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UndertheOcean Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Sep-19-09 03:08 PM
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Better Advice to a 15 years old son !
Don't have sex at all before you know the Lady for a long time (a few years ) and know that you can absolutely trust her not to falsely accuse you of raping her. Because in that situation they will always take her word against yours.

Don't sleep with someone you only knew for a few weeks . And preferably don't have sex if there is no deep romantic soul wrenching love involved.
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Hello_Kitty Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Sep-19-09 03:10 PM
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1. They'll take her word over yours? You must be joking.
Rape victims are dragged through the mud, despite the occasional "false allegation" that gets so much attention here and elsewhere.
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SoCalDem Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Sep-19-09 03:12 PM
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3. Police & hospital take the woman/girl's "side", but in court, it's another story.
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ejpoeta Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Sep-19-09 03:11 PM
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2. kids don't really have a concept of time.... so 'a long time' means something different to you
than it does to a teenager. 'deep soul wrenching love' also means something different to you than it will to a teen. they will think they have found the person they want to be with 'forever' and because they are so young, they don't seem to realize that they don't know what they are thinking at all.... until later.
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cali Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Sep-19-09 03:13 PM
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4. sorry, that's ridiculous. truman was right about his advice.
why on earth should you have to know someone for years before having sex? And your assumption that som many girly and women falsely cry rape, is bullshit. Deep "soul wrenching" love isn't necessary for fulfilling and mutually satisfying sex.
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Selatius Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Sep-19-09 03:14 PM
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5. A lot of teenagers are going to ignore what you just said. They're hormone crazy nt
Edited on Sat Sep-19-09 03:15 PM by Selatius
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BlooInBloo Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Sep-19-09 03:15 PM
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6. I'm really not sure why this is focussed on men and their choices.
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hedgehog Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Sep-19-09 03:17 PM
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9. Because all to often, it's the male who is in control of the situation,
or the male who has created the situation in the first place.
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BlooInBloo Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Sep-19-09 03:20 PM
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10. Ah - so this thread DIDN'T result from the false-rape-charge thread...
Edited on Sat Sep-19-09 03:21 PM by BlooInBloo
in which a woman and her choices were central to the whole story.

Thanks for the clarification.
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Oregone Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Sep-19-09 03:16 PM
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7. That advice didn't work so well for the Palin girl
My advice would be to wrap it up. Teenagers like getting laid just like adults, but a bit more.
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hedgehog Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Sep-19-09 03:16 PM
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8. Having sex is easy. Making love is hard.
Lots of people out there are pretty good at Guitar Hero, but there was only 1 Jimi Hendrix!
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demmiblue Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Sep-20-09 09:49 AM
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11. .
:eyes:
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seabeyond Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Sep-20-09 09:52 AM
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12. cause all the girls accuse of rape and all the boys are innocent. wtf....
thinking this is going too far.
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itsrobert Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Sep-20-09 09:53 AM
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13. "a few years"
And you said that with a straight face?
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seabeyond Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Sep-20-09 09:54 AM
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14. lol. nt
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blondeatlast Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Sep-20-09 10:15 AM
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15. And feel free to discuss Daddy's advice to your therapist and physician. nt
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