King would care much for the calling women hos. I don't think he would approve of using the word nigger as a respectful salutation. I don't think he would be for the popular harassment of black children who achieved in their schoolwork. I don't believe that Dr. King would approve of the harassment of kids for using good diction that is easily understood and hence makes it easier for them to land jobs.

I believe that King would in general be for those things that would advance the well being of Black Americans. And I believe that he would be 100% AGAINST the destructive gangster culture that has emerged in the past few decades.

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noiretextatique Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Apr-09-07 07:37 PM
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118. actually that's another myth or sorts
Edited on Mon Apr-09-07 08:07 PM by noiretblu
no one who is interested in educating herself is going to be deterred by some ignoramus. do white people have this "problem" too?

edited for grammar :blush:
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Kelly Rupert Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Apr-09-07 07:44 PM
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130. You'd be surprised at the power of peer pressure n/t
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noiretextatique Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Apr-09-07 07:49 PM
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136. not really...i grew up in compton
and was exposed to a host of peer pressure. family is the key, and positive forms of peer pressure.
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Kelly Rupert Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Apr-09-07 07:53 PM
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142. Oh, absolutely family is the key.
Edited on Mon Apr-09-07 07:53 PM by Kelly Rupert
I wish all children were lucky enough to have the positive family pressure that you and I have enjoyed. It really means everything to a child's future.
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Lydia Leftcoast Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Apr-09-07 08:12 PM
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161. It's not a "black thing" to disparage academic achievers
Edited on Mon Apr-09-07 08:14 PM by Lydia Leftcoast
It's an American thing. I am a blue-eyed (augmented) blonde, and as I was growing up in a nearly all-white suburb (we had ONE black family), the kids who were really smart and let it show were only one step above the special education students in social acceptability. The other students didn't tell us we were "acting white" (we were white) but we had to deal with "Oh, you're so SMAAAART" said in a sneering tone, not being invited to parties, being the butts of practical jokes, that kind of thing. I knew kids who purposely played dumb to fit in.

It's one of America's greatest flaws, and it afflicts all races.
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Kelly Rupert Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Apr-09-07 10:33 PM
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210. Well, it's both.
Edited on Mon Apr-09-07 10:35 PM by Kelly Rupert
Anti-intellectualism is an American thing, certainly, and the nation pays the price for it every day we haven't issued pollution standards or increased stem-cell funding. And, unfortunately, anti-educational attitudes are even more prevalent among the African-American student body than among the Caucasian student body (I linked to two peer-reviewed studies demonstrating this in a subthread above). This, of course, is most likely due to a number of factors--many of which are undeniably out of the students' hands--but it is a very real phenomenon.
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noiretextatique Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Apr-10-07 09:56 PM
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295. not in my sister's upper middle class, african-american neighborhood n/t
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BearSquirrel2 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Apr-10-07 07:25 AM
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231. True, true ...

This is true. Disparagement of academic achievement is by no means unique to black folk. But I will note that smart white kids are called "nerds". They aren't re-assigned to membership in another race of people. This is not a criticism so much as it is an observation when it comes to "reverse racism".



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Daedelus76 Donating Member (133 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Apr-11-07 07:08 PM
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325. that might just be a woman thing
If you were a guy when I went to school, it wasn't bad at all to be a white nerd kid. Even the jocks or preps liked you if you were nice enough. You didn't necessarily get invited to parties, but I don't recall anybody teasing me for being in honors classes, and I had a few friends that weren't nerds.
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HiFructosePronSyrup Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Apr-09-07 07:56 PM
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151. It's one of those major pernicious racist myths.
1. It ignores the prevalent problem of white kids who ridicule smart white kids. It's always seemed to me that poor and minority families put higher value on education.

2. Worse, it blames the victim. The reason black schools are failing is because they tease each other, apparently.

It's right up there with blaming black men for being bad fathers.
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noiretextatique Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Apr-09-07 08:21 PM
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170. agreed
and i, for two, am sick of hearing it repeated as gospel.
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Kelly Rupert Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Apr-09-07 10:36 PM
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211. Quite frankly, if you believe
that poor urban families place a higher value on education than suburbanites, you are flying in the face of every single study ever conducted on educational attitudes.
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Lydia Leftcoast Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Apr-09-07 11:25 PM
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215. That place where I was tormented for being intellectual
was an affluent suburb.

Suburbanites value *schooling* as a road to job security. They don't value *education* in the sense of loving learning.


In any case, you could say the same thing about poor rural whites as about inner city blacks. Rural Oregon is the land of "our kids don't need to know all that stuff." It's the culture of poverty, not the culture of race.
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HiFructosePronSyrup Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Apr-10-07 02:22 PM
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279. Cite them.
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noiretextatique Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Apr-10-07 09:48 PM
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293. poor, urban families...don't they tend to live in areas with
th worst schools? well, let's put the same schools in those areas as they have in say...beverly hills...just as an experiment. i wonder if that would make any difference :shrug:
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Daedelus76 Donating Member (133 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Apr-11-07 07:05 PM
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324. yes
though I think among whites, being a "nerd" is more acceptable. Maybe not so cool but it is understood. As an outsider, it looks like blacks are not as comfortable being nerds, but I think this will change with time as knowledge skills become more important and technology filters down to all strata of society.

And again, you can't underestimate peer pressure.
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noiretextatique Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Apr-14-07 06:42 PM
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334. i know several black engineers
doctors, and scientists. none of them have any problems with being accepted in their communities.
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NashVegas Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Apr-09-07 07:15 PM
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84. Racism Hurts Everyone Regardless of Color
Edited on Mon Apr-09-07 07:16 PM by Crisco
It's a joke to see this kind of crap.

One cannot tell one group of people that their racism and/or use of racist terms against others is Very, Very Bad, but for other groups to use racism and/or racist terms against them is A-okay.

All the over-rationalized logic in the world is not going to make any insult a-okay.

Your bad words can hurt someone else, but you, oh superior white person, cannot be harmed by someone else's? Load. Of. Crap.

The high school students mentioned in the first paragraph are like any group of teens - they've got their bullshit detectors on.


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Morgana LaFey Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Apr-09-07 09:35 PM
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198. Did you not read the really relevent paragraph about
who has the power -- which is why so-called "reverse" racism can't hurt white as a class or group, or are you being intentionally obtuse? Nor did ANYone, anywhere (despite nurmous strawmen claims to the contrary in this thread) claim that insulting anyone is okay, or permitted.

Your bad words can hurt someone else, but you, oh superior white person, cannot be harmed by someone else's? Load. Of. Crap.

Yes, your objection IS a load of crap. Any human can be and often is harmed (hurt feelings) by being called names -- but hurt feelings isn't what's being discussed here. Again: did you READ the material, or are you just being obtuse, playing devil's advocate if not worse?
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NashVegas Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Apr-10-07 08:26 AM
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238. Anytime You Subject a Group to an Injustice You Cause Injury
Edited on Tue Apr-10-07 08:33 AM by Crisco
And it is intrinsically unjust that one or more groups be given a pass to call a certain group by derogatory names, while that same group is programmed to see derogatory names for those other groups as off-limits. Among those who don't get the idea that such terms are damaging, you re-inforce their prejudices while among those who do, you promote feelings of superiority and allow them to bury their own, hidden, racist tendencies rather than confront them.

I have lived in the Northeast where "We're not like that," for 30 years, 13 in the South, where you know within 10 minutes whether or not you're talking to someone who has a chip on their shoulder. Most (white) New Englanders will never have to confront their own racist tendencies - they've been trained to keep them well-hidden.
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kdpeters Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Apr-09-07 07:27 PM
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103. Once I confronted the racism within, I found I preferred the company of black people
This article is true. Us white folks have a lot of subtle and deeply ingrained racism that we're not aware of -- even the best of us. I did too and really had a hard time confronting what I didn't want to believe I had within me. Once I did, I've noticed that black people have a much more mature view of race and how it influences things while at the same time place much less importance on a person's race when evaluating the worth of the human underneath.

It's time we figured out that WE are the one's that have all the work to do here.
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gravity Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Apr-09-07 08:22 PM
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171. The problem is that people don't realize they are racists themselves
I never truly grasped racism until I realized my own prejudices. I had to recognize the way I stereotyped others to be able to see the person underneath it all. Even now I still have some racists tendencies that I am working to overcome. It is just so ingrained in our culture and the media that it's hard to avoid.

Racism is such a taboo these days, and it causes too many people to be in denial about it. If everyone was a little bit more honest about themselves, race relations would be a lot better.
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noiretextatique Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Apr-09-07 08:46 PM
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184. thank you for your post...a breath of fresh air
my question: how can you NOT be racist growing up in a racist culture? people seem so afraid to admit it and put so much energy into denial. i am black, and i've had to examine my racist feelings too.
no one is immune from it in this culture.
peace.
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Morgana LaFey Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Apr-09-07 09:39 PM
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199. You're entirely right
It's not possible to grow up in a racist, sexist, homophobic, classist (etc.) society and NOT absorb a good bit of that. Even those of us who WORK at it are constantly challenged (if we're honest) to do better -- observe more, learn more, DO more about our own overt and internalized bigotry of various types. AND to examine our own white privilege on a fairly continuous basis.

Some people, of course, like to deny the existence of white (male) privilege, as we've seen on this thread.
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Lydia Leftcoast Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Apr-09-07 11:31 PM
Response to Reply #171
216. It was very educational for me to live in Japan, where people have
often negative stereotypes about Caucasians.

Most people were wonderful, but every once in a while, I would run into people who treated me not as an individual but as a member of an "undesirable" minority group called "gaijin."

It's nothing compared to what people of color go through in majority-white societies, but it was a great experiential lesson.
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Skip Intro Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Apr-09-07 07:34 PM
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115. There are whites who don't like blacks, and blacks who don't like whites
That's the reality, and its not pretty in either instance.

Blind hatred of any group of people because of color or religion or manner of being or sexual orientation or economic status or sex is wrong, no matter the color or religion or manner of being or sexual orientation or economic status or sex of the one doing the hating.


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OPERATIONMINDCRIME Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Apr-09-07 07:52 PM
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141. Hate Is Hate. Sorry.
I don't think for a second that 'honky' carries as much history or humiliation as other alternatives. That doesn't even need to be said; of course. But when talking about current use of derogatory racial slurs towards ANYONE, white or not, it's all about context and intention. Hate is hate. Someone filled with hate towards whites and speaking derogatory terms towards them for that reason is every single bit as wrong (in my strong opinion) as any white using any other term with the same hateful intent. Hate is hate. Bigotry is bigotry. Prejudice is prejudice. It is all just quite simply wrong.
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noiretextatique Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Apr-09-07 08:00 PM
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154. clearly, many people who are commenting did not read the article
Edited on Mon Apr-09-07 08:03 PM by noiretblu
because they are only commenting on wise's word analogy, which is not the point of the article. and it is a poor and distracting analogy, i might add. why does this always seems to happen? why don't people bother to read the article? :argh:
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Madspirit Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Apr-09-07 08:02 PM
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155. I wondered the same thing...n/t
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Karenina Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Apr-09-07 08:22 PM
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172. Because they don't really want to have their sensibilities challenged?
And spouting off bullshit about how "colorblind" they are is much easier?
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noiretextatique Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Apr-09-07 08:27 PM
Response to Reply #172
175. or, perhaps some are looking for a
way to deny, trivialize, etc? or is there truly an understanding gap because of having the privilege not to think about it in a way that is anything more than trivial? i think that's a part of the answer.
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aaronbees Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Apr-09-07 08:26 PM
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174. It's an excellent article....
And I'm really glad it was posted. In particular the examination of Indian mascots and the way Indian students at a Colorado University tried to turn the tables on that usage with the "Fightin Whiteys" protest. His point is that these terms have different cultural contexts that come with hundreds of years of baggage -- social baggage about who's got power and who doesn't. People who expect that to be waived away in a few decades are sure not thinking clearly.

Also, no where does he (or anyone that I can see) excuse using a racial epithet when it's directed at whites. (A point missed by a litany of posters above.) He's saying they're different things to deal with and one has a limited amount of power -- whereas, racism directed at people of color has the weight of a society that does all it can to disempower those groups. My English professor, of all people, put it quite clearly: racism is prejudice with power. He was spot on correct, as is Mr. Wise in this article.

"Reverse racism" is a crock.
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noiretextatique Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Apr-09-07 08:33 PM
Response to Reply #174
179. it is an excellent article, and clearing one that challenges
some folks' notions about power.
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aaronbees Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Apr-10-07 01:21 AM
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221. Unfortunately, judging by many of the responses on this topic today...
a lot of people sure forget their history lessons when it comes to discussing racism. I think these challenges fell on many deaf ears today. :(
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Jcrowley Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Apr-09-07 08:40 PM
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181. Breathtaking isn't it?
It is also a poor method of inquiry to take one's personal circumstances and through extrapolation make a determination about an entire socio-economic dynamic.

One of the most important things that we all have to come to grips with is that RACISM KILLS (as does sexism and homophobia, and all the other oppressions.) If NOLA didn't show the world that for once and for all, it showed us nothing.

Too often folk think racism (or any of the other oppressions) is necessarily a CONSCIOUS construct: "I really don't like black people -- I think they're inferior, so let's not fund the levees and then someday they may die."

No, perhaps the worst, but certainly the most intransigent aspect of racism is the part(s) based on SUBconscious or even UNconscious beliefs that there are people who simply don't count as much, for whatever reason. But the funny thing is, those people tend overwhelmingly to fall into the oppressed groups. "Oh, it's only black folk (so who cares?)," or "Oh, it's only poor folk (who are lazy and therefore deserve what they get) and old people (past their prime and useless) anyway."
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Morgana LaFey Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Apr-09-07 09:49 PM
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202. Excellent observation -- and this goes for sexism as well
what women think, what we're concerned about, what makes our lives horrible or dangerous or less fulfilling, what offends or hurts us -- so many times these and other "women's issues" are treated dismissively because they don't even warrant ANY attention. "Oh, just women's issues." We're unimportant, so our issues -- even life and death issues (and there are plenty) -- are unimportant too.

And the same for minority issues as well. And you're so right: women and minorities and gays are DYING because our issues are simply not that important to the dominant culture (white males). On those occasions when we are able to MAKE them important to the dominant culture, as miraculously has happened with the Imus debacle, we do get action. But everything else false through the cracks.

It used to be said, and I definitely believe it, that the Civil Rights Movement was so successful because the dominant culture (white males) were terrified of the possibility that black men would become violent. Of course, there were some riots... but nothing like what could have happened over the years. That's one reason Martin Luther King's completely NON-violent protests were such genius: there was nothing for the dominant culture to push back against that didn't make them look foolish, wrong, selfish, stupid, fascistic, and abusive and violent themselves.
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Solo_in_MD Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Apr-09-07 08:03 PM
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157. Oh Gawd, not this nonsense again
I'm mixed race. Ive been discriminated against due to my skin color by several groups. I got over it and moved on. You have a choice in life to contribute to the good or play the victim. I don't do victim well and I don't care for those who like that role.

I am not responsible for the sins of my fore bearers, though some of them were doozies. I have no slave owners or slaves in my known roots. Reparations are a crock. The formal apologies are worth what the words expressing them weigh.

All racial pejoratives are declasse at best. However, some groups get excused for using them, others don't. That does not sit well with me. No one is going after the thug rappers like they are going after Imus. Sharpton has made his share of racist remarks too. Double standards like that suck.

I saw a study out recently that said the number of african american major league baseball players was down, and that was a concern. No mention of the NBA. What ever happened to the concept of the best and the brightest?

The only real cure for prejudice and the rest of this nonsense is true meritocracy. Any other long term approach will make things worse, and clearly already has.

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noiretextatique Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Apr-09-07 08:13 PM
Response to Reply #157
163. a question for you
the article is about the myth of reverse racism as a political construct. do you have a comment on that?
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Solo_in_MD Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Apr-09-07 08:55 PM
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189. Yes, its a crock.
Whitey has all the power, which is the key thrust of the article, is really a dated meme. That with its white man's burden undertones means it should not be given any serious consideration except as cat box liner. It presumes racist motives when done are documented. It casts everything is a binary situation, when in fact there are many more players and factors. Most of all it is looking only through a race based lens, a sure recipe for blindness to the true causes and macro issues. The putrid attempt to cast some racist behavior as being less deplorable or insidious than others it pathetic at best.

Yes, its a crock

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Jcrowley Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Apr-09-07 09:26 PM
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197. Not so dated
"White" people constitute around 14% and dropping of the global population and control right about 85% of the world's resources.

Obviously, this is not a sustainable situation, and the transition will be bumpy.
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XemaSab Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Apr-10-07 10:23 AM
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247. Do you have a figure for the 85%?
n/t
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noiretextatique Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Apr-10-07 09:36 PM
Response to Reply #189
290. the myth of reverse racism
still haven't heard your opinion about that. mine is this: it was a part of the rw cultural war backlash, and is pure fantasy. everybody faces discrimination, but there is no black power structure conspiring oppressing white people in america...and there never has been.
i know some people feel oppressed by jesse jackson and al sharpton, but to my knowledge, neither of them has denied assistance to the victims of a natural disaster, as out own government did with the katrina disaster.
just one example.


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Solo_in_MD Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Apr-10-07 10:09 PM
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298. His basic permise is flawed, the power is not raced based and not exclusively white
The claim that there is a operational race based power structure is unproven. His basic premise is flawed, the power is not raced based and IMO mostly untrue today. That pisses off a lot of the doctrinaire, but I really don't care.

Legally there is no such thing as reverse discrimination, only discrimination. It happens from all groups against all groups. and its wrong, but it exists. We need to fight it from whatever source, regardless of their minority status.

I see the RW more upset about the double standard. Unfortunately they have a point. A great illustration is the article decrying the drop in black baseball players but ignoring the racial makeup of the NBA.

Never ceases to amaze me when we hand such powerful ammunition to our enemies.
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noiretextatique Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Apr-10-07 10:37 PM
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302. unproven? you have GOT to be kidding, right?
if you need proof, there is an entire body of research on the subject...i'm partial to the law and psychology research.
question: how on earth did the power structure simply disappear in less than 50 years? a structure that existed for a few centuries. does that make sense to you, because it sure as hell doesn't make sense to me. the only thing i suppose might explain it that people have evolved considerably in the last 50 years, and to some extent i believe that is true. however, as the rw shows us, some haven't evolved much at all.
research, notwithstanding...your theory doesn't even pass the common sense test.

i agree with you about discrimination, and i am certain all types of people discriminate against all types of people on a daily basis.
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Matariki Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Apr-09-07 08:04 PM
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158. I have a question
in your opinion, is racism defined only by economic and social power or by forming a negative opinion of people based solely on their race?
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noiretextatique Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Apr-09-07 08:17 PM
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165. individual racism is one thing
institutional racism is another. as you can see by many of the comments here, not everyone agrees.+
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antiimperialist Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Apr-09-07 08:28 PM
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176. Lynching vs. white jokes
Whites compare lynching blacks and separating them from their families to Chris Rock calling a white man cracker.

lol.
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Madspirit Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Apr-09-07 08:44 PM
Response to Reply #176
183. You get it!
You really really get it!

Exactly and Thank-you.
Lee
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BoneDaddy Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Apr-10-07 08:02 AM
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237. Who here would not be appalled
by the lynching of another human being? Let's not confuse the issue. Saying the Rutgers basketball team is "a bunch of nappy headed ho's" is racist. So is saying "all white people are racist" or some other slur against non-blacks.

What you don't want to do is look at your own racism (if you are non-white) or if you are white you don't want to see people from other cultures as having serious flaws based upon tribalism. It is all too convenient to blame "the white man" for everything that is going wrong in your life or the world. Now I am not saying that there aren't a bunch of bad white men doing some bad things, but they are not behind the massacre in Darfur or the sectarian violence in Kashmir, or the child sex rings in Thailand. Accept that people from every culture have the capacity to hate, be racist and behave horribly.

Put your convenient boogie man to rest and start really seeing.
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cheesedawg Donating Member (22 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Apr-09-07 08:48 PM
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186. Wise ain't so wise
He claims that because there aren't as many derogatory words for black people as there are for white people is proof there is no such thing as reverse racism is ridiculous.

Hate for another human based on skin color, religion, sexual preference or gender is nothing but hate, I don't care what the source is and what the target is.



"Lack of symmetry" - What a joke.
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dogman Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Apr-09-07 09:52 PM
Response to Reply #186
204. I think he missed the point of the SNL skit.
"Dead" Honky. Seems to bring finality to the name calling.
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EFerrari Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Apr-10-07 01:40 AM
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223. Joke? You have some sense of humor going on.
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noiretextatique Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Apr-10-07 09:54 PM
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294. that's not what he said...at all
he used the word analogy as an example, and it was a poor one, imho, because so many people didn't seem to read past it.
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milkyway Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Apr-09-07 09:42 PM
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200. I've always thought of it as a ridiculous rightwing concept, meant to lessen
the importance of real racism (well, everybody does it, not just white people).

You simply cannot equate the history of blacks and whites in America. A white racist doesn't just dislike blacks--he thinks they are inferior human beings (if that), and some think they don't belong in the U.S.

You cannot balance the scales by saying some black people hate white people (which is true). The source of their hatred is something completely different--while both the oppressor and the oppressed may dislike each other, their feelings come from a very different place, and are of a very different nature.

This is not to excuse any hateful behavior, but a different word or phrase needs to be developed to replace "reverse racism." It is not the flip side of white racism in America.
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Madspirit Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Apr-09-07 09:51 PM
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203. Thank-you Milky Way
You also get it.
It's unsettling how many don't.
Lee
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EFerrari Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Apr-10-07 01:43 AM
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224. Of course it is. You can't have "reverse racism"
without a free, two-way flow of communication. We've never had that.

It is ridiculous and drag for bigots.
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bling bling Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Apr-09-07 10:46 PM
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212. Crap. o la.
This is really, really painful to read.

I mourn what is no longer here.

Quality is history. I keep hoping hoping hoping....but find myself disappointed every time.

Whereas 5% of the contributions used to be breathtakingly useless, that 5% multiplied. And multiplied some more.

Golden opportunities for important and relevant conversations trampled almost as soon as they are presented, dominated by idiot rambling self-righteous nothingness.

That's all I have to say about that. Sadly. For me.

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Mass_Liberal Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Apr-09-07 10:58 PM
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213. my mini contribution to the topic
I don't know if my experience speaks for everyone, but regarding whether ethnic slurs can be hurtful to whites...

I now live in NYC (just to set the scene). I frequently go out to lunch with a friend and classmate of mine. I'm a white guy and she's a black girl. Most times we go out, some black guys on the street make loud and obnoxious comments about why's she with a cracka, etc. I find these hurtful and discouraging as hell, I'm sure she does as well. The peaceful co-existence all races and ethnic groups are imperiled by ethnic slurs, whether they be to a white man by a black man or the other way around. Institutionalized racism effects blacks adversely and helps whites for the most part, but ethnic slurs run both ways, and hurt everybody.
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slowry Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Apr-09-07 11:36 PM
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217. Ok, I can follow his reasoning, completely.
But "less bad" doesn't make it any more right.

It is not as if one group—whites—merely chose to turn another group—Indians—into mascots. Rather, it is that one group, whites, have consistently viewed Indians as less than fully human, as savage, as “wild,” and have been able to not merely portray such imagery on athletic banners and uniforms, but in history books and literature more crucially.


This is where I kinda wish he'd shut up, or qualify his use of "whites". There is nothing I can do to opt-out of having white skin, so don't lump me in with that racist shit, no matter how good it might make you feel.

Cheers.
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Marie26 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Apr-09-07 11:46 PM
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218. There's really no comparison
I agree that any race can be bigoted against another - but real, institutional racism requires control over the society by the dominant group. And in American society, whites had that power to control the mechanisms of society, control the laws, and control the way other groups were viewed and treated. I'm tempted to think that the whole concept of "Reverse racism" was created by right-wingers who wanted to get their white base riled up about sharing power in American society. It's such a perfect code word - "we're not against affirmative action, just reverse racism!" etc.
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Madspirit Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Apr-09-07 11:54 PM
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219. "institutional racism requires control over the society by the dominant group"
...and yet look at some of the stunning responses. I would never have guessed that HERE people could possibly think hurting some thin-skinned white person's feelings could even compare to what has been done to black people BY white people. Whites really are stunning in their sense of entitlement and belligerence and denial.
Lee
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EFerrari Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Apr-10-07 01:45 AM
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225. Don't let it get you down. The vocal few are not the totality
of DU.
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Madspirit Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Apr-10-07 01:03 PM
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262. "The vocal few are not the totality"
I sure as hell hope not.
Lee
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Marie26 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Apr-10-07 08:46 AM
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240. I guess that's
the benefit of being in the dominant group. You can look at things from only your own POV, trusting that that is the only POV that matters. Privilege is a funny thing - the people who have it benefit w/o ever seeing it, while the people that don't have it see the difference it makes everyday. I wonder if some of the resistance is because people don't want to admit or see that white privilege exists in this society.
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Madspirit Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Apr-10-07 12:29 AM
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220. "We now have several generations of white people who abhor racism"
**Juniperx..."We now have several generations of white people who abhor racism and have been raised not to see color."**



I have never read such a load of poop. I'm 53, not 203. I remember, first-hand, bathrooms that read:

"Men"
"Women"
"Colored"

It's not even a distant memory.

There is a Klan Klaven listed in our phone directory...Knights of Camelia...NOW. Racism is quite alive and well.

Imus just NOW called those women "nappy-headed".

According to the FBI report, "Hate Crime Statistics 2003," hate crimes against African Americans were nearly twice that of all other race groups combined.
According to The Southern Poverty Law School those figures are a gross underestimate. This is NOW.

On June 7, 1998, Byrd, 49, accepted a ride from Shawn Allen Berry, Lawrence Russel Brewer, and John William King. Instead of taking him home, however, the three men beat Byrd, tied him to their pickup truck with a chain, and dragged him about three miles. It is not known whether or not he was alive during the dragging. Although Lawrence Russell Brewer claimed that Byrd's throat had been slashed before he was dragged, forensic evidence suggests that Byrd had been attempting to keep his head up, and an autopsy suggested that Byrd was alive for much of the dragging and died only after his right arm and head were severed when his body hit a culvert.

King, Berry, and Brewer dumped their victim's mutilated remains in the town's segregated black cemetery, and then went to a barbecue. Again PRESENT DAY!

Go google "Vidor Texas".


A thing of the past?

I don't know what fantasy land you live in.
Lee
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michaz Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Apr-10-07 07:49 AM
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236. Well, I am 57 and I have NEVER seen bathrooms marked like that!
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Madspirit Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Apr-10-07 12:12 PM
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257. Bully for you
I guess you're not from Texas. I also remember segregated schools.
The number of racists on DU just is stunning.

Lee
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Marrah_G Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Apr-10-07 01:17 PM
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268. Not everyone who looks at things from a slightly different angle then you is a racist
You grew up with segregated toilets and he did not, yet you insuate that somehow makes him a racist? or did I read that wrong?
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noiretextatique Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Apr-10-07 10:47 PM
Response to Reply #236
305. i'm 48..and i have
while travelling in the south when i was a child. my parents refused to let us use them, so we went on the side of the road.
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SarahB Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Apr-10-07 07:01 AM
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227. When African Americans head up 90+% of corporate boards, then I'll be offended.
Until then, I think I'm not going to worry about it much.
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BoneDaddy Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Apr-10-07 07:12 AM
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228. Crap
ONLY WHITE PEOPLE ARE RACIST AND NO ONE ELSE CAN BE RACIST... what a bunch of absolute total bullshit.

It shows the VAST ignorance of some people on these boards. It is power through total and abject endorsement of a victim mentality.

Anyone from any culture can be racist. I am not saying that "honky" is the verbal equivalent of "nigger". History and the power of intention and what and how words have meaning show that both words are different.

But don't sell me this nonsense that only whites can be racist and that "reverse racism" does not exist. First of all, cross off the word "reverse" and let's call it what it is.... racism, or rather more appropriately (cause we all belong to the HUMAN race) CULTURALISM.

I have worked in suburban, urban, rural schools. I currently work in a school where 85 different languages/dialects are spoken and I have yet to see a single culture where racism/culturalism does not exist. Each culture grows up with a sense of tribalism that places their particular culture above others in some way shape or fashion. This phenomenon exists within every "ethnic" group in and of itself.

For instance, the African black people demonstrate a level of superiortity over the Americans of African descent. The Cubano's see themselves at the top of the scale, over the Puerto Ricans who think they are better than the Dominicans who think they are bettter than the Mexicans. In my own Irish American culture, the "white lace" Irish are better than the "shanty" Irish, the city born Dubliners better than the rural Donegal born. Alike in so many ways, the protestants and catholics of northern Ireland have been doing it on a grander scale.

The Indian kids I work with struggle with their own sense of place, even generations outside of a caste system. The Paki's deal with their own, as do the Afghani's, as do every single group in the world.

This sense of tribal superiority is nothing new. Right now the Shia and Sunni are killing themselves in Iraq over a simple deliniation in Muslim history. The Hutu's and Tutsi's.

The ancient inhabitants of Easter Island differetianted, warred and hated over who belonged to the "short eared" or "long eared" group. Genetically identical with one small difference, gave reasons to split, fight and crush the other.

So let's all graduate from kindergarten, stop thinking like perennial victims, join the intellectually competent and start talking about race in an adult fashion.
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Marrah_G Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Apr-10-07 07:21 AM
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229. Best post on the thread IMHO! n/t
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BoneDaddy Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Apr-10-07 07:37 AM
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232. Thanks
alot!
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michaz Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Apr-10-07 07:46 AM
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234. Very Intelligent Post
I agree 100%. I am sick of being told there is no "reverse racism". If you don't believe that, you either have your head in the sand of you simply are using it to your advantage.
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distantearlywarning Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Apr-10-07 08:36 AM
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239. I also agree. n/t
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NashVegas Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Apr-10-07 11:22 AM
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251. Wonderful
To see so many calling this article out for its wrong-headedness.
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Madspirit Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Apr-10-07 12:14 PM
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258. You're right
This post is crap. ...and just had to be written by a white person. It is so obvious.
Lee
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BoneDaddy Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Apr-10-07 12:27 PM
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259. So because it is written by a white person
Edited on Tue Apr-10-07 12:28 PM by BoneDaddy
that gives it validity on it's own? How illogical. That is like saying that because Reverend Jesse Peterson wrote something that black people don't agree with, then that makes it true. Rev. Peterson is black btw and a conservative. A total ass too.

The point isn't that "nigger" and "honky" are equal terms or that white people haven't been the dominant culture that has institutioinalized racism. The point is this totally ridiculous notion that racism only exists in the "white" community. Not only is that completely untrue it has to be one of the most intellecutally void and uncommon sense sentences ever uttered in the history of mankind. It is typically spoken by people who try to make an agenda out of perpetuating racism as a way to actualize and grasp power.

The abuse of power occurs on all planes, by all people, genders and creeds. It is not reserved for one group or the other and one ethnicity does not own it more than any other. To think otherwise shows the depths of your own personal victimhood, irrationality and unconsciousness.
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Madspirit Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Apr-10-07 12:41 PM
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260. Keep telling yourself that....
Then ask a black person what they think. Do you even know any?
I am not commenting on your disingenuous posts any more. You simply do not get it and are in denial. White people can't even own their own bad behavior. It's sickening.
Lee
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BoneDaddy Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Apr-10-07 01:07 PM
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263. You make such incredible assumptions
My neighbor to my left, my right, and across the street are black. I have worked in urban america my whole life as an outreach worker/counselor. I have plenty of friends who are black, indian, asian, gay, straight, men and women. I never shy away from talking about race. I invite it. I currently work in a school where I work with immigrants from all over the world, who speak 85 languages and are from pluralistic cultural communities. What are you credentials?

ONe thing I won't do is have irrational children like yourself pretend to know something but actually are incredibly ignorant, unconscious or have some personal psychological problem that needs for them to have a boogie man of sorts that they can blame everything on and show zero responsibility for in their own life.

Time to grow up.
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Madspirit Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Apr-10-07 01:10 PM
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264. Denial is so sad.
I didn't write the article. I just think it's wonderful and insightful and TRUTH.

...and I'm 53 so not a child. I absolutely DO think you are racist. You cannot change my mind about that. ...but you've made it to my Ignore list.
Lee
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BoneDaddy Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Apr-10-07 01:14 PM
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265. what a sad pathetic coward you are
you run away from debate when your point of view is dismissed? YOu really do need to grow up.

And to call me a racist because I disagree with you? YOu are a child...53, how sad.
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Madspirit Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Apr-10-07 01:17 PM
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267. Yeah
That's why this got so many recommendations. I only hope the others are right. You are in a minority here.
Lee
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BoneDaddy Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Apr-10-07 01:26 PM
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272. LOL
now you are really really pathetic. It takes just a few to nominate. Shame we don't have an option to knock down threads that have been nominated. It would take a very very very small percentage of DUers to turn any thread into a recommended one.

Again you are illogical. You assume that support means are correct. You can't be further from the truth.

and by the way... I thought you were no longer responding or were putting me on ignore. Do me a favor and go away.
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Marrah_G Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Apr-10-07 01:20 PM
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271. He is the racist????
Your statements have been the racist ones in this sub-thread, not his.
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slowry Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Apr-10-07 01:16 PM
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266. White people everywhere, or just in America?
I'm just curious, being from Canada myself.

This thread is headed for a lock, imho.
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Marrah_G Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Apr-10-07 01:19 PM
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270. If anyone here has an issue with race it is you.
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gravity Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Apr-10-07 01:39 PM
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275. Anybody can be racists
The problem with "reverse racism" is that white people are comparing 400 years of institutionalized racism to getting their feelings hurt by being called a cracker.
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276. Deleted message
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kwassa Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Apr-10-07 03:55 PM
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283. It is not about victimhood; this is not either/or ..
A false dichotomy. There is no reason that the consequence of acknowledging racism is to create a victim. There is no cause and effect there. It can even be empowering if one understands where they start from. Pretending racism doesn't exist is denial, and could have very dangerous consequences.

There are different definitions of racism out there, like it or not. Under the old dictionary definition of racism, anyone can be racist. More recent writings on the subject tend to combine the notion of racism with power, as racism combined with power is the damaging racism, and historically in America, whites had it and blacks didn't. Blacks still don't have the power, as a group, although some may individually have the power. The term "reverse racism" implies parity, which there isn't, of course, whites are still vastly more powerful than blacks.

We are still suffering the historical legacy of racism in this country in segregated housing areas and social settings. Legally, opportunity has changed, but it doesn't mean that it has changed in fact, when there are wildly inequal access to a quality public education in this country, and thereby future financial success.

I would also suggest you look at the theory of White Skin Privilege, which shows the unearned benefit of just being white in the first place. Simply working with people of color isn't enough to understand the big picture of racism.

My wife is in her forties; she was the first to desegregate a previously segregated all-white elementary school as a kindergartner. This is not ancient history, but present history. The area she was from still has racial issues.
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Madspirit Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Apr-10-07 05:03 PM
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284. Yup
"I would also suggest you look at the theory of White Skin Privilege, which shows the unearned benefit of just being white in the first place. Simply working with people of color isn't enough to understand the big picture of racism."


Those who don't learn history are doomed to repeat it, as the saying goes. I am flabbergasted at all the denial here. ...and the ones claiming it doesn't happen anymore are just.....scary people.
Lee
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BoneDaddy Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Apr-10-07 10:01 PM
Original message
You are the scary one
I have never denied institutional racism. I will not buy your line of bullshit about disenfranchised people not being capable of being racist. It is a convenient little out that gives people permission to behave badly and take no ownership of their own racism and bigotry. You are the one in denial and you cannot even see it.
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BoneDaddy Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Apr-10-07 10:01 PM
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297. You are the scary one
I have never denied institutional racism. I will not buy your line of bullshit about disenfranchised people not being capable of being racist. It is a convenient little out that gives people permission to behave badly and take no ownership of their own racism and bigotry. You are the one in denial and you cannot even see it.
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BoneDaddy Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Apr-10-07 09:58 PM
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296. You are making the grave
mistake of seeing power ONLY in the capacity of wealth and owndership. Power plays itself out much much differently in interpersonal relationships and that is why there is such an response when people like yourself and the madidiot pretend that racism does not exist on your end or the ends of people who have been disenfranchised historically. YOu are the one in denial of the racism and power of the black community and continue to pretend as if you only exist in one plane and that as victims of racism. That is the shame of it.
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noiretextatique Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Apr-10-07 10:20 PM
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300. can you cite some examples, please?
Edited on Tue Apr-10-07 10:22 PM by noiretblu
of this "power in interpersonal relationships" that is and equally powerful socio-political phenomenon as, say, the fact that african-americans only got the full rights of citizenship in this country less than 50 years ago..because of that other type racism? thanks.
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BoneDaddy Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Apr-11-07 07:17 AM
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310. I am not,
Edited on Wed Apr-11-07 07:20 AM by BoneDaddy
nor have I ever denied the institutional racism that exists. But I have worked with black people, have friends who are black, and live in a racially mixed working class community and they are just as capable of being insensitive, bigoted and racist as any other group of people I have interacted with.

Interesting experience in that it happened at the Rutgers gym, by coincidence. I am working out and three big black men are talking, and I am vaguely catching their conversation as I am exercising. They are waiting for a machine that a much smaller young man is using. They go up to him and askhim when he is going to be done and not in the most cordial, respectful fashion. The man stops in the middle of his workout and says "I am done now", looking a bit intimidated. This is confirmed by one of the trio who says "nothing like three brothas to scare a white boy". I have seen this scenario played out a thousands of times in my life.

Power is power, whether it is wielded by a president or by three guys in a weight room. I see it played out in the high school I work at where intimidation, threat and coercion by members of the black and hispanic gang members is a regular practice. Do white kids intimidate, sure everyone from every culture can do it, but do not pretend that power is only weilded by the white population.

When I worked in Newark doing outreach to communities I literally had to walk through a gauntlet of gang members to get to the apartment complexes. The only thing that saved me from getting my ass kicked was my ID card from one of the local drug and alcohol centers where I worked doing case management for families. I was ok because of my affiliation with a company that they respected and who had helped them or their families in the past, not to mention the younger kids who I knew would greet me and talk to me on my way up. If I did not have that affiliation, I would have been dead meat, regardless of my liberal views.

Do I understand the anger and outrage? Hell yeah, and I have dealt with guilt of my white privlege my whole life. That is why I chose the career I did, so that I may make some sort of difference. I hated my whiteness and my maleness for a good time until I woke up and stopped feeling bad for things over which I had no control I no longer do that, nor do I allow others to do that either.

My main argument, here is with the individuals on these boards who make statements that blacks or other non-white groups cannot be racist, bigoted or abusive in their power.

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kwassa Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Apr-11-07 08:00 AM
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I don't think that is the argument
Bonedaddy:
"My main argument, here is with the individuals on these boards who make statements that blacks or other non-white groups cannot be racist, bigoted or abusive in their power."

Our argument that blacks or other non-white groups actually have very little power, in the grand scheme of things. The examples you are using are small, localized areas or unique, small situations where they do have power along with some bigotry. This is why the concept of reverse racism is false, as the there is no parity in the level of power.





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BoneDaddy Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Apr-11-07 08:48 AM
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313. If you
followed the entire conversation with mad spirit and how it developed that was the question from the beginning from my point of view. It isn't reverse racism, it is racism and it is not relagated to one culture or the other.
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kwassa Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Apr-11-07 09:33 AM
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314. and I discussed how the definition of racism has changed
to include the concept of power into it. There is a good reason for doing so.

One way of putting it is this: yes, it is racism, but is it racism on the level that has been practiced against blacks?

No racism is good or justified, but we also need to stand back and see the larger societal impact.
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BoneDaddy Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Apr-11-07 10:00 AM
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315. I totally agree
but I think we are talking about two different things. On an interpersonal level yes, institutionally, there is a huge difference, but as I have said in my posts I clarified that.
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kwassa Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Apr-11-07 10:14 AM
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316. just be aware
that when many use the term racism, they are using it in the institutional sense of the word without that word in the description. This is where many of these conversations go off course.
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BoneDaddy Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Apr-11-07 10:43 AM
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317.  I understand totally
and will be aware of making that distiction more clearly in the future, but in this particular case I am pretty sure I made the distiction in my original post in the discussion of the human condition (no ethnicities excluded) or hate based upon ethnicity, religion, creed, nationality.

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kwassa Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Apr-11-07 08:00 AM
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311. dupe post
Edited on Wed Apr-11-07 08:04 AM by kwassa


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noiretextatique Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Apr-11-07 04:43 PM
Response to Reply #310
319. thanks for the clarification
Edited on Wed Apr-11-07 05:02 PM by noiretblu
i see a huge difference between the kind of power wielded by the president vs. three guys in a weight room. and if i am reading your story right, the three guys weren't being hostile to the smaller guy...it was his fear that made him move off the machine. fear is indeed a powerful thing.
as for protecting one's turf, of course, that happens in many neighborhoods. young men hanging out on a corner in harlem probably wouldn't be welcome in other parts of nyc, as recent history has taught us.
i understand your point now...thanks.
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BoneDaddy Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Apr-11-07 05:47 PM
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320. Actually
Edited on Wed Apr-11-07 05:50 PM by BoneDaddy
they were very clear on how they approached him. Not that they were going to break out in a fight over a machine, but very intimidatingly and then laughed about it afterwards. Let me put this in terms that might make more sense. They approached him the way alot of cops do when dealing with civilians, not outwardly hostile, but commanding a very tough presence. He didn't imagine it, nor did I, and they joked about it afterwards.
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noiretextatique Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Apr-11-07 06:12 PM
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321. you didn't mention that: you said they were polite
Edited on Wed Apr-11-07 06:15 PM by noiretblu
and unlike the police, they did not have the power of that state behind them.
and what exactly did they get? access to the oil reserves of iraq? no...they got to use a weight machine..BFD. if i felt that threatened by someone, i would have contacted the management. people do what you allow them to do, and to some extent, that applies to institutional racism also.
i had a big argument with two policemen who pulled me over for driving without lights on a well-lut city street...i told them they were profiling me. they didn't like it, but they knew it was true.
as long as people conitnue to go along with the program, the program won't change.
thanks for the conversation.
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BoneDaddy Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Apr-12-07 06:54 AM
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328. Re-read what I wrote
I said that "They go up to him and askhim when he is going to be done and not in the most cordial, respectful fasion". The operative word being NOT.

Are you denying that black men cannot be intimidating? If so, do you spend any of your time with gang bangers? self appointed "gansta's" or wannabe's? Intimidation is part and parcel of their persona. Intimidation does not have to be backed by the state in order to be used as a way of getting what you want?

First of all ANYONE can use power abusively as I must clarify that I am not just referring to black men, lest someone overreact. I am trying to point out that it appears you keep making excuses for experiences that occurred in my life because you don't want to, it seems, admit that black people are just as guilty of abusing power as anyone else. Again, I am not talking about institutional racism, I am talking about the daily interactions between people.

And thanks, too, for being able to have a conversation with me instead of going off the deepend like some in this thread.
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noiretextatique Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Apr-14-07 06:33 PM
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333. gangsta intimidation
Edited on Sat Apr-14-07 06:36 PM by noiretblu
chinese, italian, russian, mexican, white, etc...gangstas of any race or ethnicity are intimidating, so anyone can be intimidating. to imply, as you are doing, that black men possess special intimidation abilities is a reflection of your own issues and experiences. i do know that fear of black men is well-established in the psyche of white america, and not every who possesses that fear acquired it from experience. i am not making excuses for anything, i am simply pointing out that your argument (equating personal power with political/economic/societal power) doesn't make much sense to me, regardless of your experiences.

as for intimidation, i visited a friend in washington state once who advised me not to venture too far off the main streets of any town because i might encounter some white supremacists. there are places in some parts of these here united states that i still would not be welcome in. and as i mentioned to you, there are parts of new york where a black man would feel the same kind of intimidation you experienced in black neighborhoods.

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noiretextatique Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Apr-10-07 10:16 PM
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299. thank you...it is 2007, and in 1957 ONLY 50 YEARS AGO
Edited on Tue Apr-10-07 10:17 PM by noiretblu
one year before i was born. this is what was happening in little rock, AK in 1957:

desegregation
September 25, 1957 Under escort by the Army troops, the nine black students are escorted back into Central High

i don't think many americans understand this truth:

i am 48 years old, and my generation is the first generation of african-americans since the inception of this country to have the full rights of american citizenship.
my nieces and nephews belong to the first generation in my family to be born without segregation as law...the oldest one is 33.
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kwassa Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Apr-11-07 08:15 AM
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312. My wife desegregated a school in 1965
Edited on Wed Apr-11-07 08:22 AM by kwassa
Many people think that because a law changed, society suddenly changed, where as school desegregation held out for a long time in many locations, many long after 1965. My wife is a year younger than you.

The larger problem is housing segregation, which still lingers in older established neighborhoods and is a huge factor in cyclic poverty.

I also never think for one instant that because one area or group of people are not racist, or are racist, that all other areas or groups of people are the same. Many of us tend to extrapolate from our personal experience, as if what is true for us is true for all. For anyone to understand the larger dynamics of racism, study is necessary. This is how, liberal as I am, I needed to understand the theory of White Skin Privilege>
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noiretextatique Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Apr-13-07 06:46 PM
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331. reverse racism is a bs. rw term created by the same people
Edited on Fri Apr-13-07 06:53 PM by noiretblu
who brought you the bell curve. the same people DU was created to defeat.
the facts of AMERICAN history speak clearly, for those who aren't vested in denial:
we are only 50 years out of an an apartheid system that was every bit as oppressive and vile as the one South African is still struggling to deal with.
and you keep talking out of both sides of your mouth. yes...people of any race can be mean to each other, but there is no way in hell, in AMERICA, that centuries of WHITE SUPREMACY have magically disappeared in 50 or so years, and magically replaced by 'equality'.
what's so maddening about this argument is its sheer and utter illogic...it doesn't even make common sense. i can only conclude that many white americans continue to suffer from a form of cognitive dissonance, one that is both self-serving and self-defeating.
sure...anyone can be racist. what tim wise is talking about is racism + power, economic, social, political. show me the equivalent of the KKK in the any group in america...there is none. show me any black man who can create the havoc that george bush has, or any black group that could steal an election, the way the republican party did.
instead, you talk about three guys in a weight room. do you seriously believe what i the examples i gave you above are the equivalent of three guys in a weight room, or ten guys standing on a street corner?
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XemaSab Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Apr-10-07 09:43 AM
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242. You've obviously never spent time in a situation where 90% of the people around you
were of another race, and hated you for being your race.

Racism is racism, regardless of the color of the perpetrator or the victim.
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noiretextatique Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Apr-14-07 06:47 PM
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335. toyota routinely charged black people higher rates to finance
cars, regardless of credit history, income, etc., than whites. until of course they were sued and had to stop that practice. as did mortgage companies, until they were sued. i hope humans can evolve enough to stop hating each other based on superficial shit like skin color, but in the interim, i don't want to pay more for a car or a house simply because of the color of my skin.
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jobycom Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Apr-10-07 11:37 AM
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252. What TahitiNut and noiretblu are saying
At this point, I think all positions have been stated, and I can't say anything better than those two (I've never been able to, actually). So I'll just cast my lot and vote with them.

Thanks, you two. In case you need the affirmation... :thumbsup:
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Madspirit Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Apr-10-07 01:17 PM
Response to Reply #252
269. Yes...
There are those who "get" it.
Lee
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Recursion Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Apr-10-07 01:29 PM
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273. Why pick those particular slurs?
"Honky" elicits laughter because it's a stupid word.

"Cracker" would get less laughter on its own; same with some like "ofay" or "peckerwood".

"White trash" doesn't get much laughter at all, and usually starts a fight.

"Honky" strikes me as something like "speakchucker": outdated and likely to make kids laugh at you because it makes you sound stuck in the 1970s.

But where and when I grew up (Mississippi in the 1990's, in a town and school system almost exactly 50% black and 50% white), calling somebody "white trash" was a level of verbal escalation comparable to the N-word; in a shouting match between people of different races the one would often answer the other.

I don't know. I get really irritated at whiny white guys who feel the need to prove their status as victims too. I also get really tired of people who don't see that The Man screws 99% of white people also. *shrug*
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earth mom Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Apr-10-07 01:53 PM
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278. It's sad that after all these years, people still don't look at each other as individuals
instead of by race or socio-economic status. There is a lot of unfair resentment and finger pointing going on in this thread, and anyone who denies it is lying to themselves. It's the resentful name callers on all sides of the fence who spoil the entire thing for the rest of us who want to move forward and just get along.

If there is anyone to blame for the ills and unrest of this country, it is the rich and privileged bastards who have exploited people and the abundant resources of this country to the nth degree and who don't give a damn about us mere peons. That's who we should be fighting against-not each other.
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Madspirit Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Apr-10-07 03:33 PM
Response to Reply #278
282. ...and guess what
...and guess what color most of those rich and privileged bastards are.
Lee
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earth mom Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Apr-10-07 09:42 PM
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292. But not all-Condi, Powell, Gonzalez to name a few. nt
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noiretextatique Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Apr-10-07 10:44 PM
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304. when one of them is in the top position
perhaps you will have a point.
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earth mom Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Apr-11-07 01:58 AM
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309. So they get a free pass? Sorry don't think so. nt.
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noiretextatique Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Apr-13-07 06:33 PM
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330. free pass...hell no
Edited on Fri Apr-13-07 06:34 PM by noiretblu
they are scum, just like the scum they work for. and you know exactly what i meant, but let me spell it out for you do you don't miss the point...again.
when a black woman
or a black man
or an hispanic man
is elected president of this country...perhaps then i will believe "it's all equal."
until then, because i am neither delusional or white, i will continue to talk about reality.
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Lydia Leftcoast Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Apr-10-07 05:06 PM
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285. Black slurs against whites and white slurs against blacks come from
different motivations.

A black person who declares hatred of whites is usually reacting to injustices committed against him or her. The reaction may be overstated or too broad-brush, but it's usually based on experience of ill treatment.

A white person who declares hatred of blacks is just as likely to have picked it up from the surrounding milieu. I have some older relatives who are very racist against African-Americans, even though there were very few in Minneapolis until the middle of the 1960s. Their racism goes way back before there was a significant black population to interact with. One of these relatives I'm POSITVE has never had a negative interaction with a black person, and yet, while she says that everyone should have equal rights, she also makes ignorantly racist statements and makes fun of black people she sees on the street or in the media. I think she gets it form being exposed to the media of the pre-civil rights era, stuff like Amos and Andy and Steppin' Fetchit.

You just can't equate the two phenomena. They're both prejudices, but one is more likely to be based on experience.
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noiretextatique Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Apr-10-07 10:43 PM
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303. the media...a whole 'nother can of worms
i have a friend who collects black memorabilia, so i looked on ebay for a gift for her. i know i had some idea of the ways black people were depicted in advertising, but i had no idea of how many products were sold with stereotypical images of black people. i suppose this happened well into the 1940's, if not the 1950's. many people in america could benefit from a real study of the history of african-americans in america.
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Daedelus76 Donating Member (133 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Apr-11-07 07:37 PM
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327. I think blacks that genuine hate whites
..use things others than epithets to show their hatred. Usually they are just blatant. "Kill all white people" sort things, things only the real cranks say. And hardly anybody takes them seriously, so it's sort of a non-issue. Mostly I think epthites used by blacks, if they are used at all, represent resentment and mistrust, not hatred.

Most black people don't hate whites and talk about killing whites, because whites in our whole culture embody all the things most sane people want. A family, kids, a roof over our heads... power, prestige, all those things. Who hates that? Few can really get stirred up by picket fences. Being white is sort of like vanilla, it's hard to be offensive.

But blacks can symbollicly respesent all those things white people fear, that they hate in themselves. Poverty, broken families, ignorance. It's easier to hate that sort of symbolism, because there is nothing positive about it. It's assumed blacks like being poor, ignorant, and broken, I guess, that's used to rationalize it all. And that's the real legacy of racism. Fortunately I think those days are comming to an end because fewer people think like that now days.
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noiretextatique Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Apr-14-07 06:51 PM
Response to Reply #327
336. when you say "most people"
you mean most white people, right?
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wellst0nev0ter Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Apr-11-07 12:52 AM
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308. *Sigh* Here's Your "Reverse Racism"
Believe it or not, whites can sue whenever they feel they have been screwed out of a job because of their race. Since affirmative action is apparently ruining the opportunities of white people everywhere, let's look at the numbers, shall we?

Between 1990 and 1994, 3,000 discrimination cases were filed by the courts. Of all those cases, only 12 were reverse discrimination cases and a whopping six were found out to be actually true and the victims were compensated.

So all those who whine about reverse discrimination, take your head out of your asses.
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Daedelus76 Donating Member (133 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Apr-11-07 06:51 PM
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323. I disagree on many points
Edited on Wed Apr-11-07 06:52 PM by Daedelus76
"cracker" is not necessarily offensive. It depends on the context. In Florida it refers to somebody who is a native (born in Florida, or lived there long enough that they have the typical Florida Southern drawl), and it's not necessarily offensive, it can be a term of respect. It always refers to a white person, though. In other parts of the country, particularly the north, it may be used by blacks as offensive term, but in the South it's not necessarily offensive. If a black person called a white person it, it might be somewhat offensive, it depends on the context.

I agree "honkey" is not really all that potent a term, but it's still demeaning. There are other terms for white people, though, that are more offensive, "gringo" being one. It implies somebody is an outsider, somebody that can't be trusted, almost subhuman. It's used casually by Mexicans and other people in Latin America. In many Spanish speaking countries "Chinito", which is used to refer to Asians in general, is used as a term of endearmen, but the English equivalent term, "Chinaman" is now considered less than polite. And in Cantonese "guai lo" is a very ugly term for white people, implying they look like old, dried up ghosts.

So maybe black people specificly cannot, using the English language, be equally offensive to whites... but there are plenty of cases where non-whites can be offensive to whites.

How about the term "Oreo"? It implies that "acting white", and therefore being white, is bad, as if whites represent something that is not desireable. I don't think that's ever considered in this sort of discussion. When people who want to study hard, use proper standard English, and so on, are dismissed as "acting white", it's not just pressuring somebody to give up on their own individuality, it's slandering whites in the process. Granted, I think most blacks don't often use the term "oreo" (because it is indeed loaded with alot of negativity), but it exists nontheless.
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