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brooklynite

(94,572 posts)
Sat Jun 16, 2018, 11:07 PM Jun 2018

Most millennials expect to retire at age 56

Fox Business

Millennials may not have the best reputation for financial savviness, but according to a new report released on Monday, most of them are optimistic about their future retirement plans.

A new study published by TD Ameritrade found that on average, millennials expect to retire by age 56.

And of the 1,500 millennials surveyed for the study, 53% expect to become millionaires at some point in their lives. However, that percentage is unevenly divided between men and women: Of those surveyed who expect to become millionaires, 70% are men, compared to 38% of women.

Perhaps what’s surprising about the report is that so many millennials expect to retire so young, despite the mass amounts of student debt that many are carrying. According to the study, millennials collectively have $1 trillion in student loan, credit card and other debt, and almost one quarter of the group expects they’ll never be able to pay off their loans.
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Most millennials expect to retire at age 56 (Original Post) brooklynite Jun 2018 OP
Positive thinking I guess. JDC Jun 2018 #1
56 comes fast. JenniferJuniper Jun 2018 #2
75 comes even faster. shraby Jun 2018 #3
this is true Demovictory9 Jun 2018 #27
You must work before you can retire. democratisphere Jun 2018 #4
Or just getting out of your parent's basement. .... Throck Jun 2018 #5
Or just getting out of your parent's basement. LenaBaby61 Jun 2018 #19
That usually helps. leftofcool Jun 2018 #7
Wait till the redumbliCONS raise the social security age to 102. democratisphere Jun 2018 #20
If life expectancy is 130, Igel Jun 2018 #44
This Gen-Xer wishes them luck. Coventina Jun 2018 #6
Same, in every single way. DangerousRhythm Jun 2018 #25
Delusional on their part. roamer65 Jun 2018 #8
56 years of age is ancient old to a twenty year old. Baitball Blogger Jun 2018 #9
Too true dawg day Jun 2018 #11
lol. there is a saying. When young, the days go fast & years slowly, when old, the days go slowly Demovictory9 Jun 2018 #28
A 20 yo is not a millennial crazycatlady Jun 2018 #61
Actually, the definition seems to go back to 1980, which makes their retirement expectations quite a Baitball Blogger Jun 2018 #68
I'm a 1980 baby and refer to myself an an Xennial crazycatlady Jun 2018 #69
I thought I'd do that too-- dawg day Jun 2018 #10
That's interesting. My opinion is most millennials won't retire at all if they don't start getting ooky Jun 2018 #12
I am 52 and I guess we could retire in 4 years... GulfCoast66 Jun 2018 #13
Well bless their hearts. AJT Jun 2018 #14
The Homer Simpson retirement plan Yavin4 Jun 2018 #15
With the avg age of death in the US around the mid 70s that's not a bad idea but what's most likely uponit7771 Jun 2018 #16
They're sold on being a millionaire or becoming one by hitting the lottery. It's a control mechanism TheBlackAdder Jun 2018 #17
In related news, a horse talks to his owner, a coyote uses a rocket to try and catch a roadrunner, LastLiberal in PalmSprings Jun 2018 #18
Of the three DFW Jun 2018 #38
Go coyote mythology Jun 2018 #42
Most millennials will be unable to retire at all until they HAVE to OR at 70 the earliest CousinIT Jun 2018 #21
I remember when I was 27, thought retirement at 50 was a cinch. DFW Jun 2018 #22
You'll be surprised how your days fill up when your retire. brush Jun 2018 #55
Absolutely! former9thward Jun 2018 #58
That's what my wife said DFW Jun 2018 #70
Sounds like you're in a good situation so there's no need to rush... brush Jun 2018 #71
Ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha!!! Initech Jun 2018 #23
i'd say they're probably not far off 0rganism Jun 2018 #24
I was 'retired' the day before my 58th birthday. SeattleVet Jun 2018 #26
And you have to have a job that pays you more than enough for normal living so you can invest diane in sf Jun 2018 #32
reality hits people around age 28, that they aren't going to be a rock star, baseball star or Demovictory9 Jun 2018 #29
Life expectancy at 56: men: 85, women: 88. Translation: that $million has to last 30 years progree Jun 2018 #30
Thanks for putting this link up, informative...those already taking SS, this is a wake up ... SWBTATTReg Jun 2018 #43
I don't expect to retire at that age... vercetti2021 Jun 2018 #31
No safety net. No retirement. Cattledog Jun 2018 #33
I'm a tailend Gen-Xer myself. But this survey sounds like BS to me. phleshdef Jun 2018 #34
Retired 16 years ago at age 52. safeinOhio Jun 2018 #35
I would consider not having kids being the "blessing"... brooklynite Jun 2018 #48
I know.. safeinOhio Jun 2018 #50
I wish I could invest in the lottery ticket business because it sounds like thats their plan TeamPooka Jun 2018 #36
Important Message for millennial republicans Achilleaze Jun 2018 #37
Many retired before even starting work lol. Tipperary Jun 2018 #39
Why do you think this one guy represents millennials? Mariana Jun 2018 #63
"53% expect to become millionaires" Baclava Jun 2018 #40
Not enough info here...but I believe it based on my own anecdotes cbdo2007 Jun 2018 #41
Hey, you can't be telling the truth like that here. nt. Mariana Jun 2018 #64
Well, where will they get health insurance? NT KatyMan Jun 2018 #45
I'm a boomer edhopper Jun 2018 #46
My wife currently plans to retire at age 59 brooklynite Jun 2018 #47
But most don't have that luxury edhopper Jun 2018 #57
I'm pushing 50 and my father retired at 55. aikoaiko Jun 2018 #49
Fox Business and TD Ameritrade? Seriously? shanny Jun 2018 #51
Perfectly achievable as long as you can get a house early on in life ansible Jun 2018 #52
lol OK ! stonecutter357 Jun 2018 #53
Statistics says that most people won't have enough money to retire at all VMA131Marine Jun 2018 #54
That's close to the retirement age in some countries Renew Deal Jun 2018 #56
If they eased off on the iced coffee and artisan cheeses it might be possible BannonsLiver Jun 2018 #59
I know quite a few Boomers who retired in their mid fifties. progressoid Jun 2018 #60
Tech and social media have warped perceptions wonkwest Jun 2018 #62
My husband plans to retire when he is 50 or 51... helpisontheway Jun 2018 #65
They might be able to if they never move out of their parents places. boston bean Jun 2018 #66
'Millennials may not have the best reputation for financial savviness' nini Jun 2018 #67
I'm Gen X. xmas74 Jun 2018 #72

LenaBaby61

(6,974 posts)
19. Or just getting out of your parent's basement.
Sun Jun 17, 2018, 12:27 AM
Jun 2018

I have friends whose children live with them, and several of those kids are in their early/mid 20's, have Masters/Bachelors degrees and MASSIVE student loan debt. At least most of my friends kids are working, but at fast food restaurants. Fast food jobs & a Masters/Bachelors degree.

These machines will just need a few people to operate them and a few to fix them, and even if there are no wages being paid and the price of food goes down, that cost-lowering won't be passed along to the consumer



Scary

Igel

(35,309 posts)
44. If life expectancy is 130,
Sun Jun 17, 2018, 09:03 AM
Jun 2018

and most 72-year-olds are in good shape, sure.

Also depends on what that ol' population pyramid shape is. When 62 was the retirement age, lots of young people supporting fewer old people. We've increased the tax rate a lot, but ultimately there'll be a shortfall. It's one argument for immigration--we need to import young brown workers to help pay for old white people's retirement. We don't phrase it that way, but that's a fair representation.

It's explicitly a rather prominent reason some give for demanding that Japan become more "diverse."

Baitball Blogger

(46,712 posts)
9. 56 years of age is ancient old to a twenty year old.
Sat Jun 16, 2018, 11:31 PM
Jun 2018

The first twenty go by so slowly, like being on an inflatable tube in the lazy river. The next forty like you're facing whitewater rapids: Jerked in every direction and decidedly not fun. And then, before you know it, you're at the end of that third twenty and you find yourself at the top of the Bonzai pipeline in a bathing suit that's one size too big for you.

Demovictory9

(32,456 posts)
28. lol. there is a saying. When young, the days go fast & years slowly, when old, the days go slowly
Sun Jun 17, 2018, 03:07 AM
Jun 2018

and years fast.

something like that.

Baitball Blogger

(46,712 posts)
68. Actually, the definition seems to go back to 1980, which makes their retirement expectations quite a
Sun Jun 17, 2018, 07:54 PM
Jun 2018

swing since we're talking about people who can range from 35 to 16. The term, "Millennial" is almost insignificant in this case, when we're talking about retirement expectations, since a 35 year old will have a more reasonable understanding of what he needs to do to get financially stable, than someone who is anywhere from 16 to 25. Just my opinion.

"Millennials (also known as Generation Y) are the generational demographic cohort following Generation X. There are no precise dates for when this cohort starts or ends; demographers and researchers typically use the early 1980s as starting birth years and the mid-1990s to early 2000s as ending birth years."

crazycatlady

(4,492 posts)
69. I'm a 1980 baby and refer to myself an an Xennial
Sun Jun 17, 2018, 08:27 PM
Jun 2018

Or Oregon Trail generation

I've seen it cut off at 1994-5. I think the general consensus is that if you're too young to remember 9/11, you're Gen Z.

dawg day

(7,947 posts)
10. I thought I'd do that too--
Sat Jun 16, 2018, 11:34 PM
Jun 2018

Retire in my 50s.

Two of my brothers did (career military).
But I'm still working (63). Like so many women who took lower-level jobs and a series of temp jobs to have flexibility for the kid-raising years, I didn't ever get into a pension-earning job, until recently-- when I was 59. I won't be vested for 10 years (though I'd worked there 'temporary' for 5 years before that). It's not a lot of money, but it's guaranteed monthly, and with the social security, it'll get me about $2k a month after I'm 69.

That's life. Doesn't work out like you plan.

But very few people can retire at 56. These days, there are few companies, even if you're with them for 30 years by then, who will start paying your pension that early. And being a "millionaire" won't do it. A million dollars at 56-- you'll probably live 30 years more than that. That's a long time to live on what isn't a fortune anymore.

I remember my grandparents retired at 65 and died (both of them) within the year. At least they got the year. But I'm afraid the rest of us will live much longer after retirement age, and we really do have to worry about the money running out. Retire at 56, and go back to work at 76? Groan.

ooky

(8,923 posts)
12. That's interesting. My opinion is most millennials won't retire at all if they don't start getting
Sat Jun 16, 2018, 11:38 PM
Jun 2018

to the voting booths soon. The people they are allowing into government will make sure of it.

GulfCoast66

(11,949 posts)
13. I am 52 and I guess we could retire in 4 years...
Sat Jun 16, 2018, 11:39 PM
Jun 2018

But why? I am just now gaining my stride and have enough experience that problems that would have killed me at 33 seem insignificant.

However, everyone should be able to retire at 65 with the guarantee of a comfortable if not luxurious life till they die. It is not hard. Many other nations have done it.

uponit7771

(90,339 posts)
16. With the avg age of death in the US around the mid 70s that's not a bad idea but what's most likely
Sat Jun 16, 2018, 11:51 PM
Jun 2018

... driving that decision is 56 to someone who is 18 is old as dirt

TheBlackAdder

(28,201 posts)
17. They're sold on being a millionaire or becoming one by hitting the lottery. It's a control mechanism
Sat Jun 16, 2018, 11:52 PM
Jun 2018

.

The wealthy in this country sell the hopes that self-entitled people will become millionaires, one way or another. Therefore, they push back on the notion to substantially tax wealthy people--since they will one day be wealthy.

These form as a control mechanism to make people complacent to their current situations, as they will soon change. By instilling a positive wealthy future, it prevents those most dire from rebelling against society or becoming politically engaged to change the status quo.

In one of my religion courses, we were taught that politics and religion share the same centers of the brain, and they can easily replace one another. We might be seeing this, as the decline of organized religions are seemingly being replaced by hyper-partisan tribal political views. The passions of politics mirrors cult-like fervor.

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18. In related news, a horse talks to his owner, a coyote uses a rocket to try and catch a roadrunner,
Sun Jun 17, 2018, 12:15 AM
Jun 2018

and Trump speaks a coherent sentence without the words "no collusion."

My money's on the horse.

CousinIT

(9,245 posts)
21. Most millennials will be unable to retire at all until they HAVE to OR at 70 the earliest
Sun Jun 17, 2018, 12:55 AM
Jun 2018

UNLESS of course they are smart enough to vote for DEMOCRATS and then RAISE ENOUGH HELL with them to force them to EXPAND social security, lift the cap + raise the tax rate + make corporations and billionaires pay their fair share.

THEN maybe they can retire. Otherwise they shouldn't count on it - at least until age 70 or 72, if at all.

DFW

(54,384 posts)
22. I remember when I was 27, thought retirement at 50 was a cinch.
Sun Jun 17, 2018, 01:17 AM
Jun 2018

I was doing well, having fun. Not everyone does. They call that "getting lucky" precisely because it is the exception, not the rule.

Plus, I didn't count on one thing. It is easy to look far ahead and think the future will never come. Oh, but it does. So, now suddenly here I am at 66 (where DID the time go?), and wondering what all this "retirement" talk is about. These people are talking about retiring at 56 as if it were something to aspire to?

And then do WHAT? Sure, my job has a lot of stress, getting up at 4:30 in the morning half the time, sometimes not even getting home at all. But, hey, there is a bigger danger out there lurking, waiting to sneak up on, and kill anyone not paying attention. The one thing that would scare me most of all is dying of BOREDOM. If I drop dead of a heart attack tomorrow on the streets of Paris or Barcelona (I'm there for work, not recreation), it would be unfortunate, but preferable to staring at a TV screen or watching grass grow through a window somewhere all day long, every day. Broccoli is a vegetable. I am not. Not yet, anyway.

brush

(53,778 posts)
55. You'll be surprised how your days fill up when your retire.
Sun Jun 17, 2018, 01:49 PM
Jun 2018

And the big, most glorious thing is YOUR TIME IS YOUR OWN.

You're not reporting in or reporting to anyone. Your stress level goes way down and you do what YOU want to. If by the time you retire and you haven't figured that out yet, you missed the whole point.

former9thward

(32,009 posts)
58. Absolutely!
Sun Jun 17, 2018, 02:45 PM
Jun 2018

I retired from full time "career" work when I was 54 and never looked back. Since then I have worked part time at jobs that are interesting to me. I have rejected all offers of full time work. It is MY time.

DFW

(54,384 posts)
70. That's what my wife said
Mon Jun 18, 2018, 12:59 AM
Jun 2018

But she was sick and tired of her job. She was getting mobbed by her corrupt boss, some guy sent by the church who was stealing, and she knew it. He wanted her out in the worst way, and tried every nasty harassment to get her to quit.

On the other hand, my job, despite the long hours and occasional danger from corrupt cops or organized Eastern European crime, is still fun, and it takes me to Paris, Brussels, Zürich, Barcelona, Munich, Holland, Geneva and a lot of etc. on a regular basis. I decide when and where, and get to choose my own travel arrangements and hotel accommodations. I decide when I take days off and how long my vacations are. So, I pretty much already do what I want, and get well paid for doing it. Why would I want to "retire" from that? And do what instead?

brush

(53,778 posts)
71. Sounds like you're in a good situation so there's no need to rush...
Mon Jun 18, 2018, 10:46 AM
Jun 2018

any decision to leave.

Once it's time though, don't worry, you won't be bored to death as you've undoubtedly made contacts and friends all over the world you'll be able to leverage into interesting things to do once you hang it up.

Initech

(100,076 posts)
23. Ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha!!!
Sun Jun 17, 2018, 01:21 AM
Jun 2018

I'm 38 years old. In this economy the billionaires would literally work us to death if they knew they could get away with it, and they probably could. By the time I'm old enough to retire it may not be an option at all.

0rganism

(23,954 posts)
24. i'd say they're probably not far off
Sun Jun 17, 2018, 01:27 AM
Jun 2018

1. they'll be competing with AIs for the good jobs anyway, so might as well plan for an early bow-out
2. if our economy continues to be mismanaged by greedy assholes, we will experience significant currency inflation eventually, so many of the millennials probably will end up as millionaires -- for all the good it will do them then

SeattleVet

(5,477 posts)
26. I was 'retired' the day before my 58th birthday.
Sun Jun 17, 2018, 03:02 AM
Jun 2018

I got laid off from a government contracting job (after 17 years) when the agency I was working for took a 30% across-the-board budget cut. My wife was still working (decent engineering job), so I basically just said, 'Fuck it - I'm retired' and never bothered to seriously look for anything. The last 12-15 years I was working (it was a half-day part-time job) I was putting 70% of my salary into the 401K. Wife retired a couple of years ago when she was 62, after 38 years with the company. We had both been saving and had made some decent investments through the years (my cost basis on AAPL stock is something like $3/share...I originally bought in the early 1990's, and we bought SBUX very early, too), so we're relatively comfortable now. I'll start drawing on a small pension I have available from a job I had in NY for 8 or 9 years, then later from Social Security, and then the investments and annuities we have set up.

It can be done, but they really have to set up long-range planning for the future by saving, investing, and otherwise being smart with the money they have. I managed to avoid putting a lot of money up my nose like a lot of other people did when I was working in NYC in the 1980's.

Demovictory9

(32,456 posts)
29. reality hits people around age 28, that they aren't going to be a rock star, baseball star or
Sun Jun 17, 2018, 03:10 AM
Jun 2018

something that makes them rich.

progree

(10,908 posts)
30. Life expectancy at 56: men: 85, women: 88. Translation: that $million has to last 30 years
Sun Jun 17, 2018, 03:35 AM
Jun 2018
https://www.johnhancockinsurance.com/life/life-expectancy-tool.aspx

And since the oldest millenials are about 35 now, age 56 is 20 or more years away, time enough for that $million to erode to $1 million/(1.03)^20 = $554,000 in purchasing power, assuming the historic average 3% inflation rate. For 25 year old millenials, that $1 million will have $412,000 in purchasing power by the time they reach 56.

And of course, inflation continues to erode purchasing power after one reaches 56...

And then the Social Security Trust Fund runs out in about 16 years, which means, unless the law is changed, S.S. benefits will be cut to about 77% of what they would otherwise be, as that is what S.S. revenue (payroll taxes) is expected to be. And no, that isn't Pete Peterson crap; that's what the Social Security Trustees have been projecting for years. And I don't know any progressive S.S. website that disagrees -- e.g. SocialSecurityWorks.org says the same thing.

Fidelity just came out with their annual report that a retired couple both age 65 on Medicare can expect on average to pay $280,000 in out-of-pocket medical costs (costs not reimbursed by Medicare) over the remainder of their lifetimes, and that does not include long-term care, nor ordinary dental, vision, or hearing care.

SWBTATTReg

(22,124 posts)
43. Thanks for putting this link up, informative...those already taking SS, this is a wake up ...
Sun Jun 17, 2018, 09:01 AM
Jun 2018

call, perhaps finally will be a major driver in the upcoming elections although it seems both parties are opposed 100% to each other's fixes. Maybe they'll finally come together and make a realistic and fair repair to SS.

I don't want to be negative, but this is (a repair to SS) doesn't seem to be in the works other than the repugs again trying to cut benefits again, w/o addressing funding requirements, e.g., have no caps on when SS taxes / Medicare taxes can be taken against earned income.

I'm just negative, I guess because one side is so warped in their manner of thinking and not interested in getting both sides of the true story about SS.

vercetti2021

(10,156 posts)
31. I don't expect to retire at that age...
Sun Jun 17, 2018, 03:43 AM
Jun 2018

I mean it's good to think like that, but realistically we won't retire then unless some hit it big with ideas or such.

 

phleshdef

(11,936 posts)
34. I'm a tailend Gen-Xer myself. But this survey sounds like BS to me.
Sun Jun 17, 2018, 04:23 AM
Jun 2018

Do really more half believe they will become millionaires? Was this some kind of joke question? If someone asked me a stupid fucking question like that, I'd probably say yea just to be a sarcastic dick.

safeinOhio

(32,683 posts)
35. Retired 16 years ago at age 52.
Sun Jun 17, 2018, 05:25 AM
Jun 2018

30 years and thanks to my union job I'm living a dream. Not rich, just comfortable. Have a few hobbies that make me some extra cash doing what I love. A couple of years ago I move to a place with a much lower cost of living adding to my comfort. Downsized to a smaller home with lower taxes and utilities, eat a lot of fish and deer and have a booth at the antique mall that makes me some cash. Was not blessed with children and that really helped.

brooklynite

(94,572 posts)
48. I would consider not having kids being the "blessing"...
Sun Jun 17, 2018, 10:01 AM
Jun 2018

That's $500,000 (approx) saved over raising two kids, invested at the front end.

Mariana

(14,857 posts)
63. Why do you think this one guy represents millennials?
Sun Jun 17, 2018, 07:25 PM
Jun 2018

The reason he got on the news is because he's unique.

cbdo2007

(9,213 posts)
41. Not enough info here...but I believe it based on my own anecdotes
Sun Jun 17, 2018, 08:08 AM
Jun 2018

In the workforce, millennials are making better financial decisions and more money than many people did even 20 years ago. They are planning on waiting until late 30s to have kids, are already maxing out their 401ks and are focusing more on long term financial security and work experience than having kids.

I would guess a TD Ameritrade study would mostly be looking at these people...young professionals who already are starting to save for retirement...so in that cohort I could definitely believe this.

edhopper

(33,580 posts)
46. I'm a boomer
Sun Jun 17, 2018, 09:40 AM
Jun 2018

and have friends who are amazed I can retire when I'm 64. For many even 66 1/2 will be hard.

Just wait until the GOP hits their Social Security and Medicare.

brooklynite

(94,572 posts)
47. My wife currently plans to retire at age 59
Sun Jun 17, 2018, 09:59 AM
Jun 2018

I'm 58 and could retire tomorrow; my philosophy is "I'll keep working as long as it's fun".

aikoaiko

(34,170 posts)
49. I'm pushing 50 and my father retired at 55.
Sun Jun 17, 2018, 10:21 AM
Jun 2018

I don’t know how he did it.

He’s still kicking in his 80s.

Happy Father’s Day, Dad.

I wish I had my act together as well as you.
 

ansible

(1,718 posts)
52. Perfectly achievable as long as you can get a house early on in life
Sun Jun 17, 2018, 12:37 PM
Jun 2018

I'm only 33 and already bought a cheap house in full in the Central Valley to live in for the rest of my life. Of course this probably doesn't work with most people who like to move around all over the place before ever thinking of settling down but if you plan ahead you can retire even earlier than that.

VMA131Marine

(4,139 posts)
54. Statistics says that most people won't have enough money to retire at all
Sun Jun 17, 2018, 12:50 PM
Jun 2018

Over 60% of Americans don't have enough in savings to cover an emergency expense of $1000

BannonsLiver

(16,387 posts)
59. If they eased off on the iced coffee and artisan cheeses it might be possible
Sun Jun 17, 2018, 03:18 PM
Jun 2018

We have millennials in our office who drop $15 to $20 a day on coffee products. One in the morning and another in the late afternoon. Never seen anything like it. In some cases it’s gotta be close to $100 a week.

progressoid

(49,990 posts)
60. I know quite a few Boomers who retired in their mid fifties.
Sun Jun 17, 2018, 06:54 PM
Jun 2018

They they unironically bitch about these young people today who don't want to work.

 

wonkwest

(463 posts)
62. Tech and social media have warped perceptions
Sun Jun 17, 2018, 07:18 PM
Jun 2018

Now, my vision is incredibly, incredibly skewed. I'm in my 30s and fully immersed in the tech world in San Francisco.

You would not believe the number of people out there who will be the next big YouTube or Instagram star, or whose new app is going to make tens of millions of dollars. In an industry where people in their 20s and 30s are already making outrageous amounts of money, the idea is that there is always more, always another opportunity, always a next best thing.

This kind of strange optimism parallels alongside the political hopelessness. "Yes, the country is going to shit. But I'm working on this thing, man. . . "

And the people with the degrees. Sure, they're working hopeless jobs now, but they'll see a friend make it comfortably in a tech-based world, and they figure, "Hey, I can do that!"

Well, you could. What you didn't see was that friend consuming pots of coffee and adderall through their twenties, working into the small hours, focused single-mindedly in pursuit of their goals.

My friends who have made it, my Facebook friends for example (the actual company, not the media site), worked their asses off to get there. Yes, they're paid obscenely well. They also work obscenely hard. The headquarters of these tech giants are designed around the expectation that their workers will basically live there.

I have a 26 year-old friend saving for his first house - in Silicon Valley. He also lived in a tiny room in a dorm at UCB, had few friends, one weekend interest we shared, and the rest of the time was learning, teaching himself what he didn't know, and doing everything in his power to make it.

But I've seen a lot of people take from that, "Oh, so I just learn coding and I'm rich, right?" No! That's not how it works. That's not how any of this works!

But social media give us an illusion. We see the successes, and the difficulty and hard work that went into it are elided over.

Very, very rarely, even in tech, do I see successes that didn't have "I've worked my ass off to get here" in the background. But no one tells anyone that. So they dream.

I live comfortably here. And I'm on the cusp of doing yet better. But the shit I had to do to reach this point is unreal. As far as retirement? I just did my July budget spreadsheet. I have what I call the "Remainder." After bills and needs are met, what's left goes into a Remainder. 20% of that Remainder is mine to eat out or see movies or buy a new video game or save for vacation, etc. 80% of the rest goes into savings and retirement.

You can probably guess how many friends I have who 1. Have a budget spreadsheet at all, or 2. Are taking full responsibility for their own financial futures. It's not an encouraging percentage.

helpisontheway

(5,008 posts)
65. My husband plans to retire when he is 50 or 51...
Sun Jun 17, 2018, 07:36 PM
Jun 2018

He retired from the military 8 years ago. He gets his full military retirement check plus disability check from the VA. He will be eligible for a reduced retirement (will not get it until he reaches a certain age...I think it is 62) from his current job once he works there for 10 years. Right now we are focused on getting our remaining kids through college, saving and paying some extra on our mortgage. Once our kids are out of college and on their own we should be able to live a comfortable life.

nini

(16,672 posts)
67. 'Millennials may not have the best reputation for financial savviness'
Sun Jun 17, 2018, 07:47 PM
Jun 2018

The rest of that shows they part to be very true

Good for them for planning and working towards it, but there are so many factors to getting to that goal and unfortunately we don't have control over many of them.


xmas74

(29,674 posts)
72. I'm Gen X.
Mon Jun 18, 2018, 10:55 AM
Jun 2018

I expect to have a heart attack and die while working two jobs at 85 (so I can pay for my meds, of course). As soon as there is confirmation ofy death they'll post my job and wheel my body to a dumpster.

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