Groundbreaking study on LGBT Parents Released by APA

Their case is entirely based on theory and projection. Their optimum is a gold standard that they themselves don't qualify as.

I actually know a bad gay parent. It's a man whose parenting style is almost what you would expect a gay man to be accused of, except the whack jobs who would accuse him of molesting or recruiting. Nope, he's just a bad dad. He lets his kids run loose, and he has guests in the house with his children home, things divorce decrees often prohibit.

The neat thing about knowing a bad gay dad, is that it's a sign that we really are just like everyone else. My best friend when I was a kid had two bad parents, one male and one female. The female was a drunk and the male let it go on. They loved their kids, but they were not great parents. They also weren't the worst parents in the world. His mom was a drunk, but she was a fantastic cook and hilarious to be around. Beats the hell out of the sober but cold authoritarian another friend had for a dad. I was always grateful for my parents, even if I might have wished they were a tad more successful.

If all gay parents were perfect, it really would be a sign that something was up. But none of this matters to people who already have their minds made up.