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So my mother-in-law is going to vote AGAINST Obama-because, she says, Michelle has No Class? (Original Post) kpete Jul 2012 OP
I know there was rw complaining that she was going to the Olympics maryellen99 Jul 2012 #1
Yep, and if Barack had gone with her, he'd be getting crap for gallivanting around tanyev Jul 2012 #43
Envy and jealousy it's called. Pay it no mind. She was going to vote GOP anyway. nt nanabugg Jul 2012 #52
This message was self-deleted by its author devilgrrl Jul 2012 #2
their name for her is "Moo-chelle" grasswire Jul 2012 #6
The teabuggers would rather have the quitter no brains Palin or crazy train Bachman. Now southernyankeebelle Jul 2012 #59
I guess she just prefers being addressed as 'you people'. sinkingfeeling Jul 2012 #3
Kpete, may I declare sinkingfeeling the thread winner? Brigid Jul 2012 #54
Translation: "Michelle is a N****r". Surprised you're still on speaking terms coalition_unwilling Jul 2012 #4
she is 91 years old kpete Jul 2012 #8
Kpete, I knew I liked you. Chorophyll Jul 2012 #12
mr. pete kpete Jul 2012 #14
That's the way Mr. Chorophyll is headed. Chorophyll Jul 2012 #34
Why pretend ... LynnTTT Jul 2012 #56
For my husband, I think it's about not following along, EVER. Chorophyll Jul 2012 #60
OK. I guess there needs to be a general exemption for anyone 80 and older. (My coalition_unwilling Jul 2012 #17
My mom is 87 and is a life-long liberal. Chorophyll Jul 2012 #35
I am getting up there and I want to know the age when you can speak w/o filters? nm rhett o rick Jul 2012 #38
About the same age laundry_queen Jul 2012 #40
hopefully you understand where I'm coming from okieinpain Jul 2012 #44
Hilarious malaise Jul 2012 #49
Is Your Ma A Iggy Jul 2012 #5
not even close.... kpete Jul 2012 #11
OK, Good.. Does She Watch Head Propaganda Iggy Jul 2012 #13
she reads kpete Jul 2012 #15
Oh well, at least she's in California and her presidential vote will be swamped by D votes. Arugula Latte Jul 2012 #19
Possible Problem... Iggy Jul 2012 #21
her grandaughter kpete Jul 2012 #23
MOst likely not accepting "new information" relying on biases form decades ago. rhett o rick Jul 2012 #39
How about throwing voter suppression back in her face? meow2u3 Jul 2012 #7
Can't do much with a 91 year old. Kaleva Jul 2012 #37
Riiiight. Chorophyll Jul 2012 #9
people who listen to the right-wing media like Fox News live in an alternative universe Douglas Carpenter Jul 2012 #10
Yes, I have noticed that, too treestar Jul 2012 #30
my sweet lovable fundamentalist Christian 90-year-old Aunt is just like that Douglas Carpenter Jul 2012 #42
This seems to be all too common among well off white women... swayne Jul 2012 #16
I would ask her how does she not have class? amuse bouche Jul 2012 #18
It's nice to see that her priorities are straight. chowder66 Jul 2012 #20
Michelle has spectacular class. She's just not white. aquart Jul 2012 #22
Same here. I didn't dislike her. She was just meh, she's the First Lady. Kalidurga Jul 2012 #28
Yes. And on a shallow note... aquart Jul 2012 #48
Your mother-in-law was going to vote against Obama from the get go. She's just using Michele Arkansas Granny Jul 2012 #24
I'll bet she said the same about Eleanor Roosevelt. Downwinder Jul 2012 #25
Disconnect her FOX news liberal N proud Jul 2012 #26
I'd tell her she might want to keep that information to herself- Bluerthanblue Jul 2012 #27
I hate to say this Worried senior Jul 2012 #29
Then I'm afraid to tell you that your mother-in-law probably wouldn't know class notadmblnd Jul 2012 #31
Your mother-in-law has a strange idea as to what amounts to "class". GoCubsGo Jul 2012 #32
Greatest page for you, my dear kpete... CaliforniaPeggy Jul 2012 #33
Don't waste your energy, your MIL is going to find any excuse to not vote Democratic Tom Ripley Jul 2012 #36
Thanksgiving with her must be like root canal. RagAss Jul 2012 #41
My former democrat SIL is voting for Romney coz she married a millionaire a few months ago. graywarrior Jul 2012 #45
She wants everyone to marry a millionaire? nobodyspecial Jul 2012 #57
Your mom sounds just like my mom. donheld Jul 2012 #46
Who made her a judge? B Calm Jul 2012 #47
my best guess is that your MIL is racist La Lioness Priyanka Jul 2012 #50
She is so spectacular! Paka Jul 2012 #51
Has your mother-in-law ever exhibited any racist tendencies in your presence before? NNN0LHI Jul 2012 #53
Ask her if women should be able to get less pay than males... sellitman Jul 2012 #55
Teh Stoooopid. It hurts!!!!! valerief Jul 2012 #58

maryellen99

(3,789 posts)
1. I know there was rw complaining that she was going to the Olympics
Fri Jul 27, 2012, 03:19 PM
Jul 2012

Due to the taxpayers having to pay for it.

But it was ok for Bush to go in 2008.

tanyev

(42,610 posts)
43. Yep, and if Barack had gone with her, he'd be getting crap for gallivanting around
Fri Jul 27, 2012, 05:46 PM
Jul 2012

when he should be running the country. And if neither of them had gone, it would have been tacky because obviously they're so petty they didn't want to be there if Ann Romney's horse wins a medal.....

There's no winning this one.

Response to kpete (Original post)

grasswire

(50,130 posts)
6. their name for her is "Moo-chelle"
Fri Jul 27, 2012, 03:23 PM
Jul 2012

They can't stop denigrating strong women.

Remember what they did to Hillary Clinton.

 

southernyankeebelle

(11,304 posts)
59. The teabuggers would rather have the quitter no brains Palin or crazy train Bachman. Now
Sun Jul 29, 2012, 10:33 AM
Jul 2012

talking about classless. They are the 2 worst example of female politicans that put ALL female politicans back 20 yrs. Mrs Obama isn't the most beautiful woman in the world but she is one of the classy ladies in the world. She always looks beautiful. She always looks like she wants to be where she is at any time. Not many first ladies look like that. I even likes Laura Bush and many times she didn't look happy being there. Our first lady is one heck of a respresentive for our country.

 

coalition_unwilling

(14,180 posts)
4. Translation: "Michelle is a N****r". Surprised you're still on speaking terms
Fri Jul 27, 2012, 03:20 PM
Jul 2012

with your MotherInLaw but, then, I no longer speak to my Texas-bound Yahoo Inlaws either.

kpete

(72,014 posts)
8. she is 91 years old
Fri Jul 27, 2012, 03:24 PM
Jul 2012

with no filter,

but, she loves my husband (recovering repub),
and we get along just fine.

peace, kp

Chorophyll

(5,179 posts)
12. Kpete, I knew I liked you.
Fri Jul 27, 2012, 03:26 PM
Jul 2012

My mother-in-law is a bit like yours, and my husband is a recovering Republican too. (He's pretty much a Democrat now; it's all over but the paperwork.)

Chorophyll

(5,179 posts)
34. That's the way Mr. Chorophyll is headed.
Fri Jul 27, 2012, 04:11 PM
Jul 2012

He only hung on for as long as he did so he could vote for the less horrible person in the primaries.

This time, he didn't even bother.

LynnTTT

(362 posts)
56. Why pretend ...
Sun Jul 29, 2012, 08:55 AM
Jul 2012

My husband insists he's an Independent. But in fact, he's only voted Republican in a few local elections. He's voted D. in every national election since 1972.

Chorophyll

(5,179 posts)
60. For my husband, I think it's about not following along, EVER.
Sun Jul 29, 2012, 10:39 AM
Jul 2012

He comes from a really conservative family, but he prides himself on being "independent-minded." And he is. He's one of the few people I know who doesn't judge a situation until he's studied it. But even when he was a Republican, his favorite president was Jimmy Carter. So he's an odd duck.

 

coalition_unwilling

(14,180 posts)
17. OK. I guess there needs to be a general exemption for anyone 80 and older. (My
Fri Jul 27, 2012, 03:31 PM
Jul 2012

mother-in-law is only 65.)

laundry_queen

(8,646 posts)
40. About the same age
Fri Jul 27, 2012, 04:27 PM
Jul 2012

where you declare you haven't eaten watermelon in months and your wife tells you that you ate some 5 minutes ago and she should know because she had to cut it up for you. Argument ensues. LOL. (My grandfather when he was age 97)

okieinpain

(9,397 posts)
44. hopefully you understand where I'm coming from
Fri Jul 27, 2012, 05:59 PM
Jul 2012

but that is some funny shit right there. oh lordy. one of my co-workers told me that her son picked her up at work and that she was so busy fussing at him for being late and using up the gas. that she didn't realize he wasn't in the car after driving half a mile from work. lol, over the top funny. she said he was just sitting on the curb when she got back to work. man I could not stop laughing for nothing.

 

Iggy

(1,418 posts)
13. OK, Good.. Does She Watch Head Propaganda
Fri Jul 27, 2012, 03:26 PM
Jul 2012

network FAUX News or listen to drug limpbaugh daily?

kpete

(72,014 posts)
15. she reads
Fri Jul 27, 2012, 03:28 PM
Jul 2012

the San Diego Union Tribune, every day cover to cover

pretty much same stuff as Fox, a day later,


peace, kp

 

Iggy

(1,418 posts)
21. Possible Problem...
Fri Jul 27, 2012, 03:34 PM
Jul 2012

I mean, obv she's getting some sort of biased/bigoted info from somewhere...

Ms. Obama is a very classy, intelligent woman

good luck with this

kpete

(72,014 posts)
23. her grandaughter
Fri Jul 27, 2012, 03:42 PM
Jul 2012

thinks Michelle is the classiest First Lady of all times
and so do most of her friends

peace again,
(i keep thinking if i say it often enough, it WILL happen)
kp

 

rhett o rick

(55,981 posts)
39. MOst likely not accepting "new information" relying on biases form decades ago.
Fri Jul 27, 2012, 04:20 PM
Jul 2012

My mother in law was like that. If you go back to their youth, there was a lot of racism. Not necessarily blatant, but subtle. I bet his mother sees "classy" as a white thing by definition.

Chorophyll

(5,179 posts)
9. Riiiight.
Fri Jul 27, 2012, 03:24 PM
Jul 2012

My own mother-in-law makes similar comments. She knows I'll take her to task if she says what she really means, so she couches her racism in obvious euphemisms like "no class."

Douglas Carpenter

(20,226 posts)
10. people who listen to the right-wing media like Fox News live in an alternative universe
Fri Jul 27, 2012, 03:24 PM
Jul 2012

They believe things to be established fact that are complete fabrications

treestar

(82,383 posts)
30. Yes, I have noticed that, too
Fri Jul 27, 2012, 04:00 PM
Jul 2012

They can't bear to listen to the (black) president, or anyone remotely liberal or even middle of the road, so therefore, they have no exposure to the Obamas themselves whatsoever. Their opinions are derived from the RW talking points. Thus the teleprompter claim, the Chicago thug claims, all kinds of characterizations which have nothing to do with Obama and they sound delusional saying it. One wonders if they know how stupid they sound.

Douglas Carpenter

(20,226 posts)
42. my sweet lovable fundamentalist Christian 90-year-old Aunt is just like that
Fri Jul 27, 2012, 05:45 PM
Jul 2012

She seriously believes that the ACLU is a consciously evil conspiracy to destroy America. She seriously talks about Nancy Pelosi the way we would talk about Sarah Palin or Michele Bachmann. She seriously believes the President is either a communist or almost a communist but certainly part of some kind of Marxist-Islamic conspiracy. In ordinary life she is a kindly, tolerant and reasonable person. But her information sources are something from a different planet.

 

swayne

(383 posts)
16. This seems to be all too common among well off white women...
Fri Jul 27, 2012, 03:29 PM
Jul 2012

Michelle Obama has been nothing but full of grace. Especially so, when you considers the lack of grace that is shown her by a certain community of white women in this country.

Michelle Obama hasn't done anything to be deserving of their scorn except the audacity to have been born a black person.

But watch, this isn't racism they'll say......

Even accomplished black people are still seen to them Ni***rs.....

And even more sad, it isn't always limited to Republicans.

amuse bouche

(3,657 posts)
18. I would ask her how does she not have class?
Fri Jul 27, 2012, 03:32 PM
Jul 2012

What did she do ?

Does she think Anntoinette Romney is classy? Why?

chowder66

(9,080 posts)
20. It's nice to see that her priorities are straight.
Fri Jul 27, 2012, 03:33 PM
Jul 2012

sarcasm

Does she realize that Michelle is not the president or running for office? Makes one wonder.

aquart

(69,014 posts)
22. Michelle has spectacular class. She's just not white.
Fri Jul 27, 2012, 03:41 PM
Jul 2012

And I was NOT a Michelle fan. But she continues to impress the hell out of me.

Kalidurga

(14,177 posts)
28. Same here. I didn't dislike her. She was just meh, she's the First Lady.
Fri Jul 27, 2012, 03:59 PM
Jul 2012

But, she won me over. I love how she interacts with children. She doesn't stick her foot in her mouth. She doesn't seem to look down on people. I can't say anything like that about Ann. I haven't seen Ann with children, but I can imagine the look of pain on her face. I would say she sticks her foot in her mouth way too much, but it seems like a permanent fixture there. She does look down on people or rather "you people". I sincerely hope Ann never gets to pick out drapes for the White House.

aquart

(69,014 posts)
48. Yes. And on a shallow note...
Sun Jul 29, 2012, 04:40 AM
Jul 2012

Michelle knows how to dress an imperfect body so well that I actually get excited to see what she's wearing. Fills me with hope whenever I see her.

Arkansas Granny

(31,528 posts)
24. Your mother-in-law was going to vote against Obama from the get go. She's just using Michele
Fri Jul 27, 2012, 03:49 PM
Jul 2012

as an excuse and to get in an extra dig at you. Pay no attention, if that's possible.

Bluerthanblue

(13,669 posts)
27. I'd tell her she might want to keep that information to herself-
Fri Jul 27, 2012, 03:57 PM
Jul 2012

it isn't something that should be said in polite company.

What a stupid thing to base your support on. I think she's not being honest with herself or you.


Michelle is not only classy she's also one of us. She's a real person who doesn't spend $990 on a t-shirt, and never referred to the American public "you people".

Worried senior

(1,328 posts)
29. I hate to say this
Fri Jul 27, 2012, 03:59 PM
Jul 2012

but my mother leaned democrat or else she was just agreeing with me but if she had lived to See PBO win she would have been horrified.

She was scared to death when Jesse Jackson ran, no matter what I said she wouldn't budge.

I learned to become more Democratic because of my in-laws and husband. So grateful for that.

My father was a farmer so therefor republican.

notadmblnd

(23,720 posts)
31. Then I'm afraid to tell you that your mother-in-law probably wouldn't know class
Fri Jul 27, 2012, 04:01 PM
Jul 2012

if it flew up her ass and tickled her tonsils.

GoCubsGo

(32,088 posts)
32. Your mother-in-law has a strange idea as to what amounts to "class".
Fri Jul 27, 2012, 04:04 PM
Jul 2012

Mrs. Obama has shown nothing but class. BTW, has she ever seen the photos of Dumbya and the female beach volleyball players at the Beijing Olympics? Now, that was "classy".

You have my sympathies. My idiot brother has gone that route, too. He hasn't insulted Michelle Obama yet, he has been spewing a lot of the other bullshit.

 

Tom Ripley

(4,945 posts)
36. Don't waste your energy, your MIL is going to find any excuse to not vote Democratic
Fri Jul 27, 2012, 04:14 PM
Jul 2012

That is a particularly stupid one, though

graywarrior

(59,440 posts)
45. My former democrat SIL is voting for Romney coz she married a millionaire a few months ago.
Fri Jul 27, 2012, 06:05 PM
Jul 2012


AND she's trying to convince us to do the same.

nobodyspecial

(2,286 posts)
57. She wants everyone to marry a millionaire?
Sun Jul 29, 2012, 08:58 AM
Jul 2012

I don't agree with her at all and think that it's extremely selfish, but at least it has logic to it, unlike those who live in trailer parks voting for the GOP.

Paka

(2,760 posts)
51. She is so spectacular!
Sun Jul 29, 2012, 08:24 AM
Jul 2012

We haven't had this much class in the WH since JFK went to Europe and defered to his wonderful FLOTUSJaqueline. I am so in love with the whole first family. I live abroad and it is so fantastic to be proud of the President & his amazing family.

sellitman

(11,607 posts)
55. Ask her if women should be able to get less pay than males...
Sun Jul 29, 2012, 08:54 AM
Jul 2012

for the same amount of work and same job title.

I asked this to a teaparty patsie and received back a blank stare with no answer.

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