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MrScorpio Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Aug-11-11 01:13 AM
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Margaret Jensvold, Maryland Mom Who Killed Son Ben Barnhard, Agonized Over School Costs
WASHINGTON -- Ben Barnhard finally had reason to be optimistic this summer: The 13-year-old shed more than 100 pounds at a rigorous weight-loss academy, a proud achievement for a boy who had endured classmates' taunts about his obesity and who had sought solace in the quiet of his bedroom, with his pet black cat and the intricate origami designs he created.

But one month before school was to start for the special-needs teen, his mother, psychiatrist Margaret Jensvold, shot him in the head, then killed herself. Officers found their bodies on Aug. 2 in the bedrooms of their home in Kensington, Md., an upper-middle class Washington suburb. They also found a note.

"School – can't deal with school system," the letter began, Jensvold's sister, Susan Slaughter, told The Associated Press.

And later: "Debt is bleeding me. Strangled by debt."


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fortyfeetunder Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Aug-11-11 01:40 AM
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1. Read this story, Very sad.
no thanks to an over 30 year national legacy of ignoring mental health needs, we see things like this. May the mother and son rest in peace.
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ehrnst Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Aug-11-11 07:36 AM
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5. Yes, she and her son needed support. I believe that if she could have
gotten more support, she would not have gone over the edge, and taken her child.

So many insurance policies will not cover autism therapy, and it's expensive.
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McCamy Taylor Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Aug-11-11 02:12 AM
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2. A psychiatrist (doctor) makes good money. This is about her being depressed and suicidal.
I feel for her child, living with a single (mentally ill) parent.
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ehrnst Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Aug-11-11 07:34 AM
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4. Actually, that's a very expensive place to live, and she
was talking about not being able to afford the $50,000 a year needed to keep him in the school where he was flourishing, along with other treatments for his autism and adhd.

Preschool here runs $20,000 a year.
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cutlassmama Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Aug-11-11 06:22 AM
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3. That poor boy
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CBGLuthier Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Aug-11-11 07:46 AM
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6. She was a murderer. Why didn't she just kill her sad self.
No sympathy beyond the fact she may have been mentally ill.

But to use debt as an excuse is ugly. Fuck her.
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Blue_Tires Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Aug-11-11 07:47 AM
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7. very sad read...
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