And I am shocked that some DUers can live in a world where such simplistic statements as
"some DUers could be so accepting of war" could be made with a straight face.
Now my credentials for being against war is that I was so against the Vietnam war that I protested, risked jail by refusing to cooperate the draft.
Then I went to SE Asia and from 1978 to 1985 worked with refugees and eventually became chief of operations for IOM for refugees from Vietnam, Cambodia, Laos, and even a few from Afghanistan and Iran.
The lessons from resettling 440,000 refugees is far too complex to list here but in the context of your post here are some of them.
1) Most insurgencies can in fact be defeated. Contrary to the common wisdom civilized countries do not simply collapse every time there is an insurgency. Thailand, Malaysia, Singapore and Indonesia all successfully countered very strong insurgencies and in every case you can find articles that all (except Singapore) were going to be the 'next Vietnam'.
2) Stopping our involvement doesn't mean the end of killing. Over a million Cambodians were killed until the Vietnamese invaded Cambodia and got rid of the Khmer Rouge.
3) The goal of Al Queda and other Jihadists in the Afghan/Pakistan/India theater is to reignite tensions between Pakistan and India. The consequences of an all out war betweent these countries would be astronomical. When they divided the countries it is estimated that a million people died in "unorganized" fights that occurred spontaneously. This area has a greater potential for the break out of a full scale war that would have millions of casualties than even Israel/Palestine.
The fact that India, Pakistan and Afghanistan have developed such a high level of cooperation recently shows that the people in the region are keenly aware of the potential for the outbreak of violence that would make the current conflict look like a picnic.
People keep asking "could this be another Vietnam" (which also resulted in millions of refugees) when they should be asking "could this be another Cambodia".
4) There are legitimate and thoughtful questions to be raised about our involvement in Afghanistan and there are several DUers who raise thoughtful questions but the meme that Iraq equals Afghanistan is not only foolish it actually undermines the case against war. Every country has a right to defend itself and the Taliban was actively involved in the actions that resulted in the attacks of 9/11. The war against Iraq was a war of aggression that had no legal justification and by equating all war together you actually trivialize the arguments against wars of aggression and our involvement in Iraq.
5) While, obviously not a reason to justify the war in Afghanistan, our involvement can work with the Afghani people to establish a reasonable quality of life and join the civilized world. The most obvious advantage to the Afghan people is that we can help make sure that scenes like this never occur again:
6) Part of the reason that Afghanistan is in the situation that it is today is that it became ground zero in the cold war and was the last war by proxy. When we got our high profile victory we packed up and left chaos behind and now we can help restore what used to be in Afghanistan.
The common and frankly racist opinion often stated that "Afghanistan has never been civilized and never will be" is not based on fact. The fact is that while the very remote areas were not civilized (like similar areas in Pakistan, India and China are still today), the central government of Kabul has in fact been at times among the most liberal in the Islamic world:
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/History_of_afghanistanKing Amanullah moved to end his country's traditional isolation in the years following the Third Anglo-Afghan war. He established diplomatic relations with most major countries and, following a 1927 tour of Europe and Turkey (during which he noted the modernization and secularization advanced by Atatürk), introduced several reforms intended to modernize Afghanistan. A key force behind these reforms was Mahmud Tarzi, Amanullah Khan's Foreign Minister and father-in-law — and an ardent supporter of the education of women. He fought for Article 68 of Afghanistan's first constitution (declared through a Loya Jirga), which made elementary education compulsory.<39> Some of the reforms that were actually put in place, such as the abolition of the traditional Muslim veil for women and the opening of a number of co-educational schools, quickly alienated many tribal and religious leaders. Faced with overwhelming armed opposition, Amanullah was forced to abdicate in January 1929 after Kabul fell to forces led by Habibullah Kalakani.
Are there principled and intelligent reasons to be against the War in Afghanistan?
Of course there is.
There are also principled and intelligent reasons to support the Administration in its effort to bring an end to the insurgency and help the Afghan people establish a government that respects the rights of its citizens to the basic freedoms that all people aspire to. Your condescending criticism of people who support the administration as "pro war" is insulting. I also believe that it is not particularly well informed about the reality in Afghanistan.
You live in a world where war is the ultimate horror.
That is your decision. In the real world there are many types of horror and sometimes they can only be solved by armed conflict. You can continue to live in your world and write condescending OPs about how everyone who doesn't agree with your position is blind to the "horror" of war you can . War is not the only midwife of horror and sometimes it is necessary to be involved in an armed conflict in order to prevent a much greater horror. Such endings are not 'fairy tales' as they have occured in Thailand, Malaysia, Singapore and Indonesia. The ending of armed conflict in Cambodia, for example, created the most horrific killing fields in modern history until the armed forces of the People's Republic of Vietnam ended that horror with yes, armed conflict.
However if you are really really really as anti war as your OP suggests then I suggest that you get involved with helping people who are the actual victims. You can apply and volunteer to work in refugee camps outside the US. Or you can contact the International Rescue Committee and work with refugees in your neighborhood and demonstrate how anti war you are by helping them build a new life.
You can contact the IRC here:
http://www.theirc.org/and find out how to help refugees here:
http://www.theirc.org/our-work/resettling-refugeesBut it takes a lot more time than writing an OP.