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Roon (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Aug-20-09 09:44 AM Original message |
I have been talking about this issue for years..the debit card trap. |
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snooper2 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Aug-20-09 09:46 AM Response to Original message |
1. The really need to teach basic finance in school... |
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Roon (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Aug-20-09 09:49 AM Response to Reply #1 |
2. yeah |
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Roon (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Aug-20-09 09:52 AM Response to Reply #2 |
5. Yeah, my Grandmother still writes checks |
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snooper2 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Aug-20-09 10:05 AM Response to Reply #5 |
10. you just responded to your own question? |
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Mystayya (324 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Aug-20-09 10:42 AM Response to Reply #10 |
42. heh glad you saw that too |
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Obamanaut (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Aug-20-09 12:12 PM Response to Reply #5 |
77. Ask Granny to help you with keeping track of you expenditures. I'll |
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Subdivisions (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Aug-20-09 12:53 PM Response to Reply #5 |
81. Could you please explain why you answered your own question |
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PA Democrat (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Aug-20-09 10:14 AM Response to Reply #2 |
20. LOL. That's GOT to be one of my biggest pet peeves on earth. |
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Statistical (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Aug-20-09 10:23 AM Response to Reply #20 |
28. Good tip... I bury all my cards except my daily balance credit card. |
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bobbolink (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Aug-20-09 10:33 AM Response to Reply #20 |
34. DU has become exceedingly judgmental, especially where POOR people are concerned. |
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PA Democrat (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Aug-20-09 11:33 AM Response to Reply #34 |
70. And have become apologists for corporate greed. |
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PA Democrat (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Aug-20-09 11:37 AM Response to Reply #34 |
72. More bad behavior by banks: |
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justabob (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Aug-20-09 07:50 PM Response to Reply #72 |
152. that one has screwed me more then once |
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DefenseLawyer (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Aug-20-09 11:38 AM Response to Reply #34 |
73. "Has become"? |
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bobbolink (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Aug-20-09 03:05 PM Response to Reply #73 |
84. DU was NEVER a "safe" or "caring" place for poor folk, but, yes, it has become JUDGEMENTAL. |
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DefenseLawyer (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Aug-20-09 03:40 PM Response to Reply #84 |
87. DU has always been judgmental |
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Obamanaut (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Aug-20-09 12:16 PM Response to Reply #34 |
78. It would seem prudent to keep very close tabs of one's expenditures |
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Mrs. Overall (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Aug-20-09 09:50 AM Response to Reply #1 |
3. Wait is your "eyes roll" making light of what the poster is saying? |
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snooper2 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Aug-20-09 10:03 AM Response to Reply #3 |
8. I really don't see why it's so hard to keep an account balanced.. |
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Mrs. Overall (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Aug-20-09 10:28 AM Response to Reply #8 |
31. After reading more of the poster's comments, it doesn't sound like he or she is elderly-- |
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Matt 6_5 (101 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Aug-20-09 04:12 PM Response to Reply #31 |
101. I use my debit card for virtually all transactions. I log on every morning and see what the balance |
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Cetacea (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Aug-20-09 04:24 PM Response to Reply #101 |
107. Good for you. Chase is better that way. |
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Matt 6_5 (101 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Aug-20-09 04:41 PM Response to Reply #107 |
115. So is Hess doing it?...I confess to being inexperienced in what you describe... |
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Cetacea (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Aug-20-09 04:49 PM Response to Reply #115 |
121. They may have stopped since the "crash". |
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Matt 6_5 (101 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Aug-20-09 05:40 PM Response to Reply #121 |
131. Okay, well that's a little bit of good news (the BOA thing)...coincidentally, I cut up my BOA |
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Mystayya (324 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Aug-20-09 10:53 AM Response to Reply #8 |
46. After much frustration over bank fees... |
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Mother Of Four (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Aug-20-09 10:59 AM Response to Reply #8 |
49. I do the same thing- with the text file. |
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imdjh (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Aug-20-09 11:13 AM Response to Reply #8 |
57. I used to do that- I switched to a steno pad |
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Cetacea (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Aug-20-09 04:16 PM Response to Reply #8 |
103. Ok. I'll give you some help. |
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treestar (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Aug-20-09 05:07 PM Response to Reply #8 |
129. Human error will still occur sometimes |
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hfojvt (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Aug-21-09 12:40 AM Response to Reply #8 |
164. is that an actual water bill? |
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bobbolink (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Aug-20-09 10:35 AM Response to Reply #3 |
39. That "confusion" is done purposely, and should be illegal. The judgmentalism here is UGLY. |
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imdjh (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Aug-20-09 11:17 AM Response to Reply #39 |
61. Since every transaction is submitted for approval now, there is no reason for them to approve over.. |
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Cetacea (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Aug-20-09 04:29 PM Response to Reply #61 |
109. Are "holds" legal and why? |
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imdjh (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Aug-21-09 09:15 AM Response to Reply #109 |
165. As far as I know they are, but a hold shouldn't trigger an overdraft |
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alarimer (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Aug-20-09 04:57 PM Response to Reply #61 |
125. The only reason they do it is for the overdrafts. |
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EFerrari (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Aug-20-09 05:05 PM Response to Reply #125 |
126. Exactly. Same reason they reorder transactions by amount |
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Cetacea (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Aug-20-09 04:27 PM Response to Reply #39 |
108. self-delete for redundancy. |
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HopeHoops (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Aug-20-09 09:52 AM Response to Reply #1 |
4. This isn't basic finance - it is really a trap. |
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snooper2 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Aug-20-09 10:08 AM Response to Reply #4 |
14. I use the hated BoA |
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HopeHoops (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Aug-20-09 10:10 AM Response to Reply #14 |
17. ATMs are really mechanical zombies. |
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Gormy Cuss (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Aug-20-09 11:23 AM Response to Reply #4 |
64. Spot on, Hoops. |
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Carni (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Aug-20-09 11:04 AM Response to Reply #1 |
50. Well aren't YOU special? |
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kaybea (129 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Aug-20-09 05:07 PM Response to Reply #50 |
128. Had a similar issue, except mine was a case of numeric dyslexia... |
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Romulox (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Aug-20-09 11:15 AM Response to Reply #1 |
59. Why o why is this site the home-away-from for "bootstrappers" and other DINOs? |
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Obamanaut (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Aug-20-09 12:18 PM Response to Reply #1 |
79. They teach it, but more people need to enroll. nt |
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Cetacea (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Aug-20-09 03:55 PM Response to Reply #1 |
92. Right. Let's hear it for the banks!!!! |
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Cetacea (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Aug-20-09 03:59 PM Response to Reply #1 |
95. And some posters here really need to keep up with news. |
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dysfunctional press (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Aug-20-09 09:53 AM Response to Original message |
6. you AUTHORIZE the overdraft protection when you sign up for the account... |
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Lance_Boyle (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Aug-20-09 10:24 AM Response to Reply #6 |
30. A-motherfuckin-men! n/t |
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SOS (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Aug-20-09 10:30 AM Response to Reply #6 |
32. You must "authorize" or no account |
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G_j (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Aug-20-09 10:45 AM Response to Reply #32 |
44. then it's really not a 'choice' at all. nt |
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dysfunctional press (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Aug-20-09 01:25 PM Response to Reply #32 |
82. i hasd the option to decline it- but i kept it. |
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SOS (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Aug-21-09 10:33 AM Response to Reply #82 |
166. You had the option on overdraft protection |
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Raineyb (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Aug-20-09 10:58 AM Response to Reply #6 |
48. That's not overdraft protection |
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dysfunctional press (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Aug-20-09 01:26 PM Response to Reply #48 |
83. at our bank it is. |
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dionysus (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Aug-20-09 03:43 PM Response to Reply #83 |
89. wierd, my overdraft protection is actually a small credit line, and they don't charge me for it. |
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dysfunctional press (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Aug-20-09 03:57 PM Response to Reply #89 |
93. not so wierd, really...different banks have different names for their various services... |
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WilmywoodNCparalegal (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Aug-20-09 10:02 AM Response to Original message |
7. Debit cards are just like using cash |
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G_j (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Aug-20-09 10:05 AM Response to Reply #7 |
11. how's that? |
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dysfunctional press (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Aug-20-09 10:08 AM Response to Reply #11 |
15. people can decline overdraft protection when they sign up for an account. |
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SOS (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Aug-20-09 10:34 AM Response to Reply #15 |
35. No they can't |
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scheming daemons (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Aug-20-09 10:09 AM Response to Reply #11 |
16. Because a debit card is like WRITING A CHECK, not like cash |
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WeDidIt (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Aug-20-09 11:05 AM Response to Reply #7 |
51. WRONG, Debit Cards are just like WRITING CHECKS |
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Gormy Cuss (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Aug-20-09 11:32 AM Response to Reply #51 |
69. WRONG, Debit cards aren't just like writing checks either. |
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Cetacea (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Aug-20-09 04:33 PM Response to Reply #69 |
111. Bingo. And that should be illegal. n/t |
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G_j (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Aug-20-09 10:03 AM Response to Original message |
9. more than $38 billion this year |
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Warpy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Aug-20-09 10:07 AM Response to Original message |
12. I feel your pain, BTDT |
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scheming daemons (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Aug-20-09 10:08 AM Response to Original message |
13. Debit cards are the same as writing a check... so KNOW YOUR BALANCE |
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dysfunctional press (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Aug-20-09 10:10 AM Response to Reply #13 |
18. "is it really so hard to know your balance before you write a check or use a debit card?" |
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Roon (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Aug-20-09 10:34 AM Response to Reply #13 |
36. I know how to check my balance now |
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SOS (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Aug-20-09 10:36 AM Response to Reply #13 |
40. And be sure to read all 20 pages of micro-printed legalese |
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TexasObserver (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Aug-20-09 10:12 AM Response to Original message |
19. You should always know how much is in your account. |
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Statistical (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Aug-20-09 10:15 AM Response to Original message |
21. Use a credit card. Get one with low limit and pay it off each month. |
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WeDidIt (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Aug-20-09 10:16 AM Response to Original message |
22. Where do you people come from? |
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Statistical (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Aug-20-09 10:20 AM Response to Reply #22 |
26. Or just accept reality (in my case) know you will mess it up at least once and use a credit card |
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harun (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Aug-20-09 11:45 AM Response to Reply #26 |
75. Most CC's have annual fees, mine do. Also you go over on a CC |
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ecstatic (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Aug-20-09 10:24 AM Response to Reply #22 |
29. LOL. I got burned one time relying on the online amount |
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EFerrari (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Aug-20-09 10:34 AM Response to Reply #22 |
37. Do you seriously believe that entities like BofA, who make 90% of their profits |
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cbdo2007 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Aug-20-09 10:38 AM Response to Reply #37 |
41. Their business strategy is betting on the laziness and ignorance of Americans... |
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G_j (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Aug-20-09 10:48 AM Response to Reply #41 |
45. and people living on the edge of poverty nt |
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EFerrari (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Aug-20-09 11:22 AM Response to Reply #45 |
63. The Countrywide business model is now the default for American banks. n/t |
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WeDidIt (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Aug-20-09 10:45 AM Response to Reply #37 |
43. I reconcile my account at least once each day. |
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EFerrari (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Aug-20-09 11:09 AM Response to Reply #43 |
55. You're generalizing from your own situation and criticizing others |
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WeDidIt (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Aug-20-09 11:59 AM Response to Reply #55 |
76. My bank ALWAYS processes the largest first |
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EFerrari (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Aug-20-09 03:59 PM Response to Reply #76 |
94. There you go, again. n/t |
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slutticus (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Aug-20-09 07:59 PM Response to Reply #37 |
153. 90%? Really? Do you have a link for this? |
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EFerrari (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Aug-20-09 09:26 PM Response to Reply #153 |
155. I'm looking but I did read it in LBN. Here's one where Barney Frank |
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EFerrari (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Aug-20-09 09:43 PM Response to Reply #153 |
156. This isn't it either, lol, but it's a good article from July about these fees: |
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Matt 6_5 (101 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Aug-20-09 04:16 PM Response to Reply #22 |
104. My account is invariably updated within minutes. If I run to the corner store for a 6 pack |
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Naturyl (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Aug-21-09 12:32 AM Response to Reply #22 |
161. Wow, why so animated? |
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Freddie Stubbs (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Aug-20-09 10:17 AM Response to Original message |
23. You have to keep track of the balance, just like when you are writing checks |
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cbdo2007 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Aug-20-09 10:19 AM Response to Original message |
24. I keep track of my check transactions daily on an Excel spreadsheet. |
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WeDidIt (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Aug-20-09 11:08 AM Response to Reply #24 |
53. I use Excel, too |
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Mystayya (324 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Aug-20-09 11:13 AM Response to Reply #53 |
58. Check out google documents |
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undeterred (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Aug-20-09 10:20 AM Response to Original message |
25. I check my account every day. |
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Lydia Leftcoast (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Aug-20-09 10:22 AM Response to Original message |
27. Yup, that happened to me so often with Citibank that I up and canceled them |
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DU GrovelBot (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Aug-20-09 10:30 AM Response to Original message |
33. ## PLEASE DONATE TO DEMOCRATIC UNDERGROUND! ## |
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pipi_k (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Aug-20-09 10:34 AM Response to Original message |
38. A little trick I learned.... |
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Carni (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Aug-20-09 11:08 AM Response to Reply #38 |
54. I do the same thing but I record 5 bucks less each time |
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ceile (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Aug-20-09 10:57 AM Response to Original message |
47. I ended up over drawn by $700 once |
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intheflow (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Aug-20-09 11:06 AM Response to Original message |
52. I declined overdraft protection b/c they used to just decline the card. |
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rd_kent (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Aug-20-09 11:10 AM Response to Original message |
56. There doesent need to be a law, there needs to be education. |
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EFerrari (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Aug-20-09 11:18 AM Response to Reply #56 |
62. No, there needs to be a law regulating posting practices |
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rd_kent (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Aug-20-09 11:25 AM Response to Reply #62 |
65. Posting practices? |
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EFerrari (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Aug-20-09 11:28 AM Response to Reply #65 |
67. I put up the latest law suit in #55. And save the lecture and the CAPS, |
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rd_kent (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Aug-20-09 11:39 AM Response to Reply #67 |
74. Is there an argument against what I posted there somewhere? |
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EFerrari (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Aug-20-09 03:49 PM Response to Reply #74 |
90. LOL |
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rd_kent (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Aug-20-09 04:42 PM Response to Reply #90 |
117. I guess not, if LOL is all you have to say. |
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EFerrari (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Aug-20-09 04:55 PM Response to Reply #117 |
123. Your argument for personal resposibility is completely beside the point |
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rd_kent (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Aug-20-09 06:04 PM Response to Reply #123 |
140. OK, I see what you are getting at. |
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EFerrari (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Aug-20-09 06:30 PM Response to Reply #140 |
146. By changing their posting practices often and with very little notice, |
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Matt 6_5 (101 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Aug-20-09 04:23 PM Response to Reply #74 |
106. Responsibility is a dirty word around here. |
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EFerrari (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Aug-20-09 04:57 PM Response to Reply #106 |
124. Baloney. It's just unrealistic to pretend that by being "responsible" |
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Matt 6_5 (101 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Aug-20-09 05:50 PM Response to Reply #124 |
132. To me, 'magical thinking' is what fundies use to absolve themselves of all responsibility. |
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EFerrari (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Aug-20-09 05:55 PM Response to Reply #132 |
137. Magical thinking is misattributing an effect to an unrelated cause |
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Matt 6_5 (101 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Aug-20-09 06:08 PM Response to Reply #137 |
142. Well, you probably need to get that explanation disseminated more widely on DU |
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EFerrari (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Aug-20-09 06:16 PM Response to Reply #142 |
144. It absolutely does. Believing that you can change predatory |
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Matt 6_5 (101 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Aug-20-09 06:37 PM Response to Reply #144 |
147. Uh, isn't 'stepping up for each other' the opposite of 'personal' responsibility? |
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EFerrari (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Aug-20-09 06:42 PM Response to Reply #147 |
148. Helping someone else is step above only helping yourself. |
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Matt 6_5 (101 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Aug-20-09 07:05 PM Response to Reply #148 |
149. Well, with your kind permission, I'll just use the proper definition and not depend on |
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Name removed (0 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Aug-21-09 12:35 AM Response to Reply #106 |
162. Deleted message |
SOS (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Aug-20-09 11:29 AM Response to Reply #56 |
68. There needs to be a law |
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rd_kent (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Aug-20-09 11:34 AM Response to Reply #68 |
71. I think I can agree with that proposal |
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Beausoleil (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Aug-20-09 11:16 AM Response to Original message |
60. I have a credit card with my bank |
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imdjh (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Aug-20-09 11:28 AM Response to Original message |
66. I see people check their balance at the ATM |
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anigbrowl (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Aug-20-09 12:50 PM Response to Original message |
80. I've written about this before - it's your own damn fault |
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walldude (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Aug-20-09 03:12 PM Response to Reply #80 |
85. Not always... |
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EFerrari (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Aug-20-09 03:52 PM Response to Reply #85 |
91. They're being sued for exactly that. n/t |
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anigbrowl (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Aug-20-09 04:48 PM Response to Reply #85 |
119. I think you went wrong 3 ways |
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WeDidIt (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Aug-20-09 05:58 PM Response to Reply #85 |
139. Ahem |
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Esurientes (257 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Aug-20-09 10:31 PM Response to Reply #139 |
157. I'm glad I read this post! |
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WeDidIt (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Aug-20-09 11:05 PM Response to Reply #157 |
158. This is why I set up auto payments |
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shimmergal (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Aug-20-09 03:38 PM Response to Original message |
86. Instread of getting all moralistic, |
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dionysus (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Aug-20-09 03:41 PM Response to Original message |
88. get overdraft protection if it's free. mine was. you'll get a bunch of jerks telling |
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Fire_Medic_Dave (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Aug-20-09 04:00 PM Response to Original message |
96. Join a credit union. Mine just transfers the money out of savings when that happens. No fees. |
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mwooldri (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Aug-20-09 04:40 PM Response to Reply #96 |
114. Recommended to parent reply. |
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Fire_Medic_Dave (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Aug-20-09 04:42 PM Response to Reply #114 |
116. Mine transfers money if I write a check that bounces also. No fees there either. |
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Matariki (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Aug-20-09 04:00 PM Response to Original message |
97. What would you like to happen? |
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CreekDog (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Aug-20-09 04:01 PM Response to Original message |
98. Key reason I don't bounce checks is because I have enough money in my account |
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WorseBeforeBetter (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Aug-20-09 04:16 PM Response to Reply #98 |
102. Sure it would. |
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CreekDog (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Aug-20-09 04:20 PM Response to Reply #102 |
105. I'll simplify: most people I know who bounce checks make crappy wages and have no money |
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OneTenthofOnePercent (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Aug-20-09 04:31 PM Response to Reply #98 |
110. Either sign up for overdraft protection or use an ATM card. |
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CreekDog (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Aug-20-09 04:49 PM Response to Reply #110 |
120. Look, I'm talking about Poverty, not whatever features the banking industry is offering |
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OneTenthofOnePercent (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Aug-20-09 05:19 PM Response to Reply #120 |
130. So someone is continually bouncing checks because they |
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CreekDog (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Aug-20-09 05:53 PM Response to Reply #130 |
135. can you be starving and living above your means? |
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EFerrari (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Aug-20-09 05:52 PM Response to Reply #120 |
134. The dining room table rule may apply here. |
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CreekDog (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Aug-20-09 05:53 PM Response to Reply #134 |
136. what is that rule? |
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EFerrari (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Aug-20-09 05:58 PM Response to Reply #136 |
138. Have you seen the Barney Frank video? |
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CreekDog (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Aug-20-09 06:18 PM Response to Reply #138 |
145. ahhh, i didn't make the connection |
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Doremus (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Aug-20-09 04:06 PM Response to Original message |
99. You'll hear no snarkiness from me, just a great big DITTO nt |
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SoCalDem (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Aug-20-09 04:07 PM Response to Original message |
100. Debit card v ATM card. ..many people do not understand the difference |
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WorseBeforeBetter (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Aug-20-09 04:36 PM Response to Original message |
112. "I have learned to log on and check my balance before I go out and about." |
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nini (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Aug-20-09 04:38 PM Response to Original message |
113. I NEVER use a debit card for online purchases because if identity theft issues |
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REP (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Aug-20-09 04:46 PM Response to Original message |
118. I record each transaction in a check ledger. It's free and easy - and no surprises |
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CreekDog (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Aug-20-09 04:52 PM Response to Reply #118 |
122. and when you run out of money because you just paid the rent |
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anigbrowl (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Aug-20-09 05:05 PM Response to Reply #122 |
127. Try getting a piggy bank. Or sell something on Craigslist. |
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mamaleah (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Aug-20-09 07:46 PM Response to Reply #122 |
151. I am sorry, but what are you saying? |
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REP (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Aug-20-09 11:12 PM Response to Reply #151 |
160. Apparently, having children now relieves one of having to know how to work a check ledger or budget |
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REP (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Aug-20-09 11:09 PM Response to Reply #122 |
159. I can't have children, but I do know how to budget |
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rucky (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Aug-20-09 05:52 PM Response to Original message |
133. This thread is awash with assholes. |
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Matt 6_5 (101 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Aug-20-09 07:15 PM Response to Reply #133 |
150. Ah, but which ones are they? |
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amborin (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Aug-20-09 06:06 PM Response to Original message |
141. lead ny times editorial today |
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Odin2005 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Aug-20-09 06:15 PM Response to Original message |
143. It's a fucking scam. |
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slutticus (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Aug-20-09 08:03 PM Response to Original message |
154. Have you tried calling them? Sometimes they will refund the fees if you ask. |
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Naturyl (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Aug-21-09 12:39 AM Response to Original message |
163. K&R |
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DCKit (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Aug-21-09 10:44 AM Response to Original message |
167. I had the same problem with my bank. Seems I had to "opt out" before they'd refuse... |
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