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Another reason for people to go off their meds...
I'm tired of my meds. I've heard they can do bad things to me. Maybe I can stay at your house while I'm not taking them?
Bah. Just heard another nightmare story yesterday about someone who only takes her meds when she feels she needs them. Trouble is, she never feels she needs them when she really, really needs them the most. I had a friend like that. She tried to kill herself in my bathtub.
My mom is a person who could have benefited from modern meds. Maybe she still could. But to have her tell it, she's better off without and it's all an evil plot by the medical establishment anyways. Needless to say, I had an ...interesting... childhood.
And God, it's a genetic thing. You should've witnessed my great grandma chasing people off with a kitchen knife, or my grandma hitting and biting and ripping at the paramedic's clothes. You'd be surprised how many large grown men it takes to subdue a little old crazy lady.
This nation's attitudes about mental health are insane. We're too fucking afraid to face the problem in a straightforward way. Instead we'd much rather blame the people who are suffering, or guns, or evil spirits, or some imaginary and fantastical pressure that causes regular people to "SNAP!"
The really crappy thing is that there are still good reasons NOT to seek care, you can still mess up your future if that sort of thing is on your record, or you can't afford the meds that work for you and suddenly have to stop taking them, and people do have to cover for people who are for the most part harmless, because mental illness is such a huge stigma in so many places, and people with known mental health issues aren't hired, or insured, and denied housing.
A long time ago, I was asked to leave college twice for my sometimes bizarre behavior. It was all hush-hush no real records kept because people who were looking out for me didn't want to jeopardize my future. My third try at college, I graduated, and quite honestly I'm much more stable and more likely to stay out of trouble than most people who are not considered to be mentally ill.
If we don't fix this insanity within our society, if we start to look at every eccentric "loner" as a potential mass murderer, and not as someone to reach out to, then our problems will only get worse. There will be more crime, more drug abuse, more alcoholism, more homelessness, and more suffering overall.
There ain't no herbal supplement, religion, or feel-good philosophy that will solve these problems. There's some gritty, hard, dirty, painful work to do to make things right. If we're looking for something or someone to blame, we're never going to accomplish anything, we may as well be blaming every bad thing that happens on evil spirits and bad vapors and the voices in our heads.
I honestly think that's where we are at as a society -- we'd rather believe in good and evil because solving actual problems is hard work. Any clan of chimpanzees or wolves or elephants or orcas probably has a much better grasp of reality than we humans do. Our silly heads are full of meaningless things, and we pick on one another like abused chickens, plucking the feathers out of the weaker among us.
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