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pnwmom

(109,000 posts)
Wed Apr 25, 2018, 03:16 AM Apr 2018

Dear Single Women: Come visit Seattle. There are jobs. You'd like it here.

When did Seattle get this male? If we could just blend NYC with Seattle, we might have the perfect city.

Seattle:

The gender imbalance in San Francisco is so bad that a startup recently proposed flying women in from New York City for dates. But, if you’re a straight male thinking of moving to Seattle to work in technology, think again. Seattle’s gender ratio is more imbalanced than San Francisco’s and it’s about to get much worse for men.

SNIP

Using U.S. Census data for the ages 25 to 44 for Seattle and other cities, I calculated counts of single males and females using reporting by sex and marital status within each age category (no adjustments were made for the prevalence and impact of homosexuality – which likely affects both sexes relatively equally nor Seattle’s bisexual and polyamorous communities).

Based on the 2010 census data, Seattle has 119 single men for every 100 single women, slightly better than San Francisco at 121 – but equal if you add in the impact from nearby Bellevue, which is an awful 144.

https://jeffreifman.com/2014/05/12/youve-got-male-amazons-growth-impacting-seattle-dating-scene/


NYC and elsewhere:

https://nypost.com/2015/08/25/hey-ladies-here-are-8-reasons-youre-single/

“Because women have been graduating from college in 30-plus percent greater numbers than men for years, there are now four women for every three men nationally in the marriage-age, college-educated dating market,” Birger says.

In Manhattan, the numbers are even more dire, with 38 percent more young female college grads than male. Birger says the imbalance is also exacerbated by New York’s large population of gay males. Some 9 to 12 percent of men in Manhattan are gay, according to Gary Gates, a demographics expert at UCLA’s Williams Institute.

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Dear Single Women: Come visit Seattle. There are jobs. You'd like it here. (Original Post) pnwmom Apr 2018 OP
isn't it common in NYC to have College Educated women married to non College guys such as JI7 Apr 2018 #1
Maybe not so common, according to the NY Post article: pnwmom Apr 2018 #2
Aren't a lot of non-college educated men trumpsters? AJT Apr 2018 #3
Good point! pnwmom Apr 2018 #4
Import the extra Chinese and Indian men? treestar Apr 2018 #5

JI7

(89,278 posts)
1. isn't it common in NYC to have College Educated women married to non College guys such as
Wed Apr 25, 2018, 03:29 AM
Apr 2018

Firefighters and other jobs where they don't always need higher education ?

pnwmom

(109,000 posts)
2. Maybe not so common, according to the NY Post article:
Wed Apr 25, 2018, 03:39 AM
Apr 2018
“None of this would matter if we were open-minded about who we dated,” Birger says. “The problem is, Americans — both men and women — have become more rigid about dating across socioeconomic boundaries.”

To find a mate, college-educated women should consider dating working-class men.

“In the future, we’re going to see more of what I call ‘mixed collar’ marriages,” Birger says.

AJT

(5,240 posts)
3. Aren't a lot of non-college educated men trumpsters?
Wed Apr 25, 2018, 04:48 AM
Apr 2018

I don't think there's going to be a lot of college educated women, who tend to be liberal, dating MAGA loving men.

treestar

(82,383 posts)
5. Import the extra Chinese and Indian men?
Wed Apr 25, 2018, 05:20 AM
Apr 2018


I was just reading they are imbalanced severely the other way.
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