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erpowers Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Feb-11-10 08:27 AM
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Elizabeth Edwards' Suit is Foolish
Edited on Thu Feb-11-10 08:52 AM by erpowers
It was reported, on Good Morning America, this morning that Elizabeth Edwards is threatening Andrew Young with a Alienation of Affection lawsuit unless he agrees to certain demands. The demands make Edwards' suit threat look more like a shakedown. Edwards is demanding that Young donate $250,000 to the Wade Edwards Foundation and that he hand over certain email and voice messages. Those demands make Elizabeth Edwards look like a woman who is just trying to force someone to donate to her charity.

Also, the lawsuit seems to not have any real foundation. Edwards is claiming that Young's help in the hiding of the affair between her husband and his mistress caused the end of her marriage. It seems that the marriage would have only ended earlier if Young had not helped hide the affair.
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TommyO Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Feb-11-10 08:30 AM
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1. Elizabeth Edwards just went down more than a few pegs with this shakedown.
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TexasObserver Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Feb-11-10 08:38 AM
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9. Why? It's a perfectly good cause of action and this is a good case.
There is no question that Young and Hunter engaged in a conspiracy to defraud Elizabeth Edwards' interest in her marital estate, and that they may be guilty of alienation of affections, as that cause of action exists under North Carolina law.

I predict she delivers a royal ass kicking to Young, and forces him to spill his guts.
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erpowers Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Feb-11-10 08:51 AM
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19. Suing Young Not Hunter
She is suing Andrew Young and not Reille Hunter. That is why I said the case has not foundation. If she were suing Hunter I would say there is real foundation. In addition, she is not suing based on being defrauded out of her marital estate, she is suing based on Young not telling her about the relationship. I highly doubt anyone will allow someone to be sued under this statute when they were not the person who engaged in the affair.
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TexasObserver Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Feb-11-10 09:17 AM
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33. You are wrongly concluding that only the paramour may be sued for Alienation.
It's not my understanding that North Carolina law regarding the civil cause of action of alienation of affections is confined to adulterers. There appear to be three elements:

*there was love in the marriage between the husband and wife
*that love was alienated and destroyed
*defendant's malicious conduct was a contributing factor to the loss of affection

If there's North Carolina case law that says only the adulterer may be a defendant in such a claim, I'd be happy to read it.
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Raschel Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Feb-11-10 09:06 AM
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24. Am I the only one that thinks Young is a total sleazy money grubber?
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TexasObserver Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Feb-11-10 09:18 AM
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34. He's just horrible.
The video tape that he somehow got and kept show that.

What a trio they make - John, Anthony and Rielle.
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Raschel Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Feb-11-10 09:33 AM
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44. Yuck. I've watched them parade around on talk shows. Their interviewers
treat them as though they're respectable people, as they hawk their kiss and tell book. Young and his wife are creepy.
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Inspired Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Feb-11-10 08:52 PM
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138. Who is Anthony? Do you mean Andrew?
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ChiciB1 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Feb-11-10 09:43 AM
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50. To Me Young Reminds Me Of A "Benedict Arnold!" Not That I Agree With
what and how Edwards handled this whole thing, but for Young to stick a knife in and turn it a couple of times, really is low! After all, he DID benefit monetarily by his association with Edwards!

And while Edwards certainly has acted like a cad, there have been so, so many more that belong in this LONG list of "betrayers!"

Thinking back over time, so many others have acted in a like-minded way, but I don't recall anyone getting as much flack as Edwards has. And that's not to say I condone ANYTHING he's done, and I DO understand what it could have caused had he been elected.

But we DID have a recent POTUS who had known affairs BEFORE he was elected, and despite this, he ended up having yet ANOTHER scandal while in office! One would have thought he could have curtailed his desires while in office, AT LEAST! I will also say that I think that even HE may have been set up, although I could never prove it.

And I need to add, that I did work and vote for him for BOTH of his terms and still think he can almost sell ICE to many in Alaska! I feel very sorry for ALL involved, but I also think Reille may have had an ulterior motive and I seem to recall reading an article way back when about this too. But I'm sorry, I can't recall where!

And yes, it DOES seem like I'm defending John Edwards, but still I can NEVER get over the fact that much of what he said was spot on. Especially his statement about sitting down with Big Pharma, Insurance Companies and Corporation for dinner and how THEY would eat all the food! He was so correct about this, even if ANYONE thinks he never believed it. There were so many of us here who did, and while his affair caused him to pay a hefty price... one must understand that he is most certainly paying THAT price! In Spades!

JMHO!

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Raschel Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Feb-11-10 09:51 AM
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56. I've never cared for either one, but these tell all money makers are disgusting.
And I just posted what you did on another thread. What about Jackie Kennedy, Hilary?

Are they supposed to go out and announce to the public that their husbands are cheaters?

The actions of the cheating husbands put them in a no-win situation, and the cheaters are the ones at fault.

We've found out about a lot of cheaters in office recently, and I'm sure there are MANY we don't know about and never will.

It's too much dumping on of Elizabeth for me, and with Young and his wife parading around proudly, making money off of trashing Elizabeth, bragging that they have a sex tape, I say go get 'em Elizabeth.

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ChiciB1 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Feb-11-10 09:57 AM
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62. Gotcha, And I Agree With... Also I Posted More Below... But Before I Get
really flamed, I suppose I should leave it at that!
:shrug:
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CTyankee Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Feb-11-10 02:49 PM
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96. I like to reference that "sitting down at the dinner table" quote myself!
He was spot on. I also liked his health care reform plan the best and the fact that he came righ tout and SAID that the private insurance companies would not be able to compete against the public option and eventually would go out of business! I think where I was so misguided was in wanting so badly to believe the John and Elizabeth narrative, their closeness after the tragedy of Wade's death, her extraordinary efforts to have two more children later in life and her cancer. I guess I must have idealized them because when I first heard of the Enquirer article I kept on defending him. I couldn't believe that he would do something so foolish and reckless.

I should have known. But I didn't.
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ChiciB1 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Feb-11-10 06:16 PM
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120. So Many Of Us Feel The Same Way... But Are They Evil Incarnate?
I can't be the one to pass that kind of judgment. Hundreds of thousands of people have done much worse!

You need only to think WAR! But that's completely beside the point to be sure! I've tried to file it under "shit happens" and try to recover! Not the first time, nor the last that we will be DUPED!

Some would say that things going on right now, while not of such a personal nature (one on one) are actually quite "personal" to us all!

Just stating what's obvious to me!

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CTyankee Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Feb-11-10 06:53 PM
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121. I think that the best we can do is to be very wary of powerful people
who hold sway over many others. There is a real temptation to just go out and do what you want because you have so much power. I think the Greeks called it "hubris."
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PaDUer Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Feb-11-10 10:24 PM
Response to Reply #50
143. I agree with you, and.......
I also remember reading the articles you're writing about.

BOTH were set up..I remember reading this also..there's no doubt both of those so-called "women" were out to ruin BOTH marriages.

Also, you probably remember reading the article about where the "lady # 1" & what she had access to & who she knew.

# 2--help with "getting pregnant'?

There's no doubt in my mind, both of these were blind. # 2 comes from a very "interesting" family.
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ChiciB1 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Feb-12-10 08:03 AM
Response to Reply #143
147. You Know I Think I Recall It's Posted On GOOGLE About Her... I'm Going To
check it out! And yes, now I recall more... there are some interesting "factoids" in her background. I think I heard either yesterday or the day before that the "lawyers" between Edwards and the "other" woman were working on some sort of agreement.

This was a comment made by someone on MSNBC when asked about the possibility that Edwards might be engage. Andrea Mitchell may have asked the question and the person replying said they didn't KNOW that he planned to marry her, BUT that only the lawyers were talking to each other. Went on to say that given that information it didn't "seem" like they would be engaged, however he couldn't confirm anything!

But, if one were to GOOGLE, there is some interesting information on Rielle! It also gave information on how to say her name because it was said "different" than most thought! Just thought I would add that!

Having said that, I DON'T think that's where if first read about her, it was somewhere else.

And regarding lady #1, to me there has always been something very untoward and about that whole situation!!!
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PaDUer Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Feb-12-10 12:41 PM
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151. Yes indeed...
Also, Rielle goes by 4 different names. I find that quite interesting. Her family has an interesting background also, including her ex-husband. You can check that out. Plus, read that she was an actress, she certainly IS! She was having an affair with another guy, Jeff Goldblum from "Law & Order", at the time she was "seducing" Edwards. She led Goldblum on into believing he was the father of the baby. When he asked her if he was the father, she'd tell him "maybe". How sick is this chic, big time! How many other men had she been dating? Interesting that she supposedly never got pregnant before, ya right. All that she sees is $$ signs, & she liked the $18,000.00/month. Many families don't even make that in a year!!!
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ChiciB1 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Feb-12-10 02:26 PM
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153. Ah Yes... Jeff Goldblum... A Very Long Time Ago I Remember He Was
the MAJOR character in THE FLY!! Appropriate? I wonder? It's been said before that he was a heart breaker too! Haven't checked out his BIO on GOOGLE yet!

Veeeeerrry Interesting!
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CreekDog Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Feb-11-10 02:58 PM
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97. You know, I don't think he did it for the money
He's been doing anything to get attention for quite a while now.

There was a time he was up and coming, but that time has past. But a lot of people don't get over that --and money won't cure that feeling.

:shrug:
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gateley Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Feb-11-10 04:13 PM
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108. I think he's behaving like a jilted lover, wants to hurt back. And, after some time
Edited on Thu Feb-11-10 04:16 PM by gateley
has passed, the $$$ is looking might appealing... :shrug:

YIKES -- Edit to add I didn't for a second mean to imply that he and JE were lovers if that's how it reads. I think he thought so highly of Edwards, gave his all, and was hurt when he realized Edwards didn't think as highly of him. So revenge initially -- to hurt back -- then when the feelings subsided a bit, the vision of dollar signs lured him to act further.
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arthritisR_US Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Feb-11-10 03:07 PM
Response to Reply #24
99. no you're not, I think he is too, not to mention major hypocrite as well
:mad: :puke:
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Name removed Donating Member (0 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Feb-11-10 04:33 PM
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114. Deleted sub-thread
Sub-thread removed by moderator. Click here to review the message board rules.
 
grantcart Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Feb-11-10 07:13 PM
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128. Give me a break

Elizabeth was willing to make a scapegoat out of Young.

Moreover she admitted that she continued with the campaign of her husband long after she new that this scandal was going to blow up.

EE was a willing participant in perpetuating a fraud to the donors of her husband's campaign by continuing to receive donations even though her husband had confessed that he had an affair and his mistress was pregnant. Only a fool would believe that her husband's mistress was carrying Young's child, knowing that Young was Edwards 'errand boy'.


I wish I could get my $ 200 back.
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shellgame26 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Feb-11-10 07:58 PM
Response to Reply #128
134. Thanks Gcart
I'm so sick of all this "E.E is a saint" myth.
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davidpdx Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Feb-11-10 09:03 PM
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139. I agree about her being a willing participant
She had to have known more then she lead on. EE is not dumb, she's a very educated smart individual. It is possible she was in denial of wanting to believe her husband was having an affair. Given her husband's campaign, I also understand it put her in a bad situation, either play along or sit on the sidelines. If she sat on the sidelines, it would quickly become a story that would hurt his campaign. The only alternative was for him to bow out, which he did after performing poorly in the first few primaries.

Just a disclosure, I too donated to Edwards early on (it was only $10). At the very beginning of the campaign (April 2007) I couldn't decide on Edwards or Obama and decided to make my first donation to both (both $10). The next month, I made up my mind and ended up making up my mind in weeks later.
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spotbird Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Feb-11-10 11:07 AM
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77. Hardly,
It's nice that she is standing up to that sick fuck Young. More power to her.
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Sisaruus Donating Member (703 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Feb-11-10 09:08 PM
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140. Elizabeth Edwards is profoundly hurt, angry and humiliated
so she will do some things that don't seem nice. It's how she is trying to cope emotionally. I've been there, done that, have the t-shirt: my husband got the nanny pregnant. She, unfortunately, has the whole world scutinizing her reactions; I simply had my small town watching. Years later, I'm fine, even amused by my own story. She probably won't have that years-later when she can look back and laugh.
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TexasObserver Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Feb-11-10 08:31 AM
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2. Poppycock! Don't make me add a Balderdash.
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blondeatlast Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Feb-11-10 08:33 AM
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3. The suit has merit or no reasonably responsible attorney would take it.
For a woman who's been through waht she has, to have a vile matter become so very public, I say--KICK 'EM ALL IN THE TEETH IF THEY HELPED.

Good for Ms. Edwards.

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Renew Deal Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Feb-11-10 08:35 AM
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4. Ever heard of Orly Taitz?
:shrug:
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blondeatlast Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Feb-11-10 08:36 AM
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6. Apples and cars are not equivalent. nt
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RockaFowler Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Feb-11-10 08:48 AM
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17. A good attorney not an awful one
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TexasObserver Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Feb-11-10 08:41 AM
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12. That's true. It's a good cause of action and a responsible attorney would pursue it.
Edited on Thu Feb-11-10 08:45 AM by TexasObserver
There is no doubt that Young conspired with John and Rielle to defraud Elizabeth's interest in the Edwards' marital estate. There is no question that North Carolina law has the cause of action for alienation of affections, and that it appears applicable.

She will likely use this litigation to force Young to spill his guts about everything John said and did, and then use that to make John surrender in the divorce.

My money is on Elizabeth to skin these weasels.
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blondeatlast Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Feb-11-10 08:42 AM
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13. I thought that was what I said?! nt
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TexasObserver Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Feb-11-10 08:45 AM
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14. see my edit! sorry!
Edited on Thu Feb-11-10 08:49 AM by TexasObserver
I had a NOT in there that had to come out. I completely missed it because it was in the subject line and only noticed it a moment ago. I was like "WTF is that?" As if someone else had gotten in my post and typed it.
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blondeatlast Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Feb-11-10 08:46 AM
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15. No worries! That's what a good paralegal is for...
Edited on Thu Feb-11-10 08:53 AM by blondeatlast
:hi:
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AngryAmish Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Feb-11-10 09:03 AM
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23. well played, sir
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Romulox Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Feb-11-10 09:07 AM
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26. Dismisal for failure to state a cause of action for which relief may be granted wouldn't exist
if your logic were sound...
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TexasObserver Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Feb-11-10 09:19 AM
Response to Reply #26
36. It's a sound cause of action in North Carolina.
Edited on Thu Feb-11-10 09:23 AM by TexasObserver
Your motion to dismiss is denied, and you're sanctioned for filing a frivolous pleading.
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Romulox Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Feb-11-10 09:27 AM
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41. You didn't understand my point. The poster claimed the existence of a suit meant that it has merit.
Edited on Thu Feb-11-10 09:27 AM by Romulox
Not good logic, and you can't file motions to dismiss (or sanction anybody) on DU.
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TexasObserver Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Feb-11-10 09:35 AM
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46. No, she said the suit had merit or no responsible attorney would take it.
And she was right.

She never said the existence of the suit meant it has merit. She said it has merit (which is true) and if it didn't have merit, no responsible attorney would take. Perhaps you think a responsible attorney would file an unmeritorious suit.

This case is well founded in North Carolina law, and it certainly appears she can make a prima facie case for alienation of affection against Andrew Young.
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Romulox Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Feb-11-10 09:43 AM
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51. Google the "no true Scotsman" fallacy. It's a silly point.
And how, prey tell, have you decided just who is and who is not a "responsible" attorney, when you should know full well that knowing that one has a meritorious suit that one intends to see through to a jury verdict represents only one of a multitude of strategic reasons for filing same?

It's a silly point, and your arguments about the merits of this antiquated "moral crime" tort are silly. Lay out the elements of the tort, and then match the facts to them, if you want to make that argument. Of course you don't have to do so, but your argument about the merit of the suit can't move forward without this next (seemingly obvious) step.

But all of this misses the bigger point: I haven't made an argument about the merits of this case, since my state (like most north of the Mason-Dixon) have abolished these sorts of "moral crime" torts as incompatible with modern society. :silly: :hi:
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TexasObserver Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Feb-11-10 09:50 AM
Response to Reply #51
54. That's not necessary. I looked at North Carolina law before posting.
Unlike you, I knew I should consult the law of North Carolina rather than assume they don't have Alienation of Affections as a cause of action. Turns out they do have it, and alienated spouses win money on such claims all the time. Turns out the law doesn't limit the class of defendants to adulterers or paramours.

That means I concluded before I ever posted on this topic that Elizabeth Edwards had a valid cause of action under North Carolina law, that she could make the elements of the cause of action by facts known in the public sector, and that she could therefore make it past any motion to dismiss for failure to state a cause of action.

You can dismiss it as a "moral crime," but it's cause of action, the same as a cause of action as "tortious interference with a business relationship." Your failure to recognize causes of actions is consistent with your approach to legal problems, which is sloppy.
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Romulox Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Feb-11-10 09:57 AM
Response to Reply #54
61. Your post doesn't seem to be responding to anything I've posted...that's the problem!
Edited on Thu Feb-11-10 09:58 AM by Romulox
When did I argue that this COA doesn't exist in NC? Can you provide any language to that effect?


"I concluded before I ever posted on this topic that Elizabeth Edwards had a valid cause of action under North Carolina law, that she could make the elements of the cause of action by facts known in the public sector, and that she could therefore make it past any motion to dismiss for failure to state a cause of action."

So you come here to give a lecture, rather than to discuss? :rofl:

"Your failure to recognize causes of actions is consistent with your approach to legal problems, which is sloppy."

What are you talking about? When have I "fail(ed) to recognize causes of actions" (and apparently more than once: "failures"!)? You're demolishing a point no one but you has made (and doing so with gusto!) It's a sad way of "debating".
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blondeatlast Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Feb-11-10 09:41 AM
Response to Reply #26
48. First off, this story comes from Young. We don't know if it is true.
But I don't think Ms. Edwards has stupid attorneys. If this case actually exists, they have reason to believe Ms. Edwards can win or they wouldn't take the case. I know how torts and family court work; I get paid to know.

Yes, only the judge can decide merit. Bit there is case law and a foundation.

And to my knowledge, the whole thing is still a rumor spread by a sleazeball cashing in on Ms. Edwards at the WORST possible time for her.
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Romulox Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Feb-11-10 09:47 AM
Response to Reply #48
52. Knowing you'll win a jury verdict isn't the only reason for filing a suit...
In fact, such filings represent a tiny minority of suits filed--most civil suits are filed in full knowledge that they will never be argued in front of jury.

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blondeatlast Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Feb-11-10 10:35 AM
Response to Reply #52
71. I'm aware of that as well. But no reasonable attorney will even sign
a client agreement if they think NOTHING will come of the action sought.

And I'm pretty sure that Ms. Edwards has competent attorneys. In fact, I'd say they are likely more than competent. Call it a hunch if you will.
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Romulox Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Feb-11-10 10:52 AM
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72. Of course SOMETHING comes from it--billable hours. It's the product attorneys make.
None of this turns on "competence".
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muriel_volestrangler Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Feb-11-10 08:35 AM
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5. Is there a 'not' missing at the start of the 2nd para?
"Also, the lawsuit seems to have any real foundation." "Seems not ..." would agree with the rest of your post, I think.
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saltpoint Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Feb-11-10 08:36 AM
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7. It is.
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tallahasseedem Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Feb-11-10 08:37 AM
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8. This is a shakedown, pure and simple.
She should be doing other things during her cancer battle than filing frivolous lawsuits.
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TexasObserver Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Feb-11-10 08:40 AM
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11. Nonsense. And stop calling it a shakedown. It's well settled law.
Edited on Thu Feb-11-10 08:47 AM by TexasObserver
Maybe you should familiarize yourself with the cause of action of alienation of affections under North Carolina law.
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MattBaggins Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Feb-11-10 09:00 AM
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20. It's a shakedown
Elizabeth is above this kind of thing.
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TexasObserver Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Feb-11-10 09:06 AM
Response to Reply #20
25. No, it isn't. It's a valid cause of action in North Carolina.
Edited on Thu Feb-11-10 09:09 AM by TexasObserver
Why don't you just say that you don't like it? Because that's all that's going on. It offends you. But there are likely many kinds of lawsuits that you wouldn't like. This is a good lawsuit, and if your ox was being gored, you'd be crying to your lawyer to go get some justice for you.

John Edwards, Anthony Young, and Rielle Hunter all deserve a litigation ass kicking from Elizabeth, and I'm going to enjoy watching it happen. This gives Elizabeth a chance to get some payback against these people, who all conspired against her at a critical time in her life.

The wailing and gnashing of teeth is just getting started.
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MattBaggins Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Feb-11-10 09:17 AM
Response to Reply #25
32. So shakedowns are a valid course of action in NC
as they are in most states...

What's your point?
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TexasObserver Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Feb-11-10 09:21 AM
Response to Reply #32
38. You use the terms tea baggers use for the judicial process.
That's the point.

It's not a shakedown, except in your head.
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AndrewP Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Feb-11-10 02:41 PM
Response to Reply #32
93. It might be a shakedown, but this Young guy is such a prick.....
actually they are all just horrible. But I can see why she would want to get her pound of flesh, so to speak.

This story just gets more and more like something from the TV show "Dallas".
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Raschel Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Feb-11-10 09:09 AM
Response to Reply #8
28. In a cancer battle a person picks what makes them feel better.
If this makes her feel better, good for her. Young is an opportunistic creep.
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ingac70 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Feb-11-10 08:39 AM
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10. How can she sue him for Alienation of Affection?
I thought that only applied to people who actually screwed your spouse.
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dugaresa Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Feb-11-10 09:56 AM
Response to Reply #10
60. perhaps because he aided and abetted the affair of her husband
Edited on Thu Feb-11-10 09:56 AM by dugaresa
i am not sure

i feel bad for her and i am sure she feels helpless, sick with cancer and sick with knowing she may leave her kids behind to this mess.
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BeyondGeography Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Feb-11-10 08:46 AM
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16. Her inner thug has taken over
:thumbsdown:

She obviously has too much money to spend on her wounded ego and her revenge fantasies. The only winners at the end of all this will be the lawyers. Ironic, given the family background.
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eyeontheprize Donating Member (331 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Feb-11-10 11:53 AM
Response to Reply #16
83. The man has been
ruthless to her. He deserves all of it.
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Maru Kitteh Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Feb-11-10 03:58 PM
Response to Reply #83
106. In this particular case I think the word is MEN, not man.
I hope she rips JE, this guy and John's little moonbeam mistress a new one.
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CTyankee Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Feb-11-10 03:03 PM
Response to Reply #16
98. Oh, I don't know. There is a kind of "rough justice" here in suing to benefit
her charity, which seems like a worthy one to me. She is doing what she can to put Young (and Rielle, by extension) on trial before the American people and to make him pay for it (to charity) out of his "ill gotten" gains. I can see that. He's made lots of money by selling his book. Now she wants him to make some restitution to her for what he has done and wants to diminish the profit-from-misery that his little book is. Simple, really.
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BeyondGeography Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Feb-11-10 03:17 PM
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101. I'm thinking back to my own divorce
An admittedly sedate affair by comparison. One point of commonality was a young child was involved, so my ex and I would be communicating on a lot of things, and we would both be in the picture for the duration of childhood and adolescence. I wanted as little acrimony as possible so that my daughter could be free to have as normal an environment as possible. At the same time, the lawyers on both sides were happy to see us fight it out, and there's always something to fight about, if you want.

These are high-powered people with tons more money than average folk, and their situation is admittedly complex, but I think it's pretty safe to say their resources aren't helping matters. The marriage is over, John's probably going to wind up with Rielle, and the more this gets dragged out, the worse it is for the little bystanders. By all means, go deep into Johnny's pockets, but lawsuits like this just keep the whole saga alive, which can't be healthy.
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CTyankee Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Feb-11-10 03:40 PM
Response to Reply #101
104. Here's the thing: Young was a third party to this whole mess.
If I were Elizabeth I'd be thinking "what right does he have, coming in here and colluding with John in the destruction of our marriage? What kind of person does this?"

Your divorce (and mine, too) probably didn't involve that set of circumstances. In fact, she has been betrayed by THREE people. Bad enough that the other woman and her husband both betrayed her, but his closest aide and also her friend (she thought) did the same, outrageously so.

In my case, my three grown children are aware of the misery their father caused. My grandchildren are too young and I am not happy that they innocently believe that grandpa is an OK guy. But he is now old and won't live much longer so I am circumspect. If I were in Elizabeth's shoes, tho, I don't know if I wouldn't do what she is doing, to tell you the honest truth. Her kids may eventually feel that their mother did an heroic thing...
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Statistical Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Feb-11-10 08:49 AM
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18. It isn't a shakedown.
I settled out of court with insurance company for CASH. Was I doing a shakedown.
If they didn't agree to our (me & attorney) demands then we would have gone to court.

Instead of cash she is just asking for charitable donation. Same cost to the defendant but she can't be accussed of doing it for the money. Oh wait she is and on DU. Guess no good deed goes unpunished.

Also last I checked it is up to the courts to determine if a case has merit.
If her claim has no merit then Young shouldn't take the deal, go to court, and the case will be dismissed.
On the other hand if it does have merit it is entirely possible Young could lose lot more than $250K in court.
See legal system does work.
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goclark Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Feb-11-10 09:07 AM
Response to Reply #18
27. Interesting case ~I just want justice to be served
Edited on Thu Feb-11-10 09:08 AM by goclark
for his family.

John Edwards continues to disappoint ~something tells me that he and his bride to be will not be happy together.
On edit--- they deserve each other.

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Statistical Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Feb-11-10 09:19 AM
Response to Reply #27
35. Yeah Edwards got exactly what he deserved.
Edited on Thu Feb-11-10 09:40 AM by Statistical
20 years from now when he looks back on the decline from being a Presidential hopeful to divorcing his wife dying with cancer and marrying a woman willing to cheat with a married man I think he will be sad.

When the heat of the moment is over and you only had the cold reflect of history things look much different.
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undeterred Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Feb-11-10 09:27 AM
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40. He is going to marry a "weapon"?
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Statistical Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Feb-11-10 09:40 AM
Response to Reply #40
47. auto spell check humor. not intentional. corrected.
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undeterred Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Feb-11-10 09:42 AM
Response to Reply #47
49. She could be a Weapon of Marriage Destruction...
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waiting for hope Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Feb-11-10 04:01 PM
Response to Reply #27
107. They are not getting married:
Washington (CNN) - Former Sen. John Edwards' spokeswoman flatly denied a story in the National Enquirer Wednesday that claimed the 2004 Democratic vice presidential nominee is engaged to his mistress, Rielle Hunter.


http://politicalticker.blogs.cnn.com/2010/02/10/edwards-spokeswoman-denies-story-on-marriage-proposal/?fbid=QtcrbPOBWI7
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Born_A_Truman Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Feb-11-10 04:20 PM
Response to Reply #107
110. He has denied it so now I know it's true
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goclark Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Feb-11-10 05:25 PM
Response to Reply #107
115. Are we to believe " That Is Not My Baby" John Edwards?


He has told so many lies.

That is the problem with a person that has a long long nose ~ they can't stop it!

I really don't know if he will or will not marry that lady,I do know that I have lost respect for him.

"That is not my baby!"
Yep it is!

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ChiciB1 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Feb-12-10 09:56 AM
Response to Reply #107
149. Hi There... Nice To See You Posting A Little Here! I'm Still A Glutton
I guess. Thanks again for the avatar, but decided the "flaming" would be too intense. I get enough as it is for not supporting Obama in ALL of his decisions!

But thanks again! And I should get over to that "other place" that so many worked on! You're one of the good ones to me! I did hear that the "lawyers" between the two are hashing things out which would indicate (as some reporters say) that they aren't engaged. But nothing is set in stone I'm sure. And I really need to STOP posting about this, it just keeps the thing going!

Outta here!~
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goclark Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Feb-12-10 11:42 AM
Response to Reply #107
150. Are we to start beliving John Edwards?

I'd trust the Enquirer before I'd trust him.
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erpowers Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Feb-11-10 07:08 PM
Response to Reply #18
125. Different Case
Your insurance company actually owed you some form of money. In the case of Elizabeth Edwards Andrew Young does not owe her any money. It is different when someone is trying to get what they actually deserve as opposed to when someone just trys to get money from someone just because someone either wants to hurt the other person or just wants money.
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liberalmuse Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Feb-11-10 09:01 AM
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21. That woman has been through a lot...
I don't know how I'd deal with the crap that's been dumped on her. Most people in her situation thankfully get a little privacy, but both her cancer and her husband's gross infidelities have been splashed all over the tabloids. She probably needs a target for her frustration and grief. Her husband is not really what you'd call a hard target - he's beyond pathetic. I'm giving her a pass (not that it matters one whit).
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Raschel Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Feb-11-10 09:14 AM
Response to Reply #21
31. As someone who's been diagnosed with stage IV cancer, I can't imagine what
it would be like to have these two creeps, (Young and wife) parading around on talk shows, making money off of intimate details.

Like her or not, Elizabeth is one heck of a strong woman, and is fighting back, despite her health.

She's taking control of the situation good for her.
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goclark Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Feb-11-10 10:22 AM
Response to Reply #31
69. I agree ~ she is also fighting for her children


He doesn't seem to care a bit about his kids or his seriously ill wife.


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Bobbie Jo Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Feb-11-10 11:46 AM
Response to Reply #31
81. +1
Absolutely.....and I hope she gets every penny, whether to charity or otherwise.
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Dorian Gray Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Feb-11-10 09:02 AM
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22. That's insane
and reeks of blaming everyone but her husband for the end of her marriage.

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ChiciB1 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Feb-11-10 09:48 AM
Response to Reply #22
53. Seems Like Divorcing Someone IS BLAMING HIM... But Everyone Is
entitled to their opinion! I doubt any of us here will ever know the "full extent" of it all, but that's just how the cookie crumbles!

And crumble it did!
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cali Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Feb-11-10 09:55 AM
Response to Reply #22
59. no, it's not insane. I think she's freaked to pieces about the nasty shit she sent
Young and his wife becoming public.
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Dorian Gray Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Feb-11-10 09:22 PM
Response to Reply #59
141. Wouldn't suing him
make it more likely to come public?

It's like waving a red flag in front of a bull.
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RoadRage Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Feb-11-10 09:11 AM
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29. I'm soooo over the whole Edwards Soap Opera..
I can't believe we actually elected a family that seems to understand the theory behind a "wholesome family".. and avoided this train wreck. Clinton Part Deux...
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Romulox Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Feb-11-10 09:11 AM
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30. Ms. Edwards appears to be as deeply flawed (not to mention needy) as her husband...
If the media stops talking about her for a few days, Ms. Edwards will find a way to start them up again, it seems. For a woman who is mortified, she surely loves the press! :wow:
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hayu_lol Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Feb-11-10 09:27 AM
Response to Reply #30
42. Considering that John is 'engaged' and is planning a 3.5 million...
playpen for himself and potential wife to be...coupled with the constant barrage of trash in the media, Elizabeth is entitled to whatever satisfaction she can get out of any legal move.

She has legal advice from her battery of attorneys and they are doing what needs to be done to protect her and her children's interests over those interests of the potential new bride(once a divorce is filed).

Good for Elizabeth.

Now, if only wife #1 will find a way to go after Neutered Gingrich. Perhaps a cooperative venture between #1 and #2...lol.

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Romulox Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Feb-11-10 09:29 AM
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43. Her remedy is in a divorce court. She doesn't get to prevent her husband from remarrying. nt
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ChiciB1 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Feb-11-10 09:54 AM
Response to Reply #42
58. My Sister Went Through A Very "Nasty" Divorce & She Sued To Get
her fair share! But it took about 3 years in her case, but she finally won! Don't know about how things will actually turn out for Elizabeth, but I think she is due her fair share!

And do forgive me, I didn't know Edwards was going to marry his mistress. I obviously missed it, but then I've tried not to get involved in the Edwards posts because of how I supported and felt about him.

I've heard it more than one time, 50% of married couples experience an affair and that's not saying much about marriage! And yes, Edwards betrayed more than just a wife, I GET THAT!

I have a saying I use... "once you get up on that pedestal, you have FURTHER to fall!" Just sayin'.

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CTyankee Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Feb-11-10 03:14 PM
Response to Reply #30
100. I think she is beyond mortified. Seems to me that she wants to establish
some kind of justice out of this whole thing. I think she has transcended the tabloid tackiness of what befell her. I think she is on to justice playing out as Greek tragedy. When you think about the themes of Greek tragedy, they deal with matters such as this, one of monumental betrayal.
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LisaL Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Feb-11-10 10:29 PM
Response to Reply #100
145. So why doesn't she sue the mistress?
I am not sure what did Young have to do with "alienation of affection."

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CTyankee Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Feb-12-10 04:29 PM
Response to Reply #145
154. I think Elizabeth wanted to take away what she viewed as "ill gotten gains."
Plus, I think she feels he is smearing her.

Of course, if this were Greek tragedy she would have the mistress killed...
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orion007 Donating Member (466 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Feb-12-10 11:18 PM
Response to Reply #30
160. Agree and very important point that most people don't get about
Elizabeth and her need for attention.
Also heard that she and John are very very cheap, if so she's probably doing some of the legal work herself.
Who the hell knows what these sickos are up to.
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Kahuna Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Feb-11-10 09:21 AM
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37. Foolish isn't the word for it. She wants to sue the wrong party. nt
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Raschel Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Feb-11-10 09:35 AM
Response to Reply #37
45. Young is running around spewing his crap, I say get him whatever way she can.
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Kahuna Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Feb-11-10 10:10 AM
Response to Reply #45
67. I know that's what you say, over and over and over. I don't agree. nt
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leftynyc Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Feb-11-10 09:24 AM
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39. Sorry Elizabeth
Do the Democrats get to sue you and your husband for running for the nomination knowing full well this story could explode all over the news? Can we sue you for fraud?
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tallahasseedem Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Feb-11-10 09:52 AM
Response to Reply #39
57. +1
Especially since she was considered the "brains" behind the whole operation.
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cali Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Feb-11-10 09:50 AM
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55. she really doesn't want the ugly messsages she left to see the light of day
that's why she's doing this.
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gelinas Donating Member (13 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Feb-11-10 11:01 AM
Response to Reply #55
74. I think you got it right.
She wants to protect her image. The money would go to a good cause, but that portion of the demand seems to be a smokescreen.
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cali Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Feb-11-10 11:06 AM
Response to Reply #74
76. yep. the donation is the smoke screen
I'm sure the release of those messages would be deeply humiliating and do in her already damaged image.

Welcome to DU.

:hi:
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AndrewP Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Feb-11-10 02:44 PM
Response to Reply #55
95. Exactly
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RollWithIt Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Feb-11-10 10:03 AM
Response to Original message
63. You'd think they'd just slink away to their corners....
What a disappointment they became. Both of them.
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saltpoint Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Feb-11-10 10:07 AM
Response to Reply #63
64. My family has a significant investment in pro-labor politics. I'm very
pro-labor. John Edwards was one of the most pro-labor Democrats to ever come along. I was drawn to his candidacy. It disappoints me that he couldn't keep his wiener in his britches. Each of the tabloid revelations over recent months makes the entire ordeal even more sour. If Elizabeth Edwards really is threatening a law suit against Young, she would be making an already untenable set of circumstances even worse.

There are some young children in the Edwards family who will have to navigate through public memory of this mess in very short order.
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CTyankee Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Feb-11-10 03:28 PM
Response to Reply #64
102. Hey, Saltpoint. Here i would have to disagree.
See my earlier post in this thread on "rough justice." It is rough on everyone, tho, I agree. She wants to win and she wants closure to come after, not before, that, IMO. I'm sure she feels that the wicked should not prosper. I think we have to remember that she was the wronged party and she did not want to have John's affair become public knowledge. That desire misguided her into a decision to go forward with the campaign, denying the reality of what happened in her own mind and not thinking through how disastrously this thing could play out. I see this as the "capstone" of this whole mess...
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saltpoint Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Feb-11-10 10:05 PM
Response to Reply #102
142. Hi, CTyankee. Well, yes, it may become just what you see it
becoming, or then again, it might just mean one more car or two off the track in an already-smoking train wreck.

I'd like to see both of them make fewer public stands on their own navigations and more pledges to their kids.
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Commie Pinko Dirtbag Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Feb-11-10 10:07 AM
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65. I learned now that this legal device exists. And my opinion is: it's a monstrosity.
Edited on Thu Feb-11-10 10:08 AM by Commie Pinko Dirtbag
A likely unconstitutional monstrosity, even.

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Alienation_of_affection

Since 1935, this tort has been abolished in 42 states. Alienation is, however, still recognized in Hawaii, Illinois, North Carolina, Mississippi, New Mexico, South Dakota, and Utah. (...)

Although some trial lawyers support such statutes, many divorce attorneys believe such laws should be repealed. A leading North Carolina divorce specialist has written: " Adultery is not uncommon, but an alienation-of-affection case just polarizes everyone and devastates everything in its path including the children and both spouses....The world has changed. Women are no longer viewed as property. Alienation-of-affection is something that dates way, way back, and if there was ever a law that needed to be removed, this is it."

Liberal writer Jacob Appel has called these suits "vestiges of legal codes that also prohibited divorce and criminalized premarital sex" and argued that they are likely unconstitutional in the aftermath of the United States Supreme Court ruling in Lawrence v. Texas. He has derided these suits as using the "judicial system as a mechanism for personal vengeance." According to Appel, "The consensual conduct of adults in their own bedrooms ought to be their own business, and maybe that of their spouses, not a matter to be deliberated over by a jury of meddlesome peers."
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erpowers Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Feb-11-10 06:56 PM
Response to Reply #65
123. I Agree
I think it needs to be overruled. I do not believe anyone can take someone's affection away from another person. If someone has an affair it is most likely they already have lost affection for the person on which they cheated.
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customerserviceguy Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Feb-11-10 10:09 AM
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66. While this whole thing is a train wreck
It will provide even more 'entertainment' for the media and the little-old-ladies-under-the-hairdryer crowd. That is, if Elizabeth doesn't die before this whole thing can get to court.
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naaman fletcher Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Feb-11-10 10:11 AM
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68. The suit has no merit at all.
Edwards "Young alienated John's affection"

Youngs Lawyer: Didn't Reille Hunter do that? Didn't John do that? Just how strong of a marriage was it anyway?

Case over.
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CTyankee Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Feb-11-10 04:28 PM
Response to Reply #68
111. But Young was another betrayer since he was ostensibly her friend, too.
So she had three people working against her. People she trusted.

Think about how you would feel with that kind of massive betrayal...
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naaman fletcher Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Feb-12-10 01:37 PM
Response to Reply #111
152. I agree
But she still has no case.
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lonestarnot Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Feb-11-10 10:28 AM
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70. This thread reminds me of a divide and conquer thread. It's no one's decision here
whether Mrs. Edwards is doing a shakedown, is acting letigiously, or whether what she is doing is right or wrong. Why should we stand in judgment of her actions, Mrs. Edwards of all people. Fucking A people. So what now, DR Court reform? Leave that to the pugs.
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tammywammy Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Feb-11-10 11:00 AM
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73. Sigh
All her issues with alienation of affection started because one man decided to put his dick in another woman. Her issues should be resolved in divorce, not this alienation of affection bullshit against other people.
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cali Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Feb-11-10 11:02 AM
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75. yeah, but that clearly isn't what this is about. it's obvious that this is
all about preventing the shit she sent from becoming public. I'm betting she talked to her lawyer about the best way to get those emails and phone messages back and he/she told her that this is the route to take.
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tammywammy Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Feb-11-10 11:57 AM
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84. Yeah that's what I'm thinking too
That's why you don't leave nasty messages that you wouldn't mind everyone hearing later. :)
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CTyankee Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Feb-11-10 04:30 PM
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113. Wouldn't you want to keep as much private as you possibly could?
I know I would.
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cali Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Feb-11-10 05:57 PM
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118. sure. but then again, no way would I leave threatening messages
on someone's phone. And yes, I've been in a position where I itched to.
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CTyankee Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Feb-11-10 06:55 PM
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122. Excuse me, but do we know that she left "threatening messages"?
No proof that I know of yet.

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cali Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Feb-11-10 07:09 PM
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126. Young said she did. take that for what it's worth
though I think this action speaks louder than his words.
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CTyankee Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Feb-11-10 07:15 PM
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129. I can understand your thinking this, but it could be that she has other reasons
for not wanting them to be published. The point is we don't know what is on the tape, do we? She might have said something totally different and had reasons for him not to publish them.

She also might have wanted this thing bottled up from now on. Maybe her health is not as great as we think it is and she feels she has only a limited amount of time left to her to "put things right."
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Iggo Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Feb-11-10 11:08 AM
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78. Threads about the Edwards's relationship and the fallout of its collapse...
...belong in the Entertainment forum.
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cali Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Feb-11-10 11:19 AM
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79. tell it to the mods, and if it bugs you, ignore the thread.
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Iggo Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Feb-11-10 11:47 AM
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82. I did. And it doesn't.
Thank you for your concern.
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Iggo Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Feb-11-10 04:30 PM
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112. Sorry. That was rude. You're right.
The thing is, I do find it mildly interesting in an Entertainment Tonight kind of way. Same as Tiger Woods's troubles. That's what I meant. Sorry I was rude about it. That was lame.
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cali Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Feb-11-10 07:17 PM
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130. no problem. you were fine.
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Maru Kitteh Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Feb-11-10 08:30 PM
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136. Tiger Woods wasn't the second banana on the ticket of 04
If we throw out the Edwards threads, the Cheney, Reagan, Gingrich - every disgraced Republican threads all have to be classified as entertainment too.

They're not, because even though none of those people hold office or likely will anytime soon - they are still political figures, as is Edwards and the whole sorry circus that surrounds him.
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lynne Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Feb-11-10 11:33 AM
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80. Sad she's wasting her last days seeking revenge from the wrong person. -
- If she wants revenge, she needs to address it to her husband. He alone is responsible for this mess. Had he kept it in his pants there would have been no Hunter or Young. Edwards is 100% at fault.

Too bad Elizabeth is throwing away what remains of her energy and her life by blaming the wrong person and allowing her misplaced anger to control her.
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hayu_lol Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Feb-11-10 12:09 PM
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85. I wouldn't call it revenge...
it is justice. She has to make sure that things are airtight before departing for the sake of her kids.

Again...good for Elizabeth.
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lynne Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Feb-11-10 12:29 PM
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86. It isn't Justice if the wrong person is charged -
- The 100% guilty person here is Edwards and Edwards only. Everyone else is just window dressing. Elizabeth has let her anger take over what is left of her life and has lapsed into a bitter and somewhat confused figure. I can't help but to feel sorry for her.
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cali Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Feb-11-10 12:32 PM
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87. it couldn't be clearer that this is about the emails and phone messages
she left that were way over the top. she doesn't want them to go public. I don't blame her but this has nothing to do with justice. she doesn't want the humiliation of having those messages in the public sphere.
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karynnj Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Feb-11-10 07:04 PM
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124. Judging from all that has been said by Young, this may be the opposite of what is needed
First off, I assume much of the content is irrevocably already in his book. It may be too late.

Second, it seems part of his motivation is that he now hates the Edwardses with the same passion he once loved JRE. It seems that he first disliked Elizabeth several years ago. I can't believe that such an intelligent woman, who is a lawyer, would have not realized that messages could be saved - where they are phone, email or letters. I think once a message is sent, it belongs to person it was sent to.

If, she would have thought over the next year of how they seem, she should have apologized to the Youngs for the out of control messages and accepted the fact that the real person she should be angry with was her husband.
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Garbo 2004 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Feb-11-10 02:35 PM
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91. How would threat of law suit or law suit benefit her kids? Can't undo what's already public.
That includes the voice mails ABC already has and aired, the published book, etc. Can't censor the story itself that's already public. Using her greater resources (i.e. her wealth to pursue litigation) to crush this guy who was her husband's flunky isn't much of a legacy to leave one's kids.

If anything it would go to confirm the less than flattering image of Elizabeth portrayed in not only Young's book but also "Game Change," where on the record named sources sympathetic to Elizabeth subsequently confirmed incidents described in the book but made the case that the incidents should be considered in context.
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tonysam Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Feb-11-10 12:46 PM
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88. Let's call her a crook, please. After all, you can't libel a public figure.
Another Edwards hating, bashing thread.
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erpowers Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Feb-11-10 07:11 PM
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127. Not Hating or Bashing
This thread is not about hating or bashing Elizabeth Edwards. It is about pointing out that threatening a guy with a lawsuit unless he gives you money may seem like a shakedown to some people. I never said she was a criminal. I pointed out that it was a foolish move in that it made her look bad.
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earth mom Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Feb-11-10 01:38 PM
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89. Young is a disloyal scummy piece of shit. I hope Elizabeth can kick his ass legally.
But even if the case is thrown out, at least Elizabeth has let the world know what a disgusting sleezy asshole Young is.
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Garbo 2004 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Feb-11-10 02:39 PM
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92. Edwards used Young & then dumped him like a soiled tissue. How much loyalty do you think that
engenders?
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Skidmore Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Feb-11-10 03:40 PM
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105. By every source I've read, Young followed
John Edwards around and did pracetically everything but digest his food for him.
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Grand Taurean Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Feb-11-10 01:56 PM
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90. Elizabeth Edwards is a shyster, a hustler, just like Johnny boy.
They deserve each other.
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ChiciB1 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Feb-12-10 06:56 PM
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157. Just Saw Your Comment... I'm Sorry I Missed It Before, But I REALLY
think calling Elizabeth a shyster & a hustler is rather rough. Sure, politics is a tough game, but c'mon, is this type of name calling needed?

I know, sticks & stones, but perhaps you might want to reconsider, then perhaps not. I suppose since I don't see her that way, it IS offensive to me and I think to others also regardless of the whole mess.

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PaDUer Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Feb-12-10 10:18 PM
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158. How can you call
Elizabeth a shyster & hustler? She's far from that. Perhaps you're jealous of her being that she's a brilliant female attorney? Your post clearly shows your mentality. Her and John are millionaires who fought for people who were wronged, & a judge wouldn't rule in their favor for their clients cases they did just because they were Atty Edwards'.
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Skidmore Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Feb-11-10 03:38 PM
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103. Young is making money off of this.
I hope she nails the bastard to the wall along with Hunter and Edwards.
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Dappleganger Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Feb-11-10 04:16 PM
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109. Not going to judge her for this.
She's been through hell and knows way more details about what's going on than anyone on this forum.
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JackRiddler Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Feb-11-10 05:38 PM
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116. I don't see how her choice of outfit is any of our business.
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RB TexLa Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Feb-11-10 05:56 PM
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117. Why wouldn't this be laughed out of court? No one has an obligation to inform someone that a spouse
is cheating on them.
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Maru Kitteh Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Feb-11-10 07:24 PM
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131. That's not the way the law reads in North Carolina.
Young actively engaged in deception that contributed to the destruction of her marriage. That is actionable in NC.
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Manifestor_of_Light Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Feb-11-10 07:37 PM
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133. OK even if this is a valid COA in NC, what about unclean hands?
Can they come back with an unclean hands defense, as Elizabeth knew about the affair and still pushed John to get the Democratic nomination?

Just asking.
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Maru Kitteh Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Feb-11-10 08:33 PM
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137. The lawsuit has to do with her marriage, not the Democratic nomination.
Would a defense want to fault a dying woman with young children for attempting to keep her marriage? I doubt it.
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LisaL Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Feb-11-10 10:27 PM
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144. But he didn't do it to alienate the affections of John Edwards.
He did it because John Edwards asked him to. The affections appeared to be already alienated.
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Maru Kitteh Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Feb-12-10 01:12 AM
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146. Doesn't matter who asked him to do it.
Elizabeth believed she was part of an intact marriage when Young acted to hide the affair from her. That's what she's addressing with the suit under North Carolina law.
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RB TexLa Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Feb-12-10 06:29 PM
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156. So his helping hide an affair contibuted to the destruction of her marriage? Didn't his
helping hide the affiar help her marriage continue. If the affair were known about sooner wouldn't the marriage have ended sooner? This is a stupid law.
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Raine Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Feb-11-10 06:01 PM
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119. The Edwards are the "gift" that keeps on giving. nt
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tritsofme Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Feb-11-10 07:25 PM
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132. Rarely have I seen a group of people that so richly deserve eachother.
Edited on Thu Feb-11-10 07:25 PM by tritsofme
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pitohui Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Feb-11-10 07:59 PM
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135. friend, there's such a thing as chemo fog (common in breast cancer) which affects people's judgement
i agree that suing someone for alienation of affection makes you look small, petty, and a throwback to 1800, and that this suit makes it look like edwards is extorting young, which puts her in the wrong where she would have been in the right -- makes the whole thing look like an ugly money grab

HOWEVER, i wonder if you are considering the effects of cancer treatment/chemotherapy on the brain -- chemo fog is a well-known side effect of treatment for breast cancer, to the point where some survivors seem to change their entire system of values and beliefs

i know a woman who was formerly high achieving, after treatment for breast cancer, is a completely a different person, not just in looks (her very HAIR grew in a different texture and color) but in personality, values and beliefs -- she became entangled w. a drug addict and from being on the partner track, first got on the mommy track (with a drug addict!) and now is on the unemployed screw-up track

chemotherapy is strong drugs, yes, needed to save your life when there is no alternative, but what they do to your brain is no joke

this lawsuit is ugly and unattractive but we are biological creatures, subject to weakness caused by our biology and frailty, both john and elizabeth have my sympathy even if i don't agree with some of their choices

we all screw up somewhere
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ChiciB1 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Feb-12-10 09:48 AM
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148. I Think Your Comments Are Very Interesting... Had Not Thought About It
that way, but I too feel as you. And this whole thing is nothing but SAD! I'm trying not to be overly judgmental because I'm not walking in their shoes. But my gut feeling is that Young is after the money, and he's doing as much betraying as he stated that the Edwards' are! Two wrongs don't make a right. Enough with the cliches, eh??

:shrug:
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PaDUer Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Feb-12-10 05:12 PM
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155. I do not feel that "chemo fog" ...
is what's going on here..The Young's are after money, cut & dried. They were living a life of luxury while being w/ the Edwards. The Young family also left their young family & traveled, had a grand time, at NO cost to them. They knew what was going on the entire time, then when it hit the fan, they did a 360. They find out they can't get a JOB, then decided to write a book, media, & appear on tv shows bragging about sex tapes, emails, text messages, and whatever else, and made COPIES of everything that they stole. There's a name for people like them, and I'm certain you know what it is.
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lib_n_proud7650 Donating Member (50 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Feb-12-10 10:34 PM
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159. this whole thing is a mess
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ChiciB1 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Feb-13-10 09:50 AM
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161. I Couldn't Agree More... But I Did Look Into Some Interesting Information
about Rielle Hunter, who's past is quite checkered. She's gone by several different names and this IS NOT her first foray into a SCANDAL! Some pretty interesting stuff about a horse racing scandal, drugging etc. I'm an animal lover and I've known about what happens with horses and how those "big whigs" were only concerned about the money and NOT about what damage and death that happened to the horses. This is a subject that has made me furious more times than not!

Checked out wikipedia and found her real name was Lisa Jo Druck, and there's a SLEW of info there. Also am doing more recent research about some articles written by one of his previous staffers, I think her name is Wendy Button. She sounds heart broken like so many who supported Edwards for so long.

I doubt we've heard the last of this, and it will continue. While some say Edwards will marry Rielle, I didn't get that feeling from what I've been reading. Also, some staffers are REALLY upset by what Andrew Young has done, and think he's "cashing in" on something that he was just as duplicitous as Edwards was. Some even feel he's seeking more of his 15 minutes of fame by what is going on.

I know this isn't something many want to hash out over and over again here, but I sincerely think this is going to rear it's ugly head again and we'll be talking about it all over at a later time.

Just sayin'
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