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Shallah Kali Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Oct-15-09 04:04 PM
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Interracial Couple Denied Marriage License By Louisiana Judge
http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2009/10/15/interracial-couple-denied_n_322784.html

A Louisiana justice of the peace said he refused to issue a marriage license to an interracial couple out of concern for any children the couple might have. Keith Bardwell, justice of the peace in Tangipahoa Parish, says it is his experience that most interracial marriages do not last long.

Neither Bardwell nor the couple immediately returned phone calls from The Associated Press. But Bardwell told the Daily Star of Hammond that he was not a racist.

"I do ceremonies for black couples right here in my house," Bardwell said. "My main concern is for the children."

Bardwell said he has discussed the topic with blacks and whites, along with witnessing some interracial marriages. He came to the conclusion that most of black society does not readily accept offspring of such relationships, and neither does white society, he said.

"I don't do interracial marriages because I don't want to put children in a situation they didn't bring on themselves," Bardwell said. "In my heart, I feel the children will later suffer."

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"It is really astonishing and disappointing to see this come up in 2009," said American Civil Liberties Union of Louisiana attorney Katie Schwartzman. "The Supreme Court ruled as far back as 1963 that the government cannot tell people who they can and cannot marry."

The ACLU was preparing a letter for the Louisiana Supreme Court, which oversees the state justices of the peace, asking them to investigate Bardwell and see if they can remove him from office, Schwartzman said.

"He knew he was breaking the law, but continued to do it," Schwartzman said.
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WI_DEM Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Oct-15-09 04:05 PM
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1. revoke his license if he cannot do his job without moralizing his own personal beliefs.
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TexasObserver Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Oct-15-09 04:15 PM
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15. He's probably NOT licensed.
That's the problem with Justices of the Peace. Many have no legal training at all and are little more than local glad handers who use the post to enrich themselves. They don't know enough law to write a ticket.

He could be sanctioned or removed from office, however, by a state judicial conduct commission, assuming Louisiana has one.
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Beaverhausen Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Oct-15-09 04:15 PM
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17. +1
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NMDemDist2 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Oct-15-09 04:05 PM
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2. oh fer Dawg's Sake
:banghead:
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dugaresa Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Oct-15-09 04:06 PM
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3. it isn't 1909 and even then it was wrong, geez the judge needs help
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GodlessBiker Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Oct-15-09 04:06 PM
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4. O. M. G.
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eShirl Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Oct-15-09 04:07 PM
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5. hmm... Alzheimer's?
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kenny blankenship Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Oct-15-09 05:17 PM
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55. Or maybe, a desire to be impeached - daring others to do so and put an end to his career.
Edited on Thu Oct-15-09 05:17 PM by kenny blankenship
Todestrieb - Freudian death wish, to destroy oneself, often expressed in outward aggression.
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Barack_America Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Oct-15-09 06:21 PM
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69. He certainly forgot Brittany Spears is from his state.
And her unwed mother sister.

Seems straight up Caucasian marriages aren't all he's cracking them up to be either.
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abluelady Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Oct-15-09 04:07 PM
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6. Could That Law Still be on the Books in LA
I lived there about ten years ago and it was the law at that time. I don't know that it was one that was enforced, but....
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hobbit709 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Oct-15-09 04:16 PM
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19. Doesn't matter if it still on the books-it's unconstitutional
Loving v. Virginia, 388 U.S. 1 (1967)<1>, was a landmark civil rights case in which the United States Supreme Court, by a 9-0 vote, declared Virginia's anti-miscegenation statute, the "Racial Integrity Act of 1924", unconstitutional, thereby overturning Pace v. Alabama (1883) and ending all race-based legal restrictions on marriage in the United States.
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abluelady Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Oct-15-09 04:47 PM
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43. I Didn't Know If It Was Enforced
I just remember hearing it was on the books I'm a Yankee (and a liberal to boot) from way up north so I found it amazing and horrifying.
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Cirque du So-What Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Oct-15-09 04:16 PM
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21. Regardless of whether that law is still on the books in LA
Federal law supersedes any discriminatory state laws.
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AspenRose Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Oct-15-09 04:16 PM
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22. It wouldn't matter: Loving v. VA trumps that
And that case was ruled on in 1967.

So if that was being enforced ten years ago, they're in violation of the law.
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t0dd Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Oct-15-09 04:07 PM
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7. disgusting and reprehensible nt.
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ddeclue Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Oct-15-09 04:08 PM
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8. Actually 1967 Loving vs. Virginia is the case on point.
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imdjh Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Oct-15-09 04:11 PM
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12. Does Loving say they have to perform marriages or recognize them and not criminalize them?
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ddeclue Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Oct-15-09 04:22 PM
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27. Says that all anti-miscengenation laws are null and void.
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Loving_v._Virginia

A judge who refuses to marry people with a valid license is in violation of the law and will likely lose his job and his law license.
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abluelady Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Oct-15-09 04:43 PM
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40. I Hope He Does Lose
his license and his job. It's horible. It is just another example of why hate crimes must be labled hate crimes. Discrimination is definitely the worse motivation for crime.
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sandnsea Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Oct-15-09 04:08 PM
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9. The President is a child of an interracial marriage
*sigh* What planet do these people live on.
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TexasObserver Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Oct-15-09 04:16 PM
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20. Hey, he doesn't get cable where he lives!
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NOLALady Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Oct-15-09 05:44 PM
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65. Yup.
They have cable. No excuse!
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Pirate Smile Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Oct-15-09 04:21 PM
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26. I was going to point that out too. "My main concern is for the children." Yeah, they could become
President some day.
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Tesha Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Oct-15-09 04:44 PM
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41. Planet Confederacy, alive and well in the American South. (NT)
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NOLALady Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Oct-15-09 05:43 PM
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64. That's the problem.
We don't need any more of them running and winning high public office. Best we nip it in the bud.:crazy:
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ehrnst Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Oct-16-09 08:37 AM
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92. Yes, I'm sure that Obama is comforted by his "concern."
NOT.
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RaleighNCDUer Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Oct-16-09 11:50 AM
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93. Yeah, but he was born in Kenya, so he doesn't count.
















:sarcasm:

(do i really need to?)
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Rex Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Oct-15-09 04:09 PM
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10. Fucking racist asshole, who the hell does the think he is?
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Chulanowa Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Oct-15-09 04:11 PM
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11. I'm not sure which is more bizzare...
Edited on Thu Oct-15-09 04:12 PM by Chulanowa
His rationale behind denying the marriage license... or the logic behind that rationale.

What, does he think a woman's uterus doesn't work without a wedding ring or something?

And hopefully I'm not jumping to conclusions but from the names, I would guess the pair is white woman, black man. Were it reverse, I have my suspicions that the judge would have a different opinion.
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AspenRose Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Oct-15-09 04:57 PM
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47. Bingo. You were right.
"The paper quotes the justice of the peace as saying that “99 percent of the time” an interracial couple will consist of a black man and white woman, and “I find that rather confusing.”
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Number23 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Oct-15-09 06:18 PM
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67. Where did you get that quote? Is it in another article besides the HuffPost one in the OP??
thanks! :)
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AspenRose Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Oct-15-09 07:04 PM
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76. Raw Story
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Number23 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Oct-15-09 07:12 PM
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77. oh my God! ROFL!! This is the best comment EVER
from the link you sent:

"Why didn't Katrina wash this old bastard out to sea so Moby Dick could have knawed his leg off."

Confusing? Yes. Funny? HELL Yeah!! :rofl: :rofl:
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no_hypocrisy Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Oct-15-09 04:11 PM
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13. Sue his white ass.
Edited on Thu Oct-15-09 04:12 PM by no_hypocrisy
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DrDan Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Oct-15-09 04:13 PM
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14. since when does a judge rule on who gets to marry and who does not . . .
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noiretextatique Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Oct-15-09 04:15 PM
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16. think of the children
:scared:
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Better Today Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Oct-15-09 04:15 PM
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18. Yep, interracial children really suffer, like being elected President! poor guy.

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whathehell Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Oct-15-09 04:30 PM
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35. And I wouldn't be surprised if that was not EXACTLY what was on his mind!
a backhanded insult to the president.
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AspenRose Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Oct-15-09 04:18 PM
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23. He's a jackass.
Edited on Thu Oct-15-09 04:48 PM by AspenRose
Full stop.

Dude has managed to make Bob Jones University look progressive. That's no small feat.
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damntexdem Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Oct-15-09 04:18 PM
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24. He should be yanked right out of that position.
It should become his experience that JPs who so abuse their offices do not last long.
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TexasObserver Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Oct-15-09 04:20 PM
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25. This is a story I thought I'd never live to see again.
But then I never thought I'd live to see 80 year old women tased by police, or 9 year old girls strip searched in school.
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treestar Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Oct-15-09 04:23 PM
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28. He can have no legal right to do this
Incompetent buffoon.
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FreeState Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Oct-15-09 04:24 PM
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29. Good god this is beyond disgusting n/t
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gatorboy Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Oct-15-09 04:24 PM
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30. My wife ran into a similar situation years ago.
There was a couple that several local minister's refuse to marry because the groom was Middle Eastern. My wife had no problem marrying the couple.
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WinkyDink Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Oct-15-09 06:24 PM
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72. Ministers are allowed; my own FIL wouldn't marry his agnostic son and me. A JP? I don't THINK so!
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Neecy Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Oct-15-09 04:25 PM
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31. Sickening.
Just sickening.
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dsc Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Oct-15-09 04:27 PM
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32. they should just move to another state which will let them get married
or maybe we should have civil marriage for all. Maybe they can get a civil union. :sarcasm: if needed. But now maybe some of you will understand why we don't like hearing this ourselves.
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AlienGirl Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Oct-15-09 04:41 PM
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39. An interesting question: will the right-wingers attempt to ride anti-gay marriage bills backward?
If there are enough precedents set that states can define marriage at the state level and refuse to recognize same-sex marriages performed elsewhere, is this leading to a roll-back of Loving? For some factions on the right, I expect that is part of the end goal (along with repealing Griswold v. Connecticut, which legalized contraception and paved the way for Roe).

Tucker
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dsc Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Oct-15-09 04:49 PM
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45. they might well go after that precedent
as it is hard to distinguish that from a similar line for marriage equality.
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KamaAina Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Oct-15-09 05:23 PM
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58. There certainly is a nexus between the two
after Massachusetts became the first state to recognize marriage equality, the homophobes played the race card by invoking an old law barring out-of-state couples from marrying in the Commonwealth "if the marriage would not be recognized in their home state". Obviously, the law was aimed at interracial couples traveling from the South.

Fortunately, Mass. soon repealed the law, and now every adult can get married there.
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Zenlitened Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Oct-15-09 04:45 PM
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42. Ding.
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Starbucks Anarchist Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Oct-15-09 04:48 PM
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44. Nailed it.
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Book Lover Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Oct-15-09 05:08 PM
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50. +1
:thumbsup:
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Bluenorthwest Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Oct-15-09 05:33 PM
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62. Yep
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jeffbr Donating Member (377 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Oct-15-09 04:29 PM
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Louisiana Attorney General has known about it FOR YEARS
Edited on Thu Oct-15-09 04:30 PM by jeffbr
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Starry Messenger Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Oct-15-09 04:29 PM
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33. Oh holy hell.
:( I can't believe no one ratted him out sooner.
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NOLALady Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Oct-16-09 10:29 PM
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98. I can.
The couple who complained had recently returned to Louisiana. The bigotry was overwhelming for them.

The people who live there have accepted the lifestyle. It's always been that way for them. They are afraid of consequences if they complain.
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KamaAina Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Oct-15-09 04:29 PM
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34. One of my comrades-in-arms from my NOLA days is from there
I wouldn't be surprised if she's on her way up there right now, madder 'n' a wet hen! Justice* Bardwell will soon wish he had never been born...
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Demoiselle Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Oct-15-09 04:34 PM
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36. Gosh, an interracial child might grow up to be President of the United States!
Poor little tyke.
What?
Oh Never Mind.
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MattBaggins Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Oct-17-09 11:19 AM
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101. That may well be the very problem this JotP has with such marriages.
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Dorian Gray Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Oct-15-09 04:34 PM
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37. I just read this story a couple of minutes ago
and was pissed as hell. What the F&*$ is wrong with that JotP? He's an idiot. I hope he loses all ability to perform marriages and sign marriage licenses. He's abhorrent.

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Zenlitened Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Oct-15-09 04:37 PM
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38. Hmmm... I wonder if the same crowd that insists...

... that opposing same-sex marriage doesn't necessarily make one a bigot...

I wonder if they'll drop to defend this guy from condemnation as a bigot?

:shrug:

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ruggerson Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Oct-15-09 04:52 PM
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46. Remove him and then disbar him
n/t
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AspenRose Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Oct-15-09 05:02 PM
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48. He'll resign before that happens...(which is fine by me, of course)
Poor guy, thinks HIS rights will be violated. Offends his genteel racist sensibilities, I guess. Like those crazy pharmacists who refuse to give out contraception because it goes against what they believe in, he has no business being a J.P. and should find another line of work.


"Evidently, Bardwell has long had a policy of not marrying interracial couples, and admitted that Louisiana's attorney general had warned him years ago that he could "get into trouble" because of it.

“I told him if I do, I’ll resign,” Bardwell told the Daily Star. “I have rights too. I’m not obligated to do that just because I’m a justice of the peace.”

http://rawstory.com/2009/10/louisiana-denies-marriage-license-interracial/

And THIS is why I stand in solidarity with my gay and lesbian brothers and sisters.
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H2O Man Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Oct-15-09 05:11 PM
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53. He may not be
an attorney. In many states, a person can serve as a justice of the peace, without having any degree. Justices, unlike judges, do not hear felony cases.

In NYS, where anyone can be elected to this position, we have the State Committee on Judicial Misconduct. I've had to report two justices for similar actions. They have the ability to remove the person from the bench.
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Mari333 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Oct-15-09 05:04 PM
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49. shh dont call the judge 'racist'. we dont want to upset anyone.
Edited on Thu Oct-15-09 05:05 PM by Mari333
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SacredCow Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Oct-15-09 05:09 PM
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51. The irony is delicious and (more accurately) sickening....
Just yesterday, a whole gaggle of people were arguing right here in GD that simply because someone opposed gay marriage, it didn't necessarily make them a homophobe or a bigot. Some were even throwing out the argument that they were opposed to gay marriage "for the sake of children" (which makes no sense, but... there you are), and that it was insulting to suggest that they were holding a homophobic viewpoint. Comparisons were made to inter-racial marriage, yet it was pooh-poohed as not being the same thing and comparing apples to oranges. Well, here's someone who is opposed to inter-racial marriage "for the sake of children" and nobody has come to his defense that he's just "ignorant" or "mis-informed." So why is that? Easy- BECAUSE HE IS A RACIST BIGOT!!!!!! Just like someone opposed to gay marriage IS A HOMOPHOBIC BIGOT.

:mad:
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tbyg52 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Oct-15-09 05:29 PM
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60. Bingo.
Analogies are lost on some people.
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sandnsea Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Oct-15-09 05:38 PM
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63. *sigh* Tried to let it sit, but this is misrepresentation
What was said is that people can support other means of moving forward with equal rights without being a bigot. Nobody in that thread said they personally opposed gay marriage. It is going to take the Supreme Court ruling that gay marriage is an equal right. Until then, supporting any means available to extend rights to as many people as possible IS NOT homophobic. Funny that someone who insisted that only gay marriage is equal rights was thrilled to find out her school was extending all benefits to her and her spouse. Does being excited about getting those benefits make her a homophobe? Is the person who implemented the policy a homophobe?

That's how stupid the argument that everybody has to fight for gay marriage and nothing but gay marriage is.

THAT is what was said yesterday.
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armyowalgreens Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Oct-15-09 06:21 PM
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70. Actually somebody did say that they oppose gay marriage.
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SacredCow Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Oct-15-09 07:33 PM
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81. Yep. And many others refused to answer a simple question...
"Do you support or oppose gay marriage?" And 'twas your OP that it was in. Apparently the designation of homophobic (whether vehement or passive) hits a little too close to home for some here.
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SacredCow Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Oct-16-09 03:25 PM
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96. I don't think we're speaking of the same thread....
At least one person plainly stated that they were opposed to gay marriage (and others dodged the question completely).

The point is, simply put, that many people here have a serious double-standard going on when it comes to bigotry. Racism is completely and totally inexcusable. Nobody has popped into this thread and suggested that maybe this asshat JP is just misguided and/or misinformed. Yet, somehow homophobia, sexism and also anti-semitism fall into this magical shades of grey category. ("Oh, you can't call her a homophobe because she's old and stuck in her ways.... Oh, you can't call him a homophobe, because he's religious and it's his right to believe that gays are evil.... etc.... etc.... etc..... etc.... ad nauseum.....")

"everybody has to fight for gay marriage...", as you state? No- nobody is saying that. It's a free country, and people can and do oppose gay marriage. And, guess what? In my book, they're bigots. Perhaps they are truly misinformed and/or ignorant- In which case, they're misinformed, ignorant bigots. Can their minds be changed? Possibly- but not until they realize that they're bigots. Telling them so seems to be an effective way of starting that process.

"nothing but gay marriage is"? At this point, that is 100% true. Civil unions, even if the rights are identical to marriage, is "separate but equal." You can come to the same school, but you can't drink out of the same water fountain, because you're inferior. It was a crock of shit then, and it's a crock of shit now.
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Blue_Tires Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Oct-15-09 06:19 PM
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68. +1
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Starry Messenger Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Oct-15-09 06:25 PM
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73. Exactly. n/t
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FreeState Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Oct-15-09 06:55 PM
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75. +1 n/t
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Hassin Bin Sober Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Oct-15-09 07:23 PM
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79. Yep. I was thinking the story in the OP was going to be an Allegory for gay marriage.
Now watch them twist and turn and say it's not the same thing.
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Odin2005 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Oct-17-09 11:02 AM
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100. +1
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cliffordu Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Oct-15-09 05:09 PM
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52. Concern for the children?? Two Words:
Halley Barry.
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NOLALady Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Oct-15-09 05:51 PM
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66. 3 more words
Barack Hussein Obama
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Jamastiene Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Oct-16-09 01:06 AM
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88. Add 1 word to the mix
Slash, one of the best guitarists evah.
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Toric lens Donating Member (6 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Oct-15-09 05:16 PM
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54. Katie Schwartzman said
"The Supreme Court ruled as far back as 1963 that the government cannot tell people who they can and cannot marry."

I'm seeing a serious conflict with reality there...the government has said I can't marry a person I want to.
grr


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Vidar Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Oct-15-09 05:17 PM
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56. Disbarment would be an appropriate response. Recommended
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Mz Pip Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Oct-15-09 05:18 PM
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57. His main concern
"is for the children." Oh, bullshit. He's a racist ass. Who is he to make that determination?

He doesn't get the choice as to whether or not they marry or whether or not they have children.
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Engineer4Obama Donating Member (610 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Oct-15-09 05:27 PM
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59. Yeah I mean their kid might grow up to be this guy


I can see why the judge was concerned.
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WinkyDink Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Oct-15-09 06:23 PM
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71. More truth than humor, I suspect!
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TommyPaine Donating Member (300 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Oct-16-09 01:39 PM
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95. Good one.
This judge is a complete anachronism. The year 1959 must sure be missing him.
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BluinTX Donating Member (34 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Oct-15-09 05:32 PM
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61. Went to law school in Louisiana
at Tulane University in New Orleans, and clerked for three years with the State Supreme Court in the early nineties. It was a surprisingly moderate court with a number of true progressives, particulary Justice Dennis who is now with the Federal 5th Circuit Court of Appeals. But in Louisiana, even a so called liberal Democrat generally has some very racist baggage. They often openly speak disparigingly of black people in a manner that was shocking, but being good "liberals" they would avoid using the "N" word, or even worse, which I would hear regularly from non "progressives."

I love NOLA and the surrounding culture, but racism is so ingrained there that it is hard to ignore. I say this, moreover, as someone with deep familial ties to the region, including a cousin that was a prominent judge in Jefferson Parish -- a filthy racist one at that, whom we had to reverse on numerous occasions while I was with the Court. He sentenced a man (black, what a shock) to life in prison for masturabting on the riverfront just outside of New Orleans (albeit a 3rd offense). I kid you not.
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Jack Rabbit Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Oct-15-09 06:40 PM
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74. Why is the judge worried about the children of mixed marriages?
Is he afraid they can't make it?


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asdjrocky Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Oct-15-09 07:14 PM
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78. This just in-
Keith Bardwell, new Chairman of the RNC.
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VMI Dem Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Oct-15-09 07:31 PM
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80. Could you imagine if some idiots commented that this wasn't racist?
Inconceivable, huh?
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tblue37 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Oct-15-09 07:36 PM
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82. He would have nixed Obama's parents' marriage--out of fear that Obama, the child of
Edited on Thu Oct-15-09 07:37 PM by tblue37
an interracial marriage would suffer (and, I imagine, out of fear that the boy would turn out to be a burden on society, rather than a contributor to it).

Idiots never learn.
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Matariki Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Oct-15-09 07:36 PM
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83. "black couples right here in my house"
that's very 'brave' of you, you neanderthal.

"not a racist" seems to be on the lips of all kind of assholes these days.
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classysassy Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Oct-15-09 11:48 PM
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85. The bathroom
Wow,he let blacks use his bathroom,proberly the one out back,the outhouse.
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Shell Beau Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Oct-15-09 07:37 PM
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84. Um, what? Many marriages end in divorce. He is in the wrong field. Asshole.
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TexasObserver Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Oct-16-09 12:10 AM
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86. He's empowered to marry, not divorce, couples.
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BrklynLiberal Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Oct-16-09 12:42 AM
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87. Didn't Loving vs VA settle this 50 years ago??????????
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Jamastiene Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Oct-16-09 01:10 AM
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89. What a fucking asshole.
Food for thought.

Yes, he's wrong and fucking racist as hell, but could this be part of the "defining" marriage movement that seems to be sweeping the country? Is that their next step once they get even the idea of gay marriage completely outlawed?
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Thrill Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Oct-16-09 01:23 AM
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90. The old "I have lots of black friends"
Boy his elk can never use that one enough.
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Manifestor_of_Light Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Oct-16-09 04:26 AM
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91. Let's tell him about "hybrid vigor"
and watch his pointed head explode.

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madmax Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Oct-16-09 01:16 PM
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94. WTF!? n/t
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NOLALady Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Oct-16-09 10:16 PM
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97. They interviewed one of his townsfolk on tonights news
who said for all the world to hear in his best southern drawl...

"I ain't prejudice, but I shore wouldn't want one of 'em marryin ma daughters"

I'm certain he wouldn't mind if one of his cousins married her.

So far, Piyush Jindal has denounced him and the President of Hammond has asked for his resignation. Mrs. Bardwell practically denied that they refused to marry them for racial reasons. Something about their schedule was complex.
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Odin2005 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Oct-17-09 10:52 AM
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99. I seriously can't believe jerkwads like this are still around.
97% of folks my age (18-30) have no problem with interracial relationships. I seriously can't comprehend how there are still bastards that pull such crap.
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