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Contrary1 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Aug-19-11 11:45 AM
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Indiana County, PA photographer: "I won’t photograph ugly people."
"I wrote a blog a month or two ago that talked about all the things I learned about being a “self employeed” business owner. I was only roughly a few weeks into it when I posted the blog but I wrote about the Random Realities of Being Self Employed. It was more tongue in cheek really, I mean I talked about such things like how your boss is awesome (which is true..haha), about how you can sleep in, how you talk to yourself and answer your self because you have no co-workers to chat with. For those of you who don’t know, I recently quit my full time day job to pursue my dream of being a full time photographer. As exciting as it sounds that I’m following my dream and ultimately getting paid to do what I love, it also comes with a lot of accountability and responsibilities.I mean, I *AM* my own boss and if my business fails it’s *MY* fault, I can’t share the blame with a co-worker or a supervisor….it’s my fault.

With that said, I recently made a decision that I know could ultimately create backlash for what I’ve decided….and honestly, I don’t care! The really cool thing-(even among all the scary things of owning a business) is that you can make decisions without having to go through the hierarchy of people. On a whim yesterday after seeing something that was so appalling, I decided I was going to email some of my clients to tell them “I’m sorry but I won’t take your photos”.

Let me explain. Last night I posted on facebook the following: “If I’m wrong, please speak up. I came across a page on facebook that was created (by someone under a ficticious name) thats purpose is to bully, ridicule and say mean and hurtful things about their class mates. While visiting the page, I found several teenage girls that have scheduled sessions with me for their senior pictures. I am emailing them tomorrow to cancel their shoots. I do not want them to represent my business and I am beside myself at how MEAN and CRUEL they were on that page.” As I was drafting the email that I was going to send out to the clients my phone was blowing up with comments."

http://jenmckenphoto.com/blog/2011/08/17/if-youre-ugly-i-wont-take-your-photo-indiana-county-pa-photographer-personal/

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TwilightGardener Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Aug-19-11 11:49 AM
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1. LOL. She'll find out there just aren't enough good looking people out there
Edited on Fri Aug-19-11 11:49 AM by TwilightGardener
to make her successful. Her standards of beauty will drop in about a month, and she'll realize that even "ugly" people's money is still money. What an asshole.
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Contrary1 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Aug-19-11 11:53 AM
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2. So she's an "asshole" for not wanting to photograph bullies? n/t
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Lucinda Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Aug-19-11 11:53 AM
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3. Did you read anything but the title of the post? n/t
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TwilightGardener Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Aug-19-11 11:55 AM
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4. I guess not. I waded through part of it, thought she really wouldn't photograph ugly people.
Edited on Fri Aug-19-11 11:56 AM by TwilightGardener
My bad. Edit to add, though, that it's kinda weird to look up people's facebook pages and dig into high school culture before taking their business.
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Lucinda Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Aug-19-11 12:03 PM
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5. She didn't.
She ran across a page and recognized names of people she had already booked with. Last paragraph above.
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Shagbark Hickory Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Aug-19-11 12:09 PM
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6. Taking pictures is only part of the job.
Photoshopping enables anyone to look just the way society perceives to be beautiful.
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Hosnon Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Aug-19-11 01:19 PM
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12. Photoshop can make shitty people less shitty? nt.
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Shagbark Hickory Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Aug-19-11 01:51 PM
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16. I don't know about that but it can at least give them that appearance.
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kestrel91316 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Aug-19-11 12:46 PM
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7. READ THE POST, PEOPLE. Refers to ugly inside, not "ugly" outside.
Good for him. Hateful actions have consequences. Better that young people learn that early on.
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kath Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Aug-19-11 01:11 PM
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10. Uh, it should be "good for HER" - her name is Jennifer McKendrick - "jen mcken photography"for short
Not all photographers (or doctors, dentists, etc.) are male.
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Hosnon Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Aug-19-11 01:21 PM
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13. .
:wtf:
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kestrel91316 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Aug-19-11 01:43 PM
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15. Flamebaiting stalker unhappy about a few posts of mine on Guns forum.
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kath Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Aug-19-11 02:05 PM
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19. I think you must have me confused w/ someone else, kestrel. Honest. I never visit the gun forum.
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kestrel91316 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Aug-19-11 02:55 PM
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20. Too late for me to edit/delete but check your PMs. No harm, no foul.
Edited on Fri Aug-19-11 02:57 PM by kestrel91316
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kestrel91316 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Aug-19-11 01:39 PM
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14. I skimmed too quickly. As a female medical professional, I am well aware
Edited on Fri Aug-19-11 01:42 PM by kestrel91316
that women also work for a living.

And there is no need for you to be offended on her behalf unless you have some sort of agenda carried over from the Guns forum. I would remind you that that is a violation of DU rules.
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kath Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Aug-19-11 02:03 PM
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17. Sorry I seemed so harsh. I'm a female professional as well. And as the mother of two daughters, the
Edited on Fri Aug-19-11 02:07 PM by kath
use of the "generic he" really gets to me (some days more than others, I guess :-))

On edit - your edit (and other post) about the Guns forum wasn't there when I first tried to reply and hit a glitch in posting. I will send you a pm.
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Poll_Blind Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Aug-19-11 01:01 PM
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8. HEY---> PEOPLE NEED TO READ THE POST
PB
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Lucian Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Aug-19-11 01:05 PM
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9. Wow...people dont know how to read.
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dtexdem Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Aug-19-11 01:17 PM
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11. No self photos, huh?
;-)
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dsc Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Aug-19-11 02:04 PM
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18. Great test to see if we read more than headlines
Great post, great person, and great parents who didn't defend their little 'princesses'.
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Lisa0825 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Aug-19-11 09:19 PM
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21. kick
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dickthegrouch Donating Member (838 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Aug-20-11 09:54 AM
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22. Terrible title, excellent article and good dem sentiments
I'm sending the original blog to the High Schools in my area.
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