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discocrisco01 (524 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-15-10 05:45 PM Original message |
Majority of women blame victims for rape |
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greyl (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-15-10 05:51 PM Response to Original message |
1. "online poll"? Uh huh. nt |
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Blue-Jay (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-15-10 06:09 PM Response to Reply #1 |
5. Stand back, I'm doing science! |
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gratuitous (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-15-10 06:41 PM Original message |
Probably should be taken with a BIG grain of salt |
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redqueen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-15-10 06:42 PM Response to Original message |
15. Perhaps it could be motivated by fear... |
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Fumesucker (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Feb-16-10 11:06 AM Response to Reply #15 |
22. That was my thought also.. |
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Whisp (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Feb-17-10 04:19 PM Response to Original message |
133. there certainly are some that do... |
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Recursion (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Feb-16-10 03:21 PM Response to Reply #1 |
47. Online polls can still be scientific |
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greyl (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Feb-17-10 03:55 AM Response to Reply #47 |
51. That's true. |
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blondeatlast (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Feb-17-10 01:30 PM Response to Reply #1 |
105. +1. nt |
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NC_Nurse (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-15-10 05:52 PM Response to Original message |
2. Very cruel. It's sad. |
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CTyankee (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-15-10 06:02 PM Response to Original message |
3. Hmm. This is a British poll. It would be interesting to see what a poll |
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flvegan (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-15-10 06:07 PM Response to Original message |
4. I cannot think of a situation where getting raped could be even a percentage the woman's fault. |
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Blue-Jay (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-15-10 06:10 PM Response to Reply #4 |
6. It's from an online poll. Not worth talking about. |
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DURHAM D (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-15-10 06:27 PM Response to Reply #4 |
10. Probably many of the "women" responding that it was the victim's fault - |
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reflection (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Feb-16-10 11:19 AM Response to Reply #10 |
26. Yep. |
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Lorien (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Feb-16-10 12:58 PM Response to Reply #10 |
33. Indeed. Though I overheard a female RW coworker complaining about her neighbor once |
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alp227 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Feb-16-10 05:28 PM Response to Reply #33 |
50. That's what O'Reilly said |
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Recursion (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Feb-17-10 12:28 PM Response to Reply #33 |
85. Here's what I don't get |
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Lorien (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Feb-17-10 12:49 PM Response to Reply #85 |
93. ?? I never mentioned rape as a sexual act |
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Recursion (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Feb-17-10 01:19 PM Response to Reply #93 |
99. Right, you say it's not a sexual act |
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Name removed (0 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Feb-17-10 01:28 PM Response to Reply #99 |
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Recursion (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Feb-17-10 01:56 PM Response to Reply #104 |
117. Well, when I was sexually abused, it sure was a sexual act |
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Whisp (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Feb-17-10 04:41 PM Response to Reply #99 |
140. it takes 2 (or more) consents to have 'sex'. are you having 'sex' when you wank yourself off? |
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Name removed (0 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Feb-17-10 04:18 PM Response to Reply #93 |
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blondeatlast (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Feb-17-10 01:32 PM Response to Reply #10 |
108. Yup. nt |
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LeftyMom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Feb-16-10 12:30 PM Response to Reply #4 |
29. It's a defense mechanism. If the victim is at fault that means they're smart enough to be safe. |
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Statistical (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-15-10 06:14 PM Response to Original message |
7. That is .... horrible. |
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DURHAM D (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-15-10 06:25 PM Response to Original message |
8. So - if they were to poll men about robberies or muggings against men ... |
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AngryAmish (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-15-10 06:32 PM Response to Reply #8 |
11. Great idea for a poll. Do it! |
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Hannah Bell (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Feb-17-10 04:55 AM Response to Reply #8 |
56. I think some would, with good reason. For example, if you're buying drugs & get robbed, |
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DURHAM D (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Feb-17-10 04:17 PM Response to Reply #56 |
130. You completely changed the proposed question - |
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Name removed (0 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Feb-17-10 04:52 PM Response to Reply #130 |
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DURHAM D (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Feb-17-10 05:14 PM Response to Reply #142 |
146. Again - I didn't include anything about suggestive behavior like |
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RedCappedBandit (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Feb-17-10 05:24 PM Response to Reply #146 |
150. You make it sound like it's okay to commit crime against people if they use drugs.. |
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DURHAM D (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Feb-17-10 05:31 PM Response to Reply #150 |
153. I don't, of course, think you can or should blame any victim of a crime |
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RedCappedBandit (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Feb-17-10 05:23 PM Response to Reply #8 |
149. Actually, yes, in some cases. |
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Bunny (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Feb-18-10 10:22 AM Response to Reply #149 |
173. He may have been "asking to get robbed" but the more important |
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redqueen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Feb-18-10 10:59 AM Response to Reply #173 |
174. Excellent point. |
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Warpy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-15-10 06:25 PM Response to Original message |
9. Not sure if it's particularly accurate |
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Bunny (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-15-10 06:41 PM Response to Reply #9 |
14. Yes. 80 year old grannies are raped, and so are infant girls. |
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csziggy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-15-10 06:54 PM Response to Reply #14 |
16. +10000 |
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Sultana (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Feb-16-10 01:13 PM Response to Reply #14 |
34. Learned that @ a Women's Conference that I attended few weeks back |
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Stargazer09 (625 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Feb-16-10 03:04 PM Response to Reply #14 |
45. Thank you for that! |
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Odin2005 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Feb-17-10 09:27 AM Response to Reply #14 |
66. You missed one: If a woman is disabled, don't rape her. |
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blondeatlast (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Feb-17-10 01:35 PM Response to Reply #14 |
109. +9 jazillion-leventy. nt |
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customerserviceguy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-15-10 07:25 PM Response to Reply #9 |
17. Exactly, it's all that 'training' that women receive |
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lunatica (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-15-10 06:36 PM Response to Original message |
12. I don't believe women blame rape victims |
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oldlib (549 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-15-10 06:40 PM Response to Original message |
13. I agree. |
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Berry Cool (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Feb-16-10 10:59 AM Response to Original message |
18. I believe this. |
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raccoon (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Feb-16-10 12:20 PM Response to Reply #18 |
27. There are lots of boys/men who think that in real life. |
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reflection (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Feb-16-10 12:41 PM Response to Reply #18 |
30. I read a novel recently with similar undercurrents... |
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howard112211 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Feb-16-10 12:50 PM Response to Reply #18 |
32. Just for clarification: Do you think it is automatically rape if both parties are drunk? |
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Recursion (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Feb-16-10 03:23 PM Response to Reply #18 |
48. Well, that one has always been curious to me. |
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Name removed (0 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Feb-17-10 09:10 AM Response to Reply #18 |
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anonymous171 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Feb-17-10 01:31 PM Response to Reply #18 |
107. Wut? nt |
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JerseygirlCT (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Feb-16-10 11:00 AM Response to Original message |
19. We are sometimes our own worst enemy. |
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sunnybrook (986 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Feb-16-10 11:01 AM Response to Original message |
20. This is sad |
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Iris (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Feb-16-10 11:03 AM Response to Original message |
21. Cruel? Or just an attempt to make the world less scary? |
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Hekate (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Feb-17-10 04:29 AM Response to Reply #21 |
55. I think you may be right: "If I just restrict my life and behavior enough, I will be safe." |
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Iris (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Feb-17-10 12:05 PM Response to Reply #55 |
81. I had a friend who would not leave her house after dark. So, winter months, she'd be locked in by |
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Hekate (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Feb-17-10 01:14 PM Response to Reply #81 |
96. I don't go that far. But in a thousand small ways, my behavior is different from any man or boy. |
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RedCappedBandit (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Feb-17-10 05:37 PM Response to Reply #21 |
156. You're exactly right. nt |
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dustbunnie (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Feb-16-10 11:06 AM Response to Original message |
23. I have no problems believing it and this isn't the first time they take the poll. |
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Deep13 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Feb-16-10 11:09 AM Response to Original message |
24. Actually, I already knew that. |
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raccoon (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Feb-16-10 12:21 PM Response to Reply #24 |
28. I bet they sure as hell aren't if the perp is a friend of theirs. |
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Deep13 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Feb-16-10 01:34 PM Response to Reply #28 |
38. I don't really know. |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Feb-16-10 12:46 PM Response to Reply #24 |
31. men are taught... don't rape. pretty clear. women told, dont get drunk |
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Deep13 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Feb-16-10 01:36 PM Response to Reply #31 |
40. That's a good point. |
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Recursion (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Feb-17-10 11:22 AM Response to Reply #31 |
79. I teach self-defense classes from time to time |
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kpete (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Feb-16-10 11:13 AM Response to Original message |
25. "majority of women" |
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alp227 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Feb-16-10 01:16 PM Response to Original message |
35. Did they conduct this survey with members of the Eagle Forum? |
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Kievan Rus (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Feb-17-10 11:23 AM Response to Reply #35 |
80. The Female-Male Supremacist always cracks me up..... |
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Vidar (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Feb-16-10 01:20 PM Response to Original message |
36. I had some experience with this thirty years ago. My cousin & my fiancee had |
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ourbluenation (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Feb-16-10 01:22 PM Response to Original message |
37. I work at a rape crisis center. i'd say this is actually pretty true, sadly. n/t |
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reflection (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Feb-16-10 01:54 PM Response to Reply #37 |
41. Really? |
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dustbunnie (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Feb-16-10 02:49 PM Response to Reply #41 |
43. I've worked at a woman's shelter and have discussed this with people who help out -- |
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ourbluenation (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Feb-16-10 03:18 PM Response to Reply #41 |
46. No, not the victims but they do report it from family and friends plus... |
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Odin2005 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Feb-17-10 09:23 AM Response to Reply #37 |
65. I volunteered at one for a while and I agree. |
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Cleita (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Feb-16-10 01:35 PM Response to Original message |
39. Back in the fifties when I was working after classes at a Catholic Hospital, |
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Forkboy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Feb-16-10 02:34 PM Response to Original message |
42. The most vicious things I've heard said about women in my life have been from other women. |
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LeftyMom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Feb-16-10 02:56 PM Response to Reply #42 |
44. Yep. |
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fishwax (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Feb-16-10 03:35 PM Response to Original message |
49. ABC = Australian Broadcasting Corporation |
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TexasObserver (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Feb-17-10 04:03 AM Response to Original message |
52. The notion that sexuality has any role in rape is abhorrent. |
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BlueIris (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Feb-17-10 04:17 AM Response to Reply #52 |
54. . |
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Recursion (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Feb-17-10 08:49 AM Response to Reply #52 |
57. You say that like "sex" and "power" are absolutely distinct things |
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Name removed (0 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Feb-17-10 09:16 AM Response to Reply #57 |
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TexasObserver (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Feb-17-10 09:18 AM Response to Reply #57 |
62. So, you're arguing that the RAPIST does it for sex, sometimes, not power? |
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Name removed (0 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Feb-17-10 09:22 AM Response to Reply #62 |
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Odin2005 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Feb-17-10 09:37 AM Response to Reply #63 |
69. That certainly fits my friend's acquaintance rape. |
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redqueen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Feb-17-10 12:33 PM Response to Reply #71 |
86. I reject this completely. |
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Name removed (0 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Feb-17-10 01:46 PM Response to Reply #86 |
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rasputin1952 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Feb-17-10 04:20 PM Response to Reply #86 |
134. I agree... |
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Odin2005 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Feb-17-10 04:01 PM Response to Reply #71 |
128. IMO one problem is the "maybe is yes, no is maybe, and yes makes you a slut" issue. |
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Recursion (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Feb-17-10 10:48 AM Response to Reply #62 |
75. Yes, though you seem to have missed my subject heading |
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Name removed (0 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Feb-17-10 09:17 AM Response to Reply #52 |
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Odin2005 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Feb-17-10 09:34 AM Response to Reply #52 |
68. Usually but not always, some rapists seem to be sick perverts with issues. |
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BlueIris (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Feb-17-10 04:16 AM Response to Original message |
53. "Blame culture." As if women invented rape culture OR its blame-the-victim mentality. |
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Echo In Light (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Feb-17-10 09:12 AM Response to Original message |
59. Dunno how accurate the sampling is, but that is fucked. up. |
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Odin2005 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Feb-17-10 09:22 AM Response to Original message |
64. OMG! There are no words for this cruel stupidity. |
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Romulox (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Feb-17-10 09:34 AM Response to Original message |
67. I think it is pushing ideology at the expense of women's safety to suggest a FALSE DICHOTOMY |
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rasputin1952 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Feb-17-10 09:40 AM Response to Original message |
70. "Hormones" have nothing to do with it... |
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Name removed (0 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Feb-17-10 09:56 AM Response to Reply #70 |
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rasputin1952 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Feb-17-10 10:15 AM Response to Reply #72 |
73. Just because one is acquainted with the victim... |
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redqueen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Feb-17-10 12:38 PM Response to Reply #74 |
88. "uncertainty in consent and the situation getting out of hand" |
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Recursion (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Feb-17-10 12:42 PM Response to Reply #88 |
90. You don't think lack of communication ever has anything to do with it? |
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redqueen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Feb-17-10 12:43 PM Response to Reply #90 |
91. With confusion? Sure. With rape? No fucking way. |
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Recursion (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Feb-17-10 12:45 PM Response to Reply #91 |
92. Or just too socially conditioned to actually say "no" outloud |
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rasputin1952 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Feb-17-10 01:18 PM Response to Reply #92 |
98. You know, semantics aside, it appears to me... |
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Recursion (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Feb-17-10 01:21 PM Response to Reply #98 |
101. Only if you see calling rape a sex act as a defense |
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Name removed (0 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Feb-17-10 01:55 PM Response to Reply #98 |
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rasputin1952 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Feb-17-10 02:02 PM Response to Reply #116 |
120. And your view... |
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Recursion (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Feb-17-10 02:10 PM Response to Reply #120 |
123. You still haven't explained why that contradicts what he or I are saying |
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rasputin1952 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Feb-17-10 02:58 PM Response to Reply #123 |
124. Let me put it to you this way... |
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Recursion (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Feb-17-10 03:19 PM Response to Reply #124 |
125. I completely agree it's both |
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Name removed (0 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Feb-17-10 04:07 PM Response to Reply #124 |
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rasputin1952 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Feb-17-10 04:18 PM Response to Reply #129 |
131. Has it occured to you that it may be you that is not "getting it"... |
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Name removed (0 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Feb-17-10 04:35 PM Response to Reply #131 |
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Odin2005 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Feb-17-10 04:22 PM Response to Reply #91 |
135. I think you are misunderstanding what they are saying. They are not trying to let the rapist off... |
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redqueen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Feb-18-10 10:15 AM Response to Reply #135 |
172. I don't think I was. |
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rasputin1952 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Feb-17-10 01:15 PM Response to Reply #90 |
97. Hoiw hard is it miss "No"... |
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Recursion (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Feb-17-10 01:23 PM Response to Reply #97 |
102. Like I said, women are socially conditioned to be "nice" and "keep quiet" |
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rasputin1952 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Feb-17-10 01:30 PM Response to Reply #102 |
106. OK, we've broken some ice here... |
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Name removed (0 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Feb-17-10 01:53 PM Response to Reply #88 |
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rasputin1952 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Feb-17-10 01:13 PM Response to Reply #74 |
95. Of couurse it ahs a strong sexual content... |
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rasputin1952 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Feb-17-10 01:41 PM Response to Reply #110 |
112. All rape is sexual in nature... |
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uppityperson (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Feb-17-10 04:57 PM Response to Reply #74 |
143. does the percentage of rape victims peak at about 14-20 age range and then gradually reduce...? link |
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Name removed (0 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Feb-17-10 05:22 PM Response to Reply #143 |
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uppityperson (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Feb-17-10 05:32 PM Response to Reply #148 |
155. You want to leave "anectodal evidence" out of a discussion, just talk statistics? No. |
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Name removed (0 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Feb-17-10 05:37 PM Response to Reply #155 |
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uppityperson (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Feb-17-10 05:39 PM Response to Reply #158 |
160. And leave people out of it. Gotcha. However, people are involved. |
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Name removed (0 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Feb-17-10 05:40 PM Response to Reply #160 |
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uppityperson (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Feb-17-10 05:44 PM Response to Reply #161 |
163. You will take peer reviewed research over what a victim says. All you care about is stats, not the |
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Name removed (0 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Feb-17-10 05:47 PM Response to Reply #163 |
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uppityperson (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Feb-17-10 05:51 PM Response to Reply #165 |
167. "Truth" is subjective. You cannot see that. I hope to not see ya. |
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Name removed (0 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Feb-17-10 05:56 PM Response to Reply #167 |
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Recursion (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Feb-17-10 11:04 AM Response to Reply #70 |
78. I'm curious why you see that as an attempt to "excuse" the crime? |
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rasputin1952 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Feb-17-10 12:06 PM Response to Reply #78 |
82. Several years ago, I sat on a jury in a sexual assault case... |
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Recursion (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Feb-17-10 12:15 PM Response to Reply #82 |
83. OK, but that's not what I'm talking about |
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rasputin1952 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Feb-17-10 12:33 PM Response to Reply #83 |
87. As near as I can figure, through research, is that ... |
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Recursion (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Feb-17-10 12:41 PM Response to Reply #87 |
89. And that "therefore" makes sense to you? |
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rasputin1952 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Feb-17-10 01:05 PM Response to Reply #89 |
94. "Sexual gratification" can take many forms... |
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Recursion (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Feb-17-10 01:20 PM Response to Reply #94 |
100. Of course it's a violent act |
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rasputin1952 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Feb-17-10 01:25 PM Response to Reply #100 |
103. it is only sexual because it is completed by the use of |
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Name removed (0 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Feb-17-10 01:59 PM Response to Reply #103 |
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rasputin1952 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Feb-17-10 02:06 PM Response to Reply #118 |
122. That is not true... |
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Name removed (0 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Feb-17-10 03:56 PM Response to Reply #122 |
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uppityperson (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Feb-17-10 05:03 PM Response to Reply #118 |
144. That is not true. Acquaintance/date rapists can and do also |
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Name removed (0 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Feb-17-10 05:16 PM Response to Reply #144 |
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uppityperson (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Feb-17-10 05:27 PM Response to Reply #147 |
151. And if the victim ends up the same, the perp should be let go because he "didn't mean it"? |
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Name removed (0 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Feb-17-10 05:31 PM Response to Reply #151 |
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uppityperson (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Feb-17-10 05:37 PM Response to Reply #154 |
157. If the outcome is the same, should the punishment be the same? You keep avoiding this |
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Name removed (0 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Feb-17-10 05:39 PM Response to Reply #157 |
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uppityperson (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Feb-17-10 05:43 PM Response to Reply #159 |
162. Obviously you do not see and obviously you discount we individuals who have been raped |
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Name removed (0 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Feb-17-10 05:46 PM Response to Reply #162 |
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uppityperson (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Feb-17-10 05:51 PM Response to Reply #164 |
166. If someone intends to rape to "merely" rape and not mutilate and end up mutilating, then they shoul |
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Name removed (0 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Feb-17-10 05:57 PM Response to Reply #166 |
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Name removed (0 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Feb-17-10 10:49 AM Response to Original message |
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WI_DEM (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Feb-17-10 10:49 AM Response to Original message |
77. most online polls are worthless. |
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NashVegas (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Feb-17-10 12:26 PM Response to Original message |
84. There Are the "Greek Tragedy" Scenarios |
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Recursion (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Feb-17-10 01:40 PM Response to Original message |
111. Thought experiment |
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bobbolink (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Feb-17-10 02:00 PM Response to Original message |
119. I'm not at all surprised. I experienced the same reflexive blame when my son was kidnapped, and |
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La Lioness Priyanka (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Feb-17-10 02:03 PM Response to Original message |
121. i am not surprised. If we didnt blame other women, we might think it could happen any minute to us |
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Green_Lantern (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Feb-17-10 03:55 PM Response to Original message |
126. makes sense.... |
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Odin2005 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Feb-17-10 04:27 PM Response to Reply #126 |
136. People want to ignore the acquatence rape problem because... |
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gleaner (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Feb-17-10 04:33 PM Response to Original message |
137. This is a fairly common reaction to victims of any crime ,.... |
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Whisp (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Feb-17-10 04:34 PM Response to Original message |
138. so wearing burkas = no rapes. yah sure. n/t |
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uppityperson (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Feb-17-10 05:04 PM Response to Original message |
145. Thank you for posting this. Found some new buddies here. nt |
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RedCappedBandit (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Feb-17-10 05:31 PM Response to Original message |
152. Makes perfect sense, and here's why: |
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greyl (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Feb-17-10 06:02 PM Response to Reply #152 |
170. Very interesting point. nt |
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Odin2005 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Feb-18-10 08:41 AM Response to Reply #152 |
171. That makes a lot of sense. |
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