Democratic Underground Latest Greatest Lobby Journals Search Options Help Login
Google

this made me cry....

Printer-friendly format Printer-friendly format
Printer-friendly format Email this thread to a friend
Printer-friendly format Bookmark this thread
This topic is archived.
Home » Discuss » General Discussion Donate to DU
 
WCGreen Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jul-25-11 02:07 PM
Original message
this made me cry....
I don't know if this true or just another fabrication made to pull at the heart strings...

Take a moment and read this. One of my Christian Friends sent this too me, she is a good person, doesn't wear her religion on her sleave, just acts as she believes Jesus would want her too...

Anyway, this tells us, well, me, I guess, that there are people out there who sometimes need a wink, a kind hello, or just a smile....


The Cab Ride

I arrived at the address and honked the horn. After waiting a few minutes, I walked to the door and knocked.. 'Just a minute', answered a
frail, elderly voice. I could hear something being dragged across the floor.


After a long pause, the door opened. A small woman in her 90's stood before me. She was wearing a print dress and a pillbox hat with a veil pinned
on it, like somebody out of a 1940's movie.


By her side was a small nylon suitcase.

The apartment looked as if no one had lived in it for years. All the furniture was covered with sheets.


There were no clocks on the walls, no knickknacks or utensils on the counters. In the corner was a cardboard box filled with photos and glassware.


'Would you carry my bag out to the car?' she said. I took the suitcase to the cab, then returned to assist the woman.


She took my arm and we walked slowly toward the curb.


She kept thanking me for my kindness. 'It's nothing', I told her.. 'I just try to treat my passengers the way I would want my mother to be treated.'


'Oh, you're such a good boy, she said. When we got in the cab, she gave me an address and then asked, 'Could you drive through downtown?'


'It's not the shortest way,' I answered quickly..


'Oh, I don't mind,' she said. 'I'm in no hurry. I'm on my way to a hospice.


I looked in the rear-view mirror. Her eyes were glistening. 'I don't have any family left,' she continued in a soft voice.. 'The doctor says I don't have very long.' I quietly reached over and shut off the meter.


'What route would you like me to take?' I asked.

For the next two hours, we drove through the city. She showed me the building where she had once worked as an elevator operator.


We drove through the neighborhood where she and her husband had lived when they were newlyweds She had me pull up in front of a furniture warehouse that had once been a ballroom where she had gone dancing as a girl.


Sometimes she'd ask me to slow in front of a particular building or corner and would sit staring into the darkness, saying nothing.


As the first hint of sun was creasing the horizon,she suddenly said, 'I'm tired. Let's go now'.


We drove in silence to the address she had given me. It was a low building, like a small convalescent home, with a driveway that passed under a portico.

Two orderlies came out to the cab as soon as we pulled up.

They were Solicitous and intent, watching her every move. They must have been expecting her.


I opened the trunk and took the small suitcase to the door. The woman was already seated in a wheelchair.


'How much do I owe you?' She asked, reaching into her purse.


'Nothing,' I said.


'You have to make a living,' she answered.


'There are other passengers,' I responded.


Almost without thinking, I bent and gave her a hug. She held onto me tightly.


'You gave an old woman a little moment of joy,' she said. 'Thank you.'


I squeezed her hand, and then walked into the dim morning light.. Behind me, a door shut. It was the sound of the closing of a life..


I didn't pick up any more passengers that shift. I drove aimlessly lost in thought. For the rest of that day, I could hardly talk. What if that woman had gotten an angry driver, or one who was impatient to end his shift? What if I had refused to take the run, or had honked once, then driven away?


On a quick review, I don't think that I have done anything more important in my life.


We're conditioned to think that our lives revolve around great moments.


But great moments often catch us unaware-beautifully wrapped in what others may consider a small one.


It's the moments like this, if they happen to you, that make it worthwhile....
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
Ruby the Liberal Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jul-25-11 02:11 PM
Response to Original message
1. Me too.
Thank you for sharing this.

:hug:
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
housewolf Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jul-25-11 02:13 PM
Response to Original message
2. It makes me cry too
n/t
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
polichick Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jul-25-11 02:21 PM
Response to Original message
3. Wonderful - I'll bet nobody reads this story with a dry eye.
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
ZombieHorde Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jul-25-11 02:21 PM
Response to Original message
4. Fantastic fable. I love it. nt
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
Ninga Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jul-25-11 02:23 PM
Response to Original message
5. *sigh* ... We are all in the same boat.
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
librechik Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jul-25-11 02:23 PM
Response to Original message
6. hankie alert!
thx for the read
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
liberal N proud Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jul-25-11 02:25 PM
Response to Original message
7. Awwwe
:cry:
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
pitohui Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jul-25-11 02:26 PM
Response to Original message
8. whoever wrote this must have never taken a cab in the united states
Edited on Mon Jul-25-11 02:28 PM by pitohui
sheesh, make it a little believable

here's what really happened-- cab driver picks up little old lady, notices packed-up apartment, she says she's going into hospice, he took the two hour "long route" to the hospice and billed 'em $150 for the ride (this is close to something that actually happened to me, so yeah i'm bitter) and then he tips his friends that there's an empty apartment to check out "maybe there's some antiques or some silver service we can pick up"

there are countries where i might have believed this could happen, the usa is not one of them though

if i've alienated EVERYBODY so much that i can't even get a ride to fucking hospice from a friend or family member, i'll rent a fucking limo for that last ride, what are you saving for anyway at that point?

cab drivers would go broke if they gave free rides to old ladies, ripping off older women is one of their most profitable hustles
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
Blecht Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jul-25-11 02:35 PM
Response to Reply #8
10. It is a nice piece of fiction
It doesn't have to be believable.
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
RC Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jul-25-11 02:39 PM
Response to Reply #8
11. Your scenario is more believable.
Sad to say.
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
Doctor_J Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jul-25-11 02:42 PM
Response to Reply #8
12. Is pitohui hawaiian for "sunshine"
or "glass half full" or something like that?

;-)
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
arikara Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Jul-26-11 12:28 AM
Response to Reply #12
33. lol
thanks for that.

;)
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
izquierdista Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jul-25-11 02:42 PM
Response to Reply #8
13. I'll explain.....
Where to start...
"if i've alienated EVERYBODY so much that i can't even get a ride to fucking hospice from a friend or family member, i'll rent a fucking limo for that last ride, what are you saving for anyway at that point?"

Last one first -- It's entirely believable an elderly woman is pinching pennies and CAN'T just "rent a limo". If you don't know any poor elderly, we can probably find dozens who live within blocks of you.

There are also elderly that have no family, either because they never had children of outlived their spouses/siblings. It's also entirely believable that some elderly person living alone has no "friends". They aren't like kids in elementary school who always have a new "best friend".

It may be fiction, it may be true, but it's more than plausible, I'll bet there are many elderly on any given day who take a very lonely one-way ride to the hospice.
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
Webster Green Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jul-25-11 02:46 PM
Response to Reply #8
15. Dude, you just harshed my buzz.
C'mon man. :shrug:
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
redwitch Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jul-25-11 03:13 PM
Response to Reply #8
21. I took a cab in NYC in January of 2002
Myself and two friends were going out to dinner after a long day at the Javits Center. It was our first time in the city since August of 2001. The cabbie was originally from Eastern Europe, can't remember what country. We talked on the way to the restaurant. I said I thought the city seemed sad and not like I'd left her in August, but who could blame her, everyone in the city seemed very subdued. He told us about that day from his experience and our human bond by the end of the ride was so strong that when we got to our destination he got out and hugged each of us in turn and would not accept the fare. True story, believe it or don't. And I have had many lovely cab drivers in NYC, just never one before or since that I cried with or hugged.
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
Mnemosyne Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jul-25-11 05:43 PM
Response to Reply #8
27. It could be our own shadowknows69. He would do this kindness. n/t
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
WCGreen Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jul-25-11 05:57 PM
Response to Reply #27
28. That's a wonderful comment about a fellow DU'er...
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
Mnemosyne Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jul-25-11 11:16 PM
Response to Reply #28
30. He's a good guy, never see him around anymore though. I miss reading his experiences. n/t
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
donheld Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jul-25-11 10:45 PM
Response to Reply #8
29. I'm very sorry to know you.
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
monmouth Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jul-25-11 02:32 PM
Response to Original message
9. Read this years ago..n/t
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
RebelOne Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jul-25-11 04:48 PM
Response to Reply #9
26. Ditto n/t
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
girl_interrupted Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jul-25-11 02:45 PM
Response to Original message
14. K&R If only people could be this kind to one another
just a small act of kindness can make such a change in someone's life. Random acts of kindness, it would make for such a better world.
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
WCGreen Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jul-25-11 02:49 PM
Response to Reply #14
16. I try to lend a hand when I can...
It's playing it forward...
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
femrap Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jul-25-11 02:53 PM
Response to Original message
17. How damn sad....
don't old women have a group that cares for each other?

Did she say anything about having children? I'm curious.
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
WCGreen Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jul-25-11 03:08 PM
Response to Reply #17
20. just a story....
I remember when my MIL was getting on. Everything about her was diminishing. A lot of her friends, people she had been very kind over the years, started to leave her out of the circle of friends. I think it was because they saw in Betty what was in store for themselves and they didn't want to be reminded of this mortal coil...

But it's hard if you have no family to have a support system.

Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
midnight Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jul-25-11 03:02 PM
Response to Original message
18. Yep...... This one makes you cry....
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
kentuck Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jul-25-11 03:06 PM
Response to Original message
19. Those are the moments we live for...
Thanks WC
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
no_hypocrisy Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jul-25-11 03:17 PM
Response to Original message
22. OK, I'm crying . . . .
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
WinkyDink Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jul-25-11 03:20 PM
Response to Original message
23. "Truth" need not always be true.
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
WCGreen Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jul-25-11 03:50 PM
Response to Reply #23
24. Yep....
It's not impossible to believe this didn't happen some place...
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
CaliforniaPeggy Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jul-25-11 04:01 PM
Response to Original message
25. I read this one a long time ago, Chris...
It made me cry then...

Just as it is now.

:hug:

Thanks, sweetie...

Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
Maru Kitteh Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jul-25-11 11:28 PM
Response to Original message
31. Thank you for posting this. It's very touching. nt
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
Mimosa Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jul-25-11 11:32 PM
Response to Original message
32. Thank you, WCGreen
I can tell that really had happened. I've known several writers who have sometimes driven cabs.
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
Raine Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Jul-26-11 02:36 AM
Response to Original message
34. aw gee
:cry: it's a good reminder to try and show some kindness to others, to care about another human being. It can make all the difference in the world to someone.
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
raccoon Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Jul-26-11 01:02 PM
Response to Original message
35. A nice little story, but I think it's fiction. nt
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
DU AdBot (1000+ posts) Click to send private message to this author Click to view 
this author's profile Click to add 
this author to your buddy list Click to add 
this author to your Ignore list Thu May 02nd 2024, 03:44 AM
Response to Original message
Advertisements [?]
 Top

Home » Discuss » General Discussion Donate to DU

Powered by DCForum+ Version 1.1 Copyright 1997-2002 DCScripts.com
Software has been extensively modified by the DU administrators


Important Notices: By participating on this discussion board, visitors agree to abide by the rules outlined on our Rules page. Messages posted on the Democratic Underground Discussion Forums are the opinions of the individuals who post them, and do not necessarily represent the opinions of Democratic Underground, LLC.

Home  |  Discussion Forums  |  Journals |  Store  |  Donate

About DU  |  Contact Us  |  Privacy Policy

Got a message for Democratic Underground? Click here to send us a message.

© 2001 - 2011 Democratic Underground, LLC