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TNNurse

(6,929 posts)
Fri Jun 22, 2018, 09:25 PM Jun 2018

I just have a little story and my mother is gone so I am going to tell you.

I sat with a friend today. She was in the surgery waiting room while her daughter had her gallbladder removed. It was in the hospital where I worked for 37 years. Toward the end of those years I was a supervisor at a pretty high level. I saw former coworkers and several came in to speak and give me a hug. There were mostly nurses and doctors, but the one that meant the most was a maintenance man. He rushed over to give me a hug. It made me think that I did my job as I should have. I hope he knew that I knew how important every job was.

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I just have a little story and my mother is gone so I am going to tell you. (Original Post) TNNurse Jun 2018 OP
That Is the Right Way to Live Your Life Leith Jun 2018 #1
It really made my day. TNNurse Jun 2018 #2
There's Nothing Wrong with Telling Someone Something Nice about Them Leith Jun 2018 #3
Nurses are the best! BobTheSubgenius Jun 2018 #4
I agree! I've never met one who wasn't both caring and highly competent. n/t pnwmom Jun 2018 #5
Great story. volstork Jun 2018 #6
My college professor also taught me something similar GeoWilliam750 Jun 2018 #10
Thank you for sharing I felt the respect and love of your story kimbutgar Jun 2018 #7
TN Nurse Roy Rolling Jun 2018 #8
Are you on FB? Do you follow Berkeley Breathed? nolabear Jun 2018 #9

Leith

(7,813 posts)
1. That Is the Right Way to Live Your Life
Fri Jun 22, 2018, 09:46 PM
Jun 2018

- treat everyone well, even if they aren't in a position to help you.

I like your posts. Thank you for showing us that you are a good person like that.

Leith

(7,813 posts)
3. There's Nothing Wrong with Telling Someone Something Nice about Them
Fri Jun 22, 2018, 09:56 PM
Jun 2018

and doing it now. Sorry I took so long to say it.

But, you knew that. It's why the maintenance person remembered and liked you.

BobTheSubgenius

(11,567 posts)
4. Nurses are the best!
Fri Jun 22, 2018, 10:02 PM
Jun 2018

I have SOOO much added respect for nurses, after pretty major surgery to correct bacterial endocarditis. Nothing was too much trouble for them, although none of the patients abused their good natures.

volstork

(5,403 posts)
6. Great story.
Fri Jun 22, 2018, 10:14 PM
Jun 2018

When I began my internship, the attending who became my mentor gave us the "Ten Commandments" of being a doctor. Two of those were as follows:
Smile at everyone you pass in the hospital halls.
Learn everyone's name, including the ladies serving in the cafeteria and the housekeepers and janitors.

He wanted us to know that, even though we had achieved our goals, we were not better than anyone else, including those who might be doing more menial tasks. We were ALL working to serve our patients, and everyone deserves acknowledgement.

Thank you for sharing, and for clearly being a good supervisor.

GeoWilliam750

(2,522 posts)
10. My college professor also taught me something similar
Sat Jun 23, 2018, 05:42 AM
Jun 2018

Always be nice to the secretaries and the custodians. Not only is it the right thing to do, but they can either enable or deny you access to anyone and anything. This would also apply to IT people today.

It is not only the right thing, it is the smart thing to do. AND you end up with lots and lots of friends.

Always be nice to people - it's fun.

Roy Rolling

(6,936 posts)
8. TN Nurse
Fri Jun 22, 2018, 11:43 PM
Jun 2018

A TN nurse was my partner in a medical group, she was the absolute best. I can understand your coworkers' sentiments. Great job!

nolabear

(41,991 posts)
9. Are you on FB? Do you follow Berkeley Breathed?
Sat Jun 23, 2018, 01:22 AM
Jun 2018

ICYDK he does Bloom County. One of his characters is Sam the Lion, a little boy frequently in hospital. But perhaps his best new character is Frank, the hospital janitor, who’s as close to a spiritual being as it’s possible to be. Frank is a big believer in finding what you need through helping others. In a tough world it’s some of the best stuff I’ve seen. ❤️

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