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AlinPA (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Oct-19-09 07:28 PM Original message |
Dropped right-wing "friends" and it felt good. For over 5 years, we have been tolerating |
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JuniperLea (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Oct-19-09 07:30 PM Response to Original message |
1. Wow... it must have been difficult to converse... |
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AlinPA (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Oct-19-09 07:36 PM Response to Reply #1 |
5. My wife really struggled with conversation at dinner or at coffee shops. I played |
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Mayberry Machiavelli (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Oct-19-09 07:31 PM Response to Original message |
2. You did the right thing. Beyond even politics it's a simple issue of respect. |
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arthritisR_US (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Oct-19-09 07:34 PM Response to Reply #2 |
4. excellent points all. I can't add a thing to what you've said! :-) n/t |
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geckosfeet (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Oct-19-09 07:33 PM Response to Original message |
3. I did the same years ago. Some of them were family. It's a brave new world. |
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timeforpeace (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Oct-19-09 07:52 PM Response to Reply #3 |
14. I bet most of us have turned our backs on family, friends and loved ones over politics. It's smart! |
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paulsby (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Oct-19-09 07:59 PM Response to Reply #14 |
15. god knows i haven't |
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ejpoeta (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Oct-19-09 08:14 PM Response to Reply #15 |
17. i don't think the 'friends' are being dumped because of political beliefs |
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paulsby (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Oct-19-09 08:19 PM Response to Reply #17 |
19. exactly nt |
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Fuzz (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Oct-19-09 08:29 PM Response to Reply #17 |
23. Bingo |
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AlinPA (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Oct-19-09 09:09 PM Response to Reply #17 |
34. Our problem was that they just wouldn't stop talking about it. Changing the subject |
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geckosfeet (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-20-09 09:09 AM Response to Reply #17 |
46. They were perpetually forcing their religious, cultural and political beliefs in my face. |
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Harry Monroe (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-20-09 01:57 PM Response to Reply #46 |
51. If they were doing that despite your pleadings with them to the contrary... |
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Mariana (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Oct-19-09 09:07 PM Response to Reply #14 |
33. When they are rude and disrespectful to you, |
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bertman (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Oct-19-09 09:37 PM Response to Reply #33 |
37. Agree, Mariana, and they sure as hell aren't acting like friends. |
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emilyg (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Oct-19-09 11:08 PM Response to Reply #14 |
42. I haven't. My family and |
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Mayberry Machiavelli (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-20-09 04:41 PM Response to Reply #42 |
57. Even when they push political discussions when you say you want to avoid it? |
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emilyg (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-20-09 10:55 PM Response to Reply #57 |
64. I grin and bear it for a while and |
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TxRider (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-20-09 04:45 PM Response to Reply #14 |
58. Nope Family rates WAYYY above politics for my family. |
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DeSwiss (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Oct-19-09 07:37 PM Response to Original message |
6. Good on! |
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C_U_L8R (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Oct-19-09 07:37 PM Response to Original message |
7. life is too short to tolerate a**h*les and republicans |
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nadinbrzezinski (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Oct-19-09 07:38 PM Response to Original message |
8. I don't blame you, did this myself a while ago |
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Selatius (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Oct-19-09 08:33 PM Response to Reply #8 |
25. A house divided against itself cannot stand. |
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nadinbrzezinski (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Oct-19-09 08:41 PM Response to Reply #25 |
26. Why I say we will have a hot civil war |
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Selatius (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Oct-19-09 08:47 PM Response to Reply #26 |
27. I don't want to wake up and see we've become a giant version of Northern Ireland. |
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nadinbrzezinski (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Oct-19-09 08:48 PM Response to Reply #27 |
28. I expect this |
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Caliman73 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-20-09 02:04 PM Response to Reply #26 |
52. I think that power blinds them... |
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Cleita (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-20-09 02:18 PM Response to Reply #8 |
53. I felt the Republicans to be very divisive before Bush and he solidified it. |
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theoldman (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Oct-19-09 07:39 PM Response to Original message |
9. My general approach is to shut off the conversation with a quick attack. |
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AlinPA (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Oct-19-09 09:04 PM Response to Reply #9 |
32. That was our reasoning. nt |
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Diane R (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Oct-19-09 07:43 PM Response to Original message |
10. I'm sadly thinking this is all too common. I've had a similar experience.... |
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DesertRat (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Oct-19-09 07:43 PM Response to Original message |
11. We have had some Republican friends for many years |
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Cha (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Oct-19-09 07:46 PM Response to Original message |
12. With Obama as our President the |
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wiggs (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Oct-19-09 07:48 PM Response to Original message |
13. I visit Snopes frequently regarding RW friends who pass along "outrage" emails. nt |
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AwakeAtLast (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Oct-19-09 08:18 PM Response to Reply #13 |
18. It seems every time I "reply all" with a friendly link to Snopes, I never get another one. |
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Patiod (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-20-09 01:49 PM Response to Reply #18 |
47. That works remarkably well |
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gratuitous (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Oct-19-09 08:06 PM Response to Original message |
16. Yeah, vita brevis and all that |
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drmeow (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Oct-19-09 08:20 PM Response to Original message |
20. I'm in a similar boat |
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Iwillnevergiveup (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Oct-19-09 08:30 PM Response to Reply #20 |
24. Losing Facebook |
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Mayberry Machiavelli (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-20-09 01:56 AM Response to Reply #20 |
43. If people are going to abuse the Facebook thing like that then they deserve to |
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Patiod (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-20-09 01:53 PM Response to Reply #43 |
48. I'm VERY political, and never post anything political on FB |
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Mayberry Machiavelli (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-20-09 04:33 PM Response to Reply #48 |
55. Sad but true - I've hidden my own wife's feed on FB, Lynn Samuels Obama hate every other day. |
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drmeow (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-20-09 07:32 PM Response to Reply #43 |
59. I certainly don't feel bad |
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Mayberry Machiavelli (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-20-09 07:38 PM Response to Reply #59 |
62. Why is "defriending" them on Facebook the same as ending a friendship? |
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drmeow (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-20-09 10:24 PM Response to Reply #62 |
63. Defriending someone is not |
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OnceUponTimeOnTheNet (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Oct-19-09 08:26 PM Response to Original message |
21. It felt good? That's all that matters. Good for you. |
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Mayberry Machiavelli (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-20-09 04:31 PM Response to Reply #21 |
54. Yeah but YOU matter enough to THEM also for them to respect your boundaries. |
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Iwillnevergiveup (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Oct-19-09 08:26 PM Response to Original message |
22. It seems that the more people watch FAUX |
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Mariana (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Oct-19-09 09:17 PM Response to Reply #22 |
35. Their behavior changes, too. They lose their manners. |
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Solomon (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Oct-19-09 08:49 PM Response to Original message |
29. I've had to drop a friend who was masquerading for |
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Kievan Rus (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Oct-19-09 08:52 PM Response to Original message |
30. I know what that's like...I just went through the same thing |
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deutsey (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Oct-19-09 08:55 PM Response to Original message |
31. I actually still have some conservative friends |
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global1 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Oct-19-09 09:21 PM Response to Original message |
36. Somebody Should Really Study This Phenomenon........ |
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Mayberry Machiavelli (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-20-09 07:35 PM Response to Reply #36 |
60. Part of it is the specific message that is being pushed by Fox and company. |
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HughBeaumont (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Oct-19-09 10:24 PM Response to Original message |
38. I stopped going to imdb, yahoo, etc. |
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ShrimpScampi (42 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Oct-19-09 10:44 PM Response to Original message |
39. Abused by wingnut former friend |
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Critters2 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Oct-19-09 10:47 PM Response to Original message |
40. I did this about a year ago with a friend/colleague. |
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lpbk2713 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Oct-19-09 11:03 PM Response to Original message |
41. You're on the road to recovery. |
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Dorian Gray (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-20-09 05:04 AM Response to Original message |
44. I haven't dropped any friends |
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mwb970 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-20-09 06:07 AM Response to Original message |
45. I'm lucky. I don't have any right-wing "friends" to deal with. |
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Harry Monroe (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-20-09 01:56 PM Response to Original message |
49. I always tell my right wing friends to check their politics at the door. |
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Soylent Brice (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-20-09 01:56 PM Response to Original message |
50. i already have that type of song and dance going on with the in-laws. i don't tolerate teh stooopid |
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Vinca (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-20-09 04:34 PM Response to Original message |
56. I must live in a bubble because I can't imagine even having right wing friends. |
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democracy1st (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-20-09 07:37 PM Response to Original message |
61. kick |
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