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dsc Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Sep-24-09 10:46 PM
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Just how is a progressive politician supposed to deny being gay when they aren't gay?
I admit to not knowing what it is like to be assumed to be gay when you aren't but I do know what it is like to dishonestly claim to be straight due to fear of being found out. Frankly representative Schakowsky is in an all but impossible position if Edmonds charges are untrue. She is in a liberal district and has a great record on gay rights. She surely doesn't want to go on record as believing being gay is bad. She could be outraged over the affair allegation without mentioning the lesbian aspect but frankly that is dangerous. If Edmonds is wrong here, and there is literally no evidence whatsoever backing her up, her behavior is nothing short of despicable. Edmonds clearly is wrong about several details of this alledged affair and blackmail. She was wrong about what precipitated the meeting between the women, she was wrong about where the meeting took place, to name two examples. Schakowsky deserves better than this. So do we.

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LiberalAndProud Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Sep-24-09 10:47 PM
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1. I guess they should follow Larry Craig's example.
:shrug:
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ruggerson Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Sep-24-09 10:48 PM
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2. ...
Edited on Thu Sep-24-09 11:00 PM by ruggerson
found it.
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EFerrari Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Sep-24-09 10:48 PM
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3. Agreed. n/t
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madfloridian Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Sep-24-09 10:48 PM
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4. I agree.
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Jackpine Radical Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Sep-24-09 10:49 PM
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5. How 'bout the Seinfeld strategy?--
Edited on Thu Sep-24-09 10:49 PM by Jackpine Radical
"I'm not gay, you know--not that there's anything WRONG with being gay, of course."
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dsc Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Sep-24-09 10:50 PM
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7. that sounds a little Seinfeldish
and might well play that way.
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tekisui Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Sep-24-09 10:49 PM
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6. She should just admit to the affair if it happened or deny it if it didn't.
Truth will out. I think just addressing the affair accusation without focusing on the gender would do fine. It really shouldn't matter, as long as she is honest and not going to get caught in a lie.
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madfloridian Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Sep-24-09 10:51 PM
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8. She denied it angrily. But that made Sibel mad.
:shrug:
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EFerrari Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Sep-24-09 10:51 PM
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10. It tends to matter when people like Brad scream it in their headlines. n/t
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Barack_America Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Sep-24-09 10:51 PM
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9. "I did not have sexual relations with that woman".
Not a dig at the Big Dog, just a recent example of affair denial phraseology.


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Prism Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Sep-24-09 10:57 PM
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11. Just mention the husband
Maybe something along the lines of "These allegations are categorically false. I am in a very loving relationship with my husband and always have been."

Reinforces heterosexuality and does nothing to disparage LGBTers.
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Ghost in the Machine Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Sep-25-09 02:47 AM
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15. What if she's really Bi and her husband knows but doesn't care?
What if *he* has no problems with her having a relationship with another woman, but neither of them want anyone else to know? Maybe *they* don't consider it as her "having an affair", so she can deny having an "affair" and not be lying.

For the record, Jan Schakowski also proclaimed her husband's innocence in a fraud case... just a few months before he pleaded guilty to the charges and spent 5 months in prison. Her denial was more of an attack against Ms Edmonds, trying to equate her with birthers and conspiracy theorists.

Politicians lie... all the time... to cover their own asses.


just sayin'...

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imdjh Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Sep-24-09 11:07 PM
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12. Give the Zak Efron response. "I'm really flattered to get all this attention."
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glitch Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Sep-24-09 11:53 PM
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13. Sexual orientation is genetically determined. It's not Schakowsky's fault she's not gay
Edited on Thu Sep-24-09 11:57 PM by glitch
or bi, if she's not.
If she didn't have an affair then all she has to say is she didn't have an affair, period.
If she did have an affair all she has to say is she had an affair and didn't allow anyone to blackmail her and influence her actions in Congress.

Anything else is nobody's business except her husband's, unless they have an open marriage, in that case anything else is nobody's business but her own.
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AntiFascist Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Sep-25-09 02:21 AM
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14. What does being gay have to do with this???

First of all, a lot of people can have same sex affairs without being homosexual. Since Schakowsky comes from such a liberal district, I doubt if many will accuse her of being homosexual, and even so, what's the big deal? Thst would be a far bigger problem among right-wing conservatives.

The real story is whether congresspeople can so easily be blackmailed if they are afraid of disclosure of their personal affairs. Since Schakowsky is involved in overseeing intelligence matters, this is a particularly crucial question for our national security.
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LostInAnomie Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Sep-25-09 03:07 AM
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16. I imagine it would look something like the second half of this clip...
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