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meegbear Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Mar-11-10 01:10 PM
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Social Bar Beating: Woman Left With Broken Eye Socket, Other Injuries After Rejecting Man's Advances
A stranger followed a woman into a New York City bar restroom after she rejected his advances early Thursday, savagely beat her in a toilet stall and perhaps even sexually assaulted her, police said.

The attack occurred around 2 a.m. at Social, a three-story bar and lounge on Eighth Avenue in midtown Manhattan where the victim, a nurse, had gone with a friend, authorities said.

The woman told police that she had rebuffed attempts by an unidentified man to dance with her, said police spokesman Paul Browne. When she went to the women's restroom on the second floor, he followed her and burst into a stall.

The man beat the victim until she was unconscious. Her friend later found in her in the stall and called 911, believing she might have fallen.

The woman was hospitalized with a broken eye socket, broken jaw and other injuries. When she regained consciousness, she told hospital workers she had been attacked.

Browne said investigators think she might also have been sexually assaulted. The Associated Press generally doesn't name potential victims of sexual assault.

Police were gathering security videotape and interviewing bar employees to try to identify the assailant. There was no immediate response to a phone message left at the bar.
http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2010/03/11/social-bar-beating-woman-_n_495144.html
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yurbud Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Mar-11-10 01:11 PM
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1. don't drink with or near strangers.
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MattBaggins Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Mar-11-10 02:40 PM
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7. Or dress like a slut
Heck if this woman had a husband and had stayed at home, this would not have happened in the first place.

It is ultimately the victims fault after all.
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Hello_Kitty Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Mar-11-10 02:53 PM
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11. Stay home and always be wearing your burqa. eom
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PVnRT Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Mar-11-10 03:01 PM
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16. No, it's stay home and cook dinner
The burqa is only for when the menfolk decide to let the little lady out of her cage.
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MattBaggins Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Mar-11-10 03:16 PM
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17. The cooking part is understood when one says stay at home isn't it?
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Vattel Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Mar-11-10 02:58 PM
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15. I take it you are trying to be funny
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roguevalley Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Mar-11-10 05:22 PM
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19. my dad got colecocked by a drunk when he was towing his car
after arrest. Getting your eye socket broken is a bitch. poor thing.
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yurbud Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Mar-11-10 08:53 PM
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24. did i say that advice is only for women? i read it in a book on persoanl safety years ago.
Every hour you're at a bar after 11 pm you're more likely to be the victim of a violent crime. that does not excuse the criminals at all, its just telling people how to steer clear of the problem.
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yurbud Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Mar-11-10 09:00 PM
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26. whose behavior can you control, other people's or your own?
Sometimes, you have to think a little beyond the bumper sticker.

Nothing excuses a guy attacking or raping a woman, but it is hardly blaming the victim to say what can be done to avoid danger.
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Shell Beau Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Mar-11-10 09:07 PM
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28. Don't go to any restaurant or bar. Or for that matter, anywhere.
She deserved it. What was she thinking?

:eyes:
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flvegan Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Mar-11-10 01:12 PM
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2. Lord, please let the security video be crystal clear.
A good, long view of this miscreant, and may he be found quickly and properly disposed of in prison for a very, very long time.
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The_Commonist Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Mar-11-10 02:38 PM
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6. And hopefully he paid for his drinks...
...with his credit/debit card.
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Adsos Letter Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Mar-11-10 02:48 PM
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10. I'm in 100% agreement; you couldn't have crystallized it any better.
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tammywammy Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Mar-11-10 02:54 PM
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13. Agreed n/t
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Taverner Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Mar-11-10 01:14 PM
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3. Jesus FUCK why would someone fucking do that?
Even if she insults you - and insults you bad - that just means you are targetting the wrong women, saying the wrong things or just plain out too drunk

Go home, burn one, please try again...
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Arkansas Granny Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Mar-11-10 01:37 PM
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4. There are some real sickos out there, and she apparently had the misfortune
to be found by one of them. I hope they find him.
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Taverner Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Mar-11-10 01:44 PM
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5. That sick fuck needs to be sent to an institution
That's psychotic behavior.
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Echo In Light Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Mar-11-10 02:42 PM
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8. Remember Looking for Mr. Goodbar?
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Taverner Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Mar-11-10 07:00 PM
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20. That movie seriously depressed me
Because I knew 'her'

And she was fun - and given the right environment, her kind can FLOURISH

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npk Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Mar-11-10 08:59 PM
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25. Something tells me this man has a history of being rejected by women
I can't imagine why :sarcasm:


This is why people say a woman has that extra sense that men don't have. They can just see a scumbag like a dog can smell dope in a suitcase.
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leftstreet Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Mar-11-10 02:43 PM
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9. FFS! When did 1,2 and 3rd degree assault become 'Social Bar Beating?'
:mad: :mad: :mad:
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tammywammy Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Mar-11-10 02:54 PM
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12. It's a bad headline, the name of the bar is Social n/t
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leftstreet Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Mar-11-10 02:54 PM
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14. Oh! LOL
That's better!
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Taverner Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Mar-11-10 04:29 PM
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18. it was a beating at a Social bar
But I get where you're coming from - kind of an ambiguous headline, no?
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Mari333 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Mar-11-10 07:02 PM
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21. some real assholes out there
wish she had had a taser on her. right to the groin, buddy.
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Starbucks Anarchist Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Mar-11-10 07:05 PM
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22. I hope this misogynistic asshole gets mauled by a chimp.
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Odin2005 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Mar-11-10 07:12 PM
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23. Have fun in jail, asshole!
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Liberal_in_LA Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Mar-11-10 09:01 PM
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27. agreed
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Shell Beau Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Mar-11-10 09:09 PM
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29. This person needs to be caught pronto.
She likely wasn't the first or last.
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