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Hepburn (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Aug-31-09 08:09 AM Original message |
Need help with a personal issue |
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groovedaddy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Aug-31-09 08:12 AM Response to Original message |
1. Let it go and drop her like her hotcake! n.t |
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Hepburn (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Aug-31-09 08:14 AM Response to Reply #1 |
2. Yeah, that is pretty much how I feel.... |
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Craftsman (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Aug-31-09 08:42 AM Response to Reply #1 |
20. +1 |
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Bertha Venation (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Aug-31-09 08:16 AM Response to Original message |
3. Confront her head-on. |
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Hepburn (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Aug-31-09 08:19 AM Response to Reply #3 |
6. OK.... |
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instantkarma (489 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Aug-31-09 08:51 PM Response to Reply #6 |
68. Confront her head-on (for real) |
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JeanGrey (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Aug-31-09 09:25 PM Response to Reply #3 |
72. She will simply deny everything or try to blame it on |
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Joanie Baloney (801 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Aug-31-09 08:17 AM Response to Original message |
4. Invite her over for tea |
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Chipper Chat (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Aug-31-09 08:18 AM Response to Original message |
5. It's possible she may be innocent and someone she invited over |
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Hepburn (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Aug-31-09 08:25 AM Response to Reply #5 |
8. Good idea to ck and make sure that no one else was here or came for... |
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LiberalAndProud (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Aug-31-09 12:51 PM Response to Reply #8 |
55. I suspect your instincts are right on here. |
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asdjrocky (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Aug-31-09 08:20 AM Response to Original message |
7. All you found out was you don't really have a friend but an acquaintance. |
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Hepburn (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Aug-31-09 08:27 AM Response to Reply #7 |
12. Boy....are you ever right! |
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TwilightGardener (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Aug-31-09 08:25 AM Response to Original message |
9. If you're SURE it had to be her taking your things... |
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nevergiveup (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Aug-31-09 08:26 AM Response to Original message |
10. If you feel you must say something to her |
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sailor65 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Aug-31-09 08:27 AM Response to Original message |
11. You could try this: |
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Hepburn (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Aug-31-09 08:36 AM Response to Reply #11 |
18. I called her already on the household supplies... |
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sailor65 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Aug-31-09 09:20 AM Response to Reply #18 |
29. It sounds like that settles it. |
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Fire1 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Aug-31-09 06:14 PM Response to Reply #18 |
60. DAMN!!! You and my Grandmother!! LOL!!! n/t |
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Warpy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Aug-31-09 08:28 AM Response to Original message |
13. Confront her |
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glinda (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Aug-31-09 09:35 AM Response to Reply #13 |
32. I agree. Just be straightforward on the phone with her. Don't even see her ever again |
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Dappleganger (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Aug-31-09 10:03 AM Response to Reply #13 |
36. Stealing pain meds is a crime |
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Hepburn (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Aug-31-09 10:12 AM Response to Reply #36 |
42. What is amazing.... |
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DevonRex (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Aug-31-09 12:58 PM Response to Reply #42 |
56. You SHOULD report the theft to the police. You need to have it documented |
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Dappleganger (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Aug-31-09 05:54 PM Response to Reply #56 |
58. Well said. |
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DevonRex (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Aug-31-09 12:59 PM Response to Reply #36 |
57. Yes they are. And they turn into much worse than just liars if everybody lets it go. |
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JeanGrey (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Aug-31-09 09:28 PM Response to Reply #36 |
73. I would never "confront" someone who had stolen pain |
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fasttense (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Aug-31-09 08:28 AM Response to Original message |
14. Well, do you really know she stole those things? |
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Hepburn (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Aug-31-09 08:42 AM Response to Reply #14 |
19. I am afraid that if I talk to her, I am gonna blow. |
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Dappleganger (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Aug-31-09 10:05 AM Response to Reply #19 |
37. Meet for coffee in a public place |
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Hepburn (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Aug-31-09 10:13 AM Response to Reply #37 |
43. Another good idea from you... |
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Stephanie (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Aug-31-09 06:01 PM Response to Reply #19 |
59. Does she have family you can talk to about it? |
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Hepburn (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Aug-31-09 08:05 PM Response to Reply #59 |
64. No.... |
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Christa (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Aug-31-09 08:30 AM Response to Original message |
15. I would definitely mention it to her |
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Corgigal (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Aug-31-09 08:32 AM Response to Original message |
16. first of all I like to say I'm Sorry |
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Hepburn (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Aug-31-09 08:45 AM Response to Reply #16 |
23. Thanks.... |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Aug-31-09 08:35 AM Response to Original message |
17. i wouldn't be hurt. i wouldn't take it personally. if really close like you say, .. would be a WTF |
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Phoebe Loosinhouse (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Aug-31-09 08:43 AM Response to Original message |
21. Since the losses were minimal |
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Hepburn (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Aug-31-09 08:50 AM Response to Reply #21 |
26. Yep, locksmith has been out... |
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Jackeens (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Aug-31-09 08:43 AM Response to Original message |
22. What a horrible situation. I'd give her one chance to put it right - |
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Hepburn (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Aug-31-09 08:49 AM Response to Reply #22 |
24. The problem is that she left the empty RX container.... |
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Jackeens (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Aug-31-09 09:31 AM Response to Reply #24 |
31. Oh no |
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Hepburn (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Aug-31-09 09:45 AM Response to Reply #31 |
33. Good suggestion, but she has no one but an elderly aunt... |
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Dappleganger (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Aug-31-09 10:07 AM Response to Reply #24 |
38. She's a stupid liar, not just a liar |
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Hepburn (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Aug-31-09 10:14 AM Response to Reply #38 |
44. Yeah, my other pal and I compared notes and there are some things... |
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madokie (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Aug-31-09 08:50 AM Response to Original message |
25. If you're pretty sure of her culpability |
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Hepburn (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Aug-31-09 08:55 AM Response to Reply #25 |
27. Thank you for what you said.... |
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madokie (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Aug-31-09 09:11 AM Response to Reply #27 |
28. I can understand the hurt you must feel |
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Hepburn (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Aug-31-09 09:20 AM Response to Reply #28 |
30. Yep, I am really, truly hurt. |
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JeanGrey (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Aug-31-09 09:30 PM Response to Reply #25 |
74. Or, if she doesn't call the police, she may find herself robbed |
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Old Codger (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Aug-31-09 09:50 AM Response to Original message |
34. first |
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NNN0LHI (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Aug-31-09 09:51 AM Response to Original message |
35. First question you need to ask yourself is are you sure she took the stuff? |
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Dappleganger (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Aug-31-09 10:08 AM Response to Reply #35 |
39. Yes to the safe! |
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Hepburn (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Aug-31-09 10:20 AM Response to Reply #35 |
46. I am gonna check and see if there was anyone here at all other than her. |
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pipi_k (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Aug-31-09 10:09 AM Response to Original message |
40. Nothing you can do legally, but you could let her know that |
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Lars39 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Aug-31-09 10:10 AM Response to Original message |
41. Do you have your key back? |
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Hepburn (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Aug-31-09 10:16 AM Response to Reply #41 |
45. Key is back and locks are changed. |
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Lars39 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Aug-31-09 10:28 AM Response to Reply #45 |
49. Good. |
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Hepburn (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Aug-31-09 10:34 AM Response to Reply #49 |
50. She may or she may not... |
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JeanGrey (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Aug-31-09 09:32 PM Response to Reply #50 |
75. I am shocked that you were even able to get another |
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DefenseLawyer (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Aug-31-09 10:22 AM Response to Original message |
47. I would speak to her about it. |
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Hepburn (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Aug-31-09 10:25 AM Response to Reply #47 |
48. Excellent and thank you.... |
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VOX (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Aug-31-09 09:57 PM Response to Reply #48 |
78. DefenseLawyer has given you the most reasonable, well thought-out information here.... |
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LWolf (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Aug-31-09 11:26 AM Response to Original message |
51. My thoughts: |
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Hepburn (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Aug-31-09 12:09 PM Response to Reply #51 |
52. My dog does not do well at a kennel... |
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LWolf (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Aug-31-09 07:33 PM Response to Reply #52 |
61. I think that's the appropriate choice. |
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proteus_lives (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Aug-31-09 12:22 PM Response to Original message |
53. Speak to her about it. |
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DevonRex (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Aug-31-09 12:35 PM Response to Original message |
54. Did the missing pills leave you in pain because it was too soon to refill |
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Hepburn (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Aug-31-09 08:00 PM Response to Reply #54 |
62. It left me with -0- pain meds and no way to refill. |
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DevonRex (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Aug-31-09 08:36 PM Response to Reply #62 |
66. Report the theft to the police. You have no need to be civil to her |
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JeanGrey (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Aug-31-09 09:33 PM Response to Reply #66 |
76. Absolutely! |
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Liberal_in_LA (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Aug-31-09 08:03 PM Response to Original message |
63. never let the thief in your house again. that's what she is, a thief. |
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Motown_Johnny (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Aug-31-09 08:09 PM Response to Original message |
65. just be honest and ask her about it, maybe it wasn't her |
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madeline_con (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Aug-31-09 08:41 PM Response to Original message |
67. Cut her loose. |
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ourbluenation (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Aug-31-09 09:09 PM Response to Original message |
69. Just tell her that you think she took your stuff and why, that you can't trust her and... |
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Skittles (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Aug-31-09 09:19 PM Response to Original message |
70. if it was an aquaintance I'd say dump her - but more like a little sis? Confront her |
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JeanGrey (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Aug-31-09 09:24 PM Response to Original message |
71. You need to call the police and make a police report. |
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bobbolink (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Aug-31-09 09:53 PM Response to Original message |
77. My opinion, and it's free and I really do believe you get what you pay for... ^_^ |
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