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SleeplessinSoCal

(9,120 posts)
Sat Jan 6, 2018, 06:22 PM Jan 2018

Trying to get my Bernie or die nephew to stop trashing HRC.

Last night he posted to Facebook an article on the reopening of the Clinton Foundation with the caption "Good". He hates her more now than last year. He joined an anti fascist group for a while in the fall, but discovered they were more violence prone than first advertised.

I dove in with articles and a Frum tweet...


?s=09

After trying to impress on him that the GOP is in the grip of Russian oligarchs, he continues to accuse HRC of undermining minimum wage in Haiti after the earthquake, and other votes for WS interests when a Senator, as well as other relatively minor grievances that go on in hardball politics. He is being brainwashed. I am the one who advised he get involved with groups after the election. I gather the ones that impressed him are extremely anti-Clinton, and not what I hoped would be Democratic advocates.

He is still harping on this well in to today.
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Trying to get my Bernie or die nephew to stop trashing HRC. (Original Post) SleeplessinSoCal Jan 2018 OP
Do some research - there is some evidence that Russian bots csziggy Jan 2018 #1
I thought about telling him that, but think he knows that already. SleeplessinSoCal Jan 2018 #27
Put him on Trumps email list. TeamPooka Jan 2018 #2
Your post doesn't "smell" right left-of-center2012 Jan 2018 #3
Reading is fundamental. OP said his nephew joined an anti fascist group. emulatorloo Jan 2018 #5
nephew ornotna Jan 2018 #18
I corrected it emulatorloo Jan 2018 #19
And quickly too ornotna Jan 2018 #21
Oddly I corrected before I saw your post! Really do appreciate you posting, thank you! emulatorloo Jan 2018 #23
I appreciate all responses. SleeplessinSoCal Jan 2018 #29
It said anti facist MichMan Jan 2018 #6
still sounds made up left-of-center2012 Jan 2018 #8
You screwed up and so you double down. Muck around in the bowels of reddit and youll find emulatorloo Jan 2018 #10
In what sense does it not "smell right" and sound "made up"? George II Jan 2018 #22
nothing is made up. SleeplessinSoCal Jan 2018 #24
I want to move on, but the bots or whoever are still at it. SleeplessinSoCal Jan 2018 #25
How about this one? brer cat Jan 2018 #33
+1,000,000 George II Jan 2018 #37
Snap! Great find, brer cat lunamagica Jan 2018 #58
Read the Op again. sheshe2 Jan 2018 #40
"Your response/ attack is uncalled for" left-of-center2012 Jan 2018 #41
I feel very bad for you. emulatorloo Jan 2018 #4
I tried to engage obliquely. SleeplessinSoCal Jan 2018 #26
I am not on Facebook so no. emulatorloo Jan 2018 #28
Smart move. SleeplessinSoCal Jan 2018 #31
Page not available melman Jan 2018 #44
Cool story, bro RandiFan1290 Jan 2018 #7
Good luck I have given up with my husband's redstatebluegirl Jan 2018 #9
totally agree that free tuition thing is a horrible communist idea. shanny Jan 2018 #12
Like he would have ever been able to implement it. It was all talk. lunamagica Jan 2018 #59
Sad but true Felix highmindedhavi Jan 2018 #64
Like it will ever be implemented shanny Jan 2018 #73
Right. Empty talk with no plans will make it happen. Free College :Talk. Burlington lunamagica Jan 2018 #80
Very nice. shanny Jan 2018 #81
Funny how you ignored what I said on my post. I bet the students burned in the lunamagica Jan 2018 #82
Germany offers free university education to all German students and to American students, too..... marble falls Jan 2018 #72
I ask myself the same question. shanny Jan 2018 #74
I imagine not having a military larger than the next 10 countries put together helps. Priorities. marble falls Jan 2018 #75
Yup. shanny Jan 2018 #77
Ive pointed it out to a few people it was naked self interest that made them think free college bettyellen Jan 2018 #13
Did he write in Bernie or vote for Jill Stein? Or not vote? LuvLoogie Jan 2018 #11
He voted for HRC. SleeplessinSoCal Jan 2018 #32
I think he is just needing someone to blame for LuvLoogie Jan 2018 #39
I don't know about how far back his memory goes re: swiftboating. SleeplessinSoCal Jan 2018 #43
Post removed Post removed Jan 2018 #68
You're my first troll. SleeplessinSoCal Jan 2018 #69
Message auto-removed Name removed Jan 2018 #70
This message was self-deleted by its author David__77 Jan 2018 #52
What difference does it make at this point? Nevernose Jan 2018 #14
Because soon enough there will be Clinton Foundation style CT about the Dems running in the 2020 emulatorloo Jan 2018 #15
Groups like the ones he's with now are already working to depress the Democratic vote in November. pnwmom Jan 2018 #17
Did you ask him why he is focusing on the past when we have a MONSTER currently in office? pnwmom Jan 2018 #16
Not directly. But I keep saying he needs to focus on voter suppression. SleeplessinSoCal Jan 2018 #34
Sorry, but time to tell your nephew that he is a clueless Ass. Blue_true Jan 2018 #20
I can't do that. he's fragile. SleeplessinSoCal Jan 2018 #35
His fragility. Blue_true Jan 2018 #38
His desire to be engaged and fight fascism certainly was a sign of his concern for others. SleeplessinSoCal Jan 2018 #60
My first instinct was to advise you to send him a book list. betsuni Jan 2018 #71
He's lucky to have you in his life, even if he doesn't know it right now. femmedem Jan 2018 #56
Thanks for these words of concern and advice. SleeplessinSoCal Jan 2018 #62
Tell him Hillary isn't running for office anymore. Focus on the present. jalan48 Jan 2018 #30
I sort of did. Told him to focus on voter suppression. SleeplessinSoCal Jan 2018 #36
I have to sometimes work at a place with 2 bobs . They never stop and their crazy level lunasun Jan 2018 #42
There is a generational factor. I recall her efforts as first lady. SleeplessinSoCal Jan 2018 #47
That definitely happened melman Jan 2018 #45
You are not a Bernie-or-Buster. That doesnt mean they dont exist. Because they do. emulatorloo Jan 2018 #79
Obviously prone to conspiracy shit GulfCoast66 Jan 2018 #46
Don't think so. He probably will disconnect. Maybe not vote. SleeplessinSoCal Jan 2018 #49
I know the type. NurseJackie Jan 2018 #48
I'd like to know if these CT types notice something. betsuni Jan 2018 #50
I think their war propaganda is specifically directed to the Left. N/T SleeplessinSoCal Jan 2018 #51
Even nutty Alex Jones was more fair. betsuni Jan 2018 #53
Sadly ICE is putting people in camps. N/T SleeplessinSoCal Jan 2018 #54
forget it. pangaia Jan 2018 #55
CHARITY NAVIGATOR rates the Clinton Foundation 4/4 brooklynite Jan 2018 #57
I recall posting this back during the campaign. It just gets buried in hate. SleeplessinSoCal Jan 2018 #66
Let him bw. romanic Jan 2018 #61
It's based on propaganda. And we have to say so. I believe. n/t SleeplessinSoCal Jan 2018 #67
Tell him to delve into Sanders' background as well. That should even things out. brush Jan 2018 #63
She is no longer the candidate. Move on to newer elections. dembotoz Jan 2018 #65
im beginnng to think this absolute thinking.. samnsara Jan 2018 #76
Wish him well and tell him good bye Botany Jan 2018 #78
I presently am sick with the flu and am resting. SleeplessinSoCal Jan 2018 #83

csziggy

(34,136 posts)
1. Do some research - there is some evidence that Russian bots
Sat Jan 6, 2018, 06:26 PM
Jan 2018

Targeted Bernie supporters with anti-HRC propaganda. Maybe if you can show him that kind of info he will realize he was played just as much as the pro-Trumpsters were.

SleeplessinSoCal

(9,120 posts)
27. I thought about telling him that, but think he knows that already.
Sat Jan 6, 2018, 07:41 PM
Jan 2018

A year ago I was helping him get engaged when he waz so down. This HRC stuff all happened very recently. I will ask my brother, his dad, but doubt that he understands. Seems to be a pattern for some Bernie supporters though.

I watched Michelle Wolf, Bill Burr And Dave Chappelle's recent comedy specials. They all trashed HRC differently. Burr went after her hardest, calling her "the devil". Chappelle was actually the most generous. Wolf just says she doesn't like her. Well, this is our pop culture doing some effective dirty work. And all they're doing is being honest about how they feel. And they all hate trump.

left-of-center2012

(34,195 posts)
3. Your post doesn't "smell" right
Sat Jan 6, 2018, 06:32 PM
Jan 2018

Real or just stirring the pot,
it's time to move on and get over 2016.

We've got primaries and a fall election coming up.

emulatorloo

(44,124 posts)
5. Reading is fundamental. OP said his nephew joined an anti fascist group.
Sat Jan 6, 2018, 06:36 PM
Jan 2018

“He joined an anti fascist group“

Btw TYT’s Jimmy Dore just released a “Clinton Colluded With Russia” screed so let’s not pretend that conspiracy-theory minded self-identified progressives don’t exist.

Clinton Colluded With Russia To Smear Trump During Election

SleeplessinSoCal

(9,120 posts)
29. I appreciate all responses.
Sat Jan 6, 2018, 07:44 PM
Jan 2018

This is a hard task for me. I even recommended he join DU. Sent him the link and all, but don't think he did.

Maybe I should send him this link....

emulatorloo

(44,124 posts)
10. You screwed up and so you double down. Muck around in the bowels of reddit and youll find
Sat Jan 6, 2018, 06:42 PM
Jan 2018

plenty of Bernie-or-busters who believe any right-wing CT that is against Democrats.

George II

(67,782 posts)
22. In what sense does it not "smell right" and sound "made up"?
Sat Jan 6, 2018, 07:17 PM
Jan 2018

The OP is talking about current interactions with her nephew, has nothing specifically to do with 2016.

SleeplessinSoCal

(9,120 posts)
24. nothing is made up.
Sat Jan 6, 2018, 07:18 PM
Jan 2018

My nephew is smart, but not really cut out for the 21st century economy. He joined an anti-fascist group that was promoting a national day of protest last November 4th. Left when they became more like "ANTI-FA".

I think he was trying to be proactive. But now seems content to merely protest.

Here's the link to this discussion.
https://m.facebook.com/story.php?story_fbid=10155225660920036&id=501560035


SleeplessinSoCal

(9,120 posts)
25. I want to move on, but the bots or whoever are still at it.
Sat Jan 6, 2018, 07:26 PM
Jan 2018

My nephew tried an environmental group and one that was a local Dem group in San Diego. They weren't doing enough to hold his interest and somehow he has now put me in his enemy camp by insisting I equate HRC with Stein or Trump.

I think DU needed to keep a forum open for these people who have splintered off. We aren't nearly out of the woods yet. So many Democratic voters in the OC are passionate about Bernie, no matter what he says to get them to focus on the issues before them. My nephew is a prime example.

sheshe2

(83,771 posts)
40. Read the Op again.
Sat Jan 6, 2018, 08:26 PM
Jan 2018
Your post doesn't "smell" right


Real or just stirring the pot,


Your response/ attack is uncalled for.

left-of-center2012

(34,195 posts)
41. "Your response/ attack is uncalled for"
Sat Jan 6, 2018, 08:50 PM
Jan 2018

Time to move on.
2016 is so 'yesterday'.

We've got new battles to fight in 2018.

SleeplessinSoCal

(9,120 posts)
26. I tried to engage obliquely.
Sat Jan 6, 2018, 07:30 PM
Jan 2018

Then he got defensive. I don't want to go down these rabbit holes with him. But I feel a certain responsibility for keeping him engaged on facts that matter. I posted the link to his post.

Can you read this?
https://m.facebook.com/story.php?story_fbid=10155225660920036&id=501560035

redstatebluegirl

(12,265 posts)
9. Good luck I have given up with my husband's
Sat Jan 6, 2018, 06:42 PM
Jan 2018

Grad students. That free tuition thing made them believe anything including HRC as an evil member of "the other".

lunamagica

(9,967 posts)
80. Right. Empty talk with no plans will make it happen. Free College :Talk. Burlington
Sun Jan 7, 2018, 02:37 PM
Jan 2018

College: reality.

See the difference?

 

shanny

(6,709 posts)
81. Very nice.
Sun Jan 7, 2018, 02:47 PM
Jan 2018

Free college--common in the civilized world--is "empty talk" and forever out of reach in the richest country in the history of the world.
Live in your reality if you like, you seem to revel in it. Some of us prefer to think a little bigger.

Bye now.

lunamagica

(9,967 posts)
82. Funny how you ignored what I said on my post. I bet the students burned in the
Sun Jan 7, 2018, 03:29 PM
Jan 2018

Burlington College fiasco just LOVE Bernie

marble falls

(57,093 posts)
72. Germany offers free university education to all German students and to American students, too.....
Sun Jan 7, 2018, 07:21 AM
Jan 2018

I wonder how those "communists" manage it?

 

shanny

(6,709 posts)
77. Yup.
Sun Jan 7, 2018, 08:45 AM
Jan 2018

As was pointed out recently: we can't afford to educate our children, rebuild our infrastructure or provide medical care to our people so what exactly are they "defending"?

 

bettyellen

(47,209 posts)
13. Ive pointed it out to a few people it was naked self interest that made them think free college
Sat Jan 6, 2018, 06:47 PM
Jan 2018

Was the biggest issue. And honestly when you ask them what other issues they care about they grasp at sound bites- why Wall Street? They’re not sure, but again it’s aboht more money on their pockets. They’d be as easily swayed by lower taxes. Not impressed.

LuvLoogie

(7,003 posts)
11. Did he write in Bernie or vote for Jill Stein? Or not vote?
Sat Jan 6, 2018, 06:44 PM
Jan 2018

Many of these kids insulate their naivete with, "Bernie would a beat trump." or "Clinton would have been worse."

LuvLoogie

(7,003 posts)
39. I think he is just needing someone to blame for
Sat Jan 6, 2018, 08:15 PM
Jan 2018

inflicting us with trump. Is he old enough to remember how they swift boated Kerry. What they did to Max Cleland?

Does he understand that they have been doing that to Hillary for over 25 years?

SleeplessinSoCal

(9,120 posts)
43. I don't know about how far back his memory goes re: swiftboating.
Sat Jan 6, 2018, 08:58 PM
Jan 2018

I answered his question equating Stein taking money from Russia, vs HRC record on Wall Street votes. Pointed out there is no comparison when it comes to Putin election interference. He has not responded since.

My last reply:

"No. I believe it was wrong of her to take Putin/oligarch money because they are a murderous and corrupt regime bent on undermining western democracies - hence involvement in Brexit, our election and France's and Germany's among others. We are more gullible. And France's Macron and Merkel are now the future of the Free World."

Response to SleeplessinSoCal (Reply #43)

SleeplessinSoCal

(9,120 posts)
69. You're my first troll.
Sun Jan 7, 2018, 03:53 AM
Jan 2018

My Congressional rep is Rohrabacher. We are more up to date on Putin's actions than most.

Response to SleeplessinSoCal (Reply #69)

Response to SleeplessinSoCal (Reply #32)

Nevernose

(13,081 posts)
14. What difference does it make at this point?
Sat Jan 6, 2018, 06:49 PM
Jan 2018

Other than being obnoxious, what difference does your nephew’s opinion about Hillary matter? She’s not going to jail (because she hasn’t done anything illegal), she’s not running for office.

Arguing with a liberal family member over the foreign policy paradigm of the retired Secretary of State from a decade ago seems a little silly. We’ve all got bigger, oranger fish to fry.

emulatorloo

(44,124 posts)
15. Because soon enough there will be Clinton Foundation style CT about the Dems running in the 2020
Sat Jan 6, 2018, 06:58 PM
Jan 2018

primary.

Can’t do quote marks in thread titles, so should read:

”Clinton Foundation” style CT

pnwmom

(108,978 posts)
17. Groups like the ones he's with now are already working to depress the Democratic vote in November.
Sat Jan 6, 2018, 07:06 PM
Jan 2018

It's no accident that he's not coming back home decrying Trump. They've got him harping on Hillary instead.

SleeplessinSoCal

(9,120 posts)
34. Not directly. But I keep saying he needs to focus on voter suppression.
Sat Jan 6, 2018, 07:56 PM
Jan 2018

I posted articles and he won't get past my not answering a question equating Stein with HRC.

If he doesn't admit Russia is undermining western democracies to help himself and his oil buddies, I will have to tell him he is being too stubborn for his own good.

Blue_true

(31,261 posts)
20. Sorry, but time to tell your nephew that he is a clueless Ass.
Sat Jan 6, 2018, 07:14 PM
Jan 2018

If you won't listen to soft persuasion, hit him in the face with the raw realities of what has happened to the country and world since Trump got elected curtesy of people like him, everything that he claims is important to him has been set back a decade or more.

SleeplessinSoCal

(9,120 posts)
35. I can't do that. he's fragile.
Sat Jan 6, 2018, 07:58 PM
Jan 2018

I hoped I'd learned enough to be persuasive. He's only recently stumbled into conspiracyville.

Blue_true

(31,261 posts)
38. His fragility.
Sat Jan 6, 2018, 08:12 PM
Jan 2018

Could end up causing lots of people to lose their lives. Time to find out whether he has even a shred of humanity in him.

SleeplessinSoCal

(9,120 posts)
60. His desire to be engaged and fight fascism certainly was a sign of his concern for others.
Sun Jan 7, 2018, 12:32 AM
Jan 2018

His heart is in the right place. He has no drive or direction yet he has an artist's soul. Tricky combo.

betsuni

(25,531 posts)
71. My first instinct was to advise you to send him a book list.
Sun Jan 7, 2018, 03:58 AM
Jan 2018

I don't know how old your nephew is (or if he likes to read), but when a relative sent me a book list when I was 20, it really changed my life. Probably a silly idea -- you can lead a horse to water but you can't make it drink. A much better use of time for someone with an artist's soul. I'd start with:

Sartre's "Nausea" (and existentialism in general)
Henry Miller's "Tropic of Cancer"
Knut Hamsun's "Hunger"
Joris Karl Huysmans' "Against the Grain"
Dostoevsky's "Notes from Underground"
Vincent Van Gogh's "Letters to Theo"
Schopenhauer's "Studies in Pessimism"
Flaubert's "Sentimental Education"
The Communist Manifesto

femmedem

(8,203 posts)
56. He's lucky to have you in his life, even if he doesn't know it right now.
Sat Jan 6, 2018, 11:53 PM
Jan 2018

Glad you are keeping the conversation going.

Sometimes when someone is really upset about something, as he apparently is about whatever he thinks HRC did, you have to listen and listen and listen to them and reflect back so they know you've heard them before they can hear anything you are trying to say. Maybe say something like, "I can understand why raising the minimum wage in Haiti would be important to you. It's important to me, too." Or find something else where you can truthfully say that what he is saying makes sense to you, even if you have to couch it in "I can understand why you'd be angry at HRC if you thought that she..." Maybe you have to go through a fair amount of that before you can get to a discussion about how politicians have to sometimes give up something important in order to get something even more important, and how good people can sometimes vote for something that, on the face of it, seems awful.

It does sound as if his heart is in the right place, even if he has his facts wrong. I hope you can get through to him so that as he matures, he doesn't disengage from politics or forever let the perfect be the enemy of the good.

SleeplessinSoCal

(9,120 posts)
62. Thanks for these words of concern and advice.
Sun Jan 7, 2018, 12:59 AM
Jan 2018

I do get frustrated. He is very sweet, yet not very mature. His mother never learned how to drive in Southern California and tends to leech off others. He recognizes her shortcomings, yet seems to have inherited some of them. He knows though and feels bad about it. I wonder if some of the attacks on HRC are because he really thought he could be saved by Bernie's ideas. I know boomers who find themselves in dire straights and were very hopeful for free health care. We need a better understanding of politics and the way our safety net is being destroyed by this crew of monsters. Beating up on each other is a sure way to a dead end.

Sorry for meandering. But thanks again for your suggestions.

SleeplessinSoCal

(9,120 posts)
36. I sort of did. Told him to focus on voter suppression.
Sat Jan 6, 2018, 07:59 PM
Jan 2018

But he is spouting volumes at this point. Not sure he can see past his own thoughts.

lunasun

(21,646 posts)
42. I have to sometimes work at a place with 2 bobs . They never stop and their crazy level
Sat Jan 6, 2018, 08:55 PM
Jan 2018

is high, right now it is all about Russia being a distraction there is nothing there and off course the anti dem stuff also there is a lot of politics going on for primaries in Chicago/Illinois and all I can say is these types only help Rauner by not compromising.
I may add I'm in a blue state and don't converse with trumpets but I have met others with these opinions and they all strike me as hard core with very narrow views . One of them one time was going on about healthcare and how Clinton is against universal health care, and I tried to provide history to the young man about Hillary Clinton and healthcare in the 90s and the backlash that started this demonization
He just cut me off and went on with his talking points about why she does not care about healthcare.
They all seem to parrot the same bs
If you don't want to talk to him much just start talk about Mueller or even more about the Russian investigations they never care about those subjects and will probably move on to something other than politics . Hopefully ..

SleeplessinSoCal

(9,120 posts)
47. There is a generational factor. I recall her efforts as first lady.
Sat Jan 6, 2018, 10:13 PM
Jan 2018

The twitterverse may well be our downfall. Mass Brainwashing is so easy,

SleeplessinSoCal

(9,120 posts)
49. Don't think so. He probably will disconnect. Maybe not vote.
Sat Jan 6, 2018, 10:24 PM
Jan 2018

My goal is to keep him engaged and back on track. I'm seeking the best source on info on how to convince him how much worse Stein was than HRC. I'm leaving Bernie out of it.

betsuni

(25,531 posts)
50. I'd like to know if these CT types notice something.
Sat Jan 6, 2018, 11:13 PM
Jan 2018

The pro-Russia anti-America propaganda labeled Obama a drone-warmonger and then Hillary as warmonger/Wall Street. But who's president now? Why doesn't the anti-America propaganda warn us against Trump as a warmonger? Why are Republicans invisible and never responsible for anything, why are Democrats the only American political party? Don't they feel silly repeating this stuff as if Hillary is president? And then before the next election the Democrats running for office will be the warmongers. Being trained to bark and drool on command with these CTs, how embarrassing.

betsuni

(25,531 posts)
53. Even nutty Alex Jones was more fair.
Sat Jan 6, 2018, 11:42 PM
Jan 2018

The G.W. Bush administration was going to put people in camps and so on and when Obama was elected Alex didn't miss a beat, it was the Obama administration that was going to put people in camps and so on. I don't know what he's saying now, though, if he's still doing equal opportunity as far as the CTs are concerned.

SleeplessinSoCal

(9,120 posts)
66. I recall posting this back during the campaign. It just gets buried in hate.
Sun Jan 7, 2018, 03:30 AM
Jan 2018

But thanks. I will keep it for evidence.

brush

(53,778 posts)
63. Tell him to delve into Sanders' background as well. That should even things out.
Sun Jan 7, 2018, 01:07 AM
Jan 2018

Might mention to him Antifa is no joke and they might be the counterbalance to armed deplorables in the streets if trump fires Mueller—just as they were in Charlottesville.

dembotoz

(16,805 posts)
65. She is no longer the candidate. Move on to newer elections.
Sun Jan 7, 2018, 03:27 AM
Jan 2018

Hrc produces that kind of strong reaction in some folks.
She just does.
Find someone u can both support and go from there

samnsara

(17,622 posts)
76. im beginnng to think this absolute thinking..
Sun Jan 7, 2018, 08:25 AM
Jan 2018

...is a form of mental illness. No matter who they back. Its obsessive. They cant get out of their love hate cycle for some reason. Just glad he's obsessed over a human rather than grab a gun or something violent.

Botany

(70,508 posts)
78. Wish him well and tell him good bye
Sun Jan 7, 2018, 09:20 AM
Jan 2018

and then take the time and energy you are spending on trying to
save him from himself and russia/fox news/right wing propaganda
and do something for yourself or your community.


Hillary and the Clinton's good works are voluminous and if people
don't want to or will not see that then don't waste your time.

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