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Liberal_in_LA Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Oct-21-09 10:51 PM
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Shopping while black: a social experience, white crowd walk out in defense of a black shopper
Edited on Wed Oct-21-09 10:56 PM by Liberal_in_LA
at the end of the video. Love it! The walk out begins at 6:50 on the video.

ABC staged the frisking and general humiliation of a black woman in an upscale store. They get various reactions from an ass-hole guy asking if the black woman "played the black card" to a woman breaking down in tears over the racial profiling. At the end, the majority of the customers walk out in solidarity for the black woman. :applause: :applause:

http://www.sojones.com/news/1534-shopping-while-black-a-social-experiment/


Shopping While Black: a social experiment

Article written by: Andre Sanchez
Posted on: October 16, 2009

I came across this interesting experiment that TV news network ABC hosted. A black actress and two brave store workers agreed to stage a scene at an upscale clothing store in SoHo New York, one of the busiest and trendiest shopping areas in the world.

When random shoppers came in, the shop workers would begin harassing the black actress posing as a customer. Verbally abusing her, telling her she “can’t afford the merchandise” and “we know why you are here”, they would ask her to leave and even go as far as frisking her in full view of the other shoppers.

It made for some interesting observations as to who responded and who didn’t. Peep the video:

Woman in tears over racist statements made by the clerk regarding a black customer
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BrklynLiberal Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Oct-21-09 11:04 PM
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1. wow......
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opiate69 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Oct-21-09 11:12 PM
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2. My thoughts exactly, Brklyn.. extremely powerful video... just, .. wow....
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Liberal_in_LA Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Oct-21-09 11:14 PM
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3. I know! I have to admit, I was (happily) surprised by the response.
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opiate69 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Oct-21-09 11:36 PM
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9. It reminds me of a commercial I saw on TV one time only, many years ago..
Maybe 12 years ago? Anyway, the commercial was simply a picture of a black man, with text rolling over it saying "James So-and-so*, convicted of 3 counts aggravated assault, etc, etc.." then ended with "Apprehended by Detective Mark Doe*, pictured here"... completely gave me a "holy shit" moment..


*sorry..been too long and I only saw it once, so no idea what names were actually used..
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Ysabela Donating Member (208 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Oct-23-09 04:28 AM
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68. People really need to see this video.
Just because the police don't turn fire hoses on black people on the streets anymore doesn't mean racism is dead. It's alive and kicking.
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blondeatlast Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Oct-21-09 11:18 PM
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4. I worked retail for years, saw this happen a few times--and I'm still astonished at that.
We've got so very, very far yet to go...
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Liberal_in_LA Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Oct-21-09 11:23 PM
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6. Video gave me a little tiny bit of hope. YES WE CAN.
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blondeatlast Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Oct-21-09 11:26 PM
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7. I wanted to reach in and slap the lying asshole and his gf...
:mad:
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Liberal_in_LA Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Oct-21-09 11:28 PM
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8. The "black card' guy? His punishment is his racist face pasted all over the internet.
I like his "uh oh" when he realizes he was filmed. lol.
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blondeatlast Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Oct-21-09 11:48 PM
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12. I plan to do my part in making his life hell. That e-mail thing can be so handy, you know? nt
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AuntPatsy Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Oct-21-09 11:50 PM
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15. Didn't think about that...so true..and a great punishment...wow what a liar...
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theHandpuppet Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Oct-23-09 06:25 AM
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72. That's exactly what I said to my partner
His lying, racist face is now making the rounds of the internet.
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Barack_America Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Oct-23-09 08:12 AM
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76. He was nowhere near as bad as the blond chick.
Who showed about 1 second of being even remotely troubled by the situation. And even that look read more as "uh oh, is this black woman going to get violent?"

Honestly, you could see on the guy's face that he was affected. He appeared to be torn. But he chose to do nothing about the situation and later chose to diffuse his involvement in the conflict by agreeing with the salesclerk.

That reaction is clearly not acceptable.
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AuntPatsy Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Oct-21-09 11:21 PM
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5. Haven't watched it yet...going to right now but I have an idea it will be a wow moment...
like uncovering the blinders and seeing people for who they truly are....
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burning rain Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Oct-21-09 11:44 PM
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10. Also possible some shoppers had a sense it was staged....
didn't care to be part of it, and walked out for that reason.
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AuntPatsy Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Oct-21-09 11:49 PM
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14. I don't agree...the look on some faces was shock...on others...simply
a look of being a bit uncomfortable watching that..but no...I believe that no one in that store believed it to be staged...I have no doubt such has been witnessed by some of them before..
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blondeatlast Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Oct-21-09 11:53 PM
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16. Those who figured it was staged were likely edited out. But the stupid "balck card"
guy was for real.

I hope his life is quite miserable for a while and I'm pretty certain it will
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AuntPatsy Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Oct-21-09 11:56 PM
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18. You and me both..I plan on pushing this video around..I hope others do to..
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burning rain Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Oct-22-09 12:12 AM
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20. I don't know...
just walking out when you're convinced it's the real thing is not so much solidarity as cowardice, feeling dirty in the presence of nastiness and just wanting to flee it without doing something about it. Solidarity would involve intervening verbally.
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AuntPatsy Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Oct-21-09 11:46 PM
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11. to be honest I think it's sickening that only twenty out of over a hundred shoppers
actually stuck up for her...so many people just do not want to be involved these days...as nice as it was to see the few that did and walk out of the store...the truth is...everyone should have walked out...reminds me of the scene in pretty woman

My own experience working in a store was that the manager informed me not to keep an eye on certain people of race but to keep an eye out on elderly people...I was told in a few different jobs that dealt in retail that usually it was elderly people that stole..

Nice stereotyping either way...such is wrong..because the bottom line is you just never know...

But the way the actress portrayed her part was in my mind a very good reason to step in....she was an excellent actress as were they all but she just played the victim so well in how she felt so humilated..it wasn't until I heard her say that she actually had dealt with being followed before in stores that I realized her humiliation was real...since she herself said she understood how that felt...

I just could not imagine doing that to anyone...so disrespectful and so openly was the sales clerk displaying that her reasoning was primarily because of race...

this video just made me sad..
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noiretextatique Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Oct-22-09 12:19 PM
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26. that is the real point of this story: only 20 of 100 people actually said anything
this is how racism works: most people just go along with it.
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Karenina Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Oct-22-09 06:07 PM
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35. This holds true even when the witnesses KNOW the persecuted one PERSONALLY
are enlightened enough to realize what's going on AND OBJECT TO IT. They remain silent.
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peacetalksforall Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Oct-21-09 11:48 PM
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13. It is a wow and I am thrilled with the people who objected. However, it is flawed - if I am
Edited on Wed Oct-21-09 11:50 PM by peacetalksforall
up-to-date on the law - you can't do what they did. You can't take action to communicate with a suspect about what you suspect they did until they are past the doorway to the street/mall and if there is a reason to 'know' there was a theft - seen by a witness-employee. I'm sure someone will correct me if I'm wrong.

But, the exercise proved what we already know - only a few will speak out.

Some years ago I probably would have been the aware-of-what's-going-on-but-silent person. I would have probably walked out, silently. Maybe waited for the targeted person to hug or hold their hand or say something. Not today. I would start trying to concentrate on who was saying what as a witness so I could speak out there or later.

If there were weapons, I don't know what I would do.

I think that store owner should be applauded for taking on the risk of reputation and hosting the experiment.
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AuntPatsy Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Oct-21-09 11:55 PM
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17. you are right...one cannot be apprehended nor searched unless they are seen to be leaving....
But that was the point...one does not always follow the letter of the law especially when it comes to you know...certain people and nine times out of ten they are never called on it so it continues..

as far as the owner being applauded..well...I may be jaded but I have no doubt he was compensated as well as receiving free publicity...he didn't lose anything...nor was he in danger of losing anything..
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LisaL Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Oct-24-09 11:33 AM
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125. He might end up regretting it. There are people on this thread
that seem to be unable to figure out this was a staged situation and he doesn't really employ racists clerks.
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Raineyb Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Oct-25-09 07:31 PM
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131. You seem to be the one who can't figure out what's going on.
The person doing the frisking was in on it as was the actress. It was the shopper's reactions that they were looking to gauge.

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LisaL Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Oct-25-09 07:42 PM
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132. Hah?
What exactly in my post suggested I didn't understand this was staged to get shoppers' reaction?
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question everything Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Oct-21-09 11:57 PM
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19. Amazing
Interesting that one of the shoppers who really stood up and left was black yet, he was not harassed.
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HipChick Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Oct-22-09 12:23 AM
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21. Because he was wearing a designer coat...
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onenote Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Oct-22-09 12:33 PM
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30. no. because he wasn't an actor
this wasn't "real" harassment. it was staged to make a point, which it did make quite successfully. If you understand the premise, you'll understand why he wasn't harassed.
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4lbs Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Oct-22-09 12:45 AM
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22. Yeah, this is part of ABC's "What Would You Do?" show where they stage incidents and get the
Edited on Thu Oct-22-09 12:47 AM by 4lbs
reactions from people.

Last year, they had an episode where they put 3 young white males near a car in a public park's parking lot that they provided. The guys vandalized the crap out of the car. Many people were walking and running by, and very few stepped in. They would usually just watch for a little bit before moving on.

Then they repeated it with 3 young black males. Within a few minutes there were lots of calls to the police and such. In fact, an interesting "side incident" occurred as well. While the 3 young black males were sitting in their own car waiting for their turn, someone had called the police saying that 3 'suspicious' black males were sitting in a car watching the parking lot and people. The guys were actually napping in the car as they waited.

Another experiment involved a couple out on a date at a bar. The woman, who was dressed very provocatively, showing cleavage, wearing a tight short skirt, and high heels, got up to use the restroom. The guy with her would pour something into her drink. The experiment was to see if people would interrupt what appeared to be a guy spiking a woman's drink. Very few people did so. They then repeated the experiment, with the young woman dressed more conservatively, the girl next door look. When that happened, quite a few people told her what he did. It was the same female actor each time. The inference from the experiment was that the woman who dressed 'slutty' was seen as being deserving of having her drink spiked. The old "she deserved it because of how she was dressed" thinking.

That "What Would You Do?" show on ABC is always enlightening on society mores and behavior.
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Liberal_in_LA Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Oct-22-09 01:01 AM
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23. There was another where they had a man beating woman and woman beating man
Lesson: No one will come to the aid of man getting beat by a woman, even a cop.

They also switched races. Very few came to the aid of the black woman getting beat.
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redqueen Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Oct-22-09 12:27 PM
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29. God that show sounds depressing.
:(
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Liberal_in_LA Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Oct-22-09 02:45 PM
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32. It is. But the non racial stuff is interesting. One episode, they had someone
walk into a bar and quietly lift a woman's purse off the back of her chair. People in the bar would see the theft happen but most
wouldn't react unless someone else reacted... The episode demonstrated that most people need confirmation from others to react.

When they did react it was funny. One group of guys stormed out of the restaurant after the thief, fully prepared to kick ass (one took a swing!) until the producers put a stop to it.

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NashVegas Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Oct-22-09 07:16 PM
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37. I Find This Cruel and Manipulative
But that's just me.
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LisaL Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Oct-22-09 08:19 PM
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41. Me to. I really dislike these type of shows.
Edited on Thu Oct-22-09 08:24 PM by LisaL
These people are basically being punked/tricked, and they didn't agree or give their consent to this.
What if someone really takes offense, and some sort of altercation/injury ensures? Like if someone tried to run after the "thief" and got hit by a car? Who will be at fault then?
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Raineyb Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Oct-22-09 10:10 PM
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44. Yeah it's really cruel for people to be shown for the cowards they are
when someone is being harassed and they stand by and do nothing.
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LisaL Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Oct-22-09 11:40 PM
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56. People went to that store to shop, not to have their emotions
manipulated for the show.
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Raineyb Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Oct-23-09 03:58 AM
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63. They didn't have to sign the release
So they can't play victim there.

So you're still complaining about the cruelty of people being outed as cowards?

Surely there are more pressing issues to worry about.
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LisaL Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Oct-23-09 10:07 AM
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85. Are you so sure these people are asked to sign the release?

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Raineyb Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Oct-23-09 01:04 PM
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89. Odds are they were, But to be honest I couldn't care less. I'm not wasting any time feeling sorry
for pathetic cowards who would stand by while someone is treated so poorly and do nothing. It is exactly that kind of cowardice that allows racists to get away with their bullshit. It's the mentality that turns making the accusation of racism worse than actually being racist. And frankly without this "exploitative television" a good number of people would continue on their merry way pretending that everything is just fine when it comes to race relations in this country so in the grand scheme of things I'm glad that some people were outed as cowards. And to piss and moan about their exploitation is to deliberately deflect attention on the point which is when it comes down to it for all the flowery language people like to use they will still stand by and do nothing when blatant, obvious, racist actions take place right in front of their face!
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NashVegas Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Oct-23-09 05:24 PM
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113. Newsflash, Sherlock
We know racism exists. We know cowardice exists. We know profiling exists.

It is really, really, really fucking easy to sit that at your keyboard and howl - howl! at what horrible cowards to racism those crowds are in a staged and controlled TV bit.

ABC or whomever the fuck it was who made this video has presented the emotional equivalent of the Roman Gladiator games. And you're lapping it right up.
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Raineyb Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Oct-24-09 01:27 AM
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118. It's as easy for me to call these asshats cowards as it is for me to call out the
people who stand by while people of color are mistreated because I've seen it in person. So it's real fucking easy for you to howl and cry about the emotional abuse suffered by these poor, pitiful disgusting cowards who stood by while someone was humiliated and mistreated and did not a fucking thing but continue with their shopping. Meanwhile you deliberately miss the fucking point of the experiment in the first place. Why? I can only guess that for all your claims of knowing racism exists, that cowardice exists and that profiling exists you don't want to actually have it SEEN by anyone so that something may actually do something about it. It's so much easier for it to continue to be hidden so you can either dismiss the person telling the story and pretend it's not there because God forbid having evidence on tape may force you to actually DO something about it.

Can't have that can we. No it's so much better not to "exploit" these assholes.

Unfuckingbeliveable.
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NashVegas Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Oct-24-09 10:31 AM
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120. And... Again
Edited on Sat Oct-24-09 10:35 AM by NashVegas
It. Was. A. Staged. Incident.

You still haven't figured out the lesson learned in NY by the Tawana Brawley incident - or maybe you just weren't around. New Englanders almost never, ever have to confront the idea they might be "like that." If you're going to put it in their face, better fracking make sure it's not a hoax.
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Raineyb Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Oct-25-09 02:11 PM
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128. So what if it was staged? The people being tested are the ones in the store
not the actors. Are you telling me that their reactions would have been different if they knew it was staged?

That defeats the purpose. You can't test people's honest reactions if they know they're part of the experiment.

If New Englanders don't get that then I'd say there's something wrong with the school system up there.
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KittyWampus Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Oct-25-09 07:46 PM
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133. Science experiments are "Staged Incidents"
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LisaL Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Oct-25-09 07:47 PM
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134. Well I don't want to be guinea pig.
Edited on Sun Oct-25-09 07:55 PM by LisaL
But seriously, when researchers do human experiments, they would need to get all the protocols approved before any experiments are done, and obtain consent from the participants. Which I sincerely doubt was done by this TV show.
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Ysabela Donating Member (208 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Oct-23-09 04:32 AM
Response to Reply #37
69. Are you the "played the black card" guy? yeah you must be
since you find it cruel and manipulative to expose racists for who they are.
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NashVegas Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Oct-23-09 01:11 PM
Response to Reply #69
91. I'm The One Who Walked Out of the Store After Telling the Manager What I Thought
And then went home to call corporate head-quarters.
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woo me with science Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Oct-23-09 08:23 AM
Response to Reply #37
78. It's cheap and exploitative television.
Why not air people's real stories, instead? This is Jerry Springer crap masquerading as social consciousness. The episode I saw did not even have very good actors and smacked of an eighth grade "social consciousness" lecture.
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Raineyb Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Oct-23-09 01:08 PM
Response to Reply #78
90. Real stories? Like the ones that are ignored on a regular basis even on a board
with people who are supposed to be liberal?

Good luck with that!
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woo me with science Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Oct-23-09 03:03 PM
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95. Ignored?
Huh?
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Raineyb Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Oct-23-09 03:06 PM
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96. Do you need a definition? I did assume you knew what the word meant. n/t
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woo me with science Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Oct-23-09 03:15 PM
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100. Wow, you are in a really bad mood.
I am just curious about all these threads that sank like stones. There is no need to be nasty; I was not nasty to you. I just would be curious to see them all.
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Raineyb Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Oct-23-09 03:31 PM
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103. I wouldn't look for threads but people tell their stories when replying
but frankly, I don't think most people are interested in them. And when they are told there's usually someone ready to tell you that what you saw you didn't see. It's insulting. Not to mention if stories are so easily dismissed out of hand when it's someone who one has had some interaction with (albeit online) I can only imagine how easily the story of some person one doesn't know at all would be.
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woo me with science Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Oct-23-09 03:41 PM
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104. My experience of DU has always been the opposite.
I think most people here are very sensitive to and concerned about racial issues. In fact, in my experience it is one of the few places you can come where that is fairly consistently the case.

You have a point about the fact that there will always be doubters and minimizers. However, I think you open yourself up to those kinds of responses even more when you STAGE a situation outright. Anyone who already has difficulty believing this stuff goes on is going to ask why you couldn't focus your show on a real event, instead of making one up.


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noiretextatique Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Oct-23-09 04:33 PM
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108. DU has its share of apologists
Edited on Fri Oct-23-09 04:36 PM by noiretextatique
and even racists. i loved this show. people will lie and pretend they are one way, but shows like this reveal their true colors, so to speak. see how fast the "black card" guy changed his tune when the host told him it was staged? i doubt that guy is a racist, but he was sure willing to play along with that racist situation...until he was busted. he was embarrassed by his comment, AFTER he found out it was a staged event. i think it was a lesson he needed to learn, and i hope he learned it.
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Raineyb Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Oct-25-09 02:13 PM
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129. When it comes to race I don't find that to be quite so true.
I'll give it to you on other subjects though.
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NashVegas Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Oct-23-09 04:55 PM
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110. It's Sad People Don't Want To See It
They look at the woman in tears and go, "ah, see, she's upset by racism. She must be a nice person." And they don't give a crap that she got yanked around in order to feed *their* need for outrage and justice.

How many people writing about what an ass the 'black card' guy is would ever have the backbone to confront him on their own, without a TV crew for back-up?
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ZombieHorde Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Oct-22-09 02:51 AM
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24. Interesting. I have been followed in a store. K&R&nt
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Number23 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Oct-22-09 02:53 AM
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25. God bless that woman in red. A HUMAN BEING who was able to put herself in someone else's shoes
Edited on Thu Oct-22-09 02:58 AM by Number23
Screw every piece of shit in this video that sat by and did NOTHING while that woman was humiliated. Hugs to everyone who stood up for her.

Welcome to the new improved, post-racial America, everyone! I'm so mad after watching that and knowing that this type of thing has happened to so many people that I know I'm about ready to cry myself.
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noiretextatique Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Oct-22-09 12:23 PM
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27. i totally agree
besides that beautiful woman who cried, the people who were most vocal in their defense of the black shopper (besides the people of color) weren't americans :puke: this is how and why racism continues to work: most people won't say or do anything to stop it.
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Karenina Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Oct-22-09 07:15 PM
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36. What brought me to tears
was the actress hugging the woman who reacted saying, "Thank you."
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Number23 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Oct-22-09 10:22 PM
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47. Oh, that made me cry too! But everything makes me cry nowadays
Damn hormones. :)
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Karenina Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Oct-24-09 02:53 PM
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127. Na, Du!
:hug:
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noiretextatique Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Oct-22-09 12:26 PM
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28. the title is a bit misleading
most of the white shoppers did absolutely nothing. it was great that the two british (i think) women intervened, but the bottom line is: only 20 out of 100 people actually did or said anything. this is one of the reasons racism works: people just go along with it.
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Liberal_in_LA Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Oct-22-09 02:46 PM
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33. I guess I was so happy about those who reacted I got carried away with the title
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noiretextatique Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Oct-22-09 05:32 PM
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34. did you notice the two women who really helped her weren't american?
that's the thing that stuck me as interesting.
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Liberal_in_LA Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Oct-22-09 07:34 PM
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38. It didn't occur to me. Glad SOMEONE helped.
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Raineyb Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Oct-22-09 10:11 PM
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45. I noticed that. Funny isn't it?
I can't imagine why that would be.
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Art_from_Ark Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Oct-22-09 11:18 PM
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55. I can imagine why that might be
Locals would probably be more jaded since they may be used to that sort of thing as just another part of Life in the Big City. Foreign visitors who are not used to it, on the other hand, may be more inclined to intervene. I had a similar experience in Japan.
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LisaL Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Oct-22-09 11:55 PM
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60. Oh maybe locals figured out this was staged.
Edited on Thu Oct-22-09 11:56 PM by LisaL
At least some of them.
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Art_from_Ark Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Oct-23-09 12:22 AM
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62. A very distinct possibility, I would say.
The foreign visitors might not be aware of the possibility being unwittingly caught up in a modern-day "Candid Camera" event.

But New Yorkers can also be a jaded bunch. One of my most memorable experiences of the Big Apple was of two cars waiting at a traffic light. The light turned green, but the car in front just stayed there, and the light turned red again without anyone proceeding through the intersection. Again, the light turned green, and again the car in front did nothing. The guy in back was growing impatient, and started honking his horn, whereby the guy in front, rather than proceed through the intersection, got out of his car and walked to the other car, shouting obscenities the whole time. And the people around there were just going about their business, like nothing unusual was happening.
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Raineyb Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Oct-23-09 04:05 AM
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66. I doubt that they figured it was staged. Jaded or no.
And I see no reason to stand about like some lookie-loo over someone getting out of their car to shout obscenities at some asshat who doesn't move when the light turns green. Who's going to stop what they're doing over some driving altercation?
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Raineyb Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Oct-23-09 03:59 AM
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64. That was sacrasm
I know exactly why it is.
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noiretextatique Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Oct-23-09 04:28 PM
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107. i do too
and so do all the people who are making excuses for the locals. business as usual.
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slipslidingaway Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Oct-22-09 10:24 PM
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48. Yes, very interesting...
Edited on Thu Oct-22-09 10:25 PM by slipslidingaway
probably goes along with health care for all.

:)



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Alcibiades Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Oct-22-09 10:52 PM
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53. Wasn't this in NYC?
Foreigners shopping at upscale boutiques in NYC. Probably a big part of their clientele, especially with the dollar the way it is.

Anyway, that one woman sounded central European to me, maybe one of the German-speaking countries. The two British ladies at the beginning did nothing.
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MellowDem Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Oct-22-09 09:36 PM
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43. The truth is...
most people do nothing at all whatever the situation is. This show is fucking idiotic and you really can't "read" society by it. Studies have already shown that few people will react to many things that are socially unacceptable out in public, not just racism.
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Raineyb Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Oct-23-09 04:01 AM
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65. That is the point of the demonstration. To show that most people don't do anything
A good number of us were well aware of this fact, but we're not listened to in this country.
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LisaL Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Oct-23-09 10:08 PM
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117. They already know most people don't do anything,
whatever the situation is. This has been shown over and over again.
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Raineyb Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Oct-24-09 01:30 AM
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119. And yet we have people declaring racism over as though the opposite is true
I prefer having the tape out there to remind people of their true colors than to not have it out there and pretend otherwise.

I have no idea why this outing makes you uncomfortable. Were you on the tape or something?
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HipChick Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Oct-22-09 12:35 PM
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31. Shopping While Muslim..

They did one on Muslim women too..

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=g3jZjm8xMwg
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MadMaddie Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Oct-22-09 07:47 PM
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39. I have had it happen to me but it is more subtle
I will walk in with my partner who is white and they watch her walk off but they seem to congregate around me, now yes they ask am I finding everything okay but it seems as though they rotate. So by the time I have left the store I have been approached by at least 4 different sales people.

It doesn't happen all of the time but when it does I definitily know.
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LisaL Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Oct-22-09 08:02 PM
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40. What does that proove?
Edited on Thu Oct-22-09 08:05 PM by LisaL
For instance, I am white and a salesperson followed me around the furniture store, asking if I am finding everything o'key, and when I got on the second floor of it, she followed me there too.
Since it's a furniture store, what was she thinking? It's not like I can stuff a sofa into my purse. Sometimes they just follow you around for no apparent reason.

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MadMaddie Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Oct-22-09 09:08 PM
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42. Well if they would have followed my partner around I would
have thought that it was typical behavior, however; they didn't even approach her once.

If it happened only one time in one store over the many years I have been shopping it wouldn't be a second thought. The fact is that it does happen, I don't get rowdy or anything but those stores don't get any of my hard earned money. I will spend my money where they take care of their customers.
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blondeatlast Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Oct-23-09 08:51 AM
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80. As an ex-longtime retail worker, I can say it--you were targeted. I've watched thousands of dollars
of inventory be stolen BY WHITE PREP-SCHOOL STUDENTS as part of an initiation ceremony while our ass(et) protection people were targeting black shoppers.

I warned our asset pro people that it was happening, this was over several weeks--but one day, several of the preps came in while asspro were watching a black woman with a teenage daughter--and the preps tried to take several pieces of Ralph Lauren goods. I followed the preps out after alerting asset protection and actually following the girls, rather loudly saying to them--"I'll be happy to wrap up your sale at this (the hosiery) register now." Other store personnel got what I was saying as did other customers, but those spoiled brats got out the door where another employee (not asset pro) stopped them.

I got a nice bonus of 10% of the recovery--$175. And the asset pro super got another job...
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Liberal_in_LA Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Oct-23-09 03:11 PM
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98. nice job
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MadMaddie Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Oct-23-09 09:06 PM
Response to Reply #80
116. Good Job! That was my point the perception portrayed
by the media (sadly) is that only dark skinned people commit these crimes. Meanwhile millions of dollars walk out the door....
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Number23 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Oct-22-09 10:21 PM
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46. "Sometimes they just follow you around for no apparent reason."
And sometimes they follow you around because you have melanin. Is that something that you find uncomfortable accepting as truth?
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marmar Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Oct-22-09 10:26 PM
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49. "Is that something that you find uncomfortable accepting as truth?"
I swear some people would rather believe in Big Foot and the Loch Ness Monster than accept the existence of rather obvious racism.
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Number23 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Oct-22-09 10:34 PM
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50. Boggles the mind, doesn't it??? It's like "umm, where you been for the last 400 years??"
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LisaL Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Oct-24-09 11:34 AM
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126. Where have you been for the last 400 years?
How old are you, by the way, if you have been around for the last 400 years?
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Raineyb Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Oct-25-09 07:29 PM
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130. Perhaps putting it this way will help
Did you pay attention when they taught history in school and covered the last 400 years?

You're not anywhere near as amusing as you seem to think you are.
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Raineyb Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Oct-23-09 04:06 AM
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67. I'm guessing the answer is yes. It seems like the same line of thinking
that makes making the accusation of being racist worse than actually BEING a racist.

:shrug:
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blondeatlast Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Oct-23-09 08:59 AM
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82. Dad-DING! Truth. nt
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CBR Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Oct-23-09 03:27 PM
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101. Rainey, you are exactly right. It drives me crazy. It is NEVER
that the person is racist -- NEVER. There is always another reason. Ugh...
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Number23 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Oct-23-09 06:53 PM
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115. Girl, you know it.
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blondeatlast Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Oct-23-09 08:58 AM
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81. Ex-high end retail here; and you are exactly right. It was SOP where I worked--
and our asset pro people let thousands of dollars disappear while I witnessed and reported on numerous white people shoplifting while they insisted on following the richer in melanin crowd.

And it happened time and time again. :mad: Bad enough that it was in-your-face racism, I also missed out on a hefty bonus given for catching shoplifters. To this day, I can still see it happening in higher-end stores and it burns me up. If I see it, I leave.

FWIW, I'm as white as a lily.
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Barack_America Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Oct-23-09 08:31 AM
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79. I've experienced it as a white woman.
Being treated differently (and better) than my fellow black customers.

Nothing ever so egregious as this video, thank God, but I have experienced it. Greetings and smiles for me, squinted and suspicious eyes for black shoppers. I almost wish that I had been a part of this experiment. This incident was so obvious that it might have given me the chance to unload some feelings about this that have been building up for a while. I doubt it would have been fit for TV, however.
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blondeatlast Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Oct-23-09 11:27 AM
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88. My soon-to-be-ex husband is Indian and we got the same.
I used to love the reaction we got when I'd cozy up to him as he was checking out.

Maybe "love" isn't the word, but I did get some satisfaction in the embarrassment so many felt.
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arthritisR_US Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Oct-22-09 10:45 PM
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51. great video! this is one I'm sending around. Thanks! :-) n/t
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myrna minx Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Oct-22-09 10:49 PM
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52. K&R n/t
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Alcibiades Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Oct-22-09 10:57 PM
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54. Google "Milgram experiment"
65% of participants were willing to administer an electric shock they thought might be fatal, simply because someone in authority told them it was OK. Whether it's the US committing torture, the Holocaust, or racism, we see the same result: most people will tolerate injustice, and even collaborate, so long as "an authority" says it's OK.
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ConnorMarc Donating Member (196 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Oct-22-09 11:45 PM
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57. Very Interesting
As a black person I know all to well of "Shopping While Black"

Best believe that "Driving While Black" exists as well and is often worse than that.

About the woman that started crying...imagine what its like to be going through this...time and time and time again.

BTW, I used to live in NYC and used to shop in that area....a lot. That type of stuff is unheard of...certainly in that part of town. Maybe the Upper East and West Sides are different.
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Liberal_in_LA Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Oct-22-09 11:46 PM
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58. +1 yep
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LisaL Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Oct-22-09 11:48 PM
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59. The woman who started crying is an actress who, I presume,
Edited on Thu Oct-22-09 11:49 PM by LisaL
has been paid to start crying. Some people can't figure out that this was staged for the show, and not a real situation.

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ConnorMarc Donating Member (196 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Oct-23-09 07:40 AM
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73. What Gives You The Impression That She Was Also An Actor?
There is no evidence to support that claim?

Are you familiar with this show?

If you make this claim, then why not also make the claim that the black dude who got visibly upset and verbally chastised the clerk and the store in general for allowing that treatment as being an actor as well?

I'm sorry, but I don't see ANYTHING that even remotely supports that the crying woman was an actor.

That was how she, genuinely, reacted to witnessing that barbaric treatment.
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Forkboy Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Oct-23-09 07:59 AM
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74. The woman who was crying wasn't an actress.
Edited on Fri Oct-23-09 08:01 AM by Forkboy
Any evidence to your claim that she was paid to cry?
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Barack_America Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Oct-23-09 08:16 AM
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77. That nobody could possibly be so strongly affected by racism?
Nobody could possibly care enough to cry?

That would be my guess. Though I hope that is not what is driving LisaL's suspicion.

Personally, I think the woman was 100% genuine and, interestingly, when she started crying, the anger and rage I felt turned into sadness and I started crying too.

This thread should've come with a warning. :P
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LisaL Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Oct-23-09 09:48 AM
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84. Which woman are you talking about?
The lady who is shown humiliated in an upscale store, and starts crying, is an actress. The humiliation is staged to see what the other people would do.
I didn't notice anyone else crying when I watched the video.

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Forkboy Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Oct-23-09 10:41 AM
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87. I was speaking of the woman in red who starts crying when watching it.
She wasn't one of the ones involved in the setup.
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Gormy Cuss Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Oct-23-09 01:25 PM
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94. What video did you watch?
First one, at the link, beginning at 4:00
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LisaL Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Oct-24-09 11:24 AM
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123. I've watched it again and there were two women crying-
the main character (the actress) and someone who wasn't an actress.
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Xicano Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Oct-22-09 11:58 PM
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61. Wow! Powerful video
I am so glad to see some of the reactions from some of the other folks there.


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JNelson6563 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Oct-23-09 06:07 AM
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70. That was great!
Absolutely heartened by those who took a stand! Sadly we have a long way to go.

Julie
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theHandpuppet Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Oct-23-09 06:24 AM
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71. Incredible
Thanks so much for posting this. I'm going to share the link!
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Liberal_in_LA Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Oct-23-09 03:13 PM
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99. great!
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Barack_America Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Oct-23-09 08:09 AM
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75. The rage that I felt while watching that video tells me what I would have done.
I think.

Though it is interesting that when she was dressed up I felt more conflicted as if it would almost be improper for me to "come to her rescue" considering she might be "above" me. I feel that I probably would have, but my approach would have been less direct. I probably would have circled around the situation before jumping in.


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fascisthunter Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Oct-23-09 09:19 AM
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83. That was Awesome and Should get more attention
This shit happens all the time! You have to blind not to see it.
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Echo In Light Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Oct-23-09 10:08 AM
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86. Outta sight
Error: you can only recommend threads which were started in the past 24 hours
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lefty2000 Donating Member (151 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Oct-23-09 01:20 PM
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93. I would not want to be experimented upon
like a rat in a maze.

It is fake news.
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bamacrat Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Oct-23-09 03:29 PM
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102. Im sure Faux would call this liberal gotcha journalism, yet praise the ACORN video.
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ConnorMarc Donating Member (196 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Oct-23-09 03:46 PM
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105. +1
Don't get me started on The ClusterFOX.
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LisaL Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Oct-24-09 10:40 AM
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121. Which seems to be just the opposite of what DU would do.
I don't recall many here praising the acorn videos.
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A-Long-Little-Doggie Donating Member (895 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Oct-23-09 03:59 PM
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106. I was followed around a store for "shopping while poor"
We were camping and it was raining, and any of you who have camped in the rain know what we looked like. We all had raincoats on and our hair was wet and we must have looked like we were living in our car or something. Anyway, we went to an Ames store in New Hampshire to get some water shoes for the kids. We were followed around the store the entire time we were there. I was really confused why they were doing this to us, but we bought like $10 worth of stuff after they followed us to the registers. It took awhile for me to figure out why we were followed, as this had never happened to me before. And I have to tell you it was one of the most uncomfortable things that had ever happened to me. And then, when I figured out what happened, I got really pissed.

A very eye-opening experience -- I can't even imagine how humiliating it would be to go through that all the time.

Good news - Ames is out of business! Not that I was ever going to go into an Ames again.

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Oak2004 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Oct-23-09 05:11 PM
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111. I know a sure-fire way to never, ever, get followed in stores (or for that matter, get any service)
Be a wheelchair user.

Eight years ago I transitioned from being ambulatory to using a wheelchair, and discovered the real magic of wheelchairs was their ability to make one invisible. If I want to ask questions, or see something from behind a counter, well... there's always online shopping. Or I can bring an aide -- store clerks will talk to my aides about items that I am interested in, while completely ignoring me. If I'm waiting in line, I'll be skipped over, and the person behind me will be served, unless I complain too loudly to be ignored.

All things considered I'll take being ignored over being profiled. Racism remains America's #1 original sin. But discrimination of every flavor sucks.

(Note: I am melanin impaired. Persons with more abundant melanin may find that wheelchairs do not impart invisibility, but merely make them look like even more inviting targets. That is, after all, how bullies think).

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bertman Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Oct-23-09 04:41 PM
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109. Too late to recommend, but What The Fuck is wrong with those people? That shit
Edited on Fri Oct-23-09 04:44 PM by bertman
made me so angry I'm crying.

Bless those women and the other customers who walked out in defiance of that racist clerk.

It's so sad and infuriating that this could happen and does happen and more often than we probably believe.

I think that some people probably would have just watched to see how this would transpire before they would react or intervene, but it was so realistic that it's hard to imagine that someone could have just ignored what was going on and keep looking through the merchandise.



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HipChick Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Oct-23-09 05:15 PM
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112. lets not forget its a simulated scene ie acting
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bertman Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Oct-23-09 06:46 PM
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114. That's precisely why I said that some people were obviously watching to see what was
unfolding. In the clips I saw, the acting was very convincing if you could believe that some salesperson/manager could be such an offensive asshole. Fact is, some can be just that.

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LisaL Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Oct-24-09 11:28 AM
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124. The salesperson was an actress, so why wouldn't the acting
be convincing?
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Neecy Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Oct-24-09 10:51 AM
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122. Interesting video
And it's shameful that EVERYONE who witnessed this didn't confront the situation directly. Absolutely shameful.

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