but I have always considered tRump to be efeminate. The reason it could be important is that his macho, bravado is just a front to compensate for his lack of self-esteem as a man.

The truth is, I have known a lot of men like this. I mean, you can never really know, but I think it's sad when someone feels they have to stay in the closet for so long. Especially when everyone knows except them.

ef·fete
əˈfēt/

adjective

(of a person) affected, overrefined, and ineffectual.
"effete trendies from art college"
synonyms: affected, pretentious, precious, mannered, overrefined; More

no longer capable of effective action.
"the authority of an effete aristocracy began to dwindle"

but he does look like a nouveau riche twit prematurely gone to seed in photos from that era.

The 80s style kind of did that to people

It makes me feel stabby! There is something about his mouth that just enrages me. Actually, his entire face enrages me, but his mouth especially makes me want to beat him to a bloody pulp. I fucking hate the sight of him. He is the most repulsive man in the world to me.