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Liberal_in_LA (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-22-09 02:51 PM Original message |
Poll question: Maternity / Paternity leave for the childless? |
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GreenPartyVoter (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-22-09 02:54 PM Response to Original message |
1. So basically like a sabbatical? |
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supernova (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-22-09 02:59 PM Response to Reply #1 |
5. GMTA |
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Blue_Tires (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-22-09 02:56 PM Response to Original message |
2. hell, if childless women get the break then men should, too... |
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dana_b (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-22-09 05:06 PM Original message |
yes they should n/t |
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supernova (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-22-09 02:57 PM Response to Original message |
3. Even single women have elderly relatives |
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Oregone (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-22-09 03:02 PM Response to Reply #3 |
8. "I've never understood why that time away is limited to new babies" |
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Lance_Boyle (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-22-09 03:04 PM Response to Reply #8 |
10. Parents choose this for themselves. Their choice is no more special |
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Oregone (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-22-09 03:09 PM Response to Reply #10 |
19. Yes, their choice is much more special than yours |
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supernova (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-22-09 03:11 PM Response to Reply #19 |
23. What's it to you |
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Oregone (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-22-09 03:13 PM Response to Reply #23 |
31. Define "equally" important.... |
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noiretextatique (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-22-09 04:30 PM Response to Reply #31 |
127. cancer is equally important |
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Oregone (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-22-09 04:33 PM Response to Reply #127 |
132. So if you were able to take 6 months off for it.... (which you should at least IMO) |
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noiretextatique (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-22-09 05:25 PM Response to Reply #132 |
201. no...i think leave should be available for any purpose |
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Oregone (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-22-09 05:28 PM Response to Reply #201 |
203. And for vacation, right? |
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noiretextatique (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-22-09 05:35 PM Response to Reply #203 |
207. what is unclear? people should be able to take time off |
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Oregone (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-22-09 05:38 PM Response to Reply #207 |
210. So you are anti-Family and Medical Leave Act |
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noiretextatique (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-22-09 05:38 PM Response to Reply #203 |
211. are you having a reading comprehension problem? |
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Oregone (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-22-09 05:41 PM Response to Reply #211 |
214. Just asking for a clarification. Are you against the Family Leave Act. |
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Oregone (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-22-09 05:51 PM Response to Reply #214 |
217. crickets |
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rd_kent (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Oct-24-09 09:26 AM Response to Reply #203 |
328. WTF is your problem? |
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Oregone (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Oct-24-09 12:00 PM Response to Reply #328 |
340. Its entirely possible... |
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rd_kent (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Oct-24-09 03:26 PM Response to Reply #340 |
358. The issue I am eluding to is planning and responsibility |
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Oregone (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Oct-24-09 03:33 PM Response to Reply #358 |
363. The issue at hand is about the need of a child and mother |
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rd_kent (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Oct-25-09 04:59 PM Response to Reply #363 |
366. No, the issue is whether a personal choice should get special consideration. |
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noiretextatique (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Oct-23-09 04:15 PM Response to Reply #132 |
305. i don't agree with that opinion |
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Oregone (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Oct-23-09 04:47 PM Response to Reply #305 |
306. Both maternity leave and medical leave in the US sucks |
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dflprincess (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-22-09 09:33 PM Response to Reply #127 |
281. I've never heard of anyone in the U.S. getting more than 12 weeks off for maternity leave |
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Oregone (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-22-09 09:50 PM Response to Reply #281 |
288. US Policy: You don't get fired if you get your ass back here in time |
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amborin (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-22-09 04:50 PM Response to Reply #31 |
151. people can use 'sabbaticals' for many "helping future generations" activities, even planting trees |
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Oregone (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-22-09 04:56 PM Response to Reply #151 |
160. How many months do you need to plant trees? |
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Missy Vixen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-22-09 06:10 PM Response to Reply #160 |
221. Is the earth in "imminent danger" because you chose to have a baby? |
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Oregone (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-22-09 06:24 PM Response to Reply #221 |
225. No, the baby is |
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rd_kent (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Oct-24-09 09:30 AM Response to Reply #225 |
330. Hahahahahaha! |
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Oregone (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Oct-24-09 12:02 PM Response to Reply #330 |
341. I am pro gay marriage. And I am pro maternity/parental leave for gay parents |
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amborin (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-22-09 06:50 PM Response to Reply #221 |
236. exactly! |
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Oregone (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-22-09 06:55 PM Response to Reply #236 |
239. When did this thread became about the morality of having children? |
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amborin (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-22-09 06:57 PM Response to Reply #239 |
241. no, i'm not saying parenting in general is bad, merely rebutting your invalid response |
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Oregone (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-22-09 06:58 PM Response to Reply #241 |
243. Figs taste fruity |
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Hello_Kitty (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-22-09 08:08 PM Response to Reply #239 |
249. Why, with the world population approaching 7 billion, is parenthood still the default expectation? |
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Oregone (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-22-09 08:17 PM Response to Reply #249 |
251. Fine, you think parenthood is selfish |
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Hello_Kitty (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-22-09 08:24 PM Response to Reply #251 |
253. Because that time, as you pointed out earlier, is connected to employment |
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Oregone (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-22-09 08:28 PM Response to Reply #253 |
254. So, fuck people with families needs? Is that right? |
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Hello_Kitty (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-22-09 08:41 PM Response to Reply #254 |
257. No, actually, it's fuck people without kids. That's the way it really works. |
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Oregone (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-22-09 08:44 PM Response to Reply #257 |
258. You didn't answer the question. What is the alternative? |
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Oregone (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-22-09 09:11 PM Response to Reply #258 |
272. crickets |
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Hello_Kitty (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-22-09 09:26 PM Response to Reply #258 |
279. Actually, Oregone, my views on the matter of the OP align closely with yours |
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Oregone (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-22-09 09:35 PM Response to Reply #279 |
283. Well its seems we agree on quite a lot then |
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Bettie (774 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Oct-23-09 09:34 AM Response to Reply #258 |
299. I think the answer of the anti-child faction is far simpler |
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Hello_Kitty (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Oct-24-09 01:55 AM Response to Reply #299 |
316. So you're saying that people should be paid for their dependents and not their productivity? |
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Rage for Order (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-22-09 08:47 PM Original message |
Welcome to life |
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Oregone (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-22-09 08:50 PM Response to Original message |
262. Its not a bit really |
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Hello_Kitty (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-22-09 08:54 PM Response to Original message |
266. Typical entitled parent attitude. |
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Oregone (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-22-09 08:59 PM Response to Reply #266 |
267. "This is why we hate you" |
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Rage for Order (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-22-09 09:18 PM Response to Reply #266 |
274. LOL |
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Nye Bevan (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-22-09 09:21 PM Response to Reply #257 |
276. Our kids will be paying for your Social Security when you retire. |
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Hello_Kitty (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-22-09 09:34 PM Response to Reply #276 |
282. Oh brother. |
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Oregone (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-22-09 09:43 PM Response to Reply #282 |
285. "economic model predicated on endless population growth" |
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GreenPartyVoter (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Oct-23-09 11:40 PM Response to Reply #257 |
315. I think that is horrible. I know what you are talking about because we did start |
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Lance_Boyle (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Oct-24-09 11:08 AM Response to Reply #254 |
337. You CHOSE the 'obligations,' dude - quit whining about it |
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Oregone (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Oct-24-09 12:04 PM Response to Reply #337 |
342. And you choose to be an American, so stop whining period about everything |
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PassingFair (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Oct-24-09 12:06 PM Response to Reply #253 |
343. It's not selfish, its a biological imperative. |
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rd_kent (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Oct-24-09 09:32 AM Response to Reply #239 |
331. It bacame about MORALITY when you made it about MORALITY. |
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rd_kent (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Oct-24-09 09:28 AM Response to Reply #160 |
329. Ahh, I see! So no you also get to decide what is MORE important and how long one needs |
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Oregone (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Oct-24-09 12:07 PM Response to Reply #329 |
344. And you sir are just angry, bitter and jealous that babies get a few weeks of care |
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debbierlus (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Oct-24-09 03:39 PM Response to Reply #151 |
365. Yes. People without circumstances that allow them to take time off shouldn't have children... |
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rd_kent (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-22-09 05:21 PM Response to Reply #31 |
194. Thats a bunk argument |
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Oregone (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-22-09 05:24 PM Response to Reply #194 |
199. No, it is important, period, to society |
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amborin (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-22-09 06:51 PM Response to Reply #199 |
237. that's your opinion, society is just fine without everyone who |
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Oregone (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-22-09 06:57 PM Response to Reply #237 |
240. Not in 100 years it isn't |
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rd_kent (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Oct-23-09 08:14 PM Response to Reply #199 |
309. Thats your opinion. Why do YOU get to decide what is important or not? |
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GreenPartyVoter (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-22-09 03:15 PM Response to Reply #23 |
33. Ok. Here is the problem. It's being treated like it's vacation time. It is not a vacation at all. It |
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supernova (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-22-09 03:22 PM Response to Reply #33 |
49. There is no anti child sentiment here |
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GreenPartyVoter (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-22-09 03:28 PM Response to Reply #49 |
53. I agree. Call it a sabbatical. My feeling is the main reason we are seeing |
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supernova (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-22-09 03:35 PM Response to Reply #53 |
64. I totally agree with that |
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GreenPartyVoter (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-22-09 03:36 PM Response to Reply #64 |
66. *high five* for us reaching a consensus in a grown-up manner. LOL |
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supernova (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-22-09 03:44 PM Response to Reply #66 |
74. Nice work! |
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Oregone (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-22-09 03:31 PM Response to Reply #49 |
58. So you want to drink and sit on your couch in the name of fairness because some lucky bastards... |
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supernova (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-22-09 03:33 PM Response to Reply #58 |
63. Where have I advocated |
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Oregone (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-22-09 03:36 PM Response to Reply #63 |
67. I think it was some other poster here who wanted vacations for all |
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Romulox (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-22-09 03:48 PM Response to Reply #58 |
78. It's your choice to have a child. It's not fair to hold it against an unrelated third party... nt |
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Oregone (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-22-09 03:53 PM Response to Reply #78 |
85. Maternity care isn't about rewarding choice. It isn't about a flowery vacation for the mom |
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Romulox (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-22-09 04:16 PM Response to Reply #85 |
105. I agree with that, and support Maternity Leave for both parents for that reason. nt |
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supernova (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-22-09 04:19 PM Response to Reply #105 |
109. Yep, same here |
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Oregone (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-22-09 04:23 PM Response to Reply #109 |
115. They have that here |
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GreenPartyVoter (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Oct-23-09 10:02 PM Response to Reply #109 |
311. Now that is awesome. :^) |
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Romulox (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-22-09 04:22 PM Response to Reply #85 |
112. Congratulations, by the way! nt |
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Oregone (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-22-09 04:23 PM Response to Reply #112 |
116. Haha. Thanks |
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amborin (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-22-09 04:55 PM Response to Reply #58 |
157. you |
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Oregone (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-22-09 05:04 PM Response to Reply #157 |
169. Yes, Im a parent |
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amborin (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-22-09 05:11 PM Response to Reply #169 |
180. i disagree strongly |
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Oregone (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-22-09 05:13 PM Response to Reply #180 |
185. Of course I am overwhelmed. |
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Missy Vixen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-22-09 06:14 PM Response to Reply #169 |
222. I beg to differ |
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Oregone (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-22-09 06:22 PM Response to Reply #222 |
224. While I agree that this profession provides a valuable insight |
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Missy Vixen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-22-09 06:32 PM Response to Reply #224 |
230. You don't get it. You never will. |
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Oregone (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-22-09 06:35 PM Response to Reply #230 |
231. No. Explain it to me. You want standard vacations for everyone? |
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Bettie (774 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Oct-23-09 09:43 AM Response to Reply #157 |
300. The first few months are very hard |
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rd_kent (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Oct-24-09 09:34 AM Response to Reply #58 |
332. OK, you win. We will NOT allow leave to just go sit on the couch and drink. |
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Oregone (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Oct-24-09 12:10 PM Response to Reply #332 |
345. Everyone needs more vacation, and everyone still needs need-based leave |
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rd_kent (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-22-09 05:22 PM Response to Reply #33 |
197. Its not a medical condition, its a choice! |
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Oregone (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-22-09 05:28 PM Response to Reply #197 |
202. A portion of my wife's maternity is "Medical" officially |
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GreenPartyVoter (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Oct-23-09 12:54 PM Response to Reply #197 |
304. Given that I had high blood pressure brought on by being pregnant and |
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rd_kent (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Oct-23-09 08:11 PM Response to Reply #304 |
308. Your anecdotal story is the exception, not the rule. |
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GreenPartyVoter (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Oct-23-09 09:57 PM Response to Reply #308 |
310. Yes, the same sabbatical should be made available to all employees, plus |
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rd_kent (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Oct-23-09 10:24 PM Response to Reply #310 |
312. Please don't try and put words in my mouth. |
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GreenPartyVoter (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Oct-23-09 11:26 PM Response to Reply #312 |
313. Look, I think it is pretty clear here that we have drawn our lines in the sand. Me with |
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rd_kent (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Oct-24-09 09:15 AM Response to Reply #313 |
325. Nah, you just want to be obtuse about it. |
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GreenPartyVoter (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Oct-24-09 10:42 AM Response to Reply #325 |
336. Here are some other voluntary medical conditions |
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rd_kent (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Oct-24-09 11:39 AM Response to Reply #336 |
338. No, they are not. |
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GreenPartyVoter (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Oct-24-09 11:55 AM Response to Reply #338 |
339. Yes, they are two different things, as should any caregiver leave be whether it is for |
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rd_kent (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Oct-24-09 03:13 PM Response to Reply #339 |
354. Caregiver is a different category as well. |
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GreenPartyVoter (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Oct-24-09 03:20 PM Response to Reply #354 |
355. Yes, I hear what you are saying. :^) I am sure there are ways to make |
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Hello_Kitty (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-22-09 03:37 PM Response to Reply #19 |
68. Who was opposing maternity leave? No one. |
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Oregone (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-22-09 03:39 PM Response to Reply #68 |
70. And who was opposing sabbaticals? |
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amborin (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-22-09 04:51 PM Response to Reply #19 |
155. why did they choose to have the child if they weren't sure they could nurture it properly? |
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Oregone (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-22-09 04:58 PM Response to Reply #155 |
163. They are sure. They have maternity leave! |
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amborin (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-22-09 05:05 PM Response to Reply #163 |
171. i'm following; i think everyone should have the sabbatical option |
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Oregone (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-22-09 05:07 PM Response to Reply #171 |
175. In that scenario, only the childless get a vacation |
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rd_kent (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Oct-24-09 09:22 AM Response to Reply #19 |
326. All of this is YOUR OPINION! |
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Oregone (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Oct-24-09 12:17 PM Response to Reply #326 |
346. You keep saying equal, equal, equal |
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rd_kent (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Oct-24-09 03:24 PM Response to Reply #346 |
357. We are talking about pregnancy, and the choice to have a child. |
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Oregone (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Oct-24-09 03:31 PM Response to Reply #357 |
362. Wrong. We are talking about need-based leave for two people simultaneously |
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Bettie (774 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Oct-23-09 09:24 AM Response to Reply #10 |
298. So, women should just drop the baby and head back into the office? |
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debbierlus (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Oct-24-09 03:31 PM Response to Reply #10 |
361. You think time off to care for a new child is the same as time off to fuck around? |
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supernova (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-22-09 03:08 PM Response to Reply #8 |
18. You're missing my point |
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Oregone (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-22-09 03:11 PM Response to Reply #18 |
22. "Dealing with an adult who is gravely or chronically ill is just as worthy of time off from work" |
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supernova (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-22-09 03:12 PM Response to Reply #22 |
28. You clearly haven't lived long enough |
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Oregone (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-22-09 03:16 PM Response to Reply #28 |
35. Mind of a three-year old? |
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GreenPartyVoter (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-22-09 03:20 PM Response to Reply #35 |
43. Actually, a 3 yo mind in a very strong body is not good. My grandfather |
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Oregone (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-22-09 03:22 PM Response to Reply #43 |
50. "odds are you are happy that you have it" |
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GreenPartyVoter (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-22-09 03:31 PM Response to Reply #50 |
59. Well, I did call my mother at work once to freak out over my kid not letting me sleep for a few |
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Lydia Leftcoast (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-22-09 03:22 PM Response to Reply #35 |
48. Obviously you've never seen day-to-day care of an elderly relative up close |
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Oregone (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-22-09 03:26 PM Response to Reply #48 |
52. Have you seen the day-to-day care of a newborn close up? |
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amborin (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-22-09 04:59 PM Response to Reply #52 |
164. ever care for an incontinent cancer patient? in agony, constant meds, pain, stress, grief, drs appts |
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Oregone (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-22-09 05:05 PM Response to Reply #164 |
172. Have you ever posed a redundant question? |
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amborin (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-22-09 05:06 PM Response to Reply #172 |
173. how is it redundant? it's not redundant; but you did not answer it, probably the ans is NO |
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Oregone (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-22-09 05:08 PM Response to Reply #173 |
176. ditto |
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supernova (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-22-09 05:08 PM Response to Reply #164 |
177. No, he hasn't |
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Oregone (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-22-09 05:08 PM Response to Reply #177 |
178. Cept, eh, I just went through that.... |
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supernova (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-22-09 05:12 PM Response to Reply #178 |
183. You don't act |
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amborin (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-22-09 05:12 PM Response to Reply #177 |
182. they're not, he clearly has no clue |
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Oregone (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-22-09 05:14 PM Response to Reply #182 |
187. Have you done anything here besides constructed ad hominem attacks? |
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supernova (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-22-09 05:19 PM Original message |
You're acting |
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Oregone (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-22-09 05:20 PM Response to Original message |
193. Plato was a bore |
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supernova (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-22-09 05:24 PM Response to Reply #193 |
200. And Socrates |
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Lydia Leftcoast (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-22-09 06:53 PM Response to Reply #52 |
238. Yes, I have seen the care of a newborn baby close-up |
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Oregone (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-22-09 06:58 PM Response to Reply #238 |
242. Anyone can pro-create...its actually fun. |
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Lydia Leftcoast (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-22-09 07:08 PM Response to Reply #242 |
245. Yes, and through much of history |
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Oregone (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-22-09 07:10 PM Response to Reply #245 |
246. So, just to be clear, that's what you advocate? |
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amborin (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-22-09 05:14 PM Response to Reply #48 |
186. they are easier |
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Oregone (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-22-09 05:18 PM Response to Reply #186 |
190. Well, since its so tough, Im glad the Family Leave Act lets you take time to do this |
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amborin (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-22-09 04:58 PM Response to Reply #35 |
162. again, if the situation is so stressful for these parents you describe |
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Oregone (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-22-09 05:06 PM Response to Reply #162 |
174. Waiting delays the experience |
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amborin (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-22-09 05:17 PM Response to Reply #174 |
188. you should have waited, til you were more mature, and better prepared; but you wanted it all right |
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Oregone (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-22-09 05:19 PM Response to Reply #188 |
192. Im glad you are qualified enough to judge my maturity and parenting skills |
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eleny (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-22-09 03:16 PM Response to Reply #22 |
34. I got time off to take care of my elderly, disabled parents |
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Oregone (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-22-09 03:19 PM Response to Reply #34 |
42. No, that time off is plenty fine by me |
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CrawlingChaos (583 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Oct-24-09 03:21 AM Response to Reply #42 |
321. What absolute horseshit |
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Oregone (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Oct-24-09 12:24 PM Response to Reply #321 |
348. The thing is... |
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Romulox (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-22-09 03:51 PM Response to Reply #22 |
83. When do they hold the "taking care of a baby vs. taking care of the elderly" Olympics? |
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Oregone (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-22-09 03:56 PM Response to Reply #83 |
87. Had I brought the subject up, Id be in a better position to answer that |
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supernova (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-22-09 04:00 PM Response to Reply #87 |
92. Oregone, we get it |
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Oregone (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-22-09 04:07 PM Response to Reply #92 |
97. Patronizing is also quite sweet, but rather ineffective at proving any point. |
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supernova (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-22-09 04:15 PM Response to Reply #97 |
104. Once again, I'm not talking about vacation |
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Oregone (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-22-09 04:21 PM Response to Reply #104 |
111. "Babies are wonderful" |
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supernova (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-22-09 04:24 PM Response to Reply #111 |
118. lol. And they eventually grow |
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Oregone (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-22-09 04:27 PM Response to Reply #118 |
121. Into screaming 3 year olds who wont take a nap |
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supernova (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-22-09 04:39 PM Response to Reply #121 |
141. You're letting a 3 year old best you? |
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Oregone (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-22-09 04:44 PM Response to Reply #141 |
144. No |
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amborin (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-22-09 05:01 PM Response to Reply #111 |
167. you should have taken some |
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Oregone (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-22-09 05:11 PM Response to Reply #167 |
179. "not all parents are this stressed and negative" |
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supernova (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-22-09 03:56 PM Response to Reply #83 |
88. Because he's whacked out on no sleep |
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Oregone (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-22-09 03:59 PM Response to Reply #88 |
90. If Ill be able to sleep more then, maybe I will get it |
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Scout (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-22-09 04:01 PM Response to Reply #22 |
93. my, my, my, don't we have large sense of self-importance and entitlement n/t |
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Hello_Kitty (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-22-09 05:00 PM Response to Reply #93 |
165. Not to mention the martyr complex |
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Oregone (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-22-09 05:11 PM Response to Reply #165 |
181. Thats why we make foil balloons |
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Hello_Kitty (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-22-09 05:31 PM Response to Reply #181 |
205. Speaking of Balloon Boy's parents: |
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Oregone (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-22-09 05:37 PM Response to Reply #205 |
208. But thats just the same logical fallacy that the "Welfare Queens argument" operates on |
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mitchum (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-22-09 04:16 PM Response to Reply #22 |
106. No one CHOOSES for an adult to be gravely or chronically ill... |
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Oregone (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-22-09 04:26 PM Response to Reply #106 |
119. No. Not having an abortion was the "choice" |
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mitchum (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-22-09 04:31 PM Response to Reply #119 |
129. Just as you chose to endure all of the travails of reproducing |
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Oregone (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-22-09 04:35 PM Response to Reply #129 |
134. We should of used the abstinence first program |
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mitchum (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-22-09 04:38 PM Response to Reply #134 |
140. I think the "greedy breeders" have already been fucking, haven't they? |
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amborin (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-22-09 04:56 PM Response to Reply #22 |
159. it certainly is |
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Nederland (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-22-09 04:08 PM Response to Reply #18 |
98. A Cold Hearted Response |
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supernova (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-22-09 04:11 PM Response to Reply #98 |
99. You're right, |
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Oregone (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-22-09 04:14 PM Response to Reply #99 |
103. No. |
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supernova (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-22-09 04:17 PM Response to Reply #103 |
108. That would be true |
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Oregone (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-22-09 04:36 PM Response to Reply #108 |
137. Doesn't sound like those type need sabbaticals though |
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mitchum (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-22-09 04:28 PM Response to Reply #103 |
123. Is that like the "Come Glory in That Which is an Extension of...Me!!!" pleasure center... |
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Oregone (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-22-09 04:36 PM Response to Reply #123 |
138. I don't think most parents get to stimulate that for YEARS after maternity leave is over |
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Nederland (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-22-09 04:20 PM Response to Reply #99 |
110. No |
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supernova (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-22-09 04:26 PM Response to Reply #110 |
120. Look, the last thing I want |
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Oregone (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-22-09 04:44 PM Response to Reply #120 |
143. With all due respect, about the "BEST" thing |
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supernova (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-22-09 05:37 PM Response to Reply #143 |
209. "(which we try to transcend in modern times where applicable)" |
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Oregone (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-22-09 05:40 PM Response to Reply #209 |
212. No. I think the time of life should be legislated to 21 years in a perfect Utopia |
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supernova (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-22-09 05:42 PM Response to Reply #212 |
215. .. |
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Nederland (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-22-09 06:48 PM Response to Reply #120 |
234. Of course you don't... |
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supernova (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-22-09 08:48 PM Response to Reply #234 |
261. Haha. You've passed |
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Lance_Boyle (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Oct-23-09 09:45 AM Response to Reply #110 |
301. What about the people who care for retarded children |
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Oregone (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-22-09 04:12 PM Response to Reply #98 |
101. Something Ive hinted out |
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mitchum (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-22-09 04:22 PM Response to Reply #98 |
113. But what if that child grows up to be a psychopathic killer? |
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Oregone (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-22-09 04:29 PM Response to Reply #113 |
124. Law of Averages |
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hileeopnyn8d (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-22-09 04:29 PM Response to Reply #98 |
126. What if they don't grow up to pay taxes? |
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Oregone (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-22-09 04:47 PM Response to Reply #126 |
147. On average, most will. |
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Hello_Kitty (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-22-09 04:31 PM Response to Reply #98 |
130. How do you know what a child will grow up to do? |
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mitchum (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-22-09 04:33 PM Response to Reply #130 |
131. Absolutely (n/t) |
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Oregone (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-22-09 04:46 PM Response to Reply #130 |
145. Who is suppossed to take care of the elderly person? |
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Nederland (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-22-09 05:01 PM Response to Reply #130 |
166. See posts 124 & 147 (nt) |
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JVS (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Oct-24-09 03:14 AM Response to Reply #98 |
320. "contribute to society" also means "consume a lot of resources and fuck up the planet" |
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Oregone (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Oct-24-09 12:27 PM Response to Reply #320 |
349. Well, we could adopt China's birth policies |
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CrawlingChaos (583 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Oct-24-09 04:12 AM Response to Reply #98 |
324. Disturbing response |
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SidneyCarton (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-22-09 04:51 PM Response to Reply #18 |
153. You raise a valid point, and I certainly think that a situation such as the one you describe |
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treestar (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-22-09 04:24 PM Response to Reply #8 |
117. You don't want to oversell that point |
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Oregone (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-22-09 04:30 PM Response to Reply #117 |
128. Women aren't weaker. Men would have as tough of a time facing all that the same way |
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rd_kent (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-22-09 05:19 PM Response to Reply #8 |
191. But that is a CHOICE! |
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Oregone (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-22-09 05:22 PM Response to Reply #191 |
196. And in the interests of that baby... |
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undeterred (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-22-09 03:05 PM Response to Reply #3 |
13. And dogs. |
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Oregone (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-22-09 03:20 PM Response to Reply #13 |
45. Even a new computer needs some devotion |
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undeterred (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-22-09 03:21 PM Response to Reply #45 |
47. Or a new houseplant... |
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ourbluenation (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-22-09 04:38 PM Response to Reply #3 |
139. The Family Leave Act includes caring for elderly family members. n/t |
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hileeopnyn8d (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-22-09 06:02 PM Response to Reply #139 |
219. Not really |
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Oregone (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-22-09 06:05 PM Response to Reply #219 |
220. Its something that should be fixed |
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hileeopnyn8d (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-22-09 06:22 PM Response to Reply #220 |
223. The OP isn't even about this country. |
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Oregone (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-22-09 06:28 PM Response to Reply #223 |
227. I don't even live in "this" country either |
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hileeopnyn8d (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-22-09 06:30 PM Response to Reply #227 |
229. Well, it's a good thing I didn't state that then. n/t |
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Oregone (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-22-09 02:57 PM Response to Original message |
4. Why? |
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kiva (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-22-09 04:06 PM Response to Reply #4 |
96. I'm sorry that your wife has apparently had mega complications. |
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Oregone (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-22-09 04:17 PM Response to Reply #96 |
107. My wife had an incredibly healthy pregnancy, a complicated free delivery, and a "normal" post natal |
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kiva (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-22-09 04:23 PM Response to Reply #107 |
114. OK. |
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Oregone (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-22-09 04:51 PM Response to Reply #114 |
152. Yes, I favor both |
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gratuitous (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-22-09 03:01 PM Response to Original message |
6. And showers! I want showers with LOTS of gifts |
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Xithras (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-22-09 03:01 PM Response to Original message |
7. No, for two simple reasons. |
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brendan120678 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-22-09 03:04 PM Response to Reply #7 |
11. +1! If I could recommend your reply directly, I would. |
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GreenPartyVoter (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-22-09 03:12 PM Response to Reply #7 |
27. Exactly. Maternity leave is no vacation. There's no lounging. No sleeping in. There is |
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dysfunctional press (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-22-09 04:51 PM Response to Reply #27 |
154. and it's also a choice. |
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GreenPartyVoter (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-22-09 05:05 PM Response to Reply #154 |
170. My second child was an Oops. Still a choice? Either way, it still doesn't matter if it's a choice, |
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dysfunctional press (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-22-09 05:22 PM Response to Reply #170 |
198. yes- it's still a choice. |
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GreenPartyVoter (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-22-09 05:34 PM Response to Reply #198 |
206. But you can pull the plug on someone who recklessly rode a motorcycle or |
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dysfunctional press (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-22-09 08:41 PM Response to Reply #206 |
256. there are plenty of people who'd like the time off to get their own businesses going, for one... |
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GreenPartyVoter (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Oct-23-09 12:36 PM Response to Reply #256 |
303. Sorry. Kids are not a hobby. Leave maternity leave as a medical leave and |
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rd_kent (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Oct-24-09 09:42 AM Response to Reply #170 |
334. There is no such thing as an oops. Its called a lack of planning and protection. |
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Oregone (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Oct-24-09 12:44 PM Response to Reply #334 |
351. Same thing about poor people |
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rd_kent (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Oct-24-09 03:22 PM Response to Reply #351 |
356. You make that corollary, not me. |
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Oregone (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Oct-24-09 03:27 PM Response to Reply #356 |
359. Have you ever met a fetus that made a choice to be born? |
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rd_kent (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Oct-24-09 03:29 PM Response to Reply #359 |
360. Its not a red herring, its the POINT. |
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Oregone (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Oct-24-09 03:35 PM Response to Reply #360 |
364. If your point is that choices negates the neccessity of need-based socia policy |
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rd_kent (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Oct-24-09 09:39 AM Response to Reply #27 |
333. But thats not always true. We are not exhausted, get plenty of sleep, and are having a great time |
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Oregone (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Oct-24-09 12:47 PM Response to Reply #333 |
352. "Yours is not what everyone experiences. " |
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Hello_Kitty (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-22-09 03:25 PM Response to Reply #7 |
51. At my last job with a big company, I knew 3 women who milked the system. |
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Oregone (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-22-09 03:42 PM Response to Reply #51 |
73. Itd be better if it was a national system in the US tied to unemployement |
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GreenPartyVoter (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Oct-23-09 11:31 PM Response to Reply #51 |
314. As a parent, I would resent that as well. A) for making the rest of us look bad, and B) because if |
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EndersDame (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-22-09 04:36 PM Response to Reply #7 |
135. What about paid time off to take care of elderly parents or sick siblings |
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dysfunctional press (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-22-09 04:49 PM Response to Reply #7 |
149. if maternity leave is "about the child"- shouldn't it last 18 years? |
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Oregone (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-22-09 04:54 PM Response to Reply #149 |
156. The child doesn't become less important. Their critical needs diminish |
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dysfunctional press (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-22-09 05:03 PM Response to Reply #156 |
168. at what point? |
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Oregone (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-22-09 06:46 PM Response to Reply #168 |
233. At all different points gradually |
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dysfunctional press (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-22-09 08:47 PM Response to Reply #233 |
260. "There is no magic number". .. |
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Oregone (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-22-09 08:52 PM Response to Reply #260 |
265. Few parents would comply with that prison term |
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anigbrowl (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-22-09 09:09 PM Response to Reply #168 |
271. 6 months is the age at which most babies sleep through the night. |
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Oregone (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-22-09 09:14 PM Response to Reply #271 |
273. My first one did at 2 years |
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Lance_Boyle (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-22-09 03:02 PM Response to Original message |
9. I would be in favor of replacing maternity/paternity leave with sabbatical. |
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SteppingRazor (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-22-09 03:06 PM Response to Reply #9 |
16. Why shouldn't employers be in the business of incentivizing procreation? |
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Hello_Kitty (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-22-09 03:09 PM Response to Reply #16 |
20. 7 billion "miracles" is enough. |
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Rebubula (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-22-09 03:11 PM Response to Reply #20 |
24. Right On |
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SteppingRazor (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-22-09 03:11 PM Response to Reply #20 |
25. I agree that out-of-control population growth is hugely problematic... |
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Hello_Kitty (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-22-09 03:19 PM Response to Reply #25 |
41. I seriously wouldn't worry about the "opposite" happening |
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Missy Vixen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-22-09 06:24 PM Response to Reply #25 |
226. There are 250,000+ "miracles" languishing in the US foster care system right now |
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cbdo2007 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-22-09 03:33 PM Response to Reply #20 |
61. I agree that you're probably a burden on the Earth's resources. |
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Hello_Kitty (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-22-09 03:41 PM Response to Reply #61 |
72. Here we go. Let me break out my bingo card. |
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cbdo2007 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-22-09 03:47 PM Response to Reply #72 |
76. A person thinking overpopulation is a problem - is like a smoker thinking smoking is a problem. |
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Selatius (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-22-09 03:50 PM Response to Reply #76 |
82. But nobody was given a choice to be born. |
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Hello_Kitty (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-22-09 04:02 PM Response to Reply #76 |
94. Good point |
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Scout (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-22-09 04:06 PM Response to Reply #76 |
95. and those of us who haven't squeezed out any crotch droppings yet? do we have to suicide too? |
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cbdo2007 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-22-09 04:13 PM Response to Reply #95 |
102. Only if you are using resources. |
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treestar (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-22-09 04:27 PM Response to Reply #61 |
122. That's got nothing to do with removing the incentive to have more kids |
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Lance_Boyle (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-22-09 03:11 PM Response to Reply #16 |
26. Hrm. We should go drunken couch-surfing together sometime. |
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SteppingRazor (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-22-09 03:16 PM Response to Reply #26 |
36. Hey, I'm not knocking the social merit of either drunkenness or couch-surfing! |
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JVS (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Oct-24-09 03:45 AM Response to Reply #16 |
322. GET A NEW AVATAR RIGHT FUCKING NOW!!!!!!1111!!11!! |
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Hello_Kitty (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-22-09 03:14 PM Response to Reply #9 |
32. I can't believe people don't see the obvious violation of the principle of equal pay for equal work |
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ddeclue (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-22-09 03:05 PM Response to Original message |
12. And ponies! |
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The Straight Story (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-22-09 03:05 PM Response to Original message |
14. Sick leave for the healthy - we need that too (nt) |
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GreenPartyVoter (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-22-09 03:35 PM Response to Reply #14 |
65. What we need are more vacations and better pay for everyone. Don't some |
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Xipe Totec (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-22-09 03:06 PM Response to Original message |
15. I am totally in favor or more money and free time for everybody. |
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Codeine (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-22-09 03:08 PM Response to Original message |
17. Wait. |
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Selatius (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-22-09 03:10 PM Response to Original message |
21. Maternity leave should be for mothers only. Raising a newborn is intensely time consuming, difficult |
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Lance_Boyle (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-22-09 03:13 PM Response to Reply #21 |
30. maternity is a choice |
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Selatius (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-22-09 03:18 PM Response to Reply #30 |
40. No, they deserve to get fired for showing up to work hung-over/drunk. nt |
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Tierra_y_Libertad (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-22-09 03:21 PM Response to Reply #30 |
46. Why not? It makes about as much sense. |
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mitchum (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-22-09 04:36 PM Response to Reply #30 |
136. +1 |
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Telly Savalas (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-22-09 05:43 PM Response to Reply #30 |
216. It's also a choice to use goods and services provided by other people. |
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Xipe Totec (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-22-09 08:52 PM Response to Reply #30 |
264. If you want to encourage drinking, then yes. |
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JVS (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Oct-24-09 02:59 AM Response to Reply #30 |
319. Don't forget bender leave |
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cemaphonic (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-22-09 05:40 PM Response to Reply #21 |
213. yeah, this is a silly argument for a US-centered politics board |
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Tierra_y_Libertad (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-22-09 03:12 PM Response to Original message |
29. Having childrend is a lifestyle choice. Why should it be given preference over other choices? |
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Skidmore (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-22-09 03:16 PM Response to Original message |
37. Wow! Hasn't anyone heard of FMLA? |
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GreenPartyVoter (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-22-09 03:18 PM Response to Reply #37 |
38. Who cares about that when people can rant and rave over whether or not having children is a good |
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YOY (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-22-09 03:40 PM Response to Reply #38 |
71. +1 |
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tammywammy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-22-09 03:49 PM Response to Reply #37 |
79. + 1 that was my first thought too. n/t |
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get the red out (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-22-09 03:18 PM Response to Original message |
39. Work-life issues |
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Lydia Leftcoast (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-22-09 03:20 PM Response to Original message |
44. I could see a "parental leave" to do charitable full-time volunteer work, but |
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supernova (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-22-09 03:29 PM Response to Reply #44 |
55. I don't think anyone's |
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Romulox (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-22-09 03:46 PM Response to Reply #55 |
75. Er, I am. Why not? nt |
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supernova (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-22-09 03:50 PM Response to Reply #75 |
81. LOL! |
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MrsBrady (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-22-09 03:28 PM Response to Original message |
54. I don't see how people can think a maternity leave is a "break" |
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redqueen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-22-09 03:30 PM Response to Reply #54 |
56. Hear hear! (nt) |
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YOY (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-22-09 03:37 PM Response to Reply #54 |
69. Hush now. |
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Shell Beau (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-22-09 04:12 PM Response to Reply #69 |
100. LOL! |
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Missy Vixen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-22-09 06:28 PM Response to Reply #100 |
228. There she is! |
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Shell Beau (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Oct-23-09 09:12 AM Response to Reply #228 |
296. Awwww!! And she loves you! |
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Missy Vixen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Oct-23-09 11:22 AM Response to Reply #296 |
302. Shell Beau, it's a good thing we don't live there |
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Shell Beau (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Oct-23-09 06:41 PM Response to Reply #302 |
307. Hey, come on! We love spoiling!! |
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YOY (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-22-09 07:06 PM Response to Reply #100 |
244. and some of us feel positive about passing on our genes. |
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SidneyCarton (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-22-09 04:56 PM Response to Reply #69 |
161. Precisely. |
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Shell Beau (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-22-09 04:00 PM Response to Reply #54 |
91. If only it were a break. I took my baby to work with me at |
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Toasterlad (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-22-09 04:29 PM Response to Reply #54 |
125. As I Said In Another Thread, No One Dislikes Children More Than Me |
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curlyred (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-22-09 03:30 PM Response to Original message |
57. Here in the US it's called the Family Medical Leave Act |
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tonysam (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-22-09 03:32 PM Response to Original message |
60. It's stupid |
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YOY (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-22-09 03:33 PM Response to Original message |
62. Wow. |
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TheKentuckian (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-22-09 03:47 PM Response to Original message |
77. I think either sex should receive paid paternity leave |
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supernova (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-22-09 03:54 PM Response to Reply #77 |
86. Yep. This is exactly it. |
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Toasterlad (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-22-09 04:33 PM Response to Reply #77 |
133. I Would Agree That Everyone Should Be Eligible to Take Off For Family Emergencies |
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Oregone (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-22-09 06:49 PM Response to Reply #77 |
235. Its somewhat like that here in Canada |
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Romulox (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-22-09 03:49 PM Response to Original message |
80. Based on this thread, anybody notice how easy it is to get workers at each other's throats? |
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supernova (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-22-09 03:52 PM Response to Reply #80 |
84. That's what I'd like to know |
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Oregone (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-22-09 03:58 PM Response to Reply #80 |
89. It shouldn't be whatsoever |
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ourbluenation (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-22-09 04:40 PM Response to Original message |
142. The Family Leave act provides time off to care for immediate family - baby, grandpa, etc |
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bigwillq (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-22-09 04:46 PM Response to Original message |
146. Isn't that what vacation time is for? |
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SidneyCarton (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-22-09 04:49 PM Response to Original message |
148. Maternity leave is not a vacation. |
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SoCalDem (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-22-09 04:50 PM Response to Original message |
150. Why not just call it "personal time", to be used for ...whatever |
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Jennicut (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-22-09 04:55 PM Response to Original message |
158. With my two daughters, my husband got 1 week off both times. |
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tilsammans (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-22-09 05:13 PM Response to Original message |
184. Although I don't have kids, I don't feel discriminated against . . . |
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rd_kent (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-22-09 05:17 PM Response to Original message |
189. It should just be leave for EVERYONE. |
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supernova (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-22-09 05:22 PM Response to Reply #189 |
195. That's what I'm saying |
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OPERATIONMINDCRIME (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-22-09 05:31 PM Response to Original message |
204. My God That's Gotta Be One Of The Dumbest Suggestions I've Ever Heard. |
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Bill McBlueState (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-22-09 05:53 PM Response to Original message |
218. How about we get maternity/paternity leave for, you know, new parents? |
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gleaner (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-22-09 06:38 PM Response to Original message |
232. I said yes .... |
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Mass (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-22-09 07:13 PM Response to Original message |
247. Maternity leave is one thing. Sabbatical is another. Both should exist (and do in some country). |
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Oregone (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-22-09 07:18 PM Response to Reply #247 |
248. +1! |
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TwilightGardener (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-22-09 08:14 PM Response to Original message |
250. Stupid. If you just want lots of time off for no good reason (no new infant |
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senseandsensibility (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-22-09 08:23 PM Response to Original message |
252. I find the arguing on this thread depressing |
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supernova (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-22-09 08:50 PM Response to Reply #252 |
263. It is very sad |
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Oregone (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-22-09 09:23 PM Response to Reply #263 |
278. Way to take the high road |
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supernova (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-22-09 09:32 PM Response to Reply #278 |
280. I'm not talking about vacation |
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Oregone (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-22-09 09:41 PM Response to Reply #280 |
284. Look at the OP. |
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supernova (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-22-09 09:49 PM Response to Reply #284 |
287. No, I don't agree with you. |
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Oregone (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-22-09 09:54 PM Response to Reply #287 |
289. But thats almost an entirely new debate |
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supernova (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-22-09 10:00 PM Response to Reply #289 |
290. GAH! |
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Oregone (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-22-09 10:10 PM Response to Reply #290 |
291. "Despite the hamhanded way it is labeled in..." |
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liberal_at_heart (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-22-09 09:07 PM Response to Reply #252 |
269. I completely agree with you |
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liberal_at_heart (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-22-09 09:08 PM Response to Reply #252 |
270. This is why we will never have universal heathcare |
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liberal_at_heart (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-22-09 08:36 PM Response to Original message |
255. I think this illustrates the differences between US and other parts of world |
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anonymous171 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-22-09 08:46 PM Response to Reply #255 |
259. That's because we are subsidizing Europe's extravagant lifestyle. |
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liberal_at_heart (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-22-09 09:00 PM Response to Reply #259 |
268. did they ask us to have bases on nearly every single continent? |
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YOY (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-22-09 11:05 PM Response to Reply #259 |
292. Keep smoking that crack. |
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anonymous171 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-22-09 11:09 PM Response to Reply #292 |
293. What? |
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liberal_at_heart (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-22-09 11:58 PM Response to Reply #293 |
294. I disagree |
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Nikia (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-22-09 09:19 PM Response to Original message |
275. For me, my 6 weeks of maternity leave wasn't a vacation |
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eridani (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-22-09 09:22 PM Response to Original message |
277. Other: Why not caregiver leave for whoever needs it ? n/t |
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Taitertots (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-22-09 09:43 PM Response to Original message |
286. As long as I can take time off any time I feel like it |
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cherokeeprogressive (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Oct-23-09 01:34 AM Response to Original message |
295. Maternity - Adjective |
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Bettie (774 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Oct-23-09 09:21 AM Response to Original message |
297. Do people understand that Maternity leave is NOT a vacation? |
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defendandprotect (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Oct-24-09 02:08 AM Response to Original message |
317. Everyone needs a sabbatical now and then . . . |
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Maru Kitteh (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Oct-24-09 02:44 AM Response to Original message |
318. If I don't stay at a job long enough to have a family member die should I still get te paid time off |
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aikoaiko (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Oct-24-09 03:48 AM Response to Original message |
323. FMLA covers men and women without children. |
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Kaylee (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Oct-24-09 10:00 AM Response to Reply #323 |
335. I was trying to figure out what the hubbub was about in this thread |
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Dreamer Tatum (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Oct-24-09 12:21 PM Response to Reply #335 |
347. Because people aren't happy until their specific intent is endorsed |
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Oregone (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Oct-24-09 12:30 PM Response to Reply #335 |
350. It doesn't cover couch surfers |
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donco6 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Oct-24-09 09:23 AM Response to Original message |
327. I want one. |
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varelse (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Oct-24-09 12:55 PM Response to Original message |
353. Family and Medical Leave Act |
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