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oberliner

(58,724 posts)
Mon Apr 30, 2018, 07:34 AM Apr 2018

Joy Reid's Defenders Praise Her Apology -- But Ignore Her Apparent Cover-Up (Huffington Post)

Joy Reid has apologized for writing anti-LGBTQ posts on her old blog, but she still has not answered important questions about her honesty and journalistic integrity.

A weeklong saga surrounding her claims that The Reid Report, her now-defunct blog, was subject to a cyberattack culminated with the MSNBC host apologizing ― once again ― for previously espousing homophobic positions.

The host of “AM Joy” said on air Saturday that her opinions have evolved since writing “offensive” statements several years ago. She echoed an apology she delivered in December after screenshots surfaced of blog posts she wrote between 2007 and 2009 that accused a former Florida governor of being a closeted gay man.

Many of her most vocal supporters online have enthusiastically accepted her apologies, concluding ― and rightly so ― that people should be allowed to re-examine their beliefs over time.

https://www.huffingtonpost.com/entry/joy-reid-hacking-scandal_us_5ae4ab77e4b055fd7fcc3ec2
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Joy Reid's Defenders Praise Her Apology -- But Ignore Her Apparent Cover-Up (Huffington Post) (Original Post) oberliner Apr 2018 OP
Still salty, huh? nt LexVegas Apr 2018 #1
Looks like it... HipChick Apr 2018 #2
+1000 stonecutter357 Apr 2018 #6
Gratified by those who appreciate the truth oberliner Apr 2018 #119
No kidding huh... Agschmid Apr 2018 #169
To some there will never be enough ...... Fullduplexxx Apr 2018 #3
All would be forgiven if Joy just bent the knee to comradebillyboy Apr 2018 #61
Yeah we all know who workinclasszero Apr 2018 #127
Yep. (nt) ehrnst Apr 2018 #130
Someone better throw their rock like Aunt Lydia wants. forgotmylogin Apr 2018 #83
Stop doing the right's work for them. Adrahil Apr 2018 #4
Very odd...especially when you go look at the multiple posts on the very same subject HipChick Apr 2018 #11
It's another brazen attack on a Democrat. Kingofalldems Apr 2018 #15
Over and over workinclasszero Apr 2018 #129
I know, right? Cary Apr 2018 #28
It doesn't make me wonder. I understand it completely. MineralMan Apr 2018 #72
Really? Cary Apr 2018 #74
I know. I'm on your side. MineralMan Apr 2018 #75
We are on the same side Cary Apr 2018 #81
I didn't wonder, knew who wrote it even before I opened it grantcart Apr 2018 #166
You and I go back to the BOG days when smearing President Obama Cary Apr 2018 #168
Yet this is done here day after day and nothing is done. I dont know how much more I can take. Eliot Rosewater Apr 2018 #104
This is not "the right's work" oberliner Apr 2018 #120
Yes it is. Adrahil Apr 2018 #131
She made a mistake falling back on the "I was hacked" excuse. I hope she learned from this. Trust Buster Apr 2018 #5
That's a polite way of excusing her lying. zaj Apr 2018 #32
So whatcha thinking? Adrahil Apr 2018 #33
Let's start with accepting reality instead of burying it zaj Apr 2018 #141
I watched her statement. I thought it was sufficient. Adrahil Apr 2018 #143
We don't need to pile on, but we should have meaningful standards p zaj Apr 2018 #147
Her joke was NOT about her appearance- why is okay to bolster that lie and not accept bettyellen Apr 2018 #150
I'm not bolstering that lie zaj Apr 2018 #151
We should.... zaj Apr 2018 #152
Haberman is doubling down and saying the softball coach joke was also bettyellen Apr 2018 #155
I missed that until this post zaj Apr 2018 #158
Agree 94Mountaineer Apr 2018 #59
In the WaPo forgotmylogin Apr 2018 #76
It's the part where she references "some people might not believe me" 94Mountaineer Apr 2018 #82
Okay, throw your rock then, or move on. forgotmylogin Apr 2018 #84
Opinions vary 94Mountaineer Apr 2018 #87
Cool Story, Bro ! stonecutter357 Apr 2018 #7
For fuck's sake . . . I thought trashing Joy week was over. Vinca Apr 2018 #8
Trashing anti Rump people will never be over here. Eliot Rosewater Apr 2018 #106
Joy Reid is amazing - I love her show and think she is a great voice for progressives oberliner Apr 2018 #117
I don't believe you. Kingofalldems Apr 2018 #153
I've noted many of your concerns. kwassa Apr 2018 #156
I believe you. nt Piasladic Apr 2018 #161
...sigh... hlthe2b Apr 2018 #9
Did I miss your "oops... I guess she WAS lying" post? FBaggins Apr 2018 #14
... hlthe2b Apr 2018 #19
You have GOT to be kidding... right? FBaggins Apr 2018 #20
... progressoid Apr 2018 #56
No, they have not been made. Cuthbert Allgood Apr 2018 #63
You seem inconsoleable. That makes me sad, but I see nothing more than DUers can do than they have hlthe2b Apr 2018 #66
Don't worry; I'm not. Cuthbert Allgood Apr 2018 #71
.... LexVegas Apr 2018 #78
I assume the anti Reid people can show us a lifetime of going out of their way Eliot Rosewater Apr 2018 #108
Yes! They absolutely can! FBaggins Apr 2018 #148
First of all, most are not "anti Reid" people. mountain grammy May 2018 #177
The point is of course many of the loudest ANTI Joy voices Eliot Rosewater May 2018 #180
On that point I completely agree. mountain grammy May 2018 #182
Can we take Joy Reid down off the cross already? HipChick Apr 2018 #10
Maybe someone can... tonedevil Apr 2018 #90
Someone alerted on this, BTW. Trying to call HuffPo a RW source. Dr Hobbitstein Apr 2018 #12
Be aware posting exactly what you just did got me my first hide. moriah Apr 2018 #18
I hope people see how problematic that is oberliner Apr 2018 #121
Agreed. nt Dr Hobbitstein Apr 2018 #157
Her words were rediculous and she has evolved. She apologized and by and large Afromania Apr 2018 #13
I think you missed a step there FBaggins Apr 2018 #16
How bad is the entire collection of Republicans for defending trump and all that's going on Afromania Apr 2018 #29
I'm not sure what your point is FBaggins Apr 2018 #31
Sure as shit isn't the purist crap so called Dems spout around election time BoneyardDem Apr 2018 #64
No, it isn't purist crap. Thanks for getting the point even that some folks want to imagine Afromania Apr 2018 #134
What I'm saying, and this is the last reply I'm making, is we can't sit here waiting for saints Afromania Apr 2018 #132
She lied, that's the problem. Dr Hobbitstein Apr 2018 #17
What exactly did she say that was a lie? EffieBlack Apr 2018 #25
This dsc Apr 2018 #30
Got it. EffieBlack Apr 2018 #45
Is that all you have to say? dsc Apr 2018 #49
Yes, that's all I have to say. EffieBlack Apr 2018 #51
I wonder if the anti Reid people can show how they have spent their lives Eliot Rosewater Apr 2018 #111
I am ptentialy putting my job on the line to bring my school a GSA dsc Apr 2018 #118
She stated she didn't write it and she was hacked. Dr Hobbitstein Apr 2018 #41
Gotcha EffieBlack Apr 2018 #43
Oh it has everything to do with the GOP. Democratic voices don't get the same sidestepping jump Afromania Apr 2018 #26
If a reporter lies, they have broken trust. Dr Hobbitstein Apr 2018 #46
It has everything to do with them, and she's not a reporter she's a talking head that provides Afromania Apr 2018 #52
What if I told you one could both be mad at Reid for lying Dr Hobbitstein Apr 2018 #53
Or didn't remember...but it is over and she is a good person for our side ...or maybe she was Demsrule86 Apr 2018 #92
If she hadn't included the hacking bit it wouldn't have gotten as much attention Blue_Adept Apr 2018 #21
Thank you! Dr Hobbitstein Apr 2018 #22
Well said oberliner Apr 2018 #37
please Botany Apr 2018 #23
That is an awesome video oberliner Apr 2018 #36
Could you combine all your OPs on Joy into one? Kingofalldems Apr 2018 #24
Good suggestion oberliner Apr 2018 #34
Thanks for making it abundantly clear. Time to block. writes3000 Apr 2018 #39
"Time to block" oberliner Apr 2018 #123
Aren't you sick and tired of.excoriating liberals? Cary Apr 2018 #27
She is great oberliner Apr 2018 #35
We shouldn't be excoriating liberals. Cary Apr 2018 #40
Judging from the posts I have seen, the answer is no. Demsrule86 Apr 2018 #93
I find it odd that they think they have every right to excoriate liberals Cary Apr 2018 #167
It really is...sometimes I wonder if they understand we need to fight Republicans Demsrule86 Apr 2018 #172
"dubious claim"? Cuthbert Allgood Apr 2018 #65
Give up. That's exactly what Repubkicans want. Cary Apr 2018 #69
So when Dems told me I was dividing the party when I said I didn't believe Cuthbert Allgood Apr 2018 #73
The argument that you do more harm than good when you attack Democrats is objectively reasonable Cary Apr 2018 #79
It seems weird to many of us why a person would go after a progressive ally like Joy... Demsrule86 Apr 2018 #94
Because she lied. Cuthbert Allgood Apr 2018 #98
Pattern and practice EffieBlack Apr 2018 #48
and the people defending her repeatedly say the clearly anti gay comments dsc Apr 2018 #50
Let perfection be the enemy of.the good? Cary Apr 2018 #67
Not knowing much about computers and hacking thucythucy Apr 2018 #38
I'm with you 100% EffieBlack Apr 2018 #42
They aren't sure, but will take any opening they can get. MrsCoffee Apr 2018 #47
I am also with you 100% CatMor Apr 2018 #55
Because people who track that down for a living have found no evidence? Cuthbert Allgood Apr 2018 #68
Sorry, but I still don't buy it. thucythucy Apr 2018 #91
Seriously? SHE knows it's a lie. Cuthbert Allgood Apr 2018 #97
It makes sense to me. peabody Apr 2018 #99
So the next time a Republican uses that excuse, Cuthbert Allgood Apr 2018 #137
It's entirely possible peabody Apr 2018 #139
+1 spooky3 Apr 2018 #136
You have a point. Just because someone doesn't have any evidence that they were hacked doesn't mean hughee99 Apr 2018 #145
Way to read the room dude. MrsCoffee Apr 2018 #44
Did anyone have a doubt as to who posted this? RhodeIslandOne Apr 2018 #54
Nope... SidDithers Apr 2018 #57
Exactly. And we KNOW the R B Garr Apr 2018 #58
Welcome to DU oberliner Apr 2018 #115
Great place for Democrats. R B Garr Apr 2018 #144
It takes courage to stand up for the truth oberliner Apr 2018 #113
Keep giving yourself those self-congratulations. peabody Apr 2018 #142
I was thanking someone else for the compliment oberliner May 2018 #175
Did you watch her show where this was all taken care of blue cat May 2018 #174
Yes, I watched that show oberliner May 2018 #176
and just how did Hayley Miller come to that conclusion that Ms. Reid's defenders ignored her still_one Apr 2018 #60
Post removed Post removed Apr 2018 #62
This is one of the weirdest posts I have ever seen oberliner Apr 2018 #110
yup....it's obvious BoneyardDem Apr 2018 #112
Old news. That was this weekend's disruptive story. MineralMan Apr 2018 #70
Glenn Greenwald is a vile human being oberliner Apr 2018 #109
Uh-huh. OK. MineralMan Apr 2018 #125
K & R 50 Shades Of Blue Apr 2018 #77
This is so sad padah513 Apr 2018 #80
Agreed oberliner Apr 2018 #105
If it will help you to move on my friend padah513 Apr 2018 #154
I'm sorry Olafjoy Apr 2018 #85
Welcome to DU oberliner Apr 2018 #107
When?! When is it ever enough?! democratisphere Apr 2018 #86
Another post I made today was about a suicide bombing that killed almost 30 people oberliner Apr 2018 #103
Try a drumpf deserving the Nobel Peace Prize OP. democratisphere Apr 2018 #146
Back at it again I see...give it up Joy is not going anywhere. Demsrule86 Apr 2018 #88
This OP is a good one oberliner Apr 2018 #102
Too many OP's...and I feel end up hurting Democrats. Demsrule86 Apr 2018 #135
Most have moved on. NCTraveler Apr 2018 #89
Her statement on her show was literally two days ago oberliner Apr 2018 #101
Just like Franken's defenders refuse to admit he mistreated women mythology Apr 2018 #95
How to Learn to Let Go of Things . stonecutter357 Apr 2018 #96
How to Participate in a Discussion Forum oberliner Apr 2018 #100
You seem really interested in throwing Dems under the bus John Fante Apr 2018 #159
The VAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAST majority of the anti Reid people dont give a shit Eliot Rosewater Apr 2018 #116
I think it's time to put this OP/poster on my Ignore List . stonecutter357 Apr 2018 #124
That sounds like a really good idea oberliner Apr 2018 #126
I only do this here at DU because I assume we have a big enough audience that Eliot Rosewater Apr 2018 #128
I only have two posters on my Ignore List . I think it's time to start using it more often . stonecutter357 Apr 2018 #133
Many of the "anti-Reid" people ARE the LGBT community wonkwest Apr 2018 #160
Again I am potentially putting my job on the line to help a student get a GSA dsc Apr 2018 #163
No idea what a GSA is or what you are talking about Eliot Rosewater Apr 2018 #164
wow and you have the ever loving nerve to lecture the rest of us about gay rights dsc Apr 2018 #165
Not a big deal treestar Apr 2018 #114
she posted some olld homophobic stuff and was embarrassed Bonx Apr 2018 #122
Apparently she got the FBI involved. I hope she didn't lie to THEM. n/t yodermon Apr 2018 #138
Sounds like certain Bernie supporters are still bent helmedon1974 Apr 2018 #140
... Yo_Mama_Been_Loggin Apr 2018 #149
I consider the matter with Joy closed. However, many of her defenders are doubling down on ugly wonkwest Apr 2018 #162
Post removed Post removed Apr 2018 #170
Keep stewing in your resentment! peabody Apr 2018 #171
... LexVegas May 2018 #178
"I was Hacked" may be the new go-to when a public figure gets in trouble. jalan48 Apr 2018 #173
Why, though? Dr. Strange May 2018 #179
It's a dodge and at least worth a try. There are zero repercussions from saying it. jalan48 May 2018 #181
 

oberliner

(58,724 posts)
119. Gratified by those who appreciate the truth
Mon Apr 30, 2018, 12:41 PM
Apr 2018

Frustrated by those who seem to not be interested in that.

Fullduplexxx

(7,870 posts)
3. To some there will never be enough ......
Mon Apr 30, 2018, 07:36 AM
Apr 2018

Too much too soon too late not enough.....


Looks like someone was planning on making several columns on this and her apology took the wind out of their sails

forgotmylogin

(7,531 posts)
83. Someone better throw their rock like Aunt Lydia wants.
Mon Apr 30, 2018, 11:47 AM
Apr 2018

Or we'll be here all day. Don't worry about all the glass around. Your house will be fine.

Cary

(11,746 posts)
74. Really?
Mon Apr 30, 2018, 11:24 AM
Apr 2018

You solved the age old dilemma about "conservatives?"

So what are they? Stupid? Or are they liars?

Sorry for being a cryptic. Feel free to read between the lines. We agree.

grantcart

(53,061 posts)
166. I didn't wonder, knew who wrote it even before I opened it
Mon Apr 30, 2018, 06:34 PM
Apr 2018

Should also be noted that DU isn't falling for it. Lots of responses and zero recs

Don't you wish we could not g the unrec back?

Cary

(11,746 posts)
168. You and I go back to the BOG days when smearing President Obama
Mon Apr 30, 2018, 06:40 PM
Apr 2018

Was all the rage in certain quarters.

 

Adrahil

(13,340 posts)
131. Yes it is.
Mon Apr 30, 2018, 12:47 PM
Apr 2018

And if you don't see that, I think you might not understand the situation we are in.

And I assuming here you actually want to defeat the Republicans.

 

zaj

(3,433 posts)
32. That's a polite way of excusing her lying.
Mon Apr 30, 2018, 09:28 AM
Apr 2018

I love her, but don't let her lying become normalized too.

 

zaj

(3,433 posts)
141. Let's start with accepting reality instead of burying it
Mon Apr 30, 2018, 01:08 PM
Apr 2018

Just because it's our strong voices m as king the mistake.

You don't anyways have to punish bad behavior.

 

Adrahil

(13,340 posts)
143. I watched her statement. I thought it was sufficient.
Mon Apr 30, 2018, 01:11 PM
Apr 2018

YMMV, of course, but I do not see any benefit to continuing to try and embarrass her over things she said quite a few years ago, unless the goal is to weaken her voice.

 

zaj

(3,433 posts)
147. We don't need to pile on, but we should have meaningful standards p
Mon Apr 30, 2018, 01:20 PM
Apr 2018

Last edited Mon Apr 30, 2018, 01:55 PM - Edit history (1)

Including calling out dishonesty among our best voices.

It gives us strength.

It teaches us how to be even stronger.

For example, Michelle Wolfe can be criticized from the left for her eye makeup joke not because it was an attack on her appearance (it was not) but because it could be easily claimed to be about appearance.

Almost all of her other jokes were amazing. The impact was weakened by the one joke that wasn't thoroughly considered.

 

bettyellen

(47,209 posts)
150. Her joke was NOT about her appearance- why is okay to bolster that lie and not accept
Mon Apr 30, 2018, 01:53 PM
Apr 2018

That other- basically good people, mind you- made and or make mistakes? That blows my mind. RWers are deliberately twisting words and we should go along with it? I guess we should also pretend none of them are on the Joy reid outrage train?

 

zaj

(3,433 posts)
151. I'm not bolstering that lie
Mon Apr 30, 2018, 02:03 PM
Apr 2018

It is a lle and i'm not bolstering it. I'm articulating how Michelle can be an even stronger voice. Joy can also be an even stronger voice.

We are all stronger by being our best selves. By confronting the opponents easiest criticism of us and strengthening that.

I agree with your instincts to protect our best voices. We desperately need them right now. Including Joy and Michelle.

 

zaj

(3,433 posts)
152. We should....
Mon Apr 30, 2018, 02:08 PM
Apr 2018

... correct the record by confronting the rw liars and recognize where they found the opportunity for the lie to stick (a joke that was hard to follow and included a detail on her appearance) . We should become stronger by accepting constructive criticism from our own side that can be valuable in strengthening us.

 

bettyellen

(47,209 posts)
155. Haberman is doubling down and saying the softball coach joke was also
Mon Apr 30, 2018, 02:34 PM
Apr 2018

About appearance! Is it possible she doesn’t get the double entendres about “softballs” and divisiveness in the press room? Doubtful.

 

zaj

(3,433 posts)
158. I missed that until this post
Mon Apr 30, 2018, 03:10 PM
Apr 2018

Last edited Mon Apr 30, 2018, 04:14 PM - Edit history (1)

I assumed it was a gym teacher reference.

Awesome, but hard to follow.

 

94Mountaineer

(31 posts)
59. Agree
Mon Apr 30, 2018, 10:34 AM
Apr 2018

Take responsibility for it. Her past is her past. Own it.
She's obviously grown, as a person, and doesn't hold the views of her past. Her actions are what matters.

This is neither ownership of her past nor an apology.

“Here’s what I know, I genuinely do not believe I wrote those hateful things because they are completely alien to me, but I can definitely understand based on things I have tweeted and I have written in the past why some people don’t believe me,"

it's very similar to the old "if I offended you, I'm sorry"...like if you weren't offended the person isn't sorry for what they did/said?

Own it. Apologize and move on.

She's not going to lose her job, nor should she. But don't sit there an lie about being hacked and put the blame on the people who don't believe her lie.

forgotmylogin

(7,531 posts)
76. In the WaPo
Mon Apr 30, 2018, 11:39 AM
Apr 2018
“But here’s what I know. I genuinely do not believe I wrote those hateful things, because they are completely alien to me,” Reid said. “But I can definitely understand, based on things I have tweeted and have written in the past, why some people don’t believe me. I’ve not been exempt from being dumb or cruel or hurtful to the very people I want to advocate for. I own that. I get it. And for that, I am truly, truly sorry.”


I'm sure I'm not the only one who has looked at a piece of writing from decades back and went "who the hell wrote this crap?"

I think people who say "she won't admit she wrote them" are missing the point: If she wrote them, she doesn't even recognize that person she was who wrote them. She's not the same person and that's why we, as liberals, are better than they; we can accept that a person can learn and change and evolve over time.

They used to call it "flip-flopping" and it was considered a scathing attack back in the day. Give me a person who can change their mind when confronted with reason rather than someone who is sure of themselves to the point of steadfast immobility. We can forgive and appreciate when someone changes. They can't.

Evolving point of view is the definition of "liberal".
 

94Mountaineer

(31 posts)
82. It's the part where she references "some people might not believe me"
Mon Apr 30, 2018, 11:45 AM
Apr 2018

Not recognizing the words as her own don't make them someone else's.
She wasn't hacked. People aren't making believe she wrote what she wrote.
She wrote it. No one else wrote it. It wasn't a conspiracy to make her look bad. She wrote those words.

Own that shit and move on.

 

94Mountaineer

(31 posts)
87. Opinions vary
Mon Apr 30, 2018, 12:01 PM
Apr 2018

the story's over.

I'm still disappointed she still won't take responsibility for her own words.

 

oberliner

(58,724 posts)
117. Joy Reid is amazing - I love her show and think she is a great voice for progressives
Mon Apr 30, 2018, 12:41 PM
Apr 2018

Makes her going with the "my blog was hacked" excuse all the more disappointing, but I'm sure my concern about that has been noted.

FBaggins

(26,760 posts)
14. Did I miss your "oops... I guess she WAS lying" post?
Mon Apr 30, 2018, 08:16 AM
Apr 2018

Or have you transitioned straight from her being hacked and the victim of right-wing lies to “she apologized... why are you still upset”?

Nothing if not entertaining... but some self-reflection could be appropriate at this time.

hlthe2b

(102,378 posts)
19. ...
Mon Apr 30, 2018, 08:26 AM
Apr 2018

The points have been made.


Won't you finally let the blowflies and scavenger beetles finally have their day) and that poor carcass be laid to rest?




FBaggins

(26,760 posts)
20. You have GOT to be kidding... right?
Mon Apr 30, 2018, 08:35 AM
Apr 2018

Did you seriously just post "undeserved accusations toward fellow DUers continue to be slung" ???

Or maybe someone hacked your DU account?

Cuthbert Allgood

(4,965 posts)
63. No, they have not been made.
Mon Apr 30, 2018, 10:57 AM
Apr 2018

I was basically called a right-wing shill for not believing her hacking story. In a bold moment of irony, I was told I didn't understand how the internet worked when I said it would be near impossible to hack the multiple internet archive stores of her blog.

But now that it is clear that she was lying about the "hacking," it's all good and "don't beat a dead horse."

Frankly, fuck that. Until those that defended her and accused anyone who doubted the story of being a right-wing, racist, misogynist apologize for the way they treated those that dared to actually question what was, frankly, a laughable lie about hacking, I think it's fair to say this.

We can't just let people slide because they are on the left. Do I have a problem with Joy and want to see here gone? No. Of course not. Do I want to give her a pass for lying? Hell no. She had the perfect opportunity to talk about her growth as a human and how she regrets the views she held a decade ago and what she has learned in that decade. But, no, "I was hacked."

And even now, it's "well, I guess I wasn't hacked but I don't really remember writing those things." Uggh. We would never accept that from someone on the right; we shouldn't accept it from our own.

hlthe2b

(102,378 posts)
66. You seem inconsoleable. That makes me sad, but I see nothing more than DUers can do than they have
Mon Apr 30, 2018, 11:06 AM
Apr 2018

for the past two weeks.

Cuthbert Allgood

(4,965 posts)
71. Don't worry; I'm not.
Mon Apr 30, 2018, 11:14 AM
Apr 2018

But it gets a little disingenuous when last week was spent telling anyone that questioned Joy to just shut up and when it becomes clear we were right about it all that, once again, we are being told to shut up. Seems like a weird way to make the party bigger and stronger. Saying "I was wrong; shouldn't have said those things" would go a long way.

Eliot Rosewater

(31,121 posts)
108. I assume the anti Reid people can show us a lifetime of going out of their way
Mon Apr 30, 2018, 12:36 PM
Apr 2018

support of the LGBT community.

FBaggins

(26,760 posts)
148. Yes! They absolutely can!
Mon Apr 30, 2018, 01:38 PM
Apr 2018

Oh wait... it appears that the hacking is more profound than we thought.

For the record... I don't think I've ever seen her show and have never formed an opinion about her at all.

I'm just not a fan of lying... even by progressives... or a fan of those knee-jerks who assume that there are no lying progressives and even the most obvious cases must be right-wing propaganda being used to hurt our own. Especially when they're incapable of admitting their mistakes (while continuing to imply that those were had the correct read on the subject are NOW right-wing propaganda because they can't "let it go&quot .

mountain grammy

(26,655 posts)
177. First of all, most are not "anti Reid" people.
Tue May 1, 2018, 08:10 AM
May 2018

Second, what supporters of the LGBT community didn’t do was post nasty jokes and slurs about our fellow human beings who belong to that community.. I know I never did. It’s nothing I have to remember, I never did it.

Joy is a journalist, and a damn good one, but I’m disappointed she chose to lie. She’s definitely one of the best out there.

Eliot Rosewater

(31,121 posts)
180. The point is of course many of the loudest ANTI Joy voices
Tue May 1, 2018, 11:33 AM
May 2018

are not only NOT supporters of the LGBT community but are very ANTI LGBT.

Are there liberal gay people and for that matter conservative gay people who are hurt, angry at Joy over this? Yep, I am not addressing them.

I am addressing the FAKE "concerned" people out there and they are EVERYWHERE.

moriah

(8,311 posts)
18. Be aware posting exactly what you just did got me my first hide.
Mon Apr 30, 2018, 08:23 AM
Apr 2018

People abuse the "no interference forum moderation" alerts and juries read posts about alerts being called at all as a violation.

I tried to do an ATA regarding this but Skinner apparently has no opinion, so post about jury service at your peril.

 

oberliner

(58,724 posts)
121. I hope people see how problematic that is
Mon Apr 30, 2018, 12:43 PM
Apr 2018

Should DU be reduced to: "Trump is a MORON!" and "+1000" posts and responses?

Afromania

(2,771 posts)
13. Her words were rediculous and she has evolved. She apologized and by and large
Mon Apr 30, 2018, 08:15 AM
Apr 2018

Her apology seems to have been accepted by the slighted community. We are better than republicansbuts its way past time for what's good for the goose is good for the gander. As long as they can keep grifters, sexual devients, conmen and other pieces of reprobate trash in all manners of influential positions without answering for it. There is no longer to keep blunting our weapons to maintain a moral high ground that the other side cares nothing about.

We will never be them, our goals are completely incompatible with being what the GOP and their ilk has become. When they decide they want to return to the stage of decentcy we can meet them there, but as long as they are embracing the ugliness directly or remaining silent, then they are complicit and should not pretend they have a horse to be high on about the garbage words that have come out of any bodies mouth at any point past or present.

FBaggins

(26,760 posts)
16. I think you missed a step there
Mon Apr 30, 2018, 08:20 AM
Apr 2018

You would be absolutely correct IF that’s what happened when the story first came out.

The extended run of “someone else hacked my account... I never said that” is not irrelevant.

On top of that... we should consider how bad she mad her defenders look in the process.

Afromania

(2,771 posts)
29. How bad is the entire collection of Republicans for defending trump and all that's going on
Mon Apr 30, 2018, 09:06 AM
Apr 2018

With our government? Who's going to call all of them out for crying economic anxiety rather than we hate all brown and black folks? Anybody, nah well get another think piece about how it isn't their fault. If you want to cut down one of are best voices for employing the same tactics the other side has used effectively to get us into this mess then you do it. Unfortunately we don't have time to be 100% pure while the world burns. We'll have to make do with 90% and a second chance.

FBaggins

(26,760 posts)
31. I'm not sure what your point is
Mon Apr 30, 2018, 09:15 AM
Apr 2018

Surely it can't be that progressives should accept any behavior that is "not as bad as Trump"?

Afromania

(2,771 posts)
134. No, it isn't purist crap. Thanks for getting the point even that some folks want to imagine
Mon Apr 30, 2018, 12:51 PM
Apr 2018

that I didn't make clear.

Afromania

(2,771 posts)
132. What I'm saying, and this is the last reply I'm making, is we can't sit here waiting for saints
Mon Apr 30, 2018, 12:49 PM
Apr 2018

a mistake was made and sitting around arguing the finer points of it isn't going to get anything done. Now, pretend you don't know what my point is and continue your trolling without me.

 

Dr Hobbitstein

(6,568 posts)
17. She lied, that's the problem.
Mon Apr 30, 2018, 08:20 AM
Apr 2018

No one gives a shit WHAT she said a decade ago, they care that she LIED about it.
Kinda breaks the trust one has with someone who is supposed to report the TRUTH.

Has nothing to do with the GOP.

dsc

(52,166 posts)
30. This
Mon Apr 30, 2018, 09:09 AM
Apr 2018
After screenshots appearing to capture dozens of her past homophobic blog posts were tweeted the previous week, Reid told Mediaite last Monday that she didn’t author the posts. According to her initial statement, “an unknown, external party accessed and manipulated material ... to include offensive and hateful references.” Reid said that the newly revealed content “seems to be part of an effort to taint my character with false information.”

“I can state unequivocally that it does not represent the original entries,” she said. “I hope that whoever corrupted the site recognizes the pain they have caused, not just to me, but to my family and communities that I care deeply about: LGBTQ, immigrants, people of color and other marginalized groups.”


The post about Hardaway was one of the posts she is referring to here and we know full well that it is a total lie to say that the screen shot didn't represent the original entry. The original entry was quoted, verbatim, on this website within hours of its having been posted on her website. She out and out lied there, there is no way around that.

dsc

(52,166 posts)
49. Is that all you have to say?
Mon Apr 30, 2018, 10:12 AM
Apr 2018

You asked for, and got, exactly what her lie was. Is it your position that the DU post was also a hack (again this was a verbatim quote)? She clearly was putting the Hardaway post in the category of posts which had been altered. Equally clearly that didn't happen. That is a lie by pretty much any definition of the word.

 

EffieBlack

(14,249 posts)
51. Yes, that's all I have to say.
Mon Apr 30, 2018, 10:15 AM
Apr 2018

I asked you a question. You answered it. End of discussion.

If you’re looking for a fight, I suggest you look elsewhere. I’m not biting.

Eliot Rosewater

(31,121 posts)
111. I wonder if the anti Reid people can show how they have spent their lives
Mon Apr 30, 2018, 12:38 PM
Apr 2018

dedicated to LGBT causes.

No, I dont wonder, I know the answer.

Look, Joy is a woman, she is black AND she is anti Rump. I am surprised they havent accused her of being the mother of some alien race by now. Oh, she is anti ONE other person as well, which is the main reason for all this.

dsc

(52,166 posts)
118. I am ptentialy putting my job on the line to bring my school a GSA
Mon Apr 30, 2018, 12:41 PM
Apr 2018

I have been an out teacher in less than terrific schools to be one for several years.

Afromania

(2,771 posts)
26. Oh it has everything to do with the GOP. Democratic voices don't get the same sidestepping jump
Mon Apr 30, 2018, 08:58 AM
Apr 2018

Republicans get. Look at how Franken was railroaded on allegations while Republicans can be caught red handed in real time. Yet some how Republicans stick around trying to outrun the backlash. I don't pretend to know what she was thinking but I don't doubt it probably played a part.

 

Dr Hobbitstein

(6,568 posts)
46. If a reporter lies, they have broken trust.
Mon Apr 30, 2018, 10:07 AM
Apr 2018

Fuck the GOP. This has nothing to do with them. This has to do with someone breaking the public’s trust. She lied. End. Of. Story.

Afromania

(2,771 posts)
52. It has everything to do with them, and she's not a reporter she's a talking head that provides
Mon Apr 30, 2018, 10:16 AM
Apr 2018

political insights. She's a presenter and you should probably redirect that end.of.story outrage at the folks that broke the public trust by allowing trump and his people unfettered access to cripple this country. That would be the GOP and the folks that run the networks(most likely republican).

 

Dr Hobbitstein

(6,568 posts)
53. What if I told you one could both be mad at Reid for lying
Mon Apr 30, 2018, 10:21 AM
Apr 2018

and the GOP for lying, too?

I do not walk in lockstep with anyone. Reid is supposed to be a truth teller. She lied. She has not apologized for lying. No one gets a free pass just because they’re a Democrat. Blind ideology is bad, no matter what side is practicing it.

You can live in your bubble, but I refuse to blindly follow anyone just because their politics agree with mine. That’s what Republicans do.

Demsrule86

(68,691 posts)
92. Or didn't remember...but it is over and she is a good person for our side ...or maybe she was
Mon Apr 30, 2018, 12:07 PM
Apr 2018

hacked don't...care. And I believe it was a collection of the far right joined by far left who attempted to take Joy out because she is effective...with the Russia story, and she had the nerve to criticize Sen. Sanders...getting her a tongue lashing from Jane Sanders...so a big who cares...made sure to watch her show both Saturday and Sunday.

Blue_Adept

(6,402 posts)
21. If she hadn't included the hacking bit it wouldn't have gotten as much attention
Mon Apr 30, 2018, 08:39 AM
Apr 2018

The fact that so many are glossing over that part of what she said is the same kind of blind eye-ism we accuse the right of.

 

Dr Hobbitstein

(6,568 posts)
22. Thank you!
Mon Apr 30, 2018, 08:42 AM
Apr 2018

It's an uphill battle, with the non-stop lies and attacks on the media from the Trump admin... When our own are lying, they should be called out. Every time.

 

oberliner

(58,724 posts)
34. Good suggestion
Mon Apr 30, 2018, 09:59 AM
Apr 2018

In terms of what I would want her to do now, I've already mentioned that in several of my threads on the subject.

Acknowledge that the blog posts were not hacked and apologize for stating otherwise.

That's pretty much the central point that everyone who is taking any issue with any of this is making.

Cary

(11,746 posts)
27. Aren't you sick and tired of.excoriating liberals?
Mon Apr 30, 2018, 09:02 AM
Apr 2018

The idea that this shames "conservatives" has been debunked, has it not?

Ok so Joy made a few mistakes. Who hasn't? Are you going to seriously try to tell me she's as atrocious as "conservatives?"

 

oberliner

(58,724 posts)
35. She is great
Mon Apr 30, 2018, 10:00 AM
Apr 2018

The only thing I have any issue with is the dubious claim of her blog being hacked.

Cary

(11,746 posts)
40. We shouldn't be excoriating liberals.
Mon Apr 30, 2018, 10:04 AM
Apr 2018

This is a excess we can ill afford, and this has nothing whatsoever to do with walking or chewing gum.

Cary

(11,746 posts)
167. I find it odd that they think they have every right to excoriate liberals
Mon Apr 30, 2018, 06:35 PM
Apr 2018

But they, themselves, cannot be criticized.

You're right. It's an odd sense of entitlement.

Cuthbert Allgood

(4,965 posts)
65. "dubious claim"?
Mon Apr 30, 2018, 10:59 AM
Apr 2018

She is a reporter and she flat out lied.

That's hard to walk back from as a reporter in my book.

Cuthbert Allgood

(4,965 posts)
73. So when Dems told me I was dividing the party when I said I didn't believe
Mon Apr 30, 2018, 11:16 AM
Apr 2018

her weren't dividing the party? Especially when those same people are now telling me that when they are wrong.

So, basically, you are saying that a certain group here on DU can't ever be questioned or we are dividing the party but others can be told to stop saying things and those people aren't dividing the party.

That sounds like cliquish bullshit to me.

Cary

(11,746 posts)
79. The argument that you do more harm than good when you attack Democrats is objectively reasonable
Mon Apr 30, 2018, 11:41 AM
Apr 2018

The Koch brothers spend a billion dollars to generate much the same kind of message. I don't think they would make.that investment without some hope of some return.

I oppose their Democrats suck message and like hell if I am going to proliferate that message. Do you want to proliferate "Democrats suck?" If you don't wish to proliferate "Democrats suck" then you need to objectively weigh your need for self expression against your need to elect Democrats. That's called being functional. That's called having discipline.

When you lash out against Democrats such as myself for having the temerity to ask you to have discipline, what do you accomplish? I can tell you my reaction. I write you off.

Demsrule86

(68,691 posts)
94. It seems weird to many of us why a person would go after a progressive ally like Joy...
Mon Apr 30, 2018, 12:10 PM
Apr 2018

I guess I am just not 'pure' enough to understand the benefit of eating our own.

Cuthbert Allgood

(4,965 posts)
98. Because she lied.
Mon Apr 30, 2018, 12:19 PM
Apr 2018

Because she had the chance to say that she was wrong and talk about that and about her growth, but she lied. Add to that that she is a reporter and SHE LIED. That's kind of a big deal for journalists.

It's not about eating our own as much as it is holding our own to the same standards we want in Republicans.

 

EffieBlack

(14,249 posts)
48. Pattern and practice
Mon Apr 30, 2018, 10:08 AM
Apr 2018

It‘s not a coincidence that many of the people jumping all over this are also quick to jump to invoke the “of course I know racism is a problem, but that’s not what happened THIS time” whitesplain whenever an obviously racist incident is discussed.

What can you do but just take it for what it’s worth?

dsc

(52,166 posts)
50. and the people defending her repeatedly say the clearly anti gay comments
Mon Apr 30, 2018, 10:14 AM
Apr 2018

she wrote are not really so bad. I know anti gay discrimination is a problem but let me straight splain why this isn't it.

Cary

(11,746 posts)
67. Let perfection be the enemy of.the good?
Mon Apr 30, 2018, 11:12 AM
Apr 2018

Are we not all on the same side? I am under the impression that we are. Am I wrong?

thucythucy

(8,086 posts)
38. Not knowing much about computers and hacking
Mon Apr 30, 2018, 10:01 AM
Apr 2018

I still have to wonder how people can be so sure that Joy wasn't hacked, and the hack covered up by the hackers.

Set aside for a moment how difficult it generally is to prove a negative. Even so, the Democratic National Committee, which presumably has access to far more sophisticated (and expensive) computer expertise, was hacked. John Podesta, who likewise is most probably far better protected than someone who was--at that time anyway--a more or less obscure blogger--was also hacked. E-mails and materials from both were then altered, and disseminated in an effort to discredit them.

We have at least one foreign government dedicated to screwing Democrats and progressives, backed by a coterie of shit stirrers and rat fuckers here in the US funded by what Paul Simon calls "a loose affiliation of millionaires and billionaires."

Yet I'm expected to take the word of more or less anonymous "experts" that there is simply no conceivable way the same thing happened to Joy. Because internet platforms are just so incredibly dedicated to the integrity of the product they deliver. And it is impossible--beyond the realm of all possibility--that screen shots and time stamps can be doctored or in any way altered to support further rat fucking.

Sorry, but for now I think I'll take Joy's word on this, and accept what looked to me to be a heart-felt apology. I could be wrong--and pardon my ignorance--but that's the way I see it right now.

Cuthbert Allgood

(4,965 posts)
68. Because people who track that down for a living have found no evidence?
Mon Apr 30, 2018, 11:13 AM
Apr 2018

Because there are captured images in the Internet Archive that are not actual web pages but "pictures" taken by spiders (computer programs) and then archived. They would have to manually change the image which would leave clear traces it had been done.

Just because you don't understand it, doesn't make it false. Argumentum ad ignorantiam and all that.

thucythucy

(8,086 posts)
91. Sorry, but I still don't buy it.
Mon Apr 30, 2018, 12:07 PM
Apr 2018

Not on the word of "experts" whose agenda I don't know, and whose veracity I can't verify. Especially when we now know there is a history of computer manipulation by folks who are determined to sow discord among Democrats and discredit anyone whose voice is respected by progressives.

"People who track that down for a living...." You mean like the professionals at Facebook who assured us our personal data was safe?

I'll wait a while until I pass final judgment. Something tells me that--like with Wiki-leaks and the Assuage/Trump connection--there will be more information forthcoming on this issue. In the meantime, I'll give Joy the benefit of the doubt.

Cuthbert Allgood

(4,965 posts)
97. Seriously? SHE knows it's a lie.
Mon Apr 30, 2018, 12:18 PM
Apr 2018

That's why we have the "well, I don't REMEMBER making those posts, but I guess I did" "apology."

But hey, whatever makes the world make sense to you, I guess.

Cuthbert Allgood

(4,965 posts)
137. So the next time a Republican uses that excuse,
Mon Apr 30, 2018, 01:02 PM
Apr 2018

you'll be fine with that, too, then, I guess.

And, yeah, sorry if I worry that journalists lie.

peabody

(445 posts)
139. It's entirely possible
Mon Apr 30, 2018, 01:05 PM
Apr 2018

and yes if a Republican uses that excuse in the same situation I would be okay with it. I know who my enemies are and it’s not Joy.

hughee99

(16,113 posts)
145. You have a point. Just because someone doesn't have any evidence that they were hacked doesn't mean
Mon Apr 30, 2018, 01:18 PM
Apr 2018

they weren't hacked. I believe the republicans spent months arguing this very same thing in 2016.

Former FBI Director James Comey said something similar in his statement when he announced that he would not be recommending any charges in the Clinton email matter.

"With respect to potential computer intrusion by hostile actors, we did not find direct evidence that Secretary Clinton’s personal e-mail domain, in its various configurations since 2009, was successfully hacked. But, given the nature of the system and of the actors potentially involved, we assess that we would be unlikely to see such direct evidence."

And while you may not take the word of an anonymous "expert", I'd think Comey's word on this has some value, and his statement supports you.

R B Garr

(16,982 posts)
58. Exactly. And we KNOW the
Mon Apr 30, 2018, 10:29 AM
Apr 2018

“groups” who have attacked and stalked her and why and who that benefits. Surely she knows, but we can’t say anything. No one can say because of.....the “unity” thing.

peabody

(445 posts)
142. Keep giving yourself those self-congratulations.
Mon Apr 30, 2018, 01:09 PM
Apr 2018

Last edited Mon Apr 30, 2018, 06:25 PM - Edit history (1)

You think you’re so righteous but you’re only doing damage to a good journalist and sowing division.

 

oberliner

(58,724 posts)
175. I was thanking someone else for the compliment
Tue May 1, 2018, 06:56 AM
May 2018

I am confident that I am neither "doing damage to a good journalist" nor "sowing division".

I continue to assert that Joy is great - and that we should all be united.

My only issue is with her dubious claim about her blog being hacked.

blue cat

(2,415 posts)
174. Did you watch her show where this was all taken care of
Tue May 1, 2018, 03:56 AM
May 2018

At least for me. I cried like a baby at the way her guests forgave her and I could so relate to looking back at something that I've written but have become woke since then so it didn't feel like I wrote it. People move on, well most or we wouldn't have Brian Williams. That was days ago and so much has happened since then yet I see these weird hang on to shit threads.

 

oberliner

(58,724 posts)
176. Yes, I watched that show
Tue May 1, 2018, 06:58 AM
May 2018

I thought it was great that she had that discussion on her program.

My only disappointment was that she stuck with the claim that she did not write those blog posts.

still_one

(92,417 posts)
60. and just how did Hayley Miller come to that conclusion that Ms. Reid's defenders ignored her
Mon Apr 30, 2018, 10:45 AM
Apr 2018

Last edited Mon Apr 30, 2018, 11:27 AM - Edit history (1)

apparent cover-up?

Ms. Reid apologized for the posts in her defuncted blog from over 10 years ago, and was clear in that apology that hacking was not involved.

I wonder if Ms. Reid committed hari kari if that would be acceptable to Ms. Miller and others who seem to believe that Joy Reid's contrition wasn't good enough.

Funny how some of these so-called journalists have appointed themselves to be the judge and jury of what constitutes a sufficient apology.

Perhaps some of these so-called purveyors of "honesty" should look in the mirror at their own behavior:

How about the NY Times article which blamed the Democrats for causing the G.O.P. to view climate change as "fake science":

"The Republican Party’s fast journey from debating how to combat human-caused climate change to arguing that it does not exist is a story of big political money, Democratic hubris in the Obama years and a partisan chasm that grew over nine years like a crack in the Antarctic shelf, favoring extreme positions and uncompromising rhetoric over cooperation and conciliation."

It then proceeded to make excuses for the republicans by saying "most republicans do not believe climate change is a hoax"

“Most Republicans still do not regard climate change as a hoax,” said Whit Ayres, a Republican strategist who worked for Senator Marco Rubio’s presidential campaign. “But the entire climate change debate has now been caught up in the broader polarization of American politics.”

https://www.nytimes.com/2017/06/03/us/politics/republican-leaders-climate-change.html?hp&action=click&pgtype=Homepage&clickSource=story-heading&module=first-column-region®ion=top-news&WT.nav=top-news&_r=0

The so-called journalists do this frequently in their articles, setting up a false equivalency, believing I suspect, that it makes them appear "balanced". What it actually does, is distort the true picture of things.

Perhaps Judy Miller can apologize for those WMDs

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oberliner

(58,724 posts)
110. This is one of the weirdest posts I have ever seen
Mon Apr 30, 2018, 12:38 PM
Apr 2018

Attempt at division?

"anti-Dem shit" ???

What in the hell?

MineralMan

(146,332 posts)
70. Old news. That was this weekend's disruptive story.
Mon Apr 30, 2018, 11:14 AM
Apr 2018

Surely there's a new one you can focus on. Check with Glenn Greenwald. He'll have something for you, I'm sure.

 

oberliner

(58,724 posts)
109. Glenn Greenwald is a vile human being
Mon Apr 30, 2018, 12:37 PM
Apr 2018

Makes me ill.

Joy Reid is one of my favorites.

I wish she would've not gone down the "my blog was hacked" road.

MineralMan

(146,332 posts)
125. Uh-huh. OK.
Mon Apr 30, 2018, 12:44 PM
Apr 2018

I wish you would not be going down the post after post about Joy Reid path. But, if wishes were fishes, we'll all eat frutti de mare on our linguine.

 

oberliner

(58,724 posts)
105. Agreed
Mon Apr 30, 2018, 12:35 PM
Apr 2018

It would've been so simple for her to not have gone down the "my blog was hacked" road and just taken responsibility for all her past posts.

padah513

(2,506 posts)
154. If it will help you to move on my friend
Mon Apr 30, 2018, 02:32 PM
Apr 2018

I will apologize for her. I am so sorry for Joy Reid saying that her blog was hacked and not simply taking responsibility for all of her past post. We have a madman in the WH and elections in November that we must win... let's all move on together.

Olafjoy

(937 posts)
85. I'm sorry
Mon Apr 30, 2018, 11:52 AM
Apr 2018

I’m sorry that I do not have time to spend arguing about 2006, but I have to get to the 2018 rally for the striking teachers at the State Capitol.

 

oberliner

(58,724 posts)
103. Another post I made today was about a suicide bombing that killed almost 30 people
Mon Apr 30, 2018, 12:33 PM
Apr 2018

Including journalists and children.

It received zero responses.

One other person posted about the attack on LBN and it received one response (mine).

democratisphere

(17,235 posts)
146. Try a drumpf deserving the Nobel Peace Prize OP.
Mon Apr 30, 2018, 01:18 PM
Apr 2018

That should get a lot of action. Meanwhile prices for many things may be going through the roof due to tarrif wars and blowing up the Iran deal.
Must be a manic Monday; damn I wish it was Sunday!

 

NCTraveler

(30,481 posts)
89. Most have moved on.
Mon Apr 30, 2018, 12:04 PM
Apr 2018

That doesn't mean it was ignored. It just means people moved on to more significant things.

I'm shocked there are still people desperately trying to bring her down. Really fricking sad.

 

mythology

(9,527 posts)
95. Just like Franken's defenders refuse to admit he mistreated women
Mon Apr 30, 2018, 12:11 PM
Apr 2018

The Reid defenders will refuse to acknowledge the inconvenient lie.

If Reid had just said "yes I wrote these things long ago and I apologize" this would have blown over. You know like it did in December. People change, n this case for the better.

But kind of like the Sinclair quote "It's difficult to get a man to understand something, when his salary depends on his not understanding it", it's hard to get somebody to accept a fact that goes against their world view.

https://www.scientificamerican.com/article/how-to-convince-someone-when-facts-fail/

proponents' deepest held worldviews were perceived to be threatened by skeptics, making facts the enemy to be slayed. This power of belief over evidence is the result of two factors: cognitive dissonance and the backfire effect. In the classic 1956 book When Prophecy Fails, psychologist Leon Festinger and his co-authors described what happened to a UFO cult when the mother ship failed to arrive at the appointed time. Instead of admitting error, “members of the group sought frantically to convince the world of their beliefs,” and they made “a series of desperate attempts to erase their rankling dissonance by making prediction after prediction in the hope that one would come true.” Festinger called this cognitive dissonance, or the uncomfortable tension that comes from holding two conflicting thoughts simultaneously.


stonecutter357

(12,697 posts)
96. How to Learn to Let Go of Things .
Mon Apr 30, 2018, 12:18 PM
Apr 2018

1 Connect with another person....
2 Find a creative outlet....
3 Discuss the situation with a professional....
4 Join a support group....

 

oberliner

(58,724 posts)
100. How to Participate in a Discussion Forum
Mon Apr 30, 2018, 12:29 PM
Apr 2018

1. Post things of interest to you
2. Engage thoughtfully with others on topics
3. Reach out to those who respectfully disagree and try to find common ground
4. Appreciate those who take the time to reflect on your insights

John Fante

(3,479 posts)
159. You seem really interested in throwing Dems under the bus
Mon Apr 30, 2018, 04:42 PM
Apr 2018

while letting us know when the stock market has a great day under Trump. Why is that?

Eliot Rosewater

(31,121 posts)
128. I only do this here at DU because I assume we have a big enough audience that
Mon Apr 30, 2018, 12:45 PM
Apr 2018

my input might make a difference.

I dont know if I can afford this anymore.

 

wonkwest

(463 posts)
160. Many of the "anti-Reid" people ARE the LGBT community
Mon Apr 30, 2018, 04:56 PM
Apr 2018

I was very critical of her. I am pleased with her apology and the panel she had on her show. Now that she's done that, I have no intention of harping on her role in the matter any longer. I'm glad she did it, and I'm glad she still has her show and continues to be a powerful, critical voice against the abomination we have in the White House.

Her defenders, however, have made no amends. I have seen no admission of being wrong, no apologies for attacking LGBT posters, no contrition for calling anyone who questioned the story a right-winger, Russian bot, racist, or misogynist.

Many good Democrats were attacked and dragged through the mud for questioning what was an entirely implausible and ludicrous claim that there was hacking.

Instead of going, "I like Joy, was eager to defend her, and was wrong. I'm sorry if I went after people unnecessarily," we're getting doubling down, more attacks, and obtuse claims that none of it matters.

People need to own their own words and behavior. Joy admirably did. What about people right here in this thread?

And as an LGBTer, let me just say, please don't use my community to grind a tribal axe against people who disagree with you. I've seen you do it all over the board the past week. It's offensive to me. If you cared about my community, you'd not have attacked good faith critics - including several LGBT posters - and empathized with how those words made many LGBTers feel.

The responses in this thread are perpetuating ugliness against my family and my community. It needs to stop.

Please, just stop. You're far from the only person here who's done this. People need to have a self-awareness check moment and realize the damage and division they're causing by alienating good Democrats and LGBT people.

dsc

(52,166 posts)
163. Again I am potentially putting my job on the line to help a student get a GSA
Mon Apr 30, 2018, 05:08 PM
Apr 2018

and am out at school in a place where that isn't always easy. I wrote this one and of course you ignored it.

dsc

(52,166 posts)
165. wow and you have the ever loving nerve to lecture the rest of us about gay rights
Mon Apr 30, 2018, 06:32 PM
Apr 2018

For the record a GSA is a gay straight alliance. I would have thought you would know all about it since you are the great arbiter of who is the most worthy.

Bonx

(2,075 posts)
122. she posted some olld homophobic stuff and was embarrassed
Mon Apr 30, 2018, 12:43 PM
Apr 2018

and so she lied about it.Not a big deal really.

 

wonkwest

(463 posts)
162. I consider the matter with Joy closed. However, many of her defenders are doubling down on ugly
Mon Apr 30, 2018, 05:02 PM
Apr 2018

This thread, I just don't understand it. How is there no self-awareness of behavior? A week of abhorrent, attacking posts directed at any critical thought - many of the posters being attacked being LGBT - and then once proven those people were right, more threads attacking people.

After 9-11, we often said, "Bin Laden won." Because he may be dead, but the wars we engaged in and the security state we built at home eroded our basic democratic values and liberties. The Twin Towers and 3,000 people weren't the only things we lost. We lost part of our character as a country.

In a similar vein, I think Trump won. Now it's all tribalism, hatred, conspiracy theory, and an absolutely lack of ability to critically evaluate facts and admit that sometimes we're wrong. We used to be the reality-based community. What happened? This isn't just this board. I see it all over the internet. It's becoming so hard to read anything about politics these days. Trump somehow unlocked pure, unbridled emotion and irrationality. You can't even talk to people nowadays - on either side. It's partly why I haven't delurked before now. I read things and realize there's no arguing at all, because logic and thoughtfulness aren't the motivating impulses at work. It's all id. It's as if Trump's pathology was contagious to the body politic in this country.

It's incredibly disheartening. These threads have been mind-blowing. And I cannot believe how many people in this one can be so unaware of what they sound like. This is not a good look for anyone.

Edit - As far as the hacking lie, I think Joy has climbed down as far as she can on the matter. If she flatly states, "I lied," that would probably be the end of her show. I don't want that. I think her explanation was her subtle admission while not being forthright enough to damage her employment or career. It's barely even between the lines. She knows she screwed up. And I sympathize for how to reacted. She is a national figure with more to lose now. She panicked, came up with an easily disprovable claim in the moment, and didn't quite know how to walk that back. She did, if only winkingly.

I'm fine with her. She's made amends as far as I'm concerned. I'm not going to keep sniping at her. If she continues being a force for good for the LGBT community as she was this weekend, then I think she should keep on trucking. It's the most we can ask of anyone to be honest.

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