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Related: Editorials & Other Articles, Issue Forums, Alliance Forums, Region ForumsWell, I just told my first fundraising call for a Democrat to f*** off. Hated to, but......
I have a US phone that I turn on when I'm in North America. So who is the first call I get? Some VERY pushy guy asking me to commit $500 (!!) to Tammy Baldwin, to whose successful Senate campaign I had contributed heavily last time. Sure, I just have spare $500 bills to hand out at very whim.
Tammy Baldwin is on the "Franken resign" list, so she (along with the rest of them) gets zero from me until they win their primaries on their own. But MAN was this guy insufferable, and I wouldn't have given him a dime if he was raising money for Obama's third term. Don't know if he was a hired pro or what, but I had to hang up on him. The call, as chance would have it, came at a moment when I was in a room with several friends of Al Franken. VERY poor timing!
Tarheel_Dem
(31,240 posts)DFW
(54,437 posts)I will never forget what happened, and I am not ashamed of my resentment. If we all keep silent, they will think they were all knights in shining armor for what they did to Al Franken. I called no one's office to tell them off when it happened, but I will not stand for being pressured. They can call me after the primaries, and I will be there for them.
As for pushy fundraisers, I can't STAND them. Gabby Giffords has been a personal friend since before she was shot, and I contribute regularly to her and Mark's gun control movement, but once they had some incredibly pushy guy call me up from a San Francisco number trying to get me to double my yearly contribution. He wouldn't take no for an answer, so he, too get a click for an answer. There are right ways to go about this and wrong ways to go about this. I am confident (though have no statistical proof) that insufferable pushiness is one of the wrong ways.
Tarheel_Dem
(31,240 posts)You may find it satisfying, but I find it self defeating (especially when the mission of this board is to elect more Democrats). I, too, wish that Sen. Franken had been granted the investigation he initially called for, but that didn't happen, and it's time to move forward and take back the Congress.
As for those "pushy fundraisers"...they're trying to help us. Telling them to f**k off may feel good in the moment, but when you come back here and spread that loathsome message to allies & enemies alike, you do more harm than good. I only hope that's not your intent.
SCantiGOP
(13,873 posts)I will support and vote for all Dems that have a chance to win a seat.
( and it's hard for a Gamecock to agree with a Tarheel on anything)
Tarheel_Dem
(31,240 posts)There's always a faction trying to increase the divide within the party. It happened in 2016, and that didn't turn out well for us. I'm hoping the voices that were allowed to divide us then will be quelled. Dreamers are depending on us to be unified. People living at, or near the poverty line are depending on us to be unified. People with chronically sick children are depending on us to be unified. People who care about the shit we put into the atmosphere are depending on us to be unified. It's not all about me..me..me. Susan Sarandon did that shit last time around, and got a big old tax break for Christmas.
pangaia
(24,324 posts)I just see it as being offended and pissed off at being treated rudely.
I hang up on people who behave like that as well, whatever the cause for which they are fundraising. FOR EXAMPLE, the NYS Troopers !! Those are the most rude insufferable calls I ever get,,
BTW_ ALL the calls I get for $$ come in on my never used landline.. humm...
Tarheel_Dem
(31,240 posts)pangaia
(24,324 posts)Demsrule86
(68,673 posts)see that.
Demsrule86
(68,673 posts)DFW
(54,437 posts)The pushy fundraisers may be trying to help us, but I doubt it. I have met with real fundraisers, people from Emily's list or members of the Senate and the House who call themselves. They are NOT like this. This guy talked like a pro, on commission or something.
As for the bandwidth, I am as enthusiastic as I can be for Democrats who stick up for our PRINCIPLES and do not jump on convenient bandwagons. The first one of this group to say publicly that they regret their haste, and apologizes to Franken for it, gets a check from me. I see them as being far more detrimental to our party and cause than 100 hours of Fox Noise programming. I will tell ANY pushy fundraiser in no uncertain terms that he or she is going about their job in the wrong way, at least with me. They have my records as to what I have contributed in the past. They should know better, and so should the finance chairmen/women of their campaigns. Let the Republicans pull their Roy Moores and Todd Akins. I want Congresspeople who are better than that. If you find the message loathsome, that is regrettable, but I don't think we make progress with the status quo, and the status quo is pretty loathsome as things stand. I contributed four figures to Tammy Baldwin last time. If she wants me to reconsider and tell me why I should do it again, she can call me herself and explain to me what I missed.
boston bean
(36,223 posts)DFW
(54,437 posts)How many people outside Wisconsin know the roster of the Wisconsin Democratic Senatorial primary at this point? I surely don't.
boston bean
(36,223 posts)chase. There will be no democratic primary challenger to a Tammy. The party will fully support her incumbency.
DFW
(54,437 posts)However, due to the structuring of campaign finance laws, candidates can raise up to a certain amount for the primary and again as much for the general. All candidates know how to play creative bookkeeping to use primary money for the general election.
boston bean
(36,223 posts)We agree on that. It is obviously your choice and you seem to be generous and would have had no issue prior giving x2 in the past.
I really think Franken would hate this line of thinking. He knows what we are up against and we need all hands on deck and every advantage.
If you wanted to honor him supporting a democrat is the way to go.
DFW
(54,437 posts)I will not support a candidate in the primary who I think has done Democrats an immense disservice
boston bean
(36,223 posts)So, you just basically knee capped the amount you could have given to her. I applaud your prior past generosity and just think if you could afford it as usual you should have maxed out again.
Hortensis
(58,785 posts)Although I think you might want to give more attention to your commitment for the primary.
What if a candidate you genuinely wanted to win in the 2020 primary did potentially catastrophic disservices to the party during the primary? You know, potentially catastrophic for the general? All those people who voted for Jill Stein because they felt they couldn't vote Democrat are still our there, and most will probably always be just as easily deluded.
DFW
(54,437 posts)I was referring specifically to the 2018 mid-term election cycle, which is what I was solicited for. After all, we don't yet have any declared candidates for the presidency in 2020--fortunately! The last thing I want to have happen is for the Republicans to get a head start on preparing their arsenal for 2020. I don't have an especially lavish lifestyle, so I save a good portion of my disposable income for contributions to causes I believe in. From cancer research to Howard Dean's march against human trafficking in Thailand to Cecile and PP to Democratic candidates on the local level up to national. But it's not like I pull in half a million a year (and German taxes take out 50% of my income), so I do have to pick and choose. Actually, that's not a bad thing. It forces me to examine and set priorities. The Franken fiasco has reset some of mine, obviously.
Hortensis
(58,785 posts)I challenged a couple people who felt that way to just learn something about the voting record of even one of the senators they claimed to be so disappointed in, but they refused.
Imagine: Wanting to ruin the careers of over 30 Democratic senators on the excuse of being angry that they ruined the career of one. Yet not knowing anything about them or why they did it. Such a viciously casual indulgence of ignorance. Including not even knowing the actual number or names of most, just picking a couple targets to represent all.
Btw, how does joining those who behave in this intensely contemptible manner fit with your hopes for the future of our nation? With your principles, you must very at least be familiar with the voting records of every Democrat you've decided don't meet your standards and are hoping to see lose office in 2018.
Demsrule86
(68,673 posts)And I am person who thought Franken got a raw deal.
Fullduplexxx
(7,870 posts)Here we back to this gdamnit
Tarheel_Dem
(31,240 posts)they already got theirs, so screw everyone else. It's as though everything is about them, and how they feel. Yuk!
Hortensis
(58,785 posts)is a key feature of those with radical leanings, and it's why I look very closely at any leader who fires up their enthusiasm. Hostile groups grabbing power from each other to carry out their agenda and nothing but isn't how democracy works. It is how democracy fails.
Notably, they clearly do not see Franken as a leader, only a symbol to be used to attack Democrats. That's demonstrated beyond doubt by this kind of refusal to follow his lead in his level-headed principled commitment to his party and his colleagues.
Tarheel_Dem
(31,240 posts)that often gets posted here is not reflective of liberalism. Posts like the o.p. give cover to those who continually try to divide us against ourselves. I'd expect to see this type of post over at JPR, but the Dem bashing that's allowed to fester here is disheartening, to say the least. We've got much bigger issues than one Senator who'll be replaced by a "Democrat".
Hortensis
(58,785 posts)Hortensis
(58,785 posts)ecstatic
(32,731 posts)LenaBaby61
(6,977 posts)Dems ad hoc (And especially not after the "Let's run Al Franken from the Senate" campaign SOME went on). There is a way to ask for contributions. Hell, none of us have money trees growing in our back yards
TOTALLY agree with your sentiments DFW
Hekate
(90,793 posts)...who would politely call every so often to let me know I was eligible to donate again and would I mind? I always appreciated their volunteer work and was a regular donor.
Then they hired some hard-sell outfit that was so damn obnoxious and pushy month after month, that I finally told them off, demanded to talk to a supervisor, told the supervisor that I was under no obligation to give my precious bodily fluids away, and on in that vein. Then I called the blood bank office and told them the same, that I Resented being treated like someone with a past-due bill, with the added info that due to my personal health issues I was no longer able to be a blood donor anyway.
I think the people here who are taking offense at your reaction to the hard sell by someone asking you for money are on the wrong track. It is truly counterproductive to treat donors like that.
trof
(54,256 posts)Glorfindel
(9,734 posts)I won't support or vote for any one who was in the "Franken resign" camp except if he or she is running against a Repuke. They knew what they were doing; now let them savor the consequences.
DFW
(54,437 posts)I'm not for having Republicans replace ANY Democratic Senators. Nothing is worth that.
But if they find themselves abandoned by regular donors in the face of a primary challenger, well maybe it would do them some good to know what it is like to be left in the lurch by people they thought they could always depend on.
pangaia
(24,324 posts)Demsrule86
(68,673 posts)and wasting money on challengers when we need every penny to get rid of the GOP and take a majority in order to stop Trump is beyond stupid. Also, you won't vote for Tammy because of some overzealous campaign person? That doesn't even make sense. It makes me wonder what the purpose of this OP is.
Tarheel_Dem
(31,240 posts)That makes two of us.
Demsrule86
(68,673 posts)Demsrule86
(68,673 posts)a Dem...and all...massive sarcasm...this is what I call snatching defeat from the jaws of victory...if you do this then the GOP who engineered the entire Franken debacle win.
ProudMNDemocrat
(16,791 posts)To any Senate Democrat who was on the "get rid of Al Franken" badwagon . The DSCC is going to be hurting in 2018.
Tarheel_Dem
(31,240 posts)There are couple of places that routinely beat up on Democrats, and I expect to see a message like this, but not here. I just hope that the Democrats on this board will ignore messages like yours and focus on the big picture, and not one guy.
CurtEastPoint
(18,663 posts)NastyRiffraff
(12,448 posts)It's happened before, and the purity folks are at it again, just in time for 2018. Some of it is from Russian bots, but some is from stupidity.
dansolo
(5,376 posts)It was the purity folks who railroaded Al Franken out of the Senate. There are many of us who are pissed off about it, and we are nor Russian bots, and we aren't stupid. The stupid ones were the ones who fell for Republican dirty tricks - again.
Demsrule86
(68,673 posts)and are willing to allow repukes to win by primarying sitting Democrats (risks the seat) and/or withholding funds...then you are the purity crowd...just a different kind of purity...same result. I was not happy with the Franken thing as some know...but I would not help elect one Repuke because of it. I don't live in Gillibrand's state, but if I did, I would crawl across broken glass to vote for her. I live in Ohio should I withhold funds from Sherrod Brown because he called for Franken to resign? There is 60 to 100 million of Koch money coming against him. Honestly this entire post and many of the comments make me sick. The same folks saying all of this stuff will be the first to attack the DNC for not spending money in certain races...but you have to have money to spend...consider what 19 will look like if we don't win in 18. Think twice before going down this path...it won't end well.
Tarheel_Dem
(31,240 posts)Demsrule86
(68,673 posts)but I would never risk Democratic seats to teach anyone a lesson....Jesus...playing into GOP hands. Same old same as in 16. You would think they would have realized how foolish it is to go for purity over winning. Do they want Trump and the GOP to have a free hand in setting policy and appointing judges?
NastyRiffraff
(12,448 posts)"Look at me! LOOK AT MEEEEEEEEE!" Sometimes I think they're more to be pitied than censured, except for the danger they pose to the countr7y.
Demsrule86
(68,673 posts)tymorial
(3,433 posts)However I cannot and will not support the notion that punishment without investigation is an acceptable response to an accusation.
The "big picture" has been used before to justify actions which have led to lives being turned upside down and futures sacrificed. An innocent wrongly convicted used to be too many.
LenaBaby61
(6,977 posts)is an acceptable response to an accusation."
THANK YOU!!
FSogol
(45,526 posts)Demsrule86
(68,673 posts)Demsrule86
(68,673 posts)not the presidential primary, but we need every damn Senator and Representative and then some more to stop Trump. Trump is the enemy...the others you refer to made a mistake.
ProudMNDemocrat
(16,791 posts)running in Minnesota for the Senate or House that I can. But sending money to candidates outside of Minnesota for their campaigns, perhaps not.
Demsrule86
(68,673 posts)We have to have a majority...it is not about individual states.
boston bean
(36,223 posts)DFW
(54,437 posts)But he always said that we are entitled to our own opinions, though not our own facts.
My opinion is that what was done to him was despicable and amounts to complicity in a Republican scheme, not boding well for a stiff Democratic opposition in the 2018 session of Congress. That fact that Al Franken thought he found found himself in a situation where he thought resigning was the better part of valor does not change my opinion.
boston bean
(36,223 posts)To each his own I guess.
DFW
(54,437 posts)It's not an obvious call all the time. This time, for me, principle wins.
As I said before, in the General, I'm in with our nominee, whoever that is. I'm angry, but not suicidal.
Like Cheryl Crow sang, "I got a feeling I'm not the only one."
boston bean
(36,223 posts)ChubbyStar
(3,191 posts)Go right ahead!!!
boston bean
(36,223 posts)SCantiGOP
(13,873 posts)I have voted in the past for candidates that I thought couldn't win the general election because I wanted to endorse what they were saying, which I guess counts as 'voting on principle.' But with the very foundation of our democracy, and perhaps the survival of our country and the world on the line, I will be voting for and supporting all Democrats who can take office and turn our country around.
Gore1FL
(21,151 posts)SCantiGOP
(13,873 posts)I was responding to the statement in the OP that an entire class of Democratic office holders and candidates will "get zero from me" unless they win their primary.
The basic argument, which is relitigated with regularity here on DU, is whether to demand philosophical purity from our candidates or to sometimes support those who have the best chance of winning. That is the essence of the 'principle vs pragmatism' argument, and the current state of the country and the world leads me to look more fondly on pragmatism if the other possibility is a continuation of TrumpMcConnellRyanSessionsCruz etc etc etc
boston bean
(36,223 posts)Gore1FL
(21,151 posts)I'm going from what the OP said about their experience.
treestar
(82,383 posts)It still is annoying given what Repubs get away with - seemed a time we could have stood by our guy for once. But in the end, "NO REPUBLICANS IN CONGRESS" where even the bluest dog could sit is my motto.
onenote
(42,761 posts)Or do you not remember what this place was like in 2016.
Demsrule86
(68,673 posts)Hillary Clinton. You vote like this, expect the same outcome...and I think helping to elect Republicans which is what this does is not principled in the least. Tell the Dreamers about your principles...you can amuse them on the way to wherever they will be sent to most likely die.
TheCowsCameHome
(40,168 posts)His. Own.
dflprincess
(28,082 posts)before they played into Republican hands, and attacked Franken.
And let's not pretend some of them didn't do it because they thought they'd further their own ambitions.
Drahthaardogs
(6,843 posts)Though, was it?
Demsrule86
(68,673 posts)which is what some on this thread are advocating ...when they withhold money and primary sitting Democrats.
Drahthaardogs
(6,843 posts)I have limited funds. I donate to those candidates that reflect my interests. My money must get earned by a candidate
Usurping a strong Democratic Senator for your own political gain is Machiavellian, and I won't pay you if you employ those tactics. I don't see how being Machiavellian is good for the party. It's that kind of political nonsense that has put us where we are. I am not rewarding bas behavior
Demsrule86
(68,673 posts)Otherwise those you help elect will get to do exactly nothing. If you don't have a majority, you have no power. I was livid about Franken, but I am not into purity or perhaps revenge is a better term...I will vote for Democrats and send money to Democrats and work my ass of for a majority. No matter what our Dems did, they are all better than any repuke...I seriously thought some would have learned the lesson of 2016...so disappointing.
Drahthaardogs
(6,843 posts).
Demsrule86
(68,673 posts)Demsrule86
(68,673 posts)attaining a majority where such individuals can actually accomplish something worthwhile is sort of like sending thoughts and prayers...it makes you feel good but doesn't accomplish much in terms of policy. Without a substantial investment by the national Democratic Party, we would have had no chance of taking Session's seat in Alabama. The Democratic Party needs donations to make that happen in other states in 18. I have limited funds too due to unemployment earlier in the year, thus I will send most of the money I can afford to the national party in order to win a majority in congress and will give smaller donations and lots of time Sherrod Brown and Tim Ryan here in Ohio. Sen. Brown is a great Senator but can accomplish little without a majority...and he has 60 to 100 million in Koch money coming against him. Also we have to defend three times the number of Senate seats than the GOP does in 18...that takes money.
Drahthaardogs
(6,843 posts)To defend matters not to Senator Gillibrand, so why should it matter to me?
I am a dog trainer and used to train with Roy McFall, a man who won the NFC multiple times. He used to say you can never expect the dog to be more precise than the trainer. Seems appropriate here....
Demsrule86
(68,673 posts)rainin
(3,011 posts)candidates we trust. I will not support any Senator on the "Franken resign" list in the primaries. In the General, obviously, they will get my full support - that includes donations for senators outside my state.
I am still angry. Democrats should be forced to remember that due process is a democratic value. Period!
Demsrule86
(68,673 posts)Have a nice day...and in the end it won't work. The GOP will not divide us despite their multiple attempts. So do your best or worst as the case may be...as for me, I will work to win elections.
rainin
(3,011 posts)I make a distinction between primaries and the general. Between two democrats, in a primary, I will support any challenger who goes against a Franken Resign Senator. Then, I clearly said, I would get behind any democrat in the general.
By the way, being rude doesn't make your argument stronger.
Demsrule86
(68,673 posts)sitting Democrat and the party would be denied financial support is foolish and can only lead to losses in the general. What you suggest is divisive and will only help Republicans. I was totally pissed about the Franken thing...I would not vote for some in a presidential primary because of it...I would support others who did not participate perhaps. There is no Democratic incumbent president...thus there is no risk in using the Franken thing as a factor in my decision concerning whom to support in a presidential primary...Congress is different. We are in a battle for our very existence. The progressive movement is in serious jeopardy and so is our Republic, and nothing must stop us from taking back a majority in the Houses and hopefully the Senate.. nothing is more important than this effort. It is are only chance to stop Trump and the Republicans. I would vote for any Democrat in a general and so would you...but that might not be enough...without volunteers and money, we could lose seats;If we lose Senate seats that helps the GOP implement their murderous agenda; we could weaken Senatorial candidates in needless primaries making them more vulnerable to their Republican opponents or we could nominate candidates who can not win a general. We must shut down Trump and the Republicans. 18 give us our first opportunity. We cannot allow the politics of personal destruction to interfere with this important task. The circular firing squad needs to be disbanded immediately.
In a general, if our candidates are not receiving financial support(from individuals or even a Democratic party that has few resources due to the idea of punishing said party) and have to face a Republicans with deep pockets, we will lose seats. We saw this sort of thing in 16. I won't go down that road again; I hope you and most Democrats won't either...it is not worth it to destroy the future of our party and perhaps the future of our country for the what can only be described as "purity politics". And if Franken had not resigned than those purist who were offended by his actions would have been posting the similar complaints...time to let this go and prepare for battle against Republicans, not our own party or candidates, (and a primary is part of an election) in 18 and 20. One will never agree with any candidate or party completely, but some Democrats seem to think any mistake calls for an execution...and that sort of attitude will make us a permanent minority. Consider what that will mean in terms of policy and the human suffering that will ensue. The GOP doesn't have to destroy the progressive movement on their own as some who call themselves progressives and even Democrats seem willing to do it for them.
rainin
(3,011 posts)And I don't understand why this helps Republicans. If I were a Republican, I would be working like hell to unseat Orrin Hatch. In fact, many decent Republicans are. He is a sitting senator, but the body would be better off without him.
Primaries aren't supposed to be predetermined. That's what you are arguing for. You're asking democrats to pre-ordain the incumbent. How is that a moral ask of a democrat or anyone else?
It sounds like you are more deserving of that Senate seat than any of those Franken ousters. You care more about the future of the Democrats in the Senate than they did. If they had cared that we are in a battle for our very existence, they wouldn't have gone after Franken like they did.
Let's pave the way for Democrats who will act in the best interest of the party.
dembotoz
(16,832 posts)Not a farm guy..thinking heard twice a day..
I am from Wisconsin and I hope at some point u might reconsider.. .I also am having a hard time swallowing he treatment of franken. I did not like hrc but for the good of the country idid work for and support her. Envision same for Baldwin..
It's a long time before the election and the announced gop clowns are truly awful. Perhaps a better fund raiser will approach u later
DFW
(54,437 posts)Baldwin will probably call herself. I will be only too happy to put my grievance to her personally, and I will be only too happy to hear what she has to say.
Like I said elsewhere, once the primaries are done, I am all in for the Democratic nominees, including (whether I think they deserve it or not) those who urged Franken's resignation. However, I will sit out the primaries for those whose behavior in this instance was more of what I expected of our opposition.
Demsrule86
(68,673 posts)destroy any that do things we don't like? That only helps repukes. I was not happy about Franken, but I want every damn Democratic incumbent to win re-election and we need to win several new seats in order to stop the heartless GOP bastards and the that f'ing monster Trump who has fascist tendencies and is a serious threat to our Republic.
flotsam
(3,268 posts)Last edited Wed Dec 27, 2017, 07:28 PM - Edit history (1)
It wasn't-it was a reasoned response to what you perceived as bad behavior. That said there is a small faction on this site who insist, lacking the slightest shred of sworn testimony, that Senator Franken has somehow been convicted of an unnamed crime and therefore had to be disposed of. They are wrong and the actions of democrats in ousting him were deplorable. I will vote for them (holding my nose) but they get nothing from me either...
Good on you DFW!
Irish_Dem
(47,399 posts)underthematrix
(5,811 posts)pnwmom
(108,995 posts)Kirk Lover
(3,608 posts)Fullduplexxx
(7,870 posts)treestar
(82,383 posts)and as many have said, may have decided that ahead of the calls from Dems for him to do so.
Tarheel_Dem
(31,240 posts)Response to DFW (Original post)
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left-of-center2012
(34,195 posts)period
Eliot Rosewater
(31,121 posts)across the way you see a guy throwing a fit with the waitress, you overhear he is mad at the world for failing as an artist.
You then see the future for a moment, realize who that person is, do you then go over and complain to the waitress about how not hot your coffee was?
Or do you dedicate every waking moment of your life to preventing that man from gaining power, vowing to vote for ANYONE who opposes him, NO MATTER WHAT?
ck4829
(35,091 posts)The response shouldn't be "I see he's horrible but let's fill out the approved paperwork and use the ultimate free speech zone of voting to maybe, just maybe, shut this guy down... if we overpower his supporters at the polls."
Gore1FL
(21,151 posts)Before we go all Godwin here, it's important to remember that we are talking about a primary challenge from another Democrat for a House seat and whether or not the OP has to invest $500 of personal money to a politician without being declared a villain.
Demsrule86
(68,673 posts)Gore1FL
(21,151 posts)Demsrule86
(68,673 posts)Congress could bring on horror not unlike what happened in Germany ...I don't think we can withstand two more years of Trump without some power...so primarying sitting Dems is stupid and not only will I not support them...I will never support them except by voting for them in a general and I doubt most will make it that far...if you do something like primarying a sitting Dem in this environment, you are poised to lose.
Gore1FL
(21,151 posts)We live in a democracy. People get to run for public office. If this presents a problem for you, perhaps Democracies and Republics aren't your thing.
Demsrule86
(68,673 posts)winning we won't live in a democracy for long. You can be allowed to do something but the question is ...is it wise...does it help our situation...so although we have the right to run in a primary during a time when we own nothing in government...one has to wonder is this where our limited resources need to go...I say no...and any who do this will be dead to me. I will vote as straight D ticket in the general...but Move On gets no money from me as they financed a primary challenger against Tim Ryan...which risks the seat in Ohio. Any candidate they support against Ryan gets no support from me in this primary or any other in the future. I always vote for the Dem in the general...but what they did seriously risks the seat...dumb move.
Gore1FL
(21,151 posts)Demsrule86
(68,673 posts)Nader supporters...complete waste.
Gore1FL
(21,151 posts)If the Democrats gave them a seat at the table, and not lip service, maybe they would show up as Democratic voters.
I suggested this in the past and you had spasms about it because apparently it is more important for you to have scapegoats for not winning elections than actually winning elections.
Demsrule86
(68,673 posts)discouraged others from voting at all...had those folks voted for Hillary she would be president. I hate very few people...but because of the damage to this country and the folks who will die...because Trump was elected I hate Jill Stein...just hate her.
Gore1FL
(21,151 posts)But after being shut out of the process by people like you, they went their own way and you have shown you don't want them to come back.
Perhaps you should focus you hate and fear into something that will win elections rather than use them to explain why we keep losing.
Demsrule86
(68,673 posts)get re-elected and yes I send her money every month...not $500 as we were unemployed in the fall, but what I can afford. I also send money to the DNC.
Gore1FL
(21,151 posts)Demsrule86
(68,673 posts)we disagree. I just want to stop Trump...I am a very focused person which I am sure is very annoying! Sorry I can't help it. Funny story, several months before I got married, I taped a wedding special on 48 hours...three bride's stories...I was so focused on weddings, I made my poor hubs watch that video pretty much everyday before the wedding...and he married me anyway! I become completely obsessed. Ah well, let's hope we win big and stop Trump in 18 and in 20.
Gore1FL
(21,151 posts)Demsrule86
(68,673 posts)Egnever
(21,506 posts)Voting for some just because they are the incumbent is what gives us a Congress that doesn't give a fuck what you think.
Demsrule86
(68,673 posts)advantage. Primaries cost money...in a time when we have nothing, it is beyond stupid to primary sitting Democrats...go after Republican seats for fuck's sake...no one will ever be 100% perfect. The idea that one votes for the Green liars or stays home if some Dem has offended them...is why we are in the trouble we are in now. All Dems are good enough. I am not the problem... nope. Those who don't put winning above purity are the problem.
Eliot Rosewater
(31,121 posts)FInd one post of mine that REMOTELY suggests that, you will find HUNDREDS possibly more than one THOUSAND where I say
"in November vote for ANY democrat"
Why would you imply such a terrible thing?
Gore1FL
(21,151 posts)Voting for any Democrat in November has nothing to do with what the OP was about, but rather about donating to sitting office holders for primaries.
Demsrule86
(68,673 posts)who called on Franken to resign (sarcasm)...so that should garner some Democratic losses for sure...and then those same folks can wring their hands and cry about how the party needs to change. I was truly angered by what happened with Franken as you know Eliot...but I would not enable one Repuke because of it.
Eliot Rosewater
(31,121 posts)to win they have to become pro life.
DONT LISTEN to these assholes and there is NOTHING pro life about it, NOTHING, it is ANTI women!
Demsrule86
(68,673 posts)within the party when we held a majority...we can't get one any other way...and these folks who want to punish the Party because of Franken ( You and I were both pissed about this but we won't help the repukes because of it)....some of them were arguing the other side a couple of weeks ago. I think they just want to punish the party...I love to see the ones who cry about big donors announcing gravely how they won't give one dime to the Democratic Party and then complaining about how the DNC spends their limited resources. Hopefully we can get some big donors back, we need them.
Demsrule86
(68,673 posts)opponents...Tammy is also a great Senator. I will not forget those who put someone up to be a primary challenger or the person who ran in a year we have nothing and risked the seat. It is a waste of time and money...also there is always an incumbent advantage. But we were talking about Tammy Baldwin...and to lose that seat in what is becoming a red state would destroy any shot at taking the Senate. We have a shot at the Senate which would shut down judiciary picks and a better chance at the House. We can't afford to waste time and money on primarying seats we already have which may also weaken our sitting Senators or House members.
Gore1FL
(21,151 posts)You have choices. Just like the OP has.
Demsrule86
(68,673 posts)in the case of an incumbent. There are limited funds. You refuse to see the risks...Democracy this or that you cry....our right to primary yada yada...well I would like to see us save our Republic and that won't happen without winning elections which takes money which should not be wasted to primary sitting Democrats. See how much democracy remains if we don't at least take the House in 18...consider what the judiciary will look like if Justice Ginsberg dies before we retake the Senate in 18 or 20. It is tough but doable in 18 if we stick together and keep our focus on winning elections...not purifying our sitting Democrats with useless dangerous primaries. win the elections and have a governing majority...stopping Trump should motivate us all sufficiently.
Gore1FL
(21,151 posts)Demsrule86
(68,673 posts)should be silent...silence may be golden in this instance...I see you mention Gore and Florida in your moniker...now there was a time for silence ...Nader and Florida ...bad times.
Gore1FL
(21,151 posts)Regardless, Gore's 2000 experience has little to do with your resistance to democracy or the OP's choice not to donate $500.
Demsrule86
(68,673 posts)said for Stein...the Russian Princess. we need to win and to do that put our differences behind us...no point in attacking Democrats. I was unhappy with the Franken debacle...but I would not sacrifice one sitting Democrat because of it, and I surely will donate to all who look to be in trouble or I admire...and a substantial donation the Party...the Senate is daunting for Democrats in 18 and we could end up with a 60 vote majority for the GOP if we are not careful. So spare the high minded talk about what 'rights we have in a a Democracy or a Republic which is what we actually have because if we want to have any rights moving forward, we better stop talking and start winning elections.The Republicans are a danger to our Republic and must be stopped. Attacking fellow Dems and ranting about starving them financially and starving the Democratic Party only helps Republicans. ( Not saying you ranted although I disagree with every word you said but there has been ranting throughout the thread...in fact one could consider the entire OP a rant about how some plan to punish the Democratic Party for the Franken thing which is so foolish it takes me breath away).
Gore1FL
(21,151 posts)But the lack of vote counting is what sent then wrong slate to Florida. Of course, had the FL greens been included, reached out to, and otherwise courted by the Democratic Party, it would have certainly been harder for the GOP. It would have also been harder for the GOP if there weren't Palm Beach butterfly ballots, and antiquated voting machines in Dade, too. But ultimately, it was SCOTUS who stopped the SCOTFL mandated recount.
In any event, this has NOTHING AT ALL to do the OP not wanting to give up $500 to support a candidate he/she doesn't agree with in the primary phase.
No one is saying to punish the Democrats over Franken, but rather not reward them over Franken. I am, sorry you think the quelling of voices is Democracy. It isn't. I don't know where you got your storyline from, but it certainly wasn't the OP. Your attitude on the subject betrays your lack of understanding and goes a long way to explaining why voiceless and discounted people leave the party.
Unless you have some fact-grounded thing to add, or you can provide proof that you gave $500 to the primary candidate in question, then please take your specious election-losing arguments elsewhere.
Demsrule86
(68,673 posts)by helping to elect Republicans.
ananda
(28,876 posts)The Dems who turned on Franken are dead to me now..
including Gillibrand, Warren and also Indy Sanders.
aeromanKC
(3,327 posts)I believe Al Franken is a bigger man than I. My gut reaction would have gotten me pulled away from Gillibrand's headquarters in handcuffs while protesting her railroad job on Senator Franken.
I believe Senator Franken is a big boy who has his big boy pants on and realizes politics can be a dirty game. I believe Senator Franken put the Country and Party above himself and took one for the team.
Al Franken will be back in some capacity and the Country will benefit from his endeavors.
I believe Senator Al Franken is a model Senator and Minnesota, the Country and Democratic party have been fortunate to have had him working on their behalf.
If I lived in WI, i would vote for Baldwin but it would be hard to find my big boy pants and get out my checkbook for her.
samnsara
(17,635 posts)Honeycombe8
(37,648 posts)because they're too successful, too popular, or whatever the flavor of the month may be.
elfin
(6,262 posts)She is in trouble of not being re-elected - huge money and lies out to get her in what has shifted from blue to Walker red. I cannot bear to have my state be identified with Walker, and Ron (Sunspot) Johnson, and another Koch candidate.
I think she was on the later list of Gillibrand's and very possibly after Al told them he was leaving, so pile on if they thought the statement might be good for them, the party, and/or for the issue.
Not completely sure on that, but suspect Gillibrand was twisting arms severely, especially among women.
Cant stand Gillibrand and her horrid misjudgment but worried for Baldwin and my state, so will give some $ as we get far closer and do signs, calls etc in the last stretch.
Met her once - a very good Representative. Her positions are good, but she is not compelling, so a ripe target.
lkinwi
(1,477 posts)This post and some of the subsequent posts have lit a firecracker under my butt to send Tammy a check.
Fullduplexxx
(7,870 posts)And if she falls short in fund raising im sure a koch funded republican will be happy to take her place but at least you got it off your chest
Quick tempers and short-sightedness are not positive attributes for politics
CaliforniaPeggy
(149,702 posts)He is NOT short-sighted nor quick tempered, not by a long shot. He is a very intelligent, well spoken, well educated human.
You are way off base.
Fullduplexxx
(7,870 posts)Perhaps not quick tempered maybe this has been brewing but certainly shortsighted in this . Again an underfunded duckworth has a greater chance of losing to a well funded koch candidate . Telling tammy's donation call to fuck off may make him feel better but it hurts our ... OUR ... chances of retaining the seat.
Demsrule86
(68,673 posts)Response to DFW (Original post)
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VOX
(22,976 posts)Discipline, damnit! Do not do this.
Ghost Owl
(59 posts)is Republican shtick.
I don't think demanding Democratic Purity and unquestioning support for Democrats is really the direction we want to go.
I have a big problem with how the Dems handled this, I think it was an affront to the democratic process to strongarm as Senator into resigning, usurping the voters of Minnesota without even an independent investigation.
I will still vote for a Dem over pretty much any Republican, and certainly over 45. But that doesn't mean I have to pretend the Dems are faultless. They fucked up.
niyad
(113,556 posts)McCamy Taylor
(19,240 posts)TheCowsCameHome
(40,168 posts)Not one bit.
Sinking Al Franken was a horrible idea.
XRubicon
(2,212 posts)Plucketeer
(12,882 posts)You've just said something untoward about a person of the " D)" sort. I've heard DU has a woodshed they use when someone executes a dissing like that!
Sneederbunk
(14,301 posts)still_one
(92,397 posts)did, that is bullshit.
There are plenty of responses you could done, and if you wanted to send a message the way to do it would be this way:
1. You could have said you were disappointed in Tammy Baldwin's position on Al Franken without due process, and therefore will not donate.
2. I don't donate via phone solicitations, thanks anyway
3. Just hang up, or say you are on the do not call list
etc.
I hope your OP was not literally telling them to f**k off
DFW
(54,437 posts)But poor Tammy Baldwin if she has jerks like this one fundraising for her. It wouldn't surprise me in the least if he did her more harm than good, and my last contribution to her was in four figures, which he said he knew.
boston bean
(36,223 posts)DFW
(54,437 posts)I regulary contributed four figure amounts to Baldwin before.
boston bean
(36,223 posts)DFW
(54,437 posts)If the guy had been calling for someone not on the "list," I would have told him his candidate could expect a check from me, but he should tone down his offensive hard sell, because he might raise more money that way.
boston bean
(36,223 posts)support democrats and defeat repuglicans.
still_one
(92,397 posts)republican by voting accordingly
Support comes in many forms, and probably the most important is casting one's vote
Beartracks
(12,821 posts)still_one
(92,397 posts)phone
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GulfCoast66
(11,949 posts)Before we move onto Trump.
First we purify ourselves. When that is complete, then and only then do we worry about Republicans.
which should not be necessary.
I guess 16 taught us nothing.
boston bean
(36,223 posts)people, he must continually ask himself.
Gore1FL
(21,151 posts)If you aren't going to do that, then please refrain in your judgement of others who have also decided not to donate $500 to the Duckworth campaign for her seat's primary challenge.
Thank you!
spooky3
(34,477 posts)Gore1FL
(21,151 posts)The point remains.
Evergreen Emerald
(13,069 posts)The circular firing squad. Who needs Putin? We do it to ourselves.
ck4829
(35,091 posts)When we use the stock market/the Dow as an economic indicator, placing the whims of the few as a means to see "how we are doing", we might as well say "WE LOVE OLIGARCHY".
When we have a government that says Nazis are fine people but get scared of 'others' just because they are 'other'.
We've got a lot of work to do to get our house in order... it's going to take more than tainted electoral politics to get it right.
Egnever
(21,506 posts)And expect success.
What do you think it taught us?
GulfCoast66
(11,949 posts)Purity test abound. Conspiracies about the establishment running the show. The nieve belief we can win while accepting no money from tainted people. Trashing good democrats, even office holders who disappoint at times. The heartfelt belief that any member of the Democratic Party not left enough on all issues is a Dino if not a moderate republican.
And failure to realize the candidates for all offices are picked by members of the Democratic Party, preferably in a primary. And when My candidate loses the primary I support the winner in the general as strongly as I did my candidate in the primary.
This does not describe a majority of members of the Democratic Party nor members of DU. But enough to make a difference.
Raine
(30,540 posts)GulfCoast66
(11,949 posts)Then we lose the seat.
I do not like what happened to Franken, although much of the blame rest on him. But I learned a long time ago about spite, faces and noses.
Demsrule86
(68,673 posts)That is dumb. And I was really angry about it.
Theres gonna be some blowback on the people who threw Franken under the bus.
The republicans must be laughing themselves silly. I wont forget the posters here wanted him gone.
At the time I didnt understand what their purpose was. I think I do now. Sickening.
Thank you for your post DFW. Happy to rec.
Va Lefty
(6,252 posts)Vogon_Glory
(9,129 posts)I want to be polite about it, but they make it impossible. I hate doing it, but some people dont seem to get that our donations are voluntary or wont deviate from their scripts.
Some candidates DO deserve support despite pushy callers; others dont.
dflprincess
(28,082 posts)we now have two Senate races to donate to in Minnesota. I won't be giving any money to the DSCC or any candidate outside the state (not that they'll miss the small amount I can give).
brooklynite
(94,728 posts)Hekate
(90,793 posts)...of a dunning phone call from a collection agency, from a guy with just as much charm as a bill collector making a demand for money "right the eff now, you deadbeat."
Except the "bill collector" was demanding a donation of Five Hundred Dollars and would not take no for an answer. That's actually a lot of money. What is wrong with this picture?
All you people jumping up and down on DFW for refusing to be browbeaten and bullied can just start making $500 donations yourselves, especially after someone calls you up for a donation and gets nasty about you not wanting to pony up hundreds of dollars on demand.
NB: Sorry to make this a reply to the OP, but there were just a shocking number of people who seemed to completely miss the point of what the OP was saying. My other post deals with my personal experience, and why this one resonates with me.
Raster
(20,998 posts)... "how dare you not support whom I want you to support"
... "how dare you have your own personal opinion"
... "how dare you not give money when asked... If he/she/it loses, it is all your fault"
brooklynite
(94,728 posts)Then I would have NOT come here to tell everyone about it.
Hekate
(90,793 posts)We all just showed up yesterday and know nothing about each other, right? Nobody ever shares anything personal about themselves, right? Nobody ever reveals births, marriages, deaths, presence at national disasters, or anything at all, right? So we have no basis to cut anyone a little slack or try to see anything from their point of view, amirite? Because ... DU just isn't a community ... at all.
treestar
(82,383 posts)more moderate approaches! And if trying for donations from Franken-resign enablers, be somewhat sensitive to that.
ecstatic
(32,731 posts)I know it's difficult at times, especially when our side makes dumb mistakes (e.g. Franken). But hundreds of thousands of people are watching and reading, and all it takes is one post to demoralize a would be vote for democrats. I can't tell you how many times I've seen the content of posts lifted from DU and uttered by television talking heads on CNN and MSNBC, almost verbatim. So now we're talking millions of people exposed to sentiments expressed here.
Again, I can relate to what the OP said, but at the same time, the future of this country is at stake. We have to be smart this time around and not give the GOP, Russians, Koch bros, trolls, etc any ideas or openings.
tirebiter
(2,539 posts)You're talking to a volunteer who does not deserve your wrath. Asking Tammy Baldwin WTF would be kosher. She's got to be tough to do her job.
onenote
(42,761 posts)Ask Luther Strange.
FSogol
(45,526 posts)The OP is damaging the party and our chances to win whether they believe it or not.
Hekate
(90,793 posts)aikoaiko
(34,183 posts)Thank you for sharing your experience and your thoughts.
Demsrule86
(68,673 posts)I hope to God the OP is in the minority and we manage to oust the GOP in 18.
aikoaiko
(34,183 posts)We should have no problem with someone like that and give DFW a break if s/he had a bad experience with a solicitor and wants to wait to donate to the candidate after the primary.
This forum is where DU members should be able to share their experiences without the thought police coming around saying they shouldn't or somehow bad Democrats.
Suppression of unhappy posts is a playbook for failure. You can't demand fidelity and expect to get it.
Demsrule86
(68,673 posts)a person not giving to a particular caller, but the idea that the party must be punished because of the Franken debacle is dangerous and foolish. You know where I stand on the Franken thing...I hope he doesn't resign and was very angry about it. But it is not worth endangering our chances of stopping Trump...and voting grudgingly in a general while starving candidates and the DNC financially won't be enough in my opinion. How many on this thread have called for primarying sitting Democrats (because we have all the money in the world don't you know) or said they won't send the DNC donations or support certain candidates. This is ridiculous and can only lead to GOP victories. And telling someone who was most likely a volunteer supporting his or her candidate to 'fuck off' is just obnoxious. I have made calls asking for donations and would expect better from those who are Democrats or progressives.
LanternWaste
(37,748 posts)The important thing is that you hated telling someone to fuck off in front of your friends.
NCTraveler
(30,481 posts)That's all it is. An attack on Democrats with no ability to back it up.
Not even close to believable.
This is based in nothing more than ones self. An anti-progressive value.
Franken would simply call you a jerk lacking the ability to see past today.
nadine_mn
(3,702 posts)They were prepared for that because they basically read from a script several talking points....good of the party blah blah blah
My husband countered every single one
Said we are no longer donating because of how they railroaded Franken without an investigation etc.
brooklynite
(94,728 posts)You didn't say WHICH Dems called; are they all responsible for what happened to Franken?
nadine_mn
(3,702 posts)My husband took the call, he didn't say which group of Dems it was from...it wasn't local.
We don't have much, so we don't donate much.
We feel strongly that about how the Senate Democrats and our representatives turned their back on Franken.
So no, we aren't donating to the national party and taking out money on a case by case basis.
If telling the caller that we won't be donating because we feel our (and thousands of other Minnesotans) vote was taken away by a few means "teaching a lesson" ...whatever.
You don't understand the hurt and betrayal some of feel...and we don't feel like being taken for granted.
treestar
(82,383 posts)Not much good unless you can say we are now for whoever is challenging Sen. X who asked Franken to resign for the Democratic nomination.
Demsrule86
(68,673 posts)Personally, I tell the GOP fundraisers to fuck off.
quickesst
(6,283 posts).... It clearly does not break the rules. and you have every right to express your feelings about a primary candidate. During the presidential primary Hillary Clinton was attacked and demonized on a daily basis, but, when she won the primary most of those detractors got behind her and voted for her in the general election. This is no different.
Greybnk48
(10,176 posts)here in Wisconsin. It would NOT surprise me one bit if the rude, pushy caller was a REPUBLICAN pulling a rat-fucking operation to get Wisconsin mid-west polite voters to turn on her.
Tammy's the only one I'm not mad at about Al Franken.
treestar
(82,383 posts)to tell them how the insufferable nature is ineffective? Maybe they need better training. If he was so bad you would not give him a dime for Obama's third term, that's more the problem than Tammy Baldwin's Al Franken resign bandwagon jump.
R B Garr
(16,976 posts)that they do not get to overturn elections and badmouth elected Democrats just for some internet hashtag gone wild. It's just absolutely outrageous, absurd and just intolerable what they did.
REC!
Demsrule86
(68,673 posts)so why play into their hands.
niyad
(113,556 posts)Tipperary
(6,930 posts)Lately it seems every time I tune into du, someone has a thread about telling someone to eff off. A family member, a right wing person, now this thread. Surely it is possible to get thoughts across without always cursing someone else. My father used to tell me that the second you started using profanity, you had already lost the argument. And that you would have made yourself seem 50 IQ points dumber.
saidsimplesimon
(7,888 posts)Thank you for taking a stand. Al Franken is not the Senator from my state. I do mourn the loss of diversity in the "august" branch of the Senate. Worse yet, I am angry he was "fired" by those with have no facts supporting a claim of "moral" superiority.
rainin
(3,011 posts)It begs the question, are we allowed to EVER be unhappy with a democrat? Or is it just forbidden to be unhappy with a democrat for sacrificing Franken with NO DUE PROCESS?
It appears that many here not only don't value due process, but they don't value democracy either. If we choose to support a democratic challenger, apparently, we aren't allowed to sit at the DU table anymore.
Wow....
Egnever
(21,506 posts)Who are afraid of losing to Trump again and willing to put up with anything in the hopes that if Dems are just never criticized they will win.
It's a losing attitude in my opinion. If we want to win we need to have something to fight for not just against.
It is especially ironic in my opinion to see these folks are crying for lockstep for the folks that threw a fellow Dem under the bus.
rainin
(3,011 posts)Sen. Walter Sobchak
(8,692 posts)and they haven't encountered this level of hostility from their Democrat constituents since the Iraq War Resolution.
He also said a number of prominent supporters wouldn't talk to the senator when they called with Christmas greetings.
MrsCoffee
(5,803 posts)To have that kind of security I mean.
Maybe not so nice for those who cant afford Democrats losing any seats. No one is required to give, but to use a Democratic rallying site to depress support is a little tacky. Especially when said seat would be in jeopardy due to lack of support.