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Bonobo Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Jun-08-10 11:02 PM
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"Jews". Would you mind taking the time to say "Jewish People"?
Edited on Tue Jun-08-10 11:02 PM by Bonobo
Anyone beside me feel their hackles go up when a non-Jewish person throws that word around.

"Jew", "Zionist"... I dunno. My radar goes off.

The fact that they cannot separate "Jewish people" from the actions of the State of Israel says a lot about them.

"Juden"... that doesn't sound right to me either.

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Codeine Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Jun-08-10 11:03 PM
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1. When people say "Jews"
I always see "JOOOOZ", all dripping with paranoia. And when they say Zionist I get even more suspicious, though I'm sure many mean it innocently.
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sweetloukillbot Donating Member (378 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jun-09-10 12:44 AM
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94. "Jews" itself doesn't bother me - but when I hear "The Jews" I get uncomfortable
That's straightforward anti-Semitism from the New Testament. But other than that slight distinction, I pretty much agree with what you say.
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Chulanowa Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jun-09-10 12:52 AM
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99. I agree with that; Bites under my skin whenever people use "The ________"
I see it a lot around here on DU; though mostly directed at "The Muslims" and "The Arabs" though sometimes "The Mexicans" and, ever so rarely, "the gays"

That latter one gets pizza'd quickly, while the other three tend to make it to the Greatest page in short order. Go figure, huh?
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sweetloukillbot Donating Member (378 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jun-09-10 05:40 AM
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159. "Illegals" is the same way for me.
"Illegal aliens" sounds clinical and while I understand it is now considered at the very least un-PC, to me it doesn't have the racist ring of "Illegals". There's a venom in the way these things are said - it's almost like they're spat out - that makes me cringe from the underlying prejudice - "Liberals" has the same ring coming from Teabaggers.
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pipi_k Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jun-09-10 08:53 AM
Response to Reply #99
191. I always want to scream whenever I hear
"THE terrorists"

Like they have qualities specific only to "terrorists" (brown skin, "funny" names).

Like our own damned government hasn't committed acts of terror against us...


:mad:
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Green_Lantern Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jun-09-10 01:34 PM
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228. huh? you want to scream when people call terrorists "terrorists"...
Or just calling any Muslim a terrorist?
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tkmorris Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jun-09-10 01:16 AM
Response to Reply #94
112. I don't get it. What about "the Greeks", or "the French"?
Edited on Wed Jun-09-10 01:20 AM by tkmorris
I'm not sure how using the phrase "the Jews" is anti-semitic in and of itself.

On edit: It seems that what many on this thread have a problem with is referring to the actions of the Israeli govt as if they are the responsibility of all Jewish people everywhere. That would seem a valid complaint if that is what you meant; it wasn't clear from your post that it was.
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Bonobo Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jun-09-10 01:18 AM
Response to Reply #112
114. It isn't... in itself.
Neither is "Colored".
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tkmorris Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jun-09-10 01:25 AM
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117. Are you trying to say that the word itself is derogatory?
If so it's news to me. I'm open to the idea but... I live in South Florida. I am surrounded by Jewish people and culture, and have never seen or heard anything to indicate that the word "Jew" is somehow offensive in and of itself.
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Bonobo Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jun-09-10 01:29 AM
Response to Reply #117
119. Nope, I'm not.
Just as the word "colored" is not.

But it should be used with care when discussing.
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sweetloukillbot Donating Member (378 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jun-09-10 05:36 AM
Response to Reply #112
158. To your initial question - It's from the Bible for me
The Gospel of John has some amazingly beautiful passages, plenty of grist for theological discussions and a whole heaping lot of "The Jews" did this and "The Jews" did that, not the least of which is killing Christ. It is the root of the anti-Semitism in Mel Gibson's "The Passion" as well as 2000 years of persecution at the hands of Christians who saw it as revenge for Jesus.
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rucky Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jun-09-10 05:44 AM
Response to Reply #112
162. It's nobody's business but the Turks. n/t
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nyc 4 Biden Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jun-09-10 10:30 AM
Response to Reply #112
199. I'm Catholic but I am offended when people use the term Jew(s). n/t
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Posteritatis Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jun-09-10 08:03 AM
Response to Reply #94
180. Same here, though the singular-as-collective drives me up the wall
"The Jews" I see regularly and usually has nasty intent; "the Jew" I see less often, but it always has that intent. Less of it in my neck of the woods since the local neo-Nazi community was cleared out a few years back, but I'll still see it come up now and then in groups of activists who should bloody well know better by now.
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joeybee12 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jun-09-10 10:27 AM
Response to Reply #94
197. Yeah, for some reason putting "the" there is unsettling...it's like someone
is really trying to set them apart.
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rucky Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jun-09-10 05:44 AM
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161. Zionist I understand.
They want to say something about the Likudniks without getting painted as antisemetic.
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William Z. Foster Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Jun-08-10 11:03 PM
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2. agreed
Thanks.
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Egnever Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Jun-08-10 11:03 PM
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3. Unfortunately Israel is giving Jews a bad name
IMHO

Sadly too many cant separate the two.
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JI7 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Jun-08-10 11:04 PM
Response to Reply #3
4. no, some people are just bigots
you can't blame Israel on that.
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LaydeeBug Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jun-09-10 06:54 AM
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171. The term "Jew" is not derogatory as a noun (as in short for "Jewish"). It *IS* when used as a verb.
nt
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RandomThoughts Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Jun-08-10 11:05 PM
Response to Reply #3
5. +1
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Bonobo Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Jun-08-10 11:06 PM
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6. To many, Jews have had a bad name since the X-tians threw them under the bus.
Ever been beaten up while being told "You killed Christ"?

Ever had pennies thrown at you? Swastikas drawn on your locker?

Do you know what the blood libel is?
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Egnever Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Jun-08-10 11:09 PM
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10. Does that justify acting boorish in return?
I am married to a jew she has a lot of issues with "x-tians" I find it sad but I dont love her or her family any less because of it.

Israel is and has been acting like thugs for a long time now and it has nothing to do with being jewish. The Jews I know are all kind giving people not at all like the state of israel.
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Bonobo Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Jun-08-10 11:12 PM
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15. "it has nothing to do with being jewish"
Eactly. You made my point. Thank you. I can ask for no more.
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northzax Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jun-09-10 01:37 PM
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230. actually, it has everything to do with being Jewish
it just has nothing to do with Judaism. Just as al Quaeda has everything to do with being Muslim, and nothing to do with Islam. or the Spanish Inquisition has everything to do with being Catholic, and nothing to do with Catholicism (or, even more apt, the Vatican's paranoia and coverups of pedophilia are totally Catholic, but have nothing to do with Catholicism) they are identity scams, based on the idea that only people within a certain community know what to do in the face of either real or perceived threats.
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G_j Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Jun-08-10 11:16 PM
Response to Reply #10
20. good post nt
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Make7 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Jun-08-10 11:09 PM
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11. To many, Jewish people have had a bad name since the X-tians threw them under the bus.
Jesus Fucking Christ - read the Goddamn thread title.
</sarcasm>
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Bonobo Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Jun-08-10 11:14 PM
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17. JHC. I am allowed to use the word.
I reserve the right to refer to my own sub-group as "Jews".

Thank you very fucking much for giving me that permission.
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Make7 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Jun-08-10 11:24 PM
Response to Reply #17
32. So it is wrong when others refer to a sub-group the same exact way that you do? ( n/t )
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Bonobo Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Jun-08-10 11:28 PM
Response to Reply #32
37. Ever hear black people call each other the "n-word"?
It's sort of like that.
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Make7 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Jun-08-10 11:41 PM
Response to Reply #37
56. "Be the change you want to see in the world." - Mahatma Gandhi
Asking others to refrain from doing the very thing that you so willingly do yourself seems like an unconvincing way to foster change in the world.
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Egnever Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Jun-08-10 11:46 PM
Response to Reply #56
61. +1
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Bette Noir Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jun-09-10 08:48 AM
Response to Reply #56
189. Damn. It's an in-group, out-group thing, okay?
Blondes are allowed to tell blonde jokes. Irish are allowed to tell Pat and Mike jokes. No one outside. How hard is that to understand?

And, that "Be the change" quote, coming from anyone other than Gandhi himself, is the most priggish, self-righteous thing possible.
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Make7 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jun-09-10 12:22 PM
Response to Reply #189
210. I'm not sure we are talking about jokes here.
Except perhaps my reference to that Ghandi quote; it was from a prior post of mine in an old thread started by the original poster.
 
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pnwmom Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jun-09-10 12:42 AM
Response to Reply #37
92. But "Jew" is much more similar to "Catholic" than it is to the n-word. n/t
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Bonobo Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jun-09-10 01:08 AM
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109. Not to me.
"Catholic", a 3 syllable word, sounds like people take the trouble to say something correctly.

This is hard to explain, but there is a linguistic connection between saying things fully, taking time, and it "sounding" polite.

Spitting out a one syllable word sounds, sometimes, like "Spic" or Kike.

As I said, I believe there is a relationship between taking the time to sound polite and using shorthand.

"Jew" may be the correct term, but to some of us "Jews", it sometimes sounds like it is being spit out.

Words are crude attempts at explaining what is in our heads. I wish I could do a better job.

Please try to see/feel what I am saying and not rationalize away what I am TRYING to say. Thanks in advance.
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Maru Kitteh Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jun-09-10 01:37 AM
Response to Reply #109
120. Around here Catholic is pronounced "Kath-lick"
I do agree with you OP though. "Jews" and "the Jews" tends to twitch the needle on my bigot detector.
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Make7 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jun-09-10 01:16 AM
Response to Reply #37
113. Why not use the "k-word" to refer to yourself then?
That would be a far closer analogy, would it not?
 
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Bonobo Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jun-09-10 01:19 AM
Response to Reply #113
115. It is clear you don't care how (some) Jewish people feel, so why don't we end the charade?
You are not listening, so I guess we are done.
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Make7 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jun-09-10 12:14 PM
Response to Reply #115
209. Some Jewish people?
How should I determine which Jewish persons might possibly be offended by the use of the word Jews by non-Jewish people, and which ones won't?
 
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pnwmom Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Jun-08-10 11:29 PM
Response to Reply #17
40. Do you use the word "Catholics" even though you're not Catholic? I don't get it,
Edited on Tue Jun-08-10 11:29 PM by pnwmom
but I'll go along with it because it's your preference.
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Kalyke Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Jun-08-10 11:30 PM
Response to Reply #40
43. Oh - you mean those of us who have a Christian religion older
than Baptists, but still aren't considered "Christian."

LMAO!

:)
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pnwmom Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Jun-08-10 11:32 PM
Response to Reply #43
48. Yeah, that's right.

:)
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LanternWaste Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jun-09-10 01:04 PM
Response to Reply #6
220. I would imagine...
I imagine X-tians is as pejorative as "the Jews". Although one or two Christians may use it, I think I may speak with an inside view that it is seen far more often than not as little more than a careless slur.

I imagine one may either predicate their actions on those of the opposition, justify their actions based on those of the opposition, or even mimic them with being aware of it.
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TexasObserver Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jun-09-10 01:40 PM
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231. The term "X-tians" is offensive. Please don't use it.
I'm not a Christian, but I find that kind of glib slur offensive, and I know Christians often do, with good reason, as it is intended to be offensive.
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Pithlet Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Jun-12-10 02:07 AM
Response to Reply #231
253. Since when is that a slur?
I've known Christians to use it! It's merely shorthand. Nothing more.
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TexasObserver Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Jun-12-10 05:24 AM
Response to Reply #253
260. Since before you were born and continuing since.
If you didn't know, now you do.
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apocalypsehow Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Jun-08-10 11:21 PM
Response to Reply #3
25. "Unfortunately Somalia is giving African-Americans a bad name
IMHO

Sadly too many cant (Sic) separate the two."


Do you not see how inherently bigoted your post is, on its face? :shrug:

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Bonobo Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Jun-08-10 11:23 PM
Response to Reply #25
29. Thank you. They don't get it and it is right on the fron of their faces. nt
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Egnever Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Jun-08-10 11:29 PM
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42. Nope I don't think the analogy fits at all
Edited on Tue Jun-08-10 11:31 PM by Egnever
Israel is considered a jewish state and by many the jewish homeland. Somalia is not to my knowledge considered the african americans homeland.

The perception of the two are totally different, sadly in my opinion to the detriment of jewish people the world over.

But you can cry bigot at me all you want it has absolutely no effect on me whatsoever as its pretty hard to take seriously considering I married a jew and hang out in temples all the time.
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Name removed Donating Member (0 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Jun-08-10 11:32 PM
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Egnever Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Jun-08-10 11:34 PM
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51. If you say so
You clearly are one who can not separate the two. Unfortunately there are people on both sides of the fence that have that problem.
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Name removed Donating Member (0 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Jun-08-10 11:37 PM
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Bonobo Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Jun-08-10 11:35 PM
Response to Reply #42
52. Wow, you hang out in temples and even, gasp, MARRIED one?
Is Israel considered the Jewish-American homeland?
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Egnever Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Jun-08-10 11:45 PM
Response to Reply #52
60. What are you trying to say exactly?
you seem to be a pretty confused individual. You start a thread complaining about being called a jew then immediately self identify as a jew. Which is it is it reprehensible or is it just ok for the in crowd?

To me Israel is a fucked up oppressive state. You can identify it as whatever you want to identify it as.
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Chulanowa Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jun-09-10 01:58 AM
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132. Do we have a Somalian PAC that constantly works to conflate the two?
There are several organizations that try to turn "Israel" into "Jew" in our discourse, so that any criticism of the state becomes an attack on the people. So, is there a Somalian organization that is doing a bangup job of equating Somali with "black"?

And frankly, if our politicians gave as much attention to Africa to win the "black vote" as they do to Israel to win the "jewish vote"* then I think Africa as a whole would be a pretty nice place.

(* Yes, I'm perfectly aware that Israel is in fact not the #1 end-all-be-all issue among jewish voters. it's simply a nasty little bit of cynicism played by both parties to try to win that particular segment of the populace)
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Posteritatis Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jun-09-10 08:06 AM
Response to Reply #132
182. If there was, would that make it alright? (nt)
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Codeine Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Jun-08-10 11:33 PM
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50. Are you fucking kidding me?
Edited on Tue Jun-08-10 11:34 PM by Codeine
Israel is giving Israel a bad name -- not Jews.

Does Zimbabwe give all blacks a bad name?
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Egnever Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Jun-08-10 11:40 PM
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55. To you to me perhaps but to millions of others not so much
Perhaps you are missing my point. Many do not make the distinction and blame israels actions on jews everywhere. By the same token many jews stand up for whatever israel does no matter how heinous because they see it as a jewish state that bust be protected at all cost simply because it is jewish.

I personally see the difference and despite half of my family being jewish I hold israels actions in contempt and in no way see it as a jewish action it does not reflect the lifestyles of the jews in my life whatsoever. Unfortunately way too many can not make that distinction and because of it israels actions are giving jews a bad name.

They hear israel and all the think is jews, the same as many hear muslim and all they think is terrorist.

You may not like it but it is reality.
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Codeine Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Jun-08-10 11:43 PM
Response to Reply #55
59. Their bigotry is the problem in that instance,
not Israel. People who think that way are filthy anti-Semitic shitstains, and would hate regardless. Their particular sensitivities need not be considered valid.
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Egnever Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Jun-08-10 11:50 PM
Response to Reply #59
62. Thats like saying all the buffoons who voted for bush
Can be ignored because they are idiots who can be dismissed. The effects are real and have consequences no matter what label you chose to put on them.
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Codeine Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jun-09-10 12:00 AM
Response to Reply #62
65. That does not mean I will give their idiocy any credibility
or respect. I will point it out as the rank filth that it is, and will treat them accordingly.
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K8-EEE Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Jun-08-10 11:52 PM
Response to Reply #3
63. I have no problem with Jewish people, BIG problems with Israel.
Israel is acting like BushCo on steroids.
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treestar Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jun-09-10 08:10 AM
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184. There are Jewish people who oppose what Israel does when it is extreme
Some of them even are Israelis.

And of course there are non Jewish people supporting everything Israel does. So not all Zionists (or whatever we should call them) are Jewish.

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Green_Lantern Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jun-09-10 01:42 PM
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233. that statement bugs me too when you say Israel is giving Jews
A bad name. That's like saying black guys who mug people are giving black people a bad name. Basically it's saying that an entire group of people can be judged for the actions of some.
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hlthe2b Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Jun-08-10 11:07 PM
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7. interesting that some conflate the word Israel automatically
as reflecting a discussion of Jewish people and not specifically the government. Particularly confounding given that 25% of the population (2008 census) is NOT Jewish.

I can understand the sensitivity toward the word "Jew" being thrown around, given how it has been used in the past and have no problem NOT doing so.
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Blue-Jay Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Jun-08-10 11:07 PM
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8. How do you know who's Jewish and who's not?
"..when a non-Jewish person throws that word around."
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Bonobo Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Jun-08-10 11:11 PM
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12. We know. We ALWAYS know.
Hee-hee-hee.

It's the secret Jewish hand-signals.

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Kalyke Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Jun-08-10 11:28 PM
Response to Reply #12
39. Heh... I thought it was the wide d...
um..

nose.

:P


Seriously, Jewish men have some really postive attributes. ;)

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Bonobo Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Jun-08-10 11:30 PM
Response to Reply #39
44. Heh, well big noses and kinky hair definitely help.
But even more so, the sense of humor and style. Education, etc.
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Kalyke Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jun-09-10 02:02 AM
Response to Reply #44
136. I wasn't talking about the nose, the hair or the humor...
all of which are positive.

As the wife of a Jewish man, I was talking about something far more personal. :blush:
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Bonobo Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jun-09-10 02:08 AM
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142. Sorry to hear that.
Edited on Wed Jun-09-10 02:08 AM by Bonobo
Some Goy have winky dinkies too.

I don't have te problem myself, but I feel for all members or all races with that particular issue.

I hope you are sensitive. It can really hurt a guy (probably).
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MrsMatt Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jun-09-10 06:04 AM
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165. The use of "Goy" sounds demeaning to me
as a non-Jewish person.
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CLANG Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jun-09-10 12:51 PM
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215. It is demeaning!
Goy
n. pl. goy·im (goim) or goys Offensive
Used as a disparaging term for one who is not a Jew.
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MrsMatt Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jun-09-10 01:18 PM
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225. thanks for the validation
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Chulanowa Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jun-09-10 02:03 AM
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138. Jewish people don't know humor. Indians know humor
See, with Jewish humor, it takes a few beats for you to "get" the joke, and you have a good laugh.

Us indians, though... Our jokes take about a year to age and season properly in your head, and then you get it, and you laugh so hard you crap your pants.

That's the real story behind Monteczuma's Revenge, by the way. Cortes was having an audience with the King when he finally got the joke and, well. There you go.
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Bonobo Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jun-09-10 02:07 AM
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141. Well anyway, we're both members of the tribe.
What is yours btw?
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Chulanowa Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jun-09-10 02:13 AM
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146. Choctaw
With a half of Whiskey, er, I mean, Irish.
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Pavulon Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Jun-08-10 11:08 PM
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9. Growing up in the south you can learn to tell the difference by tone.
when someone says boy to mean "nigger" they say it a certain way. Just like when they say zionist to mean "filthy new york jew" or "kike". A quick scan of their tone and demeanor makes this a quick assessment for me. It jumps right off the screen.

Sure you can say boy and Zionist with no racial or discriminatory tone, but it is all in the persons delivery.

Obviously the highly offensive terms used in this post are not directed at a group or meant to be discriminatory, but to underline their use in common language.
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hlthe2b Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Jun-08-10 11:17 PM
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21. You mean like how the genteel southern lady whispers the word
(whether it be "Jew" or "black man/woman" or whatever) as though it was a "dirty" word? Yup, I've seen that along with the far more overt and epithet driven way that some men do so.
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Pavulon Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Jun-08-10 11:22 PM
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27. I prefer overt. I was well tanned ,red burn had turned to dark at benning
and some guy asked me straight out if I was a "nigra" or a "mexican" on my home at a gas station. Overt is good, that way the assholes are obvious. The folks who hide their racism are for more concerning.
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hlthe2b Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Jun-08-10 11:24 PM
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31. Yes... I would think so...
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The Straight Story Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Jun-08-10 11:11 PM
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13. Question on this in relation to Israel
Is it a Jewish state? Can non-jewish folks be part of the govt?

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Bonobo Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Jun-08-10 11:12 PM
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14. Yes and yes. nt
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The Straight Story Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Jun-08-10 11:15 PM
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19. Ok, thanks. I guess the next question then is: What does "Jewish State" mean?
That it is based on jewish laws of old, etc?
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Bonobo Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jun-09-10 02:11 AM
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143. I think it is mostly an artifact from when they were founded.
Now they are a "mostly Jewish State".
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Pavulon Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Jun-08-10 11:13 PM
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16. Yes, there are muslim elected officials in their system.
just like in the UK system.
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Marr Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jun-09-10 12:24 AM
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75. That's "Jewish People state" to you, pal. n/t
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LeftishBrit Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jun-09-10 06:46 AM
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167. Yes, it's a Jewish state - but that means that it offers automatic refuge to all Jews who wish to
immigrate. Indeed, they do not have to be religious Jews, or even meet traditional criteria for Jewish ethnicity. E.g. people who have a Jewish grandparent on their father's side can immigrate, even if their mother is not Jewish. The criterion is basically that anyone who would have been considered as a 'Jew' by Hitler is eligible for Israeli citizenship, as the primary purpose is to provide automatic refuge.

Can a non-Jew be a member of the government? Certainly. There are a number of Arab members of the Knesset; most but not all from specifically Arab parties. There are also some Druze members from all parts of the political spectrum. Majalli Wahabi, a Kadima MK and deputy speaker, was briefly, in 2007, the first Druze (and first non-Jewish) Acting President of Israel.

Considering that non-Jews constitute at least 20 percent of the Israeli population, they are seriously under-represented in government - but they are represented.
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LordJFT Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Jun-08-10 11:15 PM
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18. i understand your sentiment with "Jew," but why Zionist?
it refers to people with specific beliefs and therefore has a very different meaning than "Jewish people"
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Codeine Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jun-09-10 12:06 AM
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68. It's a dog whistle word
for an ugly section of the Left.
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Posteritatis Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jun-09-10 07:57 AM
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177. And it's very often overused simply as a dysphemism for "Jew." (nt)
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Lilith Velkor Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Jun-08-10 11:18 PM
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22. I had one guy freak the fuck out on me for saying "Jewish People"
He said I was oppressing him by denying his heritage, or something. Nevermind that he had converted to another religion 25 years before that.

Whatever. People can call themselves anything they want.

IBTL.

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one_voice Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Jun-08-10 11:18 PM
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23. I always say...
Jewish people. Don't know why, I prefer it. I don't like "Jew", always sounds cold to me. And I'm not Jewish.
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notesdev Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Jun-08-10 11:19 PM
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24. Doesn't bother me
it's a neutral, non-biased word that is accurate in describing what it means; short, sweet, and to the point.

It's only a four-letter word if you perceive it that way, like Negro.
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Lilith Velkor Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Jun-08-10 11:22 PM
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28. It sure was a four-letter word when I was growing up.
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notesdev Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Jun-08-10 11:26 PM
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34. Wasn't for me
and I grew up in a majority-Jewish area

Guess it just depends on how you're used to hearing it. Inflection of voice can change the whole character of a word.
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Bonobo Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Jun-08-10 11:29 PM
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41. Yes, well inflection doesn't work on a message board too well.
But yes, you're right.

I grew up in both a rabidly anti-semitic area and a very Jewish area later.
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Lilith Velkor Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Jun-08-10 11:42 PM
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58. So did I
But I'm not Jewish, so it was verboten to me.

Kind of like how black people use the n-word. If you're white and habitually use that word, you're gonna get a beatdown eventually, regardless of inflection.
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Frank Booth Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Jun-08-10 11:21 PM
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26. The only people I ever hear use the term "Jews" are Jewish people.
It's kinda like Native Americans call themselves Indian.
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HughMoran Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Jun-08-10 11:23 PM
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30. Generalizing any religious group is usually a bad idea
Christians, Muslims, Jews etc. live everywhere in the world and each person has their own individual view of the world. You could speak in broad sociological terms about American Christians versus Chinese Christians I suppose. The problem may be the media constantly referring to Israel as the "Jewish State", whereas Israel is 20% Arab so using such language is in itself troublesome.
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Kalyke Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Jun-08-10 11:26 PM
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33. My husband is a Jew and says he's a Jew.
Hell, he calls his niece a J.A.P.

And, he's against the Zionist take-over of Palestine, too.

Wow! He's like a real person or something.

:eyes:
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Bonobo Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Jun-08-10 11:31 PM
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46. Not reading OP you reply to = bad. nt
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pnwmom Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Jun-08-10 11:26 PM
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35. I do that because I know Jewish people who care about it. But I don't really understand
why saying "Jews" is different from saying "Catholics" or "Protestants." Can you explain, please?
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Bonobo Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Jun-08-10 11:32 PM
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49. I can't explain. It is just a feeling.
Seriously, it is why I used the phrase "raise hackles". It is just a feeling.
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pnwmom Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jun-09-10 12:41 AM
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90. Okay. I can accept that.
But you should be aware that other people may use the term in complete innocence, if they haven't known a Jewish person who was bothered by the word.
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Bonobo Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jun-09-10 01:20 AM
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116. I completely get that. Thanks.
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tekisui Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Jun-08-10 11:28 PM
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36. I agree. Even worse is when someone says THE Jews.
It is dangerous to start attributing characteristics to a group of people.

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skeptical cynic Donating Member (404 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Jun-08-10 11:28 PM
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38. Are there "Jews" who aren't people?
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Blue-Jay Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jun-09-10 12:09 AM
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69. Of course there are.
Meet Rabbi Shlomo Barkowitz.

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KonaKane Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jun-09-10 12:10 AM
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70. Oh Gods, that's hilarious.....
Oy arf!
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skeptical cynic Donating Member (404 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jun-09-10 12:15 AM
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71. Without the religious costume...
I would have guessed Methodist.
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Chulanowa Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jun-09-10 12:54 AM
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102. I don't see a half-empty bottle of whiskey in that picture
Maybe you meant Baptist; he certainly isn't dancing, is he?
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Sebastian Doyle Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Jun-12-10 01:57 AM
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252. Ever seen the TV show "Royal Pains" ?
They had one episode where a dog had a "Bark Mitzvah" :rofl:

The Rabbi was human though.
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daleo Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Jun-08-10 11:31 PM
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45. Jewish people is redundant
What else could they be than people?

Should we not say Muslims, and instead say Muslim people? How about Sikhs (that's even one a one syllable word) - should they be Sikh people? Sikhish people? Is there a good rule to follow on this point?
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HEyHEY Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Jun-08-10 11:36 PM
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53. How about if they whisper it?
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jp11 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Jun-08-10 11:42 PM
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57. The 'radar going off' goes with the context of how it is used, and of course how the reader
perceives it. As far as people being unable to separate Jewish people from the state of Israel, that cuts both ways, just because someone says something about Israel doesn't mean they are speaking about Jewish people or all the people who live in Israel, they aren't all Jewish.
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KonaKane Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Jun-08-10 11:56 PM
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64. The rabbi at my friend's Bar Mitvah said.....
and I quote:

"Daniel, I hope that this day will always be remembered, that you will live by the word of the Torah, and that it will make you a better Jew."

He did not say "Jewish person". He said "Jew". I think, respectfully, that you filters are set a little tight. Learn to discern the situation and the intent, rather than hang on to a word.
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Bonobo Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jun-09-10 12:00 AM
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66. Respectfully, when one Jew says it to another, no one could misinterpret it as being racist.
That's why it is okay. Is that a clear explanation?

It is like other minority groups in this way. The "N-word" comes to mind.
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KonaKane Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jun-09-10 12:04 AM
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67. Respectfully, my point as that intent is the key, not the word.
And that point stands, no matter who says it.
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Bonobo Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jun-09-10 12:23 AM
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74. An admirable sentiment, but still "intent" is often hard to read.
Especially when Israel is such a hot button issue now.

So my suggestion that non-Jews criticizing Israel use the work "Jewish" instead of "Jew" is because it can often be indistinguishable from an Anti-Semite hiding behind the political criticism of Israel.
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KonaKane Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jun-09-10 12:25 AM
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76. Does that excuse intellectual laziness? I think not.
Rather than play word games for the lazy, I propose something radical - paying attention to the speaker.
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Bonobo Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jun-09-10 12:36 AM
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83. I don't think it implies laziness.
Intent is hard enough to read in person. On the internets, it is 10,000 times harder. Now I think you are not trying very hard to hear what I am saying.

I am saying that when people critical of Isareal throw the word "Jew" around, it sounds VERY, VERY close to anti-semitism.

Yes, that is my personal opinion, but that is how it works when minorities are on the receiving end of words.

"Colored" used to be okay. Same with "Blacks" and "Negros".

I am SAYING that people should not fling around the word "Jew".

How about listening?
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KonaKane Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jun-09-10 12:45 AM
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95. How about listening to what they are SAYING, as opposed to
how put off you are by a single word? That's where the laziness comes in. Just because understanding may be difficult on a given medium, does not mean you are suddenly absolved from attempting it.

My family and a Jewish family are life friends; all us kids grew up together. They refer to themselves as Jews, I refer to them as Jews. If I sent the transcript of this conversation they would probably be laughing their asses off.
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Bonobo Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jun-09-10 12:51 AM
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98. OK, thanks for listening. nt
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Bonobo Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jun-09-10 12:36 AM
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84. I don't think it implies laziness.
Intent is hard enough to read in person. On the internets, it is 10,000 times harder. Now I think you are not trying very hard to hear what I am saying.

I am saying that when people critical of Isareal throw the word "Jew" around, it sounds VERY, VERY close to anti-semitism.

Yes, that is my personal opinion, but that is how it works when minorities are on the receiving end of words.

"Colored" used to be okay. Same with "Blacks" and "Negros".

I am SAYING that people should not fling around the word "Jew".

How about listening?
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TreasonousBastard Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jun-09-10 12:18 AM
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72. Sure, as soon as I stop calling other groups things like...
Germans, Brits, Poles, Italians, Baptists, Arabs...



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jillan Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jun-09-10 12:19 AM
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73. Agreed! I cannot express the amount of antisemitism I feel on DU lately just because there is a
crazy man running Israel. It's no different than when bush was our President - it didn't make all Americans bad people.
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rockymountaindem Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jun-09-10 12:25 AM
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77. Not me
I always feel like "Jewish people" is just.... patronizing? I'm not sure if that's the right word to express my feelings, but I don't feel like it's necessary. Plenty of descriptive words can be used as a pejorative depending on the tone. For instance:

Discussing someone you know at a party:
"My friend Jimmy is gay"

Walking past two men holding hands on the street:
"GAY!!!"

It doesn't mean the word is entirely inappropriate. Same with "Jew", IMHO. To wit:

Q: "Do you believe in the Trinity?"
A: "No, I'm a Jew."

As opposed to:
"That guy is such a cheap Jew"

So if people want to say "If Elena Kagan is seated, three of nine Supreme Court Justices will be Jews" just as a declarative statement without attaching any negative tone or connotation, that doesn't bother me.
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Bonobo Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jun-09-10 12:38 AM
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85. How about this:
Why do we have to walk on eggshells when we discuss Jews?"

How does that sound to you?
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rockymountaindem Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jun-09-10 08:11 AM
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185. That sounds kind of iffy n/t
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KonaKane Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jun-09-10 12:28 AM
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79. My Palestinian friend Bishar would have a few words for you
about Israel "trying to exist" by shooting his 14 year old sister in the head as she was walking to school on day. Oh don't worry, she didn't die. But she was left practically braindead and bedridden for the rest of her life.
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Marr Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jun-09-10 12:29 AM
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80. Just out of curiosity, how do you refer to Muslims? n/t
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Bonobo Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jun-09-10 12:38 AM
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86. As Frank Zappa said:
"Why are you curious?"
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Marr Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jun-09-10 10:16 AM
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193. Do you call them, "Muslim people", or does the one-word seem fine
or does the one-word seem fine when it's some other group? I think you're being overly sensitive, is what I'm suggesting.
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Clintonista2 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jun-09-10 12:29 AM
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81. "Zionist" is code amongst anti semites
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snooper2 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jun-09-10 08:23 AM
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187. no, Zionist is comparable to our "conservatives"
I guess from now on I'll start saying the fucking Likud assholes instead...



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Clintonista2 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jun-09-10 10:25 AM
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196. Keep telling yourself that
Edited on Wed Jun-09-10 10:28 AM by Clintonista2
Whatever helps you sleep at night
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KonaKane Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jun-09-10 12:24 PM
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211. I know some Hassids who would spit on the ground when hearing the word "zionist"
So don't be too sure of yourself. Zionism is more a political philosophy than a religio/cultural one. Many Jews, back during the founding of modern Israel, staunchly rejected it saying it was not the time and not the deliverer. Oddly enough, anti-Zionist sentiment among even Israeli Jews is growing.
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WinkyDink Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Jun-10-10 07:06 AM
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247. You'd be more honest that way.
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JonLP24 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jun-09-10 12:31 PM
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212. Is it really?
I always thought it was movement to support a Jewish state.

That's why I always heard and read that being Anti-Zionist is not being anti-semite.

If it's really a codeword for anti-semites, I'll never use it from here on out.
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Xithras Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jun-09-10 12:53 PM
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216. It's not a "code word" for anything.
It's an actual political movement. Look it up. Many people in the "Israel can do no wrong" crowd simply dislike the term because it exposes the fundamentally racist nationalist philosophy. Were it applied to any other nation, it would be grounds for war (the Serbs tried it in Kosovo, and we bombed the hell out of them for it).

Personally, I always draw a careful line between my identification of the Jewish people and Israel. I've known more Jews than I can count in my life, and have liked every one of them. Israel, on the other hand, is a political entity. It's not a person, or a religion, it's a thing.

Italy is 97.2% Catholic, and yet we can criticize the Italian government (and even fight a World War against it) without it being taken as an attack on Catholics. Israel is 75.4% Jewish, and yet any commentary against their government is taken as an attack on the Jewish peoples themselves. Why is that?
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nemo137 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Jun-10-10 03:32 AM
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244. The American Free Press and some of the other less-than-savory bits of the extreme right use it
in that way. And are pretty blatant that when they say "Zionist" they mean "the perfidious JOOOOOOOOO." I've also seen, here and other places on the left, people sliding pretty freely between antisemitism and anti-Zionism (which is what, I think, the whole thing with Helen Thomas was about). But, again, it can also just refer to the idea of having a Jewish state.

But, yes. It's used as a polite, deniable way of being antisemitic enough that my hackles raise a little when I see it.
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Vickers Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jun-09-10 12:30 AM
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82. All these rules are getting difficult to remember. n/t
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Bonobo Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jun-09-10 12:39 AM
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88. Have you tried Ginseng? Nintendo brain games? nt
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Vickers Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jun-09-10 12:42 AM
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91. No. n/t
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Bonobo Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jun-09-10 12:39 AM
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89. Have you tried Ginseng? Nintendo brain games? nt
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Vickers Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jun-09-10 12:42 AM
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93. You just asked me that...don't you remember?
The answer is still no.
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provis99 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jun-09-10 12:39 AM
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87. your "radar"? Sounds like Jewish Paranoia to me.
what a silly waste of time this politically correct thread is.
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Bonobo Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jun-09-10 12:53 AM
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100. "Jewish Paranoia".
wow, you sound like someone to avoid.
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Chulanowa Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jun-09-10 12:58 AM
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105. What exactly is "Jewish paranoia?" I mean, what makes it specifically Jewish?
Does it get annoyed when Christians compare Hanukkah to Christmas? Does it have the most boring food this side of Western Ireland? Has Mel brooks portrayed it in a lightheartedly stereotypical way? What's up there?
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Codeine Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jun-09-10 01:25 AM
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118. Wow.
Jewish Paranoia, eh?

Nope, no anti-semitism at DU. :eyes:
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Posteritatis Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jun-09-10 08:01 AM
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179. Dumbest post in a thread full of dumb. (nt)
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Jim Sagle Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jun-09-10 01:16 PM
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224. David Duke, is that you?
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Vickers Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jun-09-10 12:49 AM
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96. ALERT! ALERT! Someone just called Mexican people "Mexicans" on another thread!!!
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Chulanowa Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jun-09-10 12:51 AM
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97. It does say a lot about them
Even more when they start labeling those who disagree with their outlooks as "self-hating Jews" or "kapos"
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greyl Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jun-09-10 12:53 AM
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101. I find it hard to believe a Jew would think the word Jew doesn't sound right. nt
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Bonobo Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jun-09-10 12:56 AM
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103. Context is everything.
So is reading comprehension.
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greyl Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jun-09-10 12:59 AM
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107. No shit. So don't ask people to disregard their own context when using the word. nt
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Bonobo Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jun-09-10 01:10 AM
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111. I agree. And I should have said "be more careful" rather than "don't use". nt
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Okie4Obama Donating Member (188 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jun-09-10 12:57 AM
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104. I understand where you are coming from.
My very anti-semitic grandmother says things like, "You know so-and-so, he's very cheap and he's a Jew." Or, "You know those Jews..."

Then I tell her I don't want to listen to racist stereotypes and leave.

So as a non-Jewish person, I know what you are talking about.
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Bonobo Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jun-09-10 01:09 AM
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110. Much appreciated.
Thanks for taking the time to try to see other viewpoints.

It is more than many do -bound up as they may be in defensive posturing.
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BoWanZi Donating Member (502 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jun-09-10 12:58 AM
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106. My father's side of the family are Jews and don't mind when I use that word
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TexasObserver Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jun-09-10 01:05 AM
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108. It's a religious designation. One who believes in Judaism is a Jew.
A person may be born of Jewish parents and not be Jewish, if that person chooses to be Hindu, or Christian, or Atheist, or Buddhist, or whatever. One chooses to be a Jew, and by being a member of that religion self identifies as a Jew, excepting children, of course, who follow their parents until old enough to choose for themselves. If one's parents became Jews, one is likely raised as a Jew. If one's parents were born Jews and became Christians, one is likely to be raised as a Christian.

There is nothing positive or negative in the label "Jew," but its usage in context is what matters. Saying "Jews historically vote more Democratic than Republican" is a simple statement of fact. Using the term "Jewish People" in its stead would be silly.

Israel is a country that has citizens called Israelis. Most Israelis are Jews, but not all Israelis are Jews. Not all Israelis support the current Israeli government. Not all Jews who are Israelis support the current Israeli government. Criticizing Israel is not criticizing Jews. Criticizing the right wingers who lead Israel is not anti semitic.

Zionists are people who believe there is a Biblical right for the children of Israel to rule certain lands defined in the Bible, and roughly approximating modern Israel. Most Zionists are Christians, not Jews. Christian Zionists far outnumber Jewish Zionists. Many who support Israel are not Zionists in any sense. They support Israel for reasons unconnected to any Biblical rationale. Unfortunately, the word "Zionist" has been used as an invective by many Arab critics of Israel, and for that part of the world has become something akin to the N word in its usage.
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Chulanowa Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jun-09-10 01:51 AM
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126. Minor correction, regarding zionism
There are many divisions of the ideology. At it's most basic, it's a belief in the need to reconstitute a jewish nation in the biblical lands, as you described. But like most ideologies of greater antiquity than twenty minutes, It's got a lot of sub-factions.

First, and most prominent in America, are the Christian Zionists. These are wacky, wacky people. Their general take is not just that the Jewish Nation must be reconstituted... but that it must be reconstituted so Jesus can come back, use it for his landing pad and - this is in the book, though they usually skip it in the sermons - kill all the Jews. Christian zionism, like a great many Christian -isms, relies heavily on end times prophecies for its outlook. These are the crazies that probably beat the most responsibility for the whole damn situation.

Next you have the spiritual Zionists. These folks include a great many Orthodox Jews as well as, curiously enough, several jewish-based "new Age" philosophies as well as the Rastafarian religion. They either believe that the Kingdom of God will be actually delivered by god himself (a point that puts many Orthodox in opposition to the human-created state of Israel) or that Zion is in fact something internal, rather than an actual tract of land.

Then you have the political Zionists, which is a good portion of the Israeli government and generally what the people railing against Zionism are talking about. This is basically a form of nationalism that was last in vogue (and in snappy uniform!) in 1930's Germany. it's the ideology that there is one "Pure" race that has an absolute, divine claim to a section of land, to the ruling power, and authority over those who are judged "unfit" - that is, it's a completely fucking racist, dangerous ideology. Unfortunately for both Israel and its neighbors, it's this particular variation that carries the most weight in Israel (and is propped up by the wacky christian zionists who want jesus to kill lots of jews, how charming!). A minority of them support the idea of an Eratz Israel, ruling from the Nile to the Euphrates. Thankfully, these nutballs have been pretty quiet since the 60's.

I'm sure there's even more variety than this, as well as subdivisions of the subdivisions, hodgepodges, hybrids, and what have you. Point is, you can't define a 150 year-old contentious religio-political philosophy in two sentences.
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howard112211 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jun-09-10 01:38 AM
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121. I heard a jew complain about the wording "jewish people" and claim that "jews" is correct.
Can't never get it right. But thanks for the race baiting thread.
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Bonobo Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jun-09-10 01:41 AM
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122. And not even taking the time to press Shift to capitalize is another dead giveaway. nt
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howard112211 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jun-09-10 01:44 AM
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123. Is this a joke?
Edited on Wed Jun-09-10 01:45 AM by howard112211
Actually, in "jewish people" it is correct not to capitalize.
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Bonobo Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jun-09-10 01:47 AM
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124. That is not what you wrote.
You wrote "jew".

Looks like a howard the duck, quacks like a howard the duck. It's howard the duck.
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howard112211 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jun-09-10 01:50 AM
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125. As you see, I also don't capitalize my name.
And if you browse my posts, you will likely find that I have used "american" from time to times instead of "American".
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Vickers Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jun-09-10 01:54 AM
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128. Notice how bONOBO didn't capitalize "howard" or "duck"
How telling...
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Bonobo Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jun-09-10 01:56 AM
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130. Because I never had any respect for that crappy ass "hero".
I spent good money on the rag as a kid and now just resent the whole thing.
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Vickers Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jun-09-10 02:01 AM
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135. Eactly. You made my point. Thank you. I can ask for no more.
Context is everything. So is reading comprehension.
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Bonobo Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jun-09-10 01:55 AM
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129. Well, if one wants to show any degree of sensitivity...
One would listen more.

If a person suggests that, in a heated environment of finger pointing towards Israel, and generally increased anti-semitism, that you might consider using the word "Jew" carefully.. to take the extra few key strokes to be considerate to the fact that some Jewish people have been beaten, terrorized and killed for being Jewish, then you might try a little harder to listen rather than take such a defensive position.

Jews have a long history of being abused and, particularly in light of this OP's theme, you might have taken a second of reflection to hit that Shift button... in the spirit of understanding and consideration of others' feelings.

Ridiculing people is not a nice way to go when they just took the trouble to tell you that being called "A Jew" does not always sound very nice.

I appreciate that not everyone shares my background, but that is one of the good things about discussion boards. You can gain some insight into OTHER people's feelings and perspectives.


So, no. "jew" did not read nice in this context and I recognize that I might have erred in your case. Thank you for taking the time to set me straight if indeed you are just a non-capitalizer.
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Chulanowa Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jun-09-10 02:12 AM
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145. Well, I really gotta ask...
Do you take your own advice, when speaking of the "other side"?

Do you ever say "Arab" or "the Arabs" (with or without capitalization?) How about the same question, with "Muslim" or "Palestinian"? Have you ever equated all Palestinians - or even all Arabs - with organizations such as Hamas or Islamic Jihad? Do you differentiate those groups from each other? I've seen a lot of people who seem to think that Hamas and Hizbollah are one and the same, and that they speak for all Palestinians, or even people who live in Dearborn, MI.

Now, I'm not throwing accusations that you do engage in this sort of thing, but it is something I see commonly around these parts, both on relevant topics and sometimes even just out of the damn blue. It's really not like it's Jewish people getting singled out around here; and compared to what I see directed towards Arabs, Mexicans, Muslims, and even blacks in the post-election hate-a-thon, DU is really very gentle towards your concerns.

Not that they're invalid concerns, of course - "Jewish paranoia" what the hell? - I'm just curious as to whether you hold yourself as carefully as you ask others to be held, and are just as concerned about these terms and poor phrasings being applied to others with a stake in the debates.
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Bonobo Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jun-09-10 02:24 AM
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148. I don't use the word Arabs, no.
I never liked the ring of it, for much the same reason.

As for "Muslim", I would only use the term if their religion was the issue being discussed.

As for "Palestinian", no. I do not broad brush them either.

All good and pointed questions that we should all ask ourselves though. So thank you for making me reflect. But I can honestly say that I feel okay about my use of those words.

I am a translator and I understand the power of words.
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Chulanowa Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jun-09-10 02:29 AM
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149. I'm a writer and amateur historian
With an unfortunate addiction to foul language.

But what the fuck, it's not like Dennis Leary ever has any trouble getting his intentions across.

But yeah, i'm with you on the power of words, context, inflection, usage, the whole shebang.
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Marr Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jun-09-10 03:54 PM
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241. Huh?
You would only use the word "Muslim" if religion was the issue being discussed?

In other words, you refer to other groups in precisely the same way you're objecting to. If a person uses a word like "Jew" or "Muslim", it is as a means of discussing religious identity. That is what these words *mean*.

This is absurd.
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Chulanowa Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jun-09-10 01:52 AM
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127. But it lacks duck titties, so it is, in fact, NOT Howard the Duck
I'll never forgive George Lucas for that. Never, ever, ever.
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Bonobo Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jun-09-10 01:58 AM
Response to Reply #127
131. I agree. However...
It is jar-Jar Binks that truly earned my eternal ire.That and Ewoks.


The man does not know how to direct.
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Chulanowa Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jun-09-10 02:00 AM
Response to Reply #131
134. Jar-Jar Binks... heh. Yeah
Edited on Wed Jun-09-10 02:01 AM by Chulanowa
I wonder if, somewhere on a cutting-room floor in LucasArts studios, is a segment of film that has Jar-Jar chowing down on watermelon and Gungan malt liquor. Like someone in postproduction went "Mmmmm... Naaaaah, TOO obvious."
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Bonobo Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jun-09-10 02:05 AM
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139. Love it!
Jar-Jar belongs with J.K Rowlings "House-elves" in the racist hall of fame.
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Chulanowa Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jun-09-10 02:18 AM
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147. House-elves? Really?
'Cause I figured they were more based on all the fairy tales of elves mending shoes or milking cows or writing slashfic or whatever it was people did that they needed elves to help out with.

Granted, Hermoine's whole "House Elf Liberation" thing kind of grated, mostly because everyone thought she was nuts for it. I just don't see anything other than cursory parallels to any actual human group.
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Bonobo Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jun-09-10 02:29 AM
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150. Not just the house-elves liberation thing.
They all talk like Amos -N- Andy caricatures.
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sweetloukillbot Donating Member (378 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jun-09-10 05:50 AM
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163. Not all of them ....
Kreacher didn't at all. Dobby didn't really that much either, IIRC. Winky, however did.

The real controversy with house elves is how Dobby looks like Putin...

http://www.polazzo.com/putin_and_dobby.htm
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TheKentuckian Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jun-09-10 08:40 AM
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188. Ewoks get a bad rep. Just because they are cute that doesn't mean that's all they are
I think of them as significantly a warrior culture and cousins of the Wookies much more so than huggable teddy bears.

Shit, they were going to eat the crew even though they were well aware they were sentient. I don't think of that as exactly cuddly.

Now Binks is a horse of a different color (I'm in no mood to even discuss the duck, atm), Jar Jar is a silly fool and a discredit to his proud people neither of which have much place in a Star Wars.
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treestar Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jun-09-10 08:12 AM
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186. In some ways, I think that is the point
It's to gain the upper hand in an argument by claiming one must be anti-semitic, to that end, make it impossible to refer to the group at all. Whatever you say shows you are anti-semitic, now no need to meet the substance of the argument.
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howard112211 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Jun-10-10 07:01 AM
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245. Notice how we stopped talking about the IDF destroying video evidence
Edited on Thu Jun-10-10 07:05 AM by howard112211
and are now discussing whether it is anti-semitic to call a Jew a Jew instead?

There is a movie made by a Jew/jewish person who does this awesome long rant about how "jewish person" makes it sound like "Jew" is some sort of slur, and how he therefore gets pissed when people say "jewish person" instead of "Jew". I'm fine with political correctness as long as it is consistent. Once it reaches the point where any kind of descriptor, as you have noted, can be claimed to be offensive by someone, I generally check out. The rant in that movie convinced me. I now always say "Jew" and not "jewish person", regardless of complaints. I say "Turk" and not "turkish person" too.
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Skittles Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jun-09-10 01:59 AM
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133. yes
there's something...I dunno, not right.....I say "Jewish folk" :)
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HEyHEY Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jun-09-10 02:12 AM
Response to Reply #133
144. I had a jewish buddy who used to refer to his homemade beer as "Heeb-brew"
True story!
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Skittles Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jun-09-10 04:38 AM
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156. true story
a neighbor had me pick up his elderly New York Jewish parents at Love Field because he could not get off work in time....he said they'd be waiting out front at a certain time - when I asked him what they looked like, he said, oh, believe me, you'll know them when you see them. And I did. :D
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Sebastian Doyle Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Jun-12-10 02:07 AM
Response to Reply #144
254. Actually, there's a real beer pretty close to that. HeBrew, actually.
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Zix Donating Member (881 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jun-09-10 02:46 AM
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151. Take it from a gay guy...

You'll have something to complain about when society thinks it's acceptable to deride something by saying "that's so jewish".

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Bonobo Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jun-09-10 02:50 AM
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152. Yeah, I hear you.
It is a well-discussed issue in this house and it is disgusting.
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Zix Donating Member (881 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jun-09-10 03:10 AM
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153. Is there a semantic distinction between "jew" and "jewish people"?

I'm not sure of it if there is.

I suppose I would have thought "jews" refers to that set of people of jewish ancestry whereas I would have thought "jewish people" refers to a sociopolitical entity. Not all jews are heavily involved in jewish culture or politics. More than happy to be corrected...

The proper term for those boarding that boat would be "Israelis" in my book. I haven't seen any conflation with "all jews" or "jewish people" with the Israelis on this board but that doesn't mean it doesn't happen, I guess...
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Bonobo Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jun-09-10 03:20 AM
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154. I am just describing how it feels when some people use the term
carelessly when describing the situation.

What started it for me was when I read a post today, an OP, that said something like:

"Why do we have to all walk on eggshells when we talk about Jews?"

In this context, it felt discriminatory, as if the word was being spat out.

Take it or leave it. It's the truth from my perspective.
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Zix Donating Member (881 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jun-09-10 03:26 AM
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155. Yeah, that comment you quote's pretty freaky.

I'd want that seriously unpacked...
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Chulanowa Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jun-09-10 05:27 AM
Response to Reply #151
157. I've heard it
"Don't be such a jew," or "he totally jewed me."

And of course there's the word "gypped"

Thankfully I haven't heard "indian-giver" in a long time. i think perhaps it has too many syllables for the sort of people prone to that sort of thing?
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Zix Donating Member (881 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jun-09-10 11:29 AM
Response to Reply #157
207. Wah! Seriously?!?! I had no idea!

Well that'll teach me to be smart.... :-/
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Sebastian Doyle Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Jun-12-10 02:14 AM
Response to Reply #157
255. Ironically enough, the last time I heard the words "Indian Giver"
they were being sung by a Jewish guy.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3PzhPIU-RU4

(I don't think Joey intended anything racist by it though. That would have been more Johnny's thing)
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Behind the Aegis Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jun-09-10 01:09 PM
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223. Take it from a gay Jewish guy...
Edited on Wed Jun-09-10 01:10 PM by Behind the Aegis
..."go to so-and-so, you can Jew them down easily."
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Zix Donating Member (881 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Jun-10-10 03:15 AM
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243. That's me told.

I retract!
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Prometheus Bound Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jun-09-10 05:41 AM
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160. I have to admit, I would always say "He's Jewish", not "He's a Jew."
The latter just doesn't sound right to me either. I've never quite known why. I'm not Jewish, but grew up in a heavily Jewish area.
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Bonobo Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jun-09-10 05:51 AM
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164. Yes, indeed. Quite right. Sounds much different.
BTW, I see you are in China. Where and what for? Have you been there long?

I am in Japan. Kansai area.
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AsahinaKimi Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jun-09-10 12:45 PM
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214. Kansai ! Sugoi!
My father was born in Osaka! He speaks Kansai ben. I wish I did.. My mother was an English Teacher (She speaks Korean, Japanese and English) So taught my dad English and I learned it from her as well.

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Marr Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jun-09-10 03:56 PM
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242. *edit*
Edited on Wed Jun-09-10 03:57 PM by Marr
Because I see someone else already made the joke.
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MyNameGoesHere Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jun-09-10 06:29 AM
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166. Would the "Chosen People" be ok? You ok with the fundies calling
Edited on Wed Jun-09-10 06:30 AM by MyNameGoesHere
the Jewish People the Chosen People? Hey by the way what do you call us Gentiles? I don't like that word either and demand you call me the The Amazing Gentile People.
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Name removed Donating Member (0 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jun-09-10 06:48 AM
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MyNameGoesHere Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jun-09-10 07:13 AM
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175. So throwing around slurs is a one way street?
I kind of figures that out. Still I find being referred to as a Gentile disgusting. So please take note of your own criticisms.
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Bonobo Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jun-09-10 07:17 AM
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176. You started it. nt
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MyNameGoesHere Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jun-09-10 11:21 AM
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205. Did not. n/t
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Bonobo Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jun-09-10 06:48 AM
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169. *hiccup*
Edited on Wed Jun-09-10 06:48 AM by Bonobo
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LaydeeBug Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jun-09-10 06:50 AM
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170. No. The term "jew" is NOT a pejorative, no matter how you try to paint it.
Call a rabbi and ask.
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dorkulon Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jun-09-10 06:59 AM
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172. Oh come on.
Jews are called Jews because... they're Jews. Like Arabs, Germans, Christians... and so forth. To hear bigotry in the word Jew is to display your own paranoia.

And Zionists are Zionists. These are descriptive terms, not insults. I agree it's poor form to conflate the terms Israeli and Jew, but beyond that I think your point here is silly.

Do you go around saying, "the ____ people" when referring to other groups?
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FourScore Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jun-09-10 08:51 AM
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190. +1
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WeDidIt Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jun-09-10 07:00 AM
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173. .
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frustrated_lefty Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jun-09-10 07:08 AM
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174. You want to reject the name which identifies you? *why*
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BurtWorm Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jun-09-10 08:04 AM
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181. Maybe because of the history of the word?
How it's been used to mean "cheat," for example? It's possible.

Could also be the way it sounds when people refer to Israelis as "the Jews," and the history of that word as a referent for "Christ killers."

It's something for gentiles to be sensitive about, in my opinion. When African-Americans objected to being called "the Blacks," I don't think many on the left questioned them on it.
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frustrated_lefty Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jun-09-10 10:21 AM
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194. Forget aout it
You'll thank me later
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BurtWorm Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jun-09-10 10:23 AM
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195. Forget about it?
Where have we heard that advice before...?

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frustrated_lefty Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jun-09-10 10:51 AM
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202. Italian crime Bosses
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BurtWorm Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jun-09-10 10:56 AM
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203. German ones.
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BurtWorm Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jun-09-10 08:00 AM
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178. I'm not Jewish, but I do know what you mean.
It's amazing how some people can spit that word out like it's bile in their throat. Bleech!

:eyes:
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treestar Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jun-09-10 08:09 AM
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183. What is the proper thing to call a "Zionist?"
someone who advocates everything the state of Israel does?

sometimes I think our punishment is to have to type more keystrokes. That'll serve those WASPs! Make it impossible for them to refer to the collective supporting a thing without having to describe it in as many words as possible.

that said, i agree, "jews" just makes me think of Nazis using the word. Then again, one has let them "win" by making it a bad thing to use it that way.

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KonaKane Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jun-09-10 01:03 PM
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219. "Zionist people"
.
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fascisthunter Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jun-09-10 08:54 AM
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192. christian people, Muslim people, Jewish people
I don't get it... all are understood as being people.
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mwb970 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jun-09-10 10:28 AM
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198. You reminded me of a scene in "Annie Hall".
ROB
Alvy, you're a total paranoid.

ALVY
Wh- How am I a paran-? Well, I pick up on
those kind o' things. You know, I was
having lunch with some guys from NBC, so
I said ... uh, "Did you eat yet or what?"
and Tom Christie said, "No, didchoo?"
Not, did you, didchoo eat? Jew? No, not
did you eat, but Jew eat? Jew. You get it?
Jew eat?

ROB
Ah, Max, you, uh ...

ALVY
Stop calling me Max.

ROB
Why, Max? It's a good name for you. Max,
you see conspiracies in everything.

ALVY
No, I don't! You know, I was in a record
store. Listen to this -- so I know there's
this big tall blond crew-cutted guy and
he's lookin' at me in a funny way and
smiling and he's saying, "Yes, we have a
sale this week on Wagner." Wagner, Max,
Wagner -- so I know what he's really tryin'
to tell me very significantly -- Wagner.

ROB
Right, Max
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TexasObserver Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jun-09-10 10:31 AM
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200. I'm glad I'm not the only one who thought of Alvy's comments to Max.
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Generic Other Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jun-09-10 10:32 AM
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201. An interesting discussion -- my two cents
I try not to be offensive in my use of language, but I clearly have without meaning to be or knowing I was being offensive used the term "Jews" to refer to those whose religion is Judaism just as I have used Christians when referring to those who believe in Christ. I have also used it incorrectly as I can clearly see to refer to the citizens of the state of Israel. I have never called anyone Christian people when referring to religion or country. Jewish people sounds odd to my ear as well. Yet, I have often said "the" American people when referring to the nation as a whole. So should I call the people of Israel "the" Israeli people if I am referring to the nation?

I think maybe when I have called someone people without the use of the article "the", ie. Japanese people, I may have inadvertently been qualifying the word Japanese with the redundant word people which seems mildly offensive as if it is meant to make it clear I see them as people in case anyone is confused. Mexican people also sounds slightly condescending to my ear. I would definitely not say black people or African-American people.

It is very hard to know what term is correct and in what context it might not be correct. Even the universal pronoun "he" or a word like "mankind" will get me in trouble. To be on the safe side, I will henceforth refer to people as "carbon-based life-forms." Or "mammals."

Thanks for educating me to be more careful what I say and how I say it. Especially if I am communicating something I don't mean to or wish to say.
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BurtWorm Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jun-09-10 11:11 AM
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204. My two cents: For one thing, generalizations should be avoided.
When is it ever justified to refer to "the x people" as though they're all of one mind and body? Usually such constructions betray a polemic behind them. "Obama betrays the American people." Bullshit. He betrays one idiotic group of Americans, in their own pea-sized 'minds.'

People who live in Israel are Israelis. Is that so hard to say? If you want to be specific about Jewish Israelis, as opposed to Arab Israelis, say Jewish or Arab Israelis.

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HiFructosePronSyrup Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jun-09-10 11:24 AM
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206. Please consider always using the passive voice instead of the active voice.
For example: "The cake was cut by me."

Thugs who say "I cut the cake" are held in deep suspicion by me.

You are being pre-emptively thanked by me, for this passive voice being taken into consideration by you.
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geardaddy Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jun-09-10 12:59 PM
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217. Damn passive voice user.
;)
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MurrayDelph Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jun-09-10 11:45 AM
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208. There are always words that SOMEONE will find offensive
If we cut out every word that someone finds offensive, there would be no conversation left.

Here is what a non-offensive joke would look like:

Two persons meet on the street. The first person says, "Hello." The second person says "Hello."

Kinda boring, ain't it?

For the record:

1. as a Jew, I do find it offensive when the term is used as a form of derision or ignorance, but that is because the intention is to offend.

2. In the book "Just say Nu" the author points out that the Yiddish term between friends for "How are you" literally means "So how's the Jew?"
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Hannah Bell Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Jun-12-10 01:34 AM
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251. i was once told by a supervisor that "hello" was a satanist word because it contained
"hell".

in complete seriousness. she did not answer the phone using "hello," she just used her name. she didn't demand i *not* use "hello" but she wanted me to know it was a satanist word.

*anything* can be found offensive. absolutely anything.

human communication is a minefield.
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Green_Lantern Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jun-09-10 12:39 PM
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213. I heard a Jewish comedian say that when someone asks him...
If he's a Jew he says "Jew-ish". I think it's okay to say Jew if you're simply saying "My friend Jim is a Jew."

What raises my hairs is if someone uses Jew as an adjective ie. that Jew lawyer, etc. That is just insulting to say it that way.

Also using it as a verb is horrible too.

My grandfather is 87 and I've heard him use it both ways which still stuns me.
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geardaddy Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jun-09-10 01:08 PM
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222. That is like nails on a chalkboard, the verb thing.
It's like for me, when some uses the verb "Welsh" as in "Welsh on a bet."
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Green_Lantern Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jun-09-10 01:30 PM
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227. the Welsh...who needs them..
I'm kidding...I've never heard that phrase.
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geardaddy Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jun-09-10 01:35 PM
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229. Maybe you've heard "welch on a bet"?
Same thing.
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Blue-Jay Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jun-09-10 01:43 PM
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234. Sounds like you've been gypped once or twice.
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geardaddy Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jun-09-10 01:47 PM
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236. Charming.
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Blue-Jay Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jun-09-10 01:48 PM
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238. Oh come on!
Do I REALLY need to use the loathsome sarcasm smiley? I thought it was obvious.
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geardaddy Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jun-09-10 01:53 PM
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239. Sorry, I was also being sarcastic.
:D
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Green_Lantern Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jun-09-10 01:53 PM
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240. I really never knew that was an insult to the Welsh...
But it makes sense...
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ScreamingMeemie Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jun-09-10 01:41 PM
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232. I think it is the age. My grandmother is 86 and thinks it is perfectly
Edited on Wed Jun-09-10 01:44 PM by ScreamingMeemie
acceptable to say things like "colored guy", "jew doctor" and "the gays".
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geardaddy Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jun-09-10 01:01 PM
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218. I'm unfortable with using "J--" for Jewish people.
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Vickers Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jun-09-10 01:04 PM
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221. From now on I want to be referred to as "atheist person." n/t
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supernova Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jun-09-10 01:24 PM
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226. One of the many reasons
why I usually talk about individuals and their specific behavior.

I try to refrain from generalizing about groups of people.

If I want to criticize the gov't of Israel for something I feel is wrong, I say "the Israeli gov't" or "the gov't of Israel" I never conflate the people who call themselves Jews, whereever they live, and the the democratically elected gov't of Israel.
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walldude Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jun-09-10 01:43 PM
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235. Never bothered me.. but
I'm not practicing. Not a big fan of religion. So whenever I hear about the "Jews" I always think of "Life OF Brian"

BRIAN:
Are you the Judean People's Front?
REG:
Fuck off!
BRIAN:
What?
REG:
Judean People's Front. We're the People's Front of Judea! Judean People's Front. Cawk.
FRANCIS:
Wankers.
BRIAN:
Can I... join your group?
REG:
No. Piss off.
BRIAN:
I didn't want to sell this stuff. It's only a job. I hate the Romans as much as anybody.
PEOPLE'S FRONT OF JUDEA:
Shhhh. Shhhh. Shhh. Shh. Shhhh.
REG:
Schtum.
JUDITH:
Are you sure?
BRIAN:
Oh, dead sure. I hate the Romans already.
REG:
Listen. If you really wanted to join the P.F.J., you'd have to really hate the Romans.
BRIAN:
I do!
REG:
Oh, yeah? How much?
BRIAN:
A lot!
REG:
Right. You're in. Listen. The only people we hate more than the Romans are the fucking Judean People's Front.
P.F.J.:
Yeah...
JUDITH:
Splitters.
P.F.J.:
Splitters...
FRANCIS:
And the Judean Popular People's Front.
P.F.J.:
Yeah. Oh, yeah. Splitters. Splitters...
LORETTA:
And the People's Front of Judea.
P.F.J.:
Yeah. Splitters. Splitters...
REG:
What?
LORETTA:
The People's Front of Judea. Splitters.
REG:
We're the People's Front of Judea!
LORETTA:
Oh. I thought we were the Popular Front.
REG:
People's Front! C-huh.
FRANCIS:
Whatever happened to the Popular Front, Reg?
REG:
He's over there.
P.F.J.:
Splitter!
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geardaddy Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jun-09-10 01:48 PM
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237. Classic.
:thumbsup:
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WinkyDink Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Jun-10-10 07:05 AM
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246. No. I will say "Jews" for the religion, and "Israelis" for the nationals.
My bona fides for being an admirer and advocate for both groups are established, IMO.
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depakid Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Jun-12-10 12:07 AM
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249. I hear a lot of Jewish scholars here use the term- and another one that one doesn't hear so often
in the states: "jewry."
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iamthebandfanman Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Jun-12-10 02:18 AM
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256. yah ive always hated 'jew' too
Edited on Sat Jun-12-10 02:19 AM by iamthebandfanman
have always preferred saying 'jewish' ...

i think its because its just one of those words that comes off blunt or harsh.. i dunno, its just not a soft word to the ear i dun think
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Duer 157099 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Jun-12-10 02:24 AM
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257. "Jew" has always sounded derogatory to me
and I grew up in a very Jewish neighborhood. Only Jewish people could use the term "Jew" without it sounding derogatory.

Just my experience.
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The Second Stone Donating Member (603 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Jun-12-10 02:41 AM
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259. I have relatives who are Christians and relatives
Edited on Sat Jun-12-10 02:41 AM by The Second Stone
who are Jews. But all my relatives are very Jew-ish. And none of us will tolerate it as a verb. Heck, I was 28 years old before I ever heard it used as a verb.
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