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DetlefK

(16,423 posts)
Tue Aug 21, 2018, 12:38 PM Aug 2018

He killed his wife and kids, but media calls him "wholesome family-man" because he's white.

https://www.dailykos.com/stories/2018/8/21/1789584/-A-white-man-killed-his-pregnant-wife-and-kids-but-still-being-described-as-family-man-and-good-dad

Though Chris has now reportedly confessed, his motive remains a mystery. While appearing standoffish and even suspicious in his TV interview, former friends and acquaintances are still describing him as a "hands-on dad," and a “punctual” person who “did everything right.” And while Chris’ mugshot is making the rounds in the coverage of this case, most of the photos where he is shown depict him as a good, wholesome, and loving family man.






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He killed his wife and kids, but media calls him "wholesome family-man" because he's white. (Original Post) DetlefK Aug 2018 OP
Yeah, he's wholesome alright. redwitch Aug 2018 #1
Friends and acquaintances, not the media. Sneederbunk Aug 2018 #2
I recommend reading the entire article. Pacifist Patriot Aug 2018 #5
Point taken... But I can tell you that no one bought this guy's "sincerity" on video hlthe2b Aug 2018 #3
The entire article is worth reading. A lot of thought-provoking commentary there. Thank you! Pacifist Patriot Aug 2018 #4
Good article. n/t Chemisse Aug 2018 #6
Using tragedy as a vehicle for hostile twisting of meaning? Hortensis Aug 2018 #7
As far as I can determine, the media never called him "wholesome." The headline is erroneous. Nitram Aug 2018 #8
Many not white men live the same "wholesome lives" but that part is left out by the media Fred Sanders Aug 2018 #10
I agree, particularly with men of color, that has been the case. Nitram Aug 2018 #12
Really ?! That one word negates the whole point? tia uponit7771 Aug 2018 #13
I'm not sure I wrote that it "negated the whole post." I am a stickler for accuracy in headlines Nitram Aug 2018 #14
Daily KOS is not a news-gathering enterprise. It provides commentary on current events. mahatmakanejeeves Aug 2018 #15
Katrina - looting vs gathering lame54 Aug 2018 #9
I hadn't heard that he was accusing his wife of killing the girls. kag Aug 2018 #11
He's just desperate mythology Aug 2018 #16
I haven't heard anyone in the media describe him that way. B2G Aug 2018 #17

redwitch

(14,944 posts)
1. Yeah, he's wholesome alright.
Tue Aug 21, 2018, 12:41 PM
Aug 2018

Kill your family, hide the bodies, claim to miss them dreadfully and then blame the wife for the kids deaths. It is staggering.

hlthe2b

(102,292 posts)
3. Point taken... But I can tell you that no one bought this guy's "sincerity" on video
Tue Aug 21, 2018, 12:58 PM
Aug 2018

It was jarring and immediately everyone, including his friends and neighbors became suspicious.

Now, he's trying to claim the wife strangled the girls triggering his murder of her... I can tell you now, no one is going to buy that either.

Nitram

(22,813 posts)
8. As far as I can determine, the media never called him "wholesome." The headline is erroneous.
Tue Aug 21, 2018, 03:05 PM
Aug 2018

Rather, the DailyKos article writes that "most of the photos where he is shown depict him as a good, wholesome, and loving family man..." Rather than describing him as wholesome it seems to me the fascination of the media was with why someone who "looked" so wholesome and "seemed" to be living the perfect family life would have committed such a heinous crime.

Fred Sanders

(23,946 posts)
10. Many not white men live the same "wholesome lives" but that part is left out by the media
Tue Aug 21, 2018, 03:21 PM
Aug 2018

systematically. They do not even try to get that background. Ever.

It is a good observation.

Nitram

(22,813 posts)
12. I agree, particularly with men of color, that has been the case.
Tue Aug 21, 2018, 03:36 PM
Aug 2018

The Washington Post, however, always makes a point of documenting the good qualities and supportive families of children of color who have been murdered.

Nitram

(22,813 posts)
14. I'm not sure I wrote that it "negated the whole post." I am a stickler for accuracy in headlines
Tue Aug 21, 2018, 03:40 PM
Aug 2018

because a lot of people pick up their talking point from headlines alone. Please read my second post above and I think you will find that I agreed with the basic premise of the post.

mahatmakanejeeves

(57,489 posts)
15. Daily KOS is not a news-gathering enterprise. It provides commentary on current events.
Tue Aug 21, 2018, 03:42 PM
Aug 2018

Daily KOS's opinion on this news event is that the photos depict the man in Oklahoma as wholesome.

DUers should be wary of relying on DailyKOS as a source of news, because it is not that. I don't count on them to get their headlines right, or anything else for that matter.

kag

(4,079 posts)
11. I hadn't heard that he was accusing his wife of killing the girls.
Tue Aug 21, 2018, 03:27 PM
Aug 2018

And I can't believe he thinks anyone will believe him.

But I do agree with the OP that coverage of different races involved in heinous crimes can be truly disgusting. Any attempt to portray this murderer as "wholesome" or any other positive adjective is down right criminal.

 

mythology

(9,527 posts)
16. He's just desperate
Tue Aug 21, 2018, 03:45 PM
Aug 2018

He's saying anything he can because he knows he's screwed (and rightfully so).

 

B2G

(9,766 posts)
17. I haven't heard anyone in the media describe him that way.
Tue Aug 21, 2018, 03:49 PM
Aug 2018

The quotes are from friends, who are probably stunned.

And I've seen a bunch of mug shots. But there is only one, as opposed to a ton of others.

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