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Horse with no Name Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Apr-18-07 12:01 PM
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One woman's story (regarding late-term abortion)
http://www.ourbodiesourselves.org/book/companion.asp?id=20&compID=39&page=1

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Later that morning, at quarter past 9, Dave held my hand as I lay on the cushy examining table at the Beth Israel Deaconess Medical Center office in Lexington. As images of our baby filled the black screen, we oohed and aahed like the goofy expectant parents that we were. "Can you tell if it's a boy or a girl?" I must have asked a million stupid times. The technician was noncommittal, stoic, and I started feeling uncomfortable. Where I was all bubbly chitchat, she was all furrow-browed concentration. She told us that she had a child with Down syndrome, and that none of her prenatal tests had picked it up. I thought that was odd.

Then, using an excuse about finishing something on her previous ultrasound, she left the room. Seconds passed into minutes while we waited for her to return. Staring at the pictures of fuzzy kittens and kissing dolphins on the ceiling, I knew something was wrong. Dave tried to reassure me, but when the ultrasound technician told us that our doctor wanted to see us, I started to shake. "But she doesn't even know we're here," I said to her, and then to Dave, over and over. That's when I started crying. I could barely get my clothes back on.

The waiting room upstairs, usually full of happy pregnant women devouring parenting magazines, was empty. Our doctor, who usually wears a smile below her chestnut hair, met us at the front desk. She was not smiling that day as she led us back to her cramped office, full of framed photos of her own children.

As we sat there, she said that the ultrasound indicated that the fetus had an open neural tube defect, meaning that the spinal column had not closed properly. It was a term I remembered skipping right over in my pregnancy book, along with all the other fetal anomalies and birth defects that I thought referred to other people's babies, not mine. She couldn't tell us much more. We would have to go to the main hospital in Boston, which had a more high-tech machine and a more highly trained technician. She tried to be hopeful -- there was a wide range of severity with these defects, she said. And then she left us to cry.
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knitter4democracy Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Apr-18-07 12:03 PM
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1. This is why we need free choice.
No one should tell a mother what she can and cannot do in that kind of a situation. It's too damn complex and complicated for any one law to cover all situations. Today's a dark day for mothers all over this nation.
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Arkansas Granny Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Apr-18-07 12:46 PM
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2. I wish that everyone who opposes this procedure would read this
or one of the other accounts that I have read over the last several months (sorry, I don't have any links) and honestly consider what they would do under the same circumstances.
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bleedingheart Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Apr-18-07 01:05 PM
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3. the problem is that there are a bunch of folks who lack the compassion to feel about others
that is why they make obtuse rulins and judgements...

They can't understand until they are in the situation.

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necklace Donating Member (67 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Apr-18-07 04:54 PM
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4. Partial birth abortion is decision made between a woman and her doctor, and NO ONE ELSE!!!
Thank you for sharing this story, for this again proves that over 99% of women who have partial birth abortion do it because of a medical reason. But then again, are women considered full human beings in this society?

Damn those legislators! Damn the Supreme Court!!!
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Blue_Tires Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Apr-18-07 04:55 PM
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5. welcome to the site!
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leftchick Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Apr-18-07 05:10 PM
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6. omg... No Abortions after the First Trimester??
Edited on Wed Apr-18-07 05:11 PM by leftchick
I didn't realize how horribly this bill was worded. OMG. This is horrible I have a very good friend who was forced to make the same decision as the woman in this article. She was in her 7th month and her life was in danger. This is just unbelievable to live in the United Fundie State. :cry:

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Supporters of the ban have argued that this procedure is used on babies that are "inches from life." But in the bill, there is no mention of fetal viability (the point at which a fetus could live independently of its mother for a sustained period of time). Nor is there any mention of gestational age. Thus, the ban would cover terminations at any point during pregnancy. (In fact, Roe v. Wade already protects the rights of a fetus after the point of viability, which occurs sometime after the 24th week of gestation, in the third trimester of pregnancy. Massachusetts bans all abortions at and beyond the 24th week, except to protect the life or health of the mother. Indeed, according to the Massachusetts Department of Public Health, in 2001 there were only 24 abortions after the 24th week, out of a total of 26,293 abortions.) By not mentioning viability, critics say, this ban would overturn Roe v. Wade, which clearly states that women have the right to abortion before fetal viability.

So what does it all really mean? It means that all abortions after the first trimester could be outlawed. No matter if the fetus has severe birth defects, including those incompatible with life (many of which cannot be detected until well into the second trimester). No matter if the mother would be forced to have, for example, a kidney transplant or a hysterectomy if she continued with the pregnancy. (Legislators did not provide a health exception for the woman, arguing that it would provide too big a loophole.)

In the aftermath of the signing of the bill, its supporters spoke about having outlawed a medical procedure and protecting the nation's children. "We have just outlawed a procedure that is barbaric, that is brutal, that is offensive to our moral sensibilities," said Bill Frist, the Senate majority leader. Its opponents bemoaned an unconstitutional attack on legal rights. "This ban is yet another instance of the federal government inappropriately interfering in the private lives of Americans, dangerously undermining . . . the very foundation of a woman's right to privacy," said Gregory T. Nojeim, an associate director and chief legislative counsel for the American Civil Liberties Union.
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