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proud2BlibKansan Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Aug-20-09 08:02 PM
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I witnessed a horrible accident today
I was on the interstate and a Toyota Camry in front of me suddenly spun out of control. I don't know if she was dodging something in the road or if another car crossed into her lane or what. She was less than a car length in front of me and all ofa sudden her car just started spinning. She hit the concrete railing on the side of the highway head on and then her car bounced around and the rear end hit the railing also.

Her air bags saved her life. I was blown away when she stepped out of her car. I thought for sure she would be dead. Both the front and the rear of her car were obliterated. I had pulled over right behind her and jumped out and ran over, expecting her to fall over at any minute. I got her to come back to my car and sit down and I called 911.

In the meantime a fireman who just happened to be passing by pulled over, took a look at the car and called for an ambulance. He came over to my car and told the woman to sit still and an ambulance was on its way. She said no she didn't want an ambulance, she wasn't hurt. And she started to walk away. The fireman said she might be hurt and she needed to sit still and wait for the ambulance.

Then I heard her ask "How much is this going to cost?"

So a woman totaled her car, miraculously walked away from the wreckage, and worries about paying for an ambulance.

Only in the good ole USA! :patriot:
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GreenPartyVoter Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Aug-20-09 08:03 PM
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1. Wow!
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WillYourVoteBCounted Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Aug-20-09 08:04 PM
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2. I would have refused the ambulence
since I don't have health insurance. But I guess my car ins might pay for it not sure.
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nadinbrzezinski Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Aug-20-09 08:24 PM
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18. Some policies do, you have to read it
some policies also cover some of the care as well
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proud2BlibKansan Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Aug-20-09 08:26 PM
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20. Yes your car insurance should pay for it
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xynthee Donating Member (322 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Aug-21-09 12:45 PM
Response to Reply #20
94. If you have medical payments coverage, yes
But if you only have the state's mandated minimum liability coverage, you're SOL.
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JDPriestly Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Aug-21-09 06:46 PM
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132. Why do we even have to think about this?
Why don't we just have insurance for such things, insurance that covers our medical costs no matter what happens, SINGLE PAYER INSURANCE? Ambulances, blood transfusions, the whole works. Why do families have to worry about money when their loved one's life hangs in balance?

We pay for real insurance but we don't get it. Not even with Medicare.
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pitohui Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Aug-21-09 09:00 PM
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150. no way yr car insurance pays for this!
the state mandated liability insurance is for other people you hit, it doesn't cover YOU

i would have refused the ambulance as well...

diff story if she was a big rich driver w comprehensive coverage but i'm going to assume this is not the case
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quiller4 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Aug-22-09 11:51 AM
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157. It depends on your coverage. If you carry state mandated liability only,
you wouldn't have coverage through your car insurance. We add a small medical plan to our car insurance at a cost of less than $5 per month. We would be covered in that car. However, when our car was totalled last fal, we refused the call for an ambulance and chose to go on our own to an urgent car clinic later in the day. our car insurance covered that cost initially although our insurance was later reimbursed by that of the man who blew the light and broadsided us.
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Love Bug Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Aug-21-09 02:45 PM
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113. Your auto insurance would cover the cost of the ambulance
and any injury from the crash.
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demwing Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Aug-21-09 04:37 PM
Response to Reply #113
118. No, mine would not
I have Geico, minimum coverage. I get injured, and unless the other driver's insurance pays, I am SOL.
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pitohui Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Aug-21-09 09:01 PM
Response to Reply #113
151. you need to read your policy again, because that is SO not the case EOM
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ddeclue Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Aug-20-09 08:08 PM
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3. Damn you Ralph Nader, consumer activists, tort attorneys and do gooding gov't agencies!!!
How dare you force the American auto manufacturers to produce safer products that save lives in crashes.

How dare you stop the free market from producing enclosed golf carts like this one from India and passing them off as AUTOMOBILES:



:rofl:
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surrealAmerican Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Aug-20-09 08:15 PM
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7. Is that a four-door without rear seats?
That's one strange looking vehicle.
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angryfirelord Donating Member (248 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Aug-20-09 11:57 PM
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89. It's called the Tata Nano
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snooper2 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Aug-21-09 01:34 PM
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100. rear seat is an option
:rofl:
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swishyfeet Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Aug-21-09 10:03 AM
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92. To be fair to Tata's
(love the name)

There aren't so many Excursions or Hummers around in India to squish you like a bug.
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diane in sf Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Aug-21-09 03:00 PM
Response to Reply #92
114. no just a lot of trucks and buses
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Subdivisions Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Aug-20-09 08:10 PM
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4. Thank you for being there and for helping that poor woman. I'm so
glad you both are alright.
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MadMaddie Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Aug-20-09 08:12 PM
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5. This is ridiculous! Send this story to Rachal!
She could have internal injuries that she doesn't know about.

We need American faces put on TV to show that people are ignoring care at their own peril!
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usregimechange Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Aug-20-09 08:12 PM
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6. Good job
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Canuckistanian Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Aug-20-09 08:16 PM
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8. In Canada, the question wouldn't even have been asked
That's one BIG difference between us.
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Echo In Light Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Aug-21-09 01:52 PM
Response to Reply #8
108. Damn socialists!
;)
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TrogL Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Aug-21-09 04:30 PM
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117. Ambulance is not free in Canada
A friend's mother was having a stroke. An ambulance was called because I couldn't get there to transport her. Ran into considerable money the family can't afford.
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gula Donating Member (619 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Aug-21-09 07:35 PM
Response to Reply #117
133. It is if you are in a traffic accident or such, it is not if you call from home
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Posteritatis Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Aug-21-09 06:07 PM
Response to Reply #8
126. The ambulance is often privatized up here
(Which is something of a political football in my province.)

The rest of the care, though - she'd be fine in that regard.
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nadinbrzezinski Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Aug-20-09 08:16 PM
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9. Not only in America, but it should not happen, period
You have no idea how many times patients tried to refuse care... now that I think about it, most were American.

I stand corrected.

I still remember a young man, he was rubbing his neck... he said that.

I told him, we are transporting to the Red Cross Hospital and you may have a hurt neck. (I did not exaggerate though when they took the X-Ray... he kept that Cervical Collar all the way to the US trauma center.)

His family and him were shocked when we never asked for insurance information. Now the American ambulance that took him to the Trauma center twenty hours later... you can bet your silly ass they asked.

But nobody asked a question about how you are going to pay for this? He went to the hospital, got initial care, and was stabilized until they covered all the legalities for medevac to US Trauma... and at no time did the words, insurance or payment cross the provider's lips.

When I did my ride alongs in San Diego that question was so close to the top, behind the orientation questions that I knew that was a problem. So yes, I was proud to work in a system that had its issues and trust me it did... but where the patient came first, as far as our resources allowed us. And sometimes our patients did cover some of their care, sometimes they didn't... so be it.

And I think I have told our nightmare story with blue cross\blue shield already... suffice it to say, not an approved facility, so forget it...
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Aragorn Donating Member (784 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Aug-21-09 06:46 PM
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131. more unneeded stories
but _ after being called to eval a psych patient in ICU who had OD'd - called directly by BCBS mind you - and saved them a ton of money by helping her so well and so fast - they denied payment 6 weeks later and said it wasn't authorized! In this case their area medical director, whom I knew, resigned over it.

I once got a free ambulance ride for 6 blocks (dehydrated from flu, and faint) over this issue. I refused transport to hospital (8 blocks) but agreed to a ride home ONLY IF MY WELFARE WAS THE ACTUAL CONCERN. Slow day for ambulance company apparently.

I have also seen a lot of rural ambulance rides diverted to their own home hospital over "transient cardiac abnormalities" - which means they agreed to transport to the closest hospital but "saw something on EKG" which "required" diversion to their own facility - with no proof of course, and a lot of money on the line.
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nadinbrzezinski Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Aug-21-09 08:06 PM
Response to Reply #131
145. I know of what you speak
we did at times transports to US facilities from Mexico because the family could not hope to afford the medevac...

It is time to correct these problems... more than just high time.

As to insurance companies, don't get me started on Blue Cross Blue Shield of California... suffice it to say I am so glad I now have real insurance, the kind I want everybody to have... government run insurance... no, not medicare...
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deep1 Donating Member (252 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Aug-20-09 08:16 PM
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10. Same analogy with Cancer........
Few people worry about the death, it's PAYING for it that worries them.
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scheming daemons Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Aug-20-09 08:17 PM
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11. A testament to the safety quality of Toyota Camrys... I've owned 3 of them..

The first two for more than 125,000 miles... the current one is at 60,000.


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SmileyRose Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Aug-21-09 08:50 PM
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148. Most US cars have crumple zones and airbags - not just Toyota.
Actually, I think those are now mandatory for all cars sold in the US now.
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HughMoran Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Aug-20-09 08:18 PM
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12. I'd have asked the same thing
I've heard nightmare story after nightmare story about ambulance rides that ended up costing the person a bundle - the stress is more harmful than the accident IMO as I don't respond well to these motherfucking penny-counting idiots.
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nadinbrzezinski Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Aug-20-09 08:20 PM
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15. And if you were my patient in Tijuana, at least when I was still doing this
money would have never entered the equation. If you were in Canada, again money would not enter the equation...

Sad that in the US it does.
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HughMoran Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Aug-20-09 08:24 PM
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19. The US system is complete bullshit and anybody who defends it is an idiot
...meet the Republicans... :eyes:
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nadinbrzezinski Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Aug-20-09 08:26 PM
Response to Reply #19
21. Some in the DLC too... see Max Baucus
and a few others...
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dflprincess Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Aug-20-09 09:04 PM
Response to Reply #15
35. Only in America
n/t
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nadinbrzezinski Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Aug-20-09 10:59 PM
Response to Reply #35
76. Actually no, for example in Argentina EMS is by subcription
and there are subscription services in Mexico as well.

Remember, I worked for the Red Cross... we were charity...
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Matt 6_5 Donating Member (101 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Aug-20-09 08:19 PM
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13. That happens hundreds of times every day. You just happened to be a witness.
If she wasn't injured (according to her own evaluation) she had every right to refuse the $500 ambulance ride.
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nadinbrzezinski Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Aug-20-09 08:21 PM
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16. You do know how many folks who are TRULY FUCKED UP
don't feel it?

By the way, 500 that is cheap dear. And that should not be an issue. Instead of applauding this, you should be horrified that it is happening.
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Matt 6_5 Donating Member (101 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Aug-20-09 08:28 PM
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23. I wasn't passing judgement, I just mentioned a fact.
I agree that TRULY FUCKED UP people should have the option but I also think people should be able to decide whether or not they are TRULY FUCKED UP.

It's a shame not everyone who gets into an accident doesn't have your expertise instantly available to tell them whether or not they need trauma care or triage.
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Gidney N Cloyd Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Aug-20-09 08:35 PM
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26. Her evaluation was: "...Then I heard her ask "How much is this going to cost?""
You roll a car, you should get trauma care. Cost should not enter into the decision.
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Matt 6_5 Donating Member (101 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Aug-20-09 09:05 PM
Response to Reply #26
36. And the desires of the 'victim' don't count? That argument is used to oppose abortion:
"You don't have the right to kill your baby, we won't let you do it"

See how it works?
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noiretextatique Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Aug-21-09 01:30 PM
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97. she needed medical care
she obviously was concerned about the cost of that care. she refused care because she couldn't pay for it, not because she didn't need it.
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Matt 6_5 Donating Member (101 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Aug-21-09 01:42 PM
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103. So some people claim the right to -force- her to pay for it.
I see. That's a real fine solid progressive position.

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nadinbrzezinski Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Aug-21-09 07:48 PM
Response to Reply #103
136. No Matt... I don't want to force her to pay, in a DEVELOPED MEDICAL SYSTEM
that would not even be a question. Do you need further help in translating this? And that MY DEAR is the PROGRESSIVE position. When you do get in an accident, the cost of the ambulance is NOT AN ISSUE, neither is the cost of the Emergency Room. That is NEVER part of the conversation.

Is this so hard to understand?
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Overseas Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Aug-21-09 04:04 PM
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115. Exactly. Natasha Richardson walked away from her accident feeling okay.
Edited on Fri Aug-21-09 04:05 PM by Overseas
A lot of us have the "Don't worry. I'm fine," instinct. Pair that with-- if you need help it will cost you $500 out of pocket until you get reimbursed and god knows how much if the hospital takes a bunch of tests-- and lots of people would do the "I'm fine. Never mind."

If we had Medicare for All this woman would have been able to choose the ambulance without worrying about the cost versus how she felt at the time. She would have been able to accept the advice of the fireman who has seen his share of trauma victims.
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nadinbrzezinski Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Aug-20-09 08:54 PM
Response to Reply #23
31. Actually in the experience of trauma docs, many of those who feel fine
after an accident, go home and get really, really sick... and sometimes die.

Look up flight of fight.

Oh and the firefighter who called the ambulance did so based on protocols developed because of experiences like what I just described.

Also her reason to refuse care was NOT because she felt fine, and could make a judgment, where is her degree from and does she have X-Ray vision? but because of the COST...
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Matt 6_5 Donating Member (101 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Aug-20-09 09:09 PM
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39. Okay, I get it. Some people think they have the right to dictate medical treatment for those
who might not want it. And some people want to DENY it for the same goofy 'reasons'. Unless we have a cadre of omniscient caregivers who have the legal right to second-guess every single person, I say all that monday-mornng quarterbacking is unnecessary bullshit. Your mileage obviously varies. I wonder how much you'd like that kind of oversight when some do-gooder tells you that you can't get an abortion because you obviously aren't thinking straight.
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Ikonoklast Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Aug-20-09 09:23 PM
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45. What is your hang-up about abortion?
You've mentioned it twice now where it has absolutely no bearing on a possible trauma case.

And there have been cases where people thought they were fine after an accident, only to find out later that they were far from fine.

After the endorphins fade, the pain sets in.

And you are arguing with a trained EMS person who knows of that which she speaks.

But you are talking out of your hat.
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Matt 6_5 Donating Member (101 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Aug-20-09 09:39 PM
Response to Reply #45
48. I just picked it as one instance where privacy rights are infringed on by
do-gooders who may act in good faith but insist on butting in where they might not be wanted even after being so informed.

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nadinbrzezinski Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Aug-20-09 09:43 PM
Response to Reply #48
51. I recommend you look up the term medico-legal ethics
it is not as simple as you think, while it is at the same.

If you are Alert and Oriented Times Three, you sign MY AMA (aka my CYA for the change you are truly hurt and might sue me later), and you can go on your merry way.

You are not,

See the explanation on the rules of consent and implied consent... they are so universal it is not funny.
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Matt 6_5 Donating Member (101 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Aug-21-09 01:53 PM
Response to Reply #51
109. This case involved a passerby and a conscious 'patient' who was obviously
capable of evaluating her choices. The Good Samaritan laws trump your ethics in this case. I don't even believe the story anyway...it's all just a little too perfectly contrived.
Who the hell can maintain control after a car 20 feet ahead crashes? Sounds like BS to me.

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eppur_se_muova Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Aug-21-09 02:41 PM
Response to Reply #109
112. "Sounds like BS"? Pot ... meet kettle.
Will be watching for pizza.
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haele Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Aug-21-09 06:05 PM
Response to Reply #109
125. I can and have maintained control after a car 60 feet in front crashed -
And I know what that distance was not only was I able to estimate skid mark distance (because my job requires I be able to sight distance accurately), I know from experience what may look like 20 feet to a driver on a freeway at speed is usually between 50 and 60 feet.
If you were paying attention, have quick reflexes and a car with good handling - and luck in the traffic behind and beside you - it can be done.
In a crash case, though, it is best to keep aware of the person involved, and at least if they aren't going to go to the hospital in an ambulance, make sure that they know they should got checked out. Airbags hurt; my husband rear-ended a truck at slow speed, and he still ended up with some nasty cuts, bruises, a cracked rib (from the plastic of the airbag cover) and some lung problems from inhaling the gunpowder that deployed the airbags.
I'm hoping that if the woman didn't take the ambulance, whomever picked her up from the side of the freeway took her to a clinic or an emergency room, just to get checked out.

Haele
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nadinbrzezinski Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Aug-21-09 07:44 PM
Response to Reply #109
135. It may sound like BS to you, but if she can answer THREE questions
and sings an AMA, she is free to go...

Those protocols are there for a reason.

I do hope YOU NEVER get into that situation, because I feel sorry for the poor EMTs if they find you are NOT Alert and Oriented Times Three.

Yep, you remind me of some of my patients...

IT IS MY RIGHT

NO I WON.....

THUNK.
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proud2BlibKansan Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Aug-22-09 08:04 AM
Response to Reply #109
154. Oh I guess I should have included in my OP
that I am a very good driver with an excellent record.

But you probably wouldn't have believed that either.
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Ikonoklast Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Aug-20-09 09:52 PM
Response to Reply #48
56. Sure you did.
Enjoy your stay.
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Richard Steele Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Aug-20-09 11:28 PM
Response to Reply #48
80. Enjoy your stay.
nm
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noiretextatique Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Aug-21-09 01:31 PM
Response to Reply #48
99. tell you what...if you have a car accident
i definitely will not stop to help or call an ambulance :nuke:
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pollo poco Donating Member (286 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Aug-21-09 05:45 PM
Response to Reply #48
121. do-gooder is a secret troll code word
I don't usually hear the term outside of ignorant right wing circles.

We do-gooders really mess things up, don't we? Always messing with god's plan for the righteous.

BTW- is Matt 6_5 some kind of bible code, too?
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recycling ruby Donating Member (4 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Aug-22-09 01:26 PM
Response to Reply #121
158. You sound fully up to speed on Orwellian-speak
and not one of the "horrific" disruptors who actually have opposing points of view! Egads!
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nadinbrzezinski Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Aug-20-09 09:38 PM
Response to Reply #39
47. Ok the ever so popular lesson on consent and implied consent
and medical ethics.

If I show up at a scene and a patient tells me not only no, but HELL NO... I still have the OBLIGATION to make sure they are capable of making that decision.

To do this I will ask three questions to establish her or his level of consciousness. after all it is well know that patients with a head injury may tell me HELL NO, and not be oriented times 3.

If the patient can answer all THREE questions... and trust me they are very simple. I will try to explain why a medical checkup is important, and if they still refuse, I will hand them a form, called an Against Medical Advise Form. That is essentially CYA for my ass, just in case they are hurt and don't know it yet, and die later.

For the record I have later on gone back to same patients who refused medical aid after they collapsed and transported to the hospital. Yep they were code traumas.

Mow if the patient CANNOT answer those three questions, then I am obligated to assume IMPLIED consent, that is a reasonable person in full function of their mental capacities would agree to medical care. I have to be VERY SURE of this, otherwise it could be construed as kidnapping. I have transported patients who said not only hell no, a few times under implied consent rules. I will give you two examples.

1.- Older woman, who had a broken hip, and her liver was fractured. she was bleeding inside. Believe you me, we were surprised about the hip fracture since she was standing when we met her. For the record all she could tell us was her name. We transported in backboard and full spinal precautions of course and once we started our advanced care realized she was bleeding somewhere (see liver and hip), so we started some IVs and gave her oxygen. Her orientation improved and she finally started feeling the pain.

2.- A younger man, who said no, after a major fight. Had a gash on his head, a bleeder. He again could not answer one of my questions, and of course had a pupil larger than the other. We transported. MRI revealed a nasty subdural hematoma. He survived, due to us being stubborn and not taking no for an answer.

So if you can answer all those orientation questions correctly, yes, sign my AMA and good luck. Have a good day, and hopefully you will be fine enough that I don't have to see you ever again, or at least in the next 24 hours.

Oh and before you say it, if you are a minor see Implied Consent if there are no legal guardians present every day of the week and twice on Sunday.

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Matt 6_5 Donating Member (101 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Aug-20-09 09:41 PM
Response to Reply #47
49. Fine but none of those elements or considerations were described in the OP.
Absent further information, we really don't know much else other than the fact the lady in question just wanted them to leave her the fuck alone, yes?
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nadinbrzezinski Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Aug-20-09 09:46 PM
Response to Reply #49
53. The firefigher did ask the question... I can bet on it
because they are trained to do so as FIRST RESPONDERS.

I am also betting there was an AMA signed at some point of this. And most non-trained people have no clue about the AMA. By the way, you can also AMA yourself out of the hospital... same conditions apply.

If nobody who is TRAINED established her LOC, then there is a serious breach of professional standards.

And by the way, most people don't know what they are seeing when for example and EMS person hands a clipboard to a person at a scene.
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yodoobo Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Aug-21-09 12:40 AM
Response to Reply #47
90. What happens if you answer the 3 questions and refuse to sign your form?

Im a bit hard headed about signing forms that people shove in front of me, since every time you sign your name, you are giving up something (i.e. thats why they want you to sign)

Assuming they answer the 3 questions, but refuse to sign your ama contract, what happens?

Just curious more than anything.

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nadinbrzezinski Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Aug-21-09 07:50 PM
Response to Reply #90
137. I usually got two cops to witness the event on my form
quite simple

And it is not a contract, it is a form that says you are refusing medical care against medical advise.

For the record, AMAs are pretty standard in NORTH AMERICA, not just the US.

If there are no cops present, like in a medical call, I have had relatives sign them. Usually two people who are adults. My preferred choice is law enforcement personnel.

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proud2BlibKansan Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Aug-20-09 09:58 PM
Response to Reply #39
60. Hey Matt,
Edited on Thu Aug-20-09 09:59 PM by proud2BlibKansan
Enjoy your stay! :hi:

I'm thinking you're a pepperoni kind of guy.
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PVnRT Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Aug-21-09 01:31 PM
Response to Reply #39
98. Let me guess
You don't want "some government bureaucrat getting between you and your doctor" right?

Have you ever heard of shock before? Something tells me the answer is no.
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PufPuf23 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Aug-20-09 09:53 PM
Response to Reply #31
57. I had a childhood friend die in his sleep after a fender bender
with a tree when he and his brother were cutting firewood.

They went about their work and then Dale passed away that night in his sleep from a ruptured spleen (and only in early 40s, a robust and muscular man).
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nadinbrzezinski Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Aug-20-09 09:54 PM
Response to Reply #57
58. I'm sorry you did loose a friend that way
:hugs:
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proud2BlibKansan Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Aug-20-09 10:03 PM
Response to Reply #57
62. A good friend of mine fell and hit her head at work
She said her head didn't even hurt. She went home, went to bed, got up the next morning and pulled out of her driveway to go to work. She got a few feet down the road, passed out, hit a tree and ended up in the hospital. She had a head injury.

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nadinbrzezinski Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Aug-20-09 10:38 PM
Response to Reply #62
74. I fell in Mexico City and hit my head
I gave everybody in the family a list of signs and symptoms and told them, even one of these appears to the ER we go.

I went to see the doctor here in San Diego 3 days later... with racoon's eyes, usually a bad sign... well, I managed to bruise the living daylights out of my nose... and my nose never, ever hurt, even a little.

Now admittedly if I had gone to the ER... they would have had to do a slew of tests... but I still insisted on getting that medical checkup.



And I know how lucky I was by the way.

On the funny side of the story though, this is exactly when H1N1 started in Mexico City, so going to the ER might not have been a good idea, for other reasons. I still got it (ok most likely) three months later in San Diego.
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Hassin Bin Sober Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Aug-21-09 10:16 AM
Response to Reply #74
93. A friend of mine had an accident similar to the one described in the OP.
He felt fine .... until he keeled over and died from the ruptured aorta.

If my boyfriend ever goes back to doing CAT Scan call, I won't bitch about the dummies needing CATs in the middle of the night from seemingly minor head injuries. Especially after what happend to Lian Nieeson's wife Natasha Richardson.
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nadinbrzezinski Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Aug-21-09 07:54 PM
Response to Reply #93
139. It is damn surprising what can happen I know
I am sorry for your friend, and Natasha Richardson should have been a hell of a wakeup call to people.

And darn it that happened in Canada, where I am sure the insurance never crossed the EMTs lips.

As I said above, now that I thought about it, the patients who asked that question regularly in Tijuana were our North American Tourists... not the locals.
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1monster Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Aug-21-09 06:11 PM
Response to Reply #23
127. See post #124 (link) and #93 and #57
Edited on Fri Aug-21-09 06:27 PM by 1monster
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Lydia Leftcoast Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Aug-21-09 08:12 PM
Response to Reply #16
146. Yes, I felt "fine" after the last accident I was in in 1999
but by the next day, I was purple all over from seatbelt bruises and my abdominal muscles hurt so badly that I had to figure out new ways to get out of bed (roll to the edge and sit up sideways), stand up out of a chair (use the arms of the chair for support), etc.

It was three months before I could go back to the gym.

(The hospital had checked me out the night before and determined that I had no internal bleeding or anything else they could actually do anything about.)
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gleaner Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Aug-20-09 08:36 PM
Response to Reply #13
27. Did you mean this....
to appear to be so lacking in empathy? People can have head injuries, back injuries and internal bleeding and not realize it. Not to mention that she was most likely in shock and had not even taken in what had happened to her. She needed to be checked out. Do you think she has a right to walk away and maybe die? Do you think her life or any life is worth only $500? If so, what dollar value do you put on a human life. Remember this would include your own. You could easily find yourself in a similar situation one day and if you do, I hope you find a person with some compassion who will help you more than you want help for this woman. No matter how many times something bad happens to people it doesn't make it all right. If you line up eight people and shoot them dead, does it make it somehow less tragic than if you only shoot one person? Fallacious logic.
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Matt 6_5 Donating Member (101 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Aug-20-09 09:13 PM
Response to Reply #27
40. I think she has absolutely one hundred percent the right to walk away from unwanted
attention. I think every person should be afforded that same right. As to what her 'life' is worth, that's not for me to say...there are people who aren't worth 3 cents...do you dispute that? If the person is conscious and able to decline medical treatment let alone an unwanted expensive ride in a meat wagon, I say she or he should have EVERY RIGHT to tell them to shove off. I don't know how to make it any clearer.
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Mind_your_head Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Aug-20-09 11:57 PM
Response to Reply #40
88. "there are people who aren't worth 3 cents", you say
Do you really believe that? If so, :wow:

As horrible as your "projection" is....I doubt many people here would call you (or anyone else) "worthless", as you so glibly do.

EVERYONE is VALUABLE. If you can't "see" that, you've got a real problem.

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burrfoot Donating Member (801 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Aug-21-09 04:56 PM
Response to Reply #88
120. I'm going to have to second Matt here.
Edited on Fri Aug-21-09 05:50 PM by burrfoot
I've spent the last seven years working with kids and families in the dependency system. I've seen abuse and depravity on levels that very nearly defy comprehension. And I've seen the victims of that behavior struggle to overcome what it's done to them.

Find me the VALUABLE in the child rapist. Find me the valuable in the husband who- repeatedly- beats the living shit out of his wife.
Find me the value in the parents who pimp out their 6 year old...4 year old...for drug money. Find me the value in the parent who adopts a baby and has some buddies over to celebrate her second birthday with a gang bang in the basement.

Tip of the iceberg, those examples. Tip of the iceberg.

I just can't find any value in people who do those kind of things.


edited for a less combative tone
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nadinbrzezinski Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Aug-21-09 07:58 PM
Response to Reply #120
140. One of my patients was a convisct at the local jail
we took him to the hospital since he managed to get shot in the leg during a prison riot.

He was convicted of child abuse and rape.

You tell me that I should have let him just bleed out?

I don't know about you, but I couldn't do that, for many reaosns.

You may despise these folks, and trust me, I don't like them either, but if any of these guys (more rarely gals) becomes my patient, here is this word called Empathy... go look it up in a dictionary. That is what Professionals do.

Oh and he was actually not the worst of the worst either.
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burrfoot Donating Member (801 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Aug-22-09 10:53 AM
Response to Reply #140
155. Hey, I totally
agree that professionalism requires that we work with everyone. If I was in your shoes I'd have provided care as well. I give you credit for doing so and I think it speaks volumes about your character and "goodness"- but it doesn't change my opinion that the child rapist is worthless.

We provide care regardless of the value- or lack thereof- of the recipient.

Only my .02, of course, YMMV.
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gleaner Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Aug-21-09 04:35 AM
Response to Reply #40
91. You made it perfectly clear....
People have no intrinsic worth to you and exist only in the abstract. Of course people have a right to refuse medical treatment or transit, but money should not have to be the reason. As to someone who might be in shock and not realize that they are injured or the extent of the injury, I think they should be given the time to assess what has happened to them and decide what to do when their brains have not been slammed around their craniums. Dying later is not, I think what most people would want. But then, as you have made clear twice, that does not matter to you.

I do dispute that there is a disparate value for people's lives. Who makes that decision? Who decides what someone is worth? Do you do that? If you do, what if someone else decides that you are only worth three cents? Do you meekly agree and lie down and die for them?

I don't know your values or what you contribute to others, but I do feel sorry for you. It may be because a post has no tone, but you come off as very intolerant and rigid. We share our lives and our world with many different types of people and not all of them can, our should, live up to standards others set for them. Only robots walk in lock step and value conformity and lack of empathy as a way to achieve a productive and happy life.
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bobbolink Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Aug-21-09 01:51 PM
Response to Reply #91
107. What I can tell you for certain is that the life of a homeless person has NO VALUE to ANYONE,
and that includes to "progressives".

So when you are throwing around this kind of talk, include "progressives" also, because they show NO INTEREST in righting the situation that homeless people exist in, and, in fact, go on Air America and slam homeless people with false crap.

We are the worthless of this society.

And it matters not.
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gleaner Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Aug-21-09 07:38 PM
Response to Reply #107
134. Now it is not clear what you ....
are trying to tell me. When I say "people" it means people of all political and economic stripes. Why would you think that homeless people don't matter to me? Did I post to that effect or say anything at all about the homeless? If I did, I would appreciate you telling me what it was.

It is hard to communicate this way by post. I write what I mean and you perceive it through your own experiences. If you lump people into groups and then say that everyone in your preconceived group thinks and feels what you project on to them you are closing a door to communication, not opening it.

How do you know what I think or feel about anything? You haven't asked me, you have told me, and you are not correct. How do you know what I have or have not done to try to help homeless people either one on one as I encounter them or through other avenues. You don't know. You are assuming based on what you have experienced in your own life.

I do not think people who are homeless are worthless. In this country, at this time, many of us are one or two paychecks away from losing everything. As I have posted before, I nominally have a home, but the bank owns it through a mortgage. I have Multiple Sclerosis and sometimes have to use a wheelchair if I go into exacerbation I don't have a car and cannot get around easily on my own. I have other medical costs which I really can't afford, so I have to skip them. My husband nearly died last year of MRSA and his body is so badly damaged that he still has to spend large spans of time in a hospital bed. We are overdrawn at the bank and are beginning to have trouble buying food and medications. I am not telling you this because I am sucking for pity. I don't need it and I don't think it would enhance my situation. I am telling you to dispel any notion you have that I am a well off, complacent, uncaring person who doesn't think or care about what other people suffer. I do care. If people don't care about each other and reach out to help each other, then what is the point?

Neither of us have any safety nets anymore. They have all been destroyed by the Bush fiscal policies. I'm sure you have checked out what assistance is available to you where you are. You strike me as both intelligent and resourceful. If I can be of any assistance with research or help you out by gathering information, I would be happy to do it. It is about the only way I could assist you from a distance, if assistance is what you want or need. In the meantime don't accept the prejudices people try to put onto you. It is hard not to a lot of the time. When I have to use my wheelchair or tell people the name of my illness, they tend to look through me or talk to me like I'm retarded. It used to bother the Hell out of me, but I got used to it and life went on. I'm not telling you that you have to get used to anything, this is just my cost of living I'm talking about. I hope your life gets better and that you can see your own worth and value despite the negativity that is directed toward you due to the circumstances of your life. I hope you get enough to eat and have a safe place to sleep and that you can get medical care if you need it. I want the same thing for homeless people that I want for anyone. Food, shelter, and health care which I think are everyones basic rights, and a life free from fear and deprivation.
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proud2BlibKansan Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Aug-20-09 08:36 PM
Response to Reply #13
28. I walked away from a bad accident
and 5 years later I developed a sharp pain in my neck.

I have a pinched nerve caused by a whip lash injury I got in that accident. It is excrutiatingly painful and debilitating.

And I walked away from a car accident because I didn't think I was hurt.
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nadinbrzezinski Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Aug-20-09 08:59 PM
Response to Reply #28
32. I lifted a patient wrong. granted I had good reason, water was rising
up in that gully FAST.

That was over fifteen years ago. Next time I go to the doc I will bring it up. Yep you guessed it.

Every so often it is just ... painful.

By the way I didn't do any damage to the patient, my other fear, and the family was so damn grateful, they realized the kind of risks taken to get their SO out, alive. They insisted on buying dinner to me and my crew.

One of the few times people thanked us.

:-)

People don't realize how badly hurt they can be in an accident, or a bad lift that seems not to hurt,
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Matt 6_5 Donating Member (101 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Aug-20-09 09:15 PM
Response to Reply #28
41. And...therefore...what? Are you blaming everyone for not forcing you to take a ride?
I don't understand your point here...
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proud2BlibKansan Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Aug-20-09 10:07 PM
Response to Reply #41
63. I'm not blaming anyone
Just illustrating that sometimes injuries aren't apparent at the time of the accident. I have a life long health condition for which there is no cure and it could have been avoided if I had been checked by a doctor and received treatment at the time of my accident.
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AuntPatsy Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Aug-20-09 09:41 PM
Response to Reply #13
50. Mine was 2500? 500 wow, that is cheap
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nadinbrzezinski Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Aug-20-09 09:49 PM
Response to Reply #50
54. ALS or long haul
:-)

I hope they were nice to you...
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AuntPatsy Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Aug-20-09 11:04 PM
Response to Reply #54
77. about fifteen miles and though I was dying I do recall they were excellent
in their care at the time...
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nadinbrzezinski Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Aug-20-09 11:12 PM
Response to Reply #77
79. You know what I used to tell my kids? Always be kind to patients
and be professional. You never, ever know what they can hear, or know... even in a deep comma.

I am glad they did their job in a professional manner.
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AuntPatsy Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Aug-20-09 11:32 PM
Response to Reply #79
81. Thats so true I don't recall at the hospital, but I guess by that time I was
as my daughter described powder white, but I do recall most of the ride and they were definately proffessional and I do recall trying not to be so upset before not recalling anyting...
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nadinbrzezinski Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Aug-20-09 11:34 PM
Response to Reply #81
82. What counts is that you are here!
Hugs
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ChairmanAgnostic Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Aug-20-09 08:19 PM
Response to Original message
14. heh.
took honey to a movie 1 year, 19 days, 4 hours ago (but whose counting?) when a drunk hit us, running a red at 60mph, through a red light, while she was blowing a 0.189 blood alcohol level.

we barely survived. treatments are still continuing.
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nadinbrzezinski Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Aug-20-09 08:22 PM
Response to Reply #14
17. Prayers you two make full recoveries
and don't get me started on DUIs, cell phones and texting... same thing different day IMO
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stevedeshazer Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Aug-20-09 08:26 PM
Response to Original message
22. Remember to leave one car length for every ten miles per hour
Glad everyone is okay for now.
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proud2BlibKansan Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Aug-20-09 10:15 PM
Response to Reply #22
66. Okay next time a driver pulls in front of me I will be sure and check my speedometer
Edited on Thu Aug-20-09 10:15 PM by proud2BlibKansan
and measure the distance. :crazy:
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stevedeshazer Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Aug-20-09 11:41 PM
Response to Reply #66
83. No offense intended. I apologize.
I'm a delivery truck driver and I see this stuff almost every day. People follow too closely sometimes. You said you were one car length behind at freeway speed, so maybe 10-12 feet. That's really tight, maybe it was more than one car length.

Your roadside actions were right on, and I commend you for that. Seems like you did the right thing.

To be fair, I took the defensive driving course three times before I got it right.

Glad everyone is okay.

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proud2BlibKansan Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Aug-20-09 11:45 PM
Response to Reply #83
85. Hey lots of weird replies on this thread
Thanks for the explanation.

The point I was trying to make seems lost. It's not about my driving skills or whether the lady had the right to refuse an ambulance. I was just sad that her first concern seemed to be the cost of the ambulance.
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stevedeshazer Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Aug-20-09 11:52 PM
Response to Reply #85
87. Yeah, I get that.
:)
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SmileyRose Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Aug-21-09 09:02 PM
Response to Reply #83
152. You are extremely fortunate
to live in a city where defensive driving is possible. In many places it simply is no longer practical and all you can really do is grit your teeth and hope the powers that be saw fit to give you fast enough reflexes and a little good luck
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1monster Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Aug-21-09 06:36 PM
Response to Reply #22
130. Better to apply the three (or four) second rule. It gives more time to see and react
to avoid a dangerous situation.
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L0oniX Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Aug-20-09 08:30 PM
Response to Original message
24. Cell phone?
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proud2BlibKansan Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Aug-20-09 08:46 PM
Response to Reply #24
29. No she didn't have one
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tavalon Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Aug-20-09 08:33 PM
Response to Original message
25. Pretty good story but she was in shock most likely so I don't think anything she said
was all that well thought out.
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proud2BlibKansan Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Aug-20-09 08:50 PM
Response to Reply #25
30. Do you honestly believe she would have worried about paying for an ambulance
if she had been in any other country?
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tavalon Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Aug-20-09 10:33 PM
Response to Reply #30
71. No, but how much will that cost may actually have been her global
question given that her car was totaled.
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nadinbrzezinski Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Aug-20-09 09:02 PM
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34. We love you too grovel, should I call 9.11 for you?
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bobbolink Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Aug-20-09 09:07 PM
Response to Original message
37. Can you explain why you were "less than a car length" behind her ON A FREEWAY?
You LIKE to live dangerously?

Please, don't drive on the same highways as those of us who actually drive sensibly!
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Matt 6_5 Donating Member (101 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Aug-20-09 09:17 PM
Response to Reply #37
42. Bad driver? Or good liar.
Take your pick.
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bobbolink Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Aug-20-09 09:20 PM
Response to Reply #42
43. Hmmmm.... I didn't know there were actually "good liars". Seems the GOP lying game is
become quite popular.

Silly me... I can't shake the habit of being honest.

What a dope I be.....
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Matt 6_5 Donating Member (101 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Aug-20-09 09:36 PM
Response to Reply #43
46. The OP's little story makes an intriguing vignette and is done to make a point
but it's fiction. :D There's no record of any such accident on any Kansas interstate for the last 2 days.

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AuntPatsy Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Aug-20-09 09:45 PM
Response to Reply #46
52. are you serious? you made enquirers lol.....sounds familiar......I recall reading some site once who...
spent all their time looking of the validity of du posts..intriguing....thankfully such peaking at places other than du was beyond boring...obviously du is much more interesting to hang around in...
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proud2BlibKansan Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Aug-20-09 10:20 PM
Response to Reply #46
68. WTF is your problem?
If you want to call me a liar, go ahead. I've got a few choice names for you.

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noiretextatique Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Aug-21-09 01:34 PM
Response to Reply #68
101. trollitis, i suspect
a very poor disrupter who will not be with us much longer.
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nadinbrzezinski Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Aug-20-09 10:33 PM
Response to Reply #46
72. Ah so now you go from your rages
on why you should be allowed to decide if you make medical care to this?

Free clue... some accidents are NOT reported into the Highway Patrol's records, even the bad ones.

Now what flavor do you want your pizza
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proud2BlibKansan Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Aug-20-09 10:36 PM
Response to Reply #72
73. But there were no accidents in the entire state of Kansas today!!
LOL!

I drive into MO to go to work. Matt needs to check that state's records too.

He should have plenty of time while he enjoys his pizza. :hi:
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LanternWaste Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Aug-21-09 01:25 PM
Response to Reply #46
96. I have few doubts you were unable to locate the appropriate records....
I have few doubts you yourself were unable to locate the appropriate records....
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bobbolink Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Aug-21-09 01:41 PM
Response to Reply #46
102. Well, that makes it OK, then. OkeyDokey...so THAT'S why the RW is making up stories
that aren't true.... to make their point.

NOW I understand it, and feel ever so much better.
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proud2BlibKansan Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Aug-20-09 10:13 PM
Response to Reply #42
65. Hmm. Now I am not thinking pepperoni.
Maybe cheese?

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proud2BlibKansan Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Aug-20-09 10:11 PM
Response to Reply #37
64. She was in the lane to my left and moved over in front of me.
I didn't have time to put any distance between us before she spun out of control.

Now you can take your judgmental attitude and put it where the sun don't shine :)
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AuntPatsy Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Aug-20-09 10:17 PM
Response to Reply #64
67. tag teaming......I can just imagine the by play on another site...sheesh....
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bobbolink Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Aug-21-09 01:46 PM
Response to Reply #64
105. It was a reasonable question, and you know it. TAILGATING is not only dangerous,
it's against the law. Having been rear-ended recently, you can bet that I'm sick of this kind of dangerous behavior.

As for "judgemental"---take a good look in the mirror. YOU'RE the one who didn't write the complete story, if that is, indeed, what happened.

YOUR language is certainly not the spirit of the rules of DU, is it?

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proud2BlibKansan Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Aug-22-09 08:01 AM
Response to Reply #105
153. I wasn't tailgating and that isn't even remotely connected to the point of my post
Now get off your high horse.
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LanternWaste Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Aug-21-09 01:23 PM
Response to Reply #37
95. When on a freeway...
When on a freeway, if I maintain the appropriate distance between myself and the auto in front of me, another car(s) will simply enter the unoccupied free space. If I slow down and allow the appropriate spacing again, the same will happen over and over again.
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Manifestor_of_Light Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Aug-21-09 02:03 PM
Response to Reply #95
111. That is exactly what happens in Houston and Dallas.
You will never get anywhere trying to maintain proper distance between yourself and the car in front of you. People will zip around you, slice in front of you, block you from moving into the next lane, etc.

:wtf:
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SmileyRose Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Aug-21-09 08:58 PM
Response to Reply #111
149. Atlantans are just plain bizarre
Atlantans are generally the most gracious, friendly and generous people you will meet. But you put one behind the wheel of a car and suddenly they are all Bill Elliott.

It's weird.
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rucky Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Aug-20-09 09:08 PM
Response to Original message
38. I made the mistake of not asking that question once.
Until I get a bill for $800 to transport me 1 mile to the ER.

And yes, I'm insured, but happened to be out of network when I thought I was having a stroke. My bad.
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nadinbrzezinski Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Aug-20-09 09:51 PM
Response to Reply #38
55. No good...
the issue is not that you did the right thing, get EMS... but that they should not be charged, period...
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bertman Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Aug-20-09 09:20 PM
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44. Recommend.
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spanone Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Aug-20-09 09:57 PM
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59. i saw one a few weeks ago where a car spun out right in front of me...
after another car ran up on it and almost turned itself over it was going so fast.....it's fucking scary out there.

i'm in nashville, tn and the drivers and aggressive and rude

turn signals are nearly non existent

red lights are run constantly

you have to drive totally defensively
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nadinbrzezinski Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Aug-20-09 10:00 PM
Response to Reply #59
61. My defensive training paid off three weeks ago or so
was driving parents to my sis's house. I had a catastrophic failure of the front driver's side tire. I literally fought the car, to avoid it going over, tumbling et al. and brought it from freeway speed to the emergency lane.

I need to replace that tire. But that is the worst tire that this can happen at.

Yep, that emergency vehicle operator training paid off... all we got were some frayed nerves, and dad really never got it, just how dangerous this was. He never did.

I am glad not to have added to the damn statistics though.
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proud2BlibKansan Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Aug-20-09 10:28 PM
Response to Reply #59
70. Better watch it
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Fire_Medic_Dave Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Aug-20-09 10:22 PM
Response to Original message
69. I fell during a commercial structure fire.
Tore up my shoulder pretty good. The Fire Chief ordered me to go to the hospital in an ambulance. I sat in the jump seat. Received absolutely no treatment and only a pulse oximetry reading as an assessment. The trip to the hospital was less than a mile. I walked out of the ambulance into the ER unassisted. The bill was $1200.00. I can't blame her a bit.

David
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Stephanie Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Aug-20-09 10:46 PM
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75. She was in shock
People say anything in that condition.
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EFerrari Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Aug-20-09 11:41 PM
Response to Reply #75
84. You're right. And first responders could be a little more active
in screening for that at the scene. That happened to my friend. He refused an ambulance because he was still in survival mode, took a cab home and wound up in the hospital the same night.

I was #2 car in a pile up on the freeway (car behind me pushed me forward) and my car was totaled. I went into some kind of shock and also took a cab home because nobody noticed. (The only thing the cop asked for was my reginstration! But, he was as young as I was so, no harm, foul.) I was also 4 mos. pregnant at the time. TG, all I had the next day was awful whiplash.
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Roon Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Aug-20-09 11:05 PM
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78. I live in Denver
The county ambulances during an emergency are always free. Taken an ambulance from one hospital to another? That is when they get you.

I ended up in the hospital once and after they got me stabilized they needed to drive me 300 yards across campus to another facility. Same complex...they sent me a bill for over $500.00 for that jaunt.I refused to pay it and they never really hassled me about it.
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Withywindle Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Aug-20-09 11:48 PM
Response to Original message
86. I hope she's OK.
Sadly, this isn't uncommon at all. I've known a LOT of people to be in scrapes and dings and car/bike collisions and fenderbenders and worse, and beg bystanders NOT to call an ambulance because they don't have health insupance. :(
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Broken_Hero Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Aug-21-09 02:03 PM
Response to Original message
110. Damn,
I hope she is okay, it must have been quite an experience from your end as well.

Remember, drive safe cause those MO drivers are nutz....:D :hi:
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ejbr Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Aug-21-09 04:28 PM
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116. pfft
women drivers. :evilgrin:
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onlyadream Donating Member (821 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Aug-21-09 04:46 PM
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119. Glad to hear she was okay,
but the fact that she worried about the cost is ridiculous, another example of why we need to fix healthcare! My sister went to a party in NYC, had a glass of wine and fainted due to low blood pressure. Someone called an ambulance and it was like $600. She has no insurance and is poor...she'll never drink wine again (too expensive).
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santamargarita Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Aug-21-09 05:53 PM
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122. Survive the accident and go broke paying these Goddamn...
Republican run health insurance leeches.
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jennied Donating Member (547 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Aug-21-09 05:54 PM
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123. Wow, this brought tears to my eyes..
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1monster Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Aug-21-09 06:04 PM
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124. A similar incident happened to a former neighbor of mine. She refused an ambulance and medical exam.
She said she was fine and not injured.

She died in her sleep that night, having ruptured her spleen in the accident.

She bled to death.

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Jackpine Radical Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Aug-21-09 06:17 PM
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128. Even insurance may not help.
I was in a rollover accident 4 years ago. The police called an ambulance to transport me to the ER. My insurance provider, Humana, refused to pay for the ambulance because they weren't an authorized provider. Had they taken me to the wrong hospital, I would have been stuck with that bill too.
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FourScore Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Aug-21-09 06:27 PM
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129. Keith or Rachel should get this story. n/t
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Cleita Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Aug-21-09 07:53 PM
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138. I thought car insurance paid for medical when in an accident.
Have they stopped? Maybe I need to look at my policy.
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nadinbrzezinski Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Aug-21-09 08:00 PM
Response to Reply #138
141. You need to look at your policy
I know ours does, because it is very extensive, but not all are.

My medical will also cover it.
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Cleita Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Aug-21-09 08:01 PM
Response to Reply #141
142. I'm sure my medical will pay too but I need to make sure that my passengers
are covered as well.
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nadinbrzezinski Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Aug-21-09 08:03 PM
Response to Reply #142
143. Call your agent
We have kept ours as high as we have even on a 15 year vehicle, precisely because of that reason.
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Cleita Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Aug-21-09 08:05 PM
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144. I will on Monday. n/t
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MilesColtrane Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Aug-21-09 08:35 PM
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147. Base ambulance call fee in my city is $450, plus about 8 bucks a mile to the hospital.
Any work they do to you (oxygen line, IV) will also be assessed.

I know this because I am not insured.
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Diclotican Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Aug-22-09 11:46 AM
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156. proud2BlibKansan
proud2BlibKansan

When I totaled my second car, an Nissan Cherry 1984 model, in a accident in 1998, my last concern was if I had to pay for the ambulance, who by the way was on scene in few minutes even that the hospital is some 20-30km from where I was.. They had to speed all sorts of speed limits to get so fast to the scene.. I was able to walk over to the ambulance, after getting the alco test, to be sure that I wasn't intoxicated and so on by the Police, who by the way was polite and kind to me all the way. And was driven to the hospital, and had all type of checks included some Xray, Cat-scan and many other test.. And of course a lot of concerned nurses who asked if I was Okay, and if I needed something... In the end I was discharged in the evening, and was back home.. And was also followed up for my back pine, because i got a little trouble with the back for a while in the accident..

I can also tell about for some years ago when my stomage was getting me into some health problem and I near collapsed at work, was driven to hospital by my boss by the way. And after they got a blood sample of me, I was instantly going to the emergency room, with the "Rolls Royce" treatment.. I doubt I have had that many tubes on my since I was born premature in 1976.. But anyway, for the week long treatment, and more test than I am sure of, I was free to go home, after given some advices what to eat, and what not to eat - the list over food to be carefully and not to eat was bigger than the list allowed to eat... And for all this.. No charge for the hospitalization.. Nothing, nada, zip

And yes, I get well, even that I have to be carefull with the spicy stuff I love..

For all this i was not paying ONE cent wort telling... BUt of course I live also in a country where public founded hospitals, is mandatory, and where we pay the taxes needed to have "free" hospital when needed... We might pay little more taxes than you do in US, but just this one stories, by all my stories going to the hospital is wort telling because it more or less prove that the "public option" the Administration of mr Barack Obama want for you is good and worth fighting for.. Even that I doubt that you might get that type of "full coverage" as we do

To me, just the idea of fighting over a "public option" who many in US sound like a bad idea and "socialism" and pure communism is just madness.. Why this lying, telling wrong stories and so one, for the people who doesn't like the idea of an public option when i come to health care.. In most european country - even the poor ones whose budget for health care is limited, the idea of public health care, and more or less "free" hospitalization when necessary is nothing to discuss, it is just a fact of life

And, in US a woman who totaled her car, is more concerned with the idea of paying for her ambulance than the fact that she just got out of a car who is a total Wreck...

Diclotican


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recycling ruby Donating Member (4 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Aug-22-09 01:28 PM
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159. Wow, ain't it awful? You are so passionate about your "liberality"
yet always at the scene of the latest tombstone...Things that make you go 'hmmm...':eyes: :eyes: :eyes: :eyes:
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kentuck Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Aug-22-09 01:31 PM
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160. What the hell are you talking about ??
Are you the same ruby that was tombstoned a couple of days ago? And what does this have to do with "liberality", whatever that is ??
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