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otherlander (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Oct-02-09 05:42 PM Original message |
What's the big deal with life-long pairbonding? |
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kestrel91316 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Oct-02-09 05:45 PM Response to Original message |
1. Gosh, beats me. Do YOU have some sort of problem with it? |
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otherlander (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Oct-02-09 05:49 PM Response to Reply #1 |
6. No, I mean... |
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kestrel91316 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Oct-02-09 05:58 PM Response to Reply #6 |
11. People have a beef against those who COMMIT to a life-long bond and then |
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otherlander (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Oct-02-09 06:05 PM Response to Reply #11 |
17. It's more than that. |
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CaliforniaPeggy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Oct-02-09 05:45 PM Response to Original message |
2. It's a big deal just because it's so rare... |
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asdjrocky (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Oct-02-09 05:46 PM Response to Original message |
3. It's the bubbles that makes it good. |
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HiFructosePronSyrup (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Oct-02-09 05:47 PM Response to Original message |
4. Like Christmas and Real Americans it's under siege from perverts. |
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Iris (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Oct-03-09 04:47 PM Response to Reply #4 |
45. lol - good answer! |
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Stinky The Clown (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Oct-02-09 05:48 PM Response to Original message |
5. It a far more rare thing than most seem to think. |
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JDPriestly (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Oct-02-09 08:05 PM Response to Reply #5 |
29. But when humans do, it is very rewarding to them. Sharing long lives |
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NRaleighLiberal (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Oct-02-09 05:50 PM Response to Original message |
7. The big deal is a personal big deal - it is if it works for you, probably not |
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otherlander (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Oct-02-09 05:55 PM Response to Reply #7 |
9. Yeah, but why do people care so much |
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NRaleighLiberal (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Oct-02-09 05:58 PM Response to Reply #9 |
10. Completely agree with you. It is actually beyond just relationships - the thing |
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orpupilofnature57 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Oct-02-09 06:03 PM Response to Reply #10 |
16. Narcissistic Fibrosis ,Imposing views on others to feel Superior ,a sign of |
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Whisp (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Oct-03-09 06:38 PM Response to Reply #16 |
58. I have no business in others people private lives |
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orpupilofnature57 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Oct-02-09 06:00 PM Response to Reply #9 |
12. Conformists are found in every prison ,Answer to no one about your |
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JDPriestly (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Oct-02-09 08:08 PM Response to Reply #9 |
30. If you feel that way, you need to make sure your partner(s) also feel(s) that way |
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Juche (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Oct-03-09 06:42 PM Response to Reply #9 |
59. I don't personally care if that is what others want |
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Shandris (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Oct-03-09 07:04 PM Response to Reply #9 |
64. I think it has less to do with imposing their views on others as it does... |
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orpupilofnature57 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Oct-02-09 05:52 PM Response to Original message |
8. It defies gravity but I've been with the same girl for 35yrs. and I'm 52 |
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otherlander (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Oct-02-09 06:01 PM Response to Reply #8 |
13. I'm glad. |
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orpupilofnature57 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Oct-02-09 06:05 PM Response to Reply #13 |
18. We don't scoff at or rule anything out ,tomorrow never knows . |
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Juche (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Oct-03-09 06:51 PM Response to Reply #13 |
60. Just throwing this out there, but if it weren't for retribution/revenge, there'd be no cooperation |
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EmeraldCityGrl (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Oct-02-09 06:01 PM Response to Original message |
14. Codependence, which I've been happily guilty of for 32 years. eom |
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orpupilofnature57 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Oct-02-09 06:07 PM Response to Reply #14 |
20. It's that too , my best friends think it's unnatural to be with a person that long. |
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LWolf (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Oct-02-09 06:02 PM Response to Original message |
15. Humans fear to be alone. nt |
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otherlander (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Oct-02-09 06:13 PM Response to Reply #15 |
21. Yes. |
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LWolf (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Oct-03-09 03:47 PM Response to Reply #21 |
39. How it came to be? |
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Liberation Angel (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Oct-03-09 04:24 PM Response to Reply #21 |
40. I hesitate to enter this debate but have actually been thinking about this today |
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otherlander (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Oct-03-09 06:08 PM Response to Reply #40 |
50. :) |
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Liberation Angel (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Oct-03-09 06:35 PM Response to Reply #50 |
57. Liberation Angels were... |
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Juche (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Oct-03-09 07:01 PM Response to Reply #21 |
62. That is a complex question |
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kenny blankenship (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Oct-02-09 06:06 PM Response to Original message |
19. As a model, stability of family relations is supposed to be better for the children |
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otherlander (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Oct-02-09 06:15 PM Response to Reply #19 |
22. Right- |
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redqueen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Oct-02-09 06:17 PM Response to Reply #22 |
23. Most people just seem to want it that way. |
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The Straight Story (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Oct-02-09 06:44 PM Response to Reply #22 |
27. Pretty much in most all social setups in the world |
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Zix (881 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Oct-03-09 05:45 PM Response to Reply #19 |
47. This perspective hadn't occurred to to me - I see that you're right |
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otherlander (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Oct-02-09 06:21 PM Response to Original message |
24. THE THINGS THAT PEOPLE ARE SAYING |
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Sal Minella (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Oct-02-09 06:32 PM Response to Original message |
25. The long-term pair bonding instinct saves wasting energy on sexual competition, |
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riderinthestorm (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Oct-02-09 06:42 PM Response to Original message |
26. It takes a long time to raise a human child. |
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otherlander (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Oct-03-09 06:11 PM Response to Reply #26 |
51. "No way could that many people |
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JDPriestly (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Oct-02-09 08:04 PM Response to Original message |
28. It's fun. It lifts your self-esteem when you get to be in your 60s if you |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Oct-02-09 08:14 PM Response to Reply #28 |
34. lol lol. first 25? lol. hm. actually we are 15 in and hubby and i both surprised how easy it is. |
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riderinthestorm (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Oct-02-09 08:30 PM Response to Reply #28 |
35. As another DUer with a long term marriage |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Oct-02-09 08:55 PM Response to Reply #35 |
38. i love these stories. i love these threads. i get cheered up by them, hearing |
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Obamanaut (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Oct-03-09 06:29 PM Response to Reply #35 |
54. I enjoyed what you said and how you said it. Miz O has let me |
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ThoughtCriminal (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Oct-02-09 08:09 PM Response to Original message |
31. So far, so good |
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otherlander (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Oct-03-09 06:14 PM Response to Reply #31 |
52. I'm happy for you. |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Oct-03-09 08:21 PM Response to Reply #52 |
65. you wanted to know what the deal is with it. people are telling you |
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UTUSN (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Oct-02-09 08:11 PM Response to Original message |
32. K&R to undo the UnRecKKK - although I don't know what this is all about n/t |
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The Midway Rebel (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Oct-02-09 08:12 PM Response to Original message |
33. I don't know about anybody else, but I enjoy being with my best friend... |
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Nye Bevan (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Oct-02-09 08:35 PM Response to Original message |
36. Because my wife has learned how to prepare all of my favorite foods? |
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Warren DeMontague (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Oct-02-09 08:40 PM Response to Original message |
37. Anyone who references lifes rich pageant in their sig line can't be all bad. |
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Liberation Angel (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Oct-03-09 04:30 PM Response to Original message |
41. See my post #40 above |
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TheKentuckian (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Oct-03-09 04:36 PM Response to Original message |
42. I don't ever understand why people are so caught up in what others do |
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Bucky (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Oct-03-09 04:41 PM Response to Reply #42 |
43. Or what they post, for that matter |
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anonymous171 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Oct-03-09 04:42 PM Response to Original message |
44. Why does this always happen whenever some famous person gets caught cheating? |
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Brother Buzz (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Oct-03-09 04:53 PM Response to Original message |
46. I got curious and tried it once.... |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Oct-03-09 05:57 PM Response to Reply #46 |
48. lol. that was my attitude walking in |
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Obamanaut (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Oct-03-09 06:55 PM Response to Reply #48 |
61. I told Miz O in 1968 (before screen names) I wanted to grow old |
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jesus_of_suburbia (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Oct-03-09 06:05 PM Response to Original message |
49. I think it's ideal (at least for some). I would like to find someone who I can trust |
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varelse (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Oct-03-09 06:18 PM Response to Original message |
53. It's older than the human race |
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proteus_lives (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Oct-03-09 06:29 PM Response to Original message |
55. Nothing! |
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Whisp (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Oct-03-09 06:32 PM Response to Original message |
56. I've had people tell me here that fidelity and loyalty is for the foolish |
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Odin2005 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Oct-03-09 07:04 PM Response to Original message |
63. Meh, I'm one of those "till death do us us part" type of people. |
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