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Why do radicals try so hard to be jerks? (Original Post) Cary Mar 2018 OP
Feeling a little fed up? :) They can't help it, and I mean that. Hortensis Mar 2018 #1
Nope. Just putting it out there. Cary Mar 2018 #3
BTW I was referring to all jerks, rightists and alleged leftists. Cary Mar 2018 #5
It applies to left radicals and right reactionaries equally. Hortensis Mar 2018 #6
I agree Cary Mar 2018 #9
Radical's traditionally been used for the left, reactionary for the right, Hortensis Mar 2018 #10
I agree Cary Apr 2018 #57
I laughed at you title.... it's just so true ProudLib72 Mar 2018 #2
They have every right to be jerks and they keep telling us that Cary Mar 2018 #4
Many believe that you must dominate those who oppose you. ehrnst Mar 2018 #7
Now There's A +1 Me. Mar 2018 #8
Because only they know the truth... NCTraveler Mar 2018 #11
There's a huge difference between AVOWED positions in Hortensis Mar 2018 #17
I dont really think this is accurate about what has historically been referenced as radicalism. NCTraveler Mar 2018 #19
Post removed Post removed Mar 2018 #12
Wow! That was radically provocative! tomp Mar 2018 #13
If I Can't Dance, I Don't Want To Be Part of Your Revolution. Well stated! juxtaposed Mar 2018 #15
Thanks for your support. tomp Mar 2018 #16
my pleasure juxtaposed Mar 2018 #22
Also Thomas Paine and Thomas Jefferson, 18th c. 'radicals.' appalachiablue Mar 2018 #31
You make lots of assumptions here. Cary Mar 2018 #33
Wow! Now you're being radically provocative AND radically obtuse. tomp Apr 2018 #37
Why don't you just start your own "Cary sucks" thread? Cary Apr 2018 #38
because that would be against du rules. tomp Apr 2018 #45
Yet here you are again telling me that I suck Cary Apr 2018 #48
No need... tonedevil Apr 2018 #49
You might notice that I don't take the bait Cary Apr 2018 #51
If you say so. /nt tonedevil Apr 2018 #52
Or not. Cary Apr 2018 #54
I have no problem... tonedevil Apr 2018 #58
It went over your head? Cary Apr 2018 #59
I guees it must have. /nr tonedevil Apr 2018 #63
(Read slowly) You don't say? Cary Apr 2018 #68
Dimwittery... tonedevil Apr 2018 #69
(Read.slowly) Is that right? Cary Apr 2018 #74
You are proving the OP assumption treestar Apr 2018 #43
are you calling me a jerk? you know that's against the rules, right? tomp Apr 2018 #46
That attitude described in #1 is not really very nice treestar Apr 2018 #47
Is that right? Cary Apr 2018 #50
If it wasnt for radicals shit would never get done. juxtaposed Mar 2018 #14
So what's your point? Cary Mar 2018 #18
If it wasnt for radicals shit would never get done. What of that do you not understand juxtaposed Mar 2018 #20
That wasn't my question. Cary Mar 2018 #23
And no, I agree that jerks at times oppose radicals juxtaposed Mar 2018 #21
Interesting, another non-sequitur Cary Mar 2018 #24
Cary, I'm never defensive, and I have never deflected, chase someone else. Thanks! juxtaposed Mar 2018 #25
"Cary I'm never defensive...." Cary Mar 2018 #26
Of course it would treestar Apr 2018 #44
Hitler badly needed an edible slipped into his tea time snacks... dubyadiprecession Mar 2018 #27
It's not easy to put a finger on but you make a good point Cary Mar 2018 #28
Jealousy, perhaps? PETRUS Mar 2018 #29
i'm thinkin they just have no fucks to give. mopinko Mar 2018 #30
I hate to wax nostalgic but it wasn't always like this here Cary Mar 2018 #32
Abby Hoffman, Mohammad Ali, Cesar Chavez etc Eliot Rosewater Mar 2018 #34
Unfettered Ideologues is more like it, radicals can have moderation and let it be known uponit7771 Mar 2018 #35
My labels are shorthand Cary Mar 2018 #36
What might seem radical to some might just be normal to others nolabels Apr 2018 #80
I lulz'd KG Apr 2018 #39
You can see the behavior I refer to right here in this thread Cary Apr 2018 #41
statistically you would have to assume the radicals would be at both ends of a normal distribution dembotoz Apr 2018 #40
My observation is "they" are no different with respect to issues Cary Apr 2018 #42
No difference between a socialist (which is "radical" according to many here) shanny Apr 2018 #60
That would depend on the socialist Cary Apr 2018 #62
"...'they' are no different with respect to issues...." shanny Apr 2018 #64
I want referring to fascists. Cary Apr 2018 #67
odd then that you replied to this shanny Apr 2018 #70
Sigh. Cary Apr 2018 #72
lol shanny Apr 2018 #75
Zzzzzzz.... Cary Apr 2018 #77
For the attention. JDC Apr 2018 #53
I find jerks are evenly spread across the human continuum. bronxiteforever Apr 2018 #55
Actually, you can catch more flies with a turd ornotna Apr 2018 #56
What inspired this post? oberliner Apr 2018 #61
It is my general observation. Cary Apr 2018 #65
OK - will read through oberliner Apr 2018 #66
I'm getting jerked around in this thread Cary Apr 2018 #71
Don't let those posters bother you oberliner Apr 2018 #73
They don't bother me Cary Apr 2018 #76
On DU, I find the best approach is to not respond in kind oberliner Apr 2018 #78
You are right I think. I have been responding by not taking their bait Cary Apr 2018 #79
Most of them don't have to try very hard........... MichMan Apr 2018 #81
Now they're calling you a radical... Anon-C Apr 2018 #82
It doesn't matter what anyone calls me Cary Apr 2018 #83

Hortensis

(58,785 posts)
1. Feeling a little fed up? :) They can't help it, and I mean that.
Fri Mar 30, 2018, 04:36 PM
Mar 2018

They're wired to be better than mainstream Democrats and to know it, yet doomed to never be able to prove it to anyone else. Just imagine. And we think we're frustrated.

Cary

(11,746 posts)
3. Nope. Just putting it out there.
Fri Mar 30, 2018, 04:39 PM
Mar 2018

Shining some sunlight on it. Letting them know they are t fooling me. Maybe they can use the information for.some much needed introspection?

Or not. Really it's no skin off my nose. I fancy myself a student of human behavior.

Hortensis

(58,785 posts)
6. It applies to left radicals and right reactionaries equally.
Fri Mar 30, 2018, 04:53 PM
Mar 2018

They have a great deal in common, and the greater the tendency toward real extremism the more so. All are uber-righteous in their views, are sure they are the only ones who know the truth, and are always convinced we are on the brink of some disaster that only following the leaders they choose for us all can save us from.

They can't cooperate with others. Others must cooperate with them if they are to save us. And that never happens.

Frankly, reading about them, their political lives sound a bit hellish. Occasional periods of political euphoria always destined to be smashed by those who don't see.

Cary

(11,746 posts)
9. I agree
Fri Mar 30, 2018, 05:15 PM
Mar 2018

But I still have to say too that I don't completely understand why radicals want to be jerks. Can they be both radical and have good manners?

As for rightists I consider them to be radical as well. I mean look at their #fakepresident and his governance by chaos. Its reckless and radical.

Hortensis

(58,785 posts)
10. Radical's traditionally been used for the left, reactionary for the right,
Fri Mar 30, 2018, 05:35 PM
Mar 2018

but it's all been blurred over time.

As for jerks, aren't we in a jerky, severely ill-mannered, boorish time? It's catching, and I don't think they have a lock on it, just more of a tendency arising from frustrated zealous passions. Sanders tends to act out his contempt for lesser people with boorish impatience, right on on camera a number of times, and that doesn't seem to disturb his adherents.

Now that you mention it, though, the Democratic Party doesn't have anyone prominent like that. In fact, now that I think of it, our leaders are all very well mannered.

ProudLib72

(17,984 posts)
2. I laughed at you title.... it's just so true
Fri Mar 30, 2018, 04:36 PM
Mar 2018

Isn't that in the Constitution somewhere, the clause about having the right to be a jerk?

Cary

(11,746 posts)
4. They have every right to be jerks and they keep telling us that
Fri Mar 30, 2018, 04:42 PM
Mar 2018

In between being deliberately obtuse.

 

ehrnst

(32,640 posts)
7. Many believe that you must dominate those who oppose you.
Fri Mar 30, 2018, 05:08 PM
Mar 2018

That happens on the left and the right.

Especially when a movement is led by men. Hence, the women's movement broke off from the "left."

And we see it still....

 

NCTraveler

(30,481 posts)
11. Because only they know the truth...
Fri Mar 30, 2018, 05:41 PM
Mar 2018

And there is only one way forward.

Don’t get me wrong, each one will tell you a different truth and path forward. Overall, it’s based in ones self.

Still, radicalism is damn near non-existent in this country. There is very little that is radical about Cruz. There is very little that is radical about Sanders. They do attract more radical elements in society as supporters. It’s kind of amazing how in-radical we are.

Jackasses sure are loud.

Hortensis

(58,785 posts)
17. There's a huge difference between AVOWED positions in
Fri Mar 30, 2018, 06:30 PM
Mar 2018

the current environment and what people like religious right Cruz and democratic socialist Sanders might attempt to achieve if they could. They both have to get elected in this environment, not their ideal ones.

Cruz made the mistake of revealing too much of himself and has alarmed and repelled most of the right and of course virtually all of the left.

Sanders not so much. His senate record of sponsored legislation defines the far left border of the cluster formed by all Democratic senators, and his rhetoric has carefully stayed within what range of what liberals eager for progress will support. But I've wondered each time I've seen it where his dot would be if not constrained by the reality of having to caucus with Democrats instead of a far left party.

I don't think it's amazing how un-radical we are, though. For one, radicalism arises from radical personality, not issues. Liberals can support out-of-the-box issues that might be referred to by media as radical, but they're really just desired advances whose time is hoped to have come. Radicalism is what we see trying to happen around Nader, Stein, Sanders.

But the other thing I think I see is far more sinister. The right has moved strongly right, and their leadership, controlled by their dark-money donors, has moved farther still -- is genuinely right-wing extremist. We may have gotten accustomed to the right's plan to destroy the VA, SocSec, Medicaid, etc.; transfer our national wealth and power to a ruling class; and pounding on doors to arrest immigrants and carry them off to holding camps, but this IS right-wing extremism.

And because the right's gone there, Democrats don't have the luxury of progressing with more of our outside-the-comfy-box liberal goals, but rather need to concentrate on conserving what we have. As a matter of survival of democracy itself, we've been forced to back-burner progressive goals, with the most vital need being to rebuild our democracy's vital electoral center. Which frustrates the hell out of radicals, who simply don't understand the need.

 

NCTraveler

(30,481 posts)
19. I dont really think this is accurate about what has historically been referenced as radicalism.
Fri Mar 30, 2018, 06:42 PM
Mar 2018

“For one, radicalism arises from radical personality, not ”

Historically there have been many failed and successful radical movements. Most come about as a form of resistance during extremely difficult times. A persons ideological views are rarely extremely stable. History has shown that large segments of society can become radicalized.

Response to Cary (Original post)

 

tomp

(9,512 posts)
13. Wow! That was radically provocative!
Fri Mar 30, 2018, 05:49 PM
Mar 2018

Ghandi, MLK, Marx, John Brown, Chomsky, Zinn, the Berrigans, Chris Hedges, Norman Thomas, Eugene Debs, all radicals by any commonly held definition of the word and all jerks in your book. And your post is probably within du's rules because you haven't insulted any one individual, only broad-brushing. Though By any commonly accepted definition of jerk you just insulted anyone who supports some of the most intelligent and/or influential people in history.

I'm guessing you have no idea of the insulting and divisive nature of your post. I don't have to guess, because it's obvious, you don't understand the debt you pwe to radicals who led the way to many of the social benefits we enjoy today. You have completely missed the historical truth that the only real change comes from radical action against entrenched and reactionary power.

Who's the jerk here...or am I just another obtuse radical?

Cary

(11,746 posts)
33. You make lots of assumptions here.
Sat Mar 31, 2018, 11:59 AM
Mar 2018

And you take it personally.

You want me to be more specific? When one goes beyond the actual argument and makes it about me, personally, they're being a jerk.

What was it you were trying to say about me?

 

tomp

(9,512 posts)
37. Wow! Now you're being radically provocative AND radically obtuse.
Sun Apr 1, 2018, 07:55 AM
Apr 2018

1) my post was clear, if you can't understand it, that's your problem.

2) you dare accuse me of making assumptions (without specifying what those assumptions are). You may think you specified those assumptions, but you didn't.

3) You also did not say in what way I went beyond the "actual argument."

4) Your "argument" was itself a provocative statement of assumptions: a) radicals are jerks, b) they try hard to be that way.

5) Regarding "taking it personally": I also made myself clear. Your "question,"Why do radicals try so hard to be jerks?" was an obvious provocation and affront to anyone who holds what you consider to be "radical" views (never, of course, stating what you mean by "radical," or why it makes them jerks to hold such views. Why would anyone holding "radical" views NOT take that personally?

 

tomp

(9,512 posts)
45. because that would be against du rules.
Sun Apr 1, 2018, 01:20 PM
Apr 2018

To tell you, "You suck!" would be against the rules, so I'm NOT going to say that. We're supposed to have civil discussion. Civil discussion starts with a civil post. Yours was decidedly not.

I wish it were against the rules to label a whole group of people "jerks," when they're not. It should be. It should NOT be against the rules to tell an obviously real jerk that they're a jerk. But, alas, it is, so, again, I'm NOT going to tell you, "You're a jerk."

Get it?

Cary

(11,746 posts)
48. Yet here you are again telling me that I suck
Sun Apr 1, 2018, 01:41 PM
Apr 2018

You're trying so hard to convince me that I suck.

 

tomp

(9,512 posts)
46. are you calling me a jerk? you know that's against the rules, right?
Sun Apr 1, 2018, 01:25 PM
Apr 2018

not that I care. However, I think you and cary are proving my point.

If you care to address anything I've said in this thread in particular, rather than pile on with in provocative and obtuse fashion, have at it.

treestar

(82,383 posts)
47. That attitude described in #1 is not really very nice
Sun Apr 1, 2018, 01:40 PM
Apr 2018

in general. That's the word used with toddlers to teach them not to do things that "aren't very nice."

Cary

(11,746 posts)
18. So what's your point?
Fri Mar 30, 2018, 06:39 PM
Mar 2018

It seems you agree that radicals try to be jerks, but I'm an ingrate for pointing it out.

Do I read you correctly?

Cary

(11,746 posts)
23. That wasn't my question.
Fri Mar 30, 2018, 07:08 PM
Mar 2018

Nor does it have anything to do with my question.

Given your non-sequitur I can only surmise that you agree that radicals try hard to be jerks and that I'm an ingrate for pointing that out.

<shrug>

Cary

(11,746 posts)
24. Interesting, another non-sequitur
Fri Mar 30, 2018, 07:13 PM
Mar 2018

My question didn't have to make you defensive. You chose to deflect.

Cary

(11,746 posts)
26. "Cary I'm never defensive...."
Fri Mar 30, 2018, 07:25 PM
Mar 2018


You walked into this all by yourself. My question was general enough. You assumed it was about you.

treestar

(82,383 posts)
44. Of course it would
Sun Apr 1, 2018, 01:13 PM
Apr 2018

people other than radicals make up the majority who elect the people who pass the laws.

Cary

(11,746 posts)
28. It's not easy to put a finger on but you make a good point
Fri Mar 30, 2018, 08:00 PM
Mar 2018

Some people take themselves too seriously. Conflict can be constructive, or it can be toxic.

mopinko

(70,228 posts)
30. i'm thinkin they just have no fucks to give.
Fri Mar 30, 2018, 09:19 PM
Mar 2018

it's a fine line, i know, but sometimes ya just get tired of the pedestrian, not this again, line of argument.

Cary

(11,746 posts)
32. I hate to wax nostalgic but it wasn't always like this here
Sat Mar 31, 2018, 11:56 AM
Mar 2018

DU was never perfect. We always had off with their head type moments. But generally, if I'm not mistaken, we found common ground and respected each other. Back in the Bush days I didn't post much but felt at home here.

Now when I express my opinions I get peppered with thinly-veiled attempts to divert the issue to some nonsense about me, personally.

I don't mind pedestrian. Not all of us can be fascinating and unique. I do mind rude and stupid. I used to think we were better than that. I used to think "conservatives" had a stranglehold on ad hominem.

Eliot Rosewater

(31,121 posts)
34. Abby Hoffman, Mohammad Ali, Cesar Chavez etc
Sat Mar 31, 2018, 01:13 PM
Mar 2018

MLK, of course. Gloria Steinem...Harvey Milk...

They were radicals. But they were actively working for change, putting their ass on the line, and when or if they were to be obnoxious or something it was forgiven because they earned it and overt behavour was necessary.

I am not saying any of these people did that.

There are thousands of "radicals" and yet someone like Bill & Hillary Clinton do more for those in need in one day or week than most others in a lifetime times a thousand.

I keep saying that yet it is ignored by some radicals who think their overt actions somehow do the same, they dont.


Forgot one very important radical


Cary

(11,746 posts)
36. My labels are shorthand
Sat Mar 31, 2018, 05:20 PM
Mar 2018

I don't pretend to be perfect, or to have perfect labels. There are and have been certain radicals who were righteous.

I doubt any of them were obnoxious internet trolls.

nolabels

(13,133 posts)
80. What might seem radical to some might just be normal to others
Sun Apr 1, 2018, 03:12 PM
Apr 2018

Always needing to appeal to others sense of logic is a road to nowhere as far as I can see. Especially when some of that logic is transferred to them via people needing to extract the maximum amount of resources in the shortest amount of time.

We might not have never have learned there are hundreds of billions of galaxies not named the Milky Way if Albert Einstein had thought that his calculations and math should match everybody else's. It's not the need to be different but rather the need to see where your logic leads you. Being different or the same, what will be the trade-offs?

Cary

(11,746 posts)
41. You can see the behavior I refer to right here in this thread
Sun Apr 1, 2018, 09:47 AM
Apr 2018

Do you not find it odd? Do you suppose that I would care if you "lulz'd?" I mean I don't even care what you think you may be referring to, and so what?

Why do people try so hard to be jerks? I'm curious. Why take things on an internet b.s. board where we don't even so seriously? Why take oneself so seriously?

dembotoz

(16,835 posts)
40. statistically you would have to assume the radicals would be at both ends of a normal distribution
Sun Apr 1, 2018, 09:43 AM
Apr 2018

by definition they are not average or "normal"

it is what makes them a radical.
would only follow then their views and actions would be thought of as being a jerk

Cary

(11,746 posts)
42. My observation is "they" are no different with respect to issues
Sun Apr 1, 2018, 09:57 AM
Apr 2018

Radicalism on the left is mostly about process, and.being a jerk about it.

 

shanny

(6,709 posts)
60. No difference between a socialist (which is "radical" according to many here)
Sun Apr 1, 2018, 02:19 PM
Apr 2018

and a fascist?

um, OK.

 

shanny

(6,709 posts)
64. "...'they' are no different with respect to issues...."
Sun Apr 1, 2018, 02:27 PM
Apr 2018

so there's good socialists and bad socialists? or are some not socialists at all?

Cary

(11,746 posts)
67. I want referring to fascists.
Sun Apr 1, 2018, 02:30 PM
Apr 2018

I was referring to radical and moderate leftists. But don't let that fact deter you.

 

shanny

(6,709 posts)
70. odd then that you replied to this
Sun Apr 1, 2018, 02:36 PM
Apr 2018

"...radicals would be at both ends of a normal distribution" with your "no different" characterization. But don't let that fact deter you.

bronxiteforever

(9,287 posts)
55. I find jerks are evenly spread across the human continuum.
Sun Apr 1, 2018, 02:12 PM
Apr 2018

Sociopaths, on the other hand, tend to wind up as a

Lawyer. ...
CEO. ...
Clergy. ...
Surgeon. ...
Politician. ...
Salesperson. ...
Police Officer.



Cary

(11,746 posts)
65. It is my general observation.
Sun Apr 1, 2018, 02:28 PM
Apr 2018

But if you want to see my inspiration there are plenty of posters in this thread playing insipid games with me.

I explained it above.

 

oberliner

(58,724 posts)
66. OK - will read through
Sun Apr 1, 2018, 02:30 PM
Apr 2018

I was just wondering if there was some specific incident that you had observed.

Cary

(11,746 posts)
71. I'm getting jerked around in this thread
Sun Apr 1, 2018, 02:37 PM
Apr 2018

Its not easy to sort the sincere from the hoi polloi. If you're sincere I'm happy to drill deeper.

My overall goal is for Democrats to coalesce and focus to win elections. Some posters.here clearly have another, such as "Cary sucks."

I may indeed suck but so what? Look at how hard some here are trying.

Cary

(11,746 posts)
76. They don't bother me
Sun Apr 1, 2018, 02:42 PM
Apr 2018

They are my lab rats. These people exist. What's the best way to deal with jerks?

 

oberliner

(58,724 posts)
78. On DU, I find the best approach is to not respond in kind
Sun Apr 1, 2018, 02:47 PM
Apr 2018

And to just try to be courteous and polite even in the face of the opposite.

Cary

(11,746 posts)
79. You are right I think. I have been responding by not taking their bait
Sun Apr 1, 2018, 02:59 PM
Apr 2018

They deflect. They change the subject to me.

I don't get defensive. It seems to work well.

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